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Passion, dreams and distraction: realizations from a beauty queen | Raine Baljak | TEDxUSJR


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you [Music]

[Music]

[Music] before I begin this afternoon I would

before I begin this afternoon I would

before I begin this afternoon I would like to light a candle so it’s the smoke

like to light a candle so it’s the smoke

like to light a candle so it’s the smoke detector off yes okay thank you

detector off yes okay thank you

detector off yes okay thank you excuse me

nobody here guests why did I light a

nobody here guests why did I light a candle

candle

candle there’s no right or wrong to this

there’s no right or wrong to this

there’s no right or wrong to this question I just like to ask who here

question I just like to ask who here

question I just like to ask who here would possibly know why this is no lady

would possibly know why this is no lady

would possibly know why this is no lady light a candle birthday honey other

light a candle birthday honey other

light a candle birthday honey other guess is magic trick okay

guess is magic trick okay

guess is magic trick okay so these are good assumptions but now

so these are good assumptions but now

so these are good assumptions but now I’d like to ask you what ignites your

I’d like to ask you what ignites your

I’d like to ask you what ignites your flame your passion what motivates you to

flame your passion what motivates you to

flame your passion what motivates you to do what you do what motivates you to

do what you do what motivates you to

do what you do what motivates you to learn what you have understood through

learn what you have understood through

learn what you have understood through your lessons in school what keeps your

your lessons in school what keeps your

your lessons in school what keeps your flame burning with the world and its

flame burning with the world and its

flame burning with the world and its external factors are going against it

external factors are going against it

external factors are going against it how do you keep your flame lit so from

how do you keep your flame lit so from

how do you keep your flame lit so from the experiences that I have faced in my

the experiences that I have faced in my

the experiences that I have faced in my life sometimes when you’re young it is

life sometimes when you’re young it is

life sometimes when you’re young it is easy to get distracted in this world

easy to get distracted in this world

easy to get distracted in this world that we have today there are so many

that we have today there are so many

that we have today there are so many people there’s so many opportunities and

people there’s so many opportunities and

people there’s so many opportunities and the technology that we have sometimes

the technology that we have sometimes

the technology that we have sometimes doesn’t help us as much as we or it’s

doesn’t help us as much as we or it’s

doesn’t help us as much as we or it’s made to help us for so why am I here and

made to help us for so why am I here and

made to help us for so why am I here and why am i bringing a passion why am I

why am i bringing a passion why am I

why am i bringing a passion why am I talking about fire well that flame

talking about fire well that flame

talking about fire well that flame exists in all of us we all have a light

exists in all of us we all have a light

exists in all of us we all have a light inside and it’s what we do with what we

inside and it’s what we do with what we

inside and it’s what we do with what we have through which or we do we succeed

have through which or we do we succeed

have through which or we do we succeed we are so lucky that we live in this

we are so lucky that we live in this

we are so lucky that we live in this world and dying because we can easily

world and dying because we can easily

world and dying because we can easily communicate with one another

communicate with one another

communicate with one another sorry it was like a little spider that

sorry it was like a little spider that

sorry it was like a little spider that kind of just jumped up my nose here the

kind of just jumped up my nose here the

kind of just jumped up my nose here the good news

good news

good news what are the odds no but we are lucky to

what are the odds no but we are lucky to

what are the odds no but we are lucky to live in this world of time because in

live in this world of time because in

live in this world of time because in history women women’s voices were

history women women’s voices were

history women women’s voices were oppressed

oppressed

oppressed social races and color we’re never

social races and color we’re never

social races and color we’re never allowed in the same room but here we are

allowed in the same room but here we are

allowed in the same room but here we are today who’s from Cebu a job ok who was

today who’s from Cebu a job ok who was

today who’s from Cebu a job ok who was born in Cebu is anyone in this room not

born in Cebu is anyone in this room not

born in Cebu is anyone in this room not from the Philippines

from the Philippines

from the Philippines no one okay so all Filipino good whoa

no one okay so all Filipino good whoa

no one okay so all Filipino good whoa right no but I’m bringing these points

right no but I’m bringing these points

right no but I’m bringing these points up because I’d like to introduce a

up because I’d like to introduce a

up because I’d like to introduce a little bit of myself to all of you

little bit of myself to all of you

little bit of myself to all of you clearly I’m half but myself and half a

clearly I’m half but myself and half a

clearly I’m half but myself and half a Papa he’s Croatian he’s a musician in

Papa he’s Croatian he’s a musician in

Papa he’s Croatian he’s a musician in the philosopher aku mama he a guy you

the philosopher aku mama he a guy you

the philosopher aku mama he a guy you see I will say oh she loves dancing

see I will say oh she loves dancing

see I will say oh she loves dancing she’s also beauty queen they both love

she’s also beauty queen they both love

she’s also beauty queen they both love music and when they have me they

music and when they have me they

music and when they have me they actually brought me the concerts while I

actually brought me the concerts while I

actually brought me the concerts while I was in my mother’s womb

was in my mother’s womb

was in my mother’s womb they loved entertainment performing and

they loved entertainment performing and

they loved entertainment performing and being around other people why because

being around other people why because

being around other people why because they love people they loved entertaining

they love people they loved entertaining

they love people they loved entertaining and they liked seeing other people happy

and they liked seeing other people happy

and they liked seeing other people happy it meant so much to them and possibly

it meant so much to them and possibly

it meant so much to them and possibly because both of their parents were very

because both of their parents were very

because both of their parents were very kind of nature both of grandparents on

kind of nature both of grandparents on

kind of nature both of grandparents on my grandparents on both sides

my grandparents on both sides

my grandparents on both sides agricultural it’s gardeners they were

agricultural it’s gardeners they were

agricultural it’s gardeners they were all but suck them all I think is a

all but suck them all I think is a

all but suck them all I think is a family and two like together it was

family and two like together it was

family and two like together it was passionately had for all the things that

passionately had for all the things that

passionately had for all the things that they do and maybe that’s why they all

they do and maybe that’s why they all

they do and maybe that’s why they all love food it’s because of the flavor

love food it’s because of the flavor

love food it’s because of the flavor that you have any book you can taste it

that you have any book you can taste it

that you have any book you can taste it and the mica I do not so what my parents

and the mica I do not so what my parents

and the mica I do not so what my parents and their careers of entertainment of

and their careers of entertainment of

and their careers of entertainment of course it’s risky at times you have to

course it’s risky at times you have to

course it’s risky at times you have to take that risk

take that risk

take that risk but they taught me that you have to try

but they taught me that you have to try

but they taught me that you have to try something new because you never know

something new because you never know

something new because you never know unless you try

unless you try

unless you try so two and a half years old they decided

so two and a half years old they decided

so two and a half years old they decided to separate and that’s when I moved here

