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Flipping your reality | Jake Gellis | TEDxRochester


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hi how you doing is everybody having fun

hi how you doing is everybody having fun today good I am so glad you guys

today good I am so glad you guys

today good I am so glad you guys answered me because I really did not

answered me because I really did not

answered me because I really did not want to stand here and talk to myself

want to stand here and talk to myself

want to stand here and talk to myself for 10 minutes that would be really

for 10 minutes that would be really

for 10 minutes that would be really really boring so I’m here to have fun

really boring so I’m here to have fun

really boring so I’m here to have fun and the thing about fun for me is it so

and the thing about fun for me is it so

and the thing about fun for me is it so unique and it’s so fun I don’t know how

unique and it’s so fun I don’t know how

unique and it’s so fun I don’t know how else to describe it and thing about it

else to describe it and thing about it

else to describe it and thing about it is when you say the word fun it makes

is when you say the word fun it makes

is when you say the word fun it makes you think of what is fun to you so what

you think of what is fun to you so what

you think of what is fun to you so what I want everybody to do on the count of

I want everybody to do on the count of

I want everybody to do on the count of three is say the word fun ready 123 how

three is say the word fun ready 123 how

three is say the word fun ready 123 how many of you were smiling ya see because

many of you were smiling ya see because

many of you were smiling ya see because your brain it’s the it’s the analogy of

your brain it’s the it’s the analogy of

your brain it’s the it’s the analogy of your brain thinks of what is fun to you

your brain thinks of what is fun to you

your brain thinks of what is fun to you and so the thing is if you know how to

and so the thing is if you know how to

and so the thing is if you know how to have fun and you know what fun means to

have fun and you know what fun means to

have fun and you know what fun means to you why is it for you guys and for the

you why is it for you guys and for the

you why is it for you guys and for the world why are we having fun every single

world why are we having fun every single

world why are we having fun every single day of our lives so you took me going

day of our lives so you took me going

day of our lives so you took me going through a really really really rough

through a really really really rough

through a really really really rough patch I mean really rough patch to

patch I mean really rough patch to

patch I mean really rough patch to figure out that I needed fun over the

figure out that I needed fun over the

figure out that I needed fun over the course of about 18 months I attended 12

course of about 18 months I attended 12

course of about 18 months I attended 12 funerals that were all untimely

funerals that were all untimely

funerals that were all untimely including my grandmother who I was

including my grandmother who I was

including my grandmother who I was closer to than anybody in the world my

closer to than anybody in the world my

closer to than anybody in the world my father who had beat cancer and then died

father who had beat cancer and then died

father who had beat cancer and then died of heart disease and then not to be

of heart disease and then not to be

of heart disease and then not to be outdone by all that less than six months

outdone by all that less than six months

outdone by all that less than six months after my father passed away I started a

after my father passed away I started a

after my father passed away I started a divorce process so all these things came

divorce process so all these things came

divorce process so all these things came down on me in like a rush a tidal wave I

