what is your purpose so I got a great question from one of my youtube viewers
question from one of my youtube viewers
question from one of my youtube viewers love you guys ruff foul who wrote in to
love you guys ruff foul who wrote in to
love you guys ruff foul who wrote in to say Evan tell me what is your major
say Evan tell me what is your major
say Evan tell me what is your major dream all like purpose i have a problem
dream all like purpose i have a problem
dream all like purpose i have a problem because i choose a path and i’m walking
because i choose a path and i’m walking
because i choose a path and i’m walking this path and after one week two weeks i
this path and after one week two weeks i
this path and after one week two weeks i wonder if it’s my way my pack my real
wonder if it’s my way my pack my real
wonder if it’s my way my pack my real dream and after that wondering i have a
dream and after that wondering i have a
dream and after that wondering i have a really bad mood for a few days if life
really bad mood for a few days if life
really bad mood for a few days if life has sense without your mission it’s
has sense without your mission it’s
has sense without your mission it’s really hard because i’m still drifting
really hard because i’m still drifting
really hard because i’m still drifting and i don’t know where to swim I’m 28
and i don’t know where to swim I’m 28
and i don’t know where to swim I’m 28 please help sorry for my English rough
please help sorry for my English rough
please help sorry for my English rough out this is a great question a really
out this is a great question a really
out this is a great question a really important one and I really feel for you
important one and I really feel for you
important one and I really feel for you without i remember when i sold my first
without i remember when i sold my first
without i remember when i sold my first software company i was in a similar
software company i was in a similar
software company i was in a similar situation where I didn’t know what I
situation where I didn’t know what I
situation where I didn’t know what I wanted to do next I felt like I put all
wanted to do next I felt like I put all
wanted to do next I felt like I put all this energy into this company and now it
this energy into this company and now it
this energy into this company and now it was gone and I didn’t know what I wanted
was gone and I didn’t know what I wanted
was gone and I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life and I kept a journal
to do with my life and I kept a journal
to do with my life and I kept a journal and I started keeping track of the
and I started keeping track of the
and I started keeping track of the things that I enjoyed in my life and I
things that I enjoyed in my life and I
things that I enjoyed in my life and I and I hope that somehow those things
and I hope that somehow those things
and I hope that somehow those things would connect somewhere for me to find
would connect somewhere for me to find
would connect somewhere for me to find my purpose and do something even bigger
my purpose and do something even bigger
my purpose and do something even bigger and greater the thing I discovered is
and greater the thing I discovered is
and greater the thing I discovered is you can’t force out your purpose and and
you can’t force out your purpose and and
you can’t force out your purpose and and this sounds like what you’re doing right
this sounds like what you’re doing right
this sounds like what you’re doing right you’re trying to force it you’re trying
you’re trying to force it you’re trying
you’re trying to force it you’re trying to do something like okay this is what
to do something like okay this is what
to do something like okay this is what I’m going to do and then you put so much
I’m going to do and then you put so much
I’m going to do and then you put so much pressure on it to work out and then a
pressure on it to work out and then a
pressure on it to work out and then a dozen than a week or two goes by the guy
dozen than a week or two goes by the guy
dozen than a week or two goes by the guy that’s not what I want to do and then
that’s not what I want to do and then
that’s not what I want to do and then you’re depressed and you launch on this
you’re depressed and you launch on this
you’re depressed and you launch on this something I so this is my purpose and
something I so this is my purpose and
something I so this is my purpose and you start that and you put so much
you start that and you put so much
you start that and you put so much pressure on it being the thing and then
pressure on it being the thing and then
pressure on it being the thing and then that doesn’t work out and you fall back
that doesn’t work out and you fall back
that doesn’t work out and you fall back and you say the depression what you need
and you say the depression what you need
and you say the depression what you need to understand is that if you don’t know
to understand is that if you don’t know
to understand is that if you don’t know what your purpose is yet you have to go
what your purpose is yet you have to go
what your purpose is yet you have to go on a journey of discovery this is
on a journey of discovery this is
on a journey of discovery this is something everybody has to go through
something everybody has to go through
something everybody has to go through it’s funny because most people most
it’s funny because most people most
it’s funny because most people most people they live their lives like this
people they live their lives like this
people they live their lives like this right average boring they don’t have
right average boring they don’t have
right average boring they don’t have they don’t know what their purpose is
they don’t know what their purpose is
they don’t know what their purpose is they don’t even think about what their
they don’t even think about what their
they don’t even think about what their purpose is they just they go to work
purpose is they just they go to work
purpose is they just they go to work they wake up you know they probably hit
