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Moving from at-risk to action | Travis Pinckney | TEDxFSCJ


before I had the opportunity to speak in

before I had the opportunity to speak in boardrooms with multi billionaires and

boardrooms with multi billionaires and

boardrooms with multi billionaires and get inspired and motivated one-on-one

get inspired and motivated one-on-one

get inspired and motivated one-on-one with people such as Richard Branson I

with people such as Richard Branson I

with people such as Richard Branson I was an at-risk student before had an

was an at-risk student before had an

was an at-risk student before had an opportunity to speak to hundreds and

opportunity to speak to hundreds and

opportunity to speak to hundreds and thousands of at-risk students as a

thousands of at-risk students as a

thousands of at-risk students as a motivator I was an at-risk student just

motivator I was an at-risk student just

motivator I was an at-risk student just like them with a dream and that dream

like them with a dream and that dream

like them with a dream and that dream was to go to college get a big round of

was to go to college get a big round of

was to go to college get a big round of applause for all the college graduates

applause for all the college graduates

applause for all the college graduates were here well another for me to go to

were here well another for me to go to

were here well another for me to go to college I had to be ready had to be

college I had to be ready had to be

college I had to be ready had to be empowered and had to determine but I

empowered and had to determine but I

empowered and had to determine but I wasn’t a hundred percent on readiness I

wasn’t a hundred percent on readiness I

wasn’t a hundred percent on readiness I wasn’t a hundred percent of empowerment

wasn’t a hundred percent of empowerment

wasn’t a hundred percent of empowerment and I wasn’t 100% on determination

and I wasn’t 100% on determination

and I wasn’t 100% on determination readiness there’s a big problem today in

readiness there’s a big problem today in

readiness there’s a big problem today in today’s schools especially with minority

today’s schools especially with minority

today’s schools especially with minority students failing tests over and over and

students failing tests over and over and

students failing tests over and over and over again I’m a living testament the

over again I’m a living testament the

over again I’m a living testament the first time I took my acct test I failed

first time I took my acct test I failed

first time I took my acct test I failed it second time I taking my agency test I

it second time I taking my agency test I

it second time I taking my agency test I felt it but the third time i took my ATT

