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Since I understood myself by people
I had a nuisance that I did not know
which was but was like of the fort so of
most serious situations in my life
but there is another pad and more situations
commonplace I had to
explain to my father that I do not
needed to get married so I leave the house I
I could go out and work
to sustain
I found myself in a situation of sometimes
want to change my personality that is
How can you see my ex?
boyfriend because he said I had
a very good friend and a very good man
keep hugging these friends and I
questioned face will be no not
Right this and this annoyance I was there
with me every week I met him
situation xye as well as the
he was nicknamed he was present
with me my whole life but then I’m good
At 25 years old, I became single
then this nuisance spoke so is hi
here in your life every day to
All time dear, everytime you go
remember that they do not know it was
huh
but to get pregnant and is single without a
mate your boyfriend
it seems I bothered
I started to bother people I
I started going out on the street to run with
glee pineapple has on my head I was
pregnant and trying for both me and
Your boyfriend, I do not have it.
boyfriend to break up or not
it was really something and there the pregnant mother
I went to ask other women, right?
also suffer from these symptoms and
describing the symptoms and discovering
called machismo that’s it in my
life
Ok, let’s go there, machismo, machismo, right?
because I was living machismo because
I had turned the morning from the
moment the belly began to grow
I was already identified as a mother
but I was not playing a role
social responsibility in the morning a
determined by this comments began to
bother so much but he asked
determined by whom whom predetermined
this role of a mother woman was not
a woman was not a mother was a
man and it was the patriarchy as the lady
thai bomb patriarch
he does exist sometimes do not know the name
but our society is patriarchal.
large companies are mostly
coordinated by men
the policy of our country is decided
in the great majority by men
a house also where a man decides and
puts the rules for his wife by
children is also patriarchal and has
this patriarchy back there in the past
is another asks the title here mother
I had to be married and that was my mother.
kept being very good a lot
perfect take care of the kids that martin
maternal instinct is that mother he was born
baby she and baby baby and she just them
two because that’s what it’s like to be a mother
This is beautiful, this love that if not
It was in love, and that’s when I said our
Okay, I was pregnant, and then.
that fright of that pregnancy test
When I was pregnant I said but only I
I want to be a mother and I decided to be a mother more
I had no idea what it was like to be a mother.
I did not know, Mother was late.
gisele built-in né that was
breastfeeding doing and doing hair
getting made up fahey want week
or was hit the friends who was mother
I said I never said that neither was me
great and were all friends with her
and her life was beautiful and after
that the em born was not
was the mother of the soap opera was the mother of
Movies is the mother of voi magazine
I want to be a mother, what happened at
week, right?
the media deceived me nobody taught that
I want to be a mother.
in my school had mother’s day all
I did not miss any years and I did not
I had a project that wants to be a mother.
two colleges
nobody talked about maternity
roque
When I became a mother I realized that I
had chosen to be a person who did not
existed
I did not know that being a mother is having
fight for you to get stop
respect for you do not be deceived
even by a doctor who is a person
that he had to trust because this doctor
Maybe he does what
Do you want an unnecessary cesarean?
because only 10 to 15 percent
necessary in the world are necessary
So when you become a mother, you have
that studying the policy the system of
Brazil health study about the duck
because you’re going to be cheated I do not
mother know you are you and do
childbirth and make a cut you ‘re so
that may take you a year or so.
more to feel pleasure sexual intercourse
it’s new week and you stop and do not
to shout or not to have an escort
and net ridicule why you did
and it was good at the time, right?
shouting now
one week delivery is right to have the child
with four five months leave home and
spend another 10 hours away from home
because your maternity leave is over
or have and can count on the father’s
your child but the paternity leave of
20 days a week on solo sometimes
to hear that you are very lucky that the
father of his son pays pension because he has
father that not even that so good, right?
How great is it fitting in or is it
mother and being single and the people
believe that their greatest goal in life
is to find the husband who will become the
father of your son but for that you
You have to be vain, you have to lose weight.
You have to take care of yourself, but you will find
This is it, you became a mother, you are
see the goals and neither creates the
son will not find a husband
then the goal is to be a mother is to have
help sometimes grandparents of x c
judged by their own grandparents and uncles or
be judged by who by other mothers
You know that story there?
