hello everyone I am so happy to be here today I am the founder and director of
today I am the founder and director of
today I am the founder and director of out of Egypt Network we provide
out of Egypt Network we provide
out of Egypt Network we provide intervention and prevention for well
intervention and prevention for well
intervention and prevention for well regarding human trafficking and illegal
regarding human trafficking and illegal
regarding human trafficking and illegal sexual exploitation we also speak out
sexual exploitation we also speak out
sexual exploitation we also speak out for and assist victims and survivors
for and assist victims and survivors
for and assist victims and survivors whenever we can and we search for and
whenever we can and we search for and
whenever we can and we search for and create innovative ways to make a way for
create innovative ways to make a way for
create innovative ways to make a way for rescue for victims that would normally
rescue for victims that would normally
rescue for victims that would normally not be found and we’re working on some
not be found and we’re working on some
not be found and we’re working on some things now that we’re really excited
things now that we’re really excited
things now that we’re really excited about and we know they’re gonna make a
about and we know they’re gonna make a
about and we know they’re gonna make a difference so before we start I want to
difference so before we start I want to
difference so before we start I want to give you a definition of human
give you a definition of human
give you a definition of human trafficking just in case for those of
trafficking just in case for those of
trafficking just in case for those of you who don’t know
you who don’t know
you who don’t know so human trafficking is the
so human trafficking is the
so human trafficking is the transportation harboring or obtaining of
transportation harboring or obtaining of
transportation harboring or obtaining of a person for labor or commercial sex
a person for labor or commercial sex
a person for labor or commercial sex acts by force fraud or coercion
acts by force fraud or coercion
acts by force fraud or coercion now many people call it modern-day
now many people call it modern-day
now many people call it modern-day slavery and it sounds a little cleaned
slavery and it sounds a little cleaned
slavery and it sounds a little cleaned up to me so I want to explain the
up to me so I want to explain the
up to me so I want to explain the passing of time has definitely assisted
passing of time has definitely assisted
passing of time has definitely assisted perpetrators and traffickers there is
perpetrators and traffickers there is
perpetrators and traffickers there is cameras everywhere
cameras everywhere
cameras everywhere they’re used for stalking and filming of
they’re used for stalking and filming of
they’re used for stalking and filming of course but they’re on everyone’s cell
course but they’re on everyone’s cell
course but they’re on everyone’s cell phones everyone can buy a hidden camera
phones everyone can buy a hidden camera
phones everyone can buy a hidden camera there’s the internet the internet can
there’s the internet the internet can
there’s the internet the internet can send a picture or a film of a victim
send a picture or a film of a victim
send a picture or a film of a victim across the world in a matter of seconds
across the world in a matter of seconds
across the world in a matter of seconds so if she escaped she could be
so if she escaped she could be
so if she escaped she could be recognized anywhere in the world there
recognized anywhere in the world there
recognized anywhere in the world there are drugs that induce complete control
are drugs that induce complete control
are drugs that induce complete control over a person or used to keep them quiet
over a person or used to keep them quiet
over a person or used to keep them quiet or even wipe out their memory and
or even wipe out their memory and
or even wipe out their memory and there’s travel you can move a human
there’s travel you can move a human
there’s travel you can move a human being across the country or around the
being across the country or around the
being across the country or around the world in a matter of hours however
world in a matter of hours however
world in a matter of hours however the brutality of human trafficking it’s
the brutality of human trafficking it’s
the brutality of human trafficking it’s more barbaric than it’s ever been the
more barbaric than it’s ever been the
more barbaric than it’s ever been the cunning and silence only make it
cunning and silence only make it
cunning and silence only make it accessible to those to those who agree
accessible to those to those who agree
accessible to those to those who agree to participate in one way or another now
to participate in one way or another now
to participate in one way or another now did you know that you could be
did you know that you could be
did you know that you could be participating in slavery you may be
participating in slavery you may be
participating in slavery you may be thinking well if I bought a chocolate
thinking well if I bought a chocolate
thinking well if I bought a chocolate bar or a cup of coffee that was produced
bar or a cup of coffee that was produced
bar or a cup of coffee that was produced by a slave maybe but what if I told you
by a slave maybe but what if I told you
by a slave maybe but what if I told you that you could be involved or
that you could be involved or
that you could be involved or participating in sex slavery without
participating in sex slavery without
participating in sex slavery without even knowing it so it seems I have a bit
even knowing it so it seems I have a bit
even knowing it so it seems I have a bit of a journey to take you on it’s one
of a journey to take you on it’s one
of a journey to take you on it’s one that involves your only thought is
that involves your only thought is
that involves your only thought is survival your whole world is surviving
survival your whole world is surviving
survival your whole world is surviving so everyday thoughts like what am I
so everyday thoughts like what am I
so everyday thoughts like what am I gonna wear tomorrow or what Netflix
gonna wear tomorrow or what Netflix
gonna wear tomorrow or what Netflix series can I binge on tonight or what
series can I binge on tonight or what
