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and yes I did the math because i have a

and yes I did the math because i have a nerdy girl i am such a nerdy girl that I

nerdy girl i am such a nerdy girl that I

nerdy girl i am such a nerdy girl that I was on the slide rule between in high

was on the slide rule between in high

was on the slide rule between in high school and I know if I say the word

school and I know if I say the word

school and I know if I say the word slide rule I’m dating myself but I was

slide rule I’m dating myself but I was

slide rule I’m dating myself but I was dating myself in high school so some

dating myself in high school so some

dating myself in high school so some things but we have so much pressure to

things but we have so much pressure to

things but we have so much pressure to behave in a certain manner when we see

behave in a certain manner when we see

behave in a certain manner when we see somebody that we like shake a hand even

somebody that we like shake a hand even

somebody that we like shake a hand even though the American Medical Association

though the American Medical Association

though the American Medical Association was told this in Tibet is the worst

was told this in Tibet is the worst

was told this in Tibet is the worst thing you could possibly do to somebody

thing you could possibly do to somebody

thing you could possibly do to somebody because you’re sharing your colors with

because you’re sharing your colors with

because you’re sharing your colors with germs but if doing this it’s not a

germs but if doing this it’s not a

germs but if doing this it’s not a possibility what are we doing I am

possibility what are we doing I am

possibility what are we doing I am blessed with people who are adults or

blessed with people who are adults or

blessed with people who are adults or seem to be adults physiologically and

seem to be adults physiologically and

seem to be adults physiologically and yet they still remember how to play

yet they still remember how to play

yet they still remember how to play that’s because when I meet people who

that’s because when I meet people who

that’s because when I meet people who have a sense of joy and childishness to

have a sense of joy and childishness to

have a sense of joy and childishness to them I stop them until they take it in

them I stop them until they take it in

them I stop them until they take it in green be my friends it’s a good policy

green be my friends it’s a good policy

green be my friends it’s a good policy for me Bob and so I have several of my

for me Bob and so I have several of my

for me Bob and so I have several of my friends what they regularly shoot for

friends what they regularly shoot for

friends what they regularly shoot for play my friend melody is part of a

play my friend melody is part of a

play my friend melody is part of a zombie flash mob and they regularly

zombie flash mob and they regularly

zombie flash mob and they regularly dance to a number of different songs not

dance to a number of different songs not

dance to a number of different songs not just Michael Jackson’s thrillers while

just Michael Jackson’s thrillers while

just Michael Jackson’s thrillers while dressed up in costumes often as zombies

dressed up in costumes often as zombies

dressed up in costumes often as zombies and that would be categorized as I am

and that would be categorized as I am

and that would be categorized as I am friend Jodie much to hike as many

friend Jodie much to hike as many

friend Jodie much to hike as many this they do but she likes to hide in

this they do but she likes to hide in

this they do but she likes to hide in costume and she sent me a picture of her

costume and she sent me a picture of her

costume and she sent me a picture of her and a friend dressed as giant bananas up

