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5 Ways to Build Your CONFIDENCE – #BelieveLife


good morning believe nation today we’re

good morning believe nation today we’re going to talk about how you can build

going to talk about how you can build

going to talk about how you can build your confidence clip number three is my

your confidence clip number three is my

your confidence clip number three is my personal favorite and make sure to stick

personal favorite and make sure to stick

personal favorite and make sure to stick around to the end for some special bonus

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clips also as you watch this video if somebody says something that really

somebody says something that really

somebody says something that really resonates with you make sure to write it

resonates with you make sure to write it

resonates with you make sure to write it down in the comments below and put

down in the comments below and put

down in the comments below and put quotes around it so that others can

quotes around it so that others can

quotes around it so that others can benefit and be inspired as well I grew

benefit and be inspired as well I grew

benefit and be inspired as well I grew up with no self confidence no self

up with no self confidence no self

up with no self confidence no self esteem I kicked it was kicked out of

esteem I kicked it was kicked out of

esteem I kicked it was kicked out of school several times I misbehaved I

school several times I misbehaved I

school several times I misbehaved I ended up spending half of my school in

ended up spending half of my school in

ended up spending half of my school in the library because I was kicked out of

the library because I was kicked out of

the library because I was kicked out of courses I left school in the 12th grade

courses I left school in the 12th grade

courses I left school in the 12th grade and got a job as a dishwasher worked as

and got a job as a dishwasher worked as

and got a job as a dishwasher worked as a labourer lived in my car dug ditches

a labourer lived in my car dug ditches

a labourer lived in my car dug ditches and things like that so I had no

and things like that so I had no

and things like that so I had no self-esteem and I began studying the

self-esteem and I began studying the

self-esteem and I began studying the subject over the years and I found that

subject over the years and I found that

subject over the years and I found that your level of self confidence how much

your level of self confidence how much

your level of self confidence how much confidence you have in yourself to be do

confidence you have in yourself to be do

confidence you have in yourself to be do accomplish something really determines

accomplish something really determines

accomplish something really determines the whole quality of your life so what I

the whole quality of your life so what I

the whole quality of your life so what I found is that there’s a direct

found is that there’s a direct

found is that there’s a direct relationship between how high your level

relationship between how high your level

relationship between how high your level of self confidence is and your level of

of self confidence is and your level of

of self confidence is and your level of sales one-to-one relationship between

sales one-to-one relationship between

sales one-to-one relationship between self confidence and selling success

self confidence and selling success

self confidence and selling success because in selling you’ve got to be bold

because in selling you’ve got to be bold

because in selling you’ve got to be bold you’ve got to be courageous you’ve got

you’ve got to be courageous you’ve got

you’ve got to be courageous you’ve got to take rejection and disappointment

to take rejection and disappointment

to take rejection and disappointment you’ve got to get out there you’ve got

you’ve got to get out there you’ve got

you’ve got to get out there you’ve got to face all your fears in order to get

to face all your fears in order to get

to face all your fears in order to get appointments you’ve got to face your

appointments you’ve got to face your

appointments you’ve got to face your fears in order to ask for orders so self

fears in order to ask for orders so self

fears in order to ask for orders so self confidence is critical self-confidence

confidence is critical self-confidence

confidence is critical self-confidence is essential in business because it’s

is essential in business because it’s

is essential in business because it’s impossible even to start a business to

impossible even to start a business to

impossible even to start a business to arrange a bank loan to set up customers

arrange a bank loan to set up customers

arrange a bank loan to set up customers to hire people to do all the things that

to hire people to do all the things that

to hire people to do all the things that are necessary in business require self

are necessary in business require self

are necessary in business require self confidence also what we found is that

confidence also what we found is that

confidence also what we found is that your level of self confidence is the

your level of self confidence is the

your level of self confidence is the critical factor in your level sex-appeal

critical factor in your level sex-appeal

critical factor in your level sex-appeal is that the more confidence you are the

is that the more confidence you are the

is that the more confidence you are the more appealing you are to other people

more appealing you are to other people

more appealing you are to other people the more confident you are actually the

the more confident you are actually the

the more confident you are actually the more magnetism you have that’s why

more magnetism you have that’s why

more magnetism you have that’s why actors and actresses who seem to be

actors and actresses who seem to be

actors and actresses who seem to be extremely confident have a certain

extremely confident have a certain

extremely confident have a certain amount of magnetism so confidence not

amount of magnetism so confidence not

amount of magnetism so confidence not only is really important for us it makes

only is really important for us it makes

only is really important for us it makes us feel happy it effects and empowers

us feel happy it effects and empowers

us feel happy it effects and empowers other people it causes people to treat

other people it causes people to treat

other people it causes people to treat us differently we make more sales we

us differently we make more sales we

us differently we make more sales we make more money we marry better we’re

make more money we marry better we’re

make more money we marry better we’re better and more effective socially

better and more effective socially

better and more effective socially self-confidence is everything

self-confidence is everything

self-confidence is everything you

the easiest way to build self-confidence

the easiest way to build self-confidence there’s no magic button I can’t say this

there’s no magic button I can’t say this

there’s no magic button I can’t say this plane is going down who can fly it put

plane is going down who can fly it put

plane is going down who can fly it put your hand up I can I’m confident

repetition repetition repetition right

repetition repetition repetition right what does Malcolm Gladwell call it the

what does Malcolm Gladwell call it the

what does Malcolm Gladwell call it the 10,000 hour rule there’s no magic button

10,000 hour rule there’s no magic button

10,000 hour rule there’s no magic button I recruited a goalie from Colombia South

