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Why goals alone do not work and what’s missing! | Derek Mills | TEDxHolyhead


a few years ago I’m broke I’m depressed

a few years ago I’m broke I’m depressed I’ve been working in the business for 17

I’ve been working in the business for 17

I’ve been working in the business for 17 years on a self-employed commission fees

years on a self-employed commission fees

years on a self-employed commission fees only basis I’m working six seven days a

only basis I’m working six seven days a

only basis I’m working six seven days a week which means I’m not seeing my wife

week which means I’m not seeing my wife

week which means I’m not seeing my wife not seeing my children and actually

not seeing my children and actually

not seeing my children and actually what’s happening is um when I’m in the

what’s happening is um when I’m in the

what’s happening is um when I’m in the office I’m often thinking about what’s

office I’m often thinking about what’s

office I’m often thinking about what’s happening at home what are they doing

happening at home what are they doing

happening at home what are they doing what are the kids up to

what are the kids up to

what are the kids up to what’s Jerry doing when I was in the

what’s Jerry doing when I was in the

what’s Jerry doing when I was in the house I was also thinking about work

house I was also thinking about work

house I was also thinking about work because I need to know I’m going to pay

because I need to know I’m going to pay

because I need to know I’m going to pay those bills who can I see next to to get

those bills who can I see next to to get

those bills who can I see next to to get some money to pay those bills and the

some money to pay those bills and the

some money to pay those bills and the clients that I had were really abusing

clients that I had were really abusing

clients that I had were really abusing my trust and my and my service my

my trust and my and my service my

my trust and my and my service my willingness to drive anywhere in the

willingness to drive anywhere in the

willingness to drive anywhere in the country to look after them in to serve

country to look after them in to serve

country to look after them in to serve them so I was losing out in a huge way

them so I was losing out in a huge way

them so I was losing out in a huge way in every way it seemed and because of

in every way it seemed and because of

in every way it seemed and because of that and that feeling of there’s more to

that and that feeling of there’s more to

that and that feeling of there’s more to me than this I’ve got a greater life

me than this I’ve got a greater life

me than this I’ve got a greater life than this but can’t figure out how to do

than this but can’t figure out how to do

than this but can’t figure out how to do it had to get that greater life out and

it had to get that greater life out and

it had to get that greater life out and I was depressed

what actually wanted was the life of

what actually wanted was the life of freedom a life where I could have

freedom a life where I could have

freedom a life where I could have choices about my time and to see my

choices about my time and to see my

choices about my time and to see my loved ones and to have time with my

loved ones and to have time with my

loved ones and to have time with my loved ones and to at less time and

loved ones and to at less time and

loved ones and to at less time and actually have more money and create

actually have more money and create

actually have more money and create wealth from self and other people and to

wealth from self and other people and to

wealth from self and other people and to make a difference in the world and to be

make a difference in the world and to be

make a difference in the world and to be happy and to get that greatness which I

happy and to get that greatness which I

happy and to get that greatness which I know is inside of me outside of me this

know is inside of me outside of me this

know is inside of me outside of me this I had to do that’s the life right now

I had to do that’s the life right now

I had to do that’s the life right now it’s vital for me to share an idea that

it’s vital for me to share an idea that

it’s vital for me to share an idea that came to me that changed everything

came to me that changed everything

came to me that changed everything because for 17 years I’ve been failing

because for 17 years I’ve been failing

because for 17 years I’ve been failing in my life and in my business failing on

in my life and in my business failing on

in my life and in my business failing on every level that was important to me and

every level that was important to me and

every level that was important to me and so I made a decision that changed

so I made a decision that changed

so I made a decision that changed everything one night

everything one night

everything one night 2003 November the 11th I’m in my office

2003 November the 11th I’m in my office

2003 November the 11th I’m in my office and I get a moment of inspiration that

and I get a moment of inspiration that

and I get a moment of inspiration that said you’ve been using a system and this

said you’ve been using a system and this

said you’ve been using a system and this is my confession I’ve been using this

is my confession I’ve been using this

is my confession I’ve been using this system for 17 years since I’ve been told

system for 17 years since I’ve been told

system for 17 years since I’ve been told to use to become happy and successful by

to use to become happy and successful by

to use to become happy and successful by gurus and teachers all over the world

gurus and teachers all over the world

gurus and teachers all over the world and the system were set goals to be

and the system were set goals to be

and the system were set goals to be happy and successful and who hasn’t

happy and successful and who hasn’t

happy and successful and who hasn’t heard that because wherever we go in the

heard that because wherever we go in the

heard that because wherever we go in the world every every Pro stays set goals to