and a friend dressed as giant bananas up

and a friend dressed as giant bananas up in the mountain trail come around the

in the mountain trail come around the

in the mountain trail come around the bend and we think you’re out of it you

bend and we think you’re out of it you

bend and we think you’re out of it you came out of loose the nation that will

came out of loose the nation that will

came out of loose the nation that will just be a friend of mine my friend

just be a friend of mine my friend

just be a friend of mine my friend Jennifer night one of the ways that we

Jennifer night one of the ways that we

Jennifer night one of the ways that we bonded is we both love hula-hooping she

bonded is we both love hula-hooping she

bonded is we both love hula-hooping she takes her with her wherever she goes and

takes her with her wherever she goes and

takes her with her wherever she goes and I taught gerunds and infinitives to the

I taught gerunds and infinitives to the

I taught gerunds and infinitives to the grammar class at the School of

grammar class at the School of

grammar class at the School of Journalism and communications while hulu

Journalism and communications while hulu

Journalism and communications while hulu I’m pretty sure those students never

I’m pretty sure those students never

I’m pretty sure those students never forget that lesson on jared’s and

forget that lesson on jared’s and

forget that lesson on jared’s and evidence because of the boat and I got

evidence because of the boat and I got

evidence because of the boat and I got to have fun while I was doing it so

to have fun while I was doing it so

to have fun while I was doing it so there are people who understand it but

there are people who understand it but

there are people who understand it but mostly the people who understand the

mostly the people who understand the

mostly the people who understand the value of play or the children love that

value of play or the children love that

value of play or the children love that kind of are the children and not the

kind of are the children and not the

kind of are the children and not the adults and so we want to start moving in

adults and so we want to start moving in

adults and so we want to start moving in the direction of how do we get to be

the direction of how do we get to be

the direction of how do we get to be more childlike so in my life as a

more childlike so in my life as a

more childlike so in my life as a speaker who talks about humor and stress

speaker who talks about humor and stress

speaker who talks about humor and stress management there he finished statistic

management there he finished statistic

management there he finished statistic out in the ether that said the average

out in the ether that said the average

out in the ether that said the average American child laughs 150 to 200 times a

American child laughs 150 to 200 times a

American child laughs 150 to 200 times a day and I discovered there was no

day and I discovered there was no

day and I discovered there was no research

research

research and being very girl i decided i need to

and being very girl i decided i need to

and being very girl i decided i need to do the research so i got permission from

do the research so i got permission from

do the research so i got permission from wayne county head start in the parents

wayne county head start in the parents

wayne county head start in the parents of the students at Lane County head

of the students at Lane County head

of the students at Lane County head start to follow three four and five year

start to follow three four and five year

start to follow three four and five year olds around for the day what are the

olds around for the day what are the

olds around for the day what are the best experiences I a member and a little

best experiences I a member and a little

best experiences I a member and a little four-year-old boy asked me on a date to

four-year-old boy asked me on a date to

four-year-old boy asked me on a date to play Legos at it out that’s the closest

play Legos at it out that’s the closest

play Legos at it out that’s the closest I come dating in the past eight years

I come dating in the past eight years

I come dating in the past eight years almost took it up on it and I followed

almost took it up on it and I followed

almost took it up on it and I followed them and every time they laughed I made

them and every time they laughed I made

them and every time they laughed I made a note of it and I noted what they were

a note of it and I noted what they were

a note of it and I noted what they were doing at the time and then i

doing at the time and then i

doing at the time and then i extrapolated because i am a dirty girl

extrapolated because i am a dirty girl

extrapolated because i am a dirty girl to the number of hours their parents

to the number of hours their parents

to the number of hours their parents said that they were usually up and it

said that they were usually up and it

said that they were usually up and it came out than 150 to 200 times a day is

came out than 150 to 200 times a day is

came out than 150 to 200 times a day is approximately right and this is not for

approximately right and this is not for

approximately right and this is not for every three four and five year old but

every three four and five year old but

every three four and five year old but most three four five year old or

most three four five year old or

most three four five year old or laughing a lot and what do you think

laughing a lot and what do you think

laughing a lot and what do you think they were laughing what were they doing

they were laughing what were they doing

they were laughing what were they doing when they were laughing they were

when they were laughing they were

when they were laughing they were playing they were not telling jokes we

playing they were not telling jokes we

playing they were not telling jokes we have this belief in our mind that

have this belief in our mind that

have this belief in our mind that laughter comes from something is funny

laughter comes from something is funny

laughter comes from something is funny do you know that only thirty percent of

do you know that only thirty percent of

do you know that only thirty percent of the reasons we laugh have to do with

the reasons we laugh have to do with

the reasons we laugh have to do with anything being perceived as funny by our

anything being perceived as funny by our

anything being perceived as funny by our brains and so we can tap into that other

