good morning believe nation today we’re going to talk about how to deal with
going to talk about how to deal with
going to talk about how to deal with jealousy as always guys as you’re
jealousy as always guys as you’re
jealousy as always guys as you’re watching the clips if you hear somebody
watching the clips if you hear somebody
watching the clips if you hear somebody say something that really resonates with
say something that really resonates with
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other people can be inspired as well
other people can be inspired as well also when you write it down it’s much
also when you write it down it’s much
also when you write it down it’s much more likely to stick with yourself to
more likely to stick with yourself to
more likely to stick with yourself to enjoy
enjoy
enjoy [Music]
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[Music] it’s that knot in your stomach that mix
it’s that knot in your stomach that mix
it’s that knot in your stomach that mix of fear and anxiety that materializes
of fear and anxiety that materializes
of fear and anxiety that materializes when you feel threatened by someone
when you feel threatened by someone
when you feel threatened by someone prettier than you smarter than you it
prettier than you smarter than you it
prettier than you smarter than you it can cause you to do some pretty stupid
can cause you to do some pretty stupid
can cause you to do some pretty stupid sitcom level stuff just to regain
sitcom level stuff just to regain
sitcom level stuff just to regain control things that usually hurt other
control things that usually hurt other
control things that usually hurt other people too you’re probably familiar with
people too you’re probably familiar with
people too you’re probably familiar with this feeling it’s what Shakespeare
this feeling it’s what Shakespeare
this feeling it’s what Shakespeare called the green-eyed monster today
called the green-eyed monster today
called the green-eyed monster today we’re talking about jealousy here’s the
we’re talking about jealousy here’s the
we’re talking about jealousy here’s the thing kids
thing kids
thing kids jealousy is a distinctly first-person
jealousy is a distinctly first-person
jealousy is a distinctly first-person emotion it almost always comes from a
emotion it almost always comes from a
emotion it almost always comes from a place of insecurity which you’ll
place of insecurity which you’ll
place of insecurity which you’ll ultimately project on others the bottom
ultimately project on others the bottom
ultimately project on others the bottom line jealousy isn’t about the other
line jealousy isn’t about the other
line jealousy isn’t about the other person it’s about you jealousy tends to
person it’s about you jealousy tends to
person it’s about you jealousy tends to come with a specific set of blinders and
come with a specific set of blinders and
come with a specific set of blinders and the more jealous we are the less able we
the more jealous we are the less able we
the more jealous we are the less able we are to let’s say empathize with others
are to let’s say empathize with others
are to let’s say empathize with others for example a study conducted by the
for example a study conducted by the
for example a study conducted by the researchers at the University of
researchers at the University of
researchers at the University of Delaware found that jealous people were
Delaware found that jealous people were
Delaware found that jealous people were more easily distracted and less able to
more easily distracted and less able to
more easily distracted and less able to perform simple memory games so let’s try
perform simple memory games so let’s try
perform simple memory games so let’s try to figure out how to get your jealousy
to figure out how to get your jealousy
to figure out how to get your jealousy issues under control
you know if you’re coming from a place
you know if you’re coming from a place of that fear of inadequacy thinking
of that fear of inadequacy thinking
of that fear of inadequacy thinking someone’s gonna leave you it often comes
someone’s gonna leave you it often comes
someone’s gonna leave you it often comes from a place of you’re not giving
from a place of you’re not giving
from a place of you’re not giving yourself credit you know you do good
yourself credit you know you do good
yourself credit you know you do good things but you don’t feel and integrate
things but you don’t feel and integrate
things but you don’t feel and integrate those in your identity so that you
those in your identity so that you
those in your identity so that you become a stronger happier healthier
become a stronger happier healthier
become a stronger happier healthier adult a lot of people they’re actually
adult a lot of people they’re actually
adult a lot of people they’re actually pretty extraordinary people but they
pretty extraordinary people but they
pretty extraordinary people but they don’t feel extraordinary because all
don’t feel extraordinary because all
don’t feel extraordinary because all those extraordinary things that happen
those extraordinary things that happen
those extraordinary things that happen they never integrated someone gives them
they never integrated someone gives them
they never integrated someone gives them a compliment like yeah yeah yeah
a compliment like yeah yeah yeah
a compliment like yeah yeah yeah whatever
whatever
whatever and they can’t hear it it doesn’t
and they can’t hear it it doesn’t
and they can’t hear it it doesn’t penetrate into their identity where they
penetrate into their identity where they
penetrate into their identity where they start going you know what I’m alright
start going you know what I’m alright
start going you know what I’m alright I am good I can be confident now I’ve
I am good I can be confident now I’ve
I am good I can be confident now I’ve achieved enough I’ve come far enough
achieved enough I’ve come far enough
