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we can improve people’s lives by

we can improve people’s lives by improving their appearance that means

improving their appearance that means

improving their appearance that means that you can make a change from without

that you can make a change from without

that you can make a change from without think about it most celebrities are not

think about it most celebrities are not

think about it most celebrities are not born gorgeous they just realize how much

born gorgeous they just realize how much

born gorgeous they just realize how much their appearance affect the success do

their appearance affect the success do

their appearance affect the success do you know who this is

you know who this is

you know who this is I can hear you sing and now Norma Jeane

I can hear you sing and now Norma Jeane

I can hear you sing and now Norma Jeane became the sex goddess Marilyn Monroe

became the sex goddess Marilyn Monroe

became the sex goddess Marilyn Monroe it’s his only depends on how she looks

it’s his only depends on how she looks

it’s his only depends on how she looks such changes everything when people look

such changes everything when people look

such changes everything when people look at you what do they see what do you want

at you what do they see what do you want

at you what do they see what do you want them to think about you in the next few

them to think about you in the next few

them to think about you in the next few minutes I’m going to share with you some

minutes I’m going to share with you some

minutes I’m going to share with you some tips on how you can improve your first

tips on how you can improve your first

tips on how you can improve your first impression actually I define myself as

impression actually I define myself as

impression actually I define myself as an impression expert more than an

an impression expert more than an

an impression expert more than an personal stylist as a young girl with

personal stylist as a young girl with

personal stylist as a young girl with ADHD no ability to concentrate in class

ADHD no ability to concentrate in class

ADHD no ability to concentrate in class and hardly read or write I’ve heard from

and hardly read or write I’ve heard from

and hardly read or write I’ve heard from the education system that my entire

the education system that my entire

the education system that my entire eternal capabilities are insufficient

eternal capabilities are insufficient

eternal capabilities are insufficient since I was insufficient within I

since I was insufficient within I

since I was insufficient within I decided to improve myself from without I

decided to improve myself from without I

decided to improve myself from without I want to show you something that was me

want to show you something that was me

want to show you something that was me uh-huh I was disc in nor care huge

uh-huh I was disc in nor care huge

uh-huh I was disc in nor care huge glasses shapeless hair or in plain

glasses shapeless hair or in plain

glasses shapeless hair or in plain English I wasn’t impressive so I wanted

English I wasn’t impressive so I wanted

English I wasn’t impressive so I wanted to change myself and that’s what I did

to change myself and that’s what I did

to change myself and that’s what I did at the next morning I came to school a

at the next morning I came to school a

at the next morning I came to school a completely different person everybody

completely different person everybody

completely different person everybody looked at me different even the teacher

looked at me different even the teacher

looked at me different even the teacher looked at me differently all of a sudden

looked at me differently all of a sudden

looked at me differently all of a sudden all the learning environment wanted to

all the learning environment wanted to

all the learning environment wanted to help me succeed

so I realize that everything changed for

so I realize that everything changed for me for the better just because I look

me for the better just because I look

me for the better just because I look better it was the first time I realized

better it was the first time I realized

better it was the first time I realized that the change can start from the

that the change can start from the

that the change can start from the outside success also work from the

outside success also work from the

