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How I convince people that I’m funny (even though I’m actually not) | EB McCready | TEDxOU


[Applause]

[Applause] hi there good morning everyone as Clark

hi there good morning everyone as Clark

hi there good morning everyone as Clark so kindly just introduce me my name is

so kindly just introduce me my name is

so kindly just introduce me my name is Eva McGrady and today I’m here to talk

Eva McGrady and today I’m here to talk

Eva McGrady and today I’m here to talk to you about how I convince people that

to you about how I convince people that

to you about how I convince people that I’m funny even though I’m actually not

I’m funny even though I’m actually not

I’m funny even though I’m actually not and to demonstrate I’m going to tell you

and to demonstrate I’m going to tell you

and to demonstrate I’m going to tell you one of my favorite jokes so why were the

one of my favorite jokes so why were the

one of my favorite jokes so why were the police suspicious of the blinds because

police suspicious of the blinds because

police suspicious of the blinds because they were shady so as you can tell by

they were shady so as you can tell by

they were shady so as you can tell by some of the shaking heads that I’m

some of the shaking heads that I’m

some of the shaking heads that I’m seeing like the joke wasn’t funny let’s

seeing like the joke wasn’t funny let’s

seeing like the joke wasn’t funny let’s be honest with ourselves so why are most

be honest with ourselves so why are most

be honest with ourselves so why are most of you still smiling and a couple of you

of you still smiling and a couple of you

of you still smiling and a couple of you gave me a nice laugh well my guess is

gave me a nice laugh well my guess is

gave me a nice laugh well my guess is that it was one of two reasons either

that it was one of two reasons either

that it was one of two reasons either you a pity me which is completely valid

you a pity me which is completely valid

you a pity me which is completely valid I’m alone on stage telling you bad jokes

I’m alone on stage telling you bad jokes

I’m alone on stage telling you bad jokes I would pity me too if I were you or be

I would pity me too if I were you or be

I would pity me too if I were you or be you smiled because I’m smiling and well

you smiled because I’m smiling and well

you smiled because I’m smiling and well pity does have a power all on its own it

pity does have a power all on its own it

pity does have a power all on its own it doesn’t do much to make me seem funny so

doesn’t do much to make me seem funny so

doesn’t do much to make me seem funny so we’re going to focus today on the power

we’re going to focus today on the power

we’re going to focus today on the power of smiling continuing is the theme of

of smiling continuing is the theme of

of smiling continuing is the theme of twos there are two possible reasons that

twos there are two possible reasons that

twos there are two possible reasons that my smile might have made you smile the

my smile might have made you smile the

my smile might have made you smile the first is that you find me attractive

first is that you find me attractive

first is that you find me attractive according to a study conducted by a

according to a study conducted by a

according to a study conducted by a group of Swedish researchers in 2011

group of Swedish researchers in 2011

group of Swedish researchers in 2011 both men and women found people smiling

both men and women found people smiling

both men and women found people smiling more attractive than those who weren’t

more attractive than those who weren’t

more attractive than those who weren’t and an additional study conducted in the

and an additional study conducted in the

and an additional study conducted in the same year found that attractive people

same year found that attractive people

same year found that attractive people are more often associated with positive

are more often associated with positive

are more often associated with positive characteristics of confidence and

characteristics of confidence and

characteristics of confidence and intelligence however just thinking these

intelligence however just thinking these

intelligence however just thinking these things about me doesn’t make you smile

things about me doesn’t make you smile

things about me doesn’t make you smile what makes you smile is that when an

what makes you smile is that when an

what makes you smile is that when an attractive person smiles at you

attractive person smiles at you

attractive person smiles at you it activates the orbital frontal cortex

it activates the orbital frontal cortex

it activates the orbital frontal cortex which is wrong responsible for

which is wrong responsible for

which is wrong responsible for processing sensory rewards this means

processing sensory rewards this means

processing sensory rewards this means that when an attractive person smiles at

that when an attractive person smiles at

that when an attractive person smiles at you you actually feel rewarded which is

you you actually feel rewarded which is

you you actually feel rewarded which is what is causing you to smile back so if

what is causing you to smile back so if

what is causing you to smile back so if this first case applies to you thank you

this first case applies to you thank you

this first case applies to you thank you and you’re welcome but like I said there

