[Music] some said being the last speaker it’s
some said being the last speaker it’s
some said being the last speaker it’s either you are the best or you’re the
either you are the best or you’re the
either you are the best or you’re the worst I really don’t know how true is
worst I really don’t know how true is
worst I really don’t know how true is that by know one thing for sure if you
that by know one thing for sure if you
that by know one thing for sure if you want to change your life make sure you
want to change your life make sure you
want to change your life make sure you pay attention in the next 15 minutes the
pay attention in the next 15 minutes the
pay attention in the next 15 minutes the superpower 99% of us forget that we have
superpower 99% of us forget that we have
superpower 99% of us forget that we have if you have realized or if you have
if you have realized or if you have
if you have realized or if you have noticed or if you actually remember
noticed or if you actually remember
noticed or if you actually remember babies have the most amazing power they
babies have the most amazing power they
babies have the most amazing power they have the power to do anything that they
have the power to do anything that they
have the power to do anything that they want any time that they want with no
want any time that they want with no
want any time that they want with no fear they can jump into the pool they
fear they can jump into the pool they
fear they can jump into the pool they can they can even start running if up
can they can even start running if up
can they can even start running if up without knowing how to walk they can do
without knowing how to walk they can do
without knowing how to walk they can do anything that they want and that’s
anything that they want and that’s
anything that they want and that’s amazing isn’t it and we also always talk
amazing isn’t it and we also always talk
amazing isn’t it and we also always talk about how babies are fearless courageous
about how babies are fearless courageous
about how babies are fearless courageous brave they know nothing about fear and
brave they know nothing about fear and
brave they know nothing about fear and then the babies grew up and then the
then the babies grew up and then the
then the babies grew up and then the babies became us the baby became who we
babies became us the baby became who we
babies became us the baby became who we are today right now in this hall and
are today right now in this hall and
are today right now in this hall and over time that baby developed a model of
over time that baby developed a model of
over time that baby developed a model of thinking and a system of thinking of how
thinking and a system of thinking of how
thinking and a system of thinking of how things should be
things should be
things should be this model of thinking that’s running in
this model of thinking that’s running in
this model of thinking that’s running in our brain it’s how we make decisions how
our brain it’s how we make decisions how
our brain it’s how we make decisions how we perceive reality and how we make
we perceive reality and how we make
we perceive reality and how we make judgment right that’s what our brain is
judgment right that’s what our brain is
judgment right that’s what our brain is for and as time passes by as we grow up
for and as time passes by as we grow up
for and as time passes by as we grow up older and older we learn more things we
older and older we learn more things we
older and older we learn more things we start to learn about what’s right and
start to learn about what’s right and
start to learn about what’s right and what’s wrong we start to figure it out
what’s wrong we start to figure it out
what’s wrong we start to figure it out about life we start to figure our
about life we start to figure our
about life we start to figure our answers to a lot of things but
answers to a lot of things but
answers to a lot of things but unfortunately we became fearful
we were thought of how to live people
we were thought of how to live people teach us how to live the society to tell
teach us how to live the society to tell
teach us how to live the society to tell you how you should be the society tell
you how you should be the society tell
you how you should be the society tell you that you should go to unity and get
you that you should go to unity and get
you that you should go to unity and get a goddamn degree your parents tell you
a goddamn degree your parents tell you
a goddamn degree your parents tell you when you were born the next thing that
when you were born the next thing that
when you were born the next thing that you should do is go to school get a good
you should do is go to school get a good
you should do is go to school get a good grades go to a good university get good
grades go to a good university get good
grades go to a good university get good grades again and then leave University
grades again and then leave University
grades again and then leave University get a good job and then what else what
get a good job and then what else what
get a good job and then what else what else get married yes sort of get married
else get married yes sort of get married
else get married yes sort of get married get a kid and maybe for some of you your