world every every Pro stays set goals to

world every every Pro stays set goals to be have been successful the challenge

be have been successful the challenge

be have been successful the challenge was 17 years in that position read the

was 17 years in that position read the

was 17 years in that position read the books when on the courses not successful

books when on the courses not successful

books when on the courses not successful failing unhappy one night I realized

failing unhappy one night I realized

failing unhappy one night I realized that hey this has got to change and for

that hey this has got to change and for

that hey this has got to change and for that to change I have to change in a

that to change I have to change in a

that to change I have to change in a moment of inspiration I realize instead

moment of inspiration I realize instead

moment of inspiration I realize instead of living in the future with these goals

of living in the future with these goals

of living in the future with these goals I had to live in the present and be me

I had to live in the present and be me

I had to live in the present and be me right now the challenge that I

right now the challenge that I

right now the challenge that I discovered of this goals of future based

discovered of this goals of future based

discovered of this goals of future based and what each every one of us does as we

and what each every one of us does as we

and what each every one of us does as we set our goals for that future and we say

set our goals for that future and we say

set our goals for that future and we say to ourselves when I get that thing when

to ourselves when I get that thing when

to ourselves when I get that thing when I be that thing when I’ve got that thing

I be that thing when I’ve got that thing

I be that thing when I’ve got that thing done that thing then I’ll be happy and

done that thing then I’ll be happy and

done that thing then I’ll be happy and there’s the lie isn’t it because you

there’s the lie isn’t it because you

there’s the lie isn’t it because you can’t be happy in the future happiness

can’t be happy in the future happiness

can’t be happy in the future happiness as a present time experience happiness

as a present time experience happiness

as a present time experience happiness is an hour experience I’ve been telling

is an hour experience I’ve been telling

is an hour experience I’ve been telling myself for 17 years one day I’ll be

myself for 17 years one day I’ll be

myself for 17 years one day I’ll be happy and in order to be happy in the

happy and in order to be happy in the

happy and in order to be happy in the future I was actually moving happiness

future I was actually moving happiness

future I was actually moving happiness from today

from today

from today and had to stop that night and it did

and had to stop that night and it did

and had to stop that night and it did the system of goal-setting is some of

the system of goal-setting is some of

the system of goal-setting is some of that everybody uses everywhere in the

that everybody uses everywhere in the

that everybody uses everywhere in the world and I’ve spoken now on four

world and I’ve spoken now on four

world and I’ve spoken now on four continents to be from hundreds of

continents to be from hundreds of

continents to be from hundreds of countries and have all used the same

countries and have all used the same

countries and have all used the same system but here’s the challenge most

system but here’s the challenge most

system but here’s the challenge most people most places most of the time miss

people most places most of the time miss

people most places most of the time miss their goals and a question is how long

their goals and a question is how long

their goals and a question is how long do you stick with the system that

do you stick with the system that

do you stick with the system that doesn’t work for most people most the

doesn’t work for most people most the

doesn’t work for most people most the time for about a hundred years how long

time for about a hundred years how long

time for about a hundred years how long do you stick with that system because

do you stick with that system because

do you stick with that system because we’ve got a car or watch and it doesn’t

we’ve got a car or watch and it doesn’t

we’ve got a car or watch and it doesn’t it isn’t work properly it’s broken it

it isn’t work properly it’s broken it

it isn’t work properly it’s broken it means there’s something missing

means there’s something missing

means there’s something missing it’s not working there’s something

it’s not working there’s something

it’s not working there’s something missing and that night at my office

missing and that night at my office

missing and that night at my office November 2003 I discovered what was

November 2003 I discovered what was

November 2003 I discovered what was missing asked of what I had to do in

missing asked of what I had to do in

missing asked of what I had to do in that space was to be myself

that space was to be myself

that space was to be myself authentically me which means two things

authentically me which means two things

authentically me which means two things I would as I had to set and live by

I would as I had to set and live by

I would as I had to set and live by daily standards and what that means is

daily standards and what that means is

daily standards and what that means is this I realize in that space I had to go

this I realize in that space I had to go

this I realize in that space I had to go inside and scrubber who I really am and

inside and scrubber who I really am and

inside and scrubber who I really am and who I’m meant to be and instead sitting

who I’m meant to be and instead sitting

who I’m meant to be and instead sitting by these goals in the future to live by

by these goals in the future to live by

by these goals in the future to live by standards but one day at a time

standards but one day at a time

standards but one day at a time so standards were an exact as an example

so standards were an exact as an example

so standards were an exact as an example is an authentic thing that’s inside of

is an authentic thing that’s inside of

is an authentic thing that’s inside of us who it’s real fresh that’s true and

us who it’s real fresh that’s true and

us who it’s real fresh that’s true and it’s true for us this critical missing

it’s true for us this critical missing

it’s true for us this critical missing link is I realized that was missing all

link is I realized that was missing all

link is I realized that was missing all around the world to spects of hundreds

around the world to spects of hundreds

around the world to spects of hundreds of people and thousands of people at the