series can I binge on tonight or what did she post and why these thoughts are
did she post and why these thoughts are
did she post and why these thoughts are non-existent in the world of slavery
non-existent in the world of slavery
non-existent in the world of slavery instead they’re replaced by thoughts
instead they’re replaced by thoughts
instead they’re replaced by thoughts like who are these people and why have
like who are these people and why have
like who are these people and why have they taken me how will I escape plotting
they taken me how will I escape plotting
they taken me how will I escape plotting each and every moment on how to get out
each and every moment on how to get out
each and every moment on how to get out and whom if anyone can I trust but there
and whom if anyone can I trust but there
and whom if anyone can I trust but there are miracles and there are victories and
are miracles and there are victories and
are miracles and there are victories and there are those who escape and I am one
there are those who escape and I am one
there are those who escape and I am one of them I grew up in the two-story house
of them I grew up in the two-story house
of them I grew up in the two-story house in suburbia it was the best Street I
in suburbia it was the best Street I
in suburbia it was the best Street I thought anywhere all the families knew
thought anywhere all the families knew
thought anywhere all the families knew each other all the kids knew each other
each other all the kids knew each other
each other all the kids knew each other but when I was 14 years old my parents
but when I was 14 years old my parents
but when I was 14 years old my parents got a divorce now I’m in a divorce the
got a divorce now I’m in a divorce the
got a divorce now I’m in a divorce the children can kind of get lost because of
children can kind of get lost because of
children can kind of get lost because of the emotions
the emotions
the emotions the transition of the family and I think
the transition of the family and I think
the transition of the family and I think what was neglected for me mostly was my
what was neglected for me mostly was my
what was neglected for me mostly was my future I mean I did really good I got on
future I mean I did really good I got on
future I mean I did really good I got on the Dean’s List but no one asked me what
the Dean’s List but no one asked me what
the Dean’s List but no one asked me what I wanted to do with my life or did I
I wanted to do with my life or did I
I wanted to do with my life or did I want to go to college and so I got jobs
want to go to college and so I got jobs
want to go to college and so I got jobs and I made it through and I had this
and I made it through and I had this
and I made it through and I had this really good job and I worked my way up
really good job and I worked my way up
really good job and I worked my way up and then they had a labor dispute excuse
and then they had a labor dispute excuse
and then they had a labor dispute excuse me I was so stressed out that I went on
me I was so stressed out that I went on
me I was so stressed out that I went on an audition several auditions had no
an audition several auditions had no
an audition several auditions had no dance experience and I went and ended up
dance experience and I went and ended up
dance experience and I went and ended up working for one of the largest fitness
working for one of the largest fitness
working for one of the largest fitness companies now this is a real picture of
companies now this is a real picture of
companies now this is a real picture of the real ad I worked from one of the top
the real ad I worked from one of the top
the real ad I worked from one of the top companies in America as an independent
companies in America as an independent
companies in America as an independent contractor and it was one of the best
contractor and it was one of the best
contractor and it was one of the best times of my life and then I was married
times of my life and then I was married
times of my life and then I was married at the age of 23 now I never planned on
at the age of 23 now I never planned on
at the age of 23 now I never planned on leaving my husband I never wanted to go
leaving my husband I never wanted to go
leaving my husband I never wanted to go through the heartbreak of divorce like
through the heartbreak of divorce like
through the heartbreak of divorce like my parents did so wait for it I married
my parents did so wait for it I married
my parents did so wait for it I married a rock and roll singer
a rock and roll singer
a rock and roll singer I know it’s not the best atmosphere for
I know it’s not the best atmosphere for
I know it’s not the best atmosphere for a relationship but we fell in love and
a relationship but we fell in love and
a relationship but we fell in love and girls he sang to me all the time
girls he sang to me all the time
girls he sang to me all the time it wasn’t fair and so the good days of
it wasn’t fair and so the good days of
it wasn’t fair and so the good days of my marriage were like a dream it was so
my marriage were like a dream it was so
my marriage were like a dream it was so wonderful the bad days when they came
wonderful the bad days when they came
wonderful the bad days when they came and they began to come more often let me
and they began to come more often let me
and they began to come more often let me know that I had to go and after three
know that I had to go and after three
know that I had to go and after three years I divorced my husband yeah that’s
years I divorced my husband yeah that’s
years I divorced my husband yeah that’s him it’s a little blurry but so was the
him it’s a little blurry but so was the
him it’s a little blurry but so was the marriage I just I never planned on
marriage I just I never planned on
marriage I just I never planned on leaving him so here I was I got a
leaving him so here I was I got a
leaving him so here I was I got a divorce and I got hit by a car and then
divorce and I got hit by a car and then
divorce and I got hit by a car and then they told me I couldn’t dance so I lost
they told me I couldn’t dance so I lost
they told me I couldn’t dance so I lost my home I’d lost my marriage and I lost
my home I’d lost my marriage and I lost
my home I’d lost my marriage and I lost my career now I thought I was gonna have
my career now I thought I was gonna have
my career now I thought I was gonna have my career for a long time and I thought
