good morning believe nation today we’re going to talk about how you can build
going to talk about how you can build
going to talk about how you can build your courage rule number five is our
your courage rule number five is our
your courage rule number five is our personal favorite and I’d love to know
personal favorite and I’d love to know
personal favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys like the best and
which one you guys like the best and
which one you guys like the best and also as people are talking if someone
also as people are talking if someone
also as people are talking if someone says something that really resonates
says something that really resonates
says something that really resonates with you you know the drill
with you you know the drill
with you you know the drill leave it down accounts below put your
leave it down accounts below put your
leave it down accounts below put your quotes around that so other people can
quotes around that so other people can
quotes around that so other people can be inspired as well enjoy here’s the
be inspired as well enjoy here’s the
be inspired as well enjoy here’s the stats from from your show and it says
stats from from your show and it says
stats from from your show and it says the richest 85 people on this planet
the richest 85 people on this planet
the richest 85 people on this planet have as much money as the poorest 3.5
have as much money as the poorest 3.5
have as much money as the poorest 3.5 billion yeah right on the planet however
billion yeah right on the planet however
billion yeah right on the planet however sex it’s not far off – in America no it
sex it’s not far off – in America no it
sex it’s not far off – in America no it isn’t far off in America but we still
isn’t far off in America but we still
isn’t far off in America but we still and we still here don’t abandon the idea
and we still here don’t abandon the idea
and we still here don’t abandon the idea that it isn’t finite it isn’t finite if
that it isn’t finite it isn’t finite if
that it isn’t finite it isn’t finite if you were born where we born me yeah
you were born where we born me yeah
you were born where we born me yeah better is Louisiana better you know
better is Louisiana better you know
better is Louisiana better you know Hospital there you know Louisiana I was
Hospital there you know Louisiana I was
Hospital there you know Louisiana I was born in Memphis Tennessee
born in Memphis Tennessee
born in Memphis Tennessee I had a long haul from where I came from
I had a long haul from where I came from
I had a long haul from where I came from to here but here we are right so proof
to here but here we are right so proof
to here but here we are right so proof is in the proof of the pudding is in
is in the proof of the pudding is in
is in the proof of the pudding is in eating and may we sit the dining table
eating and may we sit the dining table
eating and may we sit the dining table but it’s hard to when you say that to
but it’s hard to when you say that to
but it’s hard to when you say that to some people because they say oh there
some people because they say oh there
some people because they say oh there you go with a pull yourself up by the
you go with a pull yourself up by the
you go with a pull yourself up by the bootstraps thing and you know you’re
bootstraps thing and you know you’re
bootstraps thing and you know you’re just being respectable not everybody can
just being respectable not everybody can
just being respectable not everybody can do that
do that
do that look everybody can
look everybody can
look everybody can I thought it doesn’t courage courage is
I thought it doesn’t courage courage is
I thought it doesn’t courage courage is the key to life itself
the key to life itself
the key to life itself a lot of people who are born in
a lot of people who are born in
a lot of people who are born in situation Misurata
situation Misurata
situation Misurata I’ll never get out of this so they won’t
I’ll never get out of this so they won’t
I’ll never get out of this so they won’t I say to people say well I would like to
I say to people say well I would like to
I say to people say well I would like to have done so and so and so so you could
have done so and so and so so you could
have done so and so and so so you could have done it so but I couldn’t get out
have done it so but I couldn’t get out
have done it so but I couldn’t get out of here man the bus runs every day
you’re exactly right now you’re sit
you’re exactly right now you’re sit there if there if you can conceive it in
there if there if you can conceive it in
there if there if you can conceive it in your mind if you can think of it you can
your mind if you can think of it you can
your mind if you can think of it you can go that’s a human condition and we can
go that’s a human condition and we can
go that’s a human condition and we can imagine if we can do it right and I
imagine if we can do it right and I
imagine if we can do it right and I think that the condition of each
think that the condition of each
think that the condition of each individual human ten years from now
individual human ten years from now
individual human ten years from now you’re going to arrive the questions
you’re going to arrive the questions
you’re going to arrive the questions where if you don’t do something today
where if you don’t do something today
where if you don’t do something today you’re going to show up somewhere so
you’re going to show up somewhere so
you’re going to show up somewhere so what happens is when you go through the
what happens is when you go through the
what happens is when you go through the natural disappointments and frustrations
natural disappointments and frustrations
natural disappointments and frustrations when things don’t work out the way you
when things don’t work out the way you
when things don’t work out the way you expected when people betray you or
expected when people betray you or
expected when people betray you or disappoint you or hurt you what happens
disappoint you or hurt you what happens
disappoint you or hurt you what happens is all cynicism is all skepticism is is
is all cynicism is all skepticism is is
is all cynicism is all skepticism is is a protective device that says I don’t
a protective device that says I don’t
a protective device that says I don’t wanna get my hopes up because I don’t
wanna get my hopes up because I don’t
wanna get my hopes up because I don’t want to feel that drop of disappointment
want to feel that drop of disappointment
want to feel that drop of disappointment I want to feel the loss I don’t want to
