good to treat other people the way you would like to be treated yourself it’s
would like to be treated yourself it’s
would like to be treated yourself it’s like a golden rule and there’s a reason
like a golden rule and there’s a reason
like a golden rule and there’s a reason for it and that reason is that we’re
for it and that reason is that we’re
for it and that reason is that we’re connected in some strange way that we
connected in some strange way that we
connected in some strange way that we don’t totally understand unless you are
don’t totally understand unless you are
don’t totally understand unless you are good to other people around you unless
good to other people around you unless
good to other people around you unless you’re a kind and friendly and warm and
you’re a kind and friendly and warm and
you’re a kind and friendly and warm and loving you’re not gonna enjoy this life
loving you’re not gonna enjoy this life
loving you’re not gonna enjoy this life you’re just not you’re gonna be problems
you’re just not you’re gonna be problems
you’re just not you’re gonna be problems everywhere you go you’re gonna have
everywhere you go you’re gonna have
everywhere you go you’re gonna have problems everywhere you go you got to
problems everywhere you go you got to
problems everywhere you go you got to figure out a way to enjoy this life it’s
figure out a way to enjoy this life it’s
figure out a way to enjoy this life it’s not because of Jesus it’s not because of
not because of Jesus it’s not because of
not because of Jesus it’s not because of Moses it’s not because of anybody that
Moses it’s not because of anybody that
Moses it’s not because of anybody that may or may not have ever existed it’s
may or may not have ever existed it’s
may or may not have ever existed it’s because that’s how you fit in better in
because that’s how you fit in better in
because that’s how you fit in better in the world that’s how you stay positive
the world that’s how you stay positive
the world that’s how you stay positive and it doesn’t have to be some that was
and it doesn’t have to be some that was
and it doesn’t have to be some that was written 5,000 years ago on animal skins
written 5,000 years ago on animal skins
written 5,000 years ago on animal skins that doesn’t have to be the golden rule
that doesn’t have to be the golden rule
that doesn’t have to be the golden rule because it’s old
because it’s old
because it’s old you know that’s dumb we need to figure
you know that’s dumb we need to figure
you know that’s dumb we need to figure out like now today what what is you know
out like now today what what is you know
out like now today what what is you know the best way to live your life what is
the best way to live your life what is
the best way to live your life what is that you know there’s got to be ways so
that you know there’s got to be ways so
that you know there’s got to be ways so you can be putting forward the most
you can be putting forward the most
you can be putting forward the most positive energy I mean we know
positive energy I mean we know
positive energy I mean we know objectively what’s causing pollution we
objectively what’s causing pollution we
objectively what’s causing pollution we know objectively what’s causing birth
know objectively what’s causing birth
know objectively what’s causing birth defects and you know and we’re taking in
defects and you know and we’re taking in
defects and you know and we’re taking in too much chemicals and not enough
too much chemicals and not enough
too much chemicals and not enough vitamins we know objectively all this
vitamins we know objectively all this
vitamins we know objectively all this stuff we know how to organize our world
stuff we know how to organize our world
stuff we know how to organize our world and yeah we don’t do it we know how to
and yeah we don’t do it we know how to
and yeah we don’t do it we know how to organize our health and yet very few
organize our health and yet very few
organize our health and yet very few people do it we know all these things
people do it we know all these things
people do it we know all these things the right path to like being like a
the right path to like being like a
the right path to like being like a happy healthy person is to do all this
happy healthy person is to do all this
happy healthy person is to do all this that we already know you’re supposed to
that we already know you’re supposed to
that we already know you’re supposed to do take care of your body take care of
do take care of your body take care of
do take care of your body take care of your health take care of your mind your
your health take care of your mind your
your health take care of your mind your stress meditate be kind to people we all
stress meditate be kind to people we all
stress meditate be kind to people we all know that I mean you ask anybody they
know that I mean you ask anybody they
know that I mean you ask anybody they know how to get by and to be the the
know how to get by and to be the the
know how to get by and to be the the most evolved version of you that you can
most evolved version of you that you can
most evolved version of you that you can be I mean it’s not like a magical
be I mean it’s not like a magical
be I mean it’s not like a magical checklist if you talk to people about it
checklist if you talk to people about it
checklist if you talk to people about it you said okay here you got a person you
you said okay here you got a person you
you said okay here you got a person you want to improve them what are the things
want to improve them what are the things
want to improve them what are the things you’re gonna do to them okay well if I
you’re gonna do to them okay well if I
you’re gonna do to them okay well if I was a life coach the first thing I would
was a life coach the first thing I would
was a life coach the first thing I would say is this guy’s got to get on a diet
say is this guy’s got to get on a diet
say is this guy’s got to get on a diet that makes them healthy I don’t mean to
that makes them healthy I don’t mean to
that makes them healthy I don’t mean to die just to lose weight I mean just
die just to lose weight I mean just
die just to lose weight I mean just healthy foods in your body need many
healthy foods in your body need many
healthy foods in your body need many many vegetables vegetables a lot of
many vegetables vegetables a lot of
many vegetables vegetables a lot of good quality protein a lot of water stop
good quality protein a lot of water stop
good quality protein a lot of water stop the sodas stop the Bulls start working
the sodas stop the Bulls start working
the sodas stop the Bulls start working out your body and get a better sense of
out your body and get a better sense of
out your body and get a better sense of like how this machine feels when it’s
like how this machine feels when it’s
like how this machine feels when it’s moving it’s flowing better there’s less
moving it’s flowing better there’s less
moving it’s flowing better there’s less tension in it your mind feels like
tension in it your mind feels like
tension in it your mind feels like relaxed and you enjoy every single
relaxed and you enjoy every single
relaxed and you enjoy every single moment of the day better step 1
moment of the day better step 1
moment of the day better step 1 everybody knows that step right what
everybody knows that step right what
everybody knows that step right what step 2 be cool to people be nice to his
