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Belief Shapes Our Future | Dorothy Miller | TEDxChilliwack


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[Applause] you are the future and your beliefs

you are the future and your beliefs

you are the future and your beliefs shape your future now the future is not

shape your future now the future is not

shape your future now the future is not something way off in the distance it is

something way off in the distance it is

something way off in the distance it is right now whether your beliefs are

right now whether your beliefs are

right now whether your beliefs are positive or negative matters set in

positive or negative matters set in

positive or negative matters set in another way your positive thinking

another way your positive thinking

another way your positive thinking refers to your faith your negative

refers to your faith your negative

refers to your faith your negative thinking refers to your fears and they

thinking refers to your fears and they

thinking refers to your fears and they do influence your life there is a very

do influence your life there is a very

do influence your life there is a very close connection between faith and fear

close connection between faith and fear

close connection between faith and fear and when we get everyone to understand

and when we get everyone to understand

and when we get everyone to understand that connection then we have the

that connection then we have the

that connection then we have the potential to shape the minds of this and

potential to shape the minds of this and

potential to shape the minds of this and future generations and we don’t even

future generations and we don’t even

future generations and we don’t even have to use electric shock I’m just

have to use electric shock I’m just

have to use electric shock I’m just joking let’s get started by talking

joking let’s get started by talking

joking let’s get started by talking about faith a mentor of mine shared with

about faith a mentor of mine shared with

about faith a mentor of mine shared with me a quote that literally changed the

me a quote that literally changed the

me a quote that literally changed the way that I think while he was working in

way that I think while he was working in

way that I think while he was working in Chicago he met a man by the name of

Chicago he met a man by the name of

Chicago he met a man by the name of Clarence Smith essen not a celebrity a

Clarence Smith essen not a celebrity a

Clarence Smith essen not a celebrity a doctor or a scientist he was just an

doctor or a scientist he was just an

doctor or a scientist he was just an ordinary guy like you and me well okay

ordinary guy like you and me well okay

ordinary guy like you and me well okay not like me because I’m a woman but

not like me because I’m a woman but

not like me because I’m a woman but Clarence had this indefinable quality

Clarence had this indefinable quality

Clarence had this indefinable quality about him and one day he was asked to

about him and one day he was asked to

about him and one day he was asked to share his view on faith because he

share his view on faith because he

share his view on faith because he seemed to have so much of it so Clarence

seemed to have so much of it so Clarence

seemed to have so much of it so Clarence summed it all up in this one statement

summed it all up in this one statement

summed it all up in this one statement faith is the ability to see the

faith is the ability to see the

faith is the ability to see the invisible believe in the incredible and

invisible believe in the incredible and

invisible believe in the incredible and that is what enables believers to

that is what enables believers to

that is what enables believers to receive what the masses think is

receive what the masses think is

receive what the masses think is impossible now I studied that quote for

impossible now I studied that quote for

impossible now I studied that quote for a very long time

a very long time

a very long time years actually now that may make me

years actually now that may make me

years actually now that may make me sound like a slow learner but when I get

sound like a slow learner but when I get

sound like a slow learner but when I get it I really get it because I was

it I really get it because I was

it I really get it because I was studying the mind and why we do what we

studying the mind and why we do what we

studying the mind and why we do what we do it led me to talk about this

do it led me to talk about this

do it led me to talk about this connection between faith and fear and

connection between faith and fear and

connection between faith and fear and what they have in common let’s start off

what they have in common let’s start off

what they have in common let’s start off by breaking down that quote just one bit