of people and thousands of people at the

of people and thousands of people at the time and when I asked them the question

time and when I asked them the question

time and when I asked them the question have you set goals most hands go up and

have you set goals most hands go up and

have you set goals most hands go up and I say to them the next questions and

I say to them the next questions and

I say to them the next questions and how’s that working out for you giggle

how’s that working out for you giggle

how’s that working out for you giggle giggle shuffle shuffle

giggle shuffle shuffle

giggle shuffle shuffle awkward awkward look because he hasn’t

awkward awkward look because he hasn’t

awkward awkward look because he hasn’t been working out for us for you for the

been working out for us for you for the

been working out for us for you for the world and that’s why daily standards

world and that’s why daily standards

world and that’s why daily standards became the way for me to go forward to

became the way for me to go forward to

became the way for me to go forward to the daily standard became one thing a

the daily standard became one thing a

the daily standard became one thing a daily standard is a basis criterion

daily standard is a basis criterion

daily standard is a basis criterion level quality or rule that you set from

level quality or rule that you set from

level quality or rule that you set from within a set from inside of your truth

within a set from inside of your truth

within a set from inside of your truth you as a person you as a business and

you as a person you as a business and

you as a person you as a business and you live in that place just for today a

you live in that place just for today a

you live in that place just for today a basis criterion level quality rule just

basis criterion level quality rule just

basis criterion level quality rule just for today not for the future but for

for today not for the future but for

for today not for the future but for today because it keeps you present it

today because it keeps you present it

today because it keeps you present it keeps you now and remember happiness is

keeps you now and remember happiness is

keeps you now and remember happiness is a present time experience keeping in the

a present time experience keeping in the

a present time experience keeping in the net and this wasn’t new I realized

net and this wasn’t new I realized

net and this wasn’t new I realized actually what I’d uncovered was it was

actually what I’d uncovered was it was

actually what I’d uncovered was it was some

some

some and texts because 2,000 years ago Christ

and texts because 2,000 years ago Christ

and texts because 2,000 years ago Christ walked the earth and 2,000 years ago he

walked the earth and 2,000 years ago he

walked the earth and 2,000 years ago he said many things and one of the things

said many things and one of the things

said many things and one of the things he taught it was the Lord’s Prayer and

he taught it was the Lord’s Prayer and

he taught it was the Lord’s Prayer and in the middle of the Lord’s pray gave

in the middle of the Lord’s pray gave

in the middle of the Lord’s pray gave four words give us this day give us this

four words give us this day give us this

four words give us this day give us this day and that meant being now in the

day and that meant being now in the

day and that meant being now in the presence and I don’t think he misspoke

presence and I don’t think he misspoke

presence and I don’t think he misspoke you didn’t say give us this month gives

you didn’t say give us this month gives

you didn’t say give us this month gives his quarter give this three a

his quarter give this three a

his quarter give this three a businessman gives this 20-year program

businessman gives this 20-year program

businessman gives this 20-year program gives us he said give us this day I

gives us he said give us this day I

gives us he said give us this day I think he meant what he said in him and

think he meant what he said in him and

think he meant what he said in him and he said what he meant and I think he was

he said what he meant and I think he was

he said what he meant and I think he was right son of God and all that he was

right son of God and all that he was

right son of God and all that he was right today present standards authentic

right today present standards authentic

right today present standards authentic and I began to do that when a few short

and I began to do that when a few short

and I began to do that when a few short years everything everything had changed

years everything everything had changed

years everything everything had changed for me the whole approach of my life

for me the whole approach of my life

for me the whole approach of my life change went in with a few short years

change went in with a few short years

change went in with a few short years I’d got the life that I wanted and more

I’d got the life that I wanted and more

I’d got the life that I wanted and more way beyond what I expected to have or

way beyond what I expected to have or

way beyond what I expected to have or far beyond I began to changed my life

far beyond I began to changed my life

far beyond I began to changed my life and I became wit within that within a

and I became wit within that within a

and I became wit within that within a few short years three years from that

few short years three years from that

few short years three years from that spot I’ve made my first million but it’s

spot I’ve made my first million but it’s

spot I’ve made my first million but it’s not about the million I became happy

not about the million I became happy

not about the million I became happy immediately rather than waiting

immediately rather than waiting

immediately rather than waiting something to happen in the future but it

something to happen in the future but it

something to happen in the future but it made the million working less than half

made the million working less than half

made the million working less than half the time that I used to and I raised

the time that I used to and I raised

the time that I used to and I raised that a change the clients house you are

that a change the clients house you are

that a change the clients house you are dealing with I got rid of the clients

dealing with I got rid of the clients

dealing with I got rid of the clients art messing me around and abusing my

art messing me around and abusing my

art messing me around and abusing my trust in service I let go of some of my

trust in service I let go of some of my

trust in service I let go of some of my friends that were not the right standard

friends that were not the right standard

friends that were not the right standard for who I work so I really was I changed