step 2 be cool to people be nice to his
step 2 be cool to people be nice to his many people as you can’t smile at his
many people as you can’t smile at his
many people as you can’t smile at his many people as you can have them smile
many people as you can have them smile
many people as you can have them smile back at you tip well when you go to
back at you tip well when you go to
back at you tip well when you go to restaurants just do the most you can be
restaurants just do the most you can be
restaurants just do the most you can be as nice as you can you know and just
as nice as you can you know and just
as nice as you can you know and just still manage to have people walk all
still manage to have people walk all
still manage to have people walk all over you just get through this life it’s
over you just get through this life it’s
over you just get through this life it’s nice you’re ten what else do what you
nice you’re ten what else do what you
nice you’re ten what else do what you want to do with your life right don’t
want to do with your life right don’t
want to do with your life right don’t don’t go be doing something you don’t
don’t go be doing something you don’t
don’t go be doing something you don’t enjoy don’t do something that’s don’t
enjoy don’t do something that’s don’t
enjoy don’t do something that’s don’t get locked into you know a car that you
get locked into you know a car that you
get locked into you know a car that you can’t afford and doing something crazy
can’t afford and doing something crazy
can’t afford and doing something crazy because you need the money don’t don’t
because you need the money don’t don’t
because you need the money don’t don’t do that
do that
do that do what you want to do do what cliff is
do what you want to do do what cliff is
do what you want to do do what cliff is it that you really want to do because if
it that you really want to do because if
it that you really want to do because if someone else is doing it you can do it
someone else is doing it you can do it
someone else is doing it you can do it you know I mean everybody makes their
you know I mean everybody makes their
you know I mean everybody makes their own path through this world but a lot of
own path through this world but a lot of
own path through this world but a lot of people don’t follow the path that they
people don’t follow the path that they
people don’t follow the path that they really feel pulled to you know theirs
really feel pulled to you know theirs
really feel pulled to you know theirs for whatever reason they got negative
for whatever reason they got negative
for whatever reason they got negative programming you know when they were kids
programming you know when they were kids
programming you know when they were kids someone told them that couldn’t do it or
someone told them that couldn’t do it or
someone told them that couldn’t do it or told them to take the shortcut or or
told them to take the shortcut or or
told them to take the shortcut or or take the the shore route that’s a sad
take the the shore route that’s a sad
take the the shore route that’s a sad thing man when you talk to dudes
thing man when you talk to dudes
thing man when you talk to dudes especially like talented dudes and they
especially like talented dudes and they
especially like talented dudes and they don’t follow up with what they want to
don’t follow up with what they want to
don’t follow up with what they want to do you know a bunch of people that will
do you know a bunch of people that will
do you know a bunch of people that will say yeah well I’ve a family sure you
say yeah well I’ve a family sure you
say yeah well I’ve a family sure you know it’s a great idea for you to just
know it’s a great idea for you to just
know it’s a great idea for you to just go out there and go crazy I have people
go out there and go crazy I have people
go out there and go crazy I have people to support you need to listen
to support you need to listen
to support you need to listen stop saying that stop saying any of
stop saying that stop saying any of
stop saying that stop saying any of those things every single person who has
those things every single person who has
those things every single person who has ever done anything worthwhile or
ever done anything worthwhile or
ever done anything worthwhile or exceptional or difficult or
exceptional or difficult or
exceptional or difficult or extraordinary anyone whether it’s great
extraordinary anyone whether it’s great
extraordinary anyone whether it’s great artists or authors or mathematicians or
artists or authors or mathematicians or
artists or authors or mathematicians or whatever the it is everyone encounters
whatever the it is everyone encounters
whatever the it is everyone encounters difficulties there is no easy road it
difficulties there is no easy road it
difficulties there is no easy road it does not exist it is impossible everyone
does not exist it is impossible everyone
does not exist it is impossible everyone has issues if you have time to pursue a
has issues if you have time to pursue a
has issues if you have time to pursue a hobby if you have time to do any
hobby if you have time to do any
hobby if you have time to do any in your life you can better yourself and
in your life you can better yourself and
in your life you can better yourself and here’s one way you never better yourself
here’s one way you never better yourself
here’s one way you never better yourself when you come up with excuses for why
when you come up with excuses for why
when you come up with excuses for why other people are successful in your not
other people are successful in your not
other people are successful in your not that it’s dangerous when you give
that it’s dangerous when you give
that it’s dangerous when you give yourself an escape yeah well that’s easy
yourself an escape yeah well that’s easy
yourself an escape yeah well that’s easy for you to say you know you do dude you
for you to say you know you do dude you
for you to say you know you do dude you didn’t – trust me everybody has a hard
didn’t – trust me everybody has a hard
didn’t – trust me everybody has a hard road I wanted to jump out of windows
road I wanted to jump out of windows
road I wanted to jump out of windows several times during my young life I
several times during my young life I
several times during my young life I wanted to jump in front of a train just
wanted to jump in front of a train just
wanted to jump in front of a train just ended because too much pressure not
ended because too much pressure not
ended because too much pressure not really but you know I’m saying
really but you know I’m saying
really but you know I’m saying theoretically we all go through hard
theoretically we all go through hard
theoretically we all go through hard times we all go through depression we
times we all go through depression we
times we all go through depression we all do go through doubt and then moments
all do go through doubt and then moments
all do go through doubt and then moments in your life where it’s really difficult
in your life where it’s really difficult
in your life where it’s really difficult and you’re trying to figure out what the
and you’re trying to figure out what the
and you’re trying to figure out what the your path is gonna be it’s hardest but
your path is gonna be it’s hardest but
your path is gonna be it’s hardest but Stephan and we’re talking about this
Stephan and we’re talking about this