to separate and that’s when I moved here

to separate and that’s when I moved here to Cebu and I grew up it must have been

to Cebu and I grew up it must have been

to Cebu and I grew up it must have been out it’s a little burn up guy in the

out it’s a little burn up guy in the

out it’s a little burn up guy in the boogie and all of my neighbors

boogie and all of my neighbors

boogie and all of my neighbors that I grew up there with were farmers

that I grew up there with were farmers

that I grew up there with were farmers and agriculturists were fishermen they

and agriculturists were fishermen they

and agriculturists were fishermen they didn’t have a lot but what strikes me

didn’t have a lot but what strikes me

didn’t have a lot but what strikes me most the people that I grew up with

most the people that I grew up with

most the people that I grew up with there so they were so compassionate they

there so they were so compassionate they

there so they were so compassionate they didn’t have a lot but they shared

didn’t have a lot but they shared

didn’t have a lot but they shared whatever they have to their fellow

whatever they have to their fellow

whatever they have to their fellow neighbor even though they couldn’t think

neighbor even though they couldn’t think

neighbor even though they couldn’t think that’s a sorry Side Story it’s like

that’s a sorry Side Story it’s like

that’s a sorry Side Story it’s like pretty cool more like you carry the

pretty cool more like you carry the

pretty cool more like you carry the table and a thing and then move by a

table and a thing and then move by a

table and a thing and then move by a buckle when yeah anything so the people

buckle when yeah anything so the people

buckle when yeah anything so the people that I grew up there with my grandmother

that I grew up there with my grandmother

that I grew up there with my grandmother my mom his brother my uncle and my mom

my mom his brother my uncle and my mom

my mom his brother my uncle and my mom we were all very close us three together

we were all very close us three together

we were all very close us three together and the relationships that I’ve created

and the relationships that I’ve created

and the relationships that I’ve created with those people there well I think

with those people there well I think

with those people there well I think lasts a lifetime

lasts a lifetime

lasts a lifetime because when will you ever have a five

because when will you ever have a five

because when will you ever have a five year old girl walking her pet crop no

year old girl walking her pet crop no

year old girl walking her pet crop no the rocky roads or have a giant lizard

the rocky roads or have a giant lizard

the rocky roads or have a giant lizard in her living room where will you see a

in her living room where will you see a

in her living room where will you see a girl like flammable mango tree or some

girl like flammable mango tree or some

girl like flammable mango tree or some mangoes from her neighbor like I can’t

mangoes from her neighbor like I can’t

mangoes from her neighbor like I can’t borrow some that goes I hope that’s okay

borrow some that goes I hope that’s okay

borrow some that goes I hope that’s okay they didn’t really mind because we’re

they didn’t really mind because we’re

they didn’t really mind because we’re all kind of here just tried to survive

all kind of here just tried to survive

all kind of here just tried to survive anyway who began but people are

anyway who began but people are

anyway who began but people are forgiving that’s what I’ve learned from

forgiving that’s what I’ve learned from

forgiving that’s what I’ve learned from growing up there people are tender and

growing up there people are tender and

growing up there people are tender and kind and I was lucky that when I was

kind and I was lucky that when I was

kind and I was lucky that when I was around seven eight years old my mother

around seven eight years old my mother

around seven eight years old my mother met my stepfather and he’s this generous

met my stepfather and he’s this generous

met my stepfather and he’s this generous and kind loving man and I was being so

and kind loving man and I was being so

and kind loving man and I was being so hard at one point that one day I’d have

hard at one point that one day I’d have

hard at one point that one day I’d have a younger brother and he came he came

a younger brother and he came he came

a younger brother and he came he came into this world and I’m very blessed to

into this world and I’m very blessed to

into this world and I’m very blessed to have him because he’s this young man was

have him because he’s this young man was

have him because he’s this young man was growing up in a time where there’s so

growing up in a time where there’s so

growing up in a time where there’s so much technology and so many youngsters

much technology and so many youngsters

much technology and so many youngsters his age they don’t understand that there

his age they don’t understand that there

his age they don’t understand that there is more to just what they’re standing up