by breaking down that quote just one bit

by breaking down that quote just one bit at a time

at a time

at a time faith is the ability to see the

faith is the ability to see the

faith is the ability to see the invisible now I know that everyone here

invisible now I know that everyone here

invisible now I know that everyone here at some point or another in their life

at some point or another in their life

at some point or another in their life has wanted something so bad that you

has wanted something so bad that you

has wanted something so bad that you could see it and you could feel it yes

could see it and you could feel it yes

could see it and you could feel it yes are there any children here today

are there any children here today

are there any children here today because children are really good at this

because children are really good at this

because children are really good at this I want you to imagine with me a child

I want you to imagine with me a child

I want you to imagine with me a child that wants a dog he’ll do anything to

that wants a dog he’ll do anything to

that wants a dog he’ll do anything to get it and he’ll start off with a simple

get it and he’ll start off with a simple

get it and he’ll start off with a simple question and of course those puppy-dog

question and of course those puppy-dog

question and of course those puppy-dog eyes mom can we get a dog and then he’ll

eyes mom can we get a dog and then he’ll

eyes mom can we get a dog and then he’ll do everything he can use every trick in

do everything he can use every trick in

do everything he can use every trick in the book to convince you of all the

the book to convince you of all the

the book to convince you of all the benefits of owning a dog well it’ll be

benefits of owning a dog well it’ll be

benefits of owning a dog well it’ll be cute and cuddly

cute and cuddly

cute and cuddly it’ll give companionship to the family

it’ll give companionship to the family

it’ll give companionship to the family he’ll even get more exercise because

he’ll even get more exercise because

he’ll even get more exercise because he’s gonna take it for a walk every day

he’s gonna take it for a walk every day

he’s gonna take it for a walk every day oh and don’t forget he’s going to pick

oh and don’t forget he’s going to pick

oh and don’t forget he’s going to pick up after the dog what do you think he

up after the dog what do you think he

up after the dog what do you think he wants the dog so much that he can see

wants the dog so much that he can see

wants the dog so much that he can see himself holding the dog of his dreams

himself holding the dog of his dreams

himself holding the dog of his dreams until eventually you take him to a

until eventually you take him to a

until eventually you take him to a shelter or the pet store and he’ll know

shelter or the pet store and he’ll know

shelter or the pet store and he’ll know the right dog when he sees it but up

the right dog when he sees it but up

the right dog when he sees it but up until then the dog is invisible

which leads us back to faith is the

which leads us back to faith is the ability to see the invisible next he

ability to see the invisible next he

ability to see the invisible next he talked about believe in the incredible

talked about believe in the incredible

talked about believe in the incredible now that’s a difficult belief and we’ve

now that’s a difficult belief and we’ve

now that’s a difficult belief and we’ve all heard incredible stories that were

all heard incredible stories that were

all heard incredible stories that were hard to believe at least to us a few

hard to believe at least to us a few

hard to believe at least to us a few years ago I was in a car accident my

years ago I was in a car accident my

years ago I was in a car accident my pregnant daughter and one year old

pregnant daughter and one year old

pregnant daughter and one year old grandson were in the car with me we were

grandson were in the car with me we were

grandson were in the car with me we were pulling an empty 24-foot cargo trailer

pulling an empty 24-foot cargo trailer

pulling an empty 24-foot cargo trailer when we hit black ice the trailer

when we hit black ice the trailer

when we hit black ice the trailer jackknifed we were rolling down an

jackknifed we were rolling down an

jackknifed we were rolling down an embankment the three of us walked away

embankment the three of us walked away

embankment the three of us walked away from that vehicle with one slight bump

from that vehicle with one slight bump

from that vehicle with one slight bump to the head all the passer byes were

to the head all the passer byes were

to the head all the passer byes were saying the same thing I can’t believe it

saying the same thing I can’t believe it

saying the same thing I can’t believe it we all have faith in some way or another