down on me in like a rush a tidal wave I

down on me in like a rush a tidal wave I had no idea how to handle it I didn’t

had no idea how to handle it I didn’t

had no idea how to handle it I didn’t have anybody to handle it with me

have anybody to handle it with me

have anybody to handle it with me anymore and I’m a man so it’s not like I

anymore and I’m a man so it’s not like I

anymore and I’m a man so it’s not like I can go talk to a professional about my

can go talk to a professional about my

can go talk to a professional about my feelings because men don’t talk about

feelings because men don’t talk about

feelings because men don’t talk about their feelings we drink beer so I drank

their feelings we drink beer so I drank

their feelings we drink beer so I drank beer a lot of beer beer didn’t help no

beer a lot of beer beer didn’t help no

beer a lot of beer beer didn’t help no matter how much I drank so I tried my

matter how much I drank so I tried my

matter how much I drank so I tried my hand at substance abuse don’t do it

hand at substance abuse don’t do it

hand at substance abuse don’t do it promise no matter which one you pick

promise no matter which one you pick

promise no matter which one you pick it’s all bad and then I went to visit a

it’s all bad and then I went to visit a

it’s all bad and then I went to visit a friend of mine named Andre now Andre

friend of mine named Andre now Andre

friend of mine named Andre now Andre somebody I consider a big brother one of

somebody I consider a big brother one of

somebody I consider a big brother one of my closest friends a mentor he also

my closest friends a mentor he also

my closest friends a mentor he also happens to be my dance teacher so i

happens to be my dance teacher so i

happens to be my dance teacher so i guess i should mention that for about

guess i should mention that for about

guess i should mention that for about two

two

two years now I’ve been a dancer started out

years now I’ve been a dancer started out

years now I’ve been a dancer started out as a breakdancer in 1997 seeing all

as a breakdancer in 1997 seeing all

as a breakdancer in 1997 seeing all those cool kids doing stuff like that

those cool kids doing stuff like that

those cool kids doing stuff like that and then about 10 12 years ago I got

and then about 10 12 years ago I got

and then about 10 12 years ago I got into a style called popping popping for

into a style called popping popping for

into a style called popping popping for me what drew me in was the ability to

me what drew me in was the ability to

me what drew me in was the ability to create illusions the ability to take

create illusions the ability to take

create illusions the ability to take somebody’s reality and flip it and to

somebody’s reality and flip it and to

somebody’s reality and flip it and to making them see whatever you wanted them

making them see whatever you wanted them

making them see whatever you wanted them to see the human body is made of over

to see the human body is made of over

to see the human body is made of over fifty percent water but if i told you

fifty percent water but if i told you

fifty percent water but if i told you that mine is over ninety percent maybe i

that mine is over ninety percent maybe i

that mine is over ninety percent maybe i can make you believe me if i told you

can make you believe me if i told you

can make you believe me if i told you that i could be a robot maybe i can make

that i could be a robot maybe i can make

that i could be a robot maybe i can make you believe me so i could create

you believe me so i could create

you believe me so i could create illusions for you and the thing about

illusions for you and the thing about

illusions for you and the thing about illusions is everybody loves illusions

illusions is everybody loves illusions

illusions is everybody loves illusions think back to the first time you saw a

think back to the first time you saw a

think back to the first time you saw a magic trick grandpa pulled a quarter out

magic trick grandpa pulled a quarter out

magic trick grandpa pulled a quarter out from behind your ear friend came over

from behind your ear friend came over

from behind your ear friend came over with a deck card set pink card any card

with a deck card set pink card any card

with a deck card set pink card any card after it was over if they did it right

after it was over if they did it right

after it was over if they did it right everybody always says the same thing

everybody always says the same thing

everybody always says the same thing how’d you do that do it again how how’d

how’d you do that do it again how how’d

how’d you do that do it again how how’d you do that come on Tommy don’t make me

you do that come on Tommy don’t make me

you do that come on Tommy don’t make me google it think about how did you do

google it think about how did you do

google it think about how did you do that it’s never been said negatively

that it’s never been said negatively

that it’s never been said negatively ever nobody asks you how did you do that

ever nobody asks you how did you do that

ever nobody asks you how did you do that because they don’t want to know so

because they don’t want to know so

because they don’t want to know so that’s what got me into popping so I get

that’s what got me into popping so I get

that’s what got me into popping so I get to my friend Andre’s house and we

to my friend Andre’s house and we

to my friend Andre’s house and we started dancing and we danced we danced

started dancing and we danced we danced

started dancing and we danced we danced and we danced for 13 hours straight the

and we danced for 13 hours straight the

and we danced for 13 hours straight the entire day we were practicing new stuff

entire day we were practicing new stuff

entire day we were practicing new stuff all the stuff created routines we just

all the stuff created routines we just

all the stuff created routines we just plain and simple got down and it was

plain and simple got down and it was

plain and simple got down and it was great because at the end of the 13-hour

great because at the end of the 13-hour

great because at the end of the 13-hour day I looked back on everything we had

day I looked back on everything we had

day I looked back on everything we had done while I was dancing and creating my

done while I was dancing and creating my

done while I was dancing and creating my own reality of doing whatever I wanted I