my career for a long time and I thought
my career for a long time and I thought I was gonna have my husband even longer
I was gonna have my husband even longer
I was gonna have my husband even longer so I was devastated and I was so sad and
so I was devastated and I was so sad and
so I was devastated and I was so sad and I didn’t know what to do and I literally
I didn’t know what to do and I literally
I didn’t know what to do and I literally couldn’t eat for like six months I lost
couldn’t eat for like six months I lost
couldn’t eat for like six months I lost so much weight they almost put me in the
so much weight they almost put me in the
so much weight they almost put me in the hospital just didn’t want to eat but I
hospital just didn’t want to eat but I
hospital just didn’t want to eat but I went out with my girlfriends to a rock
went out with my girlfriends to a rock
went out with my girlfriends to a rock and roll Club and it was in our hometown
and roll Club and it was in our hometown
and roll Club and it was in our hometown in suburbia but on the outskirts but
in suburbia but on the outskirts but
in suburbia but on the outskirts but everybody knew each other some famous
everybody knew each other some famous
everybody knew each other some famous people came in and it was really well
people came in and it was really well
people came in and it was really well known but everybody knew each other and
known but everybody knew each other and
known but everybody knew each other and it was kind of family and the girl there
it was kind of family and the girl there
it was kind of family and the girl there that held jam nights she was great I
that held jam nights she was great I
that held jam nights she was great I loved her she became my friend and she
loved her she became my friend and she
loved her she became my friend and she kept wanting me to sing because she knew
kept wanting me to sing because she knew
kept wanting me to sing because she knew I sang with my husband and I thought
I sang with my husband and I thought
I sang with my husband and I thought well I don’t sing that good and I sing
well I don’t sing that good and I sing
well I don’t sing that good and I sing guys songs and my range isn’t that great
guys songs and my range isn’t that great
guys songs and my range isn’t that great and so she took me on as a project and
and so she took me on as a project and
and so she took me on as a project and built up my confidence and I sang with
built up my confidence and I sang with
built up my confidence and I sang with her well one day she called me and she
her well one day she called me and she
her well one day she called me and she said we’re gonna go outside of town 20
said we’re gonna go outside of town 20
said we’re gonna go outside of town 20 minutes away just to the next town to a
minutes away just to the next town to a
minutes away just to the next town to a little bar and we’re gonna hold a new
little bar and we’re gonna hold a new
little bar and we’re gonna hold a new jam night there will you come and sing
jam night there will you come and sing
jam night there will you come and sing with me and I said sure now at this time
with me and I said sure now at this time
with me and I said sure now at this time I was staying with a friend and I had
I was staying with a friend and I had
I was staying with a friend and I had already been spotted and kind of set up
already been spotted and kind of set up
already been spotted and kind of set up and I can’t explain it right now but I’m
and I can’t explain it right now but I’m
and I can’t explain it right now but I’m gonna tell you my first memory of being
gonna tell you my first memory of being
gonna tell you my first memory of being hurt but I want you to know it’s not the
hurt but I want you to know it’s not the
hurt but I want you to know it’s not the first entrance of the first perpetrators
first entrance of the first perpetrators
first entrance of the first perpetrators I learned later on so I knew that I had
I learned later on so I knew that I had
I learned later on so I knew that I had to find a place to live and while I was
to find a place to live and while I was
to find a place to live and while I was at the club singing this new one I was
at the club singing this new one I was
at the club singing this new one I was introduced to this guy they said he was
introduced to this guy they said he was
introduced to this guy they said he was security from one of the top bands that
security from one of the top bands that
security from one of the top bands that was on MTV in their heyday and his great
was on MTV in their heyday and his great
was on MTV in their heyday and his great guy and he’s safe and he has a room and
guy and he’s safe and he has a room and
guy and he’s safe and he has a room and you could stay there for a little while
you could stay there for a little while
you could stay there for a little while so I did and the first night that I
so I did and the first night that I
so I did and the first night that I stayed there I was gang-raped drugged
stayed there I was gang-raped drugged
stayed there I was gang-raped drugged first and filmed now I didn’t know this
first and filmed now I didn’t know this
first and filmed now I didn’t know this at the time I just knew someone had
at the time I just knew someone had
at the time I just knew someone had touched me and that I had to leave so
touched me and that I had to leave so
touched me and that I had to leave so you have something in your system not
you have something in your system not
you have something in your system not from doing drugs but from being drugged
from doing drugs but from being drugged
from doing drugs but from being drugged it’s not like you’re high it’s like they
it’s not like you’re high it’s like they
it’s not like you’re high it’s like they took away your memory from the time you
took away your memory from the time you
took away your memory from the time you went to sleep to the time you woke up so
went to sleep to the time you woke up so
went to sleep to the time you woke up so your bodies and trauma your minds in
your bodies and trauma your minds in
your bodies and trauma your minds in trauma but you don’t remember it you
trauma but you don’t remember it you
trauma but you don’t remember it you just know something
just know something
just know something happened and the next morning they were
happened and the next morning they were