we all have faith in some way or another

we all have faith in some way or another and faith can be learned it can be

and faith can be learned it can be

and faith can be learned it can be developed believe in the incredible and

developed believe in the incredible and

developed believe in the incredible and then he finished up by saying and that

then he finished up by saying and that

then he finished up by saying and that is what enables believers to receive

is what enables believers to receive

is what enables believers to receive what the masses think is impossible now

what the masses think is impossible now

what the masses think is impossible now how many of you have heard an incredible

how many of you have heard an incredible

how many of you have heard an incredible story that was hard to believe you were

story that was hard to believe you were

story that was hard to believe you were skeptical it’s too good to be true it’s

skeptical it’s too good to be true it’s

skeptical it’s too good to be true it’s outrageous

outrageous

outrageous maybe it’s outright impossible except to

maybe it’s outright impossible except to

maybe it’s outright impossible except to the person who believes they have no

the person who believes they have no

the person who believes they have no doubt I believed and anyone who is

doubt I believed and anyone who is

doubt I believed and anyone who is watching that accident happened might

watching that accident happened might

watching that accident happened might have thought the worst they might have

have thought the worst they might have

have thought the worst they might have thought it impossible that we could walk

thought it impossible that we could walk

thought it impossible that we could walk away from that

away from that

away from that crushed vehicle unharmed I believed my

belief allowed me to receive what most

belief allowed me to receive what most might have thought impossible now right

might have thought impossible now right

might have thought impossible now right about now you might be thinking she’s

about now you might be thinking she’s

about now you might be thinking she’s crazy

crazy

crazy well Shh don’t tell my husband because

well Shh don’t tell my husband because

well Shh don’t tell my husband because he doesn’t know that yet dr. Jordan

he doesn’t know that yet dr. Jordan

he doesn’t know that yet dr. Jordan grassman who is the director of the

grassman who is the director of the

grassman who is the director of the cognitive neuroscience section at the

cognitive neuroscience section at the

cognitive neuroscience section at the National Institute of Neurological

National Institute of Neurological

National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke had this to say

Disorders and Stroke had this to say

Disorders and Stroke had this to say neuroscience research supports the idea

neuroscience research supports the idea

neuroscience research supports the idea that the brain is primed to believe

that the brain is primed to believe

that the brain is primed to believe primed to believe he said well you know

primed to believe he said well you know

primed to believe he said well you know that was quite a mouthful

that was quite a mouthful

that was quite a mouthful that I just had to remember about the

that I just had to remember about the

that I just had to remember about the National Institute of Neurological

National Institute of Neurological

National Institute of Neurological Disorders but I believed I could and I

Disorders but I believed I could and I

Disorders but I believed I could and I did you see we’re primed to believe what

did you see we’re primed to believe what

did you see we’re primed to believe what then does faith and fear have in common

then does faith and fear have in common

then does faith and fear have in common well let me tell you a bit about myself

well let me tell you a bit about myself

well let me tell you a bit about myself before we get into the fear I am a

before we get into the fear I am a

before we get into the fear I am a certified thinking into results

certified thinking into results

certified thinking into results consultant an author speaker coach most

consultant an author speaker coach most

consultant an author speaker coach most importantly I am a mother I have more

importantly I am a mother I have more

importantly I am a mother I have more than 30 years invested in raising five

than 30 years invested in raising five

than 30 years invested in raising five children so remember that dog back there

children so remember that dog back there

children so remember that dog back there that I’m still cleaning up after I would

that I’m still cleaning up after I would

that I’m still cleaning up after I would like to share with you a story about our

