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La capacidad de aceptarse | JuanRo Aguiló | TEDxSantiago


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how well it had been ravaging

expected

I always do motivational talk and

I wanted to do something different so

I’m a little nervous but I care

it relaxes me who imagine that you a

are playing mario bros

I do not know if it was a video game

son you hours and in a moment what

are happening here have opened

entertained until they are left with only

one day there are many people in this world

with a single life well and do not achieve

enjoy life thoroughly lived by

You feel fear has somehow

diminished or paralyzed and there is little

people who manage to get ahead people

fighter because what to do in

life is finally continue playing

to win the road but I also

just as they are I’m not going to lie to you and

when the boy I had several friends

agreement had some friend obviously

but I was always afraid to cross that

thin line of friendship aa

establish a loving relationship

so it was a complicated one I think

more than anything by the fact of having

born in arms entity to be

different something negative and that when I

I would like to take that big step

Maybe a little kiss is not inviting her to

go out to an ice cream I do not know if that rejection

then so with that fear of rejection

I remember that when I was like 6 5th 6th

basic started the party in the

school

one had its shortage of rewinding a

Latin makes a down and so on a

written

we put the fabulous cadillacs

authentic decadents we ran the

furniture that does not use a lot of sun in the

living room

we ran the good ones and started talking

found between said until they arrive

the slow damn and that’s slow and

now knows as few and distribute

books and with little to michael jackson like

a zombie

I felt like almost with mannequins

because I really felt like dyn as

be stuck

what I think the closest thing to

be with women as well as well

near or sin was when we played the

dark piece in responded with some

companion in the book closet always

it was as well as the fact mine to

face my situation to face the

background my reality

time later when they were sixth

basic as the possibility of going with my

family in brazil and it was quite

challenging

first because the country was different

because culture was different and for

some way like I do not know if the woman

and man not as a body cult that

I had no better from day

that I’ve made it to the school in

American school and they imposed on a

sing it anthem of united states of

school the anthem of brazil and I have

examined lousy and when I’m like this

as in the row it began to vary the

people over here and he was the only rooster

settled across the school a corner

the first day of class

and that time will not be for nothing is

know if I think it was enough

uncomfortable after school was very

big was about 400 students

to do but as a course by level

were in this course the woman was

Voluptuous ovacionado is arranged much

fattest they always had

makeup makeup in class

more of my friend actually

I was doing jitsu and now like ramón like that

as flacuchento established as

tremendous

then I felt quite uncomfortable

like that because I feel like I felt

that I was already superior and somehow I

I wanted just like the rest of the days ago

good looking or wanted to have two brazil not

accept as I was in fact end up in

3rd and 4th of mine gave me another studying in

one in a large school per man and of

pretty weird sense

more above because there is always a

different school get a school

man of force it is said that in the end no

it ends up falling in love the teacher of

50 years be totally true I continue

looking at a little weird but it happens but

so when I was doing I said

really if it will be possible in a moment

find my princess because

circles have closed I have 31

year and it falls what circles has

shown more does not end up coming out with the

same people the weekend then

I was meeting this woman and ig

well I’m going to have to change I’m going to

have to start going to another world is going to

have to go out as what they call

the comfort zone and explore the world

it was unknown to me I do not know if

some of you have a couple in

some nightclub concert in the house of

a friend on a reel

I think this was something different and

maybe some of you know this

world that laughs and said good if you

are closing the possibilities are

closing my circumstance I will have

what to create new solutions

then I got into this application

it was always someone who enhanced the

theme of digital relationships

find a partner online

when my friend through when

we were in the university of

Duoc announced that more than three

applications that honda I ‘m not that

wave i want to meet someone really

like face to face at a party I do not know

and it was funny because inevitably

When he’s been strong for a while, I said

I would make this world will have to me

I will look for these solutions then it was

the photo that I had and that has already

finished by tencent in this photo to

champion

photo and the only thing that they fill and face

because I was not and accepting I started

I spent 29 years there and it ‘s with me

arm in the photograph and start with

different girl had enough

beautiful other not in fact the first

photos to do is win like this eche

that you could one can also handle

the high rank so good I’ll have

that lower the age range a bit but

I mean also some pretty

strange

that’s how I was establishing

conversations that I feel a bit the