I want to feel the loss I don’t want to
I want to feel the loss I don’t want to feel the hurt so people tell me I’m
feel the hurt so people tell me I’m
feel the hurt so people tell me I’m cynical I’m pessimistic I look up and
cynical I’m pessimistic I look up and
cynical I’m pessimistic I look up and say listen let’s be honest you’re
say listen let’s be honest you’re
say listen let’s be honest you’re gutless it doesn’t take any any courage
gutless it doesn’t take any any courage
gutless it doesn’t take any any courage to think things don’t work and they’re
to think things don’t work and they’re
to think things don’t work and they’re wrong and they’re terrible and never fix
wrong and they’re terrible and never fix
wrong and they’re terrible and never fix because you’ll never be disappointed cuz
because you’ll never be disappointed cuz
because you’ll never be disappointed cuz you’ll never take any action so it won’t
you’ll never take any action so it won’t
you’ll never take any action so it won’t change its self-fulfilling but it takes
change its self-fulfilling but it takes
change its self-fulfilling but it takes guts to say I’m going to believe in
guts to say I’m going to believe in
guts to say I’m going to believe in something and try it even though I might
something and try it even though I might
something and try it even though I might fail the first fourth tenth time I’m
fail the first fourth tenth time I’m
fail the first fourth tenth time I’m going to keep going and I believe that
going to keep going and I believe that
going to keep going and I believe that most human beings that they put yourself
most human beings that they put yourself
most human beings that they put yourself on the line they would uncover who they
on the line they would uncover who they
on the line they would uncover who they really are but most of us are so afraid
really are but most of us are so afraid
really are but most of us are so afraid of failing or not looking good or or
of failing or not looking good or or
of failing or not looking good or or losing out that we just never discover
losing out that we just never discover
losing out that we just never discover who we are what I think we have in
who we are what I think we have in
who we are what I think we have in common is we’re willing to step into the
common is we’re willing to step into the
common is we’re willing to step into the uncertainty all passion is found in the
uncertainty all passion is found in the
uncertainty all passion is found in the realm of uncertainty and yet human
realm of uncertainty and yet human
realm of uncertainty and yet human beings are pulled to certainly because
beings are pulled to certainly because
beings are pulled to certainly because we you know we don’t want to deal with
we you know we don’t want to deal with
we you know we don’t want to deal with our fears freedom liberation is we break
our fears freedom liberation is we break
our fears freedom liberation is we break through the fears all of my brethren out
through the fears all of my brethren out
through the fears all of my brethren out there all my brothers and sisters
there all my brothers and sisters
there all my brothers and sisters watching who are entrepreneurs or or
watching who are entrepreneurs or or
watching who are entrepreneurs or or considering being entrepreneurs
considering being entrepreneurs
considering being entrepreneurs you are what I made for I’m not I go 18
you are what I made for I’m not I go 18
you are what I made for I’m not I go 18 companies 12 actively managed five
companies 12 actively managed five
companies 12 actively managed five billion in save who told you 1200 plays
billion in save who told you 1200 plays
billion in save who told you 1200 plays and blows my mind I have no business
and blows my mind I have no business
and blows my mind I have no business background but I have this passion that
background but I have this passion that
background but I have this passion that says I must do more for others than
says I must do more for others than
says I must do more for others than anybody else and I’ll never stop growing
anybody else and I’ll never stop growing
anybody else and I’ll never stop growing and I’ll never stop changing I’ll never
and I’ll never stop changing I’ll never
and I’ll never stop changing I’ll never stop improving and I feel alive by doing
stop improving and I feel alive by doing
stop improving and I feel alive by doing that as opposed to let me do the same
that as opposed to let me do the same
that as opposed to let me do the same thing every day because I’m good at it
thing every day because I’m good at it
thing every day because I’m good at it and let me continue to do that hopefully
and let me continue to do that hopefully
and let me continue to do that hopefully my life is really good that’ll make you
my life is really good that’ll make you
my life is really good that’ll make you feel you know feel numb if not depressed
feel you know feel numb if not depressed
feel you know feel numb if not depressed you’re frustrated overwhelmed which is
you’re frustrated overwhelmed which is
you’re frustrated overwhelmed which is where most human beings lives develop
where most human beings lives develop
where most human beings lives develop the courage courage is not the absence
the courage courage is not the absence
the courage courage is not the absence of fear courage is the willingness to
of fear courage is the willingness to
of fear courage is the willingness to act in spite of the fear I had a fear of
act in spite of the fear I had a fear of
act in spite of the fear I had a fear of speaking because I don’t have a college
speaking because I don’t have a college
speaking because I don’t have a college education and a fear of becoming an
education and a fear of becoming an
education and a fear of becoming an entrepreneur because I never had an
entrepreneur because I never had an
entrepreneur because I never had an experience of any background in business
experience of any background in business
experience of any background in business I had a fear of so many things I was
I had a fear of so many things I was
I had a fear of so many things I was living a fear driven life as you look at
living a fear driven life as you look at
living a fear driven life as you look at yourself and look at your goals develop
yourself and look at your goals develop
yourself and look at your goals develop the courage to go after your goals to
the courage to go after your goals to
the courage to go after your goals to live your dreams and not your fears and
