Stop Your Addiction – Most Incredible Advice – Tony Robbins Motivation

whether you’re trying to change someone

whether you’re trying to change someone from being means and ice or what are you

from being means and ice or what are you

from being means and ice or what are you trying to get rid of addiction it’s the

trying to get rid of addiction it’s the

trying to get rid of addiction it’s the same steps unvoiced in the back way

same steps unvoiced in the back way

same steps unvoiced in the back way towards the back part of the table

towards the back part of the table

towards the back part of the table probably the furthest part of the table

probably the furthest part of the table

probably the furthest part of the table is why he probably said it one of the

is why he probably said it one of the

is why he probably said it one of the other executives said that is this man’s

other executives said that is this man’s

other executives said that is this man’s name the chairman was Jean he says Jean

name the chairman was Jean he says Jean

name the chairman was Jean he says Jean how are you doing on that anger stuff

how are you doing on that anger stuff

how are you doing on that anger stuff with your therapist all right and John

with your therapist all right and John

with your therapist all right and John goes well we’ve been working on it for

goes well we’ve been working on it for

goes well we’ve been working on it for years as you know and I just I think

years as you know and I just I think

years as you know and I just I think we’ve made some progress but I’m just

we’ve made some progress but I’m just

we’ve made some progress but I’m just that kind of person and you can see they

that kind of person and you can see they

that kind of person and you can see they had pride in the fact that he could be

had pride in the fact that he could be

had pride in the fact that he could be abusive because it gave him a sense that

abusive because it gave him a sense that

abusive because it gave him a sense that he was powerful that he was significant

he was powerful that he was significant

he was powerful that he was significant and so this person said well you know

and so this person said well you know

and so this person said well you know Jean and the person who said this is the

Jean and the person who said this is the

Jean and the person who said this is the person invited me to dinner you start to

person invited me to dinner you start to

person invited me to dinner you start to get the picture he says well you know

get the picture he says well you know

get the picture he says well you know Jean mr. Robbins is considered to be the

Jean mr. Robbins is considered to be the

Jean mr. Robbins is considered to be the best therapist in all of America he’s

best therapist in all of America he’s

best therapist in all of America he’s able to create change and lightning like

able to create change and lightning like

able to create change and lightning like speed aren’t you mr. almonds all of a

speed aren’t you mr. almonds all of a

speed aren’t you mr. almonds all of a sudden I understood why I was invited to

sudden I understood why I was invited to

sudden I understood why I was invited to dinner so he saw no no mr. Robbins I

dinner so he saw no no mr. Robbins I

dinner so he saw no no mr. Robbins I would never never take up your time but

would never never take up your time but

would never never take up your time but this wonderful dinner would be so unfair

this wonderful dinner would be so unfair

this wonderful dinner would be so unfair to you and everything else he said but

to you and everything else he said but

to you and everything else he said but Miss Robbins what would you do and I

Miss Robbins what would you do and I

Miss Robbins what would you do and I said well you know you’re right sir I

said well you know you’re right sir I

said well you know you’re right sir I said you know I you’re not my patient so

said you know I you’re not my patient so

said you know I you’re not my patient so you know I couldn’t work with you I said

you know I couldn’t work with you I said

you know I couldn’t work with you I said but if you weren’t I said what I do is I

but if you weren’t I said what I do is I

but if you weren’t I said what I do is I would not talk to you like have you

would not talk to you like have you

would not talk to you like have you freely associated on your back about

freely associated on your back about

freely associated on your back about your childhood and that’s why you’re

your childhood and that’s why you’re

your childhood and that’s why you’re hangry and stuff I said what I would do

hangry and stuff I said what I would do

hangry and stuff I said what I would do is actually train your nervous system to

is actually train your nervous system to

is actually train your nervous system to change so it really would he said really

change so it really would he said really

change so it really would he said really how would you do that

how would you do that

how would you do that that’s all the opening I needed

that’s all the opening I needed

that’s all the opening I needed I said well I’d say do you remember what

I said well I’d say do you remember what

I said well I’d say do you remember what you said to that man over there earlier

you said to that man over there earlier

you said to that man over there earlier he said no I said sure you do remember

he said no I said sure you do remember

he said no I said sure you do remember you’re calling those four-letter word

you’re calling those four-letter word

you’re calling those four-letter word you’re saying this you’re saying that

you’re saying this you’re saying that

you’re saying this you’re saying that you kind of enjoyed it a little bit it

you kind of enjoyed it a little bit it

you kind of enjoyed it a little bit it looked like you whoa yes hey we shot on

looked like you whoa yes hey we shot on

looked like you whoa yes hey we shot on watch yeah my him as hard as I could in

watch yeah my him as hard as I could in

watch yeah my him as hard as I could in the show anyway what are you doing

the show anyway what are you doing

the show anyway what are you doing what are you doing I said I’m showing

what are you doing I said I’m showing

what are you doing I said I’m showing you what I would do if you were my

you what I would do if you were my

you what I would do if you were my patient but you’re not my patient so I

patient but you’re not my patient so I

patient but you’re not my patient so I would never do that right and the people

would never do that right and the people

would never do that right and the people seem like right and I’m looking at

seem like right and I’m looking at

seem like right and I’m looking at smiling and as I do this he doesn’t know

smiling and as I do this he doesn’t know

smiling and as I do this he doesn’t know the process because I’m not looking mean

the process because I’m not looking mean

the process because I’m not looking mean I’m just gonna that’s what I do if

I’m just gonna that’s what I do if

I’m just gonna that’s what I do if you’re my patient but you’re not so I’d

you’re my patient but you’re not so I’d

you’re my patient but you’re not so I’d never do that he did receive people when

never do that he did receive people when

never do that he did receive people when they’re totally confused they like

they’re totally confused they like

they’re totally confused they like search every quadrant of their brain so

search every quadrant of their brain so

search every quadrant of their brain so now what am I gone massively interrupted

now what am I gone massively interrupted

now what am I gone massively interrupted his pattern and gotten major what

his pattern and gotten major what

his pattern and gotten major what leverage yeah you can talk to your blue

leverage yeah you can talk to your blue

leverage yeah you can talk to your blue in the face that’s gonna change this guy

in the face that’s gonna change this guy

in the face that’s gonna change this guy he said wow that was painful I said

he said wow that was painful I said

he said wow that was painful I said that’s the idea so if I was your

that’s the idea so if I was your

that’s the idea so if I was your therapist that’s cutting I do and I do

therapist that’s cutting I do and I do

therapist that’s cutting I do and I do it enough so you would never do it again

it enough so you would never do it again

it enough so you would never do it again ever

ever

ever Brian he’s like oh that would be yeah I

Brian he’s like oh that would be yeah I

Brian he’s like oh that would be yeah I can see that might work I don’t know it

can see that might work I don’t know it

can see that might work I don’t know it we were

we were

we were it’s matter of fact never what you said

it’s matter of fact never what you said

it’s matter of fact never what you said to your wife anyone know

I assure you my one who I am twice

I assure you my one who I am twice there’s like stop that stop fat slice to

there’s like stop that stop fat slice to

there’s like stop that stop fat slice to stop what he said what he made one

stop what he said what he made one

stop what he said what he made one that’s the way you just did I said oh

that’s the way you just did I said oh

that’s the way you just did I said oh I’m just showing you what I would do if

I’m just showing you what I would do if

I’m just showing you what I would do if you’re my patient but you’re not my

you’re my patient but you’re not my

you’re my patient but you’re not my patient so I would never do that and if

patient so I would never do that and if

patient so I would never do that and if you want a like somewhat true story no

you want a like somewhat true story no

you want a like somewhat true story no exaggeration say y’all you didn’t really

exaggeration say y’all you didn’t really

exaggeration say y’all you didn’t really hit I really did if any of you know some

hit I really did if any of you know some

hit I really did if any of you know some my therapy examples you know I will do

my therapy examples you know I will do

my therapy examples you know I will do whatever it takes so you come to see me

whatever it takes so you come to see me

whatever it takes so you come to see me you’re gonna change okay cuz I have

you’re gonna change okay cuz I have

you’re gonna change okay cuz I have unlimited choice I don’t have all the

unlimited choice I don’t have all the

unlimited choice I don’t have all the rules that the traditional therapist has

rules that the traditional therapist has

rules that the traditional therapist has about not intervening too much my job is

