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Gestionar con C.A.R.I.S.M.A., el nuevo liderazgo posotivo | Sergio Talavera | TEDxUNAMAcatlán


how are you doing good afternoon

how they do well thank you very much for the

invitation and for the opportunity to

be this day here and now to

consciousness is part of what we are going to

talk about how to generate human processes

increasingly conscious

I love being in an event of this

type because I’m sure that the

only way to generate a very good

idea is to produce a lot of

ideas among more ideas we can produce

there will be some that resonate there will be some

that detonates and there will be one that in the

share find that echo and that

possibility of making the day a reality

today we are going to talk about

how to generate a very good idea that

it will be the idea is product produce yy

provoke in their fields and in their

personal and professional experiences

from an approach that’s what

that I intend this day to do simply

an approach and there it comes and always

I like to start making a

reflection of the damage that we are

doing to our world today

our world is deeply

polluted and I’m not talking to you about

No water pollution or garbage

nor of the air that of course they are

transcendental and that are very

important

it’s a pollution that sometimes

it could be a little more imperceptible or

subtle but it’s more devastating and it ‘s a

energy pollution our world

It is energetically polluted

what frustration

today the worst pollution that

we can generate our environment is

just this pollution

energy of frustration and all the

simple data that tell us about this

the first one a year ago the organization

gallup makes an evaluation

an evaluation a very serious study in

more than 185 countries with a sample of

25 million people

it’s about seeing how many people were

happy how many people were happy

how many people were satisfied in their

everyday work experience

in their daily life

only 15% and the other 85 per

hundred lived a situation of

frustration

last year there were about 600 thousand

homicides in the world

it sounds a brutal barbarian amount but

What worries me the most is that the

number of suicides doubles the

number of homicides 1,200,000 we are

energetically polluting our

world and part of that we are responsible

the leaders

There are those who say that today we have the best

talent of all time but the

worst leaders of all time and

is that as are the processes of

designation of leadership many

sometimes it turns out that one makes one very

well your work technically speaking

and then how are you very good at that

what do you do next?