Stephan and we’re talking about this before the podcast starts that that is
before the podcast starts that that is
before the podcast starts that that is what makes you a person and those
what makes you a person and those
what makes you a person and those difficult moments are what build your
difficult moments are what build your
difficult moments are what build your character show me a great man who’s the
character show me a great man who’s the
character show me a great man who’s the son of a great man
son of a great man
son of a great man that’s what we’re saying these kids that
that’s what we’re saying these kids that
that’s what we’re saying these kids that are born billionaires you’re you’re
are born billionaires you’re you’re
are born billionaires you’re you’re you’re never going to be a self-made
you’re never going to be a self-made
you’re never going to be a self-made person you have a back up trust for your
person you have a back up trust for your
person you have a back up trust for your back up trust for your trust and your
back up trust for your trust and your
back up trust for your trust and your man fascinated by martial arts I’m
man fascinated by martial arts I’m
man fascinated by martial arts I’m fascinated by comedy I’m fascinated by
fascinated by comedy I’m fascinated by
fascinated by comedy I’m fascinated by many many different things I don’t
many many different things I don’t
many many different things I don’t understand when people say they’re bored
understand when people say they’re bored
understand when people say they’re bored because if I had the time to live a
because if I had the time to live a
because if I had the time to live a hundred lives I’d be speaking different
hundred lives I’d be speaking different
hundred lives I’d be speaking different languages I’d be living in different
languages I’d be living in different
languages I’d be living in different countries I would I would try out a
countries I would I would try out a
countries I would I would try out a number of different careers because I
number of different careers because I
number of different careers because I think there’s a lot of unbelievably
think there’s a lot of unbelievably
think there’s a lot of unbelievably fascinating puzzling complex things that
fascinating puzzling complex things that
fascinating puzzling complex things that you could study in this world that’s
you could study in this world that’s
you could study in this world that’s just me and my personality but that’s a
just me and my personality but that’s a
just me and my personality but that’s a personality also that I’ve cultivated
personality also that I’ve cultivated
personality also that I’ve cultivated over years and we like that as a kid –
over years and we like that as a kid –
over years and we like that as a kid – while I was involved in martial arts
while I was involved in martial arts
while I was involved in martial arts very early and I think that is one of
very early and I think that is one of
very early and I think that is one of the things that motivated me to explore
the things that motivated me to explore
the things that motivated me to explore difficult tasks because through
difficult tasks because through
difficult tasks because through difficult tasks you learn an incredible
difficult tasks you learn an incredible
difficult tasks you learn an incredible amount about yourself and you through
amount about yourself and you through
amount about yourself and you through through the fire of competition you get
through the fire of competition you get
through the fire of competition you get to understand you get to understand
to understand you get to understand
to understand you get to understand motivation you get to understand the
motivation you get to understand the
motivation you get to understand the resistance that you have inside your
resistance that you have inside your
resistance that you have inside your mind – doing the hard work you get to
mind – doing the hard work you get to
mind – doing the hard work you get to understand the rewards of discipline
understand the rewards of discipline
understand the rewards of discipline like you don’t truly appreciate
like you don’t truly appreciate
like you don’t truly appreciate relaxation unless you’ve worked hard and
relaxation unless you’ve worked hard and
relaxation unless you’ve worked hard and that is the yin and the yang of life and
that is the yin and the yang of life and
that is the yin and the yang of life and I’ve said this – to the point of people
I’ve said this – to the point of people
I’ve said this – to the point of people getting sick of it but one of the worst
getting sick of it but one of the worst
getting sick of it but one of the worst decisions a man can make I can only
decisions a man can make I can only
decisions a man can make I can only speak for men obviously is to be
speak for men obviously is to be
speak for men obviously is to be comfortable I don’t think you should try
comfortable I don’t think you should try
comfortable I don’t think you should try to be comfortable I think what you
to be comfortable I think what you
to be comfortable I think what you should try to do is try to earn comfort
should try to do is try to earn comfort
should try to do is try to earn comfort and if you if you can get a day off
and if you if you can get a day off
and if you if you can get a day off where you you you’ve worked hard and
where you you you’ve worked hard and
where you you you’ve worked hard and you’ve accomplished goals that day off
you’ve accomplished goals that day off
you’ve accomplished goals that day off will be so sweet when I work hard and I
will be so sweet when I work hard and I
will be so sweet when I work hard and I sit in front of TV I enjoy the out
sit in front of TV I enjoy the out
sit in front of TV I enjoy the out of it I put my feet up I have a nice
of it I put my feet up I have a nice
of it I put my feet up I have a nice drink you know I enjoy my the airs that
drink you know I enjoy my the airs that
drink you know I enjoy my the airs that mids your back or something one of those
mids your back or something one of those
mids your back or something one of those are great I don’t use it that much
are great I don’t use it that much
are great I don’t use it that much though honestly I’m more of a workaholic
though honestly I’m more of a workaholic
though honestly I’m more of a workaholic than I should be probably if the balance
than I should be probably if the balance
than I should be probably if the balance was I probably should relax more than I
was I probably should relax more than I
was I probably should relax more than I do but I never feel like I earned it but
do but I never feel like I earned it but
do but I never feel like I earned it but that’s not part of the reason why when I
that’s not part of the reason why when I
that’s not part of the reason why when I do feel like I earned it I can enjoy it
do feel like I earned it I can enjoy it
do feel like I earned it I can enjoy it it’s because I am
it’s because I am
it’s because I am more connected to the idea that I need
more connected to the idea that I need
more connected to the idea that I need to accomplish things and to in and it’s
to accomplish things and to in and it’s
to accomplish things and to in and it’s not like for anybody else’s benefit
not like for anybody else’s benefit
not like for anybody else’s benefit other than my own or anybody else’s