get a kid and maybe for some of you your
get a kid and maybe for some of you your parents are hoping and wishing for you
parents are hoping and wishing for you
parents are hoping and wishing for you to give birth to a kid because they want
to give birth to a kid because they want
to give birth to a kid because they want a grandkid and maybe for some of you you
a grandkid and maybe for some of you you
a grandkid and maybe for some of you you want a grandkid too and that’s how we
want a grandkid too and that’s how we
want a grandkid too and that’s how we are thought but is that what life really
are thought but is that what life really
are thought but is that what life really is as life coach and as a coach I work
is as life coach and as a coach I work
is as life coach and as a coach I work with thousands I have worked with
with thousands I have worked with
with thousands I have worked with thousands of 40-plus years old corporate
thousands of 40-plus years old corporate
thousands of 40-plus years old corporate managers and executives to young fresh
managers and executives to young fresh
managers and executives to young fresh graduates and it surprises me how every
graduates and it surprises me how every
graduates and it surprises me how every single one of them come to me and tell
single one of them come to me and tell
single one of them come to me and tell me hey cafe you’re a coach you should be
me hey cafe you’re a coach you should be
me hey cafe you’re a coach you should be able to help me to figure out you should
able to help me to figure out you should
able to help me to figure out you should be able to help me to be happy you
be able to help me to be happy you
be able to help me to be happy you should be able to help me to be more
should be able to help me to be more
should be able to help me to be more successful you should be able to help me
successful you should be able to help me
successful you should be able to help me to be more fulfilled and interestingly
to be more fulfilled and interestingly
to be more fulfilled and interestingly we will not thought about how to achieve
we will not thought about how to achieve
we will not thought about how to achieve fulfillment when we were young isn’t
fulfillment when we were young isn’t
fulfillment when we were young isn’t that true and over time all these people
that true and over time all these people
that true and over time all these people that I work with all these clients that
that I work with all these clients that
that I work with all these clients that I work with fundamentally the main
I work with fundamentally the main
I work with fundamentally the main reason why they are not doing what
reason why they are not doing what
reason why they are not doing what they’re doing
they’re doing
they’re doing you know achieving the goals that they
you know achieving the goals that they
you know achieving the goals that they want to achieve is because of their old
want to achieve is because of their old
want to achieve is because of their old system of thinking they’re all model of
system of thinking they’re all model of
system of thinking they’re all model of thinking
I was very privileged I was mentored and
I was very privileged I was mentored and trained by Britain’s number one
trained by Britain’s number one
trained by Britain’s number one hypnotherapist Maurice appear and I have
hypnotherapist Maurice appear and I have
hypnotherapist Maurice appear and I have always had this issue with confrontation
always had this issue with confrontation
always had this issue with confrontation at work relationship generally in life I
at work relationship generally in life I
at work relationship generally in life I like peace
like peace
like peace I like harmony I don’t confront people
I like harmony I don’t confront people
I like harmony I don’t confront people as much and throughout my hypnotherapy
as much and throughout my hypnotherapy
as much and throughout my hypnotherapy with Maurice up here I figure out one
with Maurice up here I figure out one
with Maurice up here I figure out one thing the reason why I’m afraid to
thing the reason why I’m afraid to
thing the reason why I’m afraid to confront it is actually because when I
confront it is actually because when I
confront it is actually because when I was eight years old when I confronted my
was eight years old when I confronted my
was eight years old when I confronted my teacher back then I was humiliated I was
teacher back then I was humiliated I was
teacher back then I was humiliated I was embarrassed I was laughed by twenty nine
embarrassed I was laughed by twenty nine
embarrassed I was laughed by twenty nine people in the class just because I
people in the class just because I
people in the class just because I confronted my teacher who actually made
confronted my teacher who actually made
confronted my teacher who actually made a wrong mathematics calculation you
a wrong mathematics calculation you
a wrong mathematics calculation you might be wondering is that true is that
might be wondering is that true is that
might be wondering is that true is that possible is it real that whatever there
possible is it real that whatever there
possible is it real that whatever there has happened to us in the past ten to
has happened to us in the past ten to
