With
imagine doing it any
hospital before maybe one in
their proximity
maybe here in würzburg do not worry
they do not have to stay there
after all, they are healthy
relatively only to visit so you want
do something good
They want their sense of responsibility
progeny
You want a nice person
visit
the patient is still one
certain aversion to hospital visits
it is uncomfortable in an oppressive
feeling
they enter a strange unreal
world
they will be tolerated but one
foreign bodies they go to fata
and ask about their relatives
the porter will explain the way to you
forget them immediately because they are
try station and room number too
to keep
they doubt if they will really find it
but go on it smells like
hospital after brightly cleaned
linoleum floors according to this typical
mixture of plaster and
disinfectants and excretions
it smells sick and she smells in the middle
long walk you see in front of you like a
Hall empty up to 1
pa entrancing visitors and pale
Patients with infusion stand and you
wonder if it is not all the time
a mistake had to come here
no matter how many pictures artist
have covered the walls
This place here is ugly, the
Personal means around her and knows
not where his head is and who
Patients lie in their beds and
Do not know how to spend the day around
can bring
her relatives are also in
any of these many chambers
weakly needy and the only one
What he can do is wait and see him
after days or weeks finally again
dismisses home
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but it is not yet time
That’s why they visit him or her
That’s why they are here
but what do you know?
they do not know anything about the condition in that
Your member in the moment
does not know what’s up to her
if you join him or her for the first time
look in the eyes and what they
say how they should behave and
they ask themselves how can the whole time
I am a good listener
it is a difficult walk
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and while she is slowly moving forward
move
Remember their former ones
Encounters with hospitals think
with aversion to pain and grief
death
I too was often in the hospital
Actually, I worked there
For 20 years as a nurse and me
know this funny feeling
Believe me though I am almost daily
It was never completely gone there
Strictly speaking, I do not know anybody
not at least a bit
When he is in a hospital, he feels uncomfortable
have to go
A couple in the middle of 40 had the daughter
a traffic accident her life gets up
the cant
strictly speaking, she is already dead though
you do everything about her again
after all, she is yes
still so young
The doctor asks the parents for a talk
and explain everything broken
and irreparable defect is and then
said that there is no chance for her
gives and leaves the parents alone
looks
nation played on my then
station I sat and although it was from
the others did not like that
you deal with the people you belong to more than
the normal measure dealt with, I went to
The two sat down and listened
for a few minutes to the woman
reproached herself for having hers
daughter drove the route alone
The man was silent and next to it
when the woman said that she was watching
This morning has a dispute with her
had daughter and the daughter then without
A word had left the house broke
she was crying and the man meant
I just sat there and held the
mourn with them and I had that
feeling that it was good
and that they are slightly lighter
market back home
maybe dreams can burst
how unimportant will world travel career be
and the eternal search for personal
freedom if something happens to you
out of the track raises perspectives
change with a punch and
to reorganize the new took time
and patience and it needs people
be patient and take your time
to take
so how should you belong to those in
The hospitals are facing the emergency
belonging must finally attention
Find
Humanity has to become modern again
and the members of the family also in the
hospitals
they are to be shown comfort
motivation and strength experienced
I wish that a new culture
dealing with people in
hospitals are emerging
empathetic with each other and
be there for each other
People should be seen and heard
become
her words her expression all her
be human
we should learn more patiently again
deal with each other and us
Give each other time
give as an analogy
and it happens through presence and
Active listening
I’m here and I’m curious about that
what you want to tell me I have
enough of it just to think about it
how to improve slightly to the
could help people and therefore
I also want to do something and therefore mine
idea the project gives a conversation partner
on stand by
I want that in the hospitals
an organization arises only for
the well-being of the relatives
is responsible and to become
Volunteers in communication and
conversation leadership trained
regularly super like the rdx then
Volunteer by the hour
to provide
to spend time in a hospital
and a green label vest too
carry
with the imprint gives a conversation partner
sitting maier in readiness
usually better and for the
to be there
to listen to the listeners and the
to accept their relatives
fear and say
and this system I imagine
similar to how the emergency chaplain eg
in accidents and that’s why it should
established in all hospitals
become
and why should people give as
Engage because everyone learns from everyone
can life be like that
lives on despite
destinies who wants to know how
life should work people
get to know the know how it works and
the
this meeting between the
Belonging and the plaster is always
be something special in life something
Doing good and accepting is something
special and everyone should have the chance
have to be able to do that too
and precisely because man is a social
Being is necessary to others
reliant
Human bonds are existential
a give and take and give
to take
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and that’s what the plaster does
want
conversation partner in readiness not
for religious reasons or out
philosophical reasons but out
humanity towards the other
will be the gypsum be because the
to be heard
to be there for you and your loneliness
interrupt and show that it
There are other people and no one in there
his sorrow must remain alone and
That’s why there must be plaster
in future in all hospitals
they give and they will be there
they will sit and wait for them
Walk around
they will go to the relatives
with a view to a smile with
small talk and deeper conversations
and so it becomes easy for those who belong to it
made real human
to have encounters
there had to be close
those are not there anymore but
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not less
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with open eyes through the world
act
the moment that counts with
open hearts to him and meet
If he shows, let him down
Sit down in community is
the nicest one is easy to win
felt words that hand you too
that is why the
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give the other a chance
one drinks his heart a shared grief
is half sorry and leadership a
not every bit of humanity
has no luck then comes a lot
attract
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