I recruited a goalie from Colombia South

I recruited a goalie from Colombia South America one year I big tall six foot

America one year I big tall six foot

America one year I big tall six foot three man uh you know he had hands like

three man uh you know he had hands like

three man uh you know he had hands like stone I thought he was like flipper

stone I thought he was like flipper

stone I thought he was like flipper every time I throw him the ball down

every time I throw him the ball down

every time I throw him the ball down down onto the ground I was like oh my

down onto the ground I was like oh my

down onto the ground I was like oh my god we’re in trouble

god we’re in trouble

god we’re in trouble simple solution get to the wall kick a

simple solution get to the wall kick a

simple solution get to the wall kick a ball against the wall and catch it kick

ball against the wall and catch it kick

ball against the wall and catch it kick the ball against the wall and catch it

the ball against the wall and catch it

the ball against the wall and catch it his goal was 350 a day for eight months

his goal was 350 a day for eight months

his goal was 350 a day for eight months he came back his hands were callused the

he came back his hands were callused the

he came back his hands were callused the moisture on his hands were literally

moisture on his hands were literally

moisture on his hands were literally gone he is now playing in Europe magic

gone he is now playing in Europe magic

gone he is now playing in Europe magic no repetition repetition repetition the

no repetition repetition repetition the

no repetition repetition repetition the problem is we expect to be

problem is we expect to be

problem is we expect to be self-confident but we can’t be unless

self-confident but we can’t be unless

self-confident but we can’t be unless the skill or the task we’re doing is not

the skill or the task we’re doing is not

the skill or the task we’re doing is not novel is not new to us we want to be in

novel is not new to us we want to be in

novel is not new to us we want to be in a situation where we’ve created we’ve

a situation where we’ve created we’ve

a situation where we’ve created we’ve had so much pressure in that and what I

had so much pressure in that and what I

had so much pressure in that and what I mean because pressure builds diamonds we

mean because pressure builds diamonds we

mean because pressure builds diamonds we want to be in the situation where hey

want to be in the situation where hey

want to be in the situation where hey done this a thousand times I didn’t my

done this a thousand times I didn’t my

done this a thousand times I didn’t my speech I practice in front of the mirror

speech I practice in front of the mirror

speech I practice in front of the mirror I thought hey I’m sounding good and then

I thought hey I’m sounding good and then

I thought hey I’m sounding good and then I read in front of my kids and my and my

I read in front of my kids and my and my

I read in front of my kids and my and my wife like oh gosh a little nervous then

wife like oh gosh a little nervous then

wife like oh gosh a little nervous then I get in front of Glenn cool oh my

I get in front of Glenn cool oh my

I get in front of Glenn cool oh my goodness I’m a little more nervous by

goodness I’m a little more nervous by

goodness I’m a little more nervous by the time I get to the ACG we’re 2,500

the time I get to the ACG we’re 2,500

the time I get to the ACG we’re 2,500 people can’t say any more right 2,500

people can’t say any more right 2,500

people can’t say any more right 2,500 people

people

people we’re 2,500 people are there I won’t

we’re 2,500 people are there I won’t

we’re 2,500 people are there I won’t have a single ounce of nervousness

have a single ounce of nervousness

have a single ounce of nervousness because of my ability to practice right

because of my ability to practice right

because of my ability to practice right over and over and over again

over and over and over again

over and over and over again the problem with repetition is how many

the problem with repetition is how many

the problem with repetition is how many of us bail after the first bit of

of us bail after the first bit of

of us bail after the first bit of failure how many us bail after the first

failure how many us bail after the first

failure how many us bail after the first bit of adversity Edison was on that

bit of adversity Edison was on that

bit of adversity Edison was on that video it depends who you ask is anywhere

video it depends who you ask is anywhere

video it depends who you ask is anywhere from 1,000 to 10,000 tries to build that

from 1,000 to 10,000 tries to build that

from 1,000 to 10,000 tries to build that lightbulb 1,000 to 10,000 JK Rowling

lightbulb 1,000 to 10,000 JK Rowling

lightbulb 1,000 to 10,000 JK Rowling should be on that video you the army

should be on that video you the army

should be on that video you the army publisher she took her Harry Potter book

publisher she took her Harry Potter book

publisher she took her Harry Potter book to I believe the number was 12 or 13 I

to I believe the number was 12 or 13 I

to I believe the number was 12 or 13 I don’t I’m pretty confident but after two

don’t I’m pretty confident but after two

don’t I’m pretty confident but after two or three knows I’d be like dang

or three knows I’d be like dang

or three knows I’d be like dang after six or seven I’m like maybe not

after six or seven I’m like maybe not

after six or seven I’m like maybe not definitely after nine or ten I’d be

definitely after nine or ten I’d be

definitely after nine or ten I’d be looking to be a soccer coach or

looking to be a soccer coach or

looking to be a soccer coach or something else beside it author right I

something else beside it author right I

something else beside it author right I mean 12 times somebody said no but

mean 12 times somebody said no but

mean 12 times somebody said no but practice practice practice and do not

practice practice practice and do not

practice practice practice and do not accept failure maybe it shouldn’t be

accept failure maybe it shouldn’t be

accept failure maybe it shouldn’t be repetition maybe the answer should be

repetition maybe the answer should be

repetition maybe the answer should be persistence because we all repeat

persistence because we all repeat

persistence because we all repeat something but very few of us really will

something but very few of us really will

something but very few of us really will persist so that’s one way to build

persist so that’s one way to build

persist so that’s one way to build self-confidence get out there do what

self-confidence get out there do what

self-confidence get out there do what you want to do and accept and do not

you want to do and accept and do not

you want to do and accept and do not accept no another technique that you can

accept no another technique that you can

accept no another technique that you can do physically and that’s to simply

do physically and that’s to simply

do physically and that’s to simply change your physiology and when I say

change your physiology and when I say

change your physiology and when I say physiology I’m talking about your

physiology I’m talking about your

physiology I’m talking about your posture I’m talking about your head up

posture I’m talking about your head up

posture I’m talking about your head up I’m talking about head straight maintain

I’m talking about head straight maintain

I’m talking about head straight maintain eye contact that automatically sends a

eye contact that automatically sends a

eye contact that automatically sends a signal to you of being more confident

signal to you of being more confident

signal to you of being more confident try it out you’re slouching in your

try it out you’re slouching in your

try it out you’re slouching in your chair right now if you’re sitting on

chair right now if you’re sitting on

chair right now if you’re sitting on your couch like this watching this video

your couch like this watching this video

your couch like this watching this video take a moment

take a moment

take a moment sit up take a big breath breathing helps

sit up take a big breath breathing helps

sit up take a big breath breathing helps as well a lot you have 80,000 messages

as well a lot you have 80,000 messages

as well a lot you have 80,000 messages that transfer up your spinal cord into

that transfer up your spinal cord into

that transfer up your spinal cord into your limbic system into your brain that

your limbic system into your brain that

your limbic system into your brain that sends signals to your prefrontal cortex

sends signals to your prefrontal cortex

sends signals to your prefrontal cortex that allows you to make effective

that allows you to make effective

that allows you to make effective decisions now that’s a miracle of

decisions now that’s a miracle of

decisions now that’s a miracle of machine problem is most people hunched

machine problem is most people hunched

machine problem is most people hunched over like this working at their computer

over like this working at their computer

over like this working at their computer all day they’re not moving enough then

all day they’re not moving enough then

all day they’re not moving enough then they go to they sit in a car then they

they go to they sit in a car then they

they go to they sit in a car then they come home then they’re watching TV again

come home then they’re watching TV again

come home then they’re watching TV again it’s ridiculous elevate your posture my

it’s ridiculous elevate your posture my

it’s ridiculous elevate your posture my friend lift it up

friend lift it up

friend lift it up maintain eye contact put your head back

maintain eye contact put your head back

maintain eye contact put your head back roll your shoulders back and allow those

roll your shoulders back and allow those

roll your shoulders back and allow those signals to enter your brain so that you

signals to enter your brain so that you

signals to enter your brain so that you can make effective decisions and overall

can make effective decisions and overall

can make effective decisions and overall feel more confident because how you feel