has happened to us in the past ten to twenty years actually has an effect in
twenty years actually has an effect in
twenty years actually has an effect in you right now let me tell you the answer
you right now let me tell you the answer
you right now let me tell you the answer is yes humans are meaning making
is yes humans are meaning making
is yes humans are meaning making machines every single interaction every
machines every single interaction every
machines every single interaction every single things that we do every word that
single things that we do every word that
single things that we do every word that we say every word that we use has a
we say every word that we use has a
we say every word that we use has a meaning behind it and every experiences
meaning behind it and every experiences
meaning behind it and every experiences that we have gone through there’s
that we have gone through there’s
that we have gone through there’s meaning attached to those experiences
meaning attached to those experiences
meaning attached to those experiences and that’s what happened to me and
and that’s what happened to me and
and that’s what happened to me and exactly that’s exactly what I’m going to
exactly that’s exactly what I’m going to
exactly that’s exactly what I’m going to talk about today I’m going to talk about
talk about today I’m going to talk about
talk about today I’m going to talk about how you can be the 99% of the people who
how you can be the 99% of the people who
how you can be the 99% of the people who are actually aware of this super power
are actually aware of this super power
are actually aware of this super power that you have which I call your
that you have which I call your
that you have which I call your subconscious mind before I dive deeper I
subconscious mind before I dive deeper I
subconscious mind before I dive deeper I just want to tell a little story about
just want to tell a little story about
just want to tell a little story about my client so Tiffany is a great is
my client so Tiffany is a great is
my client so Tiffany is a great is a great work it’s a great worker in his
a great work it’s a great worker in his
a great work it’s a great worker in his in her workplace she’s been in the
in her workplace she’s been in the
in her workplace she’s been in the company for about two and a half to
company for about two and a half to
company for about two and a half to three years she’s leading a business
three years she’s leading a business
three years she’s leading a business development team for the past one year
development team for the past one year
development team for the past one year more or less right now people look up to
more or less right now people look up to
more or less right now people look up to her strong women driven ambitious she
her strong women driven ambitious she
her strong women driven ambitious she get things done pretty cool isn’t it at
get things done pretty cool isn’t it at
get things done pretty cool isn’t it at a young age 23 but one day she came to
a young age 23 but one day she came to
a young age 23 but one day she came to me she came to me and she told me cafe
me she came to me and she told me cafe
me she came to me and she told me cafe and needed help and I’m like okay tell
and needed help and I’m like okay tell
and needed help and I’m like okay tell me more Tiffany told me that she’s not
me more Tiffany told me that she’s not
me more Tiffany told me that she’s not being heard she told me that in her
being heard she told me that in her
being heard she told me that in her workplace she’s not being hurt by the
workplace she’s not being hurt by the
workplace she’s not being hurt by the leadership team it’s stopping her career
leadership team it’s stopping her career
leadership team it’s stopping her career growth is stopping her career
growth is stopping her career
growth is stopping her career progression and in life we want a
progression and in life we want a
progression and in life we want a progression that’s all we wanted and
progression that’s all we wanted and
progression that’s all we wanted and Tiffany is having that main problem
Tiffany is having that main problem
Tiffany is having that main problem she’s not being heard and after working
she’s not being heard and after working
she’s not being heard and after working with Tiffany for two months in any
with Tiffany for two months in any
with Tiffany for two months in any normal cases we’ll be working with
normal cases we’ll be working with
normal cases we’ll be working with what would the company do working with
what would the company do working with
what would the company do working with Tiffany they will send Tiffany to like a
Tiffany they will send Tiffany to like a
Tiffany they will send Tiffany to like a training communications training learn
training communications training learn
training communications training learn to communicate better and so on that
to communicate better and so on that
to communicate better and so on that will solve the problem unfortunate
will solve the problem unfortunate
will solve the problem unfortunate having spent two months working with
having spent two months working with
having spent two months working with Tiffany
Tiffany
Tiffany we aren’t if I was the main cause
we aren’t if I was the main cause
