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Inspire with love, fight with inner-inner-strength | Jemyma Betrian | TEDxCuracao


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[Applause] so good night I’m 40 years old

so good night I’m 40 years old

so good night I’m 40 years old for the first time in my life I stepped

for the first time in my life I stepped

for the first time in my life I stepped into a gym

into a gym

into a gym it was an old antigen they even had the

it was an old antigen they even had the

it was an old antigen they even had the boy punching bag and it smells like old

boy punching bag and it smells like old

boy punching bag and it smells like old socks there was only one girl and maybe

socks there was only one girl and maybe

socks there was only one girl and maybe ten other guys training and making a lot

ten other guys training and making a lot

ten other guys training and making a lot of noise like I was too afraid to join I

of noise like I was too afraid to join I

of noise like I was too afraid to join I just take a look the second time I was

just take a look the second time I was

just take a look the second time I was like I’m gonna do the same I just take a

like I’m gonna do the same I just take a

like I’m gonna do the same I just take a look I don’t watch exactly what they

look I don’t watch exactly what they

look I don’t watch exactly what they were doing to try to understand what

were doing to try to understand what

were doing to try to understand what they are doing the third time when I

they are doing the third time when I

they are doing the third time when I came there I say I’m ready

came there I say I’m ready

came there I say I’m ready I gotta join during the training I was

I gotta join during the training I was

I gotta join during the training I was training and I had to smell my face

training and I had to smell my face

training and I had to smell my face because I was like wow I’m doing

because I was like wow I’m doing

because I was like wow I’m doing something that I really love to do and I

something that I really love to do and I

something that I really love to do and I could give all my energy because I have

could give all my energy because I have

could give all my energy because I have too much energy the trainer came to me

too much energy the trainer came to me

too much energy the trainer came to me and asked me did she done this before

and asked me did she done this before

and asked me did she done this before and I told him yes but it was nothing a

and I told him yes but it was nothing a

and I told him yes but it was nothing a gym you should know my parents divorce

gym you should know my parents divorce

gym you should know my parents divorce when I was nine years old and I had a

when I was nine years old and I had a

when I was nine years old and I had a lot of street fight going on the beer

lot of street fight going on the beer

lot of street fight going on the beer after that the trainer told me you have

after that the trainer told me you have

after that the trainer told me you have a lot of talent and if you keep training

a lot of talent and if you keep training

a lot of talent and if you keep training like this you will be a great pro

like this you will be a great pro

like this you will be a great pro fighter and I saved that directly great

fighter and I saved that directly great

fighter and I saved that directly great profiler there this one I want to be the

profiler there this one I want to be the

profiler there this one I want to be the second training the guys really kicked

second training the guys really kicked

second training the guys really kicked my butt and after the training and look

my butt and after the training and look

my butt and after the training and look at them and I told him guys I see you in

at them and I told him guys I see you in

at them and I told him guys I see you in two days and they look at me with the

two days and they look at me with the

two days and they look at me with the surprised face and was I thinking she

surprised face and was I thinking she

surprised face and was I thinking she really coming back when I came home with

really coming back when I came home with

really coming back when I came home with my legs full bruising and with the black