other than my own or anybody else’s
other than my own or anybody else’s approval other than my own I just when I
approval other than my own I just when I
approval other than my own I just when I have a task whether it’s today I’m gonna
have a task whether it’s today I’m gonna
have a task whether it’s today I’m gonna write a thousand words
write a thousand words
write a thousand words you know or two thousand or whatever the
you know or two thousand or whatever the
you know or two thousand or whatever the number is if I don’t do that I don’t
number is if I don’t do that I don’t
number is if I don’t do that I don’t write things down like I’ll write down a
write things down like I’ll write down a
write things down like I’ll write down a list of things that get accomplished
list of things that get accomplished
list of things that get accomplished that day and if I don’t accomplish that
that day and if I don’t accomplish that
that day and if I don’t accomplish that I’ll get sick like it’ll drive me crazy
I’ll get sick like it’ll drive me crazy
I’ll get sick like it’ll drive me crazy if I can’t fill out that list that
if I can’t fill out that list that
if I can’t fill out that list that drives me nuts you know but that’s what
drives me nuts you know but that’s what
drives me nuts you know but that’s what led me to be a championship-level
led me to be a championship-level
led me to be a championship-level martial artist that’s what led me to
martial artist that’s what led me to
martial artist that’s what led me to achieve it’s like that
achieve it’s like that
achieve it’s like that it’s the reinforcement of those goals
it’s the reinforcement of those goals
it’s the reinforcement of those goals like understanding that you can achieve
like understanding that you can achieve
like understanding that you can achieve those goals it’s gonna be difficult
those goals it’s gonna be difficult
those goals it’s gonna be difficult you’re gonna push through the difficulty
you’re gonna push through the difficulty
you’re gonna push through the difficulty and then you’re gonna understand what
and then you’re gonna understand what
and then you’re gonna understand what difficulty truly is and how much of it
difficulty truly is and how much of it
difficulty truly is and how much of it is just mental how much of it is just in
is just mental how much of it is just in
is just mental how much of it is just in your mind this adversity to to difficult
your mind this adversity to to difficult
your mind this adversity to to difficult tasks or to struggle you know and a lot
tasks or to struggle you know and a lot
tasks or to struggle you know and a lot of people have that they’re scared
of people have that they’re scared
of people have that they’re scared they’re scared of complications they’re
they’re scared of complications they’re
they’re scared of complications they’re scared of failure failure is a big one
scared of failure failure is a big one
scared of failure failure is a big one that people are afraid of but failure is
that people are afraid of but failure is
that people are afraid of but failure is one of the most important things you
one of the most important things you
one of the most important things you could ever have as far as like the
could ever have as far as like the
could ever have as far as like the motivation to do things differently one
motivation to do things differently one
motivation to do things differently one of the reasons why I think that I’m good
of the reasons why I think that I’m good
of the reasons why I think that I’m good at friendships and relationships is
at friendships and relationships is
at friendships and relationships is because I failed at them in the past one
because I failed at them in the past one
because I failed at them in the past one of the things that I’m good at comedies
of the things that I’m good at comedies
of the things that I’m good at comedies because I bombed on stage one of the
because I bombed on stage one of the
because I bombed on stage one of the reasons why I’m good at work is because
reasons why I’m good at work is because
reasons why I’m good at work is because I’ve been a worker in the past and I
I’ve been a worker in the past and I
I’ve been a worker in the past and I know the feeling of failure the feeling
know the feeling of failure the feeling
know the feeling of failure the feeling of of shame of being like a weak non
of of shame of being like a weak non
of of shame of being like a weak non motivated lazy person it’s a weak
motivated lazy person it’s a weak
motivated lazy person it’s a weak feeling it’s an you don’t respect
feeling it’s an you don’t respect
feeling it’s an you don’t respect yourself you know and I have this phrase
yourself you know and I have this phrase
yourself you know and I have this phrase that I use all the time to people to try
that I use all the time to people to try
that I use all the time to people to try to motivate people I say that to be the
to motivate people I say that to be the
to motivate people I say that to be the hero in your own movie pretend that if
hero in your own movie pretend that if
hero in your own movie pretend that if your life was a movie and your life
your life was a movie and your life
your life was a movie and your life started now what would the hero do what
started now what would the hero do what
started now what would the hero do what would the person that you respected what
would the person that you respected what
would the person that you respected what would the person that you admire person
would the person that you admire person
would the person that you admire person that inspires you what would they do
that inspires you what would they do
that inspires you what would they do we’ll do that and if you do that you
we’ll do that and if you do that you
we’ll do that and if you do that you slowly build momentum you like today I
slowly build momentum you like today I
slowly build momentum you like today I did what I wanted to do today I started
did what I wanted to do today I started
did what I wanted to do today I started a class in yoga I did this I did all
a class in yoga I did this I did all
a class in yoga I did this I did all these things that I was saying I wasn’t
these things that I was saying I wasn’t
these things that I was saying I wasn’t going to do and now I feel momentum
going to do and now I feel momentum
going to do and now I feel momentum momentum is a very important point in
momentum is a very important point in
momentum is a very important point in people’s lives that’s why some folks
people’s lives that’s why some folks
people’s lives that’s why some folks don’t like to take days off because they
don’t like to take days off because they
don’t like to take days off because they feel like they’re losing momentum and
feel like they’re losing momentum and
feel like they’re losing momentum and they sort of have to restart the wheel
they sort of have to restart the wheel
they sort of have to restart the wheel up again after a vacation and there’s a
up again after a vacation and there’s a
up again after a vacation and there’s a lot of folks that live life on a cushy
lot of folks that live life on a cushy
lot of folks that live life on a cushy cloud of marshmallows and bullsh and
cloud of marshmallows and bullsh and
cloud of marshmallows and bullsh and then one day something goes wrong and I
then one day something goes wrong and I
then one day something goes wrong and I mean that’s why spoiled kids are so sad