we aren’t if I was the main cause Tiffany was punished at the age of five
Tiffany was punished at the age of five
Tiffany was punished at the age of five when she’s tried to speak she was
when she’s tried to speak she was
when she’s tried to speak she was punished by her parents because she
punished by her parents because she
punished by her parents because she wanted to say something and that became
wanted to say something and that became
wanted to say something and that became a subconscious memory that stops her
a subconscious memory that stops her
a subconscious memory that stops her from speaking up right now don’t get me
from speaking up right now don’t get me
from speaking up right now don’t get me wrong
wrong
wrong brain has his purpose okay and at the
brain has his purpose okay and at the
brain has his purpose okay and at the end of the two months
end of the two months
end of the two months Tiffany texted me and say this cafe I
Tiffany texted me and say this cafe I
Tiffany texted me and say this cafe I have not stopped stuttering completely
have not stopped stuttering completely
have not stopped stuttering completely but I realized I’m able to control it
but I realized I’m able to control it
but I realized I’m able to control it much better now and most importantly I
much better now and most importantly I
much better now and most importantly I can feel I’m being heard I feel I have
can feel I’m being heard I feel I have
can feel I’m being heard I feel I have regained my voice back and it’s
regained my voice back and it’s
regained my voice back and it’s extremely empowering yes you read it
extremely empowering yes you read it
extremely empowering yes you read it right Tiffany develops stuttering as a
right Tiffany develops stuttering as a
right Tiffany develops stuttering as a form or as a way to avoid being punished
form or as a way to avoid being punished
form or as a way to avoid being punished by her parents for speaking up
our brains are meant to help us to
our brains are meant to help us to survive that’s the reason why we have
survive that’s the reason why we have
survive that’s the reason why we have neurons that’s the reason why when
neurons that’s the reason why when
neurons that’s the reason why when you’re in a dangerous driving condition
you’re in a dangerous driving condition
you’re in a dangerous driving condition you know the right time to swerve or you
you know the right time to swerve or you
you know the right time to swerve or you know the right time to hit on the brake
know the right time to hit on the brake
know the right time to hit on the brake you have all experience that all of us
you have all experience that all of us
you have all experience that all of us we have if you have a driving license or
we have if you have a driving license or
we have if you have a driving license or it’s also the brain that teaches us that
it’s also the brain that teaches us that
it’s also the brain that teaches us that the moment you see a bear right in front
the moment you see a bear right in front
the moment you see a bear right in front of you there’s only one thing to do face
of you there’s only one thing to do face
of you there’s only one thing to do face the other way and run your brain is not
the other way and run your brain is not
the other way and run your brain is not going to tell you otherwise you’re not
going to tell you otherwise you’re not
going to tell you otherwise you’re not going to stand there and think okay
going to stand there and think okay
going to stand there and think okay what’s my option no your subconscious
what’s my option no your subconscious
what’s my option no your subconscious mind tells you that’s what you’re
mind tells you that’s what you’re
mind tells you that’s what you’re supposed to do and that’s what your
supposed to do and that’s what your
supposed to do and that’s what your brain does to you it’s to help you to
brain does to you it’s to help you to
brain does to you it’s to help you to survive except for the fact that the
survive except for the fact that the
survive except for the fact that the brain does not understand time if you
brain does not understand time if you
brain does not understand time if you know time is created by human it’s not
know time is created by human it’s not
know time is created by human it’s not natural and basically that means it’s
natural and basically that means it’s
natural and basically that means it’s not natural for your brain the brain
not natural for your brain the brain
not natural for your brain the brain doesn’t understand that you have grown
doesn’t understand that you have grown
doesn’t understand that you have grown up you have learned new skills you have
up you have learned new skills you have
up you have learned new skills you have learned new experiences that help you to
learned new experiences that help you to
learned new experiences that help you to cope with life or to copy any
cope with life or to copy any
cope with life or to copy any circumstances the brain does I
circumstances the brain does I
circumstances the brain does I understand that Tiffany is a grown up
understand that Tiffany is a grown up
understand that Tiffany is a grown up right now
right now
right now the brain does understand that tiffany
the brain does understand that tiffany