felt it but the third time i took my ATT

felt it but the third time i took my ATT test i I felt it again

test i I felt it again

test i I felt it again I love that part of the story by show of

I love that part of the story by show of

I love that part of the story by show of hands how many people in this room have

hands how many people in this room have

hands how many people in this room have experienced failure in their life got

experienced failure in their life got

experienced failure in their life got one person who did read in here say

one person who did read in here say

one person who did read in here say money save all of you when we experience

money save all of you when we experience

money save all of you when we experience failure sometimes people say that we

failure sometimes people say that we

failure sometimes people say that we drop the we drop the ball sometimes we

drop the we drop the ball sometimes we

drop the we drop the ball sometimes we drop the ball of an unexpected

drop the ball of an unexpected

drop the ball of an unexpected circumstances arise in our life

circumstances arise in our life

circumstances arise in our life sometimes we drop the ball once again

sometimes we drop the ball once again

sometimes we drop the ball once again raise your hand if you ever drop the

raise your hand if you ever drop the

raise your hand if you ever drop the ball in life okay one raise your hand if

ball in life okay one raise your hand if

ball in life okay one raise your hand if you rarely ever drop the ball you’re

you rarely ever drop the ball you’re

you rarely ever drop the ball you’re excellent you know you do a great job

excellent you know you do a great job

excellent you know you do a great job got one person over it my first over

got one person over it my first over

got one person over it my first over here well yeah sometimes we have

here well yeah sometimes we have

here well yeah sometimes we have unexpected events where we dropped the

unexpected events where we dropped the

unexpected events where we dropped the ball and life we drop the ball uh we

ball and life we drop the ball uh we

ball and life we drop the ball uh we have unexpected events did you guys

have unexpected events did you guys

have unexpected events did you guys expect that did some people drop the

expect that did some people drop the

expect that did some people drop the ball when we drop the ball we need

ball when we drop the ball we need

ball when we drop the ball we need determination because when we drop the

determination because when we drop the

determination because when we drop the ball we get discouraged we feel like I’m

ball we get discouraged we feel like I’m

ball we get discouraged we feel like I’m not good enough I’m not worthy I don’t

not good enough I’m not worthy I don’t

not good enough I’m not worthy I don’t think I can make it I felt the same way

think I can make it I felt the same way

think I can make it I felt the same way because I kept building the AC T test

because I kept building the AC T test

because I kept building the AC T test over and over and over again I wasn’t

over and over and over again I wasn’t

over and over and over again I wasn’t ready and I was somewhat determined i

ready and I was somewhat determined i

ready and I was somewhat determined i said i try it one more time the first

said i try it one more time the first

said i try it one more time the first time i filled it the second time I field

time i filled it the second time I field

time i filled it the second time I field in the third time I oh you got it this

in the third time I oh you got it this

in the third time I oh you got it this time and guys you know what even a

time and guys you know what even a

time and guys you know what even a fourth time I filled it again some

fourth time I filled it again some

fourth time I filled it again some people are laughing at me oh my gosh

people are laughing at me oh my gosh

people are laughing at me oh my gosh it’s okay because I had people really

it’s okay because I had people really

it’s okay because I had people really laugh at me and tell me you know Travis

laugh at me and tell me you know Travis

laugh at me and tell me you know Travis you’re not smart enough um your mom

you’re not smart enough um your mom

you’re not smart enough um your mom makes twenty thousand dollars a year

makes twenty thousand dollars a year

makes twenty thousand dollars a year your dad didn’t go to college neither

your dad didn’t go to college neither

your dad didn’t go to college neither that either your brothers are your

that either your brothers are your

that either your brothers are your sisters go to college and get master’s

sisters go to college and get master’s

sisters go to college and get master’s degrees on dr. degrees I don’t think you

degrees on dr. degrees I don’t think you

degrees on dr. degrees I don’t think you can do it either you’re a failure

can do it either you’re a failure

can do it either you’re a failure because of the first time second time at

because of the first time second time at

because of the first time second time at third time what makes you think you’re

third time what makes you think you’re

third time what makes you think you’re going to pass it on the fourth time look

going to pass it on the fourth time look

going to pass it on the fourth time look at your track record look at your

at your track record look at your

at your track record look at your background you’re an african-american

background you’re an african-american

background you’re an african-american male you have the lowest acct scores in

male you have the lowest acct scores in

male you have the lowest acct scores in the nation

the nation

the nation you can’t make it and I began to believe

you can’t make it and I began to believe

you can’t make it and I began to believe those stereotypes well maybe I just get

those stereotypes well maybe I just get