mean that’s why spoiled kids are so sad
mean that’s why spoiled kids are so sad like a spoiled young boy is one of the
like a spoiled young boy is one of the
like a spoiled young boy is one of the saddest things ever a young boy that
saddest things ever a young boy that
saddest things ever a young boy that becomes a man and can’t take care of
becomes a man and can’t take care of
becomes a man and can’t take care of himself and it’s dad has to keep on
himself and it’s dad has to keep on
himself and it’s dad has to keep on rescuing him his dad has to keep on
rescuing him his dad has to keep on
rescuing him his dad has to keep on bailing them out of situations and
bailing them out of situations and
bailing them out of situations and giving them money I’ve met guys like
giving them money I’ve met guys like
giving them money I’ve met guys like that and that is a crippling affliction
that and that is a crippling affliction
that and that is a crippling affliction when they don’t have the character
when they don’t have the character
when they don’t have the character themselves to be able to get by in life
themselves to be able to get by in life
themselves to be able to get by in life they constantly need someone to help
they constantly need someone to help
they constantly need someone to help them and bail them out even as a grown
them and bail them out even as a grown
them and bail them out even as a grown man I’ve met guys in their 40s that
man I’ve met guys in their 40s that
man I’ve met guys in their 40s that still need help from their parents I’m
still need help from their parents I’m
still need help from their parents I’m like what the man you’re never gonna get
like what the man you’re never gonna get
like what the man you’re never gonna get it right because somewhere along the
it right because somewhere along the
it right because somewhere along the line they didn’t face enough of the
line they didn’t face enough of the
line they didn’t face enough of the adversity to realize that there’s
adversity to realize that there’s
adversity to realize that there’s sometimes you just got to get up and get
sometimes you just got to get up and get
sometimes you just got to get up and get you done there’s some times we have to
you done there’s some times we have to
you done there’s some times we have to pull yourself up and you have to push
pull yourself up and you have to push
pull yourself up and you have to push forward even if you want to stay in bed
forward even if you want to stay in bed
forward even if you want to stay in bed and if you don’t do that and you just
and if you don’t do that and you just
and if you don’t do that and you just keep calling on your daddy and your
keep calling on your daddy and your
keep calling on your daddy and your daddy keeps rescuing you you never
daddy keeps rescuing you you never
daddy keeps rescuing you you never develop those tools you never develop
develop those tools you never develop
develop those tools you never develop that ability to recognize what you’re
that ability to recognize what you’re
that ability to recognize what you’re doing wrong with your life because
doing wrong with your life because
doing wrong with your life because you’re you’re soft you got a cushiony
you’re you’re soft you got a cushiony
you’re you’re soft you got a cushiony you got a safety net a safety net for
you got a safety net a safety net for
you got a safety net a safety net for your safety net say if you had like a 20
your safety net say if you had like a 20
your safety net say if you had like a 20 year old and he just took doper where he
year old and he just took doper where he
year old and he just took doper where he waking bakes and doesn’t get anything
waking bakes and doesn’t get anything
waking bakes and doesn’t get anything done he’s just always like hanging out
done he’s just always like hanging out
done he’s just always like hanging out with his friends and playing video games
with his friends and playing video games
with his friends and playing video games and he’s just a loser I wish there was a
and he’s just a loser I wish there was a
and he’s just a loser I wish there was a way you could show someone like that
way you could show someone like that
way you could show someone like that like I know that you’re getting some
like I know that you’re getting some
like I know that you’re getting some comfort and satisfaction I just laying
comfort and satisfaction I just laying
comfort and satisfaction I just laying around doing nothing
around doing nothing
around doing nothing eating getting fat but your life would
eating getting fat but your life would
eating getting fat but your life would feel better and richer if you had a goal
feel better and richer if you had a goal
feel better and richer if you had a goal you chased that goal you accomplished
you chased that goal you accomplished
you chased that goal you accomplished some things you would get this boost of
some things you would get this boost of
some things you would get this boost of confidence you get this boost of
confidence you get this boost of
confidence you get this boost of self-esteem like whatever it is that
self-esteem like whatever it is that
self-esteem like whatever it is that you’re going to do maybe you’re in a
you’re going to do maybe you’re in a
you’re going to do maybe you’re in a drawn comic books maybe you’re into nah
drawn comic books maybe you’re into nah
drawn comic books maybe you’re into nah but making pottery or sculptures or but
but making pottery or sculptures or but
but making pottery or sculptures or but fine whatever that is and pursue that
fine whatever that is and pursue that
fine whatever that is and pursue that instead of doing nothing like the people
instead of doing nothing like the people
instead of doing nothing like the people that are doing nothing those are the
that are doing nothing those are the
that are doing nothing those are the real people look doing something might
real people look doing something might
real people look doing something might be as simple as like that
be as simple as like that
be as simple as like that Honnold guy he just climbs rocks but
Honnold guy he just climbs rocks but
Honnold guy he just climbs rocks but he’s world-class rock climber it’s
he’s world-class rock climber it’s
he’s world-class rock climber it’s something but it’s also a goal of his
something but it’s also a goal of his
something but it’s also a goal of his and he’s also the best at it yes yeah
and he’s also the best at it yes yeah
and he’s also the best at it yes yeah but those people who smoke pot all day
but those people who smoke pot all day
but those people who smoke pot all day enjoy those also the guys who hate on
enjoy those also the guys who hate on
enjoy those also the guys who hate on Joe Rogan for being in shape you don’t
Joe Rogan for being in shape you don’t
Joe Rogan for being in shape you don’t see there being discipline or get on
see there being discipline or get on
see there being discipline or get on Kevin Hart’s Instagram and to hate on
Kevin Hart’s Instagram and to hate on
Kevin Hart’s Instagram and to hate on you no I’m saying cuz they don’t it’s
you no I’m saying cuz they don’t it’s
you no I’m saying cuz they don’t it’s their own insecurities I see what you’re
their own insecurities I see what you’re
their own insecurities I see what you’re saying but I would assume they would get
saying but I would assume they would get