is more to just what they’re standing up

is more to just what they’re standing up on their screen all day so when I see

on their screen all day so when I see

on their screen all day so when I see you people because this passion is also

you people because this passion is also

you people because this passion is also singing any likes to sing and when he

singing any likes to sing and when he

singing any likes to sing and when he sings it sounds like he’s really it’s

sings it sounds like he’s really it’s

sings it sounds like he’s really it’s like an angel almost and I think it’s

like an angel almost and I think it’s

like an angel almost and I think it’s because of the heart that he hasn’t

because of the heart that he hasn’t

because of the heart that he hasn’t from what her grandmother raises to be

from what her grandmother raises to be

from what her grandmother raises to be its so eventually when my mom and my

its so eventually when my mom and my

its so eventually when my mom and my stepfather I moved here to the city and

stepfather I moved here to the city and

stepfather I moved here to the city and then I went to school to national school

then I went to school to national school

then I went to school to national school for 13 years

for 13 years

for 13 years what is this relevant well when I’m very

what is this relevant well when I’m very

what is this relevant well when I’m very blessed with to have attended that

blessed with to have attended that

blessed with to have attended that school was all the opportunities I was

school was all the opportunities I was

school was all the opportunities I was able to experience I competed rock

able to experience I competed rock

able to experience I competed rock climbing here in Cebu and also the

climbing here in Cebu and also the

climbing here in Cebu and also the entire Philippines I was also in the

entire Philippines I was also in the

entire Philippines I was also in the school band played guitar I thought I

school band played guitar I thought I

school band played guitar I thought I was in choir for about three years and

was in choir for about three years and

was in choir for about three years and then I joined basketball volleyball and

then I joined basketball volleyball and

then I joined basketball volleyball and lucu nice picked on volleyball football

lucu nice picked on volleyball football

lucu nice picked on volleyball football teams like leap sports ribbit but at the

teams like leap sports ribbit but at the

teams like leap sports ribbit but at the same time I was juggling performing arts