the brain does understand that tiffany has learned new skills to protect
has learned new skills to protect
has learned new skills to protect yourself from being punished right so
yourself from being punished right so
yourself from being punished right so think about it with this story might
think about it with this story might
think about it with this story might think about it why do we procrastinate
think about it why do we procrastinate
think about it why do we procrastinate is it because the task that we have is
is it because the task that we have is
is it because the task that we have is really really hard or is it simply
really really hard or is it simply
really really hard or is it simply because you are afraid of something
think about why are we not waking up
think about why are we not waking up early we know waking up early is good
early we know waking up early is good
early we know waking up early is good for us we know successful people wakes
for us we know successful people wakes
for us we know successful people wakes up early right what stopped us from
up early right what stopped us from
up early right what stopped us from eating healthier exercising what are you
eating healthier exercising what are you
eating healthier exercising what are you why are you resistant to speaking up is
why are you resistant to speaking up is
why are you resistant to speaking up is it because you associate to people who
it because you associate to people who
it because you associate to people who speak up as a snob is it because you
speak up as a snob is it because you
speak up as a snob is it because you associate people who speak up as showing
associate people who speak up as showing
associate people who speak up as showing off I can guarantee for sure 50% of you
off I can guarantee for sure 50% of you
off I can guarantee for sure 50% of you in this room would think that people who
in this room would think that people who
in this room would think that people who speak up are people who are loud people
speak up are people who are loud people
speak up are people who are loud people who just talk a lot doesn’t do a lot
who just talk a lot doesn’t do a lot
who just talk a lot doesn’t do a lot people who speak are people who just
people who speak are people who just
people who speak are people who just want to bleed n doesn’t get things done
want to bleed n doesn’t get things done
want to bleed n doesn’t get things done I’m pretty sure they’re 50% of you in
I’m pretty sure they’re 50% of you in
I’m pretty sure they’re 50% of you in this room feeling that way
this room feeling that way
this room feeling that way what is it stopping you from leading
what is it stopping you from leading
what is it stopping you from leading your team what’s the fear that you have
your team what’s the fear that you have
your team what’s the fear that you have and why are you afraid of taking that
and why are you afraid of taking that
and why are you afraid of taking that risk what’s stopping you what’s the fear
risk what’s stopping you what’s the fear
risk what’s stopping you what’s the fear behind that risk let me introduce you to
behind that risk let me introduce you to
behind that risk let me introduce you to Adam Adam is another client of mine he’s
Adam Adam is another client of mine he’s
Adam Adam is another client of mine he’s a successful entrepreneur based in
a successful entrepreneur based in
a successful entrepreneur based in Singapore
Singapore
Singapore he’s a start-up entrepreneur based in
he’s a start-up entrepreneur based in
he’s a start-up entrepreneur based in Singapore he’s been doing his startup
Singapore he’s been doing his startup
Singapore he’s been doing his startup for about two years and he came to me
for about two years and he came to me
for about two years and he came to me one day not telling me ok cafe I have a
one day not telling me ok cafe I have a
one day not telling me ok cafe I have a little bit of an issue in my team I
little bit of an issue in my team I
little bit of an issue in my team I realized I cannot control my emotion
realized I cannot control my emotion
realized I cannot control my emotion well and I have a bit of an anger
well and I have a bit of an anger
well and I have a bit of an anger management issue so in the next three to
management issue so in the next three to
management issue so in the next three to six months I work with Adam on this I’m
six months I work with Adam on this I’m
six months I work with Adam on this I’m not a trainer I don’t train I don’t
not a trainer I don’t train I don’t
not a trainer I don’t train I don’t teach Adam how to successfully manage in
teach Adam how to successfully manage in
teach Adam how to successfully manage in motion but what I do is these three
motion but what I do is these three
motion but what I do is these three steps and these three steps is what’s
steps and these three steps is what’s
steps and these three steps is what’s gonna make you a superhero when you
gonna make you a superhero when you
gonna make you a superhero when you leave this room today first one I help
leave this room today first one I help
leave this room today first one I help Adam to redesign his environment every
Adam to redesign his environment every
Adam to redesign his environment every single thing that we do in our lives is