my legs full bruising and with the black

my legs full bruising and with the black my mom asked me Shamima do you really

my mom asked me Shamima do you really

my mom asked me Shamima do you really want to continue what have you done and

want to continue what have you done and

want to continue what have you done and say mom I really want to continue and I

say mom I really want to continue and I

say mom I really want to continue and I like this and they are making me

like this and they are making me

like this and they are making me stronger if they are thinking different

stronger if they are thinking different

stronger if they are thinking different about it even they are thinking they are

about it even they are thinking they are

about it even they are thinking they are bidding me up

bidding me up

bidding me up they are making me strong and they are

they are making me strong and they are

they are making me strong and they are making me better and what I learned from

making me better and what I learned from

making me better and what I learned from the first training was like to never

the first training was like to never

the first training was like to never give up on your dream and to keep going

give up on your dream and to keep going

give up on your dream and to keep going forward let’s go forward in time I’m 19

forward let’s go forward in time I’m 19

forward let’s go forward in time I’m 19 years old I’m travelling to America to

years old I’m travelling to America to

years old I’m travelling to America to Las Vegas for a world title fight and my

Las Vegas for a world title fight and my

Las Vegas for a world title fight and my dream was to become the best fighter of

dream was to become the best fighter of

dream was to become the best fighter of the world and I make that happen with my

the world and I make that happen with my

the world and I make that happen with my 19 years old I want the world title in

19 years old I want the world title in

19 years old I want the world title in Las Vegas after that I decide to step

Las Vegas after that I decide to step

Las Vegas after that I decide to step over to MMA I step over to MMA there’s

over to MMA I step over to MMA there’s

over to MMA I step over to MMA there’s some mixed martial arts that is stand up

some mixed martial arts that is stand up

some mixed martial arts that is stand up fighting and on the ground but I had to

fighting and on the ground but I had to

fighting and on the ground but I had to learn a lot now because I did nine years

learn a lot now because I did nine years

learn a lot now because I did nine years kickboxing that was only standing up I

kickboxing that was only standing up I

kickboxing that was only standing up I had to learn grappling jiu-jitsu and

had to learn grappling jiu-jitsu and

had to learn grappling jiu-jitsu and wrestling and the trainer told me that I

wrestling and the trainer told me that I

wrestling and the trainer told me that I have to change my training schedule and

have to change my training schedule and

have to change my training schedule and I did that because I wanted to learn I

I did that because I wanted to learn I

I did that because I wanted to learn I wanted to learn and new things but after

wanted to learn and new things but after

wanted to learn and new things but after a few months I started to feel very bad

a few months I started to feel very bad

a few months I started to feel very bad and sad because I couldn’t control

and sad because I couldn’t control

and sad because I couldn’t control myself anymore

myself anymore

myself anymore my my life was in somebody else hands

my my life was in somebody else hands

my my life was in somebody else hands and I couldn’t talk for myself but after

and I couldn’t talk for myself but after

and I couldn’t talk for myself but after that I was like hey my man don’t give up

that I was like hey my man don’t give up

that I was like hey my man don’t give up come up for yourself and talk for

come up for yourself and talk for

come up for yourself and talk for yourself and I told the trainer you know

yourself and I told the trainer you know

yourself and I told the trainer you know what it is I did this already for nine

what it is I did this already for nine

what it is I did this already for nine years and the things have to change

years and the things have to change

years and the things have to change you’re gonna listen to me and I gonna

you’re gonna listen to me and I gonna

you’re gonna listen to me and I gonna listen to you and together we will be a

listen to you and together we will be a

listen to you and together we will be a strong team but there was always a

strong team but there was always a

strong team but there was always a but but if you do this you will be the

but but if you do this you will be the

but but if you do this you will be the greatest fighter but if you do this you

greatest fighter but if you do this you

greatest fighter but if you do this you will be awesome and I came with my but

will be awesome and I came with my but

will be awesome and I came with my but also because I tell them but I always do

also because I tell them but I always do

also because I tell them but I always do what I love to do and that is the most

what I love to do and that is the most

what I love to do and that is the most important thing for me that I can do

important thing for me that I can do

important thing for me that I can do something that I love to do after that

something that I love to do after that

something that I love to do after that it was still but but but and they are

it was still but but but and they are

it was still but but but and they are using the big word in America I think

using the big word in America I think

using the big word in America I think you guys already know what they are

you guys already know what they are

you guys already know what they are using no it was money but if you do this

using no it was money but if you do this

using no it was money but if you do this you can make a lot of money and I always