brains and so we can tap into that other

brains and so we can tap into that other seventy percent which comes from play

seventy percent which comes from play

seventy percent which comes from play and social body which also happens when

and social body which also happens when

and social body which also happens when we’re playing with other people so they

we’re playing with other people so they

we’re playing with other people so they were playing 150 to 200 last day what do

were playing 150 to 200 last day what do

were playing 150 to 200 last day what do you think it is for grown-ups it is 15

you think it is for grown-ups it is 15

you think it is for grown-ups it is 15 the constellations is that high as I

the constellations is that high as I

the constellations is that high as I bring your average up

bring your average up

bring your average up and that is a lot of weight to carry on

and that is a lot of weight to carry on

and that is a lot of weight to carry on my shoulders on days when maybe I fall

my shoulders on days when maybe I fall

my shoulders on days when maybe I fall behind a little bit people actually did

behind a little bit people actually did

behind a little bit people actually did this study they follow the sales of

this study they follow the sales of

this study they follow the sales of american adults around i’m glad that i

american adults around i’m glad that i

american adults around i’m glad that i followed the children it was probably a

followed the children it was probably a

followed the children it was probably a lot less boring and they follow them

lot less boring and they follow them

lot less boring and they follow them around for a week and they calculated

around for a week and they calculated

around for a week and they calculated how often people laugh and there were

how often people laugh and there were

how often people laugh and there were forty percent of the people in this

forty percent of the people in this

forty percent of the people in this study lab zero to three times a day and

study lab zero to three times a day and

study lab zero to three times a day and it was the people the ten percent of the

it was the people the ten percent of the

it was the people the ten percent of the people like me last 90 times a day or

people like me last 90 times a day or

people like me last 90 times a day or more who skewed the meat and so when I

more who skewed the meat and so when I

more who skewed the meat and so when I ask you that question you think well

ask you that question you think well

ask you that question you think well it’s too or it’s fine for its twenty

it’s too or it’s fine for its twenty

it’s too or it’s fine for its twenty that’s probably the situation that

that’s probably the situation that

that’s probably the situation that you’re in and you’ll probably mitigate

you’re in and you’ll probably mitigate

you’re in and you’ll probably mitigate that level of laughter and one of the

that level of laughter and one of the

that level of laughter and one of the easiest ways to move us in the direction

easiest ways to move us in the direction

easiest ways to move us in the direction of getting more laps is to move us in

of getting more laps is to move us in

of getting more laps is to move us in the direction of being more playful as

the direction of being more playful as

the direction of being more playful as well so where are my parents raise your

well so where are my parents raise your

well so where are my parents raise your hand if you’re a parent okay excellent

hand if you’re a parent okay excellent

hand if you’re a parent okay excellent grandparents okay so you all understand

grandparents okay so you all understand

grandparents okay so you all understand the value of claim for children right we

the value of claim for children right we

the value of claim for children right we have it it’s it’s in what we are is

have it it’s it’s in what we are is

have it it’s it’s in what we are is parental units I am a canine parental

parental units I am a canine parental

parental units I am a canine parental unit unit in person but I also

unit unit in person but I also

unit unit in person but I also understand that I in place that too so

understand that I in place that too so

understand that I in place that too so play for small children helps with

play for small children helps with

play for small children helps with mental development it helps with

mental development it helps with

mental development it helps with physical development it helps with

physical development it helps with

physical development it helps with social bonding building friendship

social bonding building friendship

social bonding building friendship networks and creating boundaries it does

networks and creating boundaries it does

networks and creating boundaries it does all of those things for grownups too it

all of those things for grownups too it

all of those things for grownups too it also when your adult helps you build

also when your adult helps you build

also when your adult helps you build flexibility and resilience and

flexibility and resilience and

flexibility and resilience and creativity

creativity

creativity thinking outside of your usual comfort

thinking outside of your usual comfort

thinking outside of your usual comfort zone and it does so many amazing things

zone and it does so many amazing things

zone and it does so many amazing things and one of them is it increases your

and one of them is it increases your

and one of them is it increases your willingness to take risk and when we’re

willingness to take risk and when we’re

willingness to take risk and when we’re not willing to take risk our lives are

not willing to take risk our lives are

not willing to take risk our lives are so very limited to the little runt we

so very limited to the little runt we

so very limited to the little runt we have drawn for ourselves on the ground

have drawn for ourselves on the ground

have drawn for ourselves on the ground our entire lives and we really the step

our entire lives and we really the step

our entire lives and we really the step out of that and do something crazy like

out of that and do something crazy like

out of that and do something crazy like I dressed myself this morning can you

I dressed myself this morning can you

I dressed myself this morning can you tell me looks like a five and a half

tell me looks like a five and a half

tell me looks like a five and a half year old did that so we need to aspire

year old did that so we need to aspire

year old did that so we need to aspire to do that the crazy thing is that every

to do that the crazy thing is that every

to do that the crazy thing is that every study done so far has found that there

study done so far has found that there

study done so far has found that there is no species that does not have a left

is no species that does not have a left

is no species that does not have a left replacements and if you have dogs if you

replacements and if you have dogs if you

replacements and if you have dogs if you have cats if you had bird I have koi

have cats if you had bird I have koi

have cats if you had bird I have koi fish I know with my oh my gosh a

fish I know with my oh my gosh a

fish I know with my oh my gosh a plateful my of one watch it jumps up out

plateful my of one watch it jumps up out

plateful my of one watch it jumps up out of the water enjoy where this river eyes

of the water enjoy where this river eyes

of the water enjoy where this river eyes we have a last play response because

we have a last play response because

we have a last play response because laughter plague has a biological

laughter plague has a biological

laughter plague has a biological function and that is so kind and if

function and that is so kind and if

function and that is so kind and if we’re not playing enough we’re not

we’re not playing enough we’re not

we’re not playing enough we’re not laughing enough and if we’re not

laughing enough and if we’re not

laughing enough and if we’re not laughing and if we’re not venting our

laughing and if we’re not venting our

laughing and if we’re not venting our stressful energy let’s go bad we can let

stressful energy let’s go bad we can let

stressful energy let’s go bad we can let them go more quickly if we can find the

them go more quickly if we can find the

them go more quickly if we can find the playful side of that so we need to be

playful side of that so we need to be

playful side of that so we need to be doing that more so let me tell you what

doing that more so let me tell you what

doing that more so let me tell you what I think play is because many of you may

I think play is because many of you may

I think play is because many of you may think you’re playing and I may disagree

think you’re playing and I may disagree

think you’re playing and I may disagree off maybe you may play words with

off maybe you may play words with

off maybe you may play words with friends or tennis or candy crush or a

friends or tennis or candy crush or a

friends or tennis or candy crush or a bridge for example that would not follow

bridge for example that would not follow

bridge for example that would not follow my

my

my definition of place so I have to come up

definition of place so I have to come up

definition of place so I have to come up with a 4-letter acronym for play and it

with a 4-letter acronym for play and it

with a 4-letter acronym for play and it spells out the P stands for physical and

spells out the P stands for physical and

spells out the P stands for physical and my definition of physical means you must