achieved enough I’ve come far enough I’ve survived enough it’s about giving
I’ve survived enough it’s about giving
I’ve survived enough it’s about giving yourself credit and remembering your
yourself credit and remembering your
yourself credit and remembering your strengths you come through such
strengths you come through such
strengths you come through such difficult things in your life that
difficult things in your life that
difficult things in your life that you’re stronger than you know so why is
you’re stronger than you know so why is
you’re stronger than you know so why is that so important because you know what
that so important because you know what
that so important because you know what if they do leave you you’ll be fine and
if they do leave you you’ll be fine and
if they do leave you you’ll be fine and this is the hardest thing to believe
this is the hardest thing to believe
this is the hardest thing to believe when you have this fear of jealousy
when you have this fear of jealousy
when you have this fear of jealousy they’re gonna leave and I might be
they’re gonna leave and I might be
they’re gonna leave and I might be wrecked you won’t be wrecked you
wrecked you won’t be wrecked you
wrecked you won’t be wrecked you survived a lot in the past someone’s
survived a lot in the past someone’s
survived a lot in the past someone’s probably already left you in your life
probably already left you in your life
probably already left you in your life not to be not to be a blamer
not to be not to be a blamer
not to be not to be a blamer or making fun of you it’s just true
or making fun of you it’s just true
or making fun of you it’s just true right lots of people walked out on me
right lots of people walked out on me
right lots of people walked out on me lots of people left me I’ve had lots of
lots of people left me I’ve had lots of
lots of people left me I’ve had lots of breakups in my life that happens and I’m
breakups in my life that happens and I’m
breakups in my life that happens and I’m still here I’m still surviving I’m just
still here I’m still surviving I’m just
still here I’m still surviving I’m just still pretty annoyingly happy dude you
still pretty annoyingly happy dude you
still pretty annoyingly happy dude you can be happy with or without anybody or
can be happy with or without anybody or
can be happy with or without anybody or anything
anything
anything you don’t need more wealth you don’t
you don’t need more wealth you don’t
you don’t need more wealth you don’t need more people you don’t need more
need more people you don’t need more
need more people you don’t need more higher career you don’t anything you can
higher career you don’t anything you can
higher career you don’t anything you can choose in this moment to feel grateful
choose in this moment to feel grateful
choose in this moment to feel grateful and blessed you can choose to focus your
and blessed you can choose to focus your
and blessed you can choose to focus your attention on things that you appreciate
attention on things that you appreciate
attention on things that you appreciate to take in the good again and if you
to take in the good again and if you
to take in the good again and if you start taking in those good things that
start taking in those good things that
start taking in those good things that you hear about yourself if you start
you hear about yourself if you start
you hear about yourself if you start taking in those good wins those small
taking in those good wins those small
taking in those good wins those small daily actions that you did we hit that
daily actions that you did we hit that
daily actions that you did we hit that goal when you got that project done when
goal when you got that project done when
goal when you got that project done when you did what you’re supposed to do we
you did what you’re supposed to do we
you did what you’re supposed to do we said something nice and start feeling
said something nice and start feeling
said something nice and start feeling stronger about yourself you stopped
stronger about yourself you stopped
stronger about yourself you stopped worrying about other people and you can
worrying about other people and you can
worrying about other people and you can start to say you know what with or
start to say you know what with or
start to say you know what with or without somebody I’m fine
without somebody I’m fine
without somebody I’m fine because you know what that makes you
because you know what that makes you
because you know what that makes you attractive turn Envy into action so envy
attractive turn Envy into action so envy
attractive turn Envy into action so envy can be inspiring and instructive
can be inspiring and instructive
can be inspiring and instructive you’re envious of someone’s results just
you’re envious of someone’s results just
you’re envious of someone’s results just let that fuel you ahead the fact that
let that fuel you ahead the fact that
let that fuel you ahead the fact that they did it means that it can be done
they did it means that it can be done
they did it means that it can be done and that you can do it too so just give
and that you can do it too so just give
and that you can do it too so just give them a high five in a soul shake ii
them a high five in a soul shake ii
them a high five in a soul shake ii realize that envy is often a clue that
realize that envy is often a clue that
realize that envy is often a clue that there’s something latent in you that
there’s something latent in you that
there’s something latent in you that needs to be expressed so let that envy
needs to be expressed so let that envy
needs to be expressed so let that envy trigger you in a beautiful way let it
trigger you in a beautiful way let it
trigger you in a beautiful way let it guide you to where you need to take some
guide you to where you need to take some
guide you to where you need to take some more action in your own life so next
more action in your own life so next
more action in your own life so next time and that you’re feeling some envy