about not intervening too much my job is

about not intervening too much my job is you asked for it you got it all right

you asked for it you got it all right

you asked for it you got it all right you’re gonna get it so this guy now he’s

you’re gonna get it so this guy now he’s

you’re gonna get it so this guy now he’s like shaking from this thing goes wow I

like shaking from this thing goes wow I

like shaking from this thing goes wow I can really see how that would work I

can really see how that would work I

can really see how that would work I said is there anybody else you’ve been

said is there anybody else you’ve been

said is there anybody else you’ve been abusive to recently no no no so now what

abusive to recently no no no so now what

abusive to recently no no no so now what have I done

have I done

have I done I got leverage and I’ve interrupted his

I got leverage and I’ve interrupted his

I got leverage and I’ve interrupted his both of those things so the last step

both of those things so the last step

both of those things so the last step step number three is this once you got

step number three is this once you got

step number three is this once you got the leverage once you interrupt the

the leverage once you interrupt the

the leverage once you interrupt the pattern third step is you must create an

pattern third step is you must create an

pattern third step is you must create an empowering alternative you must create

empowering alternative you must create

empowering alternative you must create an empowering alternative in other words

an empowering alternative in other words

an empowering alternative in other words an alternative pattern you can’t just

an alternative pattern you can’t just

an alternative pattern you can’t just stop smoking you got to start doing

stop smoking you got to start doing

stop smoking you got to start doing something else and what most people do

something else and what most people do

something else and what most people do is they stop smoking and start eating so

is they stop smoking and start eating so

is they stop smoking and start eating so that’s why you got to find an empowering

that’s why you got to find an empowering

that’s why you got to find an empowering alternative so creative opportunity I

alternative so creative opportunity I

alternative so creative opportunity I can’t just say stop yelling at people

can’t just say stop yelling at people

can’t just say stop yelling at people because his yelling at people gives him

because his yelling at people gives him

because his yelling at people gives him a sense of certainty that they’ll listen

a sense of certainty that they’ll listen

a sense of certainty that they’ll listen to him and that they’ll change how many

to him and that they’ll change how many

to him and that they’ll change how many follow that so if we just say don’t do

follow that so if we just say don’t do

follow that so if we just say don’t do that then we’ve not met the need that he

that then we’ve not met the need that he

that then we’ve not met the need that he used to get we want to meet the need

used to get we want to meet the need

used to get we want to meet the need more elegantly if you’re smoking it’s

more elegantly if you’re smoking it’s

more elegantly if you’re smoking it’s probably cuz you’re stress and when you

probably cuz you’re stress and when you

probably cuz you’re stress and when you smoke you take deep diaphragmatic breath

smoke you take deep diaphragmatic breath

smoke you take deep diaphragmatic breath so you get out of stress but most people

so you get out of stress but most people

so you get out of stress but most people are stressed they stop breathing or they

are stressed they stop breathing or they

are stressed they stop breathing or they breathe very shallowly when you have

breathe very shallowly when you have

breathe very shallowly when you have very low oxygen that adds a smidge to

very low oxygen that adds a smidge to

very low oxygen that adds a smidge to your stress so cigarettes now while

your stress so cigarettes now while

your stress so cigarettes now while there’s a physical addiction what made

there’s a physical addiction what made

there’s a physical addiction what made it happen initially was

it happen initially was

it happen initially was relaxed you so you don’t want to just

relaxed you so you don’t want to just

relaxed you so you don’t want to just stop smoking and be stressed you have

stop smoking and be stressed you have

stop smoking and be stressed you have something else that relaxed you so what

something else that relaxed you so what

something else that relaxed you so what a lot of people do is they eat tons of

a lot of people do is they eat tons of

a lot of people do is they eat tons of food the stomach fills up and all the

food the stomach fills up and all the

food the stomach fills up and all the blood rushes in there and they start

blood rushes in there and they start

blood rushes in there and they start breathing their diaphragm again but

breathing their diaphragm again but

breathing their diaphragm again but there are better alternatives that make

there are better alternatives that make

there are better alternatives that make sense so you got to come up with an

sense so you got to come up with an

sense so you got to come up with an empowering alternative and once you do

empowering alternative and once you do

empowering alternative and once you do it and reinforce it reinforce it how do

it and reinforce it reinforce it how do

it and reinforce it reinforce it how do you reinforce something you notice it

you reinforce something you notice it

you reinforce something you notice it you give it pleasure you acknowledge it

you give it pleasure you acknowledge it

you give it pleasure you acknowledge it you reward it so you might want to use

you reward it so you might want to use

you reward it so you might want to use the word reward it and reinforce it or

the word reward it and reinforce it or

the word reward it and reinforce it or reward it until it becomes habit until

reward it until it becomes habit until

reward it until it becomes habit until it becomes habit so you got to create an

it becomes habit so you got to create an

it becomes habit so you got to create an empowering alternative and you got to

empowering alternative and you got to

empowering alternative and you got to reinforce it until it becomes habit once

reinforce it until it becomes habit once

reinforce it until it becomes habit once it’s a habit you’re set but how do you

it’s a habit you’re set but how do you

it’s a habit you’re set but how do you do this well the secret to reinforcing

do this well the secret to reinforcing

do this well the secret to reinforcing something is give it pleasure give it

something is give it pleasure give it

something is give it pleasure give it rewards so you’ll start changing to

rewards so you’ll start changing to

rewards so you’ll start changing to avoid pain but after a while you just go

avoid pain but after a while you just go

avoid pain but after a while you just go back to it even though it’s painful all

back to it even though it’s painful all

back to it even though it’s painful all adjust to it but see what what will last

adjust to it but see what what will last

adjust to it but see what what will last will creates lasting changes when you do

will creates lasting changes when you do

will creates lasting changes when you do something and you’re rewarded for it

something and you’re rewarded for it

something and you’re rewarded for it when you give yourself rewards you feel

when you give yourself rewards you feel

when you give yourself rewards you feel happy you feel proud of yourself you

happy you feel proud of yourself you

happy you feel proud of yourself you feel sense of excitement or freedom or

feel sense of excitement or freedom or

feel sense of excitement or freedom or more love you get that reinforcement on

more love you get that reinforcement on

more love you get that reinforcement on regular basis pretty soon it just

regular basis pretty soon it just

regular basis pretty soon it just becomes who you are that’s what we want

becomes who you are that’s what we want

becomes who you are that’s what we want to do and so that’s what I did with him

to do and so that’s what I did with him

to do and so that’s what I did with him so a year later sorry I haven’t come for

so a year later sorry I haven’t come for

so a year later sorry I haven’t come for these alternates out of communicating

these alternates out of communicating

these alternates out of communicating throughout the night when we started

throughout the night when we started

throughout the night when we started communicate with somebody did something

communicate with somebody did something

communicate with somebody did something right I caught him doing it right and

right I caught him doing it right and

right I caught him doing it right and I’d say no John I want to say something

I’d say no John I want to say something

I’d say no John I want to say something you do you see Bob’s face over here the

you do you see Bob’s face over here the

you do you see Bob’s face over here the way you just interact with him so you

way you just interact with him so you

way you just interact with him so you can try and force him to do something or

can try and force him to do something or

can try and force him to do something or make him fear you and he’ll do a little

make him fear you and he’ll do a little

make him fear you and he’ll do a little bit but people we do so much out of fear

bit but people we do so much out of fear

bit but people we do so much out of fear they do the minimum out of fear but when