for who I work so I really was I changed

for who I work so I really was I changed my health for my eating at standards my

my health for my eating at standards my

my health for my eating at standards my activity standards my attitudes and my

activity standards my attitudes and my

activity standards my attitudes and my relationship standards by many standards

relationship standards by many standards

relationship standards by many standards I changed all those standards as I

I changed all those standards as I

I changed all those standards as I raised those standards I raised me up

raised those standards I raised me up

raised those standards I raised me up and the gifts are already had inside of

and the gifts are already had inside of

and the gifts are already had inside of me where they’re waiting to come out and

me where they’re waiting to come out and

me where they’re waiting to come out and they came out which meant I began to

they came out which meant I began to

they came out which meant I began to coach and then to teach and even as a

coach and then to teach and even as a

coach and then to teach and even as a former cetera to speak and this is the

former cetera to speak and this is the

former cetera to speak and this is the gift of living by daily standards

gift of living by daily standards

gift of living by daily standards growing your presence the gifts that

growing your presence the gifts that

growing your presence the gifts that you’re missing the gift that could

you’re missing the gift that could

you’re missing the gift that could change your life already inside of you

change your life already inside of you

change your life already inside of you right now right now they’re waiting to

right now right now they’re waiting to

right now right now they’re waiting to come out so what I began to do is was to

come out so what I began to do is was to

come out so what I began to do is was to share this around the world P began to

share this around the world P began to

share this around the world P began to with organizations and companies that

with organizations and companies that

with organizations and companies that were helping them to understand that

were helping them to understand that

were helping them to understand that what the goal was doing to that to their

what the goal was doing to that to their

what the goal was doing to that to their approach and I realized on people were

approach and I realized on people were

approach and I realized on people were worth living by goals only they often

worth living by goals only they often

worth living by goals only they often had the wrong behavior in order to

had the wrong behavior in order to

had the wrong behavior in order to achieve those goals

achieve those goals

achieve those goals and the wrong behavior meant a lot of

and the wrong behavior meant a lot of

and the wrong behavior meant a lot of companies around the world and even

companies around the world and even

companies around the world and even present time companies people like

present time companies people like

present time companies people like Volkswagen and other organizations and

Volkswagen and other organizations and

Volkswagen and other organizations and the banking system they were using goal

the banking system they were using goal

the banking system they were using goal achievement and driving the wrong

achievement and driving the wrong

achievement and driving the wrong behavior and if you use the wrong

behavior and if you use the wrong

behavior and if you use the wrong behavior to achieve those goals

behavior to achieve those goals

behavior to achieve those goals you suffer but more importantly people

you suffer but more importantly people

you suffer but more importantly people you seek to serve suffer so goals can

you seek to serve suffer so goals can

you seek to serve suffer so goals can drive the wrong behavior and cause us to

drive the wrong behavior and cause us to

drive the wrong behavior and cause us to be who are not meant to be and everybody

be who are not meant to be and everybody

be who are not meant to be and everybody everybody who loses so there as I began

everybody who loses so there as I began

everybody who loses so there as I began to share this working with organizations

to share this working with organizations

to share this working with organizations and schools and companies and and and

and schools and companies and and and

and schools and companies and and and businesses they’re real is actually if

businesses they’re real is actually if

businesses they’re real is actually if we do this in a different way we really

we do this in a different way we really

we do this in a different way we really get to achieve something beyond what we

get to achieve something beyond what we

get to achieve something beyond what we thought we could do beyond goals so that

thought we could do beyond goals so that

thought we could do beyond goals so that was from 2003 by 2009 Harvard released a