you can make a lot of money and I always

you can make a lot of money and I always told my mother money is not the most

told my mother money is not the most

told my mother money is not the most important thing because I did kickboxing

important thing because I did kickboxing

important thing because I did kickboxing for nine years and I didn’t make a lot

for nine years and I didn’t make a lot

for nine years and I didn’t make a lot of money with it but I keep going why

of money with it but I keep going why

of money with it but I keep going why because I loved it and I liked it and I

because I loved it and I liked it and I

because I loved it and I liked it and I could be a role model and that was the

could be a role model and that was the

could be a role model and that was the most important thing for me not to be

most important thing for me not to be

most important thing for me not to be sad not to do a training just because I

sad not to do a training just because I

sad not to do a training just because I know I can make a lot of money after no

know I can make a lot of money after no

know I can make a lot of money after no I want to enjoy the sport I that I am

I want to enjoy the sport I that I am

I want to enjoy the sport I that I am doing the two lessons that I learned in

doing the two lessons that I learned in

doing the two lessons that I learned in America is never focus on the money do

America is never focus on the money do

America is never focus on the money do something that makes you happy and if

something that makes you happy and if

something that makes you happy and if you are able to live in it I’m blessed

you are able to live in it I’m blessed

you are able to live in it I’m blessed the second one is to focus on your mind

the second one is to focus on your mind

the second one is to focus on your mind and your body because that is what you

and your body because that is what you

and your body because that is what you need to keep going forward that were the

need to keep going forward that were the

need to keep going forward that were the two most important lessons that I

two most important lessons that I

two most important lessons that I learned but I learned a lot more let’s

learned but I learned a lot more let’s

learned but I learned a lot more let’s go to now 25 years old five-time world

go to now 25 years old five-time world

go to now 25 years old five-time world champion and they are calling me the

champion and they are calling me the

champion and they are calling me the water girl

they asked me to come and join a basic

they asked me to come and join a basic day show this a Dutch show in Holland

day show this a Dutch show in Holland

day show this a Dutch show in Holland they are making little children’s the

they are making little children’s the

they are making little children’s the dream come true and they asked me if I

dream come true and they asked me if I

dream come true and they asked me if I want to join it say yes of course when a

want to join it say yes of course when a

want to join it say yes of course when a little girl from 10 year her biggest

little girl from 10 year her biggest

little girl from 10 year her biggest dream was to meet me that I could teach

dream was to meet me that I could teach

dream was to meet me that I could teach her the favorite hi cake and I was like

her the favorite hi cake and I was like

her the favorite hi cake and I was like yes that is what I want to do the fight

yes that is what I want to do the fight

yes that is what I want to do the fight never stopped after after their after a

never stopped after after their after a

never stopped after after their after a ring it keep going but now I can help

ring it keep going but now I can help

ring it keep going but now I can help other and that is what I want to do feel

other and that is what I want to do feel

other and that is what I want to do feel it is and before I told my mom mom I

it is and before I told my mom mom I

it is and before I told my mom mom I want to be a role model and I gonna be a

want to be a role model and I gonna be a

want to be a role model and I gonna be a role model but what I have to do is to

role model but what I have to do is to

role model but what I have to do is to make my name to be a champion to work

make my name to be a champion to work

make my name to be a champion to work hard for it

hard for it

hard for it to sweat for it to cry for it and I did

to sweat for it to cry for it and I did

to sweat for it to cry for it and I did that and now I can be a role model like

that and now I can be a role model like

that and now I can be a role model like you guys know I born here on this

you guys know I born here on this

you guys know I born here on this beautiful island of Curacao I raised up

beautiful island of Curacao I raised up

beautiful island of Curacao I raised up in Holland but to every match

in Holland but to every match

in Holland but to every match I’m taking my curse off leg with me why

I’m taking my curse off leg with me why

I’m taking my curse off leg with me why because I’m very proud where I come from

that is I’m very proud where I come from

that is I’m very proud where I come from thank you my biggest goal right now is

thank you my biggest goal right now is

thank you my biggest goal right now is to come back to Curacao and to build a

to come back to Curacao and to build a

to come back to Curacao and to build a big gym right here and to become a

big gym right here and to become a

big gym right here and to become a teacher for the children’s and to teach

teacher for the children’s and to teach

teacher for the children’s and to teach them what I have been learned before and

them what I have been learned before and

them what I have been learned before and the lessons that I share which unite

the lessons that I share which unite

the lessons that I share which unite together until they denied it you guys

together until they denied it you guys

together until they denied it you guys thank you very much I love y’all

thank you very much I love y’all

thank you very much I love y’all [Applause]

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