saying but I would assume they would get motivated by seeing other people do
motivated by seeing other people do
motivated by seeing other people do something with their lives like that
something with their lives like that
something with their lives like that should be motivating not yeah if you
should be motivating not yeah if you
should be motivating not yeah if you grew up with losers and you’re around a
grew up with losers and you’re around a
grew up with losers and you’re around a bunch of people yeah too especially if
bunch of people yeah too especially if
bunch of people yeah too especially if it’s in your household I was very lucky
it’s in your household I was very lucky
it’s in your household I was very lucky that both my mom and my stepdad they’re
that both my mom and my stepdad they’re
that both my mom and my stepdad they’re now they’re not they’re the least hater
now they’re not they’re the least hater
now they’re not they’re the least hater people I’ve ever met my life they’re
people I’ve ever met my life they’re
people I’ve ever met my life they’re just not haters in any way like if
just not haters in any way like if
just not haters in any way like if someone’s doing well though I was like
someone’s doing well though I was like
someone’s doing well though I was like wow look at this guy or like wow look at
wow look at this guy or like wow look at
wow look at this guy or like wow look at her look at him there was never any hate
her look at him there was never any hate
her look at him there was never any hate in my house in terms of other people’s
in my house in terms of other people’s
in my house in terms of other people’s success but if you grew up with a dad
success but if you grew up with a dad
success but if you grew up with a dad and your dad’s like these all these rich
and your dad’s like these all these rich
and your dad’s like these all these rich assholes just you think she’s a badass
assholes just you think she’s a badass
assholes just you think she’s a badass and this you know there’s people that
and this you know there’s people that
and this you know there’s people that look at other people’s success instead
look at other people’s success instead
look at other people’s success instead of saying wow look I did a lot of work
of saying wow look I did a lot of work
of saying wow look I did a lot of work like the way I’m a successful person but
like the way I’m a successful person but
like the way I’m a successful person but the way I look at Kevin Hart he exhausts
the way I look at Kevin Hart he exhausts
the way I look at Kevin Hart he exhausts me you know or the rock those guys
me you know or the rock those guys
me you know or the rock those guys exhausted me I’m like Jesus Christ like
exhausted me I’m like Jesus Christ like
exhausted me I’m like Jesus Christ like I feel lazy next to those guys like they
I feel lazy next to those guys like they
I feel lazy next to those guys like they do so much like those guys are so
do so much like those guys are so
do so much like those guys are so overbearingly ambitious you know but
overbearingly ambitious you know but
overbearingly ambitious you know but some people they see that and they
some people they see that and they
some people they see that and they compare themselves and they don’t like
compare themselves and they don’t like
compare themselves and they don’t like it so they get started getting really
it so they get started getting really
it so they get started getting really shy and it’s like a natural feeling to
shy and it’s like a natural feeling to
shy and it’s like a natural feeling to try to chip away at that person the
try to chip away at that person the
try to chip away at that person the worst people that you know are the
worst people that you know are the
worst people that you know are the people that don’t have a good self judge
people that don’t have a good self judge
people that don’t have a good self judge that everything they do is awesome those
that everything they do is awesome those
that everything they do is awesome those never grow anywhere right and that’s a
never grow anywhere right and that’s a
never grow anywhere right and that’s a huge issue with comedy when you run into
huge issue with comedy when you run into
huge issue with comedy when you run into people that have a terrible comedy sets
people that have a terrible comedy sets
people that have a terrible comedy sets but think they did great like we would
but think they did great like we would
but think they did great like we would always Greg Fitzsimmons and I would
always Greg Fitzsimmons and I would
always Greg Fitzsimmons and I would always talk about that with like open my
always talk about that with like open my
always talk about that with like open my curse like there’s people that hear
curse like there’s people that hear
curse like there’s people that hear phantom labs like they think they’re
phantom labs like they think they’re
phantom labs like they think they’re doing great and they have this
doing great and they have this
doing great and they have this delusional self opinion where everything
delusional self opinion where everything
delusional self opinion where everything they do is awesome they don’t know why
they do is awesome they don’t know why
they do is awesome they don’t know why the
the
the not successful already they don’t know
not successful already they don’t know
not successful already they don’t know why they’re not famous and those people
why they’re not famous and those people
why they’re not famous and those people I believe I mean it’s from sort of a
I believe I mean it’s from sort of a
I believe I mean it’s from sort of a weird narcissistic way you could look at
weird narcissistic way you could look at
weird narcissistic way you could look at it this way that those people are there
it this way that those people are there
it this way that those people are there to teach you this is the consequences of
to teach you this is the consequences of
to teach you this is the consequences of not feeling that awful feeling when you
not feeling that awful feeling when you
not feeling that awful feeling when you fail
fail
fail I was talking to burr a couple weeks ago
I was talking to burr a couple weeks ago
I was talking to burr a couple weeks ago he did a set at the Comedy Store and I
he did a set at the Comedy Store and I
he did a set at the Comedy Store and I saw part of it it was he was killing and
saw part of it it was he was killing and
saw part of it it was he was killing and then I ran into him in the hallway and I
then I ran into him in the hallway and I
then I ran into him in the hallway and I go out man main room show was great
go out man main room show was great
go out man main room show was great right and he goes yeah up at the end
right and he goes yeah up at the end
right and he goes yeah up at the end though I tried to hang in there too long
though I tried to hang in there too long
though I tried to hang in there too long in the last bit bomb like he was just it
in the last bit bomb like he was just it
in the last bit bomb like he was just it was a rotten atom that the last bit like
was a rotten atom that the last bit like
was a rotten atom that the last bit like he goes I hung in there too long I
he goes I hung in there too long I
he goes I hung in there too long I should have got off with a bit before
should have got off with a bit before
should have got off with a bit before that like but you know when I was in