was from 2003 by 2009 Harvard released a

was from 2003 by 2009 Harvard released a paper the Harvard Business Review and

paper the Harvard Business Review and

paper the Harvard Business Review and that business view basically said goals

that business view basically said goals

that business view basically said goals have gone wild this is post credit

have gone wild this is post credit

have gone wild this is post credit French of course and what they were

French of course and what they were

French of course and what they were saying was actually that the goals that

saying was actually that the goals that

saying was actually that the goals that people being using in their businesses

people being using in their businesses

people being using in their businesses over decades has not only not kept them

over decades has not only not kept them

over decades has not only not kept them authentic and real and happy damaged the

authentic and real and happy damaged the

authentic and real and happy damaged the world and they gave case after case

world and they gave case after case

world and they gave case after case after case involving Kellogg universe

after case involving Kellogg universe

after case involving Kellogg universe kurgans to choose Pennsylvania Arizona

kurgans to choose Pennsylvania Arizona

kurgans to choose Pennsylvania Arizona and put these papers and said listen

and put these papers and said listen

and put these papers and said listen girls have gone well the system is

girls have gone well the system is

girls have gone well the system is breaking the NHS the care system these

breaking the NHS the care system these

breaking the NHS the care system these are challenges that each of us are

are challenges that each of us are

are challenges that each of us are facing because of goals let’s talk about

facing because of goals let’s talk about

facing because of goals let’s talk about car companies that have the wrong

car companies that have the wrong

car companies that have the wrong standards on their materials and their

standards on their materials and their

standards on their materials and their manufacturing that cost lives let’s talk

manufacturing that cost lives let’s talk

manufacturing that cost lives let’s talk about businesses that did the wrong

about businesses that did the wrong

about businesses that did the wrong level of service that where the

level of service that where the

level of service that where the customers suffered and paid over and

customers suffered and paid over and

customers suffered and paid over and over again for that service they talked

over again for that service they talked

over again for that service they talked about care and hospitals institutions I

about care and hospitals institutions I

about care and hospitals institutions I think every one of us now knows that in

think every one of us now knows that in

think every one of us now knows that in the UK you’re necessary thousands of

the UK you’re necessary thousands of

the UK you’re necessary thousands of deaths of people caused by the goals

deaths of people caused by the goals

deaths of people caused by the goals Ament goldman telling the target

Ament goldman telling the target

Ament goldman telling the target mentality of people that really wanted

mentality of people that really wanted

mentality of people that really wanted to help but by having goals forgot about

to help but by having goals forgot about

to help but by having goals forgot about the behavior and the standards the basis

the behavior and the standards the basis

the behavior and the standards the basis the criterion the levels the quantity of

the criterion the levels the quantity of

the criterion the levels the quantity of rules of how they really should behave

rules of how they really should behave

rules of how they really should behave in order to make a difference in

in order to make a difference in

in order to make a difference in people’s lives the people they sought to

people’s lives the people they sought to

people’s lives the people they sought to serve so i began this journey around the