live your dreams and not your fears and
live your dreams and not your fears and understand and here’s something that’s
understand and here’s something that’s
understand and here’s something that’s very important that anything that’s
very important that anything that’s
very important that anything that’s worth doing is worth doing badly I don’t
worth doing is worth doing badly I don’t
worth doing is worth doing badly I don’t want to make any mistakes hey anything
want to make any mistakes hey anything
want to make any mistakes hey anything is worth doing at all it’s worth doing
is worth doing at all it’s worth doing
is worth doing at all it’s worth doing badly why because it’s worth doing right
badly why because it’s worth doing right
badly why because it’s worth doing right if you know how to do it but if you
if you know how to do it but if you
if you know how to do it but if you don’t know how to do it
don’t know how to do it
don’t know how to do it it’s worth doing badly until you get it
it’s worth doing badly until you get it
it’s worth doing badly until you get it right just like I’ll mess it up right
right just like I’ll mess it up right
right just like I’ll mess it up right now but you forgive me won’t you
now but you forgive me won’t you
now but you forgive me won’t you of course you will so as you look at
of course you will so as you look at
of course you will so as you look at yourself anything that’s worth doing
yourself anything that’s worth doing
yourself anything that’s worth doing it’s worth doing badly until you get it
it’s worth doing badly until you get it
it’s worth doing badly until you get it right and as you make mistakes you learn
right and as you make mistakes you learn
right and as you make mistakes you learn from your mistakes you come back again
from your mistakes you come back again
from your mistakes you come back again and again and again they ask Benjamin
and again and again they ask Benjamin
and again and again they ask Benjamin Franklin Noah was Thomas Edison Thomas
Franklin Noah was Thomas Edison Thomas
Franklin Noah was Thomas Edison Thomas Edison is Sir Thomas Edison how did you
Edison is Sir Thomas Edison how did you
Edison is Sir Thomas Edison how did you continue to get to learn how to develop
continue to get to learn how to develop
continue to get to learn how to develop the light love in spite of the fact that
the light love in spite of the fact that
the light love in spite of the fact that you had 10,000 billions and eat that he
you had 10,000 billions and eat that he
you had 10,000 billions and eat that he didn’t have 10,000 billions you said he
didn’t have 10,000 billions you said he
didn’t have 10,000 billions you said he had 10,000 waves that did not work Wow
had 10,000 waves that did not work Wow
had 10,000 waves that did not work Wow think about that today anything that
think about that today anything that
think about that today anything that you’re going through right now
you’re going through right now
you’re going through right now if you want to take a big scary leap and
if you want to take a big scary leap and
if you want to take a big scary leap and you want to start a new career or
you want to start a new career or
you want to start a new career or perhaps start a business anything that
perhaps start a business anything that
perhaps start a business anything that you might consider a failure is really
you might consider a failure is really
you might consider a failure is really just a necessary step on your journey
just a necessary step on your journey
just a necessary step on your journey to success so no matter what you’re
to success so no matter what you’re
to success so no matter what you’re facing right now no matter what’s
facing right now no matter what’s
facing right now no matter what’s getting you so scared there’s only one
getting you so scared there’s only one
getting you so scared there’s only one question that you need to ask and answer
question that you need to ask and answer
question that you need to ask and answer to find the courage to make that big
to find the courage to make that big
to find the courage to make that big leap and the question is this what’s the
leap and the question is this what’s the
leap and the question is this what’s the worst thing that can happen so not just
worst thing that can happen so not just
worst thing that can happen so not just by saying yes but what’s the worst thing
by saying yes but what’s the worst thing
by saying yes but what’s the worst thing that could happen if you said no so for
that could happen if you said no so for
that could happen if you said no so for example a few years ago I asked my
example a few years ago I asked my
example a few years ago I asked my really dear friend Laura to come speak
really dear friend Laura to come speak
really dear friend Laura to come speak at one of our live events now this was a
at one of our live events now this was a
at one of our live events now this was a big opportunity for her but I know it
big opportunity for her but I know it
big opportunity for her but I know it was kind of stressful and I said you
was kind of stressful and I said you
was kind of stressful and I said you know what this is big so take a few days
know what this is big so take a few days
know what this is big so take a few days think about it because once you say yes
think about it because once you say yes
think about it because once you say yes you’re going to be locked in so first
you’re going to be locked in so first
you’re going to be locked in so first she had to ask herself well what’s the
she had to ask herself well what’s the
she had to ask herself well what’s the worst thing that could happen if I said
worst thing that could happen if I said
worst thing that could happen if I said yes so for her it was the stress it was
yes so for her it was the stress it was
yes so for her it was the stress it was wishing that she never committed which
wishing that she never committed which
wishing that she never committed which she wished she never committed but it
she wished she never committed but it
she wished she never committed but it was also this fear that she was going to
was also this fear that she was going to
was also this fear that she was going to completely freeze up on stage that she
completely freeze up on stage that she
completely freeze up on stage that she was going to mess up horribly and
was going to mess up horribly and
was going to mess up horribly and completely ruin her reputation which she
completely ruin her reputation which she