those stereotypes well maybe I just get a job and just not try to go to college

a job and just not try to go to college

a job and just not try to go to college maybe I allow some of the generational

maybe I allow some of the generational

maybe I allow some of the generational curses of not going further than a high

curses of not going further than a high

curses of not going further than a high school education I just accept it this

school education I just accept it this

school education I just accept it this is my family this is my life and I’ll

is my family this is my life and I’ll

is my family this is my life and I’ll just do that but certain people get into

just do that but certain people get into

just do that but certain people get into our life I call them empowerment people

our life I call them empowerment people

our life I call them empowerment people and they help us stay in power they give

and they help us stay in power they give

and they help us stay in power they give us a sense of belonging they give us a

us a sense of belonging they give us a

us a sense of belonging they give us a sense of worth in a sense of value so

sense of worth in a sense of value so

sense of worth in a sense of value so everybody give me an e give me em p w/e

everybody give me an e give me em p w/e

everybody give me an e give me em p w/e o M e.n.t everybody said if i were there

o M e.n.t everybody said if i were there

o M e.n.t everybody said if i were there that feels good that feels good

that feels good that feels good

that feels good that feels good empowerment is so crucial and ensuring

empowerment is so crucial and ensuring

empowerment is so crucial and ensuring the success of at-risk students moving

the success of at-risk students moving

the success of at-risk students moving from at risk to action in their life

from at risk to action in their life

from at risk to action in their life breaking the barriers of disbelief

breaking the barriers of disbelief

breaking the barriers of disbelief breaking the barrier saying to myself i

breaking the barrier saying to myself i

breaking the barrier saying to myself i can’t make it to San I can make it it

can’t make it to San I can make it it

can’t make it to San I can make it it takes one person in your life to make

takes one person in your life to make

takes one person in your life to make that difference that one person for me

that difference that one person for me

that difference that one person for me was my uncle now first of all you gotta

was my uncle now first of all you gotta

was my uncle now first of all you gotta say well watch this guy sounding like

say well watch this guy sounding like

say well watch this guy sounding like he’s cheering me on like a cheerleader

he’s cheering me on like a cheerleader

he’s cheering me on like a cheerleader somebody that you know my uncle was a

somebody that you know my uncle was a

somebody that you know my uncle was a cheerleader and some of you guys

cheerleader and some of you guys

cheerleader and some of you guys ironically even am in here we’re chillin

ironically even am in here we’re chillin

ironically even am in here we’re chillin at some point I’m raise your hand man if

at some point I’m raise your hand man if

at some point I’m raise your hand man if you were a cheerleader at some point I’m

you were a cheerleader at some point I’m

you were a cheerleader at some point I’m okay most of the guys I raising in some

okay most of the guys I raising in some

okay most of the guys I raising in some overnight will never improve the guys

overnight will never improve the guys

overnight will never improve the guys who didn’t ring the hammer prove me

who didn’t ring the hammer prove me

who didn’t ring the hammer prove me wrong he’s at the 40 the 30 the 20 the

wrong he’s at the 40 the 30 the 20 the

wrong he’s at the 40 the 30 the 20 the 10 touchdown yeah you were leading the

10 touchdown yeah you were leading the

10 touchdown yeah you were leading the cheer you were being a cheer leader

cheer you were being a cheer leader

cheer you were being a cheer leader you’re relieving the cheer of someone

you’re relieving the cheer of someone

you’re relieving the cheer of someone reaching their goal and ironically was

reaching their goal and ironically was

reaching their goal and ironically was your favorite football team but what if

your favorite football team but what if

your favorite football team but what if at-risk students had somebody who

at-risk students had somebody who

at-risk students had somebody who leading the cheer you fell the first

leading the cheer you fell the first

leading the cheer you fell the first time you felt the second thought you

time you felt the second thought you

time you felt the second thought you feeling the third time and the fourth

feeling the third time and the fourth

feeling the third time and the fourth time you failed again great cheerleader

time you failed again great cheerleader

time you failed again great cheerleader they stick with you no matter how many

they stick with you no matter how many

they stick with you no matter how many games you lose you know extra favorite

games you lose you know extra favorite

games you lose you know extra favorite football team no matter how many times

football team no matter how many times

football team no matter how many times the game how many games they lose the

the game how many games they lose the

the game how many games they lose the chilis I always did there cheering him

chilis I always did there cheering him

chilis I always did there cheering him on cheer him on my uncle was that person

on cheer him on my uncle was that person

on cheer him on my uncle was that person who kept cheering me on believe it not

who kept cheering me on believe it not

who kept cheering me on believe it not he called me dr. Travis starting at 12

he called me dr. Travis starting at 12

he called me dr. Travis starting at 12 years old I was like that like hey dr.