they do the minimum out of fear but when

they do the minimum out of fear but when they love you and they care about you

they love you and they care about you

they love you and they care about you when they feel respected by you they’ll

when they feel respected by you they’ll

when they feel respected by you they’ll do anything for you this guy really

do anything for you this guy really

do anything for you this guy really would do anything for look at this face

would do anything for look at this face

would do anything for look at this face right now doesn’t that feel better

right now doesn’t that feel better

right now doesn’t that feel better and I stopped make him stop and notice

and I stopped make him stop and notice

and I stopped make him stop and notice so he wasn’t unconscious they’d see

so he wasn’t unconscious they’d see

so he wasn’t unconscious they’d see honestly it really does he said Bob I

honestly it really does he said Bob I

honestly it really does he said Bob I really do care about you

really do care about you

really do care about you and these great anchors happen that

and these great anchors happen that

and these great anchors happen that night where I kept reinforcing and

night where I kept reinforcing and

night where I kept reinforcing and reinforcing and reinforcing it so he had

reinforcing and reinforcing it so he had

reinforcing and reinforcing it so he had plenty of alternatives and he saw it

plenty of alternatives and he saw it

plenty of alternatives and he saw it gave him more of what he wanted in the

gave him more of what he wanted in the

gave him more of what he wanted in the old behavior so now I come back a year

old behavior so now I come back a year

old behavior so now I come back a year and a half maybe later and I do the

and a half maybe later and I do the

and a half maybe later and I do the seminar things go gray and the same guy

seminar things go gray and the same guy

seminar things go gray and the same guy afterward says mister

afterward says mister

afterward says mister Robbins would you like to come to dinner

Robbins would you like to come to dinner

Robbins would you like to come to dinner and I look at him and he is he like I

and I look at him and he is he like I

and I look at him and he is he like I can’t tell if he’s you know got

can’t tell if he’s you know got

can’t tell if he’s you know got something or not so I said sure

something or not so I said sure

something or not so I said sure same restaurant same room same

same restaurant same room same

same restaurant same room same everything sit down you table I’m gonna

everything sit down you table I’m gonna

everything sit down you table I’m gonna sit next to John chance great to have

sit next to John chance great to have

sit next to John chance great to have you back everything’s warm it was

you back everything’s warm it was

you back everything’s warm it was wonderful he seems really happy

wonderful he seems really happy

wonderful he seems really happy everybody’s great I’m thinking wow this

everybody’s great I’m thinking wow this

everybody’s great I’m thinking wow this is cool it all worked right and then

is cool it all worked right and then

is cool it all worked right and then maybe 15 minutes into sitting there

maybe 15 minutes into sitting there

maybe 15 minutes into sitting there almost done John comes across and starts

almost done John comes across and starts

almost done John comes across and starts screaming at this person against the

screaming at this person against the

screaming at this person against the table and I can just feel every part of

table and I can just feel every part of

table and I can just feel every part of my body going obviously didn’t break the

my body going obviously didn’t break the

my body going obviously didn’t break the pattern strong enough I’m gonna do it

pattern strong enough I’m gonna do it

pattern strong enough I’m gonna do it this time and I just feel my face right

this time and I just feel my face right

this time and I just feel my face right tight enough and also he turns over he

tight enough and also he turns over he

tight enough and also he turns over he goes gotcha and everybody hopefully

goes gotcha and everybody hopefully

goes gotcha and everybody hopefully start laughing it was a setup and they

start laughing it was a setup and they

start laughing it was a setup and they all went around the table and they

all went around the table and they

all went around the table and they acknowledged me and they call John and

acknowledged me and they call John and

acknowledged me and they call John and talked about he’s never been the same

talked about he’s never been the same

talked about he’s never been the same since his wife is never the same he’s

since his wife is never the same he’s

since his wife is never the same he’s such an incredibly warm and loving man

such an incredibly warm and loving man

such an incredibly warm and loving man now for that process yeah just from that

now for that process yeah just from that

now for that process yeah just from that piece

now whether you’re trying to change

now whether you’re trying to change someone from being mean to nice or what

someone from being mean to nice or what

someone from being mean to nice or what are you trying to get rid of addiction

are you trying to get rid of addiction

are you trying to get rid of addiction it’s the same stuff so for example when

it’s the same stuff so for example when

it’s the same stuff so for example when I first built my career I get on radio

I first built my career I get on radio

I first built my career I get on radio and television in Canada and I launched

and television in Canada and I launched

and television in Canada and I launched my cursing I don’t care what your

my cursing I don’t care what your

my cursing I don’t care what your problem is I’ll handle it so I got all

problem is I’ll handle it so I got all

problem is I’ll handle it so I got all kinds of things but one of my first

kinds of things but one of my first

kinds of things but one of my first therapies ever was a smoking therapy now

therapies ever was a smoking therapy now

therapies ever was a smoking therapy now bear in mind I’m staying at the Westin

bear in mind I’m staying at the Westin

bear in mind I’m staying at the Westin Hotel in place called Vancouver British

Hotel in place called Vancouver British

Hotel in place called Vancouver British Columbia Canada anybody been there it’s

Columbia Canada anybody been there it’s

Columbia Canada anybody been there it’s magnificent place nothing there as

magnificent place nothing there as

magnificent place nothing there as pretty as any city in the world I think

pretty as any city in the world I think

pretty as any city in the world I think and so I’m there and I’m staying this

and so I’m there and I’m staying this

and so I’m there and I’m staying this hotel and it’s beautiful it’s wonderful

hotel and it’s beautiful it’s wonderful

hotel and it’s beautiful it’s wonderful I’m waiting in my room for my first real

I’m waiting in my room for my first real

I’m waiting in my room for my first real major therapy and it’s a smoking therapy

