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[Music] what would happen if we all were to take

what would happen if we all were to take

what would happen if we all were to take a year off and travel the world it’s a

a year off and travel the world it’s a

a year off and travel the world it’s a hard question to answer but in the short

hard question to answer but in the short

hard question to answer but in the short time that I’m standing before you I will

time that I’m standing before you I will

time that I’m standing before you I will try and give at least one answer that I

try and give at least one answer that I

try and give at least one answer that I believe can benefit everyone in this

believe can benefit everyone in this

believe can benefit everyone in this room no matter what age now when I first

room no matter what age now when I first

room no matter what age now when I first saw the theme for this event I was

saw the theme for this event I was

saw the theme for this event I was honestly super excited I looked and saw

honestly super excited I looked and saw

honestly super excited I looked and saw it said bursting the bubble so many

it said bursting the bubble so many

it said bursting the bubble so many ideas were rolling around in my head

ideas were rolling around in my head

ideas were rolling around in my head that it was hard to narrow it down to

that it was hard to narrow it down to

that it was hard to narrow it down to one and as I frantically draw all down

one and as I frantically draw all down

one and as I frantically draw all down notes it hit me when I was in my Rome

notes it hit me when I was in my Rome

notes it hit me when I was in my Rome Italy hotel room traveling is that the

Italy hotel room traveling is that the

Italy hotel room traveling is that the specific moment I realized in the words

specific moment I realized in the words

specific moment I realized in the words of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz I

of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz I

of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz I wasn’t in Kansas anymore I was in a

wasn’t in Kansas anymore I was in a

wasn’t in Kansas anymore I was in a completely different country where the

completely different country where the

completely different country where the culture the traditions the rites the

culture the traditions the rites the

culture the traditions the rites the rituals I had no idea about I was a

rituals I had no idea about I was a

rituals I had no idea about I was a foreigner and they were the natives

foreigner and they were the natives

foreigner and they were the natives there it was in kind of a good way to

there it was in kind of a good way to

there it was in kind of a good way to put it a reality check my experience is

put it a reality check my experience is

put it a reality check my experience is an experience which a lot of people who

an experience which a lot of people who

an experience which a lot of people who have traveled can most likely relate to

have traveled can most likely relate to

have traveled can most likely relate to it’s that jolt from life that says hey

it’s that jolt from life that says hey

it’s that jolt from life that says hey you’re not you’re the only thing in the

you’re not you’re the only thing in the

you’re not you’re the only thing in the world the world is a lot bigger than you

world the world is a lot bigger than you

world the world is a lot bigger than you think it is so now for a quick survey

think it is so now for a quick survey

think it is so now for a quick survey how many of you have traveled on a

how many of you have traveled on a

how many of you have traveled on a missions trip whether with a church or

missions trip whether with a church or

missions trip whether with a church or any other organization that offers that

any other organization that offers that

any other organization that offers that kind of program awesome now how many of

kind of program awesome now how many of

kind of program awesome now how many of you have seen the CNN Heroes series

you have seen the CNN Heroes series

you have seen the CNN Heroes series which tends to document the lives of

which tends to document the lives of

which tends to document the lives of people living in other countries doing

people living in other countries doing

people living in other countries doing great things around the world awesome so

great things around the world awesome so

great things around the world awesome so you can see how and I figured you’d

you can see how and I figured you’d

you can see how and I figured you’d presume speaking to a Costa Rican farmer

presume speaking to a Costa Rican farmer

presume speaking to a Costa Rican farmer or a Pakistani factory worker would be a

or a Pakistani factory worker would be a

or a Pakistani factory worker would be a lot different than seeing on TV believe

lot different than seeing on TV believe

lot different than seeing on TV believe me I love television television is one

me I love television television is one

me I love television television is one of my favorite media outlets but nothing

of my favorite media outlets but nothing

of my favorite media outlets but nothing comes close to true face to face human

comes close to true face to face human

comes close to true face to face human interaction humans are genetically

interaction humans are genetically

interaction humans are genetically social creatures we’re in our DNA

social creatures we’re in our DNA

social creatures we’re in our DNA supposed to interact with others

supposed to interact with others

supposed to interact with others so when we don’t interact with others it

so when we don’t interact with others it

so when we don’t interact with others it creates isolationism isolationism is the