years old I was like that like hey dr.

years old I was like that like hey dr. Travis is coming and my uncle actually

Travis is coming and my uncle actually

Travis is coming and my uncle actually was a pastor and a police officer and he

was a pastor and a police officer and he

was a pastor and a police officer and he would let me come to the church and he

would let me come to the church and he

would let me come to the church and he always say hey guys we got dr. Travis

always say hey guys we got dr. Travis

always say hey guys we got dr. Travis coming up he’s gonna do some things for

coming up he’s gonna do some things for

coming up he’s gonna do some things for the kids and all that it was something

the kids and all that it was something

the kids and all that it was something funny I really felt like about her I

funny I really felt like about her I

funny I really felt like about her I felt inspired I felt a sense of value a

felt inspired I felt a sense of value a

felt inspired I felt a sense of value a sense of worth hey he’s calling me a

sense of worth hey he’s calling me a

sense of worth hey he’s calling me a doctor and although he was not my

doctor and although he was not my

doctor and although he was not my biological father he was a surrogate

biological father he was a surrogate

biological father he was a surrogate father for me sometimes those key

father for me sometimes those key

father for me sometimes those key players in our life those encouragement

players in our life those encouragement

players in our life those encouragement people may not be our family members and

people may not be our family members and

people may not be our family members and some of them may not even have the same

some of them may not even have the same

some of them may not even have the same skin color as us they may not even have

skin color as us they may not even have

skin color as us they may not even have the same economic background as us but

the same economic background as us but

the same economic background as us but they motivate us and they’re a firm as

they motivate us and they’re a firm as

they motivate us and they’re a firm as they cheer us on here’s another

they cheer us on here’s another

they cheer us on here’s another important concept think about this in

important concept think about this in

important concept think about this in May 2017 or even in June there will be

May 2017 or even in June there will be

May 2017 or even in June there will be hundreds and even thousands of high

hundreds and even thousands of high

hundreds and even thousands of high school graduates going to the graduation

school graduates going to the graduation

school graduates going to the graduation day going to an arena they have on a cap

day going to an arena they have on a cap

day going to an arena they have on a cap in their gown and after the graduation

in their gown and after the graduation

in their gown and after the graduation ceremony after the processional there

ceremony after the processional there

ceremony after the processional there will be people come up say I knew you

will be people come up say I knew you

will be people come up say I knew you can make it all this time I was

can make it all this time I was

can make it all this time I was believing in you but they would never

believing in you but they would never

believing in you but they would never there see certain people become

there see certain people become

there see certain people become cheerleaders once you have already

cheerleaders once you have already

cheerleaders once you have already reached your goal they hop on the

reached your goal they hop on the

reached your goal they hop on the bandwagon what everybody else is on the

bandwagon what everybody else is on the

bandwagon what everybody else is on the bandwagon ironically even some of these

bandwagon ironically even some of these

bandwagon ironically even some of these students parents who were not there they

students parents who were not there they

students parents who were not there they come up to the graduation says

come up to the graduation says

come up to the graduation says I’m so proud of him I you did it and

I’m so proud of him I you did it and

I’m so proud of him I you did it and those are the simple where were you when

those are the simple where were you when

those are the simple where were you when I felt the felt the felt and I wanted

I felt the felt the felt and I wanted

I felt the felt the felt and I wanted those new sneakers right but they’re

those new sneakers right but they’re

those new sneakers right but they’re cheering you on it’s easy to cheer for

cheering you on it’s easy to cheer for

cheering you on it’s easy to cheer for at-risk student or someone who’s in

at-risk student or someone who’s in

at-risk student or someone who’s in transition and it does something they’re

transition and it does something they’re

transition and it does something they’re gonna make it it’s easy to cheer for

gonna make it it’s easy to cheer for

gonna make it it’s easy to cheer for them once they reach to go very easy

them once they reach to go very easy

them once they reach to go very easy think about the people who we cheer for

think about the people who we cheer for

think about the people who we cheer for once they have made it my uncle didn’t

once they have made it my uncle didn’t

once they have made it my uncle didn’t do that he said I’m going to cheer you

do that he said I’m going to cheer you

do that he said I’m going to cheer you on Travis no matter what you’re going

on Travis no matter what you’re going

on Travis no matter what you’re going through so he became a great children in

through so he became a great children in

through so he became a great children in my life the second thing Michael did was

my life the second thing Michael did was

my life the second thing Michael did was he became a great counselor now I had

he became a great counselor now I had

he became a great counselor now I had some issues when I was in Middle School

some issues when I was in Middle School

some issues when I was in Middle School in high school I was actually I’m

in high school I was actually I’m

in high school I was actually I’m actually fairly short right and so I

actually fairly short right and so I

actually fairly short right and so I ended up ironically getting into track

ended up ironically getting into track

ended up ironically getting into track and I would love to do this particular

and I would love to do this particular

and I would love to do this particular relay which was doing the high jump so

relay which was doing the high jump so

relay which was doing the high jump so short guy trying to do the high jump

short guy trying to do the high jump

short guy trying to do the high jump they’ve always set this really nice high

they’ve always set this really nice high

they’ve always set this really nice high bar and I would have to just run over to