my definition of physical means you must

my definition of physical means you must use your body in a way that you are

use your body in a way that you are

use your body in a way that you are unaccustomed to using that brings you

unaccustomed to using that brings you

unaccustomed to using that brings you joy so that means play tennis even

joy so that means play tennis even

joy so that means play tennis even though it’s physical you’re a custom you

though it’s physical you’re a custom you

though it’s physical you’re a custom you know the moves you practice the moves

know the moves you practice the moves

know the moves you practice the moves that doesn’t fit as play there’s an old

that doesn’t fit as play there’s an old

that doesn’t fit as play there’s an old Calvin and Hobbes cartoon and I will

Calvin and Hobbes cartoon and I will

Calvin and Hobbes cartoon and I will summarize it and Calvin comes up to his

summarize it and Calvin comes up to his

summarize it and Calvin comes up to his daddy says dad why don’t grown-ups play

daddy says dad why don’t grown-ups play

daddy says dad why don’t grown-ups play and dances well we do we just call it

and dances well we do we just call it

and dances well we do we just call it working out and we have to keep notes on

working out and we have to keep notes on

working out and we have to keep notes on how well we’re doing towards achieving

how well we’re doing towards achieving

how well we’re doing towards achieving our goals and counted so you just take

our goals and counted so you just take

our goals and counted so you just take place take all the fun out of it and

place take all the fun out of it and

place take all the fun out of it and basically that’s where to me the

basically that’s where to me the

basically that’s where to me the difference is between play and work and

difference is between play and work and

difference is between play and work and think about how many things in your life

think about how many things in your life

think about how many things in your life with the word work on people always tell