feel more confident because how you feel

feel more confident because how you feel what how you feel dictates who you are

what how you feel dictates who you are

what how you feel dictates who you are it’s all energy it’s all vibration in

it’s all energy it’s all vibration in

it’s all energy it’s all vibration in your emotion if you’re going to be

your emotion if you’re going to be

your emotion if you’re going to be successful in creating the life of your

successful in creating the life of your

successful in creating the life of your dreams you have to believe that you are

dreams you have to believe that you are

dreams you have to believe that you are capable of making it happen you have to

capable of making it happen you have to

capable of making it happen you have to believe that you have the right stuff

believe that you have the right stuff

believe that you have the right stuff and that you’re able to pull it off now

and that you’re able to pull it off now

and that you’re able to pull it off now whether you call it self esteem self

whether you call it self esteem self

whether you call it self esteem self confidence or self assurance

confidence or self assurance

confidence or self assurance it’s a deep-seated belief that you have

it’s a deep-seated belief that you have

it’s a deep-seated belief that you have what it takes

what it takes

what it takes the abilities the inner resources the

the abilities the inner resources the

the abilities the inner resources the talents and the skills to create your

talents and the skills to create your

talents and the skills to create your desired results now believing in

desired results now believing in

desired results now believing in yourself is simply an attitude believing

yourself is simply an attitude believing

yourself is simply an attitude believing yourself is a choice you have to choose

yourself is a choice you have to choose

yourself is a choice you have to choose to believe that you can do anything you

to believe that you can do anything you

to believe that you can do anything you set your mind to anything at all because

set your mind to anything at all because

set your mind to anything at all because in fact you can it might help you to

in fact you can it might help you to

in fact you can it might help you to know that the latest brain research now

know that the latest brain research now

know that the latest brain research now indicates with enough positive self-talk

indicates with enough positive self-talk

indicates with enough positive self-talk and positive visualization combined with