outside success also work from the outside so basically I wanted to know

outside so basically I wanted to know

outside so basically I wanted to know everything I could about the ideal of

everything I could about the ideal of

everything I could about the ideal of beauty despite my disabilities

beauty despite my disabilities

beauty despite my disabilities I found myself for more than twelve

I found myself for more than twelve

I found myself for more than twelve years in various university only to find

years in various university only to find

years in various university only to find out that it’s all about all about

out that it’s all about all about

out that it’s all about all about proportions it’s all about a very

proportions it’s all about a very

proportions it’s all about a very special proportion called the golden

special proportion called the golden

special proportion called the golden ratio it is a pattern that the humanised

ratio it is a pattern that the humanised

ratio it is a pattern that the humanised likes to see the ratio is 1:2 1.618

likes to see the ratio is 1:2 1.618

likes to see the ratio is 1:2 1.618 it is a very special ratio for example

it is a very special ratio for example

it is a very special ratio for example if we will take a rectangles with these

if we will take a rectangles with these

if we will take a rectangles with these proportions it can copy itself

proportions it can copy itself

proportions it can copy itself indefinitely when every one of these

indefinitely when every one of these

indefinitely when every one of these rectangles keeps exactly the same

rectangles keeps exactly the same

rectangles keeps exactly the same proportion we can find it as well

proportion we can find it as well

proportion we can find it as well everywhere like in smallest things like

everywhere like in smallest things like

everywhere like in smallest things like our DNA when the lengths of one sequence

our DNA when the lengths of one sequence

our DNA when the lengths of one sequence is 1.618 longer then it’s spring we can

is 1.618 longer then it’s spring we can

is 1.618 longer then it’s spring we can find us even in you things like the

find us even in you things like the

find us even in you things like the pyramids the golden ratio is embedded in

pyramids the golden ratio is embedded in

pyramids the golden ratio is embedded in most forms people likes to see like the

most forms people likes to see like the

most forms people likes to see like the human body and face whether God made it

human body and face whether God made it

human body and face whether God made it or man made it it is there it is what it

or man made it it is there it is what it

or man made it it is there it is what it is without even noticing people will

is without even noticing people will

is without even noticing people will engage with our image the closer our

engage with our image the closer our

engage with our image the closer our image is to the golden ratio since not

image is to the golden ratio since not

image is to the golden ratio since not all of us were born with a perfect body

all of us were born with a perfect body

all of us were born with a perfect body proportion you may ask how can we bring

proportion you may ask how can we bring

proportion you may ask how can we bring us closer to these golden proportions so

here is the thought if Beauty has

here is the thought if Beauty has Mathematica formula then it’s supposed

Mathematica formula then it’s supposed

Mathematica formula then it’s supposed to be easy to achieve to make it more

to be easy to achieve to make it more

to be easy to achieve to make it more accessible I decided decided to create a

accessible I decided decided to create a

accessible I decided decided to create a software that will be based on the

software that will be based on the

software that will be based on the golden ratio and the way people perceive

golden ratio and the way people perceive

golden ratio and the way people perceive colors and shape and this is very funny

colors and shape and this is very funny

colors and shape and this is very funny how people perceive shapes by the way

how people perceive shapes by the way

how people perceive shapes by the way it’s like again okay it’s like a game of

it’s like again okay it’s like a game of

it’s like again okay it’s like a game of reality versus perception reality is the

