don’t let negativity get you down a little while ago I wrote a newsletter
little while ago I wrote a newsletter
little while ago I wrote a newsletter for my list I bought at a time when I
for my list I bought at a time when I
for my list I bought at a time when I was really panicking I remember when I
was really panicking I remember when I
was really panicking I remember when I got my first place you know I moved out
got my first place you know I moved out
got my first place you know I moved out of my partner and I bought my first
of my partner and I bought my first
of my partner and I bought my first place and I got so excited I was so
place and I got so excited I was so
place and I got so excited I was so happy to have my own place you know
happy to have my own place you know
happy to have my own place you know finally I felt like I was growing up and
finally I felt like I was growing up and
finally I felt like I was growing up and I I was a success even though it wasn’t
I I was a success even though it wasn’t
I I was a success even though it wasn’t a huge place this is town house but it’s
a huge place this is town house but it’s
a huge place this is town house but it’s my own you know I’m I did that and after
my own you know I’m I did that and after
my own you know I’m I did that and after I signed the agreement I realized that
I signed the agreement I realized that
I signed the agreement I realized that what if I couldn’t make all the payments
what if I couldn’t make all the payments
what if I couldn’t make all the payments on this mortgage that I just took on and
on this mortgage that I just took on and
on this mortgage that I just took on and I started to panic I started to freak
I started to panic I started to freak
I started to panic I started to freak out like my heart was beating I was
out like my heart was beating I was
out like my heart was beating I was sweating and just a paralyzing fear that
sweating and just a paralyzing fear that
sweating and just a paralyzing fear that this isn’t gonna work out what’s gonna
this isn’t gonna work out what’s gonna
this isn’t gonna work out what’s gonna happen I don’t want to be losing all my
happen I don’t want to be losing all my
happen I don’t want to be losing all my savings and end up on the street and
savings and end up on the street and
savings and end up on the street and just the embarrassment of all that and I
just the embarrassment of all that and I
just the embarrassment of all that and I used the panic to fuel me I used the
used the panic to fuel me I used the
used the panic to fuel me I used the panic to make me work harder I used the
panic to make me work harder I used the
panic to make me work harder I used the panic to you know was midnight I was
panic to you know was midnight I was
panic to you know was midnight I was getting tired I was so scared of losing
getting tired I was so scared of losing
getting tired I was so scared of losing my house that I worked until 3:00 in the
my house that I worked until 3:00 in the
my house that I worked until 3:00 in the morning I worked harder I put more into
morning I worked harder I put more into
morning I worked harder I put more into it I gave everything I had into it I
it I gave everything I had into it I
it I gave everything I had into it I stop playing games and stop wasting my
stop playing games and stop wasting my
stop playing games and stop wasting my time and getting distracted I focused
time and getting distracted I focused
time and getting distracted I focused I used that negativity to make me
I used that negativity to make me
I used that negativity to make me stronger and move me closer to achieving
stronger and move me closer to achieving
stronger and move me closer to achieving my goal as people and as entrepreneurs
my goal as people and as entrepreneurs
my goal as people and as entrepreneurs you have a choice there’s going to be a
you have a choice there’s going to be a
you have a choice there’s going to be a lot of negative emotions that will
lot of negative emotions that will
lot of negative emotions that will surround your they’ll surround you
surround your they’ll surround you
surround your they’ll surround you either ones that you give yourself like
either ones that you give yourself like
either ones that you give yourself like panic or ones that other people put on
panic or ones that other people put on
panic or ones that other people put on you like doubt and fear and worry and
you like doubt and fear and worry and
you like doubt and fear and worry and anger and it’s how you react to them
anger and it’s how you react to them
anger and it’s how you react to them that makes all the difference in the
that makes all the difference in the
that makes all the difference in the world because you have a choice to
world because you have a choice to
world because you have a choice to either let those negative thoughts and
either let those negative thoughts and
either let those negative thoughts and experiences bring you down or let them
experiences bring you down or let them
experiences bring you down or let them act as fuel to make you stronger you can
act as fuel to make you stronger you can
act as fuel to make you stronger you can look at
look at
look at kids for example a I’ve looked at a few
kids for example a I’ve looked at a few
kids for example a I’ve looked at a few studies of kids who grew up in battered
studies of kids who grew up in battered
studies of kids who grew up in battered homes and they were they were abused by
homes and they were they were abused by
homes and they were they were abused by their parents spanked or worse or you
their parents spanked or worse or you
their parents spanked or worse or you know cigarette butts on them and just
know cigarette butts on them and just
know cigarette butts on them and just terrible stuff and you can look at two
terrible stuff and you can look at two
terrible stuff and you can look at two siblings who come from the same
siblings who come from the same
siblings who come from the same household and one of them goes on to the
household and one of them goes on to the
household and one of them goes on to the exact same thing to their kids they beat
exact same thing to their kids they beat
exact same thing to their kids they beat them they punish them they’re abusive
them they punish them they’re abusive
them they punish them they’re abusive and and they say one like that because
and and they say one like that because