time and that you’re feeling some envy
time and that you’re feeling some envy don’t feel embarrassed just remember
don’t feel embarrassed just remember
don’t feel embarrassed just remember this tweetable don’t hide your envy ride
this tweetable don’t hide your envy ride
this tweetable don’t hide your envy ride your envy from she has what I want to
your envy from she has what I want to
your envy from she has what I want to I’ll have what she’s having
I’ll have what she’s having
I’ll have what she’s having so what’s the ultimate solution to
so what’s the ultimate solution to
so what’s the ultimate solution to dealing with jealousy the solution is to
dealing with jealousy the solution is to
dealing with jealousy the solution is to turn within this is not a problem that
turn within this is not a problem that
turn within this is not a problem that gets solved externally you’re not gonna
gets solved externally you’re not gonna
gets solved externally you’re not gonna win the jealousy game by going out there
win the jealousy game by going out there
win the jealousy game by going out there and actually feeding that person or that
and actually feeding that person or that
and actually feeding that person or that thing or getting you know one up on them
thing or getting you know one up on them
thing or getting you know one up on them what you need to do is you need to
what you need to do is you need to
what you need to do is you need to actually state wait a minute wait a
actually state wait a minute wait a
actually state wait a minute wait a minute wait a minute this is an internal
minute wait a minute this is an internal
minute wait a minute this is an internal ego struggle that I’m dealing with and I
ego struggle that I’m dealing with and I
ego struggle that I’m dealing with and I just gotta turn inwards and look inside
just gotta turn inwards and look inside
just gotta turn inwards and look inside me to see what’s really going on with my
me to see what’s really going on with my
me to see what’s really going on with my self-image my self-esteem my views on
self-image my self-esteem my views on
self-image my self-esteem my views on reality my beliefs about myself and
reality my beliefs about myself and
reality my beliefs about myself and other people that’s where the results
other people that’s where the results
other people that’s where the results happen so don’t get tricked by your ego
happen so don’t get tricked by your ego
happen so don’t get tricked by your ego to figure this is an external problem
to figure this is an external problem
to figure this is an external problem it’s not an external problem at all you
it’s not an external problem at all you
it’s not an external problem at all you have to also convince yourself that
have to also convince yourself that
have to also convince yourself that jealousy is an ego game and that that’s
jealousy is an ego game and that that’s
jealousy is an ego game and that that’s pretty much what’s going on here it’s
pretty much what’s going on here it’s
pretty much what’s going on here it’s not about the fact that you’re actually
not about the fact that you’re actually
not about the fact that you’re actually threatened in some serious way it’s an
threatened in some serious way it’s an
threatened in some serious way it’s an ego game and this is important to
ego game and this is important to
ego game and this is important to convince yourself because until you
convince yourself because until you
convince yourself because until you convince yourself of this then you’re
convince yourself of this then you’re
convince yourself of this then you’re not gonna have the awareness
not gonna have the awareness
not gonna have the awareness consciousness and self honesty to look
consciousness and self honesty to look
consciousness and self honesty to look inside and do the work that’s necessary
inside and do the work that’s necessary
inside and do the work that’s necessary on the inside to eradicate this jealousy
on the inside to eradicate this jealousy
on the inside to eradicate this jealousy if you are able to convince yourself
if you are able to convince yourself
if you are able to convince yourself that this is an ego game then you’re
that this is an ego game then you’re
that this is an ego game then you’re gonna start to think like this oh so
gonna start to think like this oh so
gonna start to think like this oh so it’s it’s me there’s like elements
it’s it’s me there’s like elements
it’s it’s me there’s like elements within me there causing this let me
within me there causing this let me
within me there causing this let me start to take a look at my ego let me
start to take a look at my ego let me
start to take a look at my ego let me start to take a look inside and get
start to take a look inside and get
start to take a look inside and get really honest get very observant because
really honest get very observant because
really honest get very observant because there’s some really
there’s some really
there’s some really fishy surreptitious activity going on
fishy surreptitious activity going on
fishy surreptitious activity going on inside my psyche
inside my psyche
inside my psyche I gotta examine that for myself get a
I gotta examine that for myself get a
I gotta examine that for myself get a deeper look at it let’s take a look at
deeper look at it let’s take a look at
deeper look at it let’s take a look at what’s going on let’s take a look under
what’s going on let’s take a look under
what’s going on let’s take a look under the hood and that’s the key once you can
the hood and that’s the key once you can
the hood and that’s the key once you can convince yourself that looking under the
convince yourself that looking under the
convince yourself that looking under the hood is a good thing and once you start
hood is a good thing and once you start
hood is a good thing and once you start to see that Oh
to see that Oh
to see that Oh looking under the hood it’s actually not
looking under the hood it’s actually not