reality versus perception reality is the

reality versus perception reality is the true existence of form in our universe

true existence of form in our universe

true existence of form in our universe while perception is how a ring translate

while perception is how a ring translate

while perception is how a ring translate these forms illusion means tricking the

these forms illusion means tricking the

these forms illusion means tricking the mind to get a new perception example

mind to get a new perception example

mind to get a new perception example look at these two dots in reality they

look at these two dots in reality they

look at these two dots in reality they look the same they have the same size

look the same they have the same size

look the same they have the same size but adding different forms or colours

but adding different forms or colours

but adding different forms or colours around them make out film that they are

around them make out film that they are

around them make out film that they are different so if I will add around me

different so if I will add around me

different so if I will add around me different clothes colours and

different clothes colours and

different clothes colours and accessorize you will think I’m different

accessorize you will think I’m different

accessorize you will think I’m different I call the game of dressing up an

I call the game of dressing up an

I call the game of dressing up an illusion and right here lies the

illusion and right here lies the

illusion and right here lies the solution we can use illusion in order to

solution we can use illusion in order to

solution we can use illusion in order to change our proportions to a better one

change our proportions to a better one

change our proportions to a better one to those who close to the golden ratio

to those who close to the golden ratio

to those who close to the golden ratio watch the benefits beside you looking

watch the benefits beside you looking

watch the benefits beside you looking your best people will feel more

your best people will feel more

your best people will feel more comfortable with you and your appearance

comfortable with you and your appearance

comfortable with you and your appearance when you go when you’re closer to the

when you go when you’re closer to the

when you go when you’re closer to the golden ratio I want to share something

golden ratio I want to share something

golden ratio I want to share something with you it’s going to be probably quite

with you it’s going to be probably quite

with you it’s going to be probably quite funny look at me and you can laugh as

funny look at me and you can laugh as

funny look at me and you can laugh as much as you want I want to show you how

much as you want I want to show you how

much as you want I want to show you how God really created me I just started

God really created me I just started

God really created me I just started wait okay is it terrible enough wait

wait okay is it terrible enough wait

wait okay is it terrible enough wait wait and now imagine me coming to you

wait and now imagine me coming to you

wait and now imagine me coming to you right now and telling you hello

right now and telling you hello

right now and telling you hello my name is orly Shyam the best stylist

my name is orly Shyam the best stylist

my name is orly Shyam the best stylist in the world do you want to do shopping

in the world do you want to do shopping

in the world do you want to do shopping or work with me anyway no one will

or work with me anyway no one will

or work with me anyway no one will believe me I tried that by the way

believe me I tried that by the way

believe me I tried that by the way what’s happened right now the shape or

what’s happened right now the shape or

what’s happened right now the shape or the place that my eyes are located is

the place that my eyes are located is

the place that my eyes are located is higher on my face so basically what I

higher on my face so basically what I

higher on my face so basically what I need to do is add more volume to the top

need to do is add more volume to the top

need to do is add more volume to the top of my head okay with my hair and voila

thank you wait another example

thank you wait another example look at the shape of my chin let’s make

look at the shape of my chin let’s make

look at the shape of my chin let’s make quick jump we proved the shape of my

quick jump we proved the shape of my

quick jump we proved the shape of my chin basically the shape of my chin is

chin basically the shape of my chin is

chin basically the shape of my chin is very narrow in comparison to what it was

very narrow in comparison to what it was

very narrow in comparison to what it was supposed to be so my mummy here so mommy