scared I even got to have a

whatsapp and that we’re going out one day

before

I backed down and because in the

background I was afraid that to this

it would happen that until that

person who will lead and herat utah not

It was the same as me well internal

Like I’m getting in then

keep looking at that moment until

in a moment I arrived

find I feel my princess that

until today he lived with her but

this princess I was very much a

super entertaining relationship because no

it was only a between had was nice

also his little thing obviously imposed

but the most entertaining thing was that I was

a young man and he does not like the cold

what I did with her was to pass it

well throw the size was someone always

as well charismatic then like that

the whole relationship was advanced in the background

to speak like this as arch madness is

entertaining interesting and quite

successful and we talked enough time with

together we are talking about guasa

as close

more or less a month and when

have died talking time tell me already

I’m going to call for time we do not have to

get out

what do you think if fine lime has been

taken some the little pond to go eat

and then you do not know that this end of

week I go because I have to get together with

a friend and is another week and I

ask the same thing today the board in a wing

and aceta and I do not have to go the end of

week to the beach near vineyard of the sea

I can not Mass there and when it ‘s in

weekend

I’m getting up like the other day

Sunday through Sunday and I got a

message by whatsapp and juanro tells me

we will gather on Thursday at 8

the night in the araucano park that the

front because they are giving movies to the air

free

you go or you do not go and it was like he put on

gun to the head as well as I have to

go the bottom

I was very scared but I will not tell you

that’s not because it finally takes all this

weather

this tim dekay app by day

then whatsapp and if not step

if you really did not have an iphone and

this exhibition of getting together that is

making this application and merits value

and hess and very scary because one day

before when it was Wednesday to do was

the night of the iguana with his with his son

I have to tell you but not a topic

for me at all since I do not have

thank you and tell me that I already knew and

as who surprised how he did not know

yes

I knew it but I did not know it was so

famous because I had not accepted

never on facebook but already low as well

a whole day coming down from the world up

that gave a public publication that

said john red an example to follow that

it was an interview my talk

motivational is the subject of overcoming

personal says he started to put on youtube

it began to get in every day already

had on youtube he realized that at

final had no arm but that moment

that my son does not really care that

I did not have arms but good as I

I relieved schubert fed up and we ‘re already going to

the appointment and we met at the appointment and

preceded good connection between had

because I already had joined as the

I had already beaten him , I knew that

I had all the ability to carry

a relationship because it was entertaining

nice

we went to eat sushi and we went to the cinema

in the movies they are having a good time

favor of an Argentine film in a

moment of the movie I like everything

momentum missed us more rationally as

who grabbed my hand and the middle

movie I said I can not let go of my hand

we were already as uncomfortable about as

well we were a piece of 13 like the

position was like maybe the tiniest

tense and finished the movie and tells me

when I have to go now

of eleven o’clock at night the other day I have

that work did not go right said jacob

I did it but how do they get the worst

part of the car and I have a car adapted

he gets in the car and obviously

I had made a lawsuit because I heard you

hip hop metal that music I’m going to

train to like then he asked

a friend that made me help do

deployments then I put on chili

peppers or so music that I never

they listened to the car and then we are

spin music took her from the house and in

the time spontaneously and

First kiss and to this day I continue

with her because I finally realized

that you have to say this is mine from

that will beat bowser like in several hours

that the benefits of the big

mine if we can visualize and

we giving to realize

there is a greater benefit that fear

we will somehow

supernatural we will achieve transfer

that fear that many times are imposed

by ourselves as I told them

since I was a kid and I got that fear of

I reject people but in truth

it was never like that it was just something that

I said to myself and many times

it happens that we do not say not all

the same thing that could not achieve this I’m going to

to marry I invite him to the area a little

more optimistic to see the guide with eyes

of hope the guide positive way

because we have to always

have a look yes to get over

this mine is going there I

according to the appointment and every day already

except for the bonsu we go to the park

we go to different places and I already

I accepted it as a fact you

he asked and he gives you a little fear

be with someone who does not have an arm

you do not know that at all and when we go

hand in hand I feel super as from

that day that I took the hand has them

every day we hold hands and

well a super rich experience and so

how we manage to fall in love is already there and he

until today we live together in a

small apartment but with much more

thank you very much

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