and and they say one like that because look at the look at the environment I
look at the look at the environment I
look at the look at the environment I came from look what my parents did and
came from look what my parents did and
came from look what my parents did and they let that negativity creep into
they let that negativity creep into
they let that negativity creep into their lives and you can have their
their lives and you can have their
their lives and you can have their brother or sister grow up in the same
brother or sister grow up in the same
brother or sister grow up in the same family suffer the same thing and they go
family suffer the same thing and they go
family suffer the same thing and they go on to be great parents and they never
on to be great parents and they never
on to be great parents and they never hit their child and they’re there loving
hit their child and they’re there loving
hit their child and they’re there loving and respectful and when you ask them why
and respectful and when you ask them why
and respectful and when you ask them why is that they give the same answer as
is that they give the same answer as
is that they give the same answer as their simple and they say well look at
their simple and they say well look at
their simple and they say well look at what I grew up in I never want to be
what I grew up in I never want to be
what I grew up in I never want to be like that they use that negativity as an
like that they use that negativity as an
like that they use that negativity as an example of what not to do and to fuel
example of what not to do and to fuel
example of what not to do and to fuel them to be better you have a choice this
them to be better you have a choice this
them to be better you have a choice this is a conscious decision that you can
is a conscious decision that you can
is a conscious decision that you can make when somebody tells you that it’s
make when somebody tells you that it’s
make when somebody tells you that it’s not going to work out when somebody’s
not going to work out when somebody’s
not going to work out when somebody’s hating on your idea when you’re worried
hating on your idea when you’re worried
hating on your idea when you’re worried something’s not going to work out when
something’s not going to work out when
something’s not going to work out when you’re angry at something when you’re
you’re angry at something when you’re
you’re angry at something when you’re frustrated by something you can either
frustrated by something you can either
frustrated by something you can either use that to bring you down to hide to
use that to bring you down to hide to
use that to bring you down to hide to shrink down to live a mediocre life to
shrink down to live a mediocre life to
shrink down to live a mediocre life to be unhappy or you use that as fuel to
be unhappy or you use that as fuel to
be unhappy or you use that as fuel to make you stronger to be better to say
make you stronger to be better to say
make you stronger to be better to say this is not acceptable and I’m going to
this is not acceptable and I’m going to
this is not acceptable and I’m going to find a solution for it this comes as a
find a solution for it this comes as a
find a solution for it this comes as a result of a question from one of my
result of a question from one of my
result of a question from one of my newsletter readers Rashid who wrote in
newsletter readers Rashid who wrote in
newsletter readers Rashid who wrote in the say can I assume that Panik always
the say can I assume that Panik always
the say can I assume that Panik always brings out good outcomes or sometimes it
brings out good outcomes or sometimes it
brings out good outcomes or sometimes it can cause errors it’s really how you
can cause errors it’s really how you
can cause errors it’s really how you react to it
react to it
react to it the point here is it’s a conscious
the point here is it’s a conscious
the point here is it’s a conscious choice at some time in your life you’re
choice at some time in your life you’re
choice at some time in your life you’re gonna feel panic we all do you’re gonna
gonna feel panic we all do you’re gonna
gonna feel panic we all do you’re gonna feel lots of pain you’re gonna feel
feel lots of pain you’re gonna feel
feel lots of pain you’re gonna feel pressure you’re gonna feel stress you’re
pressure you’re gonna feel stress you’re
pressure you’re gonna feel stress you’re gonna feel anger
gonna feel anger
gonna feel anger you’re gonna feel hatred it’s all in how
you’re gonna feel hatred it’s all in how
you’re gonna feel hatred it’s all in how you react to those things you have the
you react to those things you have the
you react to those things you have the choice you make a decision to either let
choice you make a decision to either let
choice you make a decision to either let those things bring you down and you
those things bring you down and you
those things bring you down and you become angry and hateful and hopeless
become angry and hateful and hopeless
become angry and hateful and hopeless and and bring that to other people you
and and bring that to other people you
and and bring that to other people you know people are angry and hates it hate
know people are angry and hates it hate
know people are angry and hates it hate towards you you could bring that to
towards you you could bring that to
towards you you could bring that to other people your friends you start
other people your friends you start
other people your friends you start getting angry on them you start hating
getting angry on them you start hating
getting angry on them you start hating on them or you can use that to make you
on them or you can use that to make you
on them or you can use that to make you stronger to show there’s an example of
stronger to show there’s an example of
stronger to show there’s an example of what you don’t want to be what you don’t
what you don’t want to be what you don’t
what you don’t want to be what you don’t want to embody and use it as fuel to
want to embody and use it as fuel to
want to embody and use it as fuel to make your business a reality believe
make your business a reality believe
make your business a reality believe thanks for the question feely for you
thanks for the question feely for you
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you let negativity bring you down how do
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