they wake up you know they probably hit
they wake up you know they probably hit their job delivering for the evenings
their job delivering for the evenings
their job delivering for the evenings and weekend
and weekend
and weekend and they love their family that’s most
and they love their family that’s most
and they love their family that’s most people in their life right they don’t
people in their life right they don’t
people in their life right they don’t strive for anything major they don’t
strive for anything major they don’t
strive for anything major they don’t have major dreams for themselves but if
have major dreams for themselves but if
have major dreams for themselves but if they do they don’t feel like it’s
they do they don’t feel like it’s
they do they don’t feel like it’s possible so just live in this flat line
possible so just live in this flat line
possible so just live in this flat line then when people discover that hey I
then when people discover that hey I
then when people discover that hey I want to live a purposeful life I want to
want to live a purposeful life I want to
want to live a purposeful life I want to do something important I want my life to
do something important I want my life to
do something important I want my life to have meaning I want it to mean something
have meaning I want it to mean something
have meaning I want it to mean something when I die that I lived here I had an
when I die that I lived here I had an
when I die that I lived here I had an impact on this world whether it’s from
impact on this world whether it’s from
impact on this world whether it’s from you know meeting a friend with from
you know meeting a friend with from
you know meeting a friend with from watching the video reading a book
watching the video reading a book
watching the video reading a book something sparks that changing unit says
something sparks that changing unit says
something sparks that changing unit says I want my life to have meaning but you
I want my life to have meaning but you
I want my life to have meaning but you don’t know what that meaning is yet and
don’t know what that meaning is yet and
don’t know what that meaning is yet and so you realize this you live in this
so you realize this you live in this
so you realize this you live in this normal life and then you sink now you’re
normal life and then you sink now you’re
normal life and then you sink now you’re now you’re depressed because you don’t
now you’re depressed because you don’t
now you’re depressed because you don’t like your life you want you like to have
like your life you want you like to have
like your life you want you like to have meaning you see these people living
meaning you see these people living
meaning you see these people living meaningful lives and then you realize
meaningful lives and then you realize
meaningful lives and then you realize I’m not there yet and this is a really
I’m not there yet and this is a really
I’m not there yet and this is a really important part when you’ve gone through
important part when you’ve gone through
important part when you’ve gone through that dip this is really crucial because
that dip this is really crucial because
that dip this is really crucial because you can either stay there just churning
you can either stay there just churning
you can either stay there just churning churning churning churning going through
churning churning churning going through
churning churning churning going through idea after idea after i did nothing
idea after idea after i did nothing
idea after idea after i did nothing working out or you can climb through
working out or you can climb through
working out or you can climb through that and end up way up here we are
that and end up way up here we are
that and end up way up here we are living your purpose we are having an
living your purpose we are having an
living your purpose we are having an impact where you have a meaningful life
impact where you have a meaningful life
impact where you have a meaningful life it’s so counterintuitive and it’s so
it’s so counterintuitive and it’s so
it’s so counterintuitive and it’s so tough because when you want something
tough because when you want something
tough because when you want something badly you tend to focus everything on
badly you tend to focus everything on
badly you tend to focus everything on that and you can’t force love it’s like
that and you can’t force love it’s like
that and you can’t force love it’s like you’re meeting a girl for the first time
you’re meeting a girl for the first time
you’re meeting a girl for the first time and you want her to marry you that’s not
and you want her to marry you that’s not
and you want her to marry you that’s not how it works the same thing applies to
how it works the same thing applies to
how it works the same thing applies to finding your life’s purpose what you’re
finding your life’s purpose what you’re
finding your life’s purpose what you’re meant to do here you need to try a bunch
meant to do here you need to try a bunch
meant to do here you need to try a bunch of different things if you have no idea
of different things if you have no idea
of different things if you have no idea what it is you need to just try a whole
what it is you need to just try a whole
what it is you need to just try a whole bunch of different things and not put so
bunch of different things and not put so
bunch of different things and not put so much pressure on yourself for this thing
much pressure on yourself for this thing
much pressure on yourself for this thing to be the one when i sold my software
to be the one when i sold my software
to be the one when i sold my software company i did a bunch of different
company i did a bunch of different
company i did a bunch of different things I hooked up with a venture
things I hooked up with a venture
things I hooked up with a venture capital company I was helping raise
capital company I was helping raise
capital company I was helping raise funds for entrepreneurs I was helping
funds for entrepreneurs I was helping