happened and the next morning they were evil they were mocking and talking about
evil they were mocking and talking about
evil they were mocking and talking about sexual things that so I was out the door
sexual things that so I was out the door
sexual things that so I was out the door well you don’t just run home after that
well you don’t just run home after that
well you don’t just run home after that and go tell your family because you
and go tell your family because you
and go tell your family because you don’t know if you’re in danger you know
don’t know if you’re in danger you know
don’t know if you’re in danger you know you obviously are so you I went back to
you obviously are so you I went back to
you obviously are so you I went back to the club to my friends and I said this
the club to my friends and I said this
the club to my friends and I said this is what happened to me and so there were
is what happened to me and so there were
is what happened to me and so there were people there again in this new place
people there again in this new place
people there again in this new place that said look if you’re not okay you
that said look if you’re not okay you
that said look if you’re not okay you can come stay with us till you figure it
can come stay with us till you figure it
can come stay with us till you figure it out same thing he said but I was really
out same thing he said but I was really
out same thing he said but I was really grateful because I wasn’t safe they did
grateful because I wasn’t safe they did
grateful because I wasn’t safe they did the same thing to me
the same thing to me
the same thing to me it happened over and over again it takes
it happened over and over again it takes
it happened over and over again it takes a while when someone is messing with
a while when someone is messing with
a while when someone is messing with your brain and someone has plotted to
your brain and someone has plotted to
your brain and someone has plotted to put you in a situation like this and is
put you in a situation like this and is
put you in a situation like this and is moving you around from place to place
moving you around from place to place
moving you around from place to place and you think you’re just running people
and you think you’re just running people
and you think you’re just running people often say why didn’t you run I did so in
often say why didn’t you run I did so in
often say why didn’t you run I did so in all this I realized I was being raped I
all this I realized I was being raped I
all this I realized I was being raped I was being gang-raped takes a while to
was being gang-raped takes a while to
was being gang-raped takes a while to figure out they’re putting a drug in my
figure out they’re putting a drug in my
figure out they’re putting a drug in my system I don’t know what it is takes me
system I don’t know what it is takes me
system I don’t know what it is takes me a while to figure out a lot of people
a while to figure out a lot of people
a while to figure out a lot of people are watching this and I just thought
are watching this and I just thought
are watching this and I just thought they had heard about it then I realized
they had heard about it then I realized
they had heard about it then I realized okay you’re being filmed but a lot of
okay you’re being filmed but a lot of
okay you’re being filmed but a lot of people are watching because someone’s
people are watching because someone’s
people are watching because someone’s asking me for my autograph because they
asking me for my autograph because they
asking me for my autograph because they think I’m an actress
think I’m an actress
think I’m an actress I was taken as a slave for pornography
I was taken as a slave for pornography
I was taken as a slave for pornography and I have to tell you that the worst
and I have to tell you that the worst
and I have to tell you that the worst part of it for me one of the worst parts
part of it for me one of the worst parts
part of it for me one of the worst parts there was a lot was that I saw the films
there was a lot was that I saw the films
there was a lot was that I saw the films at one point and it not only looked like
at one point and it not only looked like
at one point and it not only looked like I was agreeable but that I was
I was agreeable but that I was
I was agreeable but that I was enthusiastic about it because the
enthusiastic about it because the
enthusiastic about it because the methods of control weren’t just the
methods of control weren’t just the
methods of control weren’t just the drugs I was shocked
drugs I was shocked
drugs I was shocked that the world was not the place I
that the world was not the place I
that the world was not the place I thought it was the darkness was not a
thought it was the darkness was not a
thought it was the darkness was not a distant enemy and I was just beginning
distant enemy and I was just beginning
distant enemy and I was just beginning to get a taste of it so I went for help
to get a taste of it so I went for help
to get a taste of it so I went for help I went to a hospital twice once not in
I went to a hospital twice once not in
I went to a hospital twice once not in the lobby back where a rape victim is
the lobby back where a rape victim is
the lobby back where a rape victim is held here’s a private place for them I
held here’s a private place for them I
held here’s a private place for them I was threatened by a woman that if I
was threatened by a woman that if I
was threatened by a woman that if I spoke she told me what she would do or
spoke she told me what she would do or
spoke she told me what she would do or what would happen to me doctor came in
what would happen to me doctor came in
what would happen to me doctor came in and pulled me out an advocate comes back
and pulled me out an advocate comes back
and pulled me out an advocate comes back and tells me do you realize that you’re
and tells me do you realize that you’re
and tells me do you realize that you’re a victim of a satanic crime I mean like
a victim of a satanic crime I mean like
a victim of a satanic crime I mean like I’m almost dead on the could–it how
I’m almost dead on the could–it how
I’m almost dead on the could–it how could it get worse so I was I looked at
could it get worse so I was I looked at
could it get worse so I was I looked at her in shock and I went no but later on
her in shock and I went no but later on
her in shock and I went no but later on I did see it I saw it a lot and I saw a