looking under the hood it’s actually not as easy as I thought it was it’s gonna
as easy as I thought it was it’s gonna
as easy as I thought it was it’s gonna take some real work then you’ve got the
take some real work then you’ve got the
take some real work then you’ve got the foundation set for doing some deep inner
foundation set for doing some deep inner
foundation set for doing some deep inner work on your jealousy if you put your
work on your jealousy if you put your
work on your jealousy if you put your mind into an environment where you’re
mind into an environment where you’re
mind into an environment where you’re constantly thinking negative thoughts
constantly thinking negative thoughts
constantly thinking negative thoughts because yeah it’s your default pattern
because yeah it’s your default pattern
because yeah it’s your default pattern then that’s what its gonna respond sir
then that’s what its gonna respond sir
then that’s what its gonna respond sir you start building the negative muscles
you start building the negative muscles
you start building the negative muscles and they’ll get stronger over time and
and they’ll get stronger over time and
and they’ll get stronger over time and you’ll be able to lift more we are
you’ll be able to lift more we are
you’ll be able to lift more we are heavier negative things with those
heavier negative things with those
heavier negative things with those muscles but it also works if you put it
muscles but it also works if you put it
muscles but it also works if you put it in the positive gym and that’s what most
in the positive gym and that’s what most
in the positive gym and that’s what most people all you need to do to free
people all you need to do to free
people all you need to do to free yourself from negative thoughts is to
yourself from negative thoughts is to
yourself from negative thoughts is to get in a better environment get your ass
get in a better environment get your ass
get in a better environment get your ass in the positive gym how do you do that
in the positive gym how do you do that
in the positive gym how do you do that well in today’s world it’s easy and you
well in today’s world it’s easy and you
well in today’s world it’s easy and you don’t even need to pay a fitness
don’t even need to pay a fitness
don’t even need to pay a fitness membership to be able to do it and
membership to be able to do it and
membership to be able to do it and that’s so expose yourself consistently
that’s so expose yourself consistently
that’s so expose yourself consistently get that compass needle Andry magnetize
get that compass needle Andry magnetize
get that compass needle Andry magnetize it in a different direction
it in a different direction
it in a different direction you do it over time you don’t walk into
you do it over time you don’t walk into
you do it over time you don’t walk into a gym with an overweight body and you
a gym with an overweight body and you
a gym with an overweight body and you walk out fit no you walk out sore and
walk out fit no you walk out sore and
walk out fit no you walk out sore and it’s uncomfortable but over time that’s
it’s uncomfortable but over time that’s
it’s uncomfortable but over time that’s what happens if you want to stay with an
what happens if you want to stay with an
what happens if you want to stay with an overweight body that’s your deal and I’m
overweight body that’s your deal and I’m
overweight body that’s your deal and I’m here to tell you if you don’t make time
here to tell you if you don’t make time
here to tell you if you don’t make time for health you will have to make time
for health you will have to make time
for health you will have to make time for illness that’s not a rule I made up
for illness that’s not a rule I made up
for illness that’s not a rule I made up that’s just the way it is if you don’t
that’s just the way it is if you don’t
that’s just the way it is if you don’t make time for positivity in your life
make time for positivity in your life
make time for positivity in your life your default magnetic north is gonna
your default magnetic north is gonna
your default magnetic north is gonna swing over to the negative you know I
swing over to the negative you know I
swing over to the negative you know I didn’t make that up that’s just the way
didn’t make that up that’s just the way
didn’t make that up that’s just the way it is and unfortunately most people’s
it is and unfortunately most people’s
it is and unfortunately most people’s default north points negative so your
default north points negative so your
default north points negative so your environments your peer group the media
environments your peer group the media
environments your peer group the media all of the things that most people are
all of the things that most people are
all of the things that most people are associated to are constantly programming
associated to are constantly programming
associated to are constantly programming them into a negative direction so that
them into a negative direction so that
them into a negative direction so that when they’re sleeping awake now and
when they’re sleeping awake now and
when they’re sleeping awake now and doing things out of habit that’s the
doing things out of habit that’s the
doing things out of habit that’s the gravitational right and then guess what
gravitational right and then guess what
gravitational right and then guess what we feel trapped by negative thinking so
we feel trapped by negative thinking so
we feel trapped by negative thinking so how do you free yourself make a
how do you free yourself make a
how do you free yourself make a conscious decision
conscious decision
conscious decision yeah the will is what drives at the
yeah the will is what drives at the
yeah the will is what drives at the force so have a make a decision a firm
force so have a make a decision a firm
force so have a make a decision a firm liz’ll decision that I’m going to get my
liz’ll decision that I’m going to get my