with the word work on people always tell

with the word work on people always tell me where your workshop is I going to

me where your workshop is I going to

me where your workshop is I going to know my place shoppings because I don’t

know my place shoppings because I don’t

know my place shoppings because I don’t want to do any more work i’m going to do

want to do any more work i’m going to do

want to do any more work i’m going to do some play and we want to be physical in

some play and we want to be physical in

some play and we want to be physical in a way the challenges our bodies so I

a way the challenges our bodies so I

a way the challenges our bodies so I teach improv class and it implies one

teach improv class and it implies one

teach improv class and it implies one minute you could be an octopus learning

minute you could be an octopus learning

minute you could be an octopus learning to knit

a superhero name kitten woman loses

a superhero name kitten woman loses superpowers are shredding the Drake

superpowers are shredding the Drake

superpowers are shredding the Drake reason going that is the kind of play

reason going that is the kind of play

reason going that is the kind of play that we’re talking about we want to get

that we’re talking about we want to get

that we’re talking about we want to get physical do you know that one of the

physical do you know that one of the

physical do you know that one of the best ways to get more muscle memory to

best ways to get more muscle memory to

best ways to get more muscle memory to remember what it was like to be a

remember what it was like to be a

remember what it was like to be a fighter no business that’s all it took

fighter no business that’s all it took

fighter no business that’s all it took you’re down at the eye level of five

you’re down at the eye level of five

you’re down at the eye level of five year where do you get when you breathe a

year where do you get when you breathe a

year where do you get when you breathe a small child or a dog and in what

small child or a dog and in what

small child or a dog and in what attitude are you when you greet a small

attitude are you when you greet a small

attitude are you when you greet a small child or don’t so go to the point

child or don’t so go to the point

child or don’t so go to the point imagine going into a retailer gonna

imagine going into a retailer gonna

imagine going into a retailer gonna change everything so physical we want to

change everything so physical we want to

change everything so physical we want to be physical in a way that is

be physical in a way that is

be physical in a way that is uncomfortable now when I say physical I

uncomfortable now when I say physical I

uncomfortable now when I say physical I mean from head to toe your eyebrows are

mean from head to toe your eyebrows are

mean from head to toe your eyebrows are part of your face how many how often

part of your face how many how often

part of your face how many how often have you done something like this like

have you done something like this like

have you done something like this like right we don’t do that because it’s

right we don’t do that because it’s

right we don’t do that because it’s stupid we don’t do that because it’s

stupid we don’t do that because it’s

stupid we don’t do that because it’s silly we don’t do that because our ego

silly we don’t do that because our ego

silly we don’t do that because our ego says don’t do that people know they do

says don’t do that people know they do

says don’t do that people know they do an oddball you know what you’re on balls

an oddball you know what you’re on balls

an oddball you know what you’re on balls we’re all on bones we should celebrate

we’re all on bones we should celebrate

we’re all on bones we should celebrate that instead of hiding that so remember

that instead of hiding that so remember

that instead of hiding that so remember it had children knees and toes knees

it had children knees and toes knees

it had children knees and toes knees into the back of body the whole thing L

into the back of body the whole thing L

into the back of body the whole thing L stands for laughter in reducing I’ve

stands for laughter in reducing I’ve

stands for laughter in reducing I’ve been here the whole day I can tell which

been here the whole day I can tell which

been here the whole day I can tell which if you know

if you know

if you know laughs not all of you do because does

laughs not all of you do because does

laughs not all of you do because does not count it will get you any of the

not count it will get you any of the

not count it will get you any of the benefits that you need to get from

benefits that you need to get from

benefits that you need to get from laughter and playing either will well

laughter and playing either will well

laughter and playing either will well there was a music major Oh which stands

there was a music major Oh which stands

there was a music major Oh which stands for lying because you know what I know

for lying because you know what I know

for lying because you know what I know it studies have shown that when you’re

it studies have shown that when you’re

it studies have shown that when you’re typing LOL you are not laughing out loud

typing LOL you are not laughing out loud

typing LOL you are not laughing out loud and for God’s sakes you are not rolling

and for God’s sakes you are not rolling

and for God’s sakes you are not rolling on the floor so stop typing in Tokyo

on the floor so stop typing in Tokyo

on the floor so stop typing in Tokyo have bruises on your hips you are not

have bruises on your hips you are not

have bruises on your hips you are not rolling on the floor so when I see

rolling on the floor so when I see

rolling on the floor so when I see mopping out well I mean where’s my

mopping out well I mean where’s my

mopping out well I mean where’s my microphone you see how much that hurts

microphone you see how much that hurts

microphone you see how much that hurts me one minute belly laughing is

me one minute belly laughing is

me one minute belly laughing is equivalent in terms of abdominal toning

equivalent in terms of abdominal toning

equivalent in terms of abdominal toning of 25

firstly I think reality to Van Slyke a

firstly I think reality to Van Slyke a washboard mf’s like a dashboard now a

washboard mf’s like a dashboard now a

washboard mf’s like a dashboard now a little built-in air bag there’s already

little built-in air bag there’s already

little built-in air bag there’s already two things I don’t bruises easily sit

two things I don’t bruises easily sit

two things I don’t bruises easily sit we’re good so you need to work on the

we’re good so you need to work on the

we’re good so you need to work on the laughter so play laughter adventurous

laughter so play laughter adventurous

laughter so play laughter adventurous you need to be uncomfortable we have so

you need to be uncomfortable we have so

you need to be uncomfortable we have so much of a fear of getting outside of our

much of a fear of getting outside of our

much of a fear of getting outside of our comfort zone and outside your comfort

comfort zone and outside your comfort

comfort zone and outside your comfort zone ADIZ where joy lies outside of your

zone ADIZ where joy lies outside of your

zone ADIZ where joy lies outside of your comfort zone is were creativity lines

comfort zone is were creativity lines

comfort zone is were creativity lines and it’s definitely one plane light um

and it’s definitely one plane light um

and it’s definitely one plane light um two years ago my friend Jennifer of the

two years ago my friend Jennifer of the

two years ago my friend Jennifer of the hula hooping person Jennifer invited me

hula hooping person Jennifer invited me

hula hooping person Jennifer invited me to do a naked photo shoot with 50 other

to do a naked photo shoot with 50 other

to do a naked photo shoot with 50 other women outside I don’t gotta shower they

women outside I don’t gotta shower they

women outside I don’t gotta shower they get Michael well I need to live up to my

get Michael well I need to live up to my

get Michael well I need to live up to my expectations if there’s something so I

expectations if there’s something so I

expectations if there’s something so I said yes so what a giant warehouse the

said yes so what a giant warehouse the

said yes so what a giant warehouse the photograph is amazing and it’s a

photograph is amazing and it’s a

photograph is amazing and it’s a feminist photo and it’s worth taking

feminist photo and it’s worth taking

feminist photo and it’s worth taking women taking power back from politics

women taking power back from politics

women taking power back from politics and and the medical community of

and and the medical community of

and and the medical community of journalists and we’re chasing these

journalists and we’re chasing these

journalists and we’re chasing these people down but we are naked we are

people down but we are naked we are

people down but we are naked we are outside then we across bertelsen and 11

outside then we across bertelsen and 11

outside then we across bertelsen and 11 naked

part besides the whole because Jennifer

part besides the whole because Jennifer brother who loop so we knew we had

brother who loop so we knew we had

brother who loop so we knew we had strange women getting mud on our body

strange women getting mud on our body

strange women getting mud on our body standing in a kiddie pool it was amazing

standing in a kiddie pool it was amazing

standing in a kiddie pool it was amazing and also amazing i’m standing there

and also amazing i’m standing there

and also amazing i’m standing there naked like they got a contact with a

naked like they got a contact with a

naked like they got a contact with a woman she and I could tell she knows who

woman she and I could tell she knows who

woman she and I could tell she knows who I am and I have no idea and she comes up