and you’re welcome but like I said there

and you’re welcome but like I said there are two possible reasons that my smile

are two possible reasons that my smile

are two possible reasons that my smile made you smile so before I get too big

made you smile so before I get too big

made you smile so before I get too big of a head we should start looking into

of a head we should start looking into

of a head we should start looking into the second one and we’re going to do a

the second one and we’re going to do a

the second one and we’re going to do a quick test to determine exactly what

quick test to determine exactly what

quick test to determine exactly what that is I’m going to show you a series

that is I’m going to show you a series

that is I’m going to show you a series of

of

of images all you need to do when you see

images all you need to do when you see

images all you need to do when you see the picture on the screen is make an

the picture on the screen is make an

the picture on the screen is make an angry face so this first one we’re just

angry face so this first one we’re just

angry face so this first one we’re just going to test it out relax your face and

going to test it out relax your face and

going to test it out relax your face and the first picture in three two one

the first picture in three two one

the first picture in three two one lovely you all look lovely a little

lovely you all look lovely a little

lovely you all look lovely a little ridiculous but that’s because angry

ridiculous but that’s because angry

ridiculous but that’s because angry faces especially when forced tend to

faces especially when forced tend to

faces especially when forced tend to look a bit ridiculous but we’re going to

look a bit ridiculous but we’re going to

look a bit ridiculous but we’re going to try again to relax and three two one

try again to relax and three two one

try again to relax and three two one again you’re doing great we’re going to

again you’re doing great we’re going to

again you’re doing great we’re going to have one more relax your face and three

have one more relax your face and three

have one more relax your face and three two one mmm

two one mmm

two one mmm see you can tell by the laughter and

see you can tell by the laughter and

see you can tell by the laughter and looking at many of your faces that this

looking at many of your faces that this

looking at many of your faces that this last one was a bit more difficult for

last one was a bit more difficult for

last one was a bit more difficult for you and my guess is that it was for the

you and my guess is that it was for the

you and my guess is that it was for the same reason that the first smile came

same reason that the first smile came

same reason that the first smile came naturally you just couldn’t help it

naturally you just couldn’t help it

naturally you just couldn’t help it you’ve probably heard that smiling is

you’ve probably heard that smiling is

you’ve probably heard that smiling is contagious and that’s exactly what a

contagious and that’s exactly what a

contagious and that’s exactly what a group of researchers found using a test

group of researchers found using a test

group of researchers found using a test very similar to this one another group

very similar to this one another group

very similar to this one another group of researchers expanded on their

of researchers expanded on their

of researchers expanded on their findings more recently in 2016 and they

findings more recently in 2016 and they

findings more recently in 2016 and they found that the part of the brain

found that the part of the brain

found that the part of the brain responsible for processing facial

responsible for processing facial

responsible for processing facial recognition is the cingulate cortex

recognition is the cingulate cortex

recognition is the cingulate cortex which is an unconscious and automatic

which is an unconscious and automatic

which is an unconscious and automatic response area of the brain so it uses a

response area of the brain so it uses a

response area of the brain so it uses a process called sensory motor simulation

process called sensory motor simulation

process called sensory motor simulation to help you better understand what

to help you better understand what

to help you better understand what people are feeling when they’re having

people are feeling when they’re having

people are feeling when they’re having different facial expressions here’s how

different facial expressions here’s how

different facial expressions here’s how it works

it works

it works you see an expressive face such as a

you see an expressive face such as a

you see an expressive face such as a smile and your brain automatically

smile and your brain automatically

smile and your brain automatically mimics that expression causing you to

mimics that expression causing you to

mimics that expression causing you to smile back at them it then uses your own

smile back at them it then uses your own

smile back at them it then uses your own experiences and context to determine

experiences and context to determine

experiences and context to determine what emotion that person is probably

what emotion that person is probably

what emotion that person is probably feeling you realize that that person’s

feeling you realize that that person’s

feeling you realize that that person’s feeling happy because that’s how you

feeling happy because that’s how you

feeling happy because that’s how you feel when you smile so what I’m really

feel when you smile so what I’m really

feel when you smile so what I’m really saying is that by smiling after I told

saying is that by smiling after I told

saying is that by smiling after I told you a bad joke I made you assume that my

you a bad joke I made you assume that my