completely ruin her reputation which she did not now on the flip side she had to
did not now on the flip side she had to
did not now on the flip side she had to ask yourself what’s the worst thing that
ask yourself what’s the worst thing that
ask yourself what’s the worst thing that could happen if she said no so you got
could happen if she said no so you got
could happen if she said no so you got to get that Laura really wanted to grow
to get that Laura really wanted to grow
to get that Laura really wanted to grow her business and her brand and if she
her business and her brand and if she
her business and her brand and if she said no to this opportunity she’d have
said no to this opportunity she’d have
said no to this opportunity she’d have to face herself in the mirror every
to face herself in the mirror every
to face herself in the mirror every single day and say nice going bonehead
single day and say nice going bonehead
single day and say nice going bonehead you had the perfect opportunity to grow
you had the perfect opportunity to grow
you had the perfect opportunity to grow your business and you turned it down so
your business and you turned it down so
your business and you turned it down so now it’s your turn I want you to ask
now it’s your turn I want you to ask
now it’s your turn I want you to ask yourself what’s the worst possible thing
yourself what’s the worst possible thing
yourself what’s the worst possible thing that could happen if you said yes and
that could happen if you said yes and
that could happen if you said yes and you’d fail miserably so don’t just think
you’d fail miserably so don’t just think
you’d fail miserably so don’t just think about this loosely I want you to get
about this loosely I want you to get
about this loosely I want you to get really specific and tease out every
really specific and tease out every
really specific and tease out every single scenario that could possibly go
single scenario that could possibly go
single scenario that could possibly go wrong and how you deal with it if it did
wrong and how you deal with it if it did
wrong and how you deal with it if it did what most of us discover is that no
what most of us discover is that no
what most of us discover is that no matter what the worst case scenario is
matter what the worst case scenario is
matter what the worst case scenario is we can actually handle it but don’t
we can actually handle it but don’t
we can actually handle it but don’t forget you got to go on the flip side
forget you got to go on the flip side
forget you got to go on the flip side too and ask yourself what’s the worst
too and ask yourself what’s the worst
too and ask yourself what’s the worst thing that can happen if you decide to
thing that can happen if you decide to
thing that can happen if you decide to do nothing and keep your life exactly as
do nothing and keep your life exactly as
do nothing and keep your life exactly as it is
it is
it is are your regrets going to start to pile
are your regrets going to start to pile
are your regrets going to start to pile up like pancakes you’re going to turn
up like pancakes you’re going to turn
up like pancakes you’re going to turn into some miserable self-loathing
into some miserable self-loathing
into some miserable self-loathing sad-sack I really want you to tease this
sad-sack I really want you to tease this
sad-sack I really want you to tease this one out and get all the scenarios on the
one out and get all the scenarios on the
one out and get all the scenarios on the table and then take a look what do you
table and then take a look what do you
table and then take a look what do you got
got
got the worst of the worst going for it or
the worst of the worst going for it or
the worst of the worst going for it or not going for it
not going for it
not going for it I believe the master emotion of all life
I believe the master emotion of all life
I believe the master emotion of all life is enthusiasm if you’re enthusiastic
is enthusiasm if you’re enthusiastic
is enthusiasm if you’re enthusiastic about something you’re engaged with it
about something you’re engaged with it
about something you’re engaged with it if you’re enthusiastic about something
if you’re enthusiastic about something
if you’re enthusiastic about something you feel energized for it if you’re
you feel energized for it if you’re
you feel energized for it if you’re enthusiastic about something you look
enthusiastic about something you look
enthusiastic about something you look forward to waking up tomorrow and go and
forward to waking up tomorrow and go and
forward to waking up tomorrow and go and forth so prime that feeling every day
forth so prime that feeling every day
forth so prime that feeling every day the way that I do that is every morning
the way that I do that is every morning
the way that I do that is every morning in the shower when I’m getting ready I
in the shower when I’m getting ready I
in the shower when I’m getting ready I think what could I be excited about for
think what could I be excited about for
think what could I be excited about for today what could I have enthusiasm flow
today what could I have enthusiasm flow
today what could I have enthusiasm flow today and if I can’t come up with
today and if I can’t come up with
today and if I can’t come up with anything off the top of my head or by
anything off the top of my head or by
anything off the top of my head or by looking at my schedule I create it I
looking at my schedule I create it I
looking at my schedule I create it I said okay what could I do today that
said okay what could I do today that
said okay what could I do today that would be fun and make me look forward to
would be fun and make me look forward to
would be fun and make me look forward to the day maybe prank a friend
the day maybe prank a friend
the day maybe prank a friend maybe it’s do something good for
maybe it’s do something good for
maybe it’s do something good for somebody maybe it’s something I’m going
somebody maybe it’s something I’m going
somebody maybe it’s something I’m going to do that I just really enjoyed it
to do that I just really enjoyed it
to do that I just really enjoyed it won’t be I won’t spend a lot of time
won’t be I won’t spend a lot of time
won’t be I won’t spend a lot of time during the day by me to give myself 30
during the day by me to give myself 30
during the day by me to give myself 30 minutes doing a passion small little
minutes doing a passion small little
minutes doing a passion small little project I’m interested in whatever it is
project I’m interested in whatever it is