I paid to create what it is, right?
This is it, I had turned up tomorrow.
I knew that week, everything like me.
I lost I deleted oppressed in
first days of the caetano people
Are you going to visit and how are you?
I said that I was fine but I wanted to
talk I have not given myself that I am
doing I’ve never done it
but the maternal instinct did not have to
know how to do what was that
I feel a screen teaches us to take care of the
child, you can not breastfeed
maternal instinct is thus so attached
Look what I have to do.
what to massage if it does not give you no instinct
mother who taught us was not
It was not at us but then had
turned mother
and I was trapped and I
to feel alone in the world
I felt that if I told the truth
about being a mother
people people will judge me that
I loved my son, I felt so bad.
that I developed a post-depression
delivery and even that I had to do I
I had to talk with the depression
people looked with caetano so speak
but I love it’s okay is
pressure I love my son but that
media there that taught people to be
mother is the perfect mother also taught
staff postpartum depression and
mother playing the window close
so I said I had
postpartum depression that most women
women have many women have more
I could not even talk about who the people are.
they thought the card was purple or
going hungry then I had to talk
I had to explain, I stopped
talk I got influenced and there
I would look here and make people like me
I love this person, right?
He’s growing up there, creating a
I had a bond on the day that I was ten o’clock
the night with the jada and jada com
bra out of breastfeeding and there
he sleep all I wanted him to
slept when he slept did not put
in the crib and kept looking at him
because it’s a law
I speak lacked woman’s best moment
my day
Look at this boy I did I’m very
Fuck this and I would stop to think
I talked about how I lived until today if
This person does not know my life, no.
had felt in a hero but waited
then people I loved caetano
madly what I hated is to be a mother
the mother of patriarchy there are
thinking our then helen her, right?
gave birth
already clear that radical feminist sandro
is not even knew that he had feminism
I had indeed I had prejudice
terrible about feminism that I have
shame of talking
but knowing that I was going to
revolted with everything that I do not
Could you talk about that, I found out that
who knows if he studied feminism and
to be able to fight against machismo and I
I started to study, I took my prejudice.
and ignorance
I started to study, I started to train
I started to talk with friends.
feminists and I said man looks at the
patriarchy did he did what he got and
said so look at people for you mother
You have to do everything yourself because
Good mother, this one you have to take care of.
Your child alone you have to give up.
of things because after all you have become
Mom, this is what love is
so what he did made me
tired because I
out of the labor market with which
I stopped knowing about situations
policies in the country
he excluded from decisions
he excluded from the labor market he
continued as a man in power
excluding a woman I said to err here
no
You’ll see that it’s not so then.
Why is it important to say romanticize?
motherhood people when people
romanticism maternity
people explain that people argue that
not that the child does not have a
responsibility of only one woman is
It takes a lifetime to get
to educate a child has a proverb
African because because child is child
of the mother and son of the father and son of the grandparents
son of the neighbors xf because
when this child created by all
world a mother can yes go back to
claim their role in society and
when several people participate in a
raising a child is much more
easy political changes happen
what your mother’s claiming is
important to romanticize motherhood
for a woman not to enter
If you had a job, you could be honest and
talk that she intends to have a child
time and that even so she can
that vague what a woman has the talk
child 123456 when I want it not
influence on my professionalism is
important to romanticize maternity
so that a mother who is feeling
alone can leave the house and the bus
that she takes the subway is a local
safe for her and the baby what
it is not
so she does not leave the house or
mother can walk on the sidewalk with
and she is not
a cross fit rally event
she’s just hanging out with her son
so that a mother can participate
the culture of her city can and
restaurants for the children to be
welcome and that they have a
exchanger
at least that’s right
It’s important to romanticize maternity.
people because we can not anymore
do this role to give our sweat
our blood be excluded from society
create an economically active citizen
and participate in this capitalism
understood we have to participate
together we have to claim our
place
when you say romanticism maternity
You change the world produces your children.
you change the world to the better world and
dehumanization of maternity is
feminist
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