single thing that we do in our lives is
single thing that we do in our lives is triggered by a cue the moment you wake
triggered by a cue the moment you wake
triggered by a cue the moment you wake up was that trigger that makes you wake
up was that trigger that makes you wake
up was that trigger that makes you wake up do you thing is the alarm no it’s the
up do you thing is the alarm no it’s the
up do you thing is the alarm no it’s the fact that you start scrolling your phone
fact that you start scrolling your phone
fact that you start scrolling your phone on Facebook before you wake up that is a
on Facebook before you wake up that is a
on Facebook before you wake up that is a cue if you want to wake up early put
cue if you want to wake up early put
cue if you want to wake up early put your phone far away from your from your
your phone far away from your from your
your phone far away from your from your from your bed if you want to better
from your bed if you want to better
from your bed if you want to better remove clutter from the desk you want to
remove clutter from the desk you want to
remove clutter from the desk you want to eat healthy store up healthy food on
eat healthy store up healthy food on
eat healthy store up healthy food on your desk on the nearest place next to
your desk on the nearest place next to
your desk on the nearest place next to you put all those unhealthy junk and
you put all those unhealthy junk and
you put all those unhealthy junk and snacks into a box tied up give it to a
snacks into a box tied up give it to a
snacks into a box tied up give it to a friend
because you know for you to do to get
because you know for you to do to get some jobs and snacks you will have to go
some jobs and snacks you will have to go
some jobs and snacks you will have to go and get it from your friend change your
and get it from your friend change your
and get it from your friend change your environment redesign your environment if
environment redesign your environment if
environment redesign your environment if you want to be successful if you want to
you want to be successful if you want to
you want to be successful if you want to achieve your goals in your life this is
achieve your goals in your life this is
achieve your goals in your life this is what I help Adam with I have him to
what I help Adam with I have him to
what I help Adam with I have him to change the way you run his meetings the
change the way you run his meetings the
change the way you run his meetings the way he talked to his team man is largely
way he talked to his team man is largely
way he talked to his team man is largely a creature of habit and many of these
a creature of habit and many of these
a creature of habit and many of these activities are more or less automatic
activities are more or less automatic
activities are more or less automatic reflexes from the stimulus environment
reflexes from the stimulus environment
reflexes from the stimulus environment this quote summarizes all of us rewire
this quote summarizes all of us rewire
this quote summarizes all of us rewire your brain step number two this is an
your brain step number two this is an
your brain step number two this is an example of how one neurons in our mind
example of how one neurons in our mind
example of how one neurons in our mind in our brain in our body works and my
in our brain in our body works and my
in our brain in our body works and my new we have more than 100 billion
new we have more than 100 billion
new we have more than 100 billion neurons in our brain and you just keep
neurons in our brain and you just keep
neurons in our brain and you just keep on growing since I’m not a I’m not a I’m
on growing since I’m not a I’m not a I’m
on growing since I’m not a I’m not a I’m not a neurosurgeon I can’t go in help
not a neurosurgeon I can’t go in help
not a neurosurgeon I can’t go in help people to change the neurons what we can
people to change the neurons what we can
people to change the neurons what we can do is that you can change your neuron so
do is that you can change your neuron so
do is that you can change your neuron so you can rewire your neutrons how clarity
you can rewire your neutrons how clarity
you can rewire your neutrons how clarity is king action is power challenge
is king action is power challenge
is king action is power challenge assumptions challenge systems why are
assumptions challenge systems why are
assumptions challenge systems why are certain things being done in a certain
certain things being done in a certain
certain things being done in a certain way challenge it ask question asks why
way challenge it ask question asks why
way challenge it ask question asks why ask questions like what can we do
ask questions like what can we do
ask questions like what can we do differently how can we be different how
differently how can we be different how
differently how can we be different how can we do it differently once you get
can we do it differently once you get
can we do it differently once you get that kind of clarity you can do a lot
that kind of clarity you can do a lot
that kind of clarity you can do a lot more you can be more you can take more
more you can be more you can take more
more you can be more you can take more actions towards your goal I love this