project I’m interested in whatever it is prime enthusiasts because if you have
prime enthusiasts because if you have
prime enthusiasts because if you have that feeling of enthusiasm that’s what’s
that feeling of enthusiasm that’s what’s
that feeling of enthusiasm that’s what’s going to keep you passionate over long
going to keep you passionate over long
going to keep you passionate over long term and please listen you need to prime
term and please listen you need to prime
term and please listen you need to prime your enthusiasms every day see a lot of
your enthusiasms every day see a lot of
your enthusiasms every day see a lot of people are very passionate people but
people are very passionate people but
people are very passionate people but they’re not living passionately because
they’re not living passionately because
they’re not living passionately because every day they’re not engaging with what
every day they’re not engaging with what
every day they’re not engaging with what they want you know they set the big goal
they want you know they set the big goal
they want you know they set the big goal at New Year’s with in February and April
at New Year’s with in February and April
at New Year’s with in February and April rolls around they forgotten about it but
rolls around they forgotten about it but
rolls around they forgotten about it but the reason they were so excited in
the reason they were so excited in
the reason they were so excited in January that the New Year why is
January that the New Year why is
January that the New Year why is everyone excited they’re priming
everyone excited they’re priming
everyone excited they’re priming enthusiasm they’re looking at their
enthusiasm they’re looking at their
enthusiasm they’re looking at their goals they’re having an emotional
goals they’re having an emotional
goals they’re having an emotional connection and commitment to that and
connection and commitment to that and
connection and commitment to that and that excites them for the year so what
that excites them for the year so what
that excites them for the year so what you need to do is look at your goals
you need to do is look at your goals
you need to do is look at your goals every day what you need to do is every
every day what you need to do is every
every day what you need to do is every day write the things down and important
day write the things down and important
day write the things down and important to it get excited about doing that
to it get excited about doing that
to it get excited about doing that implementing experiencing it and go for
implementing experiencing it and go for
implementing experiencing it and go for it
it
it it makes my heart my friends like live
it makes my heart my friends like live
it makes my heart my friends like live for Friday night like they know they get
for Friday night like they know they get
for Friday night like they know they get there we like Monday mornings the worst
there we like Monday mornings the worst
there we like Monday mornings the worst it’s just such a huge percentage of
it’s just such a huge percentage of
it’s just such a huge percentage of one’s life I can’t wrap my head around
one’s life I can’t wrap my head around
one’s life I can’t wrap my head around with the internet this is not your
with the internet this is not your
with the internet this is not your grandpappy’s life we have the internet
grandpappy’s life we have the internet
grandpappy’s life we have the internet you can make happen you can build
you can make happen you can build
you can make happen you can build businesses or side hustles I just don’t
businesses or side hustles I just don’t
businesses or side hustles I just don’t understand why people relegate into
understand why people relegate into
understand why people relegate into losing mentality and just thinking they
losing mentality and just thinking they
losing mentality and just thinking they can’t you can’t because you want to be
can’t you can’t because you want to be
can’t you can’t because you want to be on the bowling team or softball and play
on the bowling team or softball and play
on the bowling team or softball and play video games that’s why you can’t there’s
video games that’s why you can’t there’s
video games that’s why you can’t there’s plenty of time get done the level
plenty of time get done the level
plenty of time get done the level of complaining is unacceptable look what
of complaining is unacceptable look what
of complaining is unacceptable look what if I told you this was the last Monday
if I told you this was the last Monday
if I told you this was the last Monday morning of your life
morning of your life
morning of your life what if I go do you digest week would
what if I go do you digest week would
what if I go do you digest week would you complain about your crap job or that
you complain about your crap job or that
you complain about your crap job or that test you don’t want to think I doubt it
test you don’t want to think I doubt it
test you don’t want to think I doubt it you’ll go much higher level thinking
you’ll go much higher level thinking
you’ll go much higher level thinking well that’s really what it takes it
well that’s really what it takes it
well that’s really what it takes it takes understanding that if you’re not
takes understanding that if you’re not
takes understanding that if you’re not hung right now if you’re begrudging what
hung right now if you’re begrudging what
hung right now if you’re begrudging what you’re about to do is here if you’re not
you’re about to do is here if you’re not
you’re about to do is here if you’re not looking forward please recognize the
looking forward please recognize the
looking forward please recognize the world we’re living in we’re living in a
world we’re living in we’re living in a
world we’re living in we’re living in a world where so much more opportunity
world where so much more opportunity
world where so much more opportunity this internet thing created way more
this internet thing created way more
this internet thing created way more opportunity for all of us way more I
opportunity for all of us way more I
opportunity for all of us way more I mean really let him be alive but your
mean really let him be alive but your
mean really let him be alive but your mom and dad could have had sex like
mom and dad could have had sex like
mom and dad could have had sex like three years later and you weren’t even
three years later and you weren’t even
three years later and you weren’t even exist and you’re complaining you could
exist and you’re complaining you could
exist and you’re complaining you could have ended up being a buck a three I