I am and I have no idea and she comes up

I am and I have no idea and she comes up to me she says Professor Joshua I took

to me she says Professor Joshua I took

to me she says Professor Joshua I took your grammar class I’m thinking and now

your grammar class I’m thinking and now

your grammar class I’m thinking and now you’re going to see my tramp stamp

adventurous and the last one is youthful

adventurous and the last one is youthful you must wanna play not feeding your age

you must wanna play not feeding your age

you must wanna play not feeding your age and in fact if you’ve done a good job

and in fact if you’ve done a good job

and in fact if you’ve done a good job for two or three hours you must not

for two or three hours you must not

for two or three hours you must not figure eight later with a hot pack in

figure eight later with a hot pack in

figure eight later with a hot pack in the hub I feel your age but we want to

the hub I feel your age but we want to

the hub I feel your age but we want to be as useful as possible and get to that

be as useful as possible and get to that

be as useful as possible and get to that to me the idea of flow flow simply has

to me the idea of flow flow simply has

to me the idea of flow flow simply has to do with being useful because you’ve

to do with being useful because you’ve

to do with being useful because you’ve they’re not aware of the passage of time

they’re not aware of the passage of time

they’re not aware of the passage of time youth are not aware of the burden of

youth are not aware of the burden of

youth are not aware of the burden of responsibility that we grown up humans

responsibility that we grown up humans

responsibility that we grown up humans carry around all the time so physical

carry around all the time so physical

carry around all the time so physical laughter reducing adventurism youthful

laughter reducing adventurism youthful

laughter reducing adventurism youthful so I want to give you just a couple of

so I want to give you just a couple of

so I want to give you just a couple of quick tips easiest one you see what I’m

quick tips easiest one you see what I’m

quick tips easiest one you see what I’m wearing these are span these are fan

wearing these are span these are fan

wearing these are span these are fan decks right fresh to play when you are

decks right fresh to play when you are

decks right fresh to play when you are wearing uncomfortable clothing you are

wearing uncomfortable clothing you are

wearing uncomfortable clothing you are not in a playful mood I once did a

not in a playful mood I once did a

not in a playful mood I once did a presentation for a group of upper level

presentation for a group of upper level

presentation for a group of upper level financial officers for the state of

financial officers for the state of

financial officers for the state of Oregon and they all came in in their

Oregon and they all came in in their

Oregon and they all came in in their suits and ties and there were 100

suits and ties and there were 100

suits and ties and there were 100 of them they sat down and I said to them

of them they sat down and I said to them

of them they sat down and I said to them would you take off your shoes and the

would you take off your shoes and the

would you take off your shoes and the women just went crazy oh but take these

women just went crazy oh but take these

women just went crazy oh but take these shoes so you know how much is it burning

shoes so you know how much is it burning

shoes so you know how much is it burning my feet Oh like why do we do things like