I did see it I saw it a lot and I saw a
I did see it I saw it a lot and I saw a lot of stuff but I also went to the
lot of stuff but I also went to the
lot of stuff but I also went to the police I was told they were involved I
police I was told they were involved I
police I was told they were involved I was told they would arrest me I was told
was told they would arrest me I was told
was told they would arrest me I was told some worse things found out it was true
some worse things found out it was true
some worse things found out it was true they wouldn’t help me I went to a
they wouldn’t help me I went to a
they wouldn’t help me I went to a private doctor to find out what drug was
private doctor to find out what drug was
private doctor to find out what drug was being put in my system if I lied about
being put in my system if I lied about
being put in my system if I lied about what was wrong with me he would help me
what was wrong with me he would help me
what was wrong with me he would help me but he seemed scared not involved I went
but he seemed scared not involved I went
but he seemed scared not involved I went to a women’s organization that helps
to a women’s organization that helps
to a women’s organization that helps women that are sexually assaulted three
women that are sexually assaulted three
women that are sexually assaulted three times they were involved no help
times they were involved no help
times they were involved no help wouldn’t even speak to me so you’re
wouldn’t even speak to me so you’re
wouldn’t even speak to me so you’re probably thinking what this is America
probably thinking what this is America
probably thinking what this is America how could this happen well that’s
how could this happen well that’s
how could this happen well that’s exactly what I was thinking
exactly what I was thinking
exactly what I was thinking can you imagine that moment thinking the
can you imagine that moment thinking the
can you imagine that moment thinking the police won’t help you no one will help
police won’t help you no one will help
police won’t help you no one will help you
so I thought about some things that I
so I thought about some things that I could tell you that I’ve learned that
could tell you that I’ve learned that
could tell you that I’ve learned that might be of a little help and one of
might be of a little help and one of
might be of a little help and one of them is you know I think older people
them is you know I think older people
them is you know I think older people would agree that in hindsight you see
would agree that in hindsight you see
would agree that in hindsight you see trouble coming
trouble coming
trouble coming that’s about red flags now I’m not
that’s about red flags now I’m not
that’s about red flags now I’m not saying that I saw it coming or you would
saying that I saw it coming or you would
saying that I saw it coming or you would ever expect this in your whole life or
ever expect this in your whole life or
ever expect this in your whole life or that someone basically I was taken
that someone basically I was taken
that someone basically I was taken basically that’s kidnapping any
basically that’s kidnapping any
basically that’s kidnapping any kidnapping victim that’s trafficked or a
kidnapping victim that’s trafficked or a
kidnapping victim that’s trafficked or a girl at a college party who’s drugged
girl at a college party who’s drugged
girl at a college party who’s drugged doesn’t mean they knew that it was going
doesn’t mean they knew that it was going
doesn’t mean they knew that it was going to happen to them but there are some
to happen to them but there are some
to happen to them but there are some cases in human trafficking where you may
cases in human trafficking where you may
cases in human trafficking where you may see red flags one of them would be maybe
see red flags one of them would be maybe
see red flags one of them would be maybe someone romancing you online or
someone romancing you online or
someone romancing you online or in-person kind of shows up charming may
in-person kind of shows up charming may
in-person kind of shows up charming may be good-looking this could be a guy or a
be good-looking this could be a guy or a
be good-looking this could be a guy or a girl and they come on strong they move
girl and they come on strong they move
girl and they come on strong they move fast and all I can tell you is is that I
fast and all I can tell you is is that I
fast and all I can tell you is is that I understand the desire for love but don’t
understand the desire for love but don’t
understand the desire for love but don’t ignore red flag is because you want love
ignore red flag is because you want love
ignore red flag is because you want love it can destroy your life and love will
it can destroy your life and love will
it can destroy your life and love will take its time another red flag would be
take its time another red flag would be
take its time another red flag would be a job that’s too good to be true
a job that’s too good to be true
a job that’s too good to be true do you realize that I almost got traffic
do you realize that I almost got traffic
do you realize that I almost got traffic twice besides this whole story from job
twice besides this whole story from job
twice besides this whole story from job interviews it’s crazy out there so all I
interviews it’s crazy out there so all I
interviews it’s crazy out there so all I want to tell you is is make sure I mean
want to tell you is is make sure I mean
want to tell you is is make sure I mean I had a college student one girl I
I had a college student one girl I
I had a college student one girl I worked with she was a college graduate
worked with she was a college graduate
worked with she was a college graduate went for a job in Texas taken a girl who
went for a job in Texas taken a girl who
went for a job in Texas taken a girl who went for to a barbecue at her friend’s
went for to a barbecue at her friend’s
went for to a barbecue at her friend’s house her friend’s uncle’s house he was
house her friend’s uncle’s house he was
house her friend’s uncle’s house he was a trafficker taken so I’m not saying
a trafficker taken so I’m not saying
a trafficker taken so I’m not saying that everywhere you go you have to be
that everywhere you go you have to be
that everywhere you go you have to be freaked out about it but I’m saying that
freaked out about it but I’m saying that