supposed to be so my mummy here so mommy

supposed to be so my mummy here so mommy I’m sorry so what I’m doing is I’m

I’m sorry so what I’m doing is I’m

I’m sorry so what I’m doing is I’m adding more horizontal lines with my

adding more horizontal lines with my

adding more horizontal lines with my haircut here this is first thing I’m

haircut here this is first thing I’m

haircut here this is first thing I’m doing and the next thing I’m going to do

doing and the next thing I’m going to do

doing and the next thing I’m going to do is to create another horizontal line

is to create another horizontal line

is to create another horizontal line here at my neck line now look at my face

here at my neck line now look at my face

here at my neck line now look at my face while I’m having a horizontal line here

while I’m having a horizontal line here

while I’m having a horizontal line here and there they look a little bit wider

and there they look a little bit wider

and there they look a little bit wider than if I will add vertical lines can

than if I will add vertical lines can

than if I will add vertical lines can you see that again horizontal much

you see that again horizontal much

you see that again horizontal much better early vertical line do you see

better early vertical line do you see

better early vertical line do you see did it I didn’t I don’t like her I don’t

did it I didn’t I don’t like her I don’t

did it I didn’t I don’t like her I don’t think okay so let me shake myself

think okay so let me shake myself

think okay so let me shake myself because I want you to hear me out

one more thing I want to address length

one more thing I want to address length look at the legs of my legs and my arms

look at the legs of my legs and my arms

look at the legs of my legs and my arms too long believe me basically my arms

too long believe me basically my arms

too long believe me basically my arms like monkey I can almost touch my knee

like monkey I can almost touch my knee

like monkey I can almost touch my knee who can touch is me come on so if you

who can touch is me come on so if you

who can touch is me come on so if you can it’s one sign that you should call

can it’s one sign that you should call

can it’s one sign that you should call me I will tell you what to do but the

me I will tell you what to do but the

me I will tell you what to do but the second thing is I have like huge and

second thing is I have like huge and

second thing is I have like huge and endless legs they start from here truly

endless legs they start from here truly

endless legs they start from here truly it’s very easy to see but what I do I do

it’s very easy to see but what I do I do

it’s very easy to see but what I do I do not I did nothing to improve the shapes

not I did nothing to improve the shapes

not I did nothing to improve the shapes of my arms because I believe that you

of my arms because I believe that you

of my arms because I believe that you cannot improve everything all the time

cannot improve everything all the time

cannot improve everything all the time but if you look at my legs the way that

but if you look at my legs the way that

but if you look at my legs the way that I cut them with the length of my dress

I cut them with the length of my dress

I cut them with the length of my dress makes it harder for you to understand

makes it harder for you to understand

makes it harder for you to understand that this is not the real me it goes on

that this is not the real me it goes on

that this is not the real me it goes on and on I can improve your waist shape

and on I can improve your waist shape

and on I can improve your waist shape very easily in small changes that will

very easily in small changes that will

very easily in small changes that will look natural but for me standing here

look natural but for me standing here

look natural but for me standing here it’s quite easy talking about myself and

it’s quite easy talking about myself and

it’s quite easy talking about myself and my appearance most people it would be

my appearance most people it would be

my appearance most people it would be very hard for them to stand here or in

very hard for them to stand here or in

very hard for them to stand here or in front of any other person and explain

front of any other person and explain

front of any other person and explain him how God really created you most of

him how God really created you most of

him how God really created you most of my clients are even embarrassed to talk

my clients are even embarrassed to talk

my clients are even embarrassed to talk with me about it even though they want

with me about it even though they want

with me about it even though they want my advice

my advice

my advice so here the salt if it’s only met no

so here the salt if it’s only met no

so here the salt if it’s only met no emotion an algorithm can do it too so

emotion an algorithm can do it too so

emotion an algorithm can do it too so why do they need my presence I decided

why do they need my presence I decided

why do they need my presence I decided to create a software so my services will

to create a software so my services will

to create a software so my services will be the 24/7 on your mobile and I want to