and positive visualization combined with

and positive visualization combined with proper training coaching and practice

proper training coaching and practice

proper training coaching and practice anyone can learn to do almost anything

anyone can learn to do almost anything

anyone can learn to do almost anything now I’ve interviewed thousands of

now I’ve interviewed thousands of

now I’ve interviewed thousands of successful people and almost every one

successful people and almost every one

successful people and almost every one of them has told me I was not the most

of them has told me I was not the most

of them has told me I was not the most gifted or the most talented person in my

gifted or the most talented person in my

gifted or the most talented person in my field but I chose to believe that

field but I chose to believe that

field but I chose to believe that anything was possible

anything was possible

anything was possible and because of that I studied I

and because of that I studied I

and because of that I studied I practiced and I worked harder than the

practiced and I worked harder than the

practiced and I worked harder than the others and that’s how I got to where I

others and that’s how I got to where I

others and that’s how I got to where I am

am

am you know Ruben Gonzalez a 20 year old

you know Ruben Gonzalez a 20 year old

you know Ruben Gonzalez a 20 year old living in Texas hot Texas can take up

living in Texas hot Texas can take up

living in Texas hot Texas can take up the ludes which is a winter sport and

the ludes which is a winter sport and

the ludes which is a winter sport and become an Olympic athlete if Bill Gates

become an Olympic athlete if Bill Gates

become an Olympic athlete if Bill Gates who is a college dropout can become a

who is a college dropout can become a

who is a college dropout can become a multi billionaire and Stephen Jay candle

multi billionaire and Stephen Jay candle

multi billionaire and Stephen Jay candle who was a dyslexic student who failed

who was a dyslexic student who failed

who was a dyslexic student who failed three grades in school can become a

three grades in school can become a

three grades in school can become a best-selling author and a television

best-selling author and a television

best-selling author and a television producer then you too can accomplish

producer then you too can accomplish

producer then you too can accomplish anything if you’ll simply believe it’s

anything if you’ll simply believe it’s

anything if you’ll simply believe it’s possible so make the decision right now

possible so make the decision right now

possible so make the decision right now to believe that you create all of your

to believe that you create all of your

to believe that you create all of your experiences because you do let’s start

experiences because you do let’s start

experiences because you do let’s start creating the ones you want by believing

creating the ones you want by believing

creating the ones you want by believing you can sounds a little strange but

you can sounds a little strange but

you can sounds a little strange but accepting this level of responsibility

accepting this level of responsibility

accepting this level of responsibility is uniquely and inevitably empowering it

is uniquely and inevitably empowering it

is uniquely and inevitably empowering it means you can do change and become

means you can do change and become

means you can do change and become anything at all decide you need no

anything at all decide you need no

anything at all decide you need no reason whatsoever to be more confident

reason whatsoever to be more confident

reason whatsoever to be more confident just make the decision to be confident

just make the decision to be confident

just make the decision to be confident you don’t need a reason you don’t need

you don’t need a reason you don’t need

you don’t need a reason you don’t need 50 people to tell you you’re amazing or

50 people to tell you you’re amazing or

50 people to tell you you’re amazing or you’re beautiful or we love you you just

you’re beautiful or we love you you just

you’re beautiful or we love you you just have to say you know what today I lift

have to say you know what today I lift

have to say you know what today I lift my head up a little bit

my head up a little bit

my head up a little bit you know today I’m gonna give myself a

you know today I’m gonna give myself a

you know today I’m gonna give myself a little bit of credit today I’m just

little bit of credit today I’m just

little bit of credit today I’m just gonna be confident I’m gonna walk into

gonna be confident I’m gonna walk into

gonna be confident I’m gonna walk into this room I’m gonna stand tall as if I

this room I’m gonna stand tall as if I

this room I’m gonna stand tall as if I was an incredibly confident person for

was an incredibly confident person for

was an incredibly confident person for no other reason that that’s my intention

no other reason that that’s my intention

no other reason that that’s my intention right now that’s it that’s the power of

right now that’s it that’s the power of

right now that’s it that’s the power of intention it’s the power of the

intention it’s the power of the

intention it’s the power of the self-directed human being that we can

self-directed human being that we can

self-directed human being that we can just get to choose how we want to feel

just get to choose how we want to feel

just get to choose how we want to feel you could be happy right now

you could be happy right now

you could be happy right now for no reason right for no reason at all

for no reason right for no reason at all

for no reason right for no reason at all you can just say you know what I’m just

you can just say you know what I’m just

you can just say you know what I’m just I to be happy in my life you don’t need

I to be happy in my life you don’t need

I to be happy in my life you don’t need 50 things to make you happy you just

50 things to make you happy you just

50 things to make you happy you just sense the moment feel grateful for life

sense the moment feel grateful for life

sense the moment feel grateful for life you’re good to go

you’re good to go

you’re good to go right we over complicate these things we

right we over complicate these things we

right we over complicate these things we think we have to have you know some big

think we have to have you know some big

think we have to have you know some big long psychological story and build up to

long psychological story and build up to

long psychological story and build up to suddenly one day wake up and be more

suddenly one day wake up and be more

suddenly one day wake up and be more confident no we don’t we have to wake up

confident no we don’t we have to wake up

confident no we don’t we have to wake up one more day and say today I’m be

one more day and say today I’m be

one more day and say today I’m be confident just like we decide when to

confident just like we decide when to

confident just like we decide when to wake up if you ever had a day where you

wake up if you ever had a day where you

wake up if you ever had a day where you just I mean just crushed it you know you

just I mean just crushed it you know you

just I mean just crushed it you know you got so much done you were like wow at

got so much done you were like wow at

got so much done you were like wow at the end of the day or like man I just

the end of the day or like man I just

the end of the day or like man I just crushed it today that happened because

crushed it today that happened because

crushed it today that happened because when you woke up in the morning said I’m

when you woke up in the morning said I’m

when you woke up in the morning said I’m gonna get some stuff done today you had

gonna get some stuff done today you had

gonna get some stuff done today you had the intention to be a productive human

the intention to be a productive human

the intention to be a productive human being that day so why not set the

being that day so why not set the

being that day so why not set the intention to be a confident you and

intention to be a confident you and

intention to be a confident you and being that day

being that day

being that day why not sent the attention to be a

why not sent the attention to be a

why not sent the attention to be a loving person or a vicious person or a

loving person or a vicious person or a

loving person or a vicious person or a funny person or a flirty person or a

funny person or a flirty person or a

funny person or a flirty person or a sexy person or whatever kind of person

sexy person or whatever kind of person

sexy person or whatever kind of person that you ought to be just decide you

that you ought to be just decide you

that you ought to be just decide you don’t need a bunch of stuff people

don’t need a bunch of stuff people

don’t need a bunch of stuff people really get this one wrong and what

really get this one wrong and what

really get this one wrong and what happens is if you don’t have the

happens is if you don’t have the

happens is if you don’t have the intention in the moment say I’m going to

intention in the moment say I’m going to

intention in the moment say I’m going to be confident I’m just gonna allow that

be confident I’m just gonna allow that

be confident I’m just gonna allow that to come up I’m going to feel that sense

to come up I’m going to feel that sense

to come up I’m going to feel that sense and feeling what confidence is for me

and feeling what confidence is for me

and feeling what confidence is for me and express that genuinely and real for

and express that genuinely and real for

and express that genuinely and real for myself within the vacuum of intention

myself within the vacuum of intention

myself within the vacuum of intention arises impulse

arises impulse

arises impulse and often from that impulse through our

and often from that impulse through our

and often from that impulse through our brain stem up comes worry concerned

brain stem up comes worry concerned

brain stem up comes worry concerned fear the de paying attention to what is

fear the de paying attention to what is

fear the de paying attention to what is wrong so that we can fix it or flee or

wrong so that we can fix it or flee or

wrong so that we can fix it or flee or escape right so we have to have the

escape right so we have to have the

escape right so we have to have the intention of who you are and what we’re

intention of who you are and what we’re

intention of who you are and what we’re going to be it begins with you simply

going to be it begins with you simply

going to be it begins with you simply deciding to be a confident person change

deciding to be a confident person change

deciding to be a confident person change my life when I did that I realized it

my life when I did that I realized it

my life when I did that I realized it and this was way back in college for me

and this was way back in college for me

and this was way back in college for me I just thought I want to be a confident

I just thought I want to be a confident

I just thought I want to be a confident person how’s this going to happen do I

person how’s this going to happen do I

person how’s this going to happen do I have to wait till I’m 50 after I’ve

have to wait till I’m 50 after I’ve

have to wait till I’m 50 after I’ve achieved everything I’ve made some money

achieved everything I’ve made some money

achieved everything I’ve made some money or maybe people like me somewhere come

or maybe people like me somewhere come

or maybe people like me somewhere come on get over it we should get over our

on get over it we should get over our

on get over it we should get over our stuff and one day just realize real

stuff and one day just realize real

stuff and one day just realize real confidence is simply having the ability

confidence is simply having the ability

confidence is simply having the ability to genuinely express who we truly are

to genuinely express who we truly are

to genuinely express who we truly are and to pursue things that we truly

and to pursue things that we truly

and to pursue things that we truly desire that’s confidence confidence

desire that’s confidence confidence

desire that’s confidence confidence doesn’t have to mean you’re leaping over

doesn’t have to mean you’re leaping over

doesn’t have to mean you’re leaping over tall buildings confidence means you’re

tall buildings confidence means you’re

tall buildings confidence means you’re being who you are authentically for no

being who you are authentically for no

being who you are authentically for no other reason no one gave you permission

other reason no one gave you permission

other reason no one gave you permission you just decided to be who you are you

you just decided to be who you are you

you just decided to be who you are you decided to chase your dreams that’s

decided to chase your dreams that’s

decided to chase your dreams that’s confidence right believing in yourself

confidence right believing in yourself

confidence right believing in yourself and believing where you’re going that’s

and believing where you’re going that’s

and believing where you’re going that’s confidence it doesn’t take a whole lot

confidence it doesn’t take a whole lot

confidence it doesn’t take a whole lot of magic that’s confidence confidence is

of magic that’s confidence confidence is

of magic that’s confidence confidence is the key to so many things confidence is

the key to so many things confidence is

the key to so many things confidence is so closely related its mistaken for

so closely related its mistaken for

so closely related its mistaken for arrogance

arrogance

arrogance Muhammad Ali wanted one of my idols as a

Muhammad Ali wanted one of my idols as a

Muhammad Ali wanted one of my idols as a kid probably home was a kid

kid probably home was a kid

kid probably home was a kid this guy was so confident and his

this guy was so confident and his

this guy was so confident and his ability it was mistake as arrogance but

ability it was mistake as arrogance but

ability it was mistake as arrogance but he was so sure

he was so sure

he was so sure so coming that he cannot be beat I have

so coming that he cannot be beat I have

so coming that he cannot be beat I have experienced that type of conflict when I

experienced that type of conflict when I

experienced that type of conflict when I told you I walked into a competition and

