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La sexualidad de las personas adultas mayores | Patricia Kelly | TEDxUNAMAcatlán


how they are very pleased very enchanted

to be with you and very surprised

that they have taken away the rights to

old but good of that we talk to the

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thank you very much for being here and I

It gives me great pleasure that I have

invited to talk about a topic that I do

I think I do think it’s a subject

subversive because as and more was heard

more towards this side the expression of

that the old people work

I am entering the worst part of my crisis

of aging

when already some young people who were

in front of a group of old people who did

taichi all dressed in white was passed

one and yelled a little jokingly a

little seriously since I was launched we are

stealing oxygen and then I said

it can not be can not be that they look at us

in that way but good thing is that

I want to talk to you about a topic that

you probably have deleted

their lives are so entertaining and so

happy enjoying and exercising their

sexuality that they forget that their

dads have a sexual life and that their

grandparents

yes dear is the sad reality I

I know I’m disappointing you but

Daddy mommy have sexual activity though

you do not realize

even if it turns out or who knows maybe

something like that they realize not and grandparents

and grandparents is also grandma who

you see that you have there you are almost

of angel also fortunately and

we hope but good the subject of which

Let’s talk today is an issue

for me exciting because although now

I’m really stuck with the theme of

active aging

there can not be aging without

sexuality can not be aging

without rights

there can be no aging

without health then what do I do with the

active aging meet all the

hours of television radio work

whatever you have obtained to be able

talk about an exciting topic the

aging and to get into matter

and relax relaxing a bit because that

that grandpa and grandma too

well, you are invited to do

favor

11 let yourself be touched by this image that

I think it’s wonderful is an image

what I share with you and what came to me

root of one of a story that you and one of

the shortest stories I read in the

life and what else have they touched me

notice what it says and when the caterpillar

he thought that everything was finished when

He believed neared its end his is

turned into a butterfly and something similar

something similar happens with the

aging

there are so many negative ideas

half – truths so many fears many

anger is worth the expression against

aging so many fears

lies

I insist that we forget to see the side

good the wonderful side that can

have though you do not believe it the

aging to reach

aging we have to go

building old age is the story of

our life passed them the tip in case

serves are going to do the old and the

old now the correct word is van

to be older adults by

the ones that you work the one that you

builds women for example we

they get in trouble from very early

age usually says no, it is already

menopausal already supports lowered the curtain

it’s over

even the word menopause

it is an aggression they have already realized

the road to africa do not tell us

old erectile dysfunction is good yo

I have not told anyone but not but

you already old menopausal look

just arrived as a hysteric

and what happens is that with a process

as natural as menopause is

they scare us and tell us nothing

now yes the menopause is coming

give in old you compadre not not believe

they do not wither one day a doctor said

wilts and the gynecologist imagine

they wither and another that told the truth

is that 160 not then you say good that

it was done is a natural process but yes

if the women that we are here do

a little memory of the companions

men join this adventure I’m going

to talk about something else

little was not the same when the

menstruation

When menstruation arrived, careful

since the chahuistle epoch fell not you

callas a chávez le hours and with andres

every month is water because water because

you can stay now pregnant and

then one says total anger when

arrives anger when he leaves then

Being a woman is a problem because they are not

natural processes of our being

women and when menstruation goes away

they say there goes to the

menstruation closes the factory but

an amusement park opens

that ‘s another guy that I’m going to leave

this morning in the case of men

in the case of men there are less

threats and more permissions less because

they have their expression is without place to

doubts being always ready is a

very strong pressure but of that

we will speak at another moment the truth

The truth is that the sexuality of

old of the elderly

it remains a great taboo a great taboo

twentieth century and tied to what

yes we were talking with

menopause cancels the sex life of

you women believe that with the

ED life ends

Sexuality of men does know what

you said

well there is another idea too

wrong that only in adolescence

in adolescence, look at yourself

lives sexuality well there is another one that

He says

within these same myths that all

Older adults and adults

greater

we have physiological problems for

have sexual activity that we do have

sexual activity

we have to exhaustion that until we

We can ill or dying and you would

heart surgery has occupied it

flame no longer no

never again you company not then

at the slightest pretext that they cancel the

sexual life and what they have found for

to justify the last controls the

years lived their

but I’ll tell you about other

things then there is also a belief

quite absurd that is very

limiting and is supported in the great

most of the time by institutions

very strong and in which we

we believe that idea that belief that

sexuality is only for the

reproduction

as well as they see it more to produce if

you ok that caught right now for a

son

right now for a new one I’m doing

it is a visit

is that mine is going to measure an 80 because of that

I worked so hard it can not be

it can not be good and there for example

the slabs religious sectors the

religious ministers

here if I can not say ministers the

religious ministers because they are

responsible for many of these things not

no no it should not be more than for the

reproduction

it’s not that I have it, it’s already taken away but

well it does not matter it ‘s sin and long to say

the truth the truth

where the illusion is part of us is

when is it when the doctor tells you

madrecita won for non to be

complicates the mother life no sir already

It was good to give flight to the lint

I already talked yes and come in reason

social ips not when they tell you that

so you say good then what

is what happens there because

I turned 60 and this one comes from

before when the 40 do not give you work

in many places a decision already begins

I already notice the age but that’s not in

no good old age then

what is happening with

we are forgetting we are

forgetting human rights

we are forgetting sexual rights

we are forgetting sexual rights