serve so i began this journey around the

serve so i began this journey around the world to talk to lots of other people

world to talk to lots of other people

world to talk to lots of other people and at first because i know

and at first because i know

and at first because i know you know that every teacher every girl

you know that every teacher every girl

you know that every teacher every girl on the stage or any book says set girls

on the stage or any book says set girls

on the stage or any book says set girls be successful okay we cannot forget some

be successful okay we cannot forget some

be successful okay we cannot forget some resistance and I felt a bit like

resistance and I felt a bit like

resistance and I felt a bit like Copernicus ready was saying look you

Copernicus ready was saying look you

Copernicus ready was saying look you know doesn’t actually work that way

know doesn’t actually work that way

know doesn’t actually work that way you’re missing something it isn’t a

you’re missing something it isn’t a

you’re missing something it isn’t a question of the Sun going around the

question of the Sun going around the

question of the Sun going around the earth it’s actually the earth it goes

earth it’s actually the earth it goes

earth it’s actually the earth it goes around the Sun you’re missing something

around the Sun you’re missing something

around the Sun you’re missing something you need to do something different and

you need to do something different and

you need to do something different and pay attention to something different and

pay attention to something different and

pay attention to something different and that something different was day list

that something different was day list

that something different was day list was daily standards and that’s how we

was daily standards and that’s how we

was daily standards and that’s how we begin to make change when we look at the

begin to make change when we look at the

begin to make change when we look at the reviews at what caused the banking

reviews at what caused the banking

reviews at what caused the banking crisis we recognize it in that space

crisis we recognize it in that space

crisis we recognize it in that space every single time the solution or the

every single time the solution or the

every single time the solution or the summary of that report says goals and

summary of that report says goals and

summary of that report says goals and targets these guys and girls are trying

targets these guys and girls are trying

targets these guys and girls are trying to achieve their goals and targets with

to achieve their goals and targets with

to achieve their goals and targets with no idea what the standard should be if

no idea what the standard should be if

no idea what the standard should be if they cared about the standards they

they cared about the standards they

they cared about the standards they didn’t want to use those standards let

didn’t want to use those standards let

didn’t want to use those standards let me say about daily standards firstly is

me say about daily standards firstly is

me say about daily standards firstly is that their daily you do them every

that their daily you do them every

that their daily you do them every single day and standards your data

single day and standards your data

single day and standards your data center don’t care whether you’re aware

center don’t care whether you’re aware

center don’t care whether you’re aware of them or not I wasn’t there when the

of them or not I wasn’t there when the

of them or not I wasn’t there when the rules are made up or maybe your works I

rules are made up or maybe your works I

rules are made up or maybe your works I don’t know I wasn’t there when the rules

don’t know I wasn’t there when the rules

don’t know I wasn’t there when the rules were made up but what I do know is that

were made up but what I do know is that

were made up but what I do know is that they run you anyway they run us with

they run you anyway they run us with

they run you anyway they run us with your words like a baby on the couch has

your words like a baby on the couch has

your words like a baby on the couch has no concept of gravity if it rolls off

no concept of gravity if it rolls off

no concept of gravity if it rolls off that couch gravity affects it so your

that couch gravity affects it so your

that couch gravity affects it so your daily standard I like your sub routines

daily standard I like your sub routines

daily standard I like your sub routines they don’t care whether you know about

they don’t care whether you know about

they don’t care whether you know about them they’re running you beneath your

them they’re running you beneath your

them they’re running you beneath your belief system beneath your values

belief system beneath your values

belief system beneath your values they’re running us and because of that

they’re running us and because of that

they’re running us and because of that we have to be really really conscious of

we have to be really really conscious of

we have to be really really conscious of the days and the weird dot so for the

the days and the weird dot so for the

the days and the weird dot so for the very first time many people began to

very first time many people began to

very first time many people began to become aware of their daily standard and

become aware of their daily standard and

become aware of their daily standard and they learned one thing and this is the

they learned one thing and this is the

they learned one thing and this is the one thing goals don’t achieve goals they

one thing goals don’t achieve goals they

one thing goals don’t achieve goals they never have

never have

never have your success my success the world all

your success my success the world all

your success my success the world all the achievement that we have is not

the achievement that we have is not

the achievement that we have is not determined by our goals he’s determined

determined by our goals he’s determined

determined by our goals he’s determined by your daily standards the rules for

by your daily standards the rules for

by your daily standards the rules for criteria their levels the base that we

criteria their levels the base that we

criteria their levels the base that we live by each and every day those are

live by each and every day those are

live by each and every day those are things that determine us a friend of

things that determine us a friend of

things that determine us a friend of mine is a friend now it was a client

mine is a friend now it was a client

mine is a friend now it was a client back then came to me and he said I’ve

back then came to me and he said I’ve

back then came to me and he said I’ve got a problem he’d been turned down for

got a problem he’d been turned down for

got a problem he’d been turned down for life insurance and I said well no and he

life insurance and I said well no and he

life insurance and I said well no and he was upset I said ok so tell me what the

was upset I said ok so tell me what the

was upset I said ok so tell me what the problem he said well got these goals I

problem he said well got these goals I

problem he said well got these goals I was at a goal to have to run a mile I

was at a goal to have to run a mile I

was at a goal to have to run a mile I think said in eight minutes you said I

think said in eight minutes you said I

think said in eight minutes you said I wanted to have a six-pack and you also

wanted to have a six-pack and you also

wanted to have a six-pack and you also said I want to better benchpress 250 and

said I want to better benchpress 250 and

said I want to better benchpress 250 and finally said to me I won’t have to walk

finally said to me I won’t have to walk

finally said to me I won’t have to walk to walk my daughter who was young then

to walk my daughter who was young then

to walk my daughter who was young then what my daughter down the aisle when she

what my daughter down the aisle when she

what my daughter down the aisle when she gets married so I said to him now tell

gets married so I said to him now tell

gets married so I said to him now tell me tell me about you or your day and how

me tell me about you or your day and how

me tell me about you or your day and how you run your day so well in the morning

you run your day so well in the morning

you run your day so well in the morning what one things I do said is I yeah I

what one things I do said is I yeah I

what one things I do said is I yeah I have a full English breakfast that’s one

have a full English breakfast that’s one

have a full English breakfast that’s one basis of how I work feeling stress in

basis of how I work feeling stress in

basis of how I work feeling stress in everyday oh yeah everyday I said ok fine

everyday oh yeah everyday I said ok fine

everyday oh yeah everyday I said ok fine and what and and what you do in the

and what and and what you do in the

and what and and what you do in the income well as a rule basis criteria

income well as a rule basis criteria

income well as a rule basis criteria never quality or rule as a rule what you

never quality or rule as a rule what you

never quality or rule as a rule what you doing evening so well as a rule I have a