you a bad joke I made you assume that my joke must have been at least a little

joke must have been at least a little

joke must have been at least a little funny because that’s why I was smiling

funny because that’s why I was smiling

funny because that’s why I was smiling but the purpose of this isn’t for you to

but the purpose of this isn’t for you to

but the purpose of this isn’t for you to just see a little funny I want you to

just see a little funny I want you to

just see a little funny I want you to think that I’m actually funny and lucky

think that I’m actually funny and lucky

think that I’m actually funny and lucky for me there’s more to smiling than just

for me there’s more to smiling than just

for me there’s more to smiling than just what I’ve said so far when you smile

what I’ve said so far when you smile

what I’ve said so far when you smile you’re activating your zygomatic major

you’re activating your zygomatic major

you’re activating your zygomatic major that’s the muscle in your cheek that

that’s the muscle in your cheek that

that’s the muscle in your cheek that pulls your lips upwards to form the

pulls your lips upwards to form the

pulls your lips upwards to form the smile and the activation of this

smile and the activation of this

smile and the activation of this salt triggers the release of endorphins

salt triggers the release of endorphins

salt triggers the release of endorphins dopamine and serotonin if you’ve seen

dopamine and serotonin if you’ve seen

dopamine and serotonin if you’ve seen the movie Legally Blonde you’ll know

the movie Legally Blonde you’ll know

the movie Legally Blonde you’ll know what endorphins do endorphins make

what endorphins do endorphins make

what endorphins do endorphins make people happy if you haven’t seen Legally

people happy if you haven’t seen Legally

people happy if you haven’t seen Legally Blonde don’t worry I can tell you a

Blonde don’t worry I can tell you a

Blonde don’t worry I can tell you a little more endorphins are a natural

little more endorphins are a natural

little more endorphins are a natural pain reliever they help to both

pain reliever they help to both

pain reliever they help to both alleviate physical pain and relieve your

alleviate physical pain and relieve your

alleviate physical pain and relieve your stress levels dopamine is a motivator

stress levels dopamine is a motivator

stress levels dopamine is a motivator that gives you a reinforcing sense of

that gives you a reinforcing sense of

that gives you a reinforcing sense of pleasure when you do something well to

pleasure when you do something well to

pleasure when you do something well to help you to accomplish your goals and

help you to accomplish your goals and

help you to accomplish your goals and serotonin is a mood balancer that gives

serotonin is a mood balancer that gives

serotonin is a mood balancer that gives you feelings of significance and

you feelings of significance and

you feelings of significance and importance when released increased

importance when released increased

importance when released increased amounts like when you smile all together

amounts like when you smile all together

amounts like when you smile all together when you smile these things make you

when you smile these things make you

when you smile these things make you feel better and feel happier which then

feel better and feel happier which then

feel better and feel happier which then causes you to smile more creating a

causes you to smile more creating a

causes you to smile more creating a feedback loop of positive emotions in

feedback loop of positive emotions in

feedback loop of positive emotions in your body plus this feedback loop of

your body plus this feedback loop of

your body plus this feedback loop of positivity has the added benefit of

positivity has the added benefit of

positivity has the added benefit of helping to lower your blood pressure and

helping to lower your blood pressure and

helping to lower your blood pressure and heart rates and increasing your overall

heart rates and increasing your overall

heart rates and increasing your overall longevity when you start smiling enough

longevity when you start smiling enough

longevity when you start smiling enough so you’re getting all these positive

so you’re getting all these positive

so you’re getting all these positive benefits every time you smile but again

benefits every time you smile but again

benefits every time you smile but again how does that affect me I want to be

how does that affect me I want to be

how does that affect me I want to be funny remember well scientists have

funny remember well scientists have

funny remember well scientists have found that when you feel happier you

found that when you feel happier you

found that when you feel happier you have more positive responses over all to

have more positive responses over all to

have more positive responses over all to things like different situations events

things like different situations events

things like different situations events and of course humor so as long as I have

and of course humor so as long as I have

and of course humor so as long as I have you smiling I don’t have to be quite as

you smiling I don’t have to be quite as

you smiling I don’t have to be quite as funny to make you smile or laugh plus

funny to make you smile or laugh plus

funny to make you smile or laugh plus there’s the added benefit of when you

there’s the added benefit of when you

there’s the added benefit of when you when you smile you’re more approachable

when you smile you’re more approachable

when you smile you’re more approachable and make friends easier and according to

and make friends easier and according to

and make friends easier and according to the book how to win friends and