major therapy and it’s a smoking therapy

major therapy and it’s a smoking therapy and I look at my watch the guy doesn’t

and I look at my watch the guy doesn’t

and I look at my watch the guy doesn’t show up and I look he hasn’t show up

show up and I look he hasn’t show up

show up and I look he hasn’t show up look gonna show up so then I think well

look gonna show up so then I think well

look gonna show up so then I think well you know no one knew my face in those

you know no one knew my face in those

you know no one knew my face in those days or even knew my name so maybe he

days or even knew my name so maybe he

days or even knew my name so maybe he forgot my name and he’s at the hotel

forgot my name and he’s at the hotel

forgot my name and he’s at the hotel something I’ll go downstairs to see if

something I’ll go downstairs to see if

something I’ll go downstairs to see if he’s in the lobby so as I glanced to

he’s in the lobby so as I glanced to

he’s in the lobby so as I glanced to exit my door of my room right outside

exit my door of my room right outside

exit my door of my room right outside the doors disguise to do puffing like

the doors disguise to do puffing like

the doors disguise to do puffing like crazy so I said are you Bob he said yeah

crazy so I said are you Bob he said yeah

crazy so I said are you Bob he said yeah I said Bob well he doing out here just

I said Bob well he doing out here just

I said Bob well he doing out here just having my last cigarette now what does

having my last cigarette now what does

having my last cigarette now what does that tell me that tells me he wings

that tell me that tells me he wings

that tell me that tells me he wings pain to stopping smoking not pain to

pain to stopping smoking not pain to

pain to stopping smoking not pain to smoking as long as he thinks stopping

smoking as long as he thinks stopping

smoking as long as he thinks stopping smoking is gonna be painful it’s not

smoking is gonna be painful it’s not

smoking is gonna be painful it’s not gonna work we have to change that what

gonna work we have to change that what

gonna work we have to change that what we call neural Association it’s a big

we call neural Association it’s a big

we call neural Association it’s a big word it means what he associates in his

word it means what he associates in his

word it means what he associates in his nervous system in his gut right not when

nervous system in his gut right not when

nervous system in his gut right not when he has in his head in his head he knows

he has in his head in his head he knows

he has in his head in his head he knows better but in his gut his neuro

better but in his gut his neuro

better but in his gut his neuro associations are rigged that stopping

associations are rigged that stopping

associations are rigged that stopping Smokey’s painful that’s why he’s never

Smokey’s painful that’s why he’s never

Smokey’s painful that’s why he’s never done it before

done it before

done it before so he wants me to do this painful thing

so he wants me to do this painful thing

so he wants me to do this painful thing to him that won’t work so I think at a

to him that won’t work so I think at a

to him that won’t work so I think at a moment’s notice I come up with an idea

moment’s notice I come up with an idea

moment’s notice I come up with an idea and I said come with me and we don’t go

and I said come with me and we don’t go

and I said come with me and we don’t go my room we start walking to the hose

my room we start walking to the hose

my room we start walking to the hose where we going instead downstairs

where we going instead downstairs

where we going instead downstairs I wanted you to some private eye so we

I wanted you to some private eye so we

I wanted you to some private eye so we will follow me we get on the elevator go

will follow me we get on the elevator go

will follow me we get on the elevator go downstairs and I haven’t been there in

downstairs and I haven’t been there in

downstairs and I haven’t been there in about 2 or 3 years but even 2 or 3 years

about 2 or 3 years but even 2 or 3 years

about 2 or 3 years but even 2 or 3 years ago in this day and age or very few

ago in this day and age or very few

ago in this day and age or very few people seem to smoke in public at the

people seem to smoke in public at the

people seem to smoke in public at the Western Hotel they still have a tobacco

Western Hotel they still have a tobacco

Western Hotel they still have a tobacco shop there and so we go down this

shop there and so we go down this

shop there and so we go down this tobacco shop and as you go in the smells

tobacco shop and as you go in the smells

tobacco shop and as you go in the smells are everywhere so when people smell

are everywhere so when people smell

are everywhere so when people smell smell the smells they go into state

smell the smells they go into state

smell the smells they go into state rights this guy’s a state right he’s got

rights this guy’s a state right he’s got

rights this guy’s a state right he’s got a cigarettes back

a cigarettes back

a cigarettes back he’s one happy camper so I said what

he’s one happy camper so I said what

he’s one happy camper so I said what brand you smoke so he tells me I said

brand you smoke so he tells me I said

brand you smoke so he tells me I said great

great

great me 12 cartons the guy looks when he goes

me 12 cartons the guy looks when he goes

me 12 cartons the guy looks when he goes 12 cards to see you have 12 cards okay

12 cards to see you have 12 cards okay

12 cards to see you have 12 cards okay goes looks the 12 gotta see ya pay the

goes looks the 12 gotta see ya pay the

goes looks the 12 gotta see ya pay the man pay the man he pays them so now I

man pay the man he pays them so now I

man pay the man he pays them so now I said pick him up so he’s got six cartons

said pick him up so he’s got six cartons

said pick him up so he’s got six cartons here six cartons here we’re walking down

here six cartons here we’re walking down

here six cartons here we’re walking down the hall I’ll never forget his face we

the hall I’ll never forget his face we

the hall I’ll never forget his face we get on the elevator the door closes he’s

get on the elevator the door closes he’s

get on the elevator the door closes he’s holding all these current cigarettes he

holding all these current cigarettes he

holding all these current cigarettes he looks at me and says you’re not gonna

looks at me and says you’re not gonna

looks at me and says you’re not gonna make me smoke these are you I said now

make me smoke these are you I said now

make me smoke these are you I said now we’re making progress now he’s linking

we’re making progress now he’s linking

we’re making progress now he’s linking pain to smoking already how many follow

pain to smoking already how many follow

pain to smoking already how many follow this AI so we go sit in the room and a

this AI so we go sit in the room and a

this AI so we go sit in the room and a lot of times when you’re trying to

lot of times when you’re trying to

lot of times when you’re trying to change help us how to make a change the

change help us how to make a change the

change help us how to make a change the problem is you’re changing a part of

problem is you’re changing a part of

problem is you’re changing a part of them just need to change like a part of

them just need to change like a part of

them just need to change like a part of them that’s really great you need to get

them that’s really great you need to get

them that’s really great you need to get them in there smoking state and change

them in there smoking state and change

them in there smoking state and change that part of them so I said go and open

that part of them so I said go and open

that part of them so I said go and open all the cartons pull out all the

all the cartons pull out all the

all the cartons pull out all the cigarettes and unwrap every one and put

cigarettes and unwrap every one and put

cigarettes and unwrap every one and put one cigarette so it’s accessible so you

one cigarette so it’s accessible so you

one cigarette so it’s accessible so you could just grab it real easily and while

could just grab it real easily and while

could just grab it real easily and while you’re doing that tell me why you

you’re doing that tell me why you

you’re doing that tell me why you started smoking so he goes okay so it’s

started smoking so he goes okay so it’s

started smoking so he goes okay so it’s under the carton says he does he kind of

under the carton says he does he kind of

under the carton says he does he kind of gets in space smells the cigarettes

gets in space smells the cigarettes

gets in space smells the cigarettes starts undoing and he goes to the state

starts undoing and he goes to the state

starts undoing and he goes to the state right he starts telling me well when I

right he starts telling me well when I

right he starts telling me well when I start out I really didn’t want to smoke

start out I really didn’t want to smoke

start out I really didn’t want to smoke but all my friends did and it was like

but all my friends did and it was like

but all my friends did and it was like the cool thing to do and he’s going in a

the cool thing to do and he’s going in a

the cool thing to do and he’s going in a state right and so I said okay well

state right and so I said okay well

state right and so I said okay well light one up he looked in England what

light one up he looked in England what

light one up he looked in England what do you like what if I came here to stop

do you like what if I came here to stop

do you like what if I came here to stop I said you know but you really want one

I said you know but you really want one

I said you know but you really want one so

he went well no I I don’t want what I

he went well no I I don’t want what I want to stop I said light without room

want to stop I said light without room

want to stop I said light without room right now it’s acting crazy really no

right now it’s acting crazy really no

right now it’s acting crazy really no you understand me

now he’s smuggling he’s freaked out now

now he’s smuggling he’s freaked out now imagine these and the feelings tuna

imagine these and the feelings tuna

imagine these and the feelings tuna casserole mixing with smoking you get

casserole mixing with smoking you get

casserole mixing with smoking you get the idea

don’t you why don’t you why I don’t want

don’t you why don’t you why I don’t want to smoke as soon as she said that I like

to smoke as soon as she said that I like

to smoke as soon as she said that I like transform acted insane he’s freaking

transform acted insane he’s freaking

transform acted insane he’s freaking equities walked in a room doesn’t say

equities walked in a room doesn’t say

equities walked in a room doesn’t say anything right so sweetest I don’t wanna

anything right so sweetest I don’t wanna

anything right so sweetest I don’t wanna do this I’d say you don’t want to smoke

do this I’d say you don’t want to smoke

do this I’d say you don’t want to smoke I’d act really calm again ego no I said

I’d act really calm again ego no I said

I’d act really calm again ego no I said well then do whatever you want to do cuz

well then do whatever you want to do cuz

well then do whatever you want to do cuz I will put it out I said light up two

I will put it out I said light up two

I will put it out I said light up two more freaking out of his mind

more freaking out of his mind

more freaking out of his mind let me scream as that calls up there

let me scream as that calls up there

let me scream as that calls up there cool finally eventually he’s gonna girl

cool finally eventually he’s gonna girl

cool finally eventually he’s gonna girl like who’s though you’re like what you

like who’s though you’re like what you

like who’s though you’re like what you wanna smoke what’s that oh oh well then

wanna smoke what’s that oh oh well then

wanna smoke what’s that oh oh well then do whatever you want to do

it’s like what I want to put them out I

it’s like what I want to put them out I said go ahead really sure puts them out

said go ahead really sure puts them out

said go ahead really sure puts them out you get a C’s afraid right but some I

you get a C’s afraid right but some I

you get a C’s afraid right but some I said light up six more it’s like no I

said light up six more it’s like no I

said light up six more it’s like no I line up sex bar down I go ten times

line up sex bar down I go ten times

line up sex bar down I go ten times crazy come on every one of them

crazy come on every one of them

crazy come on every one of them suck on them how does that feel

finally at the point I said light up

finally at the point I said light up five more I had a whole ashtray filled

five more I had a whole ashtray filled

five more I had a whole ashtray filled with half smoked serious but there’s no

with half smoked serious but there’s no

with half smoked serious but there’s no she’s breathing

she’s breathing

she’s breathing smokers face hating it right battled FBI

smokers face hating it right battled FBI

smokers face hating it right battled FBI right I said word up another we said no

right I said word up another we said no

right I said word up another we said no I think you’re on right now

I think you’re on right now

I think you’re on right now no you can’t make me smoke

now we broke the pattern so then when

now we broke the pattern so then when you get an alternative so he went

you get an alternative so he went

you get an alternative so he went outside he dumped his cigarettes over

outside he dumped his cigarettes over

outside he dumped his cigarettes over the side down into the ocean I wouldn’t

the side down into the ocean I wouldn’t

the side down into the ocean I wouldn’t do that now but he did it and he blew

do that now but he did it and he blew

do that now but he did it and he blew his nose holes black soot came out right

his nose holes black soot came out right

his nose holes black soot came out right just all over the place in his

just all over the place in his

just all over the place in his handkerchief right boiling its nose

handkerchief right boiling its nose

handkerchief right boiling its nose blowing his nose you know and I did two

blowing his nose you know and I did two

blowing his nose you know and I did two guys I was in the room taking it all in

guys I was in the room taking it all in

guys I was in the room taking it all in also it’s a terrible way of doing stuff

also it’s a terrible way of doing stuff

also it’s a terrible way of doing stuff I was laundry since I stopped doing

I was laundry since I stopped doing

I was laundry since I stopped doing eventually came up with a different

eventually came up with a different

eventually came up with a different technique cuz I was gonna have cancer

technique cuz I was gonna have cancer

technique cuz I was gonna have cancer doing all these therapies on these

doing all these therapies on these

doing all these therapies on these people right and so he goes up there

people right and so he goes up there

people right and so he goes up there nice breathe fresh air and the fresh air

nice breathe fresh air and the fresh air

nice breathe fresh air and the fresh air feels so good then he comes up with the

feels so good then he comes up with the

feels so good then he comes up with the alternative and conditioning it works

alternative and conditioning it works

alternative and conditioning it works now you got to vary your technique for

now you got to vary your technique for

now you got to vary your technique for various things because once I found

various things because once I found

various things because once I found something work you know you tend to do

something work you know you tend to do

something work you know you tend to do Delano because it works but how to

Delano because it works but how to

Delano because it works but how to create momentum is really a science it’s

create momentum is really a science it’s

create momentum is really a science it’s not difficult but it is a science it’s a