liz’ll decision that I’m going to get my mental ass in the positive gym very easy
mental ass in the positive gym very easy
mental ass in the positive gym very easy to do surround yourself with positive
to do surround yourself with positive
to do surround yourself with positive people if you can’t do that read
people if you can’t do that read
people if you can’t do that read positive books yet watch positive films
positive books yet watch positive films
positive books yet watch positive films films that lift you up that come from a
films that lift you up that come from a
films that lift you up that come from a place of possibility yeah that support
place of possibility yeah that support
place of possibility yeah that support how we can not why I can’t you know if
how we can not why I can’t you know if
how we can not why I can’t you know if people are in your environment that a
people are in your environment that a
people are in your environment that a negative start tuning them out that’s
negative start tuning them out that’s
negative start tuning them out that’s not to say that you’re better or worse
not to say that you’re better or worse
not to say that you’re better or worse it’s just to say that you want a
it’s just to say that you want a
it’s just to say that you want a different environment the next time
different environment the next time
different environment the next time you’re in a situation where you’re
you’re in a situation where you’re
you’re in a situation where you’re experiencing those extreme jealous
experiencing those extreme jealous
experiencing those extreme jealous thoughts go into a separate room
thoughts go into a separate room
thoughts go into a separate room take out your well cast journal and calm
take out your well cast journal and calm
take out your well cast journal and calm down step one acknowledge admit it
down step one acknowledge admit it
down step one acknowledge admit it you’re jealous and you can’t run from
you’re jealous and you can’t run from
you’re jealous and you can’t run from your feelings but by addressing your
your feelings but by addressing your
your feelings but by addressing your jealousy head-on you can keep it from
jealousy head-on you can keep it from
jealousy head-on you can keep it from taking on epic unrealistic proportions
taking on epic unrealistic proportions
taking on epic unrealistic proportions write down exactly what’s making you
write down exactly what’s making you
write down exactly what’s making you jealous and why let’s say you just found
jealous and why let’s say you just found
jealous and why let’s say you just found out that your two best friends didn’t
out that your two best friends didn’t
out that your two best friends didn’t invite you to that movie that they
invite you to that movie that they
invite you to that movie that they caught last week it it out my friends
caught last week it it out my friends
caught last week it it out my friends are hanging out without me I’m scared
are hanging out without me I’m scared
are hanging out without me I’m scared they’ll stop being my friend it’s okay
they’ll stop being my friend it’s okay
they’ll stop being my friend it’s okay to be a little dramatic it’s just your
to be a little dramatic it’s just your
to be a little dramatic it’s just your journal step to communicate now that all
journal step to communicate now that all
journal step to communicate now that all of your embarrassing thoughts are out on
of your embarrassing thoughts are out on
of your embarrassing thoughts are out on paper don’t get the real story don’t
paper don’t get the real story don’t
paper don’t get the real story don’t have an imaginary argument with your
have an imaginary argument with your
have an imaginary argument with your friends in your head it’s only gonna
friends in your head it’s only gonna
friends in your head it’s only gonna make things worse
make things worse
make things worse tell them how you feel about what
tell them how you feel about what
tell them how you feel about what happened be vulnerable and apologize to
happened be vulnerable and apologize to
happened be vulnerable and apologize to them if you overreacted in any way
them if you overreacted in any way
them if you overreacted in any way because you might have make it clear
because you might have make it clear
because you might have make it clear that you’re expressing your feelings and
that you’re expressing your feelings and
that you’re expressing your feelings and not stating facts speak in I statements
not stating facts speak in I statements
not stating facts speak in I statements I feel like you didn’t want to hang out
I feel like you didn’t want to hang out
I feel like you didn’t want to hang out with me because you’re tired of me
with me because you’re tired of me
with me because you’re tired of me that’s your insecurities at a certain
that’s your insecurities at a certain
that’s your insecurities at a certain point the only way to get over your
point the only way to get over your
point the only way to get over your jealousy is to stop thinking about
jealousy is to stop thinking about
jealousy is to stop thinking about yourself all the time and see someone
yourself all the time and see someone
yourself all the time and see someone else’s point of view step 3
else’s point of view step 3
else’s point of view step 3 resolve and this will be the hardest
resolve and this will be the hardest
resolve and this will be the hardest part for you because now you have to
part for you because now you have to
part for you because now you have to listen your friends might tell you that
listen your friends might tell you that
listen your friends might tell you that you’re overreacting and they might be
you’re overreacting and they might be
you’re overreacting and they might be right we know you don’t like horror
right we know you don’t like horror
right we know you don’t like horror movies so we didn’t think to invite you
movies so we didn’t think to invite you
movies so we didn’t think to invite you my solution