funds for entrepreneurs I was helping some friends of mine who had businesses
some friends of mine who had businesses
some friends of mine who had businesses I thought about starting my own company
I thought about starting my own company
I thought about starting my own company up again I but honest I didn’t know what
up again I but honest I didn’t know what
up again I but honest I didn’t know what I wanted to do but I said yes to a lot
I wanted to do but I said yes to a lot
I wanted to do but I said yes to a lot of opportunities just to see where it
of opportunities just to see where it
of opportunities just to see where it went and if I would go I would try it if
went and if I would go I would try it if
went and if I would go I would try it if i liked it i would keep going if I
i liked it i would keep going if I
i liked it i would keep going if I didn’t then I would stop the big change
didn’t then I would stop the big change
didn’t then I would stop the big change for me came when the ymca asked me to
for me came when the ymca asked me to
for me came when the ymca asked me to come and deliver a presentation to help
come and deliver a presentation to help
come and deliver a presentation to help their entrepreneurs they had a group of
their entrepreneurs they had a group of
their entrepreneurs they had a group of entrepreneurs who were graduating their
entrepreneurs who were graduating their
entrepreneurs who were graduating their program and they wanted me to come and
program and they wanted me to come and
program and they wanted me to come and speak to them and share my story and for
speak to them and share my story and for
speak to them and share my story and for me at that time it was just another just
me at that time it was just another just
me at that time it was just another just another thing to do sure why not come
another thing to do sure why not come
another thing to do sure why not come I’ll try that why not help help
I’ll try that why not help help
I’ll try that why not help help entrepreneurs sure let’s do it and even
entrepreneurs sure let’s do it and even
entrepreneurs sure let’s do it and even though only three people show up to that
though only three people show up to that
though only three people show up to that event and by you know every rational
event and by you know every rational
event and by you know every rational reasonable marking it was a total
reasonable marking it was a total
reasonable marking it was a total failure I felt something inside me that
failure I felt something inside me that
failure I felt something inside me that said I need to keep going I need to find
said I need to keep going I need to find
said I need to keep going I need to find ways to do this I had no idea if I’d
ways to do this I had no idea if I’d
ways to do this I had no idea if I’d ever make money doing this I had no idea
ever make money doing this I had no idea
ever make money doing this I had no idea why I love doing this but I knew that I
why I love doing this but I knew that I
why I love doing this but I knew that I had to find the way to keep going
had to find the way to keep going
had to find the way to keep going because of all the things that I had
because of all the things that I had
because of all the things that I had tried this one spoke to me and I had to
tried this one spoke to me and I had to
tried this one spoke to me and I had to find a way to keep going and I’ve built
find a way to keep going and I’ve built
find a way to keep going and I’ve built that up so you need to find your ymc
that up so you need to find your ymc
that up so you need to find your ymc moment and it’s going to come from
moment and it’s going to come from
moment and it’s going to come from explain so say yes to things try things
explain so say yes to things try things
explain so say yes to things try things help people out try a new skill try
help people out try a new skill try
help people out try a new skill try different things until you fall in love
different things until you fall in love
different things until you fall in love with something and when you fall in love
with something and when you fall in love
with something and when you fall in love then keep going and that will take you
then keep going and that will take you
then keep going and that will take you on your journey to find in your purpose
on your journey to find in your purpose
on your journey to find in your purpose and live in a meaningful life because if
and live in a meaningful life because if
and live in a meaningful life because if you put all that pressure on yourself
you put all that pressure on yourself
you put all that pressure on yourself it’s not going to work out and you just
it’s not going to work out and you just
it’s not going to work out and you just going to toil down in here run an idea
going to toil down in here run an idea
going to toil down in here run an idea after idea of the idea I’m never
after idea of the idea I’m never
after idea of the idea I’m never breaking through I badly want this for
breaking through I badly want this for
breaking through I badly want this for you because it’s so painful living down
you because it’s so painful living down
you because it’s so painful living down there when you realize you don’t have a
there when you realize you don’t have a
there when you realize you don’t have a purposeful life but it’s totally worth
purposeful life but it’s totally worth
purposeful life but it’s totally worth it when you figure it out it’s totally
it when you figure it out it’s totally
it when you figure it out it’s totally worth it believe those you watch like
worth it believe those you watch like
worth it believe those you watch like the video thumbs up below leave a
the video thumbs up below leave a
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comment let me know how you found your
comment let me know how you found your purpose how you found meaning in your
purpose how you found meaning in your
purpose how you found meaning in your life I’d love to hear from you leave it
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