have ended up being a buck a three I
have ended up being a buck a three I just don’t get to mentality being head
just don’t get to mentality being head
just don’t get to mentality being head down sad on a Monday morning I’m going
down sad on a Monday morning I’m going
down sad on a Monday morning I’m going to make Monday morning my bitch I’m
to make Monday morning my bitch I’m
to make Monday morning my bitch I’m going to make you Saturday Monday
going to make you Saturday Monday
going to make you Saturday Monday morning that’s what I want to do every
morning that’s what I want to do every
morning that’s what I want to do every morning and that’s what I want from you
morning and that’s what I want from you
morning and that’s what I want from you please take a step back and think about
please take a step back and think about
please take a step back and think about how awesome it actually is and then
how awesome it actually is and then
how awesome it actually is and then recognize that you can attack the world
recognize that you can attack the world
recognize that you can attack the world in a totally different way because you
in a totally different way because you
in a totally different way because you are lucky enough to be born during this
are lucky enough to be born during this
are lucky enough to be born during this tear up so my take on building courage
tear up so my take on building courage
tear up so my take on building courage is I think it’s like a muscle I think
is I think it’s like a muscle I think
is I think it’s like a muscle I think it’s something that you need to develop
it’s something that you need to develop
it’s something that you need to develop and constantly push and train yourself
and constantly push and train yourself
and constantly push and train yourself to get stronger and stronger and
to get stronger and stronger and
to get stronger and stronger and stronger there will be periods every
stronger there will be periods every
stronger there will be periods every single day that you have the opportunity
single day that you have the opportunity
single day that you have the opportunity to build your courage muscle and what
to build your courage muscle and what
to build your courage muscle and what usually happens for most people is they
usually happens for most people is they
usually happens for most people is they have this opportunity in front of them
have this opportunity in front of them
have this opportunity in front of them that is scary that they’ve never done
that is scary that they’ve never done
that is scary that they’ve never done before that they’re afraid of and
before that they’re afraid of and
before that they’re afraid of and they’ll justify it with the practical
they’ll justify it with the practical
they’ll justify it with the practical reason you tell yourself you can’t do
reason you tell yourself you can’t do
reason you tell yourself you can’t do because of all this and it’ll make total
because of all this and it’ll make total
because of all this and it’ll make total sense to you and you just shrink down
sense to you and you just shrink down
sense to you and you just shrink down you
you
you silly play the smaller game the weak
silly play the smaller game the weak
silly play the smaller game the weak your game instead of being bold and
your game instead of being bold and
your game instead of being bold and believing in yourself and trying to go
believing in yourself and trying to go
believing in yourself and trying to go for and take that action and so how do
for and take that action and so how do
for and take that action and so how do you go from being afraid and being
you go from being afraid and being
you go from being afraid and being scared to actually having the courage to
scared to actually having the courage to
scared to actually having the courage to do it here’s what I found really helps
do it here’s what I found really helps
do it here’s what I found really helps it’s really helped for me multiple times
it’s really helped for me multiple times
it’s really helped for me multiple times and I think it can help you the first
and I think it can help you the first
and I think it can help you the first part is the awareness so many people
part is the awareness so many people
part is the awareness so many people just play small by default they don’t
just play small by default they don’t
just play small by default they don’t even realize that they’re playing small
even realize that they’re playing small
even realize that they’re playing small it’s just so ingrained in you that it
it’s just so ingrained in you that it
it’s just so ingrained in you that it just happens constantly every day you
just happens constantly every day you
just happens constantly every day you talk yourself down from things every
talk yourself down from things every
talk yourself down from things every single day and it makes perfect logical
single day and it makes perfect logical
single day and it makes perfect logical sense the reasons why you say you can’t
sense the reasons why you say you can’t
sense the reasons why you say you can’t do something are rational they make
do something are rational they make
do something are rational they make sense until you constantly do it but
sense until you constantly do it but
sense until you constantly do it but when you catch yourself it’s usually not
when you catch yourself it’s usually not
when you catch yourself it’s usually not the moment it’s like the next day or the
the moment it’s like the next day or the
the moment it’s like the next day or the next week you catch yourself to say you
next week you catch yourself to say you
next week you catch yourself to say you know what yesterday I should have done
know what yesterday I should have done
know what yesterday I should have done that I should have said yes I was just
that I should have said yes I was just
that I should have said yes I was just too afraid why didn’t I say yes that
too afraid why didn’t I say yes that
too afraid why didn’t I say yes that self-awareness that’s the start that is
self-awareness that’s the start that is
self-awareness that’s the start that is the start if you can realize it don’t
the start if you can realize it don’t
the start if you can realize it don’t don’t worry about it being a day later
don’t worry about it being a day later
don’t worry about it being a day later or two days later a week later if you
or two days later a week later if you
or two days later a week later if you can realize at any point that you played
can realize at any point that you played