not difficult but it is a science it’s a

not difficult but it is a science it’s a step-by-step process and when you

step-by-step process and when you

step-by-step process and when you understand how to do it you can create

understand how to do it you can create

understand how to do it you can create momentum anytime you want momentum in

momentum anytime you want momentum in

momentum anytime you want momentum in your business momentum and your emotions

your business momentum and your emotions

your business momentum and your emotions momentum in your career momentum in your

momentum in your career momentum in your

momentum in your career momentum in your relationships doesn’t matter what area

relationships doesn’t matter what area

relationships doesn’t matter what area of your life what’s the source of power

of your life what’s the source of power

of your life what’s the source of power within you or your organization they can

within you or your organization they can

within you or your organization they can turn around virtually anything in a

turn around virtually anything in a

turn around virtually anything in a matter of moments and the answer that of

matter of moments and the answer that of

matter of moments and the answer that of course is momentum now when you think

course is momentum now when you think

course is momentum now when you think about what does it take to succeed

about what does it take to succeed

about what does it take to succeed there’s so many things you can talk

there’s so many things you can talk

there’s so many things you can talk about what it takes to succeed in any

about what it takes to succeed in any

about what it takes to succeed in any situation but one thing that is

situation but one thing that is

situation but one thing that is universal to succeeding in any situation

universal to succeeding in any situation

universal to succeeding in any situation as you must take the first step and

as you must take the first step and

as you must take the first step and that’s the one that most people don’t do

that’s the one that most people don’t do

that’s the one that most people don’t do they study it they think about it they

they study it they think about it they

they study it they think about it they fret about it they complain about it but

fret about it they complain about it but

fret about it they complain about it but rarely do they take the first step and I

rarely do they take the first step and I

rarely do they take the first step and I want to do that I want to make sure that

want to do that I want to make sure that

want to do that I want to make sure that if you never heard another word I said

if you never heard another word I said

if you never heard another word I said for the rest of your life and you want

for the rest of your life and you want

for the rest of your life and you want to improve anything you’d know what to

to improve anything you’d know what to

to improve anything you’d know what to do first because we do the first thing

do first because we do the first thing

do first because we do the first thing you’ll likely come up with a second

you’ll likely come up with a second

you’ll likely come up with a second third and fourth thing it’s just a

third and fourth thing it’s just a

third and fourth thing it’s just a natural part of momentum will help to

natural part of momentum will help to

natural part of momentum will help to create that happening so what is that

create that happening so what is that

create that happening so what is that first step for me I’m gonna work on an

first step for me I’m gonna work on an

first step for me I’m gonna work on an athlete or a business person or a

athlete or a business person or a

athlete or a business person or a financial trader or a politician just no

financial trader or a politician just no

financial trader or a politician just no matter what the context is their game is

matter what the context is their game is

matter what the context is their game is not where they want it to be whether

not where they want it to be whether

not where they want it to be whether their games going well and they want to

their games going well and they want to

their games going well and they want to make it better there’s one place I go

make it better there’s one place I go

make it better there’s one place I go first always and that is I put them in a

first always and that is I put them in a

first always and that is I put them in a pink what the reason is because until

pink what the reason is because until

pink what the reason is because until you put somebody – Peaks pay everything

you put somebody – Peaks pay everything

you put somebody – Peaks pay everything you’re gonna get is going to be less

you’re gonna get is going to be less

you’re gonna get is going to be less than who they are and what they’re

than who they are and what they’re

than who they are and what they’re capable of

capable of

capable of so I want to get them that peak state so

so I want to get them that peak state so

so I want to get them that peak state so for example I met Andre Agassi for the

for example I met Andre Agassi for the

for example I met Andre Agassi for the first time years ago he was like 50th in

first time years ago he was like 50th in

first time years ago he was like 50th in the world or something like that and

the world or something like that and

the world or something like that and what happened was Andre has certain

what happened was Andre has certain

what happened was Andre has certain mindset and he came in and he had kind

mindset and he came in and he had kind

mindset and he came in and he had kind of an attitude with me and I said look

of an attitude with me and I said look

of an attitude with me and I said look Andre I said the bottom line is you give

Andre I said the bottom line is you give

Andre I said the bottom line is you give me 15 minutes of your total attention if

me 15 minutes of your total attention if

me 15 minutes of your total attention if no subpoena that you do and asked to do

no subpoena that you do and asked to do

no subpoena that you do and asked to do you don’t feel an immediate radical

you don’t feel an immediate radical

you don’t feel an immediate radical change then blow me off let’s move on

change then blow me off let’s move on

change then blow me off let’s move on let’s not waste any time so what I do

let’s not waste any time so what I do

let’s not waste any time so what I do basically was I gave him examples for

basically was I gave him examples for

basically was I gave him examples for videos that I’d seen of him I’d say okay

videos that I’d seen of him I’d say okay

videos that I’d seen of him I’d say okay here’s where you won the Wimbledon that

here’s where you won the Wimbledon that

here’s where you won the Wimbledon that was when he’s at his best here’s a guy

was when he’s at his best here’s a guy

was when he’s at his best here’s a guy that been as good as anybody in the game

that been as good as anybody in the game

that been as good as anybody in the game and you watch him right and I show him

and you watch him right and I show him

and you watch him right and I show him and this guy’s walking out in the court

and this guy’s walking out in the court

and this guy’s walking out in the court it’s before he cut his hair and he walks

it’s before he cut his hair and he walks

it’s before he cut his hair and he walks out like this right and he looks at cars

out like this right and he looks at cars

out like this right and he looks at cars crossed the court like this the guy in

crossed the court like this the guy in

crossed the court like this the guy in the other side of the court I said what

the other side of the court I said what

the other side of the court I said what were you thinking at that moment

were you thinking at that moment

were you thinking at that moment he said I don’t know what I was thinking

he said I don’t know what I was thinking

he said I don’t know what I was thinking I said what were you thinking he starts

I said what were you thinking he starts

I said what were you thinking he starts thinking of this guy why did you even

thinking of this guy why did you even

thinking of this guy why did you even show up right now it’s not a certain

show up right now it’s not a certain

show up right now it’s not a certain state now that state you don’t think

state now that state you don’t think

state now that state you don’t think about okay it’s my backhand gonna be

about okay it’s my backhand gonna be

about okay it’s my backhand gonna be okay right because what happens is when

okay right because what happens is when

okay right because what happens is when you’re in your best you don’t think

you’re in your best you don’t think

you’re in your best you don’t think about how to do it you just do it don’t

about how to do it you just do it don’t

about how to do it you just do it don’t you it just flows that’s a big thing so

you it just flows that’s a big thing so

you it just flows that’s a big thing so I said okay here’s the French Open he

I said okay here’s the French Open he

I said okay here’s the French Open he walks out like Don Knotts looks over at

walks out like Don Knotts looks over at

walks out like Don Knotts looks over at the other guy’s just look in his face

the other guy’s just look in his face

the other guy’s just look in his face were you thinking then he said I

were you thinking then he said I

were you thinking then he said I remember the last time he beat me so

remember the last time he beat me so

remember the last time he beat me so what I do is I change is stay anchored

what I do is I change is stay anchored

what I do is I change is stay anchored it showed him a couple ways to trigger

it showed him a couple ways to trigger

it showed him a couple ways to trigger it was very fundamental and in less than

it was very fundamental and in less than

it was very fundamental and in less than six months he was number one in the

six months he was number one in the

six months he was number one in the world the honor he’s gone back down and

world the honor he’s gone back down and

world the honor he’s gone back down and up again after got injured recently and

up again after got injured recently and

up again after got injured recently and I was talking to Brooke about it she

I was talking to Brooke about it she

I was talking to Brooke about it she goes his pride says he’s got to do it

goes his pride says he’s got to do it

goes his pride says he’s got to do it himself this time again which I’m sure

himself this time again which I’m sure

himself this time again which I’m sure he has the ability to do but sometimes

he has the ability to do but sometimes

he has the ability to do but sometimes people just don’t manage that state they

people just don’t manage that state they

people just don’t manage that state they don’t go there first they work on their

don’t go there first they work on their

don’t go there first they work on their game they’re working on their state say

game they’re working on their state say

game they’re working on their state say I don’t know anything about the game but

I don’t know anything about the game but

I don’t know anything about the game but I know everything about human psychology

