how to get over your fears I got a great question i came in on youtube one of my
question i came in on youtube one of my
question i came in on youtube one of my loyal viewers who wrote in to say that
loyal viewers who wrote in to say that
loyal viewers who wrote in to say that she’s afraid she wants to start a
she’s afraid she wants to start a
she’s afraid she wants to start a clothing store but she’s afraid that it
clothing store but she’s afraid that it
clothing store but she’s afraid that it won’t work out that people will like her
won’t work out that people will like her
won’t work out that people will like her designs that she won’t be able to
designs that she won’t be able to
designs that she won’t be able to support her son she’s so afraid that she
support her son she’s so afraid that she
support her son she’s so afraid that she doesn’t do anything she’s just paralyzed
doesn’t do anything she’s just paralyzed
doesn’t do anything she’s just paralyzed by her fear and she wanted my advice on
by her fear and she wanted my advice on
by her fear and she wanted my advice on what to do so first of all understand
what to do so first of all understand
what to do so first of all understand that fear is normal it’s okay to be
that fear is normal it’s okay to be
that fear is normal it’s okay to be afraid I don’t know why people don’t
afraid I don’t know why people don’t
afraid I don’t know why people don’t talk about this more you look at you
talk about this more you look at you
talk about this more you look at you look up to entrepreneurs we’ve had
look up to entrepreneurs we’ve had
look up to entrepreneurs we’ve had success and you say wow they’re so bold
success and you say wow they’re so bold
success and you say wow they’re so bold they took these big decisions but they
they took these big decisions but they
they took these big decisions but they were afraid to like you have to be
were afraid to like you have to be
were afraid to like you have to be Superman and and pretend like you have
Superman and and pretend like you have
Superman and and pretend like you have no fear you will have fear just use fear
no fear you will have fear just use fear
no fear you will have fear just use fear as a counselor and not a jailer use fear
as a counselor and not a jailer use fear
as a counselor and not a jailer use fear something that you can listen to and
something that you can listen to and
something that you can listen to and help guide you but not that it holds you
help guide you but not that it holds you
help guide you but not that it holds you back so much you your paralyzing can’t
back so much you your paralyzing can’t
back so much you your paralyzing can’t do anything so fear is normal that’s the
do anything so fear is normal that’s the
do anything so fear is normal that’s the first thing but I want to give you three
first thing but I want to give you three
first thing but I want to give you three tips to help you get over whatever fear
tips to help you get over whatever fear
tips to help you get over whatever fear you’re facing now and help you build
you’re facing now and help you build
you’re facing now and help you build something great and build a good life
something great and build a good life
something great and build a good life for yourself and your family and
for yourself and your family and
for yourself and your family and business you can be proud of so step
business you can be proud of so step
business you can be proud of so step number one remember why you’re doing it
number one remember why you’re doing it
number one remember why you’re doing it whenever I felt afraid of something
whenever I felt afraid of something
whenever I felt afraid of something whenever I felt like I wanted to try
whenever I felt like I wanted to try
whenever I felt like I wanted to try something but I was it was afraid of
something but I was it was afraid of
something but I was it was afraid of doing it I was scared I remember why I’m
doing it I was scared I remember why I’m
doing it I was scared I remember why I’m doing it and that can help give you the
doing it and that can help give you the
doing it and that can help give you the courage to start so for me I’m helping
courage to start so for me I’m helping
courage to start so for me I’m helping entrepreneurs right I want to help a
entrepreneurs right I want to help a
entrepreneurs right I want to help a billion entrepreneurs if I have to do
billion entrepreneurs if I have to do
billion entrepreneurs if I have to do something scary for the first time if I
something scary for the first time if I
something scary for the first time if I have to make a video like this when I
have to make a video like this when I
have to make a video like this when I first started it was really scary but I
first started it was really scary but I
first started it was really scary but I keep in mind that my goal is to help
keep in mind that my goal is to help
keep in mind that my goal is to help entrepreneurs this is how I’m going to
entrepreneurs this is how I’m going to
entrepreneurs this is how I’m going to do it or I might think of a specific
do it or I might think of a specific
do it or I might think of a specific entrepreneur when I was first getting
entrepreneur when I was first getting
entrepreneur when I was first getting started again there was one entrepreneur
started again there was one entrepreneur
started again there was one entrepreneur who I’d helped out a lot and I always
who I’d helped out a lot and I always
who I’d helped out a lot and I always look at him you know so when I’m looking
look at him you know so when I’m looking
look at him you know so when I’m looking into the camera and I was scared to get
into the camera and I was scared to get
into the camera and I was scared to get on camera I always imagined his face
on camera I always imagined his face
on camera I always imagined his face Sarah now and I’m talking to him and
Sarah now and I’m talking to him and
Sarah now and I’m talking to him and trying to help him out not that’s why I
trying to help him out not that’s why I
trying to help him out not that’s why I do it or I might think about my son and
do it or I might think about my son and