same time I was juggling performing arts

same time I was juggling performing arts as I’ve been singing and dancing and

as I’ve been singing and dancing and

as I’ve been singing and dancing and seeing people happy and that was the one

seeing people happy and that was the one

seeing people happy and that was the one thing that I really enjoyed was the

thing that I really enjoyed was the

thing that I really enjoyed was the memories that I shared with these people

memories that I shared with these people

memories that I shared with these people and the communication and when you take

and the communication and when you take

and the communication and when you take a risk you never know what the outcome

a risk you never know what the outcome

a risk you never know what the outcome could be just like the seconds next into

could be just like the seconds next into

could be just like the seconds next into the future you never know what the

the future you never know what the

the future you never know what the outcome is life can be so spontaneous

outcome is life can be so spontaneous

outcome is life can be so spontaneous sometimes but you never really know what

sometimes but you never really know what

sometimes but you never really know what would happen Saturday last week I lost

would happen Saturday last week I lost

would happen Saturday last week I lost my uncle who really taught me so much in

my uncle who really taught me so much in

my uncle who really taught me so much in my lifetime

my lifetime

my lifetime so far I’m only 19 years old so my 19

so far I’m only 19 years old so my 19

so far I’m only 19 years old so my 19 years of existence he’s taught me a lot

years of existence he’s taught me a lot

years of existence he’s taught me a lot the one thing that my mom always

the one thing that my mom always

the one thing that my mom always emphasized on was courage and kindness

emphasized on was courage and kindness

emphasized on was courage and kindness these are two traits that are so

these are two traits that are so

these are two traits that are so important they can take you so far in

important they can take you so far in

important they can take you so far in life because when your eyes to the

life because when your eyes to the

life because when your eyes to the person that you communicate with when

person that you communicate with when

person that you communicate with when you believe in the words that you share

you believe in the words that you share

you believe in the words that you share with another human being with the way

with another human being with the way

with another human being with the way that you started to talk to share your

that you started to talk to share your

that you started to talk to share your idea how do you communicate yourself

idea how do you communicate yourself

idea how do you communicate yourself whether it’s verbal or nonverbal it says

whether it’s verbal or nonverbal it says

whether it’s verbal or nonverbal it says a lot about who you are so why

a lot about who you are so why

a lot about who you are so why handle because hopefully I can help

handle because hopefully I can help

handle because hopefully I can help bring your flame to be bigger because

bring your flame to be bigger because

bring your flame to be bigger because inside all of you in this room you can

inside all of you in this room you can

inside all of you in this room you can do anything as long as you’re who you

do anything as long as you’re who you

do anything as long as you’re who you are and where you come from freely

are and where you come from freely

are and where you come from freely influences that your family wherever

influences that your family wherever

influences that your family wherever they may be right now possibly very

they may be right now possibly very

they may be right now possibly very proud of all the accomplishments that

proud of all the accomplishments that

proud of all the accomplishments that you have and also where in your journey

you have and also where in your journey

you have and also where in your journey will take you so it’s important to have

will take you so it’s important to have

will take you so it’s important to have that passion because that passion will

that passion because that passion will

that passion because that passion will drive you to persevere there any

drive you to persevere there any

drive you to persevere there any difficulty you may be facing you have to

difficulty you may be facing you have to

difficulty you may be facing you have to be patient because sometimes in that

be patient because sometimes in that