told you I walked into a competition and

told you I walked into a competition and I would ask which one of you is coming

I would ask which one of you is coming

I would ask which one of you is coming in second I’ve met bad I wasn’t totally

in second I’ve met bad I wasn’t totally

in second I’ve met bad I wasn’t totally totally confident that whoever showed up

totally confident that whoever showed up

totally confident that whoever showed up was coming in second how do you develop

was coming in second how do you develop

was coming in second how do you develop that type of confidence is through

obsession obsession you after the

obsession obsession you after the obsessed with whatever you’re trying to

obsessed with whatever you’re trying to

obsessed with whatever you’re trying to obtain in order to develop it you’re

obtain in order to develop it you’re

obtain in order to develop it you’re obsessed with tiddlywinks you’re

obsessed with tiddlywinks you’re

obsessed with tiddlywinks you’re obsessed with hopscotch obsessed with

obsessed with hopscotch obsessed with

obsessed with hopscotch obsessed with pulling teeth obsessed with trimming

pulling teeth obsessed with trimming

pulling teeth obsessed with trimming edges why should this is whatever though

edges why should this is whatever though

edges why should this is whatever though you do if you want to be very confident

you do if you want to be very confident

you do if you want to be very confident in it you must become obsessed with

in it you must become obsessed with

in it you must become obsessed with however they was my passion my obsession

however they was my passion my obsession

however they was my passion my obsession and I develop through hard as what I

and I develop through hard as what I

and I develop through hard as what I knew without a shadow God did that next

knew without a shadow God did that next

knew without a shadow God did that next me had not worked as hard as I had work

me had not worked as hard as I had work

me had not worked as hard as I had work I couldn’t be matched in my desire my

I couldn’t be matched in my desire my

I couldn’t be matched in my desire my want my drive my will those areas I

want my drive my will those areas I

want my drive my will those areas I could not be touch it wasn’t human

could not be touch it wasn’t human

could not be touch it wasn’t human Glenn who get max removes it so having

Glenn who get max removes it so having

Glenn who get max removes it so having that confidence total confidence and my

that confidence total confidence and my

that confidence total confidence and my ability is no way I can lose it if no I

ability is no way I can lose it if no I

ability is no way I can lose it if no I convinced myself that I was invincible

convinced myself that I was invincible

convinced myself that I was invincible convince yourself that you cannot lose

convince yourself that you cannot lose

convince yourself that you cannot lose convince yourself that you are the best

convince yourself that you are the best

convince yourself that you are the best convince yourself convince yourself that

convince yourself convince yourself that

convince yourself convince yourself that nobody came out will you nobody cannot

nobody came out will you nobody cannot

nobody came out will you nobody cannot want you convince yourself or those

want you convince yourself or those

want you convince yourself or those things in you what happens convince

things in you what happens convince

things in you what happens convince yourself that you can’t be started for

yourself that you can’t be started for

yourself that you can’t be started for me confidence comes down to two things

me confidence comes down to two things

me confidence comes down to two things first is having done it before if you’ve

first is having done it before if you’ve

first is having done it before if you’ve done something before then it’s a lot

done something before then it’s a lot

done something before then it’s a lot easier to do it again but an easy segue

easier to do it again but an easy segue

easier to do it again but an easy segue from that is if you have done a smaller

from that is if you have done a smaller

from that is if you have done a smaller version of it then you have a little bit

version of it then you have a little bit

version of it then you have a little bit more confidence where a lot of people

more confidence where a lot of people

more confidence where a lot of people have these big goals and because it’s

have these big goals and because it’s

have these big goals and because it’s such a big goal that they’re here and

such a big goal that they’re here and

such a big goal that they’re here and they want to get here it looks like such

they want to get here it looks like such

they want to get here it looks like such a big chasm it’s such a big void that

a big chasm it’s such a big void that

a big chasm it’s such a big void that you have to cross that it’s scary you

you have to cross that it’s scary you

you have to cross that it’s scary you don’t have a lot of confidence in

don’t have a lot of confidence in

don’t have a lot of confidence in yourself but if you start here you want

yourself but if you start here you want

yourself but if you start here you want to get to here this may not be your next

to get to here this may not be your next

to get to here this may not be your next goal this might be the ultimate goal but