creates isolationism isolationism is the

creates isolationism isolationism is the bane of human existence because it has

bane of human existence because it has

bane of human existence because it has us create opinions that obviously aren’t

us create opinions that obviously aren’t

us create opinions that obviously aren’t true because we have no other side to

true because we have no other side to

true because we have no other side to tell us these opinions aren’t true and

tell us these opinions aren’t true and

tell us these opinions aren’t true and sadly a lot of people in the world are

sadly a lot of people in the world are

sadly a lot of people in the world are victims of isolationism and it’s not me

victims of isolationism and it’s not me

victims of isolationism and it’s not me to say that it’s a bad thing they’re

to say that it’s a bad thing they’re

to say that it’s a bad thing they’re just simply ignorant to the plights of

just simply ignorant to the plights of

just simply ignorant to the plights of others I’ve met far too many people in

others I’ve met far too many people in

others I’ve met far too many people in my life that are quick to assume

my life that are quick to assume

my life that are quick to assume foreigners are here to just be lazy in

foreigners are here to just be lazy in

foreigners are here to just be lazy in mooch off the United States government

mooch off the United States government

mooch off the United States government and live off of our hard work but I

and live off of our hard work but I

and live off of our hard work but I realized that’s not the case and a few

realized that’s not the case and a few

realized that’s not the case and a few years ago my opinions changed greatly

years ago my opinions changed greatly

years ago my opinions changed greatly when I went to Costa Rica in 2015 with

when I went to Costa Rica in 2015 with

when I went to Costa Rica in 2015 with the st. Christopher’s freshman rising

the st. Christopher’s freshman rising

the st. Christopher’s freshman rising freshman service trip I was a 5 foot

freshman service trip I was a 5 foot

freshman service trip I was a 5 foot fresh out of middle school kid who

fresh out of middle school kid who

fresh out of middle school kid who thought I was the center of the world

thought I was the center of the world

thought I was the center of the world and it turns out I couldn’t have been

and it turns out I couldn’t have been

and it turns out I couldn’t have been more wrong when I first arrived in San

more wrong when I first arrived in San

more wrong when I first arrived in San Jose and I looked around into all the

Jose and I looked around into all the

Jose and I looked around into all the signs in Spanish I thought to myself wow

signs in Spanish I thought to myself wow

signs in Spanish I thought to myself wow this is a lot different than America and

this is a lot different than America and

this is a lot different than America and when we took out and we went to the

when we took out and we went to the

when we took out and we went to the Panama’s Costa Rican border and I took

Panama’s Costa Rican border and I took

Panama’s Costa Rican border and I took out a boat to our village in which I

out a boat to our village in which I

out a boat to our village in which I stayed I realized this is how people

stayed I realized this is how people

stayed I realized this is how people live and people live in situations that

live and people live in situations that

live and people live in situations that probably a lot of us couldn’t even

probably a lot of us couldn’t even

probably a lot of us couldn’t even imagine unless we go there now when I

imagine unless we go there now when I

imagine unless we go there now when I stayed with a host family which was

stayed with a host family which was

stayed with a host family which was personally my highlight of the trip I

personally my highlight of the trip I

personally my highlight of the trip I didn’t know what to expect

didn’t know what to expect

didn’t know what to expect these are people who of course I had

these are people who of course I had

these are people who of course I had never met before and I would be

never met before and I would be

never met before and I would be practically living with them for about

practically living with them for about

practically living with them for about five days and they’re about four people

five days and they’re about four people

five days and they’re about four people in this family and it was headed by this

in this family and it was headed by this

in this family and it was headed by this main person who was the father and when

main person who was the father and when

main person who was the father and when I looked at and saw what he did he would

I looked at and saw what he did he would

I looked at and saw what he did he would get up an hour before sunrise and he

get up an hour before sunrise and he

get up an hour before sunrise and he wouldn’t go to bed until about midnight

wouldn’t go to bed until about midnight

wouldn’t go to bed until about midnight our time and I thought to myself this is

our time and I thought to myself this is

our time and I thought to myself this is the ideal figure of a father someone who