actions towards your goal I love this
actions towards your goal I love this quote you never change things by
quote you never change things by
quote you never change things by fighting the existing reality to change
fighting the existing reality to change
fighting the existing reality to change something build a new model that makes
something build a new model that makes
something build a new model that makes the existing reality obsolete that’s the
the existing reality obsolete that’s the
the existing reality obsolete that’s the only way forward see the education
only way forward see the education
only way forward see the education system don’t talk about it go and do
system don’t talk about it go and do
system don’t talk about it go and do something about it create a new
something about it create a new
something about it create a new education system that were enhance
education system that were enhance
education system that were enhance education last but not least remember
education last but not least remember
education last but not least remember behavior this is one of the most
behavior this is one of the most
behavior this is one of the most important one what I call this is
important one what I call this is
important one what I call this is basically associate your behavior to
basically associate your behavior to
basically associate your behavior to positive reinforcement it’s very simple
positive reinforcement it’s very simple
positive reinforcement it’s very simple things that we learn we just need to do
things that we learn we just need to do
things that we learn we just need to do it basically you need to practice and we
it basically you need to practice and we
it basically you need to practice and we need to get feedback right what’s
need to get feedback right what’s
need to get feedback right what’s important here is this part it’s the
important here is this part it’s the
important here is this part it’s the feedback part a lot of us have talked
feedback part a lot of us have talked
feedback part a lot of us have talked about failing fast is good failure is
about failing fast is good failure is
about failing fast is good failure is good
good
good but let me tell you the word failure is
but let me tell you the word failure is
but let me tell you the word failure is not good for your brain the word failure
not good for your brain the word failure
not good for your brain the word failure is not good for your brain why the word
is not good for your brain why the word
is not good for your brain why the word failure is basically like a black dot on
failure is basically like a black dot on
failure is basically like a black dot on a piece of paper what it does to your
a piece of paper what it does to your
a piece of paper what it does to your subconscious mind and what it does to
subconscious mind and what it does to
subconscious mind and what it does to your brain is that the brain will tell
your brain is that the brain will tell
your brain is that the brain will tell you that this is a dark spot that every
you that this is a dark spot that every
you that this is a dark spot that every time you associate something with
time you associate something with
time you associate something with failure your brain will trigger the new
failure your brain will trigger the new
failure your brain will trigger the new ones will trigger what would he do it
ones will trigger what would he do it
ones will trigger what would he do it will stop you from taking risk it will
will stop you from taking risk it will
will stop you from taking risk it will stop you from taking action think about
stop you from taking action think about
stop you from taking action think about it the last time when you are supposed
it the last time when you are supposed
it the last time when you are supposed to speak in front of public
to speak in front of public
to speak in front of public you have sweaty palms you are sweating
you have sweaty palms you are sweating
you have sweaty palms you are sweating you have butterflying in your stomach
you have butterflying in your stomach
you have butterflying in your stomach that is the form and that’s the way your
that is the form and that’s the way your
that is the form and that’s the way your brain is telling you don’t go up to
brain is telling you don’t go up to
brain is telling you don’t go up to speak because you will be embarrassed
speak because you will be embarrassed
speak because you will be embarrassed don’t go up to speak because people will
don’t go up to speak because people will
don’t go up to speak because people will be laughing and you don’t go up to speak
be laughing and you don’t go up to speak
be laughing and you don’t go up to speak because people will be judging you but
because people will be judging you but
because people will be judging you but that’s not the case
that’s not the case
that’s not the case failure plant a black dot in your
failure plant a black dot in your
failure plant a black dot in your subconscious mind so don’t use the word
subconscious mind so don’t use the word
subconscious mind so don’t use the word failure use the word learning every
failure use the word learning every
failure use the word learning every single time you learn something new ask
single time you learn something new ask