freaked out about it but I’m saying that don’t ignore the red flags make sure
don’t ignore the red flags make sure
don’t ignore the red flags make sure people know where you’re at where you’re
people know where you’re at where you’re
people know where you’re at where you’re going and who you’re talking to hope
going and who you’re talking to hope
going and who you’re talking to hope never let anyone tell you there’s no
never let anyone tell you there’s no
never let anyone tell you there’s no hope if you were hurt or someone else’s
hope if you were hurt or someone else’s
hope if you were hurt or someone else’s you go somewhere and they say we can’t
you go somewhere and they say we can’t
you go somewhere and they say we can’t help you or we don’t know what you’re
help you or we don’t know what you’re
help you or we don’t know what you’re talking about
talking about
talking about or there’s nothing we can do keep going
or there’s nothing we can do keep going
or there’s nothing we can do keep going go to somebody else if they say no go to
go to somebody else if they say no go to
go to somebody else if they say no go to somebody else and when it comes to
somebody else and when it comes to
somebody else and when it comes to yourself and others I’m going to give
yourself and others I’m going to give
yourself and others I’m going to give you a little more information in a
you a little more information in a
you a little more information in a minute community is your best
minute community is your best
minute community is your best community a lot of criminals don’t want
community a lot of criminals don’t want
community a lot of criminals don’t want to be around someone who’s got so many
to be around someone who’s got so many
to be around someone who’s got so many friends and family connected to them
friends and family connected to them
friends and family connected to them that they’re gonna be looking for them
that they’re gonna be looking for them
that they’re gonna be looking for them and want to know what’s going on so your
and want to know what’s going on so your
and want to know what’s going on so your family church school whatever group
family church school whatever group
family church school whatever group you’re in those are your best defenses
you’re in those are your best defenses
you’re in those are your best defenses however kidnappers really don’t care
however kidnappers really don’t care
however kidnappers really don’t care about that stuff so the other thing was
about that stuff so the other thing was
about that stuff so the other thing was don’t be afraid of a bad story and not
don’t be afraid of a bad story and not
don’t be afraid of a bad story and not by bad I mean severe like this one one
by bad I mean severe like this one one
by bad I mean severe like this one one where someone’s been through a lot of
where someone’s been through a lot of
where someone’s been through a lot of trauma because when you just listen to
trauma because when you just listen to
trauma because when you just listen to them that’s there it’s so happy that
them that’s there it’s so happy that
them that’s there it’s so happy that someone’s listening but not only that
someone’s listening but not only that
someone’s listening but not only that they’re the smartest people they have
they’re the smartest people they have
they’re the smartest people they have wisdom they have a capacity for love
wisdom they have a capacity for love
wisdom they have a capacity for love that you can’t believe I talked to
that you can’t believe I talked to
that you can’t believe I talked to traumatized people all the time and they
traumatized people all the time and they
traumatized people all the time and they are they’ve learned a lot and they’re
are they’ve learned a lot and they’re
are they’ve learned a lot and they’re great people and so those are the
great people and so those are the
great people and so those are the treasures in the darkness don’t be
treasures in the darkness don’t be
treasures in the darkness don’t be afraid of that I want you to repeat
afraid of that I want you to repeat
afraid of that I want you to repeat after me okay okay okay I have the right
after me okay okay okay I have the right
after me okay okay okay I have the right to be safe everyone has the right to be
to be safe everyone has the right to be
to be safe everyone has the right to be safe
no one has the right to devalue you or
no one has the right to devalue you or anyone else that’s what happens in
anyone else that’s what happens in
anyone else that’s what happens in pornography it is one of the most used
pornography it is one of the most used
pornography it is one of the most used vehicles to promote trafficking because
vehicles to promote trafficking because
vehicles to promote trafficking because the men want to act out what they’re
the men want to act out what they’re
the men want to act out what they’re seeing on film and they use it in other
seeing on film and they use it in other
seeing on film and they use it in other ways also so there’s the thing called
ways also so there’s the thing called
ways also so there’s the thing called the social cost of pornography and it
the social cost of pornography and it
the social cost of pornography and it was an overview by the top people in in
was an overview by the top people in in
was an overview by the top people in in every um in every field psychiatry
every um in every field psychiatry
every um in every field psychiatry psychology law neurophysiology and this
psychology law neurophysiology and this
psychology law neurophysiology and this is a quote that they found and I want to
is a quote that they found and I want to
is a quote that they found and I want to read this to you borne viewers developed
read this to you borne viewers developed
read this to you borne viewers developed new maps in their brains based on photos
new maps in their brains based on photos
new maps in their brains based on photos and videos they see they compare it to
and videos they see they compare it to
and videos they see they compare it to rats in the cages of the National
rats in the cages of the National
rats in the cages of the National Institute of Health pressing the bar to
Institute of Health pressing the bar to
Institute of Health pressing the bar to get a shot of dopamine though the viewer
get a shot of dopamine though the viewer
get a shot of dopamine though the viewer doesn’t know it they have been trained
doesn’t know it they have been trained