do it or I might think about my son and building a better life for him and
building a better life for him and
building a better life for him and leaving a lasting legacy and saying you
leaving a lasting legacy and saying you
leaving a lasting legacy and saying you know look what look at what Dad did
know look what look at what Dad did
know look what look at what Dad did and be proud of that so remember why
and be proud of that so remember why
and be proud of that so remember why you’re doing it remember wine and making
you’re doing it remember wine and making
you’re doing it remember wine and making an important reason you’re why has to be
an important reason you’re why has to be
an important reason you’re why has to be important enough to shake you out of
important enough to shake you out of
important enough to shake you out of your fear and move you towards action so
your fear and move you towards action so
your fear and move you towards action so think about your son if you’re starting
think about your son if you’re starting
think about your son if you’re starting this store and you’re afraid you won’t
this store and you’re afraid you won’t
this store and you’re afraid you won’t have enough for him think about your son
have enough for him think about your son
have enough for him think about your son and why you’re starting this or why did
and why you’re starting this or why did
and why you’re starting this or why did you pick a clothing store have a
you pick a clothing store have a
you pick a clothing store have a powerful story that guides you okay
powerful story that guides you okay
powerful story that guides you okay that’s number one number two is commit
that’s number one number two is commit
that’s number one number two is commit to somebody when you commit to other
to somebody when you commit to other
to somebody when you commit to other people you’re much more likely to follow
people you’re much more likely to follow
people you’re much more likely to follow through this is across any any
through this is across any any
through this is across any any behavioral pattern that you have is a
behavioral pattern that you have is a
behavioral pattern that you have is a person so if you commit to somebody else
person so if you commit to somebody else
person so if you commit to somebody else you’re going to be at a meeting you’re
you’re going to be at a meeting you’re
you’re going to be at a meeting you’re going to be there if you commit to
going to be there if you commit to
going to be there if you commit to somebody else you’re going to be at a
somebody else you’re going to be at a
somebody else you’re going to be at a gym you’re much more likely to follow
gym you’re much more likely to follow
gym you’re much more likely to follow through on that Jim plan then if you’re
through on that Jim plan then if you’re
through on that Jim plan then if you’re just going to go by yourself commit to
just going to go by yourself commit to
just going to go by yourself commit to somebody else I remember the first
somebody else I remember the first
somebody else I remember the first presentation I did the biggest
presentation I did the biggest
presentation I did the biggest presentation I did after I sold my first
presentation I did after I sold my first
presentation I did after I sold my first company was in Brunei and I got invited
company was in Brunei and I got invited
company was in Brunei and I got invited by the royal family Brunei to come and
by the royal family Brunei to come and
by the royal family Brunei to come and speak to their young entrepreneurs they
speak to their young entrepreneurs they
speak to their young entrepreneurs they were running out of oil money and wanted
were running out of oil money and wanted
were running out of oil money and wanted to encourage entrepreneurs to be the
to encourage entrepreneurs to be the
to encourage entrepreneurs to be the next wave and they wanted me to come and
next wave and they wanted me to come and
next wave and they wanted me to come and inspire them and they had like a
inspire them and they had like a
inspire them and they had like a thousand people in the audience multiple
thousand people in the audience multiple
thousand people in the audience multiple cameras that were being filming and
cameras that were being filming and
cameras that were being filming and broadcasting across the country I done a
broadcasting across the country I done a
broadcasting across the country I done a lot of speaking but it was all small
lot of speaking but it was all small
lot of speaking but it was all small little workshops and stuff not a
little workshops and stuff not a
little workshops and stuff not a thousand people a nationwide
thousand people a nationwide
thousand people a nationwide broadcasting I was afraid I know it’s
broadcasting I was afraid I know it’s
broadcasting I was afraid I know it’s kind of secretly hoping that they would
kind of secretly hoping that they would
kind of secretly hoping that they would call me up the day before and say it’s
call me up the day before and say it’s
call me up the day before and say it’s off it’s cancelled you know you don’t
off it’s cancelled you know you don’t
off it’s cancelled you know you don’t have to do it be the side relief I was
have to do it be the side relief I was
have to do it be the side relief I was kind of hoping that would happen but
kind of hoping that would happen but
kind of hoping that would happen but because I committed to them because I
because I committed to them because I
because I committed to them because I said I’m gonna go I had to go right so
said I’m gonna go I had to go right so
said I’m gonna go I had to go right so commit to somebody else that helps get
commit to somebody else that helps get
commit to somebody else that helps get you over the fear of whatever action it
you over the fear of whatever action it
you over the fear of whatever action it is so whatever you’re thinking of doing
is so whatever you’re thinking of doing
is so whatever you’re thinking of doing tell somebody else you’re going to do it
tell somebody else you’re going to do it
tell somebody else you’re going to do it commit to them step number three baby
commit to them step number three baby