bar and I would have to just run over to

bar and I would have to just run over to the side the about a half semi-circle

the side the about a half semi-circle

the side the about a half semi-circle semi circle and then jump right on over

semi circle and then jump right on over

semi circle and then jump right on over and then lean back right so I remember

and then lean back right so I remember

and then lean back right so I remember one of my first track meets where had an

one of my first track meets where had an

one of my first track meets where had an opportunity to hi John now i can jump

opportunity to hi John now i can jump

opportunity to hi John now i can jump pretty high but it had some people over

pretty high but it had some people over

pretty high but it had some people over here on the side there were two guys

here on the side there were two guys

here on the side there were two guys here at the dope man and they were

here at the dope man and they were

here at the dope man and they were laughing it like this guy really

laughing it like this guy really

laughing it like this guy really believes he’s going to cross this bar

believes he’s going to cross this bar

believes he’s going to cross this bar look I’m sure the end it was laughing my

look I’m sure the end it was laughing my

look I’m sure the end it was laughing my uncle was over to the side he was like

uncle was over to the side he was like

uncle was over to the side he was like watch this watch this he’s like Travis

watch this watch this he’s like Travis

watch this watch this he’s like Travis don’t focus on them you can do it stay

don’t focus on them you can do it stay

don’t focus on them you can do it stay focus and so here I go slow motion I’m

focus and so here I go slow motion I’m

focus and so here I go slow motion I’m going around I’m going around and the

going around I’m going around and the

going around I’m going around and the bar is set is higher than my height it

bar is set is higher than my height it

bar is set is higher than my height it looks like I’m not going to make it at

looks like I’m not going to make it at

looks like I’m not going to make it at all it looks like it’s too big for me

all it looks like it’s too big for me

all it looks like it’s too big for me and I jump up and go right on over and

and I jump up and go right on over and

and I jump up and go right on over and leave back and boom they’re like oh my

leave back and boom they’re like oh my

leave back and boom they’re like oh my gosh oh but that was so cool that’s so

gosh oh but that was so cool that’s so

gosh oh but that was so cool that’s so cool they became my cheerleaders see

cool they became my cheerleaders see

cool they became my cheerleaders see some people they might not like you

some people they might not like you

some people they might not like you right now they may second-guess your

right now they may second-guess your

right now they may second-guess your ability but

ability but

ability but I guarantee you if you stay focused they

I guarantee you if you stay focused they

I guarantee you if you stay focused they will become your cheerleaders as well

will become your cheerleaders as well

will become your cheerleaders as well that all right the second thing among

that all right the second thing among

that all right the second thing among cadet other than cheerleading he did

cadet other than cheerleading he did

cadet other than cheerleading he did counseling he began to listen to me

counseling he began to listen to me

counseling he began to listen to me begin to understand what was going on to

begin to understand what was going on to

begin to understand what was going on to my life not only should speak into

my life not only should speak into

my life not only should speak into people’s life in via chilly but should

people’s life in via chilly but should

people’s life in via chilly but should be a counselor a listener okay um have

be a counselor a listener okay um have

be a counselor a listener okay um have effective listening skills at risk

effective listening skills at risk

effective listening skills at risk students and other for them to go from

students and other for them to go from

students and other for them to go from at risk to action they need not only

at risk to action they need not only

at risk to action they need not only people to speak to them but also people

people to speak to them but also people

people to speak to them but also people to listen to them my uncle wet listen in

to listen to them my uncle wet listen in

to listen to them my uncle wet listen in order to locate my different needs you

order to locate my different needs you

order to locate my different needs you know there were some times where it

know there were some times where it

know there were some times where it guess what we didn’t have enough money

guess what we didn’t have enough money

guess what we didn’t have enough money to pay a light bill sometimes but guess

to pay a light bill sometimes but guess

to pay a light bill sometimes but guess what uncle will listen not only listened

what uncle will listen not only listened

what uncle will listen not only listened but locate things and guide me towards

but locate things and guide me towards

but locate things and guide me towards resources guy towards resources this is

resources guy towards resources this is

resources guy towards resources this is really important this concept of

really important this concept of

really important this concept of listening in order to locate to point

listening in order to locate to point

listening in order to locate to point people towards resources cuz I

people towards resources cuz I

people towards resources cuz I experience that when I was a school

experience that when I was a school

experience that when I was a school counselor I’m flashing forward until my

counselor I’m flashing forward until my

counselor I’m flashing forward until my life um I am in a master’s program and

life um I am in a master’s program and

life um I am in a master’s program and I’m learning how to become a school

I’m learning how to become a school

I’m learning how to become a school counselor hmm oh god I delay I learn how

counselor hmm oh god I delay I learn how

counselor hmm oh god I delay I learn how to become a school counselor and my

to become a school counselor and my

to become a school counselor and my professor says drivers you have 15

professor says drivers you have 15

professor says drivers you have 15 minutes for 14 minutes and 59 seconds I

minutes for 14 minutes and 59 seconds I

minutes for 14 minutes and 59 seconds I did most of the talking I did all the

did most of the talking I did all the

did most of the talking I did all the talking and my professor says any trauma

talking and my professor says any trauma

talking and my professor says any trauma center I said did you see that did you

center I said did you see that did you

center I said did you see that did you see how good I live did you see did you

see how good I live did you see did you

see how good I live did you see did you see that he says yeah I saw that it was

see that he says yeah I saw that it was

see that he says yeah I saw that it was terrible what do you mean did you hear

terrible what do you mean did you hear

terrible what do you mean did you hear when I said to the student she said

when I said to the student she said

when I said to the student she said Travis you did more talking than listen

Travis you did more talking than listen

Travis you did more talking than listen she says great counselors do more

she says great counselors do more

she says great counselors do more listening than talking how can you

listening than talking how can you

listening than talking how can you locate their needs if you’re doing more

locate their needs if you’re doing more

locate their needs if you’re doing more talking than they are how can you point

talking than they are how can you point

talking than they are how can you point them in the right direction if you’re

them in the right direction if you’re

them in the right direction if you’re doing more talking than they are I

doing more talking than they are I

doing more talking than they are I learned a very important lesson during

learned a very important lesson during

learned a very important lesson during that day and I begin to understand what

that day and I begin to understand what

that day and I begin to understand what my uncle will even take time to just say

my uncle will even take time to just say

my uncle will even take time to just say Travis you can knit to me if you need to