the ideal figure of a father someone who

the ideal figure of a father someone who is willing to do everything for the

is willing to do everything for the

is willing to do everything for the people he loves and the people he

people he loves and the people he

people he loves and the people he supports and when I had the chance to

supports and when I had the chance to

supports and when I had the chance to finally sit down and talk to him he told

finally sit down and talk to him he told

finally sit down and talk to him he told me exactly what I thought

me exactly what I thought

me exactly what I thought that all he wanted in life was for the

that all he wanted in life was for the

that all he wanted in life was for the people around him to be supported and to

people around him to be supported and to

people around him to be supported and to be well fed and to be happy it burst my

be well fed and to be happy it burst my

be well fed and to be happy it burst my bubble of ignorance I realized that no

bubble of ignorance I realized that no

bubble of ignorance I realized that no as a foreigner he’s not lazy he’s not

as a foreigner he’s not lazy he’s not

as a foreigner he’s not lazy he’s not someone who doesn’t work he’s someone

someone who doesn’t work he’s someone

someone who doesn’t work he’s someone who works probably a lot harder than

who works probably a lot harder than

who works probably a lot harder than some people in America do and it made me

some people in America do and it made me

some people in America do and it made me think that isolationism is a huge

think that isolationism is a huge

think that isolationism is a huge problem that I’ve been ignorant for far

problem that I’ve been ignorant for far

problem that I’ve been ignorant for far too long I may never meet that man again

too long I may never meet that man again

too long I may never meet that man again but if I were I would tell him thank you

but if I were I would tell him thank you

but if I were I would tell him thank you for all that he’s done for teaching me

for all that he’s done for teaching me

for all that he’s done for teaching me about the wonders of the rainforest and

about the wonders of the rainforest and

about the wonders of the rainforest and teaching me about the ancient fables and

teaching me about the ancient fables and

teaching me about the ancient fables and myths and my favorite how to shoot the

myths and my favorite how to shoot the

myths and my favorite how to shoot the breeze in Spanish to delve into another

breeze in Spanish to delve into another

breeze in Spanish to delve into another quick story I went to Rome Italy for

quick story I went to Rome Italy for

quick story I went to Rome Italy for xterm this year with st. Christopher’s

xterm this year with st. Christopher’s

xterm this year with st. Christopher’s and during a couple of the days we were

and during a couple of the days we were

and during a couple of the days we were allowed to go in trios and groups and

allowed to go in trios and groups and

allowed to go in trios and groups and explore the city of Rome and I loved

explore the city of Rome and I loved

explore the city of Rome and I loved Rome because Rome is so inviting and

Rome because Rome is so inviting and

Rome because Rome is so inviting and warm and it feels like everyone there is

warm and it feels like everyone there is

warm and it feels like everyone there is willing to give a smile and have you

willing to give a smile and have you

willing to give a smile and have you come in and try a slice of pizza or a

come in and try a slice of pizza or a

come in and try a slice of pizza or a little bit of pasta which made me very

little bit of pasta which made me very

little bit of pasta which made me very happy and for me I love music a lot of

happy and for me I love music a lot of

happy and for me I love music a lot of you may know that but when I travel to

you may know that but when I travel to

you may know that but when I travel to Rome I thought to myself I’m going to go

Rome I thought to myself I’m going to go

Rome I thought to myself I’m going to go at least to at least one Italian music

at least to at least one Italian music

at least to at least one Italian music shop and see if they’re any different

shop and see if they’re any different

shop and see if they’re any different than the ones in the United States and

than the ones in the United States and

than the ones in the United States and so I search street corner and street

so I search street corner and street

so I search street corner and street corner when I finally came upon a music

corner when I finally came upon a music

corner when I finally came upon a music shop in Italy I struck up a short

shop in Italy I struck up a short

shop in Italy I struck up a short conversation with a shop owner

conversation with a shop owner

conversation with a shop owner I couldn’t understand much of what he

I couldn’t understand much of what he

I couldn’t understand much of what he was saying but then he began speaking in

was saying but then he began speaking in

was saying but then he began speaking in a language that needs no words he began

a language that needs no words he began

a language that needs no words he began speaking with music music is a universal

speaking with music music is a universal

speaking with music music is a universal language because no matter what language