It corresponds lead is to manage direct

and sometimes without more experience

simply because maybe we do well

our work since I remember

had the opportunity to be in front

from different organizations to both

professional level like a little bit before

but then very well that when I fulfilled

thirty years they gave me a mission to

it was an offer to direct a

Organization 150 people 150 employees

collaborators and approximately one thousand

consistent users and one of the

first questions he tells me is because

me and why here

and he knows how to do it he can not do it

I was very confident because good

how many times I have not done it before

I did not but I did not stop to

consider conscientiously

if he was truly ready to

prosecute the will of the people and

when we face this kind of

things suddenly the panorama seems

black appears dark black and is then

that we look for through other things

other ideas from a new perspective or

of another energy something that helps us

explain how we can do better

things especially when we are talking

of human talent how to do it for

order chaos and focus on that that

is positive and generate a better

leadership experience for us and

for the people who are at our

around and that depends on us to

that’s the models mainly the

management models for that are for

order that chaos and prosecute them or

concentrate on what is

truly positive at that

let me share something there are no recipes

unique

there are no infallible recipes there is no

only thing that works because there is no

accuracy in these things the only thing that

there are approaches but that is the

value of the management models that

are approaches are possibilities are

light in the tunnel and one of the questions

that you tell me about this contamination

energy of frustration how

make the leaders to strengthen us

through a model that helps us

simple way to raise the condition

human because it is a responsibility of

all of us in what we are

doing where we are raising the

human condition

and that’s where this is exactly

theme of karim

some of you will say to see to see

see how you are talking about something that is

very serious sergio this pollution

energy and goods, although charisma

because it’s about real charisma falls

and I would say yes but one

different perspective because what

first thing that comes to your mind when

you listen to the concept of charisma

normally something that is related to

sympathy successfully with persuasion with

someone who is very nice to us

Sometimes he even laughs at the sheikh person

more charismatic

however, today I am going to

ask that we forget let’s leave aside the

traditional meaning of the charism and all

this connotation and that foresee me

allow to share with you something that is

different and the first thing I want

to share is that in reality the charism

is a resource is a resource is a

personal resource is a team resource

and it’s also an organizational resource

therefore there are charismatic people

charismatic leaders teams

charismatic and evidently companies and

charismatic organizations that

they use this charisma as their resource

therefore it can multiply

but it could also be inhibited and this

Charisma has to do much more with

awareness affirmation inspiration

change transformation contribution to

world that with just being nice

or friendly

there are some myths about the charism the

stronger that is something innate that is

related to the extroversion that

it has to do with physical attractiveness or

that was only given to people who

is very sympathetic or extroverted are

myths serious studies published

recently by the American sanctifies

main for example by the harvard business

review

they tell us not that in fact the

Charisma is a set

of skills if it’s a set of

skills then you can

develop and you can multiply it is

something that is lived in the experience in the

relationship of otherness with the other is a

personal resource

of course these resource and it can be

your resource and your resource and its resource and

your resource but it is also a resource

of team and organizational and the most

important is that you can develop

if we do it consciously and in that

sense to make this charism our

personal seal

when we are right in front of

a group of people who trust

we can lead them to a better

experience

this management model and leadership to

which is called ocáriz management because

is a management model based on the

charisma as the main resource that has

for objective to raise the human condition

and that I was able to share in my management

front of organizations but also

Today I am dedicated to consulting and

advice on human processes and repudiation

share with many clients here in

Mexico and outside of Mexico has seven

basic principles seven things that

we have to remember when we are

precisely in that process of management and

leadership

the first the leadership has to be

conscious has to be assertive

reciprocal has to be inclusive with

social intelligence mentality

abundance and learning

those are the seven elements of this

charisma

let’s quickly review each of

they the first be aware be

present is to know at all times that

everything that you think all that

what it says is everything you feel

everything you do has

necessarily an impact within you and

out of you or jean and be aware

today it is a challenge because the environment

social and social conditions not

without

and so just not to be aware already

that we turn off our radar of the

consciousness and act in pilot

automatic and so we go through the

lifetime

this consciousness is what is going to

allow just understand and define

where we want to go

and if we have arrived but all this as

a result of what we

we decided to do every day for that

the conscience at the front door of

all this model of managemente before

than any other aspect

the first thing we have to develop

in consciousness awareness around

About us about how we

we relate and how we participate in

a whole environment a whole system

the second element of this charism in

assertiveness assertiveness as a

communication way

this respectful way of expressing what

one thinks what one wants what

you feel respecting your rights

personal and the rights of others

and there is a question here that is

fundamental always of believed the

quality of your communication defines the

quality of your relationships

if you think about all your relationships in

your personal relationships in your

friendship relations

if you are working on your relationships

professionals in their relationships

couple the quality of your relationship is

defined and determined by the quality of

your communication and it turns out that the