Travis you can knit to me if you need to

Travis you can knit to me if you need to scream go ahead and scream I’m just here

scream go ahead and scream I’m just here

scream go ahead and scream I’m just here to listen to you listening is a form of

to listen to you listening is a form of

to listen to you listening is a form of empowerment

empowerment

empowerment my uncle had a busy schedule but he cut

my uncle had a busy schedule but he cut

my uncle had a busy schedule but he cut out time just to listen to me and so

out time just to listen to me and so

out time just to listen to me and so important that we take a little bit of

important that we take a little bit of

important that we take a little bit of time but every time we have left just to

time but every time we have left just to

time but every time we have left just to listen to somebody by him listening to

listen to somebody by him listening to

listen to somebody by him listening to me he was able to understand some of the

me he was able to understand some of the

me he was able to understand some of the dangers that were about their career of

dangers that were about their career of

dangers that were about their career of my life I was an at-risk blackmail I

my life I was an at-risk blackmail I

my life I was an at-risk blackmail I loved hip-hop music and i also got

loved hip-hop music and i also got

loved hip-hop music and i also got involved with hanging around drug

involved with hanging around drug

involved with hanging around drug dealers I had one of my mentors becoming

dealers I had one of my mentors becoming

dealers I had one of my mentors becoming he was a drug dealer and I remember him

he was a drug dealer and I remember him

he was a drug dealer and I remember him teaching me how to sell crack cocaine so

teaching me how to sell crack cocaine so

teaching me how to sell crack cocaine so imagine have a 17 year old he’s

imagine have a 17 year old he’s

imagine have a 17 year old he’s consistently felon test failed state

consistently felon test failed state

consistently felon test failed state test failing a CT test doesn’t doesn’t

test failing a CT test doesn’t doesn’t

test failing a CT test doesn’t doesn’t really believe you can go to college

really believe you can go to college

really believe you can go to college feels like he’s done and he’s hanging

feels like he’s done and he’s hanging

feels like he’s done and he’s hanging around someone who’s making thousands of

around someone who’s making thousands of

around someone who’s making thousands of dollars within the day I really wanted

dollars within the day I really wanted

dollars within the day I really wanted to be like this particular person it was

to be like this particular person it was

to be like this particular person it was until I got to a point where I was

until I got to a point where I was

until I got to a point where I was pulled over by the police pistol in the

pulled over by the police pistol in the

pulled over by the police pistol in the car it didn’t belong to me drugs and the

car it didn’t belong to me drugs and the

car it didn’t belong to me drugs and the police officer found five thousand

police officer found five thousand

police officer found five thousand dollars in a rubberband and my friend

dollars in a rubberband and my friend

dollars in a rubberband and my friend who was the drug dealer he got in

who was the drug dealer he got in

who was the drug dealer he got in handcuffs but right before that he gave

handcuffs but right before that he gave

handcuffs but right before that he gave me 25 thousand dollars he says Travis do

me 25 thousand dollars he says Travis do

me 25 thousand dollars he says Travis do not bail me out I deserve this and the

not bail me out I deserve this and the

not bail me out I deserve this and the police officer says yep you deserve this

police officer says yep you deserve this

police officer says yep you deserve this too you’re supposed to be in his car

too you’re supposed to be in his car

too you’re supposed to be in his car with him as for the transition point in

with him as for the transition point in

with him as for the transition point in my life I had an opportunity to go back

my life I had an opportunity to go back

my life I had an opportunity to go back home not everybody has that same

home not everybody has that same

home not everybody has that same opportunity had an opportunity to still

opportunity had an opportunity to still

opportunity had an opportunity to still pursue college in my dreams not every

pursue college in my dreams not every

pursue college in my dreams not every average child has an opportunity but

average child has an opportunity but

average child has an opportunity but what make the difference between me and

what make the difference between me and

what make the difference between me and the other at-risk students what

the other at-risk students what

the other at-risk students what made a difference between me going from

made a difference between me going from

made a difference between me going from at risk to action from those students

at risk to action from those students

at risk to action from those students just being at risk and accepting the

just being at risk and accepting the

just being at risk and accepting the label that was the empowerment that

label that was the empowerment that

label that was the empowerment that received my uncle see if we have more

received my uncle see if we have more

received my uncle see if we have more people like my uncle maybe less students

people like my uncle maybe less students

people like my uncle maybe less students especially our at-risk black males may

especially our at-risk black males may

especially our at-risk black males may be less will be going to police cars

be less will be going to police cars

be less will be going to police cars right now maybe 10 less students maybe

right now maybe 10 less students maybe

right now maybe 10 less students maybe 100 less students and maybe even a

100 less students and maybe even a

100 less students and maybe even a thousand less student by having that one

thousand less student by having that one

thousand less student by having that one person in their life to pull them back

person in their life to pull them back

person in their life to pull them back from the different dangers so by him

from the different dangers so by him

from the different dangers so by him listening to me he knew I was getting

listening to me he knew I was getting

listening to me he knew I was getting around around crowd says Travis I’m

around around crowd says Travis I’m

around around crowd says Travis I’m gonna do something for you I’m gonna

gonna do something for you I’m gonna

gonna do something for you I’m gonna take it up to another level I be your

take it up to another level I be your

take it up to another level I be your cheerleader I’ve been your counselor

cheerleader I’ve been your counselor

cheerleader I’ve been your counselor when I’m going to be a coach and

when I’m going to be a coach and

when I’m going to be a coach and coaching is different between

coaching is different between

coaching is different between cheerleading counseling because coaches

cheerleading counseling because coaches

cheerleading counseling because coaches give you access to what they have they

give you access to what they have they

give you access to what they have they let you wear their brand they put you a

let you wear their brand they put you a

let you wear their brand they put you a part of that team so after that

part of that team so after that

part of that team so after that experience he gave me this key and this

experience he gave me this key and this

experience he gave me this key and this was the key to the church dr. Tom 17

was the key to the church dr. Tom 17

was the key to the church dr. Tom 17 year old with the key to the church

year old with the key to the church

year old with the key to the church what’s going to happen now I would go

what’s going to happen now I would go

what’s going to happen now I would go into the church and i started doing

into the church and i started doing

into the church and i started doing something ironic i began to teach myself

something ironic i began to teach myself

something ironic i began to teach myself how to play the piano I would teach

how to play the piano I would teach

how to play the piano I would teach myself nope from note from note from

myself nope from note from note from

myself nope from note from note from note and every time ironically this key

note and every time ironically this key

note and every time ironically this key says access I had access to go into the

says access I had access to go into the

says access I had access to go into the church note from note for note black and

church note from note for note black and

church note from note for note black and white keys created the most color of my

white keys created the most color of my

white keys created the most color of my life I had the ability to take black and

life I had the ability to take black and

life I had the ability to take black and white keys and create color I could

white keys and create color I could

white keys and create color I could create something I have nothing I begin

create something I have nothing I begin

create something I have nothing I begin to listen to different songs and I get

to listen to different songs and I get

to listen to different songs and I get his plan in a matter of seconds I could

his plan in a matter of seconds I could

his plan in a matter of seconds I could hear it I began to to my ear and so my

hear it I began to to my ear and so my

hear it I began to to my ear and so my uncle has my coat she says no matter

uncle has my coat she says no matter

uncle has my coat she says no matter what you’re going through Travis you can

what you’re going through Travis you can

what you’re going through Travis you can come to the church and you can practice

come to the church and you can practice

come to the church and you can practice that piano

that piano

that piano by me learning how to play the piano it

by me learning how to play the piano it

by me learning how to play the piano it gave me a way of escape from being out

gave me a way of escape from being out

gave me a way of escape from being out in the streets gave me a way of escape

in the streets gave me a way of escape

in the streets gave me a way of escape if I wasn’t doing too good in school

if I wasn’t doing too good in school

if I wasn’t doing too good in school that particular time or maybe I can play

that particular time or maybe I can play

that particular time or maybe I can play the piano and kind of get certain things