language because no matter what language

language because no matter what language you speak orally you can feel music and

you speak orally you can feel music and

you speak orally you can feel music and you can feel the emotions that people

you can feel the emotions that people

you can feel the emotions that people present with music when he played a

present with music when he played a

present with music when he played a short piano sonata for me I thought to

short piano sonata for me I thought to

short piano sonata for me I thought to myself that how does this person who

myself that how does this person who

myself that how does this person who I’ve never met before share the same

I’ve never met before share the same

I’ve never met before share the same level of passion for music that I do and

level of passion for music that I do and

level of passion for music that I do and so when I came over and played a short

so when I came over and played a short

so when I came over and played a short waltz I felt that I wasn’t good enough

waltz I felt that I wasn’t good enough

waltz I felt that I wasn’t good enough because I was simply in awe of how

because I was simply in awe of how

because I was simply in awe of how amazing this guy was at music now I

amazing this guy was at music now I

amazing this guy was at music now I don’t tell these two

don’t tell these two

don’t tell these two worries to share political motive or to

worries to share political motive or to

worries to share political motive or to make you feel sad that you aren’t

make you feel sad that you aren’t

make you feel sad that you aren’t traveling or to get you to immediately

traveling or to get you to immediately

traveling or to get you to immediately go traveling I’m simply telling you

go traveling I’m simply telling you

go traveling I’m simply telling you these stories because I just want you to

these stories because I just want you to

these stories because I just want you to think for a moment think about going out

think for a moment think about going out

think for a moment think about going out and traveling because I believe every

and traveling because I believe every

and traveling because I believe every single one of you can share these

single one of you can share these

single one of you can share these experiences that I didn’t we can break

experiences that I didn’t we can break

experiences that I didn’t we can break old habits and create bonds that you may

old habits and create bonds that you may

old habits and create bonds that you may never see them again will last a

never see them again will last a

never see them again will last a lifetime we should create programs that

lifetime we should create programs that

lifetime we should create programs that allow people to travel maybe four months

allow people to travel maybe four months

allow people to travel maybe four months long programs we can have it so you work

long programs we can have it so you work

long programs we can have it so you work to pay off the expenses of your travel

to pay off the expenses of your travel

to pay off the expenses of your travel in your hotel Billings but of course

in your hotel Billings but of course

in your hotel Billings but of course that’s a far-fetched theory so if you

that’s a far-fetched theory so if you

that’s a far-fetched theory so if you have the time to take a semester abroad

have the time to take a semester abroad

have the time to take a semester abroad or go travel for the summer or spring

or go travel for the summer or spring

or go travel for the summer or spring break I say do it I say all of this

break I say do it I say all of this

break I say do it I say all of this hoping that you call you all can spread

hoping that you call you all can spread

hoping that you call you all can spread my message of travel and love so that

my message of travel and love so that

my message of travel and love so that eventually in the words of michael gira

eventually in the words of michael gira

eventually in the words of michael gira from one of my favorite bands swans we

from one of my favorite bands swans we

from one of my favorite bands swans we can create a little more peace in the

can create a little more peace in the

can create a little more peace in the world so to go back to the original

world so to go back to the original

world so to go back to the original question of what would happen if we all

question of what would happen if we all

question of what would happen if we all took a year off I can answer it simply

took a year off I can answer it simply

took a year off I can answer it simply we can take small but necessary steps to

we can take small but necessary steps to

we can take small but necessary steps to create peace in our world thank you all

create peace in our world thank you all

create peace in our world thank you all and have a good rest of you

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