goal this might be the ultimate goal but

goal this might be the ultimate goal but not the next goal start here through

not the next goal start here through

not the next goal start here through that little step and then that little

that little step and then that little

that little step and then that little step and that little step and every time

step and that little step and every time

step and that little step and every time you take a little step it gives you

you take a little step it gives you

you take a little step it gives you confidence to go off and do the next

confidence to go off and do the next

confidence to go off and do the next step because that next step isn’t as big

step because that next step isn’t as big

step because that next step isn’t as big and as scary as jumping all the way to

and as scary as jumping all the way to

and as scary as jumping all the way to the top and you’ll eventually get here

the top and you’ll eventually get here

the top and you’ll eventually get here and when you look back it wasn’t this

and when you look back it wasn’t this

and when you look back it wasn’t this big scary impossible thing because you

big scary impossible thing because you

big scary impossible thing because you built confidence every step along the

built confidence every step along the

built confidence every step along the way the other thing that really helps me

way the other thing that really helps me

way the other thing that really helps me with confidence is remembering the

with confidence is remembering the

with confidence is remembering the mission and not wanting to live with

mission and not wanting to live with

mission and not wanting to live with regret any time I’m afraid

regret any time I’m afraid

regret any time I’m afraid any time I don’t feel confident I

any time I don’t feel confident I

any time I don’t feel confident I imagine myself on my deathbed looking

imagine myself on my deathbed looking

imagine myself on my deathbed looking back on my life and thinking am I going

back on my life and thinking am I going

back on my life and thinking am I going to regret this this thing that I’m

to regret this this thing that I’m

to regret this this thing that I’m afraid of right now

afraid of right now

afraid of right now am I going to regret this when I’m dying

am I going to regret this when I’m dying

am I going to regret this when I’m dying to say I should have taken that

to say I should have taken that

to say I should have taken that opportunity I shouldn’t have been afraid

opportunity I shouldn’t have been afraid

opportunity I shouldn’t have been afraid I should have gone for it and

I should have gone for it and

I should have gone for it and remembering that giving that kind of

remembering that giving that kind of

remembering that giving that kind of context in perspective doesn’t eliminate

context in perspective doesn’t eliminate

context in perspective doesn’t eliminate the fear just helps it be put in better

the fear just helps it be put in better

the fear just helps it be put in better perspective and gives me the confidence

perspective and gives me the confidence

perspective and gives me the confidence to just push through it’s feeling that

to just push through it’s feeling that

to just push through it’s feeling that fee

fee

fee and doing it anyway

so that’s my take I love to know what

so that’s my take I love to know what you think about confidence I’d love to

you think about confidence I’d love to

you think about confidence I’d love to know what you thought of this video did

know what you thought of this video did

know what you thought of this video did it help you what did you learn from it

it help you what did you learn from it

it help you what did you learn from it leave in the comments below and I will

leave in the comments below and I will

leave in the comments below and I will join in the discussion I made this

join in the discussion I made this

join in the discussion I made this addition a belief like on confidence

addition a belief like on confidence

addition a belief like on confidence because Sandell alipin asked me to so

because Sandell alipin asked me to so

because Sandell alipin asked me to so there’s a topic you like me to cover in

there’s a topic you like me to cover in

there’s a topic you like me to cover in a future episode of believe life leave

a future episode of believe life leave

a future episode of believe life leave it in the comments below I don’t see

it in the comments below I don’t see

it in the comments below I don’t see what I can do finally what they give a

what I can do finally what they give a

what I can do finally what they give a quick shout-out to Thaksin thank you so

quick shout-out to Thaksin thank you so

quick shout-out to Thaksin thank you so much for buying a copy of my book really

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amazing day continue to believe or