quality of your relationships

define your quality of life therefore

Your communication defines your quality

life to be assertive is to affirm is

to recognize is to communicate in a way that

respects your personal rights and

obviously the rights of others

third element of the charism the

reciprocity give this network also

willing to receive

first bar and be grateful with each

thing that you receive to take care of those

small details because it is also in

this reciprocity where it is entrenched

true social responsibility and

above all the concept of solidarity

which is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful

between humans

fourth element of the charism the inclusion

inclusion is not the same as

integration and inclusion and implies

understand that the different is complemented

and the complementary enrich

if you have the opportunity to relate to

work to collaborate with someone who sees

life totally different from you not

exclude incorporating it because it’s there

where is the real

complementarity and fifth synergy

element

social intelligence this intelligence

that allows us to enter into collaboration

with others in connecting with people and

influence with people for many this

is the essence of leadership is to build

relationships that are nutritious in a

environment that we sometimes build

relationships that are toxic and that has

what to do with reading the context in

the one that we are

it has to do with learning to collaborate

generate these relationships to provoke in

our teams identity and sense of

sixth belonging the mentality of

abundance or generosity the mentality

of abundance somehow it

opposes the scarcity mentality to

Sometimes we have mentality is that you do

this is cassez mentalities

the shortage mentality that says do not

you can spend more time you can not

put attention you can not trust

because it’s over it’s over

you think that one of them was going to arrive

before the other one turns out that none of

the two of you arrived at the end of the day because

the abundance mentality what it says

is generous and generous with that with your

time with your trust with your resources

with recognition with attention

that I can lend to others and this

generates a cascading effect like the

effect that a candle generates when

turn on many more

a candle lit here that I did not feel

no other candle is consumed the same as

if he passes the fire to all the others

candles why because when I understand

that when I share what I do is

multiply exponentially

then he enjoyed that generosity

there is a city with which which

he visited a lot for questions

Medellin professionals in Colombia

and there’s something that calls me a lot

attention and for me it is a matter

abundance mentality culture

It turns out that I noticed that it was going to be

a car

Today you are walking down the street and

approached someone to give you a flyer

Cesc that makes all the people receive it

all the people went with the nursery up

of your car you lower it to take the steering wheel

that you hear how weird these guys are so

other than what we do

they will give us something and what

first thing we do is raise the glass or

remove the hand while worldwide and run away

because everyone does the same thing because they take

the flyers and they say ah

because it’s the way I help him

to which your work ends faster

that’s mentality of abundance in those

simple

the last element is learning

continuous or learning to learn to

know that all the time we can be

learning from everyone and everyone and so

this model of charisma is built

Chile

of course that also

the anti-model and what is the

anti-model and I want you to try to go

thinking to see if by chance you know

someone with the following

features someone who instead of

to be conscious is unconscious instead

of being assertive disqualifier instead

of being reciprocal unilateral instead of

inclusive being exclusive instead of

be smart social socially awkward

instead of being generous he is greedy and

instead of learning arrogant times

there is someone like that

yes, unfortunately, yes, there is

I tell you something we are not going to stay in the

antimodel better let’s focus on the

model how we do it to develop

this charismatic capital the affection and

the natural charisma that is the model what

What he proposes is to work with leaders

teams and companies in such a way that

there may be charismatic leaders

charismatic teams and companies

charismatic charismatic leaders

what they do is provide vision

charismatic culture teams and the

charismatic equipment and companies

charismatic a whole environment or a

ecosystem of happiness and that’s how

this modern 7 is built

descriptors around writers

specific or a profile of this leader

charismatic that can bring vision

empowering your people then a team

charismatic also with writers

very specific behavior and

attitude toward the team and finally the

last circle that is the whole company

and I can guarantee that that generates a

approach to elevating the human condition in

a world that today needs that

let’s stop polluting it with frustration

how we do for this is the first thing

is to want and to believe is to have the intention

second to form us because as they are

skills must be developed

third you have to practice all the

days and finally viralize what shares

earl or take it to everyone who

you can only carry in other words

you have to want to know power and communicate

I know this kind of projects

companies sometimes sound idealistic to

sometimes they sound Utopian or sometimes

our environments may seem like

impossible but it’s clear to me

something you work on the human being

you arm the human being your forms to

human being and the world is rebuilt

and that is a beautiful task in the

which we can all participate in

more intense interesting moments or

complexes of my life there was a proverb

that has always accompanied me and the day

today I want to share

I am sure that each and every one of

you have a lot of

ideas that can make this place a

world better and I would invite you to us

we ask these same questions if not

It’s me

then who if it is not now then

when and if not for others

so why does it exist if it’s not me?

then who if it is not now then

when and if not for others

So why is there the only

way to generate a great idea is

produce many many ideas but

the best way to do it is when you

shares

when there is a possibility to exchange

and to give them free

with the heart and with the hope of

that we can all generate from this

world a much much better world and a lot

more Felix

thank you very much to all

me

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