doesn’t know it they have been trained and seduced into training sessions and
and seduced into training sessions and
and seduced into training sessions and they meet the conditions required for
they meet the conditions required for
they meet the conditions required for remapping their brain there’s also a
remapping their brain there’s also a
remapping their brain there’s also a Princeton University study they did MRI
Princeton University study they did MRI
Princeton University study they did MRI scans on men watching porn and I don’t
scans on men watching porn and I don’t
scans on men watching porn and I don’t know who volunteered for this seriously
know who volunteered for this seriously
know who volunteered for this seriously but I guess we should thank them because
but I guess we should thank them because
but I guess we should thank them because because they found out that men looked
because they found out that men looked
because they found out that men looked at the women more as objects but this
at the women more as objects but this
at the women more as objects but this isn’t an ethical perspective this was
isn’t an ethical perspective this was
isn’t an ethical perspective this was the part of their brain that looks at an
the part of their brain that looks at an
the part of their brain that looks at an object was lit up the part of their
object was lit up the part of their
object was lit up the part of their brain which is different that looks at a
brain which is different that looks at a
brain which is different that looks at a human being was silent it was changing
human being was silent it was changing
human being was silent it was changing their brain there is two other
their brain there is two other
their brain there is two other scientific things that came up about
scientific things that came up about
scientific things that came up about porn about changing the brain and the
porn about changing the brain and the
porn about changing the brain and the chemistry in the body and so I’m not
chemistry in the body and so I’m not
chemistry in the body and so I’m not bringing this up to say what are you
bringing this up to say what are you
bringing this up to say what are you watching and but I’m bringing this up to
watching and but I’m bringing this up to
watching and but I’m bringing this up to let you know and I’ve had men be really
let you know and I’ve had men be really
let you know and I’ve had men be really thankful for this because I believe this
thankful for this because I believe this
thankful for this because I believe this makes you a slave just as much as the
makes you a slave just as much as the
makes you a slave just as much as the victim of trafficking so who are you
victim of trafficking so who are you
victim of trafficking so who are you hanging out with you know they say when
hanging out with you know they say when
hanging out with you know they say when you’re young you
you’re young you
you’re young you parents will say be careful who you hang
parents will say be careful who you hang
parents will say be careful who you hang out with it could change your life don’t
out with it could change your life don’t
out with it could change your life don’t hang out with the wrong people well the
hang out with the wrong people well the
hang out with the wrong people well the Internet is a place to hang out
Internet is a place to hang out
Internet is a place to hang out and besides pornography there’s sites
and besides pornography there’s sites
and besides pornography there’s sites like kik a twelve-year-old girl I get a
like kik a twelve-year-old girl I get a
like kik a twelve-year-old girl I get a call from her grandmother the father
call from her grandmother the father
call from her grandmother the father found out she’d been talking to a boy
found out she’d been talking to a boy
found out she’d been talking to a boy she thought was a boy it was a grown man
she thought was a boy it was a grown man
she thought was a boy it was a grown man from Dubai locating her pictures with
from Dubai locating her pictures with
from Dubai locating her pictures with her school and everything else on it
her school and everything else on it
her school and everything else on it wanting to take off with her is what I
wanting to take off with her is what I
wanting to take off with her is what I was assuming from the phone call they
was assuming from the phone call they
was assuming from the phone call they had to shut it down quick she was almost
had to shut it down quick she was almost
had to shut it down quick she was almost gone the purpose of evil is either to
gone the purpose of evil is either to
gone the purpose of evil is either to make you a victim or a perpetrator it
make you a victim or a perpetrator it
make you a victim or a perpetrator it wants to numb you to the pain of another
wants to numb you to the pain of another
wants to numb you to the pain of another person and it wants to distance you from
person and it wants to distance you from
person and it wants to distance you from your own humanity but there are there’s
your own humanity but there are there’s
your own humanity but there are there’s more than one power in this world and so
more than one power in this world and so
more than one power in this world and so when I heard about oh it’s a satanic
when I heard about oh it’s a satanic
when I heard about oh it’s a satanic crime the first thing I thought of was
crime the first thing I thought of was
crime the first thing I thought of was this picture next to my bed when I was a
this picture next to my bed when I was a
this picture next to my bed when I was a little girl that I asked my mom to buy
little girl that I asked my mom to buy
little girl that I asked my mom to buy for me I had this picture for ever and
for me I had this picture for ever and
for me I had this picture for ever and it was of Jesus holding one sheep and I
it was of Jesus holding one sheep and I
it was of Jesus holding one sheep and I thought if this guy’s real then this guy
thought if this guy’s real then this guy
thought if this guy’s real then this guy is real and that’s where I went and it
is real and that’s where I went and it
is real and that’s where I went and it wasn’t easy and it took a long time but
wasn’t easy and it took a long time but
wasn’t easy and it took a long time but what I learned was that these powers are
what I learned was that these powers are
what I learned was that these powers are not equal love and goodness is stronger