my solution
my solution LLC is to care less about what other
LLC is to care less about what other
LLC is to care less about what other people think I think if we’re looking at
people think I think if we’re looking at
people think I think if we’re looking at jealousy there’s two sides to it –
jealousy there’s two sides to it –
jealousy there’s two sides to it – there’s two sides to it the first side
there’s two sides to it the first side
there’s two sides to it the first side is people who are jealous of you and
is people who are jealous of you and
is people who are jealous of you and then the second set is people who you
then the second set is people who you
then the second set is people who you are jealous of and so for people who are
are jealous of and so for people who are
are jealous of and so for people who are jealous of you you’ll find that they’re
jealous of you you’ll find that they’re
jealous of you you’ll find that they’re often hated on you the telling you you
often hated on you the telling you you
often hated on you the telling you you can’t do things or criticizing your work
can’t do things or criticizing your work
can’t do things or criticizing your work or meanwhile they’re not doing anything
or meanwhile they’re not doing anything
or meanwhile they’re not doing anything themselves like the critics in your life
themselves like the critics in your life
themselves like the critics in your life typically have never done what you’re
typically have never done what you’re
typically have never done what you’re trying to do and so their advice is
trying to do and so their advice is
trying to do and so their advice is meaningless to you and I recognize that
meaningless to you and I recognize that
meaningless to you and I recognize that if somebody’s jealous of me that’s their
if somebody’s jealous of me that’s their
if somebody’s jealous of me that’s their own shortcomings I don’t need to let
own shortcomings I don’t need to let
own shortcomings I don’t need to let that impact what I’m going through you
that impact what I’m going through you
that impact what I’m going through you get to choose how you deal with
get to choose how you deal with
get to choose how you deal with somebody’s jealousy or reactions to you
somebody’s jealousy or reactions to you
somebody’s jealousy or reactions to you and my choice is to not care to let it
and my choice is to not care to let it
and my choice is to not care to let it bounce if I fight with them on something
bounce if I fight with them on something
bounce if I fight with them on something what’s the point like what do I get from
what’s the point like what do I get from
what’s the point like what do I get from that besides more negativity and more
that besides more negativity and more
that besides more negativity and more hatred and more just kind of downward
hatred and more just kind of downward
hatred and more just kind of downward spiral and so I don’t really care what
spiral and so I don’t really care what
spiral and so I don’t really care what people think of me so that’s their issue
people think of me so that’s their issue
people think of me so that’s their issue and they need to deal with it don’t
and they need to deal with it don’t
and they need to deal with it don’t bring me down into your crap I’m not
bring me down into your crap I’m not
bring me down into your crap I’m not getting down into the mud with you and
getting down into the mud with you and
getting down into the mud with you and the way that I don’t care about these
the way that I don’t care about these
the way that I don’t care about these people and their opinions again is
people and their opinions again is
people and their opinions again is thinking about have they done what I’m
thinking about have they done what I’m
thinking about have they done what I’m trying to do are they in any kind of
trying to do are they in any kind of
trying to do are they in any kind of position to give me advice on this and
position to give me advice on this and
position to give me advice on this and usually it’s lower even close the people
usually it’s lower even close the people
usually it’s lower even close the people who are hating on your idea have lower
who are hating on your idea have lower
who are hating on your idea have lower standards in life than you do
standards in life than you do
standards in life than you do so why are you listening to them the
so why are you listening to them the
so why are you listening to them the second kind of people would be people
second kind of people would be people
second kind of people would be people that you might be jealous of people who
that you might be jealous of people who
that you might be jealous of people who have accomplished something that you
have accomplished something that you
have accomplished something that you want to accomplish or have a skill that
want to accomplish or have a skill that
want to accomplish or have a skill that you want to be able to learn and for me
you want to be able to learn and for me
you want to be able to learn and for me I’m not jealous of anybody I admire
I’m not jealous of anybody I admire
I’m not jealous of anybody I admire people I look up to people I think it’s
people I look up to people I think it’s
people I look up to people I think it’s because it’s not just about achieving
because it’s not just about achieving
because it’s not just about achieving the goal it’s not just about achieving
the goal it’s not just about achieving
the goal it’s not just about achieving the million subscribers or ten million
the million subscribers or ten million
the million subscribers or ten million subscribers or whatever it is it’s not
subscribers or whatever it is it’s not
subscribers or whatever it is it’s not just about achieving that revenue target
just about achieving that revenue target
just about achieving that revenue target that you guys have or whatever your big
that you guys have or whatever your big
that you guys have or whatever your big goal is like somebody’s gone out and