amazing day continue to believe or whatever your one word is and I’ll see

whatever your one word is and I’ll see

whatever your one word is and I’ll see you soon

confidence is like a mental muscle like

confidence is like a mental muscle like muscle everyone is born with it but not

muscle everyone is born with it but not

muscle everyone is born with it but not everyone flexes it and if you want your

everyone flexes it and if you want your

everyone flexes it and if you want your muscles to grow stronger God exercise so

muscles to grow stronger God exercise so

muscles to grow stronger God exercise so here are my exercising tips consciously

here are my exercising tips consciously

here are my exercising tips consciously think positive thoughts especially

think positive thoughts especially

think positive thoughts especially during moments when you’re feeling down

during moments when you’re feeling down

during moments when you’re feeling down so take a deep breath and remind

so take a deep breath and remind

so take a deep breath and remind yourself that life is too short and you

yourself that life is too short and you

yourself that life is too short and you got to make the best of it listen to

got to make the best of it listen to

got to make the best of it listen to music that will lift your mood a good

music that will lift your mood a good

music that will lift your mood a good beat and sound has been proven to help

beat and sound has been proven to help

beat and sound has been proven to help people in a positive way music and sound

people in a positive way music and sound

people in a positive way music and sound has been known to help the growth of

has been known to help the growth of

has been known to help the growth of plants that says a lot you want to have

plants that says a lot you want to have

plants that says a lot you want to have a healthy habit of maintaining this

a healthy habit of maintaining this

a healthy habit of maintaining this mental muscle but you also don’t want to

mental muscle but you also don’t want to

mental muscle but you also don’t want to overdo it everything in moderation

overdo it everything in moderation

overdo it everything in moderation balance is key it’s good to remind

balance is key it’s good to remind

balance is key it’s good to remind yourself from time to time how worthy

yourself from time to time how worthy

yourself from time to time how worthy and how you know awesome you are but you

and how you know awesome you are but you

and how you know awesome you are but you also want to leave room to grow and

also want to leave room to grow and

also want to leave room to grow and improve I mean we can all change and

improve I mean we can all change and

improve I mean we can all change and evolve for the better hey grant cardone

evolve for the better hey grant cardone

evolve for the better hey grant cardone here talking to you today about some

here talking to you today about some

here talking to you today about some self-confidence where do you get your

self-confidence where do you get your

self-confidence where do you get your self-confidence you can’t buy it at the

self-confidence you can’t buy it at the

self-confidence you can’t buy it at the store folks can’t dress it up can’t eat

store folks can’t dress it up can’t eat

store folks can’t dress it up can’t eat it you can’t buy it

it you can’t buy it

it you can’t buy it you can’t even manufacture it yourself

you can’t even manufacture it yourself

you can’t even manufacture it yourself you have to go build self-confidence

you have to go build self-confidence

you have to go build self-confidence this this is a topic that’s near and

this this is a topic that’s near and

this this is a topic that’s near and dear to my heart okay because I remember

dear to my heart okay because I remember

dear to my heart okay because I remember being 25 years old scared to death of

being 25 years old scared to death of

being 25 years old scared to death of people 29 years old started my speaking

people 29 years old started my speaking

people 29 years old started my speaking career terrified of the people I had to

career terrified of the people I had to

career terrified of the people I had to go to didn’t call on anybody for a year

go to didn’t call on anybody for a year

go to didn’t call on anybody for a year because I was literally frozen in fear

because I was literally frozen in fear

because I was literally frozen in fear and one day said somebody said something

and one day said somebody said something

and one day said somebody said something to me do you need you need to handle

to me do you need you need to handle

to me do you need you need to handle your self-confidence issue so I went

your self-confidence issue so I went

your self-confidence issue so I went bought a suit and I didn’t feel any

bought a suit and I didn’t feel any

bought a suit and I didn’t feel any better I went bought a card didn’t feel

better I went bought a card didn’t feel

better I went bought a card didn’t feel any better about myself I mean I felt a

any better about myself I mean I felt a

any better about myself I mean I felt a little better for a second look

little better for a second look

little better for a second look self-confidence is the only outfit you

self-confidence is the only outfit you

self-confidence is the only outfit you can’t buy this is an inside job you got

can’t buy this is an inside job you got

can’t buy this is an inside job you got to study you got to learn you got to

to study you got to learn you got to

to study you got to learn you got to practice and you have to you have to do

practice and you have to you have to do

practice and you have to you have to do the hard things self confidence comes

the hard things self confidence comes

the hard things self confidence comes from repeating experiences that are

from repeating experiences that are

from repeating experiences that are difficult same place courage comes from

difficult same place courage comes from

difficult same place courage comes from you know the guy that does something

you know the guy that does something

you know the guy that does something this courageous is given the title of

this courageous is given the title of

this courageous is given the title of being courageous

being courageous

being courageous it’s not because he went war courageous

it’s not because he went war courageous

it’s not because he went war courageous it’s because he went did something look

it’s because he went did something look

it’s because he went did something look if you want to build self-confidence you

if you want to build self-confidence you

if you want to build self-confidence you can listen to the subliminal tapes it’s

can listen to the subliminal tapes it’s

can listen to the subliminal tapes it’s not going to work you can go do

not going to work you can go do

not going to work you can go do hypnotism it’s freakin ridiculous you

hypnotism it’s freakin ridiculous you

hypnotism it’s freakin ridiculous you need to be more aware more alert and you

need to be more aware more alert and you

need to be more aware more alert and you need to do more some of the ideas that

need to do more some of the ideas that

need to do more some of the ideas that people are thrown at you guys right now

people are thrown at you guys right now

people are thrown at you guys right now to build your self-confidence you’re

to build your self-confidence you’re

to build your self-confidence you’re going to eat different and feel better

going to eat different and feel better

going to eat different and feel better you’re going to do this and feel look

you’re going to do this and feel look

you’re going to do this and feel look you need to get in front of people do

you need to get in front of people do

you need to get in front of people do the things you’re scared to do to get

the things you’re scared to do to get

the things you’re scared to do to get the self-confidence you want to have

the self-confidence you want to have

the self-confidence you want to have period it’s not on sale it’s not at

period it’s not on sale it’s not at

period it’s not on sale it’s not at Bloomingdale’s Macy’s it’s not a Toyota

Bloomingdale’s Macy’s it’s not a Toyota

Bloomingdale’s Macy’s it’s not a Toyota it’s not on the radio dude it’s an

it’s not on the radio dude it’s an

it’s not on the radio dude it’s an inside job I can’t help you with it

inside job I can’t help you with it

inside job I can’t help you with it you got to take what I’m giving you in

you got to take what I’m giving you in

you got to take what I’m giving you in these blurbs blabs streams scopes cats

these blurbs blabs streams scopes cats

these blurbs blabs streams scopes cats whatever you’re calling it the posts the

whatever you’re calling it the posts the

whatever you’re calling it the posts the streams the instagrams and then I need

streams the instagrams and then I need

streams the instagrams and then I need to take that and start applying it in my

to take that and start applying it in my

to take that and start applying it in my life otherwise you’re going to find

life otherwise you’re going to find

life otherwise you’re going to find yourself feeling worse and worse and

yourself feeling worse and worse and

yourself feeling worse and worse and worse about yourself you want to go walk

worse about yourself you want to go walk

worse about yourself you want to go walk on fire go do it

on fire go do it

on fire go do it is that going to build yourself

is that going to build yourself

is that going to build yourself confidence I doubt it okay I doubt it

confidence I doubt it okay I doubt it

confidence I doubt it okay I doubt it man go spend a grand on a weekend that

man go spend a grand on a weekend that

man go spend a grand on a weekend that will not improve your self-confidence

will not improve your self-confidence

will not improve your self-confidence the only thing I know for sure that will

the only thing I know for sure that will

the only thing I know for sure that will change your sense of self is the actions

change your sense of self is the actions

change your sense of self is the actions you take getting in front of other

you take getting in front of other

you take getting in front of other people other people people you don’t

people other people people you don’t

people other people people you don’t know people you’re scared to talk to

know people you’re scared to talk to

know people you’re scared to talk to you’re sitting there trembling through

you’re sitting there trembling through

you’re sitting there trembling through your pitch until you don’t tremble

your pitch until you don’t tremble

your pitch until you don’t tremble anymore self-confidence an inside job

anymore self-confidence an inside job

anymore self-confidence an inside job it’s not a suit you put on it’s not a

it’s not a suit you put on it’s not a

it’s not a suit you put on it’s not a car you drive this is not something you

car you drive this is not something you

car you drive this is not something you buy this is something you develop we all

buy this is something you develop we all

buy this is something you develop we all have a self-talk tape that plays in our

have a self-talk tape that plays in our

have a self-talk tape that plays in our head anybody go shopping and put on a

head anybody go shopping and put on a

head anybody go shopping and put on a pair of pants this week if you’re a

pair of pants this week if you’re a

pair of pants this week if you’re a woman the first thing that always comes

woman the first thing that always comes

woman the first thing that always comes damn I look fat in these pants and if

damn I look fat in these pants and if

damn I look fat in these pants and if you’re a man it’s the opposite oh god I

you’re a man it’s the opposite oh god I

you’re a man it’s the opposite oh god I have no muscle I’m so flabby right we

have no muscle I’m so flabby right we

have no muscle I’m so flabby right we all have this tape that plays in our

all have this tape that plays in our

all have this tape that plays in our head as a student if they ask me the

head as a student if they ask me the

head as a student if they ask me the question it was like gosh gee please

question it was like gosh gee please

question it was like gosh gee please please professor don’t pick me I don’t

please professor don’t pick me I don’t

please professor don’t pick me I don’t know the answer I don’t put I look down

know the answer I don’t put I look down

know the answer I don’t put I look down right if you’re in a when I let me tell

right if you’re in a when I let me tell

right if you’re in a when I let me tell you something and the VP of Business

you something and the VP of Business

you something and the VP of Business Administration I shouldn’t repeat this

Administration I shouldn’t repeat this

Administration I shouldn’t repeat this but when they hired me as an athletic

but when they hired me as an athletic

but when they hired me as an athletic director I sat in an architect’s meeting

director I sat in an architect’s meeting

director I sat in an architect’s meeting and I am as bowed as dumb as a post when