like to share with you a story about our

like to share with you a story about our children because it illustrates this

children because it illustrates this

children because it illustrates this faith and fear connection one summer we

faith and fear connection one summer we

faith and fear connection one summer we had taken them to Mount Rainier the Sun

had taken them to Mount Rainier the Sun

had taken them to Mount Rainier the Sun was shining the sky was blue there was

was shining the sky was blue there was

was shining the sky was blue there was even a bit of snow on the ground and off

even a bit of snow on the ground and off

even a bit of snow on the ground and off in the distance

in the distance

in the distance was a stream not a lot of water in it

was a stream not a lot of water in it

was a stream not a lot of water in it maybe a foot or so and the surface of

maybe a foot or so and the surface of

maybe a foot or so and the surface of that log had been shaved flat to create

that log had been shaved flat to create

that log had been shaved flat to create walking surface on one side of the log

walking surface on one side of the log

walking surface on one side of the log was a simple handrail attached now two

was a simple handrail attached now two

was a simple handrail attached now two of our children took one look at this

of our children took one look at this

of our children took one look at this bridge and they went without any

bridge and they went without any

bridge and they went without any hesitation they crossed it our oldest

hesitation they crossed it our oldest

hesitation they crossed it our oldest child took one look at that bridge and

child took one look at that bridge and

child took one look at that bridge and stopped I went over and said come on

stopped I went over and said come on

stopped I went over and said come on let’s go uh-uh

let’s go uh-uh

let’s go uh-uh there was no way he was crossing that

there was no way he was crossing that

there was no way he was crossing that bridge now what did these two have in

bridge now what did these two have in

bridge now what did these two have in common at first glance they may appear

common at first glance they may appear

common at first glance they may appear to be complete opposites but let’s take

to be complete opposites but let’s take

to be complete opposites but let’s take a closer look because they were both

a closer look because they were both

a closer look because they were both right in their own mind these two looked

right in their own mind these two looked

right in their own mind these two looked at the bridge and they believed without

at the bridge and they believed without

at the bridge and they believed without any doubt this was the way across and

any doubt this was the way across and

any doubt this was the way across and off they went this one took one look at

off they went this one took one look at

off they went this one took one look at the bridge and believed without any

the bridge and believed without any

the bridge and believed without any doubt this was an unsafe crossing there

doubt this was an unsafe crossing there

doubt this was an unsafe crossing there was no way he was planted now they were

was no way he was planted now they were

was no way he was planted now they were both looking at exactly the same thing

both looking at exactly the same thing

both looking at exactly the same thing yet two had faith one had fear because

yet two had faith one had fear because

yet two had faith one had fear because of what they believed even though none

of what they believed even though none

of what they believed even though none of them could see the evidence to

of them could see the evidence to

of them could see the evidence to support their belief it was invisible

dr. Michael Innes licked Oh before I

dr. Michael Innes licked Oh before I tell you that I did go over and talk to

tell you that I did go over and talk to

tell you that I did go over and talk to this one and I walked him through his

this one and I walked him through his

this one and I walked him through his fear and yes he did cross the bridge now

fear and yes he did cross the bridge now

fear and yes he did cross the bridge now dr. Michael Inslee he focuses his study

dr. Michael Inslee he focuses his study

dr. Michael Inslee he focuses his study on a brain wave called air related

on a brain wave called air related

on a brain wave called air related negativity erm which spikes when people

negativity erm which spikes when people

negativity erm which spikes when people make mistakes and it causes this slight

make mistakes and it causes this slight

make mistakes and it causes this slight anxiety you know the one he calls it the

anxiety you know the one he calls it the

anxiety you know the one he calls it the O response which is both subconscious

O response which is both subconscious

O response which is both subconscious and emotional in one of his studies

and emotional in one of his studies

and emotional in one of his studies he found that this whole response was

he found that this whole response was

he found that this whole response was less strong in people who had faith

people who had faith now I have a lot of

people who had faith now I have a lot of faith but that’s not to say that I have

faith but that’s not to say that I have

faith but that’s not to say that I have no fear because I do and fear can at

no fear because I do and fear can at

no fear because I do and fear can at times protect us but more often than not

times protect us but more often than not

times protect us but more often than not fear stops us from achieving great

fear stops us from achieving great

fear stops us from achieving great things now let me take you back to

things now let me take you back to

things now let me take you back to Clarence mythos in’ because after

Clarence mythos in’ because after

Clarence mythos in’ because after analyzing what he said i played with

analyzing what he said i played with

analyzing what he said i played with this idea of inserting fear in the place

this idea of inserting fear in the place

this idea of inserting fear in the place of faith and this is what it sounds like

of faith and this is what it sounds like

of faith and this is what it sounds like fear is the ability to see the invisible

fear is the ability to see the invisible

fear is the ability to see the invisible like my child who feared the bridge

like my child who feared the bridge

like my child who feared the bridge being unsafe to believe in the

being unsafe to believe in the

being unsafe to believe in the incredible like the passerby x’ who

incredible like the passerby x’ who

incredible like the passerby x’ who feared the worst and then and that is

feared the worst and then and that is

feared the worst and then and that is what enables believers to receive what

what enables believers to receive what

what enables believers to receive what most people think is impossible now if I

most people think is impossible now if I

most people think is impossible now if I had let my child stand here and believed