the book how to win friends and

the book how to win friends and influence people it makes you more

influence people it makes you more

influence people it makes you more hireable in job settings and so while

hireable in job settings and so while

hireable in job settings and so while that is less relevant to the humor side

that is less relevant to the humor side

that is less relevant to the humor side of things I am looking for a job so hit

of things I am looking for a job so hit

of things I am looking for a job so hit me up if you’re interested but the this

me up if you’re interested but the this

me up if you’re interested but the this gets even more complicated and even

gets even more complicated and even

gets even more complicated and even cooler because whether or not your smile

cooler because whether or not your smile

cooler because whether or not your smile is real you still get these positive

is real you still get these positive

is real you still get these positive benefits and we’re going to do another

benefits and we’re going to do another

benefits and we’re going to do another quick test to figure this out so if you

quick test to figure this out so if you

quick test to figure this out so if you have a pen or pencil if you get it out

have a pen or pencil if you get it out

have a pen or pencil if you get it out with me take your pencil and put it

with me take your pencil and put it

with me take your pencil and put it between your lips without it touching

between your lips without it touching

between your lips without it touching your teeth like so this muscle if this

your teeth like so this muscle if this

your teeth like so this muscle if this is causing you to contract your facial

is causing you to contract your facial

is causing you to contract your facial muscles to simulate a brown

muscles to simulate a brown

muscles to simulate a brown now hold your pencils between your teeth

now hold your pencils between your teeth

now hold your pencils between your teeth without it touching your lips like this

without it touching your lips like this

without it touching your lips like this that activates that zygomatic major

that activates that zygomatic major

that activates that zygomatic major muscles that I mentioned before causing

muscles that I mentioned before causing

muscles that I mentioned before causing you to simulate a smile back in 1988 a

you to simulate a smile back in 1988 a

you to simulate a smile back in 1988 a group of researchers did this test and

group of researchers did this test and

group of researchers did this test and they found they showed participants a

they found they showed participants a

they found they showed participants a series of humorous cartoons and had them

series of humorous cartoons and had them

series of humorous cartoons and had them hold the pen or pencil one of the two

hold the pen or pencil one of the two

hold the pen or pencil one of the two ways they found that the participants

ways they found that the participants

ways they found that the participants that were frowning had less positive

that were frowning had less positive

that were frowning had less positive responses compared to those that were

responses compared to those that were

responses compared to those that were smiling indicating that whether or not

smiling indicating that whether or not

smiling indicating that whether or not your smile is real as long as you’re

your smile is real as long as you’re

your smile is real as long as you’re activating the right muscle you’re

activating the right muscle you’re

activating the right muscle you’re getting the positive benefits of the

getting the positive benefits of the

getting the positive benefits of the smile so in the end what I’m saying is

smile so in the end what I’m saying is

smile so in the end what I’m saying is smiling has many positive benefits just

smiling has many positive benefits just

smiling has many positive benefits just activating your zygomatic major makes

activating your zygomatic major makes

activating your zygomatic major makes you appear more attractive confidence

you appear more attractive confidence

you appear more attractive confidence and intelligent improve your mood

and intelligent improve your mood

and intelligent improve your mood overall helps to relieve stress boosts

overall helps to relieve stress boosts

overall helps to relieve stress boosts your immune system lowers your blood

your immune system lowers your blood

your immune system lowers your blood pressure and your heart rates makes you

pressure and your heart rates makes you

pressure and your heart rates makes you live longer and most importantly can

live longer and most importantly can

live longer and most importantly can make you seem funnier than you actually

make you seem funnier than you actually

make you seem funnier than you actually are and you have the power to share all

are and you have the power to share all

are and you have the power to share all of these benefits with the people around

of these benefits with the people around

of these benefits with the people around you because your smile is contagious

you because your smile is contagious

you because your smile is contagious so I urge all of you to activate that

so I urge all of you to activate that

so I urge all of you to activate that zygomatic major and to share it with the

zygomatic major and to share it with the

zygomatic major and to share it with the people that you encounter today because

people that you encounter today because

people that you encounter today because in today’s world we could all use a

in today’s world we could all use a

in today’s world we could all use a little more positivity thank

little more positivity thank

little more positivity thank [Applause]

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