my feet Oh like why do we do things like

my feet Oh like why do we do things like that spandex I mean not spandex I mean

that spandex I mean not spandex I mean

that spandex I mean not spandex I mean spanks one of the least playful body

spanks one of the least playful body

spanks one of the least playful body garments ever invented if I have never

garments ever invented if I have never

garments ever invented if I have never worked Warren space over a cheap British

worked Warren space over a cheap British

worked Warren space over a cheap British knockoff version occasionally called a

knockoff version occasionally called a

knockoff version occasionally called a slight tap of the Baltimore the way to

slight tap of the Baltimore the way to

slight tap of the Baltimore the way to them don’t wear them they’re not playful

them don’t wear them they’re not playful

them don’t wear them they’re not playful because you can’t be playful if you if

because you can’t be playful if you if

because you can’t be playful if you if you have an opportunity to play frisbee

you have an opportunity to play frisbee

you have an opportunity to play frisbee in the parking lot yet you’re wearing

in the parking lot yet you’re wearing

in the parking lot yet you’re wearing high heels and spanks at a time which

high heels and spanks at a time which

high heels and spanks at a time which would be kind of an interesting day and

would be kind of an interesting day and

would be kind of an interesting day and you’re not going to do make playful

you’re not going to do make playful

you’re not going to do make playful friends people who not only encourage

friends people who not only encourage

friends people who not only encourage you to play and don’t become one of

you to play and don’t become one of

you to play and don’t become one of those voices in your head to get up

those voices in your head to get up

those voices in your head to get up given balancing me we all have those

given balancing me we all have those

given balancing me we all have those people i’m not saying don’t those people

people i’m not saying don’t those people

people i’m not saying don’t those people consider telling those people but

consider telling those people but

consider telling those people but definitely make more friends who

definitely make more friends who

definitely make more friends who encouraged you to play my friend Donna

encouraged you to play my friend Donna

encouraged you to play my friend Donna LeBlanc her husband developed late-stage

LeBlanc her husband developed late-stage

LeBlanc her husband developed late-stage Alzheimer’s after several years of

Alzheimer’s after several years of

Alzheimer’s after several years of having Alzheimer’s and had to go to live

having Alzheimer’s and had to go to live

having Alzheimer’s and had to go to live in an Alzheimer’s care facility and he

in an Alzheimer’s care facility and he

in an Alzheimer’s care facility and he no longer remembered her and he no

no longer remembered her and he no

no longer remembered her and he no longer remembered their 50-year marriage

longer remembered their 50-year marriage

longer remembered their 50-year marriage and for six months she spiraled into

and for six months she spiraled into

and for six months she spiraled into depression and Donna it’s one of the

depression and Donna it’s one of the

depression and Donna it’s one of the most joyful playful people I’ve ever met

most joyful playful people I’ve ever met

most joyful playful people I’ve ever met and she called me after six months and

and she called me after six months and

and she called me after six months and said I am so tired of feeling this way

said I am so tired of feeling this way

said I am so tired of feeling this way I’ve decided to become happy again and I

I’ve decided to become happy again and I

I’ve decided to become happy again and I know that the only person who could do

know that the only person who could do

know that the only person who could do that

that

that be in sochi what she decided to do since

be in sochi what she decided to do since

be in sochi what she decided to do since her husband didn’t recognize her he

her husband didn’t recognize her he

her husband didn’t recognize her he decided every time she went to see if

decided every time she went to see if

decided every time she went to see if she’d be somebody else this sure she’s

she’d be somebody else this sure she’s

she’d be somebody else this sure she’s in a ready she’s wearing a platinum

in a ready she’s wearing a platinum

in a ready she’s wearing a platinum blonde regalos she start high heels this

blonde regalos she start high heels this

blonde regalos she start high heels this he stashed shaded the that’s my ID

he stashed shaded the that’s my ID

he stashed shaded the that’s my ID obsession apparently association to the

obsession apparently association to the

obsession apparently association to the nursing hope that made their day you’ve

nursing hope that made their day you’ve

nursing hope that made their day you’ve ever been into dementia care center you

ever been into dementia care center you

ever been into dementia care center you know that’s a very difficult place to be

know that’s a very difficult place to be

know that’s a very difficult place to be and her husband spotted her from across

and her husband spotted her from across

and her husband spotted her from across the way that he recognized Marilyn do

the way that he recognized Marilyn do

the way that he recognized Marilyn do you know any better she said they dated

you know any better she said they dated

you know any better she said they dated in high school which made him very happy

in high school which made him very happy

in high school which made him very happy that you made her very happy and unless

that you made her very happy and unless

that you made her very happy and unless that I want to give you as hiding here

that I want to give you as hiding here

that I want to give you as hiding here behind someone let me know if you need

behind someone let me know if you need

behind someone let me know if you need to challenge your ego on a regular basis

to challenge your ego on a regular basis

to challenge your ego on a regular basis if you allow your ego to run your life

if you allow your ego to run your life

if you allow your ego to run your life you will never play you’ll never get out

you will never play you’ll never get out

you will never play you’ll never get out of your comfort zone and you won’t

of your comfort zone and you won’t

of your comfort zone and you won’t really experience the level of joy that

really experience the level of joy that

really experience the level of joy that I believe human beings are meant to

I believe human beings are meant to

I believe human beings are meant to experience and i will show you about

experience and i will show you about

experience and i will show you about easy it is to know you’re meant to

easy it is to know you’re meant to

easy it is to know you’re meant to experience that joy how many of you want

experience that joy how many of you want

experience that joy how many of you want this weight might give it to you

this weight might give it to you

this weight might give it to you somebody’s going to get it to a child or

somebody’s going to get it to a child or