can realize at any point that you played small the other day that’s the starting
small the other day that’s the starting
small the other day that’s the starting point because the next time it happens
point because the next time it happens
point because the next time it happens you want to catch it again it’s going to
you want to catch it again it’s going to
you want to catch it again it’s going to get a little closer instead of it being
get a little closer instead of it being
get a little closer instead of it being the next day it’ll be a couple hours
the next day it’ll be a couple hours
the next day it’ll be a couple hours next time it happens you’ll get a little
next time it happens you’ll get a little
next time it happens you’ll get a little bit closer next time it happens it’ll be
bit closer next time it happens it’ll be
bit closer next time it happens it’ll be as you’re leaving that meeting you
as you’re leaving that meeting you
as you’re leaving that meeting you realize almost instantly that I did it
realize almost instantly that I did it
realize almost instantly that I did it again I did it again I’m playing small
again I did it again I’m playing small
again I did it again I’m playing small I’m justifying these things when I
I’m justifying these things when I
I’m justifying these things when I shouldn’t be I should better myself I
shouldn’t be I should better myself I
shouldn’t be I should better myself I need to believe in myself and then the
need to believe in myself and then the
need to believe in myself and then the magical moment happens the magical
magical moment happens the magical
magical moment happens the magical moment happens when you have the
moment happens when you have the
moment happens when you have the opportunity sitting immediately in front
opportunity sitting immediately in front
opportunity sitting immediately in front of you and you have the decision to make
of you and you have the decision to make
of you and you have the decision to make you catch it in the moment instead of
you catch it in the moment instead of
you catch it in the moment instead of the next day or the next week you catch
the next day or the next week you catch
the next day or the next week you catch it as it’s happening where somebody asks
it as it’s happening where somebody asks
it as it’s happening where somebody asks you the question to say do you want to
you the question to say do you want to
you the question to say do you want to do this and in your head you’re thinking
do this and in your head you’re thinking
do this and in your head you’re thinking about all the reasons why you can’t and
about all the reasons why you can’t and
about all the reasons why you can’t and you pet yourself say this is it this is
you pet yourself say this is it this is
you pet yourself say this is it this is what always happens I’m about to play
what always happens I’m about to play
what always happens I’m about to play small again and then developing the
small again and then developing the
small again and then developing the courage to say I’m going to do it I’m
courage to say I’m going to do it I’m
courage to say I’m going to do it I’m going to try I’m going to say yes and
going to try I’m going to say yes and
going to try I’m going to say yes and what really helped me is just thinking
what really helped me is just thinking
what really helped me is just thinking that I am tired of living with regrets
that I am tired of living with regrets
that I am tired of living with regrets once you can catch it once you have the
once you can catch it once you have the
once you can catch it once you have the self-awareness to catch that you’re
self-awareness to catch that you’re
self-awareness to catch that you’re playing small consistently I was tired
playing small consistently I was tired
playing small consistently I was tired of living with the regret of constantly
of living with the regret of constantly
of living with the regret of constantly playing smaller than I should and when
playing smaller than I should and when
playing smaller than I should and when you’re in that moment and you have to
you’re in that moment and you have to
you’re in that moment and you have to make that decision and you’re afraid
make that decision and you’re afraid
make that decision and you’re afraid it’s okay to be afraid it’s not be
it’s okay to be afraid it’s not be
it’s okay to be afraid it’s not be fearless you’re going to be afraid it’s
fearless you’re going to be afraid it’s
fearless you’re going to be afraid it’s feeling the fear doing it anyway because
feeling the fear doing it anyway because
feeling the fear doing it anyway because you don’t want to live in regret for the
you don’t want to live in regret for the
you don’t want to live in regret for the rest of your life looking back on this
rest of your life looking back on this
rest of your life looking back on this moment in saying I played small again
moment in saying I played small again
moment in saying I played small again and so that has really really really
and so that has really really really
and so that has really really really helped me a lot it’s helped me develop
helped me a lot it’s helped me develop
helped me a lot it’s helped me develop the courage muscle to the point now
the courage muscle to the point now
the courage muscle to the point now where whenever I’m afraid of something
where whenever I’m afraid of something
where whenever I’m afraid of something whenever I’m worried about somebody
whenever I’m worried about somebody
whenever I’m worried about somebody else’s opinion whenever I feel like
else’s opinion whenever I feel like
else’s opinion whenever I feel like maybe I can’t do that then I have to
maybe I can’t do that then I have to
maybe I can’t do that then I have to force myself to go out and do it if
force myself to go out and do it if
force myself to go out and do it if there’s a real reason not to do it right
there’s a real reason not to do it right
there’s a real reason not to do it right like I’m not interested in it I don’t
like I’m not interested in it I don’t
like I’m not interested in it I don’t have the passion for that I don’t
have the passion for that I don’t
have the passion for that I don’t actually care about that then I won’t go
actually care about that then I won’t go
actually care about that then I won’t go and do it but if I have a passion for it
and do it but if I have a passion for it
and do it but if I have a passion for it and then the only reason that I’m not
and then the only reason that I’m not
and then the only reason that I’m not doing it because I’m afraid then I force