be the 24/7 on your mobile and I want to

be the 24/7 on your mobile and I want to show you what it can do and before we

show you what it can do and before we

show you what it can do and before we though I want to tell you that it’s

though I want to tell you that it’s

though I want to tell you that it’s going to be a a style wizard that will

going to be a a style wizard that will

going to be a a style wizard that will help us choose closes and accessories

help us choose closes and accessories

help us choose closes and accessories according to our preferences and to our

according to our preferences and to our

according to our preferences and to our proportions and the coolest thing is is

proportions and the coolest thing is is

proportions and the coolest thing is is going to be automatically and very easy

going to be automatically and very easy

going to be automatically and very easy to use

to use

to use it means dressing up in a code with

it means dressing up in a code with

it means dressing up in a code with mathematical rules

mathematical rules

mathematical rules instead of emotionals let’s take this

instead of emotionals let’s take this

instead of emotionals let’s take this perfect lady and say that this is not us

perfect lady and say that this is not us

perfect lady and say that this is not us and we want to choose glasses for

and we want to choose glasses for

and we want to choose glasses for ourselves so that helps her a little bit

ourselves so that helps her a little bit

ourselves so that helps her a little bit help her a little bit look at her eyes

help her a little bit look at her eyes

help her a little bit look at her eyes I’m gonna push them a little bit up I

I’m gonna push them a little bit up I

I’m gonna push them a little bit up I can do that in Photoshop and then I got

can do that in Photoshop and then I got

can do that in Photoshop and then I got eleven to be a little bit closer I think

eleven to be a little bit closer I think

eleven to be a little bit closer I think it’s enough for today and what the

it’s enough for today and what the

it’s enough for today and what the software is going to do is find glasses

software is going to do is find glasses

software is going to do is find glasses it will correct even a little bit her

it will correct even a little bit her

it will correct even a little bit her eyes to the right position I can also

eyes to the right position I can also

eyes to the right position I can also help you know choose wisely and do not

help you know choose wisely and do not

help you know choose wisely and do not choose glasses like this one let’s see

choose glasses like this one let’s see

choose glasses like this one let’s see is emboss same lady different glasses

is emboss same lady different glasses

is emboss same lady different glasses different feeling towards here so what

different feeling towards here so what

different feeling towards here so what we are going to see right now that I’m

we are going to see right now that I’m

we are going to see right now that I’m going to choose a male and then I’m

going to choose a male and then I’m

going to choose a male and then I’m going to choose I’m not going to choose

going to choose I’m not going to choose

going to choose I’m not going to choose body style of today or and it’s the

body style of today or and it’s the

body style of today or and it’s the other time I’m going to choose head

other time I’m going to choose head

other time I’m going to choose head style and I can upload his photo his

style and I can upload his photo his

style and I can upload his photo his facial photo I’m gonna choose it for my

facial photo I’m gonna choose it for my

facial photo I’m gonna choose it for my phone gallery I have a very nice guy

phone gallery I have a very nice guy

phone gallery I have a very nice guy there you’re gonna push it is gonna go

there you’re gonna push it is gonna go

there you’re gonna push it is gonna go in here is the guy and we’re gonna start

in here is the guy and we’re gonna start

in here is the guy and we’re gonna start now we have another option if you want

now we have another option if you want

now we have another option if you want to have to have haircuts I’m gonna

to have to have haircuts I’m gonna

to have to have haircuts I’m gonna choose glasses for him as well I glasses

choose glasses for him as well I glasses

choose glasses for him as well I glasses for him as well and while the software

for him as well and while the software

for him as well and while the software is rendering he knows his face and

is rendering he knows his face and

is rendering he knows his face and future and looking surfing for the web

future and looking surfing for the web

future and looking surfing for the web for the right glasses for him and giving

for the right glasses for him and giving

for the right glasses for him and giving him results but only three results if he

him results but only three results if he

him results but only three results if he asked classic basic only three not 2000

asked classic basic only three not 2000

asked classic basic only three not 2000 like we have and we could see if it if

like we have and we could see if it if

like we have and we could see if it if he likes it or not as well but the

he likes it or not as well but the

he likes it or not as well but the coolest thing that I really really love

coolest thing that I really really love

coolest thing that I really really love about this software is this little eye

about this software is this little eye

about this software is this little eye this information button the right now I

this information button the right now I

this information button the right now I can go in and and see why did the wizard

can go in and and see why did the wizard

can go in and and see why did the wizard choose these glasses for me what the

choose these glasses for me what the

choose these glasses for me what the shape does for my eyes how does this

shape does for my eyes how does this

shape does for my eyes how does this colors help for me to look healthier and

colors help for me to look healthier and

colors help for me to look healthier and of course if decide good for me and for

of course if decide good for me and for

of course if decide good for me and for my

my

my references at the end of the day I going

references at the end of the day I going

references at the end of the day I going to share it with friends or buy it

to share it with friends or buy it

to share it with friends or buy it anywhere online and basically that’s

anywhere online and basically that’s

anywhere online and basically that’s part of what the software is going to do

part of what the software is going to do

part of what the software is going to do as we saw react emotionally to our

as we saw react emotionally to our

as we saw react emotionally to our appearance but at the end of the day it

appearance but at the end of the day it

appearance but at the end of the day it just forms and patterns that our brain

just forms and patterns that our brain

just forms and patterns that our brain likes to see if we listen to our brains

likes to see if we listen to our brains

likes to see if we listen to our brains preferences it will be easy for us to

preferences it will be easy for us to

preferences it will be easy for us to dress for success this is amazing there

dress for success this is amazing there

dress for success this is amazing there are more than seven billion people on

are more than seven billion people on

are more than seven billion people on earth yet no one has the same body

earth yet no one has the same body

earth yet no one has the same body combinations even twins by the way so

combinations even twins by the way so

combinations even twins by the way so there are more than 7 billion different

there are more than 7 billion different

there are more than 7 billion different body combinations only one is yours

body combinations only one is yours

body combinations only one is yours bring it out make it count thank

bring it out make it count thank

bring it out make it count thank [Applause]

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