doing evening so well as a rule I have a

doing evening so well as a rule I have a couple of beers well who doesn’t have a

couple of beers well who doesn’t have a

couple of beers well who doesn’t have a couple of beers that’s what I do in the

couple of beers that’s what I do in the

couple of beers that’s what I do in the evening and I walk around with these

evening and I walk around with these

evening and I walk around with these friends and I my exercise is quite a lot

friends and I my exercise is quite a lot

friends and I my exercise is quite a lot every evening as a joke he said I do

every evening as a joke he said I do

every evening as a joke he said I do that whilst lying on the couch that’s my

that whilst lying on the couch that’s my

that whilst lying on the couch that’s my exercise the remote control pretty much

exercise the remote control pretty much

exercise the remote control pretty much every evening so I could see the

every evening so I could see the

every evening so I could see the qualities he was using to turn back the

qualities he was using to turn back the

qualities he was using to turn back the food that you eat and the food that he

food that you eat and the food that he

food that you eat and the food that he was eating where there’s low quality

was eating where there’s low quality

was eating where there’s low quality food high quality in terms of its cost

food high quality in terms of its cost

food high quality in terms of its cost but high sugar high fat yet no no level

but high sugar high fat yet no no level

but high sugar high fat yet no no level of the concept of the quality while he

of the concept of the quality while he

of the concept of the quality while he was really eating I said okay

was really eating I said okay

was really eating I said okay if a child walked in here today and said

if a child walked in here today and said

if a child walked in here today and said to you these are your goals healthy and

to you these are your goals healthy and

to you these are your goals healthy and walk your daughter down the aisle and

walk your daughter down the aisle and

walk your daughter down the aisle and fit in a six pack but if you use these

fit in a six pack but if you use these

fit in a six pack but if you use these standards are these standards going to

standards are these standards going to

standards are these standards going to achieve that goal and even you know not

achieve that goal and even you know not

achieve that goal and even you know not in a month of Sundays of those standards

in a month of Sundays of those standards

in a month of Sundays of those standards are going to achieve that goal

are going to achieve that goal

are going to achieve that goal because there’s a second thing at daily

because there’s a second thing at daily

because there’s a second thing at daily standards determinist a daily standards

standards determinist a daily standards

standards determinist a daily standards predict us they predict our story any

predict us they predict our story any

predict us they predict our story any one of us look at so they can look at

one of us look at so they can look at

one of us look at so they can look at ourselves or another and say tell me

ourselves or another and say tell me

ourselves or another and say tell me your goals now time you daily standards

your goals now time you daily standards

your goals now time you daily standards so it’s time to be honest and look at

so it’s time to be honest and look at

so it’s time to be honest and look at daily standards

daily standards

daily standards when you’ve got your goal forget it said

when you’ve got your goal forget it said

when you’ve got your goal forget it said it because goal don’t achieve goals and

it because goal don’t achieve goals and

it because goal don’t achieve goals and ever have the daily standards determine

ever have the daily standards determine

ever have the daily standards determine us which is why when we look at

us which is why when we look at

us which is why when we look at organizations and businesses that affect

organizations and businesses that affect

organizations and businesses that affect all of our lives we really have to pay

all of our lives we really have to pay

all of our lives we really have to pay attention to this stuff because we can

attention to this stuff because we can

attention to this stuff because we can look at that business and say you’re not

look at that business and say you’re not

look at that business and say you’re not doing that right if you can doing it

doing that right if you can doing it

doing that right if you can doing it that way you will affect all of us

Galileo had a challenge because he went

Galileo had a challenge because he went around the world and telling people who

around the world and telling people who

around the world and telling people who are in authority the way you think it is

are in authority the way you think it is

are in authority the way you think it is isn’t the way this it’s a different way

isn’t the way this it’s a different way

isn’t the way this it’s a different way and of course I said to him don’t talk

and of course I said to him don’t talk

and of course I said to him don’t talk about this don’t speak about this which

about this don’t speak about this which

about this don’t speak about this which is heresy you can’t say goals don’t work

is heresy you can’t say goals don’t work

is heresy you can’t say goals don’t work what I’m saying is it goes don’t work

what I’m saying is it goes don’t work

what I’m saying is it goes don’t work there’s something missing what we have

there’s something missing what we have

there’s something missing what we have to do is focus on the daily standards

to do is focus on the daily standards

to do is focus on the daily standards because then things at the terminus

because then things at the terminus

because then things at the terminus hooks on just on just these things and

hooks on just on just these things and

hooks on just on just these things and nothing else so it has what I found with

nothing else so it has what I found with

nothing else so it has what I found with some people and some organizations some

some people and some organizations some

some people and some organizations some of them embrace this now now talk around

of them embrace this now now talk around

of them embrace this now now talk around the world to institutions and large and

the world to institutions and large and

the world to institutions and large and major companies from financial services

major companies from financial services

major companies from financial services to health care companies to help them

to health care companies to help them

to health care companies to help them implement daily stands to achieve their

implement daily stands to achieve their

implement daily stands to achieve their goals in a way that helps and serves

goals in a way that helps and serves

goals in a way that helps and serves because if you can run your life or your

because if you can run your life or your

because if you can run your life or your own business in a way that helps them

own business in a way that helps them

own business in a way that helps them serve you but allows you to help them

serve you but allows you to help them

serve you but allows you to help them serve others is not real isn’t that more

serve others is not real isn’t that more

serve others is not real isn’t that more authentic is that the best way to be for