single time you learn something new ask yourself what have I learned today what
yourself what have I learned today what
yourself what have I learned today what is this one thing that I’ve learned my
is this one thing that I’ve learned my
is this one thing that I’ve learned my about myself was this one thing that
about myself was this one thing that
about myself was this one thing that I’ve learned about the topic that were
I’ve learned about the topic that were
I’ve learned about the topic that were encourages your brain to fire new
encourages your brain to fire new
encourages your brain to fire new neurons they are able to learn new
neurons they are able to learn new
neurons they are able to learn new things and when you have in the same
things and when you have in the same
things and when you have in the same situation and circumstances your brain
situation and circumstances your brain
situation and circumstances your brain will be safe because your brain will be
will be safe because your brain will be
will be safe because your brain will be telling you oh it’s okay the last time
telling you oh it’s okay the last time
telling you oh it’s okay the last time I’m doing this public speaking I’ve done
I’m doing this public speaking I’ve done
I’m doing this public speaking I’ve done it before all the new things it’s okay
it before all the new things it’s okay
it before all the new things it’s okay it’s safe right so that’s how the brain
it’s safe right so that’s how the brain
it’s safe right so that’s how the brain can help you to work Thomas Edison said
can help you to work Thomas Edison said
can help you to work Thomas Edison said and I’ve not failed I’ve just found
and I’ve not failed I’ve just found
and I’ve not failed I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work he found
10,000 ways that won’t work he found
10,000 ways that won’t work he found 10,000 new learnings probably in his ten
10,000 new learnings probably in his ten
10,000 new learnings probably in his ten thousand and first attempt that’s where
thousand and first attempt that’s where
thousand and first attempt that’s where he gets his lightbulb
he gets his lightbulb
he gets his lightbulb so to summarize my talk these three
so to summarize my talk these three
so to summarize my talk these three things are the key things that you have
things are the key things that you have
things are the key things that you have to remember number one redesign your
to remember number one redesign your
to remember number one redesign your environment let me tell you one thing we
environment let me tell you one thing we
environment let me tell you one thing we are creatures of our environment
are creatures of our environment
are creatures of our environment willpower is not a strategy remember if
willpower is not a strategy remember if
willpower is not a strategy remember if you are always telling yourself you
you are always telling yourself you
you are always telling yourself you don’t have motivation
don’t have motivation
don’t have motivation you’d have the real power to achieve
you’d have the real power to achieve
you’d have the real power to achieve your goal it’s not true real power is
your goal it’s not true real power is
your goal it’s not true real power is not a strategy
not a strategy
not a strategy it’s your environment rewire your brain
it’s your environment rewire your brain
it’s your environment rewire your brain get clarity having clarity helps you to
get clarity having clarity helps you to
get clarity having clarity helps you to take action last but not least remember
take action last but not least remember
take action last but not least remember your behavior there’s no failure
your behavior there’s no failure
your behavior there’s no failure there’s only learning I just want to end
there’s only learning I just want to end
there’s only learning I just want to end my talk with this this is a superpower
my talk with this this is a superpower
my talk with this this is a superpower 99% of us forget that we have and now
99% of us forget that we have and now
99% of us forget that we have and now all of you are aware that you have this
all of you are aware that you have this
all of you are aware that you have this what if all of us today leaving this
what if all of us today leaving this
what if all of us today leaving this room starts to live your life by design
room starts to live your life by design
room starts to live your life by design and not by default don’t allow your
and not by default don’t allow your
and not by default don’t allow your environment don’t allow culture don’t
environment don’t allow culture don’t
environment don’t allow culture don’t allow allow people around you to define
allow allow people around you to define
allow allow people around you to define and design your way of living in your
and design your way of living in your
and design your way of living in your definition of success now that you’re
definition of success now that you’re
definition of success now that you’re aware of all these things live your life
aware of all these things live your life
aware of all these things live your life by design not by default thank you
by design not by default thank you
by design not by default thank you [Applause]
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