I know everything about human psychology

I know everything about human psychology would affects every game that’s the

would affects every game that’s the

would affects every game that’s the power that’s the linkage so what we want

power that’s the linkage so what we want

power that’s the linkage so what we want to do from this day forward is if you

to do from this day forward is if you

to do from this day forward is if you want to get better to anything if you

want to get better to anything if you

want to get better to anything if you want to suddenly be better in your

want to suddenly be better in your

want to suddenly be better in your performance of business if you suddenly

performance of business if you suddenly

performance of business if you suddenly want to be more passionate in your

want to be more passionate in your

want to be more passionate in your relationship if you want to make an

relationship if you want to make an

relationship if you want to make an improvement in your study habits if you

improvement in your study habits if you

improvement in your study habits if you want to help your kids more the first

want to help your kids more the first

want to help your kids more the first step to any of those things is always

step to any of those things is always

step to any of those things is always the same put yourself in a what in a

the same put yourself in a what in a

the same put yourself in a what in a peak state it’s gonna be step number one

peak state it’s gonna be step number one

peak state it’s gonna be step number one no matter what we do now here’s the good

no matter what we do now here’s the good

no matter what we do now here’s the good news there’s basically two things you’ll

news there’s basically two things you’ll

news there’s basically two things you’ll change to change your state in a moment

change to change your state in a moment

change to change your state in a moment you’ll change either your

you’ll change either your

you’ll change either your and what kind of changing the physiology

and what kind of changing the physiology

and what kind of changing the physiology what kind radical change or you will

what kind radical change or you will

what kind radical change or you will change your or both right and you know

change your or both right and you know

change your or both right and you know how to do it so let’s very quickly first

how to do it so let’s very quickly first

how to do it so let’s very quickly first see that I’ll walk you through the whole