doing it because I’m afraid then I force
doing it because I’m afraid then I force myself to go out and do it every time
myself to go out and do it every time
myself to go out and do it every time you do that you build your courage
you do that you build your courage
you do that you build your courage muscle up every time you’re afraid you
muscle up every time you’re afraid you
muscle up every time you’re afraid you want a small one small little
want a small one small little
want a small one small little interaction talking to that girl on the
interaction talking to that girl on the
interaction talking to that girl on the street having that difficult
street having that difficult
street having that difficult conversation with your partner employee
conversation with your partner employee
conversation with your partner employee your customer every time you think of
your customer every time you think of
your customer every time you think of something that you need to do and you’re
something that you need to do and you’re
something that you need to do and you’re afraid to do it and then you do it you
afraid to do it and then you do it you
afraid to do it and then you do it you build your courage muscle up every
build your courage muscle up every
build your courage muscle up every single time you get stronger and
single time you get stronger and
single time you get stronger and stronger and stronger and what I want
stronger and stronger and what I want
stronger and stronger and what I want you to develop the habit this is so
you to develop the habit this is so
you to develop the habit this is so important I want you to develop the
important I want you to develop the
important I want you to develop the habit of whenever something difficult
habit of whenever something difficult
habit of whenever something difficult comes up you resolve it you jump into it
comes up you resolve it you jump into it
comes up you resolve it you jump into it you address it instead of shrinking down
you address it instead of shrinking down
you address it instead of shrinking down because if shrinking down is all the way
because if shrinking down is all the way
because if shrinking down is all the way up here and addressing it’s all the way
up here and addressing it’s all the way
up here and addressing it’s all the way down here I want you to start to switch
down here I want you to start to switch
down here I want you to start to switch this I want you to switch it where now
this I want you to switch it where now
this I want you to switch it where now every time there’s something major some
every time there’s something major some
every time there’s something major some big problem something you’re afraid of
big problem something you’re afraid of
big problem something you’re afraid of something that you might regret you’re
something that you might regret you’re
something that you might regret you’re going to attack it every single time and
going to attack it every single time and
going to attack it every single time and you’re no longer going to accept playing
you’re no longer going to accept playing
you’re no longer going to accept playing small with your business and with your
small with your business and with your
small with your business and with your life so thank you guys so much for
life so thank you guys so much for
life so thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because
watching I made this video because
watching I made this video because Wambach philosophy asked me to so
Wambach philosophy asked me to so
Wambach philosophy asked me to so there’s a topic you’d like me to cover
there’s a topic you’d like me to cover
there’s a topic you’d like me to cover in the next edition of believe life
in the next edition of believe life
in the next edition of believe life leave it in the comments below and I’ll
leave it in the comments below and I’ll
leave it in the comments below and I’ll see what I can do I’d also love to know
see what I can do I’d also love to know
see what I can do I’d also love to know what did you take from this video what
what did you take from this video what
what did you take from this video what was your favorite clip what was the
was your favorite clip what was the
was your favorite clip what was the favorite story what are you going to
favorite story what are you going to
favorite story what are you going to immediately apply to your life
immediately apply to your life
immediately apply to your life your business so such an important topic
your business so such an important topic
your business so such an important topic if you guys can be more courageous in
if you guys can be more courageous in
if you guys can be more courageous in what you’re doing
what you’re doing
what you’re doing it will have such a dramatic impact on
it will have such a dramatic impact on
it will have such a dramatic impact on your life and the people around you so
your life and the people around you so
your life and the people around you so what did you learn and what are you
what did you learn and what are you
what did you learn and what are you going to apply immediately to your
going to apply immediately to your
going to apply immediately to your business in your life leave a down
business in your life leave a down
business in your life leave a down comments below I’m going to join in the
comments below I’m going to join in the
comments below I’m going to join in the discussion finally I want to give a
discussion finally I want to give a
discussion finally I want to give a quick shout out to Peter ARCA Peter
quick shout out to Peter ARCA Peter
quick shout out to Peter ARCA Peter thank you so much for picking up a cup
thank you so much for picking up a cup
thank you so much for picking up a cup of my book dear one word and taking that
of my book dear one word and taking that
of my book dear one word and taking that picture I love it I hope you enjoy the
picture I love it I hope you enjoy the
picture I love it I hope you enjoy the read main and I really appreciate the
read main and I really appreciate the
read main and I really appreciate the support so thank you guys again for
support so thank you guys again for
support so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you
watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever you’re one where it is much
whatever you’re one where it is much
whatever you’re one where it is much loved have an amazing day and I’ll see
loved have an amazing day and I’ll see
loved have an amazing day and I’ll see you soon
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