non-reproductive

not because here we do not go

we are going to play

we are denying that we and us

the people that we have over 60

years

we have the right to be loved, I do not know if

it bothers them but I have the right to be

cherished I have the right to

privacy

I have the right to manifest my

sexual preference and orientation be

which is

I have the right to good treatment as he says

end assange

I have the right to love and be

nothing then when you tell me

no no no no no and that

no, I can not arrive between today or

project those ideas and feel guilty

every I have a thought every

I have an erotic desire

every I like this chubby I like

This chatito I like this girl I

like etcetera what each one what what

everyone seeks and what each one

what everyone likes and notice

that we have forgotten

degree that we think that only in

youth can be enjoyed because they

they sold a Chinese story she and I the

I see unleashed a thousand per hour in the

cars at parties I do not have to

see all the alcohol of the week and it’s

very well I have to try to put

that a tap is perfect but let me

tell them that after 40 and

after 60 years

life goes on and after 70

after 70 they also spend

age is not a limitation for

enjoy age is not a limitation

to be respected

age is not a limitation for me

creativity that things happen in old age

and peace

I’m not going to tell you there , nothing happens

all happy little strawberry not only if they pass

things if things happen our body will

Transforms our body transforms

our body changes and with it changes

also our sexuality there are changes

that we do not like there are changes that do not

it seems there are changes in its vast majority

painful and not just because it hurts you

the joints of the bank hurt the

back pain but because there’s there you

realize that with this body, it is not

I ended up reconciling you because you did not

liked it even when you were young you did not like it

when you were mature you do not like it before

pregnancy and after pregnancy at

two hours less this then there’s

changes that are painful because of the fact

of not accepting them and it is very difficult

because we also have to

cars to the changes of our life

sexual does not disappear that is clear

our sexual life our interest

sexual does not disappear transforms itself

they modify but it does not change they are going to

continue to feel sexual desire

erotic thoughts until the last

day they live on the planet earth

that is very important old age

I wanted to make it clear, it’s not a

disease

there’s how we’re going to cure it is not

an illness

our immune system is more

mopped and if it’s true

resists less and if it is true we are more

prone to other types of diseases

Now that winter comes it will not have

to go to vaccinate against pneumococcus

if you are not going to have to go to vaccinate against

the flu you there are also

elements that affect my sexuality

some diseases

some medications but also that

it can happen to them can happen to us in

any age is very important that

let’s review the ideas we have about the

old age to be able to enjoy our

sexuality because as a character says

of Gioconda Belli in a novel says a

phrase that seems overwhelming to me

ideas kill before the body

dies

So, if I believe that old age is going to

be horrible

I guarantee that they will arrive and go to

have a rivi access if you believe

that sexuality ends at 40 a

30 to 35 do not worry you have

more valid at 50 to 60 to 70

there may be people of 80 and 90 years old

exercising their sexuality

the elements the beauty factors

the stereotypes of beauty too

they have to do with the exercise of

our sexuality is that I do not have the

cinturita x

I do not know as if 90-60-90 were

Orgasm guarantee does not work

you need the brain you need is the skin

not measured if not measured

then that also to us we say

I no longer deserve

I feel guilty sometimes myself

jojojojo older adult and older adult

I can feel guilty because

introjected those ideas that I do not

I deserve

even what I have the idea that

we can invent a way to look at the

different old pretty old handsome

old beautiful because necessarily what

childish or juvenile can be beautiful can

Be beautiful all girl’s life

young and adult teenager and

older adult

but I’m going to pass another guy

for that which serves him in old age

we have two great allies two

wonderful allies

one is time and 2

the experience the mileage traveled

is what I mean by this that a

Throughout my whole life I have run

I’ve probably had to do many

things take care of the children to the daughters the

productive work but now I have more

time because my body tells me between

one choice and another you will take

more time

ok it’s not a misfortune it ‘s a time

much wider to enjoy for

enjoy g

then the kisses the caresses the

hugs the beautiful words begin to

take a more important place

I’m less hurry I’m slower but

I’m less hurry but then I’m going to

use my time to make meat from

a different way to the couple if it is

that I am with a partner or with myself

because autoerotism and

masturbation are not privileges of the

young adults can also

do us justice by our own

agree and when there is a couple because

father but that is a couple with whom

I got along well not a couple with the

I’m 15 years old sleeping each in

your room and do not speak to us

that’s not being a couple of your suicide

then or a couple with which yes

I can with that if I can be

is very important mean the

scenes there are heavens the scenes of old

movies do not appear in the

amorous scenes of old do not appear

in the movies but I’m sure that

from now on they will start to see it

manifest having them with others

eyes because if we change the focus

on aging

we will change the focus on our

own aging not just any

arrives

not everyone comes to an agreement well

active with dreams with motives for

continue to continue in force to continue

alive and I want to say goodbye because here

there is a clock

he says a guillotine goes down here

this one or that opens to the floor is

little red ball that’s why they told me not to

Move the red ball be that

we have what we have to do we have

when we are bigger we have to

continue with our sex education

because being old there are many changes

just as there are changes in adolescence

in sexuality during pregnancy

there are also changes when we are old

we have to learn that sexuality

in the third age is to give and receive

pleasure is to give and receive affection is

to feel good is to increase my

self-esteem is to love my little body

this body

He mentioned that he has slept with me all

nights of my life

this one has not failed us

asleep with us

absolutely all the time and the

final message as a summary of this

quick exposure is to remember that

old age and old age and eroticism

sex life

you build it at this time

have already 18

of 25 26 years building what’s going to

make your old age and your sexuality

Believe me, it’s worth experimenting

what I wish a lot of luck

thank you

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