see that I’ll walk you through the whole

see that I’ll walk you through the whole thing first so once you get yourself in

thing first so once you get yourself in

thing first so once you get yourself in a peak state that’s kind of like priming

a peak state that’s kind of like priming

a peak state that’s kind of like priming the pump ever got yourself into Peaks

the pump ever got yourself into Peaks

the pump ever got yourself into Peaks like a ramp and you’re there for a while

like a ramp and you’re there for a while

like a ramp and you’re there for a while then gradually you come back to the

then gradually you come back to the

then gradually you come back to the Kryptonite Clark Kent that you were

Kryptonite Clark Kent that you were

Kryptonite Clark Kent that you were before all right how many to experience

before all right how many to experience

before all right how many to experience this being a peak State and then

this being a peak State and then

this being a peak State and then gradually dropping down say I the reason

gradually dropping down say I the reason

gradually dropping down say I the reason you dropped down is you didn’t keep

you dropped down is you didn’t keep

you dropped down is you didn’t keep momentum going by going to the second

momentum going by going to the second

momentum going by going to the second element and that is you must find your

element and that is you must find your

element and that is you must find your passion

passion

passion what does that mean it means you gotta

what does that mean it means you gotta

what does that mean it means you gotta discover what do you love what do you

discover what do you love what do you

discover what do you love what do you really love what excites you what juices

really love what excites you what juices

really love what excites you what juices you what do you hate cuz I got news for

you what do you hate cuz I got news for

you what do you hate cuz I got news for you people are driven only about what

you people are driven only about what

you people are driven only about what they want but also what they don’t want

they want but also what they don’t want

they want but also what they don’t want very often people come to me and they’ll

very often people come to me and they’ll

very often people come to me and they’ll say well I don’t know what I want to do

say well I don’t know what I want to do

say well I don’t know what I want to do for my career

for my career

for my career I’ll say well drew describe me the ideal

I’ll say well drew describe me the ideal

I’ll say well drew describe me the ideal job I don’t know what it is I’ll say

job I don’t know what it is I’ll say

job I don’t know what it is I’ll say okay great

okay great

okay great describe to me the job you at Hayes

describe to me the job you at Hayes

describe to me the job you at Hayes subscribe to me right now our job

subscribe to me right now our job

subscribe to me right now our job describe the environment you would hate

describe the environment you would hate

describe the environment you would hate to be and the people you hate to be

to be and the people you hate to be

to be and the people you hate to be around the kind of work you would hate

around the kind of work you would hate

around the kind of work you would hate to do right kinda money even hate to me

to do right kinda money even hate to me

to do right kinda money even hate to me you look through the whole thing and

you look through the whole thing and

you look through the whole thing and when they’re all done they have no

when they’re all done they have no

when they’re all done they have no problem scrubbing what they hate and

problem scrubbing what they hate and

problem scrubbing what they hate and they get passionate about what they are

they get passionate about what they are

they get passionate about what they are I hate this like that all this energy is

I hate this like that all this energy is

I hate this like that all this energy is coming out of it then I said okay great

coming out of it then I said okay great

coming out of it then I said okay great look at that you Haven yeah now right

look at that you Haven yeah now right

look at that you Haven yeah now right the opposite and you have the job for

the opposite and you have the job for

the opposite and you have the job for heaven you have your ideal so you can

heaven you have your ideal so you can

heaven you have your ideal so you can get to a person’s drive through what

get to a person’s drive through what

get to a person’s drive through what they love do what they hate what excites

they love do what they hate what excites

they love do what they hate what excites them to it drives them and very often

them to it drives them and very often

them to it drives them and very often I’ll ask people or what do you want they

I’ll ask people or what do you want they

I’ll ask people or what do you want they don’t I don’t know if I knew that I

don’t I don’t know if I knew that I

don’t I don’t know if I knew that I could get it all worked out I really

could get it all worked out I really

could get it all worked out I really don’t know and the reason they don’t

don’t know and the reason they don’t

don’t know and the reason they don’t know is because you’re asking in this

know is because you’re asking in this

know is because you’re asking in this state see it’s like trying to walk in

state see it’s like trying to walk in

state see it’s like trying to walk in this thing not gonna happen so the

this thing not gonna happen so the

this thing not gonna happen so the reason you’re not getting the answer is

reason you’re not getting the answer is

reason you’re not getting the answer is you are not putting yourself in a state

you are not putting yourself in a state

you are not putting yourself in a state of total certainty so by putting

of total certainty so by putting

of total certainty so by putting yourself in a Peake’s think people I’m

yourself in a Peake’s think people I’m

yourself in a Peake’s think people I’m saying what I want to say stand tall

saying what I want to say stand tall

saying what I want to say stand tall breathe strong

breathe strong

breathe strong now if you knew what you want what you

now if you knew what you want what you

now if you knew what you want what you said was though they tell you

said was though they tell you

said was though they tell you immediately cuz all you’ve done is put

immediately cuz all you’ve done is put

immediately cuz all you’ve done is put in the state where the answers really

in the state where the answers really

in the state where the answers really are there it’s all you got to do third

are there it’s all you got to do third

are there it’s all you got to do third part once you’re in state that’s like

part once you’re in state that’s like

part once you’re in state that’s like priming the pump right remember in the

priming the pump right remember in the

priming the pump right remember in the old days if you want to get the out of

old days if you want to get the out of

old days if you want to get the out of the well the water you got to feed it

the well the water you got to feed it

the well the water you got to feed it something first so putting yourself in

something first so putting yourself in

something first so putting yourself in state feeds it

state feeds it

state feeds it but to get to the well you find your

but to get to the well you find your

but to get to the well you find your passion and the well of passion is never

passion and the well of passion is never

passion and the well of passion is never ending paint you lot of things excites

ending paint you lot of things excites

ending paint you lot of things excites things you hate but once you find that

things you hate but once you find that

things you hate but once you find that passion that’ll go for a long time but

passion that’ll go for a long time but

passion that’ll go for a long time but you venture to keep momentum going you

you venture to keep momentum going you

you venture to keep momentum going you have to take that passion and do

have to take that passion and do

have to take that passion and do something with it so step three is you

something with it so step three is you

something with it so step three is you must decide commit and resolve what

must decide commit and resolve what

must decide commit and resolve what you’re gonna do with it and that’s what

you’re gonna do with it and that’s what

you’re gonna do with it and that’s what keeps the momentum going otherwise

keeps the momentum going otherwise

keeps the momentum going otherwise you’re just passionate for a long time

you’re just passionate for a long time

you’re just passionate for a long time and then gradually that’ll just date and

and then gradually that’ll just date and

and then gradually that’ll just date and by the way those are three different

by the way those are three different

by the way those are three different experiences decision committing and

experiences decision committing and

experiences decision committing and resolving they are different emotions

resolving they are different emotions

resolving they are different emotions and they’re all three critical if you’re

and they’re all three critical if you’re

and they’re all three critical if you’re gonna actually follow through on your

gonna actually follow through on your

gonna actually follow through on your decision step four for momentum is you

decision step four for momentum is you

decision step four for momentum is you must get yourself to take mass of what

must get yourself to take mass of what

must get yourself to take mass of what that’s right because the only way a

that’s right because the only way a

that’s right because the only way a decision is real is if you act upon it

decision is real is if you act upon it

decision is real is if you act upon it if you don’t have to bond it you make a

if you don’t have to bond it you make a

if you don’t have to bond it you make a decision you’ll lose momentum and then

decision you’ll lose momentum and then

decision you’ll lose momentum and then finally when you start taking action

finally when you start taking action

finally when you start taking action you’ll start getting results and now you

you’ll start getting results and now you

you’ll start getting results and now you want to be smart and smart is an acronym

want to be smart and smart is an acronym

want to be smart and smart is an acronym for you want to make sure your strategy

for you want to make sure your strategy

for you want to make sure your strategy is really working remember you want to

is really working remember you want to

is really working remember you want to have sensory acuity isn’t working or not

have sensory acuity isn’t working or not

have sensory acuity isn’t working or not you want to measure it you want assess

you want to measure it you want assess

you want to measure it you want assess is it giving you what you want and if it

is it giving you what you want and if it

is it giving you what you want and if it is you want to reinforce it and take new

is you want to reinforce it and take new

is you want to reinforce it and take new action and that keeps the momentum going

action and that keeps the momentum going

action and that keeps the momentum going and then you’ll see in the middle of

and then you’ll see in the middle of

and then you’ll see in the middle of circle there are some forces that will

circle there are some forces that will

circle there are some forces that will either accelerate or break your progress

either accelerate or break your progress

either accelerate or break your progress and that is emotion certain emotions

and that is emotion certain emotions

and that is emotion certain emotions will speed it up more passionate right

will speed it up more passionate right

will speed it up more passionate right more intensity certain emotions like

more intensity certain emotions like

more intensity certain emotions like fear will slow it down to a break your

fear will slow it down to a break your

fear will slow it down to a break your progress of momentum same thing is true

progress of momentum same thing is true

progress of momentum same thing is true with focusing your power when you

with focusing your power when you

with focusing your power when you concentrate all your focus on something

concentrate all your focus on something

concentrate all your focus on something it accelerates that if it’s something

it accelerates that if it’s something

it accelerates that if it’s something good if you focus on your greatest fear

good if you focus on your greatest fear

good if you focus on your greatest fear it’s gonna starving down same thing as

it’s gonna starving down same thing as

it’s gonna starving down same thing as modeling but I want to speed up my

modeling but I want to speed up my

modeling but I want to speed up my momentum well then I can learn by

momentum well then I can learn by

momentum well then I can learn by someone else’s experience when I had no

someone else’s experience when I had no

someone else’s experience when I had no money I mean none I couldn’t make my own

money I mean none I couldn’t make my own

money I mean none I couldn’t make my own bills I could make my rent I would take

bills I could make my rent I would take

bills I could make my rent I would take my money and go to a seminar or take

my money and go to a seminar or take

my money and go to a seminar or take somebody’s lunch she was brilliant

somebody’s lunch she was brilliant

somebody’s lunch she was brilliant picked their brain because I realized

picked their brain because I realized

picked their brain because I realized I’m always not gonna have money for rent

I’m always not gonna have money for rent

I’m always not gonna have money for rent until I make a radical change in my

until I make a radical change in my

until I make a radical change in my understanding skill in psychology and I

understanding skill in psychology and I

understanding skill in psychology and I don’t want to wait forever I gotta get

don’t want to wait forever I gotta get

don’t want to wait forever I gotta get it now so I would stretch to get the

it now so I would stretch to get the

it now so I would stretch to get the resources of someone else when I

resources of someone else when I

resources of someone else when I couldn’t possibly do it because I

couldn’t possibly do it because I

couldn’t possibly do it because I understood that a big part of my life

understood that a big part of my life

understood that a big part of my life came about from saying I want to

came about from saying I want to

came about from saying I want to compress decades into days don’t only do

compress decades into days don’t only do

compress decades into days don’t only do that let’s get those resources and that

that let’s get those resources and that

that let’s get those resources and that sped up my momentum gave me the power of

sped up my momentum gave me the power of

sped up my momentum gave me the power of modeling another one there is synergy

modeling another one there is synergy

modeling another one there is synergy how through synergy you can speed things

how through synergy you can speed things

how through synergy you can speed things up and lastly the power of environment

up and lastly the power of environment

up and lastly the power of environment but

but

but I see what he really wants what are you

I see what he really wants what are you

I see what he really wants what are you committed to now once you’ve got those

committed to now once you’ve got those

committed to now once you’ve got those emotions brewing it’s a lot easier to do

emotions brewing it’s a lot easier to do

emotions brewing it’s a lot easier to do what all change comes from which is to

what all change comes from which is to

what all change comes from which is to make a real one

make a real one

make a real one decision because if you look at your

decision because if you look at your

decision because if you look at your life you want to see why your life is

life you want to see why your life is

life you want to see why your life is the way it is the parts of your life you

the way it is the parts of your life you

the way it is the parts of your life you love and maybe the parts of your life

love and maybe the parts of your life

love and maybe the parts of your life you’re not as thrilled with you can

you’re not as thrilled with you can

you’re not as thrilled with you can really define why your life is there if

really define why your life is there if

really define why your life is there if you really look at your life by your

you really look at your life by your

you really look at your life by your decisions he said no no no that’s the

decisions he said no no no that’s the

decisions he said no no no that’s the way God made it well that may be true

way God made it well that may be true

way God made it well that may be true but God has made lots of people have the

but God has made lots of people have the

but God has made lots of people have the same experience but what you took out of

same experience but what you took out of

same experience but what you took out of that experience was your conscious

that experience was your conscious

that experience was your conscious choice or unconscious choice you decided

choice or unconscious choice you decided

choice or unconscious choice you decided and so if you look at your life I bet

and so if you look at your life I bet

and so if you look at your life I bet you could look at the last 10 years of

you could look at the last 10 years of

you could look at the last 10 years of your life for example maybe last 15 I’d

your life for example maybe last 15 I’d

your life for example maybe last 15 I’d be willing to bet there are places along

be willing to bet there are places along

be willing to bet there are places along the way that if you would have made a

the way that if you would have made a

the way that if you would have made a different decision your life would be

different decision your life would be

different decision your life would be radically different than it is right now

radically different than it is right now

radically different than it is right now better or worse I don’t know but you

better or worse I don’t know but you

better or worse I don’t know but you probably do but it certainly be

probably do but it certainly be

probably do but it certainly be different

different

different how many would agree with that say I am

how many would agree with that say I am

how many would agree with that say I am a lot of times those decisions we don’t

a lot of times those decisions we don’t

a lot of times those decisions we don’t think much about sometimes the decisions

think much about sometimes the decisions

think much about sometimes the decisions like what we’re gonna do for a living or