had let my child stand here and believed

had let my child stand here and believed in his fear then it would become his

in his fear then it would become his

in his fear then it would become his truth I had to get him to change the

truth I had to get him to change the

truth I had to get him to change the vision of what it was he saw fear is a

vision of what it was he saw fear is a

vision of what it was he saw fear is a belief but where does it come from

belief but where does it come from

belief but where does it come from well dr. Rick knew eart shares his

well dr. Rick knew eart shares his

well dr. Rick knew eart shares his findings from the New York University

findings from the New York University

findings from the New York University study which is the first to examine

study which is the first to examine

study which is the first to examine brain basis of fears acquired indirectly

brain basis of fears acquired indirectly

brain basis of fears acquired indirectly from the observation of others what that

from the observation of others what that

from the observation of others what that means is you don’t even have to

means is you don’t even have to

means is you don’t even have to experience fear yourself

experience fear yourself

experience fear yourself you can acquire it from seeing others

you can acquire it from seeing others

you can acquire it from seeing others experience it and if you take a closer

experience it and if you take a closer

experience it and if you take a closer look at some of your fears

look at some of your fears

look at some of your fears you might find that to be true the

you might find that to be true the

you might find that to be true the connection between faith and fear is the

connection between faith and fear is the

connection between faith and fear is the invisible belief that it exists wow this

invisible belief that it exists wow this

invisible belief that it exists wow this is a game-changer you guys imagine if

is a game-changer you guys imagine if

is a game-changer you guys imagine if this were taught in school imagine if

this were taught in school imagine if

this were taught in school imagine if this were taught in school every man

this were taught in school every man

this were taught in school every man woman and child needs to know how to

woman and child needs to know how to

woman and child needs to know how to turn that negative belief into faith but

turn that negative belief into faith but

turn that negative belief into faith but wait we’re missing an ingredient it’s

wait we’re missing an ingredient it’s

wait we’re missing an ingredient it’s kind of like having the hot dog without

kind of like having the hot dog without

kind of like having the hot dog without the wiener in every single example that

the wiener in every single example that

the wiener in every single example that you can muster up the person whether it

you can muster up the person whether it

you can muster up the person whether it be in faith or in fear has to apply a

be in faith or in fear has to apply a

be in faith or in fear has to apply a vision and that triggers an emotion once

vision and that triggers an emotion once

vision and that triggers an emotion once you believe you’ve got it it’s like the

you believe you’ve got it it’s like the

you believe you’ve got it it’s like the child wanting the dog crossing the

child wanting the dog crossing the

child wanting the dog crossing the bridge or not in every single case the

bridge or not in every single case the

bridge or not in every single case the person applied belief and vision and

person applied belief and vision and

person applied belief and vision and that was the driving force behind their

that was the driving force behind their

that was the driving force behind their belief the next time that you are

belief the next time that you are

belief the next time that you are standing at the foot of your bridge that

standing at the foot of your bridge that

standing at the foot of your bridge that is waiting to be crossed

is waiting to be crossed

is waiting to be crossed choose the vision of what it is you want

choose the vision of what it is you want

choose the vision of what it is you want stay focused on him the longer you stay

stay focused on him the longer you stay

stay focused on him the longer you stay focused on what you want the more

focused on what you want the more

focused on what you want the more positive emotion you will apply to it

positive emotion you will apply to it

positive emotion you will apply to it and it will become believable it will be

and it will become believable it will be

and it will become believable it will be your truth and once you believe you’re

your truth and once you believe you’re

your truth and once you believe you’re there and neuroscience research supports

there and neuroscience research supports

there and neuroscience research supports you and truth be told I didn’t want to

you and truth be told I didn’t want to

you and truth be told I didn’t want to cross that bridge either the future is

cross that bridge either the future is

cross that bridge either the future is not something way off in the distance

not something way off in the distance

not something way off in the distance you are living it right now your beliefs

you are living it right now your beliefs

you are living it right now your beliefs shape your future it’s your choice

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