authentic is that the best way to be for

authentic is that the best way to be for you in the world and that’s what began

you in the world and that’s what began

you in the world and that’s what began to do – look at those look at those

to do – look at those look at those

to do – look at those look at those organizations and say here’s how we

organizations and say here’s how we

organizations and say here’s how we could and should do things but I found

could and should do things but I found

could and should do things but I found wanted to other people because they were

wanted to other people because they were

wanted to other people because they were stuck in the old way just like Galileo

stuck in the old way just like Galileo

stuck in the old way just like Galileo and his opponents they wouldn’t even

and his opponents they wouldn’t even

and his opponents they wouldn’t even look to see you know when he said never

look to see you know when he said never

look to see you know when he said never look and you will prove it just look at

look and you will prove it just look at

look and you will prove it just look at this system and you’ll know that the old

this system and you’ll know that the old

this system and you’ll know that the old way that you’ve been usually does not

way that you’ve been usually does not

way that you’ve been usually does not work have a look to see and they

work have a look to see and they

work have a look to see and they wouldn’t even look to see now in our

wouldn’t even look to see now in our

wouldn’t even look to see now in our lives every one of us we have the

lives every one of us we have the

lives every one of us we have the opportunity to change who we are and we

opportunity to change who we are and we

opportunity to change who we are and we can look at any right now you can look

can look at any right now you can look

can look at any right now you can look you can look at one of these areas and

you can look at one of these areas and

you can look at one of these areas and choose side which of those areas is most

choose side which of those areas is most

choose side which of those areas is most important to you to your life to your

important to you to your life to your

important to you to your life to your business to your whatever goal you’ve

business to your whatever goal you’ve

business to your whatever goal you’ve got and choose an area and today right

got and choose an area and today right

got and choose an area and today right now today latest today review that

now today latest today review that

now today latest today review that airing review your standards in that

airing review your standards in that

airing review your standards in that area

area

area and how you livin that day because you

and how you livin that day because you

and how you livin that day because you need to notice the way you are in the

need to notice the way you are in the

need to notice the way you are in the area will determine you and nothing else

area will determine you and nothing else

area will determine you and nothing else whatever goals you’ve got that won’t be

whatever goals you’ve got that won’t be

whatever goals you’ve got that won’t be that way you won’t be or determine it

that way you won’t be or determine it

that way you won’t be or determine it would be the daily standards this is my

would be the daily standards this is my

would be the daily standards this is my grandmother lives in the care home and

grandmother lives in the care home and

grandmother lives in the care home and the problem with it so once you sleep in

the problem with it so once you sleep in

the problem with it so once you sleep in which is what this pitch is all about is

which is what this pitch is all about is

which is what this pitch is all about is that actually go into the room and see

that actually go into the room and see

that actually go into the room and see on the back of the door that she had

on the back of the door that she had

on the back of the door that she had water given to her six times a day the

water given to her six times a day the

water given to her six times a day the problem is when I walked into the room

problem is when I walked into the room

problem is when I walked into the room she was dehydrated so the goal had been

she was dehydrated so the goal had been

she was dehydrated so the goal had been achieved someone gets a bonus someone

achieved someone gets a bonus someone

achieved someone gets a bonus someone gets a tick son gets pat on the back

gets a tick son gets pat on the back

gets a tick son gets pat on the back because the water was in the room but my

because the water was in the room but my

because the water was in the room but my grandmother’s bedridden goal achieved my

grandmother’s bedridden goal achieved my

grandmother’s bedridden goal achieved my grandmother didn’t get the water because

grandmother didn’t get the water because

grandmother didn’t get the water because she’s bedridden goal achieved poor

she’s bedridden goal achieved poor

she’s bedridden goal achieved poor standards people suffer banking health

standards people suffer banking health

standards people suffer banking health care hospitals schools organizations

care hospitals schools organizations

care hospitals schools organizations that’s you that’s me

that’s you that’s me

that’s you that’s me that’s us had to change the whole thing

that’s us had to change the whole thing

that’s us had to change the whole thing what we what I invite you to do is

what we what I invite you to do is

what we what I invite you to do is whatever your role in life is is begin

whatever your role in life is is begin

whatever your role in life is is begin to make a difference

to make a difference

to make a difference don’t be the guys that won’t look

don’t be the guys that won’t look

don’t be the guys that won’t look through the telescope look take a look

through the telescope look take a look

through the telescope look take a look just look to see and you’ll see the

just look to see and you’ll see the

just look to see and you’ll see the difference inside of you personally and

difference inside of you personally and

difference inside of you personally and what you can do in the world to embrace

what you can do in the world to embrace

what you can do in the world to embrace this if you want to change your life you

this if you want to change your life you

this if you want to change your life you need to create daily standards as the

need to create daily standards as the

need to create daily standards as the best implementation tool for goals there

best implementation tool for goals there

best implementation tool for goals there is that’s all discovered anywhere in the

is that’s all discovered anywhere in the

is that’s all discovered anywhere in the world for a change organization it’s the

world for a change organization it’s the

world for a change organization it’s the same thing take a look at your daily

same thing take a look at your daily

same thing take a look at your daily standards if you want to change the

standards if you want to change the

standards if you want to change the world our world does not change by our

world our world does not change by our

world our world does not change by our goals it’s changing what we do what we

goals it’s changing what we do what we

goals it’s changing what we do what we do is our Danish standards join this

do is our Danish standards join this

do is our Danish standards join this it’s not an idea it’s a movement thank

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