like what we’re gonna do for a living or

like what we’re gonna do for a living or where we’re gonna live or who are gonna

where we’re gonna live or who are gonna

where we’re gonna live or who are gonna spend time with or who we’re gonna marry

spend time with or who we’re gonna marry

spend time with or who we’re gonna marry or they’re gonna have children all right

or they’re gonna have children all right

or they’re gonna have children all right what we’re gonna believe those choices

what we’re gonna believe those choices

what we’re gonna believe those choices have shaped who you are and so if you

have shaped who you are and so if you

have shaped who you are and so if you want to transform the quality of your

want to transform the quality of your

want to transform the quality of your life there is only one power on its

life there is only one power on its

life there is only one power on its decision but most people have not made a

decision but most people have not made a

decision but most people have not made a decision so long like a real decision I

decision so long like a real decision I

decision so long like a real decision I mean a tough one where it’s hard you

mean a tough one where it’s hard you

mean a tough one where it’s hard you make yourself do it they kind of like

make yourself do it they kind of like

make yourself do it they kind of like Express preferences and kind of see if

Express preferences and kind of see if

Express preferences and kind of see if it works out they put it in a mode

it works out they put it in a mode

it works out they put it in a mode and decision made from a should is not a

and decision made from a should is not a

and decision made from a should is not a real decision because you don’t act on

real decision because you don’t act on

real decision because you don’t act on it you do it for a little while you

it you do it for a little while you

it you do it for a little while you never really not only decide but they

never really not only decide but they

never really not only decide but they commit and really resolve but no matter

commit and really resolve but no matter

commit and really resolve but no matter what you’re gonna make it happen that’s

what you’re gonna make it happen that’s

what you’re gonna make it happen that’s different than just deciding in the

different than just deciding in the

different than just deciding in the moment right that’s not a real decision

moment right that’s not a real decision

moment right that’s not a real decision that’s the preference you’re expressing

that’s the preference you’re expressing

that’s the preference you’re expressing so if you think about that then there

so if you think about that then there

so if you think about that then there are decisions along the way that shaped

are decisions along the way that shaped

are decisions along the way that shaped your life radically and then you want to

your life radically and then you want to

your life radically and then you want to shave your life you want to take control

shave your life you want to take control

shave your life you want to take control of that power that your Creator has

of that power that your Creator has

of that power that your Creator has given you and you got to do it

given you and you got to do it

given you and you got to do it consciously because otherwise what

consciously because otherwise what

consciously because otherwise what happens is you just go with the flow and

happens is you just go with the flow and

happens is you just go with the flow and then going the flow sounds really nice

then going the flow sounds really nice

then going the flow sounds really nice but the problem is you get to the fork

but the problem is you get to the fork

but the problem is you get to the fork in the river and you haven’t decided

in the river and you haven’t decided

in the river and you haven’t decided clearly you go with the flow well the

clearly you go with the flow well the

clearly you go with the flow well the flow of water the strongest flow goes to

flow of water the strongest flow goes to

flow of water the strongest flow goes to where the falls are

where the falls are

where the falls are and one day you wake up you know three

and one day you wake up you know three

and one day you wake up you know three feet from Niagara Falls and a boat with

feet from Niagara Falls and a boat with

feet from Niagara Falls and a boat with no oars you go oh shoot at that point

no oars you go oh shoot at that point

no oars you go oh shoot at that point it’s a little late so we want to do is

it’s a little late so we want to do is

it’s a little late so we want to do is get really conscious about decision

get really conscious about decision

get really conscious about decision making but again you want to do it from

making but again you want to do it from

making but again you want to do it from a big state I had a friend that for

a big state I had a friend that for

a big state I had a friend that for years drove this old horrible car he

years drove this old horrible car he

years drove this old horrible car he hated they kept doing it because his

hated they kept doing it because his

hated they kept doing it because his belief was that God wanted to be poor

belief was that God wanted to be poor

belief was that God wanted to be poor and his kids hated it they make him drop

and his kids hated it they make him drop

and his kids hated it they make him drop him off walk from school he made a

him off walk from school he made a

him off walk from school he made a decision to believe that God wanted him

decision to believe that God wanted him

decision to believe that God wanted him to be abundant and his first act that he

to be abundant and his first act that he

to be abundant and his first act that he did his committed act as you took out a

did his committed act as you took out a

did his committed act as you took out a shotgun and blew up as many holes in

shotgun and blew up as many holes in

shotgun and blew up as many holes in that car as he could say I will never

that car as he could say I will never

that car as he could say I will never drive this car again and neither will

drive this car again and neither will

drive this car again and neither will anyone else commit an act momentum comes

anyone else commit an act momentum comes

anyone else commit an act momentum comes when you not only decide but you take

when you not only decide but you take

when you not only decide but you take immediate action what immediate action

immediate action what immediate action

immediate action what immediate action are you gonna take to demonstrate you

are you gonna take to demonstrate you

are you gonna take to demonstrate you meaning who you’re gonna tell what are

meaning who you’re gonna tell what are

meaning who you’re gonna tell what are you gonna do what’s the first thing it

you gonna do what’s the first thing it

you gonna do what’s the first thing it is simple then what’s a big thing you

is simple then what’s a big thing you

is simple then what’s a big thing you could do that commits you here it shows

could do that commits you here it shows

could do that commits you here it shows this means business action is momentum

this means business action is momentum

this means business action is momentum what action would you take immediately

what action would you take immediately

what action would you take immediately to create more momentum now to back up

to create more momentum now to back up

to create more momentum now to back up your decision with power think it’s a

your decision with power think it’s a

your decision with power think it’s a little decision a little action rather

little decision a little action rather

little decision a little action rather on your decision once a big one you do

on your decision once a big one you do

on your decision once a big one you do that would just be like this is it maybe

that would just be like this is it maybe

that would just be like this is it maybe and feel good feel good to take

and feel good feel good to take

and feel good feel good to take committing acts wouldn’t it it takes you

committing acts wouldn’t it it takes you

committing acts wouldn’t it it takes you beyond decision it takes you to total

beyond decision it takes you to total

beyond decision it takes you to total momentum action power results now if you

momentum action power results now if you

momentum action power results now if you remember this momentum model we said

remember this momentum model we said

remember this momentum model we said that the steps were that you had to

that the steps were that you had to

that the steps were that you had to first put yourself in a be quite step to

first put yourself in a be quite step to

first put yourself in a be quite step to is once you’re in that beat state to

is once you’re in that beat state to

is once you’re in that beat state to keep it going you got to find your what

keep it going you got to find your what

keep it going you got to find your what do you love what he hate would excite

do you love what he hate would excite

do you love what he hate would excite you what drives you want you there you

you what drives you want you there you

you what drives you want you there you must take immediate make I should say

must take immediate make I should say

must take immediate make I should say you must make an immediate decision

you must make an immediate decision

you must make an immediate decision right he’s gonna use that emotion to do

right he’s gonna use that emotion to do

right he’s gonna use that emotion to do something worthwhile and then you want

something worthwhile and then you want

something worthwhile and then you want to take decision to committing and

to take decision to committing and

to take decision to committing and resolving how many can feel the

resolving how many can feel the

resolving how many can feel the difference when let’s resolve say I then

difference when let’s resolve say I then

difference when let’s resolve say I then you must take immediate massive

you must take immediate massive

you must take immediate massive intelligent what that’s right then all

intelligent what that’s right then all

intelligent what that’s right then all you’ll do is be smart will just notice

you’ll do is be smart will just notice

you’ll do is be smart will just notice your strategy if it’s working or not

your strategy if it’s working or not

your strategy if it’s working or not it’s working reinforce it it’ll keep

it’s working reinforce it it’ll keep

it’s working reinforce it it’ll keep let’s not change your approach what if

let’s not change your approach what if

let’s not change your approach what if that doesn’t work what do you do if that

that doesn’t work what do you do if that

that doesn’t work what do you do if that doesn’t work what do you do whole time

doesn’t work what do you do whole time

doesn’t work what do you do whole time using your sensory community keep

using your sensory community keep

using your sensory community keep changing till you get what you want

changing till you get what you want

changing till you get what you want period