goal is like somebody’s gone out and
goal is like somebody’s gone out and done it and you haven’t so you’re
done it and you haven’t so you’re
done it and you haven’t so you’re jealous of them or somebody has that car
jealous of them or somebody has that car
jealous of them or somebody has that car and you don’t see you’re jealous of them
and you don’t see you’re jealous of them
and you don’t see you’re jealous of them it’s not about achieving that goal for
it’s not about achieving that goal for
it’s not about achieving that goal for me I think what helps for me it’s about
me I think what helps for me it’s about
me I think what helps for me it’s about the client it’s about the process I look
the client it’s about the process I look
the client it’s about the process I look up to a Les Brown in the public speaking
up to a Les Brown in the public speaking
up to a Les Brown in the public speaking field I think he’s one of the
field I think he’s one of the
field I think he’s one of the best of the best especially young Les
best of the best especially young Les
best of the best especially young Les Brown and I admired that and I want to
Brown and I admired that and I want to
Brown and I admired that and I want to learn to get better I don’t want to be
learn to get better I don’t want to be
learn to get better I don’t want to be Les Brown need to be the best version of
Les Brown need to be the best version of
Les Brown need to be the best version of me but I like the climb I like working
me but I like the climb I like working
me but I like the climb I like working on how do I get better and better and
on how do I get better and better and
on how do I get better and better and better and better and better and not
better and better and better and not
better and better and better and not just being jealous about reaching the
just being jealous about reaching the
just being jealous about reaching the objective because I want to do the work
objective because I want to do the work
objective because I want to do the work like I’d like the work and so there’s
like I’d like the work and so there’s
like I’d like the work and so there’s nothing that anybody has that I am
nothing that anybody has that I am
nothing that anybody has that I am jealous of and so that jealousy doesn’t
jealous of and so that jealousy doesn’t
jealous of and so that jealousy doesn’t really play into my life I think it
really play into my life I think it
really play into my life I think it really again comes back to and join the
really again comes back to and join the
really again comes back to and join the process of getting better enjoying the
process of getting better enjoying the
process of getting better enjoying the growth and if you can focus on that and
growth and if you can focus on that and
growth and if you can focus on that and not so much the outcome then you’re not
not so much the outcome then you’re not
not so much the outcome then you’re not gonna really be jealous so I think
gonna really be jealous so I think
gonna really be jealous so I think depending on what kind of jealousy or
depending on what kind of jealousy or
depending on what kind of jealousy or dealing with other people being jealous
dealing with other people being jealous
dealing with other people being jealous of you or you being jealous of other
of you or you being jealous of other
of you or you being jealous of other people hopefully you’ve got some
people hopefully you’ve got some
people hopefully you’ve got some solutions today that can help you be
solutions today that can help you be
solutions today that can help you be less jealous and focus on the important
less jealous and focus on the important
less jealous and focus on the important things in life
so thank you guys so much for watching I
so thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because P dog be asked
made this video because P dog be asked
made this video because P dog be asked me to so there’s a topic you’d like me
me to so there’s a topic you’d like me
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to know what did you think about this
to know what did you think about this video what lesson that you learn from
video what lesson that you learn from
video what lesson that you learn from these videos that you can apply to your
these videos that you can apply to your
these videos that you can apply to your life or to your business I’d love to
life or to your business I’d love to
life or to your business I’d love to hear from you and this is a strategy you
hear from you and this is a strategy you
hear from you and this is a strategy you have on how to deal with jealousy that
have on how to deal with jealousy that
have on how to deal with jealousy that maybe we didn’t cover leave it down in
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help out believe nation do a public good
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I’d love to hear from you finally I want
I’d love to hear from you finally I want to give a quick shout out to mini C
to give a quick shout out to mini C
to give a quick shout out to mini C Reilly mini thank you so much for
Reilly mini thank you so much for
Reilly mini thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one
picking up a copy of my book your one
picking up a copy of my book your one word as well as Amy’s vlog like a boss I
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love it make sure to read mine first I love Amy but you got to read mine
I love Amy but you got to read mine
I love Amy but you got to read mine first thank you for the love thank you
first thank you for the love thank you
first thank you for the love thank you for the support so thank you guys so
for the support so thank you guys so
for the support so thank you guys so much for watching I believe in you I
much for watching I believe in you I
much for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself
hope you continue to believe in yourself