be patient because sometimes in that moment it might not be it for you but

moment it might not be it for you but

moment it might not be it for you but life is all about learning it’s all

life is all about learning it’s all

life is all about learning it’s all about growing so reflect and always

about growing so reflect and always

about growing so reflect and always appreciate the people and the lesson but

appreciate the people and the lesson but

appreciate the people and the lesson but you have to take in your life and lastly

you have to take in your life and lastly

you have to take in your life and lastly pray because when you talk to the

pray because when you talk to the

pray because when you talk to the universe when you talk to your ancestors

universe when you talk to your ancestors

universe when you talk to your ancestors they may not be there physically with

they may not be there physically with

they may not be there physically with you but they’ll always be there with you

you but they’ll always be there with you

you but they’ll always be there with you so it’s even Cassie Cassie not jitna

so it’s even Cassie Cassie not jitna

so it’s even Cassie Cassie not jitna they’re always there with you wherever

they’re always there with you wherever

they’re always there with you wherever you go that’s why when you trip and you

you go that’s why when you trip and you

you go that’s why when you trip and you follow you is get back up on your knees

follow you is get back up on your knees

follow you is get back up on your knees so be passionate persevere be patient

so be passionate persevere be patient

so be passionate persevere be patient have the courage and the kindness to be

have the courage and the kindness to be

have the courage and the kindness to be vulnerable and connect to anyone and

vulnerable and connect to anyone and

vulnerable and connect to anyone and don’t forget to pray because I mean oh

don’t forget to pray because I mean oh

don’t forget to pray because I mean oh oh is always there with you so with that

I want you all to go home today and I

I want you all to go home today and I want you to ask yourselves

[Music]

[Music] what do you live for

what do you live for

what do you live for what makes your life worth living

what makes your life worth living

what makes your life worth living because my experience from the

because my experience from the

because my experience from the opportunities of the iPod my life is

opportunities of the iPod my life is

opportunities of the iPod my life is worth living because it makes me happy

worth living because it makes me happy

worth living because it makes me happy to see my family happy when they seem

to see my family happy when they seem

to see my family happy when they seem I’m hosting an event or an I’m striking

I’m hosting an event or an I’m striking

I’m hosting an event or an I’m striking on the catwalk and the designer says

on the catwalk and the designer says

on the catwalk and the designer says that the dress or whatever I was wearing

that the dress or whatever I was wearing

that the dress or whatever I was wearing was sold it makes me happy to know that

was sold it makes me happy to know that

was sold it makes me happy to know that I’ve done my part and journey miserable

I’ve done my part and journey miserable

I’ve done my part and journey miserable and seeing all the people there excited

and seeing all the people there excited

and seeing all the people there excited with me I felt like it was a room full

with me I felt like it was a room full

with me I felt like it was a room full of but other than something to spare me

of but other than something to spare me

of but other than something to spare me nervous it’s not warm and that’s because

nervous it’s not warm and that’s because

nervous it’s not warm and that’s because when you let yourself go and you’re just

when you let yourself go and you’re just

when you let yourself go and you’re just who you are people will connect the back

who you are people will connect the back

who you are people will connect the back and at the end of the day we’re all here

and at the end of the day we’re all here

and at the end of the day we’re all here in your feel emotions so I’d like you to

in your feel emotions so I’d like you to

in your feel emotions so I’d like you to ask yourselves what do you live for

ask yourselves what do you live for

ask yourselves what do you live for I know what makes your life worth living

I know what makes your life worth living

I know what makes your life worth living thank you

thank you

thank you [Music]

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