commit to them step number three baby steps start small you may see this big
steps start small you may see this big
steps start small you may see this big thing as big picture is being super
thing as big picture is being super
thing as big picture is being super scary and you’re unable to do it but if
scary and you’re unable to do it but if
scary and you’re unable to do it but if you break it down into little chunks
you break it down into little chunks
you break it down into little chunks little baby steps you see whatever that
little baby steps you see whatever that
little baby steps you see whatever that next step is it’s a lot easier it’s more
next step is it’s a lot easier it’s more
next step is it’s a lot easier it’s more manageable it’s achievable you know if
manageable it’s achievable you know if
manageable it’s achievable you know if it doesn’t say okay I’m going to take
it doesn’t say okay I’m going to take
it doesn’t say okay I’m going to take over our stadium and I’m going to do a
over our stadium and I’m going to do a
over our stadium and I’m going to do a presentation that might
presentation that might
presentation that might be really scary I’ve never done that
be really scary I’ve never done that
be really scary I’ve never done that before and I was looking at that when I
before and I was looking at that when I
before and I was looking at that when I was starting up I might say wow there’s
was starting up I might say wow there’s
was starting up I might say wow there’s no way I could ever do that that’s crazy
no way I could ever do that that’s crazy
no way I could ever do that that’s crazy that’s way too big and that fear might
that’s way too big and that fear might
that’s way too big and that fear might be so paralyzing I don’t do anything but
be so paralyzing I don’t do anything but
be so paralyzing I don’t do anything but what’s a small step to get their start
what’s a small step to get their start
what’s a small step to get their start in front of the camera doing a little
in front of the camera doing a little
in front of the camera doing a little workshop doing a presentation doing a
workshop doing a presentation doing a
workshop doing a presentation doing a keynote traveling for the first time i’m
keynote traveling for the first time i’m
keynote traveling for the first time i’m doing a keynote right like you start
doing a keynote right like you start
doing a keynote right like you start building these steps and that the first
building these steps and that the first
building these steps and that the first time you do it it’s scary but you could
time you do it it’s scary but you could
time you do it it’s scary but you could do it again and you think well I was I
do it again and you think well I was I
do it again and you think well I was I was just so scared of that it wasn’t a
was just so scared of that it wasn’t a
was just so scared of that it wasn’t a big deal you know get in front of the
big deal you know get in front of the
big deal you know get in front of the camera from it was really scary when I
camera from it was really scary when I
camera from it was really scary when I started now I get in front of the camera
started now I get in front of the camera
started now I get in front of the camera and it’s no big deal like what was I so
and it’s no big deal like what was I so
and it’s no big deal like what was I so afraid of right doing a presentation I
afraid of right doing a presentation I
afraid of right doing a presentation I was scared sweating heart beating knees
was scared sweating heart beating knees
was scared sweating heart beating knees shaking the first time I do a
shaking the first time I do a
shaking the first time I do a presentation now I can get up and it’s
presentation now I can get up and it’s
presentation now I can get up and it’s no sweat and what I was thinking why was
no sweat and what I was thinking why was
no sweat and what I was thinking why was I so that this is not that big a deal
I so that this is not that big a deal
I so that this is not that big a deal but we build things up in our heads we
but we build things up in our heads we
but we build things up in our heads we make things seem more important than
make things seem more important than
make things seem more important than they are and it prevents us from
they are and it prevents us from
they are and it prevents us from building something great you know to
building something great you know to
building something great you know to build a great company you are going to
build a great company you are going to
build a great company you are going to have to step outside your comfort zone
have to step outside your comfort zone
have to step outside your comfort zone and address these fears if you don’t do
and address these fears if you don’t do
and address these fears if you don’t do things because you’re too afraid you’re
things because you’re too afraid you’re
things because you’re too afraid you’re going to stick in your average life you
going to stick in your average life you
going to stick in your average life you have to be able to be willing to step
have to be able to be willing to step
have to be able to be willing to step into the fear to step outside your
into the fear to step outside your
into the fear to step outside your comfort zone and do things that you
comfort zone and do things that you
comfort zone and do things that you normally wouldn’t do to get to where you
normally wouldn’t do to get to where you
normally wouldn’t do to get to where you want to go so don’t be afraid you know
want to go so don’t be afraid you know
want to go so don’t be afraid you know shake off the fear it’s okay to be
shake off the fear it’s okay to be
shake off the fear it’s okay to be afraid at the start but don’t let that
afraid at the start but don’t let that
afraid at the start but don’t let that fear hold you back from doing something
fear hold you back from doing something
fear hold you back from doing something great believe for those are watching you
great believe for those are watching you
great believe for those are watching you like the video please give it a thumbs
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