hope you continue to believe in yourself and whatever you’re one where it is much
and whatever you’re one where it is much
and whatever you’re one where it is much love have an amazing day and I’ll see
love have an amazing day and I’ll see
love have an amazing day and I’ll see you soon
always remember to serve others on your
always remember to serve others on your way up you know be humble and grateful
way up you know be humble and grateful
way up you know be humble and grateful for what you have but don’t forget to
for what you have but don’t forget to
for what you have but don’t forget to also be social with that a lot of
also be social with that a lot of
also be social with that a lot of jealousy or the negativity that comes at
jealousy or the negativity that comes at
jealousy or the negativity that comes at us is because people think that we’re
us is because people think that we’re
us is because people think that we’re narcissistic we’re in it for ourselves
narcissistic we’re in it for ourselves
narcissistic we’re in it for ourselves that we don’t care about anybody else or
that we don’t care about anybody else or
that we don’t care about anybody else or they’re jealous and the real
they’re jealous and the real
they’re jealous and the real insecurities that will leave them that
insecurities that will leave them that
insecurities that will leave them that they’ll get left behind so they say
they’ll get left behind so they say
they’ll get left behind so they say these you know weird comments but what
these you know weird comments but what
these you know weird comments but what they’re really saying is please don’t
they’re really saying is please don’t
they’re really saying is please don’t leave what they’re really saying is you
leave what they’re really saying is you
leave what they’re really saying is you know don’t become somebody who’s all
know don’t become somebody who’s all
know don’t become somebody who’s all about the success or the money or the
about the success or the money or the
about the success or the money or the fame or the wealth or the accolades or
fame or the wealth or the accolades or
fame or the wealth or the accolades or the statues whatever it is right they
the statues whatever it is right they
the statues whatever it is right they want to know that you’re still human and
want to know that you’re still human and
want to know that you’re still human and the best way to demonstrate that and the
the best way to demonstrate that and the
the best way to demonstrate that and the most needed thing you need to do is you
most needed thing you need to do is you
most needed thing you need to do is you continue to succeed is reach out and
continue to succeed is reach out and
continue to succeed is reach out and help those others who are on the same
help those others who are on the same
help those others who are on the same path of life maybe just a few yards
path of life maybe just a few yards
path of life maybe just a few yards behind you help lift them up you know as
behind you help lift them up you know as
behind you help lift them up you know as Booker T Washington taught us there’s
Booker T Washington taught us there’s
Booker T Washington taught us there’s two ways to exert strength one is
two ways to exert strength one is
two ways to exert strength one is pushing down and the other is pulling up
pushing down and the other is pulling up
pushing down and the other is pulling up so pull some people up help people offer
so pull some people up help people offer
so pull some people up help people offer guiding hand give donate serve volunteer
guiding hand give donate serve volunteer
guiding hand give donate serve volunteer still be out among people serving and
still be out among people serving and
still be out among people serving and helping don’t become one of those you
helping don’t become one of those you
helping don’t become one of those you know people who becomes lost in the
know people who becomes lost in the
know people who becomes lost in the Hollywood Hills all by yourself just
Hollywood Hills all by yourself just
Hollywood Hills all by yourself just thinking about your own self staring at
thinking about your own self staring at
thinking about your own self staring at your belly button all day thinking how
your belly button all day thinking how
your belly button all day thinking how self-important you are be that person
self-important you are be that person
self-important you are be that person who’s still out there helping guiding
who’s still out there helping guiding
who’s still out there helping guiding serving supporting champion other people
serving supporting champion other people
serving supporting champion other people because you know what you can always
because you know what you can always
because you know what you can always hate people but it’s hard to hate
hate people but it’s hard to hate
hate people but it’s hard to hate somebody who’s a champion of others so
somebody who’s a champion of others so
somebody who’s a champion of others so you be the champion of others and soon
you be the champion of others and soon
you be the champion of others and soon those negative voices those jealous
those negative voices those jealous
those negative voices those jealous people they’ll deal with their own stuff
people they’ll deal with their own stuff
people they’ll deal with their own stuff and if they don’t ignore them if they
and if they don’t ignore them if they
and if they don’t ignore them if they don’t keep getting better if they don’t
don’t keep getting better if they don’t
don’t keep getting better if they don’t remember your dream if they don’t and
remember your dream if they don’t and
remember your dream if they don’t and they just need your love then be there
they just need your love then be there
they just need your love then be there for them but realize you must stay on
for them but realize you must stay on
for them but realize you must stay on your path regardless of jealousy
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