that like but you know when I was in
that like but you know when I was in there he was killing you know but that
there he was killing you know but that
there he was killing you know but that wasn’t in his mind the success was not
wasn’t in his mind the success was not
wasn’t in his mind the success was not in his mind this was like okay whatever
in his mind this was like okay whatever
in his mind this was like okay whatever that happened at the end don’t do that
that happened at the end don’t do that
that happened at the end don’t do that again right but that’s why he’s bill
again right but that’s why he’s bill
again right but that’s why he’s bill burr that’s why he’s really good you
burr that’s why he’s really good you
burr that’s why he’s really good you were alone with your thoughts you get an
were alone with your thoughts you get an
were alone with your thoughts you get an idea of what your thoughts actually are
idea of what your thoughts actually are
idea of what your thoughts actually are if you live your life just acting
if you live your life just acting
if you live your life just acting constantly on the momentum of other
constantly on the momentum of other
constantly on the momentum of other people’s expectations of you wanting to
people’s expectations of you wanting to
people’s expectations of you wanting to be liked by these other people you can
be liked by these other people you can
be liked by these other people you can run into a trap and you you you set up a
run into a trap and you you you set up a
run into a trap and you you you set up a life that you didn’t really want you’re
life that you didn’t really want you’re
life that you didn’t really want you’re you’re you’re you’re trapped in this
you’re you’re you’re trapped in this
you’re you’re you’re trapped in this situation where you have a mortgage
situation where you have a mortgage
situation where you have a mortgage you’ve got credit card bills you’ve got
you’ve got credit card bills you’ve got
you’ve got credit card bills you’ve got student loans you have to pay you have a
student loans you have to pay you have a
student loans you have to pay you have a bunch of going on you have to continue
bunch of going on you have to continue
bunch of going on you have to continue to feed and all that and especially if
to feed and all that and especially if
to feed and all that and especially if you have a family and you have to feed
you have a family and you have to feed
you have a family and you have to feed them oh my goodness
them oh my goodness
them oh my goodness then you’re fully locked in you can’t
then you’re fully locked in you can’t
then you’re fully locked in you can’t take any chances whatsoever and
take any chances whatsoever and
take any chances whatsoever and oftentimes people make the mistake of
oftentimes people make the mistake of
oftentimes people make the mistake of getting stuck and it is just a tactical
getting stuck and it is just a tactical
getting stuck and it is just a tactical mistake just like it would be a mistake
mistake just like it would be a mistake
mistake just like it would be a mistake if you got stuck on a video game just
if you got stuck on a video game just
if you got stuck on a video game just like it would be a mistake if you
like it would be a mistake if you
like it would be a mistake if you followed a map incorrectly and you get
followed a map incorrectly and you get
followed a map incorrectly and you get stuck in the woods your life is
stuck in the woods your life is
stuck in the woods your life is certainly some sort of a journey it’s
certainly some sort of a journey it’s
certainly some sort of a journey it’s certainly some sort of a journey and we
certainly some sort of a journey and we
certainly some sort of a journey and we have to all be aware that when we’re
have to all be aware that when we’re
have to all be aware that when we’re making journeys we’re not going to
making journeys we’re not going to
making journeys we’re not going to always make the right steps and
always make the right steps and
always make the right steps and sometimes you have to back up and try
sometimes you have to back up and try
sometimes you have to back up and try again and if you’re in a position where
again and if you’re in a position where
again and if you’re in a position where you can’t back up and try again
you can’t back up and try again
you can’t back up and try again you’ve trapped yourself and the system
you’ve trapped yourself and the system
you’ve trapped yourself and the system will set out honey pots for people to
will set out honey pots for people to
will set out honey pots for people to get trapped in the system will set out
get trapped in the system will set out
get trapped in the system will set out the ideas of retirement the ideas of the
the ideas of retirement the ideas of the
the ideas of retirement the ideas of the golden years providing you benefits
golden years providing you benefits
golden years providing you benefits providing you a healthy work environment
providing you a healthy work environment
providing you a healthy work environment why well because they want people to
why well because they want people to
why well because they want people to work for them they don’t want people to
work for them they don’t want people to
work for them they don’t want people to realize their own dreams and escape
realize their own dreams and escape
realize their own dreams and escape those pain in the ass you gotta hire
those pain in the ass you gotta hire
those pain in the ass you gotta hire more people and train them and they want
more people and train them and they want
more people and train them and they want to set it up so that you stick around
to set it up so that you stick around
to set it up so that you stick around stick around some sort of an
stick around some sort of an
stick around some sort of an unsatisfying world it’s up to you to see
unsatisfying world it’s up to you to see
unsatisfying world it’s up to you to see that video game problem to see that
that video game problem to see that
that video game problem to see that issue as it comes up on the map known I
issue as it comes up on the map known I
issue as it comes up on the map known I think this is a right turn to see all
think this is a right turn to see all
think this is a right turn to see all the problems that could potentially lay
the problems that could potentially lay
the problems that could potentially lay in front of you and calculate your your
in front of you and calculate your your
in front of you and calculate your your future and then also look around all the
future and then also look around all the
future and then also look around all the people that didn’t do it and look at the
people that didn’t do it and look at the
people that didn’t do it and look at the misery that they’re in and learn that
misery that they’re in and learn that
misery that they’re in and learn that you don’t want to be like them and then
you don’t want to be like them and then
you don’t want to be like them and then look at the people that have kind of
look at the people that have kind of
look at the people that have kind of taken chances and navigated their way
taken chances and navigated their way
taken chances and navigated their way what do they do differently than you
what do they do differently than you
what do they do differently than you what what objectivity do they have that
what what objectivity do they have that