own reality of doing whatever I wanted I

own reality of doing whatever I wanted I had forgotten all the pains and

had forgotten all the pains and

had forgotten all the pains and struggles that I had been dealing with

struggles that I had been dealing with

struggles that I had been dealing with for the last 18 months everything about

for the last 18 months everything about

for the last 18 months everything about me dancing made me happy so I decided

me dancing made me happy so I decided

me dancing made me happy so I decided right then and there maybe not

right then and there maybe not

right then and there maybe not necessarily dancing but I had to have

necessarily dancing but I had to have

necessarily dancing but I had to have fun every single day no matter what

fun every single day no matter what

fun every single day no matter what dancing just happens to be one of the

dancing just happens to be one of the

dancing just happens to be one of the things that’s fun for me i also have a

things that’s fun for me i also have a

things that’s fun for me i also have a lot of fun cooking and playing poker but

lot of fun cooking and playing poker but

lot of fun cooking and playing poker but it’s kind of hard to demonstrate that

it’s kind of hard to demonstrate that

it’s kind of hard to demonstrate that here

here

here so I kind of just want to implore

so I kind of just want to implore

so I kind of just want to implore everybody to find your fun no matter

everybody to find your fun no matter

everybody to find your fun no matter what it is find something that you love

what it is find something that you love

what it is find something that you love for no reason just because it’s fun and

for no reason just because it’s fun and

for no reason just because it’s fun and do it every day I don’t care if it’s

do it every day I don’t care if it’s

do it every day I don’t care if it’s read a book smoke a cigarette well don’t

read a book smoke a cigarette well don’t

read a book smoke a cigarette well don’t smoke cigarettes that’s bad for you read

smoke cigarettes that’s bad for you read

smoke cigarettes that’s bad for you read a book watch movies go for a jog dance

a book watch movies go for a jog dance

a book watch movies go for a jog dance give a TED talk whatever it is that you

give a TED talk whatever it is that you

give a TED talk whatever it is that you find fun do it do not wait until you

find fun do it do not wait until you

find fun do it do not wait until you reach your lowest of lows and try to

reach your lowest of lows and try to

reach your lowest of lows and try to find a way to pull yourself back up so

find a way to pull yourself back up so

find a way to pull yourself back up so I’ve been talking about this dancing

I’ve been talking about this dancing

I’ve been talking about this dancing stuff I was kind of wondering if you

stuff I was kind of wondering if you

stuff I was kind of wondering if you guys wanted to see some you guys okay so

guys wanted to see some you guys okay so

guys wanted to see some you guys okay so here’s the thing i don’t really feel

here’s the thing i don’t really feel

here’s the thing i don’t really feel like fighting for copyright from

like fighting for copyright from

like fighting for copyright from anything so we’re gonna have to make the

anything so we’re gonna have to make the

anything so we’re gonna have to make the music is that cool all right how many

music is that cool all right how many

music is that cool all right how many people here know how to clap your hands

people here know how to clap your hands

people here know how to clap your hands Wow all right how many people here know

Wow all right how many people here know

Wow all right how many people here know how to stomp their feet okay now we’re

how to stomp their feet okay now we’re

how to stomp their feet okay now we’re gonna have to do this a little bit more

gonna have to do this a little bit more

gonna have to do this a little bit more organized all right can’t just what I

organized all right can’t just what I

organized all right can’t just what I want everybody to do is go with me all

want everybody to do is go with me all

want everybody to do is go with me all right in between it all right don’t slow

right in between it all right don’t slow

right in between it all right don’t slow down you get in too fast

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