the piano and kind of get certain things

the piano and kind of get certain things off my mind that skill expanded my mind

off my mind that skill expanded my mind

off my mind that skill expanded my mind I had the ability to learn more in math

I had the ability to learn more in math

I had the ability to learn more in math class learn more in English class

class learn more in English class

class learn more in English class because my brain began to expand my

because my brain began to expand my

because my brain began to expand my capacity began to stretch in order to

capacity began to stretch in order to

capacity began to stretch in order to receive information because of all the

receive information because of all the

receive information because of all the cheerleading and affirmation that I was

cheerleading and affirmation that I was

cheerleading and affirmation that I was getting and all of the counseling that I

getting and all of the counseling that I

getting and all of the counseling that I was getting of people listening to me I

was getting of people listening to me I

was getting of people listening to me I became greater in my mind I became

became greater in my mind I became

became greater in my mind I became greater in my heart my heart became

greater in my heart my heart became

greater in my heart my heart became bigger I began to receive more love

bigger I began to receive more love

bigger I began to receive more love therefore I could give more love I began

therefore I could give more love I began

therefore I could give more love I began to receive more information therefore I

to receive more information therefore I

to receive more information therefore I could get about more information so now

could get about more information so now

could get about more information so now I’m in the fourth quarter of this

I’m in the fourth quarter of this

I’m in the fourth quarter of this transition and my uncle is coaching me

transition and my uncle is coaching me

transition and my uncle is coaching me he says okay I know you don’t have

he says okay I know you don’t have

he says okay I know you don’t have enough to pay for the acct test come

enough to pay for the acct test come

enough to pay for the acct test come over to the house I must fight my credit

over to the house I must fight my credit

over to the house I must fight my credit card and I pay for the test and that’s

card and I pay for the test and that’s

card and I pay for the test and that’s what he did not only that I know you

what he did not only that I know you

what he did not only that I know you don’t have internet come over to my

don’t have internet come over to my

don’t have internet come over to my house you can use my computer that’s

house you can use my computer that’s

house you can use my computer that’s what he did great coaches they provide

what he did great coaches they provide

what he did great coaches they provide you with accessing resources they let

you with accessing resources they let

you with accessing resources they let you wear their brand they make you one

you wear their brand they make you one

you wear their brand they make you one of their own even called me his son so

of their own even called me his son so

of their own even called me his son so I’m taking my acct since this time my

I’m taking my acct since this time my

I’m taking my acct since this time my mind and stretch I have a greater

mind and stretch I have a greater

mind and stretch I have a greater capacity I have a lot more information I

capacity I have a lot more information I

capacity I have a lot more information I have the heart and I even wrote this

have the heart and I even wrote this

have the heart and I even wrote this song during this time for my last time

song during this time for my last time

song during this time for my last time I’m gonna take this test guys it was

I’m gonna take this test guys it was

I’m gonna take this test guys it was called I have the mind and the muscle

called I have the mind and the muscle

called I have the mind and the muscle got declined in the hustle got the heart

got declined in the hustle got the heart

got declined in the hustle got the heart of a champion yeah said I got the mind

of a champion yeah said I got the mind

of a champion yeah said I got the mind muscle crime hustle the heart of a

muscle crime hustle the heart of a

muscle crime hustle the heart of a champion I can’t stop until the casket

champion I can’t stop until the casket

champion I can’t stop until the casket drop no I won’t stop it to the casket

drop no I won’t stop it to the casket

drop no I won’t stop it to the casket drop no I wrote my own lyrics and I

drop no I wrote my own lyrics and I

drop no I wrote my own lyrics and I began to walk on my own words instead of

began to walk on my own words instead of

began to walk on my own words instead of the words of my friends instead of the

the words of my friends instead of the

the words of my friends instead of the words of social media instead of the

words of social media instead of the

words of social media instead of the words of

words of

words of stereotypes of young black males trying

stereotypes of young black males trying

stereotypes of young black males trying to achieve the goal of getting into

to achieve the goal of getting into

to achieve the goal of getting into higher education I walked on my own

higher education I walked on my own

higher education I walked on my own words in a very cool way on the seventh

words in a very cool way on the seventh

words in a very cool way on the seventh time guys I ended up I passed the test I

passed the test and when I passed the

passed the test and when I passed the test I remember calling my uncle and I

test I remember calling my uncle and I

test I remember calling my uncle and I said oh god oh my gosh here we go I got

said oh god oh my gosh here we go I got

said oh god oh my gosh here we go I got the scholarship letter I passed the test

the scholarship letter I passed the test

the scholarship letter I passed the test and I received in eighty thousand dollar

and I received in eighty thousand dollar

and I received in eighty thousand dollar scholarship room books board and tuition

scholarship room books board and tuition

scholarship room books board and tuition paid for the only thing I paid for was

paid for the only thing I paid for was

paid for the only thing I paid for was copied out of the coffee machine and

copied out of the coffee machine and

copied out of the coffee machine and we’re still working on that right now

we’re still working on that right now

we’re still working on that right now uh-huh we’re getting that squared away I

uh-huh we’re getting that squared away I

uh-huh we’re getting that squared away I received that scholarship through David

received that scholarship through David

received that scholarship through David and and Hicks have a wonderful family

and and Hicks have a wonderful family

and and Hicks have a wonderful family whose continue to empower me I had an

whose continue to empower me I had an

whose continue to empower me I had an opportunity through them to meet Richard

opportunity through them to meet Richard

opportunity through them to meet Richard Branson and get inspired by

Branson and get inspired by

Branson and get inspired by entrepreneurs and people who are

entrepreneurs and people who are

entrepreneurs and people who are visionaries inspirational leaders once

visionaries inspirational leaders once

visionaries inspirational leaders once again my mind began to stretch and my

again my mind began to stretch and my

again my mind began to stretch and my heart began the stretch I begin to

heart began the stretch I begin to

heart began the stretch I begin to receive more information and I begin to

receive more information and I begin to

receive more information and I begin to receive more love from people my

receive more love from people my

receive more love from people my readiness was increasing and my

readiness was increasing and my

readiness was increasing and my determination was increasing because my

determination was increasing because my

determination was increasing because my empowerment was increasing people

empowerment was increasing people

empowerment was increasing people cheering for me people counseling me and

cheering for me people counseling me and

cheering for me people counseling me and also people coaching me let me wear

also people coaching me let me wear

also people coaching me let me wear their brand saying you can be a part of

their brand saying you can be a part of

their brand saying you can be a part of me this is my first billboard at the age

me this is my first billboard at the age

me this is my first billboard at the age of 20 years old with three students in

of 20 years old with three students in

of 20 years old with three students in whom I became a cheerleader a counselor

whom I became a cheerleader a counselor

whom I became a cheerleader a counselor and a coach for they began to use the

and a coach for they began to use the

and a coach for they began to use the same skill of writing lyrics and they

same skill of writing lyrics and they

same skill of writing lyrics and they created a song for the National

created a song for the National

created a song for the National Everglades where we actually had a

Everglades where we actually had a

Everglades where we actually had a chance to create the first rap video for

chance to create the first rap video for

chance to create the first rap video for the Everglades hanging out with

the Everglades hanging out with

the Everglades hanging out with alligators and they gave us this awesome

alligators and they gave us this awesome

alligators and they gave us this awesome billboard as you see right here and

billboard as you see right here and

billboard as you see right here and there that time to students knew that

there that time to students knew that

there that time to students knew that they could write positive hip-hop music

they could write positive hip-hop music

they could write positive hip-hop music write positive hip-hop there

write positive hip-hop there

write positive hip-hop there because guess what I had the opportunity

because guess what I had the opportunity

because guess what I had the opportunity to do it myself my uncle even took it

to do it myself my uncle even took it

to do it myself my uncle even took it upon himself to expand and we invested

upon himself to expand and we invested

upon himself to expand and we invested $10,000 and actually got a music studio

$10,000 and actually got a music studio

$10,000 and actually got a music studio in our church so those same students had

in our church so those same students had

in our church so those same students had an opportunity when they had things

an opportunity when they had things

an opportunity when they had things going on that were dangerous such as

going on that were dangerous such as

going on that were dangerous such as selling drugs or even getting involved

selling drugs or even getting involved

selling drugs or even getting involved in violence they would come to the

in violence they would come to the

in violence they would come to the church and write music just like I did

church and write music just like I did

church and write music just like I did it had a safe place to go by my uncle

it had a safe place to go by my uncle

it had a safe place to go by my uncle being an empowerment person I became

being an empowerment person I became

being an empowerment person I became that person now so what happens when you

that person now so what happens when you

that person now so what happens when you increase your empowerment your readiness