what what objectivity do they have that maybe you lack what insight into their
maybe you lack what insight into their
maybe you lack what insight into their own mistakes are they willing to delve
own mistakes are they willing to delve
own mistakes are they willing to delve into that you’re not that you step back
into that you’re not that you step back
into that you’re not that you step back and go you know I don’t I just don’t
and go you know I don’t I just don’t
and go you know I don’t I just don’t want to look at myself that closely but
want to look at myself that closely but
want to look at myself that closely but the person who’s able to look at
the person who’s able to look at
the person who’s able to look at themselves the closest it’s gonna get
themselves the closest it’s gonna get
themselves the closest it’s gonna get the more rational results the things
the more rational results the things
the more rational results the things that’s causing this funk that people are
that’s causing this funk that people are
that’s causing this funk that people are in is that we’re living our lives many
in is that we’re living our lives many
in is that we’re living our lives many of us at least in these very unfulfilled
of us at least in these very unfulfilled
of us at least in these very unfulfilled ways where you’re going to this office
ways where you’re going to this office
ways where you’re going to this office with artificial light and you’re doing
with artificial light and you’re doing
with artificial light and you’re doing something you don’t want to do all day
something you don’t want to do all day
something you don’t want to do all day long and then you get home and you’re
long and then you get home and you’re
long and then you get home and you’re tired and on top of that you’re eating
tired and on top of that you’re eating
tired and on top of that you’re eating you’re eating potato chips and you’re
you’re eating potato chips and you’re
you’re eating potato chips and you’re drinking soda and your body is just like
drinking soda and your body is just like
drinking soda and your body is just like what in the is this we’re supposed to be
what in the is this we’re supposed to be
what in the is this we’re supposed to be out in the fields we’re supposed to be
out in the fields we’re supposed to be
out in the fields we’re supposed to be walking up hills we’re supposed to be
walking up hills we’re supposed to be
walking up hills we’re supposed to be looking for animals or gathering
looking for animals or gathering
looking for animals or gathering vegetables we’re supposed to be doing
vegetables we’re supposed to be doing
vegetables we’re supposed to be doing all these things that our body is
all these things that our body is
all these things that our body is designed to do we’re supposed to be in
designed to do we’re supposed to be in
designed to do we’re supposed to be in nature
nature
nature yeah and nature is like a medicine like
yeah and nature is like a medicine like
yeah and nature is like a medicine like it literally is a medicine to you like
it literally is a medicine to you like
it literally is a medicine to you like people people that go you don’t have to
people people that go you don’t have to
people people that go you don’t have to go hunting you don’t have to go fishing
go hunting you don’t have to go fishing
go hunting you don’t have to go fishing just go hike man just go hike up to the
just go hike man just go hike up to the
just go hike man just go hike up to the top of a mountain and look out you know
top of a mountain and look out you know
top of a mountain and look out you know there’s a reward that you get from that
there’s a reward that you get from that
there’s a reward that you get from that that is intensely like soul filling just
that is intensely like soul filling just
that is intensely like soul filling just like
like
like something about like when I was in
something about like when I was in
something about like when I was in Colorado and there was this this area of
Colorado and there was this this area of
Colorado and there was this this area of Boulder we drive up one of these roads
Boulder we drive up one of these roads
Boulder we drive up one of these roads and there was this area we could park
and there was this area we could park
and there was this area we could park and it was this incredible view man
and it was this incredible view man
and it was this incredible view man these people just Park and just go out
these people just Park and just go out
these people just Park and just go out there and just look but you get there in
there and just look but you get there in
there and just look but you get there in your parking you go cuz you would see
your parking you go cuz you would see
your parking you go cuz you would see your you literally seen the Continental
your you literally seen the Continental
your you literally seen the Continental Divide these snow-capped mountains in
Divide these snow-capped mountains in
Divide these snow-capped mountains in July yeah in July it’s covered with snow
July yeah in July it’s covered with snow
July yeah in July it’s covered with snow for whatever reason most people their
for whatever reason most people their
for whatever reason most people their associations are to avoid anything
associations are to avoid anything
associations are to avoid anything that’s uncomfortable but it’s so
that’s uncomfortable but it’s so
that’s uncomfortable but it’s so illogical because when you look at
illogical because when you look at
illogical because when you look at comfort and you look at success and
comfort and you look at success and
comfort and you look at success and progress and the eventual the feelings
progress and the eventual the feelings
progress and the eventual the feelings of accomplishment and of getting past
of accomplishment and of getting past
of accomplishment and of getting past certain hurdles and in terms of like how
certain hurdles and in terms of like how
certain hurdles and in terms of like how you feel about life a lot of those are
you feel about life a lot of those are
you feel about life a lot of those are connected to discomfort like discomfort
connected to discomfort like discomfort
connected to discomfort like discomfort is your friend it really is like
is your friend it really is like
is your friend it really is like discomfort and and not being happy and
discomfort and and not being happy and
discomfort and and not being happy and content with certain situations in life
content with certain situations in life
content with certain situations in life or certain feelings in life there are
or certain feelings in life there are
or certain feelings in life there are massive massive motivators and they’re
massive massive motivators and they’re
massive massive motivators and they’re they’re amazing at facilitating change
they’re amazing at facilitating change
they’re amazing at facilitating change and yet our instinct is to avoid those
and yet our instinct is to avoid those
and yet our instinct is to avoid those and just sit on the couch and watch some
and just sit on the couch and watch some
and just sit on the couch and watch some reality show about dudes and make
reality show about dudes and make
reality show about dudes and make moonshine with our jaw open like blue
moonshine with our jaw open like blue
moonshine with our jaw open like blue it’s with bizarre
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