not equal love and goodness is stronger
not equal love and goodness is stronger and it seems passive because it asks you
and it seems passive because it asks you
and it seems passive because it asks you to forgive it says don’t exchange evil
to forgive it says don’t exchange evil
to forgive it says don’t exchange evil for evil but I’m telling you when you’re
for evil but I’m telling you when you’re
for evil but I’m telling you when you’re obedient to that there’s a power that
obedient to that there’s a power that
obedient to that there’s a power that rises up and love takes care of you so
rises up and love takes care of you so
rises up and love takes care of you so we have a plan we are not going to have
we have a plan we are not going to have
we have a plan we are not going to have a cult a rape culture as they call it
a cult a rape culture as they call it
a cult a rape culture as they call it where middle school high school college
where middle school high school college
where middle school high school college girls have to be afraid of being raped
girls have to be afraid of being raped
girls have to be afraid of being raped and the school won’t stand up for them
and the school won’t stand up for them
and the school won’t stand up for them where did we hear about that right
where did we hear about that right
where did we hear about that right across the street what happened you guys
across the street what happened you guys
across the street what happened you guys the public spoke up
the public spoke up
the public spoke up got on social media and I’m telling you
got on social media and I’m telling you
got on social media and I’m telling you no matter what happened that judge and
no matter what happened that judge and
no matter what happened that judge and that victim were changed by your
that victim were changed by your
that victim were changed by your presence it made a difference and that’s
presence it made a difference and that’s
presence it made a difference and that’s what I’m asking you to do is to make a
what I’m asking you to do is to make a
what I’m asking you to do is to make a difference and I’m asking you to do this
difference and I’m asking you to do this
difference and I’m asking you to do this for rape victims because when you allow
for rape victims because when you allow
for rape victims because when you allow that in your culture you’re opening the
that in your culture you’re opening the
that in your culture you’re opening the door you’re not safe either so this is a
door you’re not safe either so this is a
door you’re not safe either so this is a community that cares in a support system
community that cares in a support system
community that cares in a support system I’m gonna give you a phone number this
I’m gonna give you a phone number this
I’m gonna give you a phone number this is the National Human Trafficking
is the National Human Trafficking
is the National Human Trafficking hotline it is not the police
hotline it is not the police
hotline it is not the police you can call anonymously if you see
you can call anonymously if you see
you can call anonymously if you see somebody you think maybe they’re a
somebody you think maybe they’re a
somebody you think maybe they’re a victim or someone says I need help or
victim or someone says I need help or
victim or someone says I need help or you need help you can call them put this
you need help you can call them put this
you need help you can call them put this on your cell phone now or write it down
on your cell phone now or write it down
on your cell phone now or write it down it is one eight eight eight three seven
it is one eight eight eight three seven
it is one eight eight eight three seven three seven eight eight eight I want to
three seven eight eight eight I want to
three seven eight eight eight I want to ask my volunteers from the high school
ask my volunteers from the high school
ask my volunteers from the high school across the bay to stand up which you
across the bay to stand up which you
across the bay to stand up which you guys wear you guys can you guys stand up
guys wear you guys can you guys stand up
guys wear you guys can you guys stand up wherever you’re at would you look at
wherever you’re at would you look at
wherever you’re at would you look at them if you know of a victim or you just
them if you know of a victim or you just
them if you know of a victim or you just need help or you have any questions or
need help or you have any questions or
need help or you have any questions or want to contact me go to them on your
want to contact me go to them on your
want to contact me go to them on your way out to lunch see where they’re
way out to lunch see where they’re
way out to lunch see where they’re sitting and they’ll give you my contact
sitting and they’ll give you my contact
sitting and they’ll give you my contact information thank you and I just want to
information thank you and I just want to
information thank you and I just want to tell you that first of all thank you for
tell you that first of all thank you for
tell you that first of all thank you for acknowledging me as a trailblazer
acknowledging me as a trailblazer
acknowledging me as a trailblazer because it can get messy at times and
because it can get messy at times and
because it can get messy at times and not because Trailblazers do things
not because Trailblazers do things
not because Trailblazers do things haphazardly but because when you push
haphazardly but because when you push
haphazardly but because when you push the envelope and you shake the applecart
the envelope and you shake the applecart
the envelope and you shake the applecart or rearrange the furniture people get
or rearrange the furniture people get
or rearrange the furniture people get shook up they can get afraid they can
shook up they can get afraid they can
shook up they can get afraid they can get angry they can even discourage you
get angry they can even discourage you
get angry they can even discourage you with good intentions but I promise you
with good intentions but I promise you
with good intentions but I promise you if you stand your ground and you endure
if you stand your ground and you endure
if you stand your ground and you endure you will accomplish what you set out to
you will accomplish what you set out to
you will accomplish what you set out to do thank you so much for having me
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