and I am as bowed as dumb as a post when

and I am as bowed as dumb as a post when it comes to anything to do with numbers

it comes to anything to do with numbers

it comes to anything to do with numbers and angles

and angles

and angles and they’re like the Funday bellator

and they’re like the Funday bellator

and they’re like the Funday bellator valve of the architectural they’re there

valve of the architectural they’re there

valve of the architectural they’re there what do you think dr. Joseph uh let me

what do you think dr. Joseph uh let me

what do you think dr. Joseph uh let me look into that for you and get back to

look into that for you and get back to

look into that for you and get back to you right I was in us God God please

you right I was in us God God please

you right I was in us God God please don’t ask me please don’t ask me we all

don’t ask me please don’t ask me we all

don’t ask me please don’t ask me we all have this negative self-talk that goes

have this negative self-talk that goes

have this negative self-talk that goes in our head guess what there’s enough

in our head guess what there’s enough

in our head guess what there’s enough people that are telling us we can’t do

people that are telling us we can’t do

people that are telling us we can’t do it that we’re not good enough why do we

it that we’re not good enough why do we

it that we’re not good enough why do we want to tell ourselves that we know for

want to tell ourselves that we know for

want to tell ourselves that we know for a fact that thoughts influence actions

a fact that thoughts influence actions

a fact that thoughts influence actions we saw it there with the with the video

we saw it there with the with the video

we saw it there with the with the video Sheldon dr. Levey sewed right we know

Sheldon dr. Levey sewed right we know

Sheldon dr. Levey sewed right we know that our thoughts influence actions why

that our thoughts influence actions why

that our thoughts influence actions why do we want to say that negative

do we want to say that negative

do we want to say that negative self-talk to ourselves we need to get

self-talk to ourselves we need to get

self-talk to ourselves we need to get our own self affirmations Muhammad Ali

our own self affirmations Muhammad Ali

our own self affirmations Muhammad Ali what was his self affirmation I am the

what was his self affirmation I am the

what was his self affirmation I am the greatest who else is going to tell you

greatest who else is going to tell you

greatest who else is going to tell you they need to be quiet moments in your

they need to be quiet moments in your

they need to be quiet moments in your bedroom quiet moments when you’re

bedroom quiet moments when you’re

bedroom quiet moments when you’re brushing your teeth that we need to

brushing your teeth that we need to

brushing your teeth that we need to reaffirm I am the captain of my ship and

reaffirm I am the captain of my ship and

reaffirm I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate that is my

the master of my fate that is my

the master of my fate that is my affirmation I came from a school of

affirmation I came from a school of

affirmation I came from a school of 1,000 people I lived in a town of 1,000

1,000 people I lived in a town of 1,000

1,000 people I lived in a town of 1,000 people for 15 years there’s no reason

people for 15 years there’s no reason

people for 15 years there’s no reason that I should be in charge of national

that I should be in charge of national

that I should be in charge of national deck department building Maple Leaf

deck department building Maple Leaf

deck department building Maple Leaf Gardens but I am the captain of my ship

Gardens but I am the captain of my ship

Gardens but I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate if I don’t say

and the master of my fate if I don’t say

and the master of my fate if I don’t say it if I don’t believe it

it if I don’t believe it

it if I don’t believe it no one else will how do you build

no one else will how do you build

no one else will how do you build self-confidence get away from the people

self-confidence get away from the people

self-confidence get away from the people who will tear you down there’s enough of

who will tear you down there’s enough of

who will tear you down there’s enough of that

that

that Muhammad Ali I am the greatest there is

Muhammad Ali I am the greatest there is

Muhammad Ali I am the greatest there is no one better than me it’s a difference

no one better than me it’s a difference

no one better than me it’s a difference between hubris and ego and false pride

between hubris and ego and false pride

between hubris and ego and false pride it’s just reminding yourself in quiet

it’s just reminding yourself in quiet

it’s just reminding yourself in quiet silent moments I put it down on a list

silent moments I put it down on a list

silent moments I put it down on a list it’s right beside my mirror right about

it’s right beside my mirror right about

it’s right beside my mirror right about all the things that make me who I am

all the things that make me who I am

all the things that make me who I am because I make enough mistakes and the

because I make enough mistakes and the

because I make enough mistakes and the newspapers will recognize it and people

newspapers will recognize it and people

newspapers will recognize it and people around me will recognize it and they’ll

around me will recognize it and they’ll

around me will recognize it and they’ll tear me down

tear me down

tear me down and pretty soon I’ll begin to believe it

and pretty soon I’ll begin to believe it

and pretty soon I’ll begin to believe it there was a time when my confidence was

there was a time when my confidence was

there was a time when my confidence was really low there was a time when I took

really low there was a time when I took

really low there was a time when I took this job when I came from Iowa

this job when I came from Iowa

this job when I came from Iowa I don’t know if I could do it I had to

I don’t know if I could do it I had to

I don’t know if I could do it I had to bring out my self-confidence letter a

bring out my self-confidence letter a

bring out my self-confidence letter a letter I wrote to myself when I was

letter I wrote to myself when I was

letter I wrote to myself when I was feeling good

feeling good

feeling good Ivan congratulations on getting your PhD

Ivan congratulations on getting your PhD

Ivan congratulations on getting your PhD before 40 congratu I am 40 under

congratulations on winning a national

congratulations on winning a national championship good job on raising three

championship good job on raising three

championship good job on raising three good kids and marrying the right woman I

good kids and marrying the right woman I

good kids and marrying the right woman I wrote a letter to myself it was my own

wrote a letter to myself it was my own

wrote a letter to myself it was my own brag sheet my own letter about the

brag sheet my own letter about the

brag sheet my own letter about the things I was proud of because there are

things I was proud of because there are

things I was proud of because there are moments and we’ll all experience them in

moments and we’ll all experience them in

moments and we’ll all experience them in our career in our life and our job

our career in our life and our job

our career in our life and our job hunting and our relationships when we

hunting and our relationships when we

hunting and our relationships when we are not feeling good about who and what

are not feeling good about who and what

are not feeling good about who and what and where we are and I had to bring out

and where we are and I had to bring out

and where we are and I had to bring out that letter and read it time and time

that letter and read it time and time

that letter and read it time and time again for a period of about two weeks to

again for a period of about two weeks to

again for a period of about two weeks to whether me through that storm it was

whether me through that storm it was

whether me through that storm it was important stop the self-talk the

important stop the self-talk the

important stop the self-talk the negative self-talk if you’ll watch

negative self-talk if you’ll watch

negative self-talk if you’ll watch you’ll see some athletes they’ll have a

you’ll see some athletes they’ll have a

you’ll see some athletes they’ll have a little bandage or a little balm brand

little bandage or a little balm brand

little bandage or a little balm brand around them Lance Armstrong is a perfect

around them Lance Armstrong is a perfect

around them Lance Armstrong is a perfect one what’s his self affirmation

one what’s his self affirmation

one what’s his self affirmation LIVESTRONG isn’t a brand it was to

LIVESTRONG isn’t a brand it was to

LIVESTRONG isn’t a brand it was to remind them of who he was

remind them of who he was

remind them of who he was LIVESTRONG then it came a brand he would

LIVESTRONG then it came a brand he would

LIVESTRONG then it came a brand he would move that from one arm to the next arm

move that from one arm to the next arm

move that from one arm to the next arm when belt and fare came into his mind

when belt and fare came into his mind

when belt and fare came into his mind LIVESTRONG put it on there let’s go

LIVESTRONG put it on there let’s go

LIVESTRONG put it on there let’s go we’ll all have it replace it

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