increase your empowerment your readiness

increase your empowerment your readiness increases your determination increases

increases your determination increases

increases your determination increases and it overflows in the lives of others

and it overflows in the lives of others

and it overflows in the lives of others this is why it’s important for you to do

this is why it’s important for you to do

this is why it’s important for you to do the same for other people it can flow

the same for other people it can flow

the same for other people it can flow over into other people’s lives here are

over into other people’s lives here are

over into other people’s lives here are my two beautiful twins TJ and Bella

my two beautiful twins TJ and Bella

my two beautiful twins TJ and Bella that’s Bella on the Left TJ on the right

that’s Bella on the Left TJ on the right

that’s Bella on the Left TJ on the right and here’s miss mr. and mrs. Hicks and

and here’s miss mr. and mrs. Hicks and

and here’s miss mr. and mrs. Hicks and not only I was able to empower students

not only I was able to empower students

not only I was able to empower students in my community I was also be able to

in my community I was also be able to

in my community I was also be able to empower my own children as a father I

empower my own children as a father I

empower my own children as a father I was able to tell them that they could be

was able to tell them that they could be

was able to tell them that they could be ready in power and determined to and

ready in power and determined to and

ready in power and determined to and give them the love and Ethan provide for

give them the love and Ethan provide for

give them the love and Ethan provide for them like I really wanted to hear is TJ

them like I really wanted to hear is TJ

them like I really wanted to hear is TJ Bella not only when I graduate for my

Bella not only when I graduate for my

Bella not only when I graduate for my bachelor’s but even when I graduated

bachelor’s but even when I graduated

bachelor’s but even when I graduated with my master’s degree and they

with my master’s degree and they

with my master’s degree and they actually I have the hat on but they wore

actually I have the hat on but they wore

actually I have the hat on but they wore to have more than idea that day and TJ

to have more than idea that day and TJ

to have more than idea that day and TJ and Bella are now having an opportunity

and Bella are now having an opportunity

and Bella are now having an opportunity on night at six years old they’re

on night at six years old they’re

on night at six years old they’re actually helping other students learn

actually helping other students learn

actually helping other students learn how to read because they know how to

how to read because they know how to

how to read because they know how to read already and they’re helping other

read already and they’re helping other

read already and they’re helping other students get empowered they’re becoming

students get empowered they’re becoming

students get empowered they’re becoming cheerleaders if I’m incoming counselors

cheerleaders if I’m incoming counselors

cheerleaders if I’m incoming counselors and becoming coaches so this doesn’t

and becoming coaches so this doesn’t

and becoming coaches so this doesn’t just pertain to a certain age level this

just pertain to a certain age level this

just pertain to a certain age level this doesn’t just pertain to a certain type

doesn’t just pertain to a certain type

doesn’t just pertain to a certain type of demographic of skin color this

of demographic of skin color this

of demographic of skin color this doesn’t just pertain to your economic

doesn’t just pertain to your economic

doesn’t just pertain to your economic status everybody should play a part in

status everybody should play a part in

status everybody should play a part in empowering another person in your life

empowering another person in your life

empowering another person in your life you could be a cheerleader you could be

you could be a cheerleader you could be

you could be a cheerleader you could be a counselor you can be a coach for

a counselor you can be a coach for

a counselor you can be a coach for anybody here’s one of my new coaches in

anybody here’s one of my new coaches in

anybody here’s one of my new coaches in my life this is the visionary behind the

my life this is the visionary behind the

my life this is the visionary behind the st. John Townsend his name is Paisley

st. John Townsend his name is Paisley

st. John Townsend his name is Paisley Baldy Paisley boney put me in one of his

Baldy Paisley boney put me in one of his

Baldy Paisley boney put me in one of his articles and said

articles and said

articles and said inspired by me see when you become a

inspired by me see when you become a

inspired by me see when you become a cheerleader Council on the coach other

cheerleader Council on the coach other

cheerleader Council on the coach other people say I want to help you because

people say I want to help you because

people say I want to help you because you are helping other people and this is

you are helping other people and this is

you are helping other people and this is the way life should be helping others so

the way life should be helping others so

the way life should be helping others so that other people will want to help you

that other people will want to help you

that other people will want to help you help more help other people so how can

help more help other people so how can

help more help other people so how can you empower others well think about that

you empower others well think about that

you empower others well think about that one person that’s in your phone right

one person that’s in your phone right

one person that’s in your phone right now that you haven’t been a great

now that you haven’t been a great

now that you haven’t been a great cheerleader for counselor coach you said

cheerleader for counselor coach you said

cheerleader for counselor coach you said you know what maybe back to give this

you know what maybe back to give this

you know what maybe back to give this person is a little more affirmation

person is a little more affirmation

person is a little more affirmation today it may be somebody in your phone

today it may be somebody in your phone

today it may be somebody in your phone so you know what I want to listen to

so you know what I want to listen to

so you know what I want to listen to this person a little bit more to hear

this person a little bit more to hear

this person a little bit more to hear what they have going on it may be an

what they have going on it may be an

what they have going on it may be an at-risk student who in your neighborhood

at-risk student who in your neighborhood

at-risk student who in your neighborhood if we can cheer for a football game or

if we can cheer for a football game or

if we can cheer for a football game or we can be excited about things we see on

we can be excited about things we see on

we can be excited about things we see on TV we can be excited about our students

TV we can be excited about our students

TV we can be excited about our students who are going to be the future of our

who are going to be the future of our

who are going to be the future of our nation in the future of our world we

nation in the future of our world we

nation in the future of our world we want to begin to empower others because

want to begin to empower others because

want to begin to empower others because guess what if we empower others less

guess what if we empower others less

guess what if we empower others less people will drop the ball thank you so

people will drop the ball thank you so

people will drop the ball thank you so much enjoy this may be one less person

much enjoy this may be one less person

much enjoy this may be one less person Oh c.carter one less person will drop

Oh c.carter one less person will drop

Oh c.carter one less person will drop the ball thank you so much

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