somebody’s going to get it to a child or a dog or a cat because we don’t have

a dog or a cat because we don’t have

a dog or a cat because we don’t have played somebody says yes I’m kind of

played somebody says yes I’m kind of

played somebody says yes I’m kind of place your order to you so challenging

place your order to you so challenging

place your order to you so challenging ego can be difficult especially if

ego can be difficult especially if

ego can be difficult especially if you’ve never done it before a lot edit

you’ve never done it before a lot edit

you’ve never done it before a lot edit you know if you fly a lot you’re always

you know if you fly a lot you’re always

you know if you fly a lot you’re always try to catch your connecting flight

try to catch your connecting flight

try to catch your connecting flight resist always at the other end of the

resist always at the other end of the

resist always at the other end of the airport and so you need people to get

airport and so you need people to get

airport and so you need people to get out of your way so people get

hot women naked I’ll free after six CD

hot women naked I’ll free after six CD jury he’ll go oh no way I don’t ever do

jury he’ll go oh no way I don’t ever do

jury he’ll go oh no way I don’t ever do that even among strangers do you think I

that even among strangers do you think I

that even among strangers do you think I might have a better experience in the

might have a better experience in the

might have a better experience in the airport that most people do because I

airport that most people do because I

airport that most people do because I really good play I always recommend that

really good play I always recommend that

really good play I always recommend that everybody keeping their glove box a

everybody keeping their glove box a

everybody keeping their glove box a cannibal snout so the next time you’re

cannibal snout so the next time you’re

cannibal snout so the next time you’re stuck in traffic you strapped on to

stuck in traffic you strapped on to

stuck in traffic you strapped on to smell here till change your entire how

smell here till change your entire how

smell here till change your entire how could it not change your perspective I

could it not change your perspective I

could it not change your perspective I got a presentation for educators in

got a presentation for educators in

got a presentation for educators in Salem and a woman emailed me the next

Salem and a woman emailed me the next

Salem and a woman emailed me the next day and said she’d gone out of lunch i

day and said she’d gone out of lunch i

day and said she’d gone out of lunch i bought a pig snout and the guy should

bought a pig snout and the guy should

bought a pig snout and the guy should order to follow her pull into 7-eleven

order to follow her pull into 7-eleven

order to follow her pull into 7-eleven parking lot she rolled her window down

parking lot she rolled her window down

parking lot she rolled her window down just a little bit and the man that I

just a little bit and the man that I

just a little bit and the man that I really not dangerous what’s where the

really not dangerous what’s where the

really not dangerous what’s where the pics now she was quick on her feet and

pics now she was quick on her feet and

pics now she was quick on her feet and said I can marry the 27 years mr. way we

said I can marry the 27 years mr. way we

said I can marry the 27 years mr. way we keep the spark and everything going hope

keep the spark and everything going hope

keep the spark and everything going hope that you are inspired to it subway

that you are inspired to it subway

that you are inspired to it subway whether it’s to go to the local school

whether it’s to go to the local school

whether it’s to go to the local school yard is get on the swings by the way if

yard is get on the swings by the way if

yard is get on the swings by the way if you get on the monkey bars remember that

you get on the monkey bars remember that

you get on the monkey bars remember that if you hang by your knees from the

if you hang by your knees from the

if you hang by your knees from the monkey barred in order to get out of

monkey barred in order to get out of

monkey barred in order to get out of that position you have to rotate through

that position you have to rotate through

that position you have to rotate through your shoulders don’t ask me how I know

your shoulders don’t ask me how I know

your shoulders don’t ask me how I know this I had a seven-year a boy tried to

this I had a seven-year a boy tried to

this I had a seven-year a boy tried to explain to me how to get off the monkey

explain to me how to get off the monkey

explain to me how to get off the monkey bars yelled a good Irish stuck to my

bars yelled a good Irish stuck to my

bars yelled a good Irish stuck to my show

show

show rotate the way that they used to so

rotate the way that they used to so

rotate the way that they used to so stick to the swings of the slide

stick to the swings of the slide

stick to the swings of the slide enrollment improv class make friends

enrollment improv class make friends

enrollment improv class make friends with five year olds and eight-year-olds

with five year olds and eight-year-olds

with five year olds and eight-year-olds because a lot more people in their

because a lot more people in their

because a lot more people in their eighties play than people in their 40s

eighties play than people in their 40s

eighties play than people in their 40s and 50s and 60s I want to end with two

and 50s and 60s I want to end with two

and 50s and 60s I want to end with two quotes that I find really inspiring the

quotes that I find really inspiring the

quotes that I find really inspiring the first is by one of my favorite authors

first is by one of my favorite authors

first is by one of my favorite authors and artists Brian Andreas and it’s a

and artists Brian Andreas and it’s a

and artists Brian Andreas and it’s a reminder from children in and it goes

reminder from children in and it goes

reminder from children in and it goes like this I wouldn’t mind being a grown

like this I wouldn’t mind being a grown

like this I wouldn’t mind being a grown up she said if I didn’t have to get up

up she said if I didn’t have to get up

up she said if I didn’t have to get up every morning and be grumpy right away

every morning and be grumpy right away

every morning and be grumpy right away very sad but when i was at wayne county

very sad but when i was at wayne county

very sad but when i was at wayne county head start and asking kids with their

head start and asking kids with their

head start and asking kids with their parents did some fun three of them said

parents did some fun three of them said

parents did some fun three of them said sleep and my last quote is by tom

sleep and my last quote is by tom

sleep and my last quote is by tom robbins who changed my life in so many

robbins who changed my life in so many

robbins who changed my life in so many ways and it is it’s never too late to

ways and it is it’s never too late to

ways and it is it’s never too late to have a happy childhood so I wish that

have a happy childhood so I wish that

have a happy childhood so I wish that for you as well

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