how to get more confidence the best way that I know how to get more confidence
that I know how to get more confidence
that I know how to get more confidence is to start small usually if you are
is to start small usually if you are
is to start small usually if you are unconfident in something it’s because
unconfident in something it’s because
unconfident in something it’s because it’s as big scary thing that you’ve
it’s as big scary thing that you’ve
it’s as big scary thing that you’ve never done before I’ve never had any
never done before I’ve never had any
never done before I’ve never had any success with before and because it’s so
success with before and because it’s so
success with before and because it’s so big and scary you doubt yourself and
big and scary you doubt yourself and
big and scary you doubt yourself and you’re not confident in your ability to
you’re not confident in your ability to
you’re not confident in your ability to do it and it can be paralyzing and it
do it and it can be paralyzing and it
do it and it can be paralyzing and it shuts you down the best way that i found
shuts you down the best way that i found
shuts you down the best way that i found that helps me to be able to go out and
that helps me to be able to go out and
that helps me to be able to go out and be confident in the things that I’m
be confident in the things that I’m
be confident in the things that I’m doing is I start small I take that big
doing is I start small I take that big
doing is I start small I take that big project and I take it into small little
project and I take it into small little
project and I take it into small little pieces and try to figure out okay that’s
pieces and try to figure out okay that’s
pieces and try to figure out okay that’s my long-term vision that’s it I love for
my long-term vision that’s it I love for
my long-term vision that’s it I love for that to happen but what’s like the next
that to happen but what’s like the next
that to happen but what’s like the next little step that I can take because that
little step that I can take because that
little step that I can take because that little step is not as scary and if I can
little step is not as scary and if I can
little step is not as scary and if I can do that Dino I could do that step over
do that Dino I could do that step over
do that Dino I could do that step over and over and over again and then I’m
and over and over again and then I’m
and over and over again and then I’m willing to go to the next step and the
willing to go to the next step and the
willing to go to the next step and the next step and the next step some people
next step and the next step some people
next step and the next step some people some people don’t have this problem some
some people don’t have this problem some
some people don’t have this problem some people are just overly confident all the
people are just overly confident all the
people are just overly confident all the time and they just jump into new things
time and they just jump into new things
time and they just jump into new things That’s not me and that’s not a lot of
That’s not me and that’s not a lot of
That’s not me and that’s not a lot of people so if you’re like that you could
people so if you’re like that you could
people so if you’re like that you could turn off the video because it’s not for
turn off the video because it’s not for
turn off the video because it’s not for you but if you are that kind of person
you but if you are that kind of person
you but if you are that kind of person and you don’t always have tons of
and you don’t always have tons of
and you don’t always have tons of confidence going to every single
confidence going to every single
confidence going to every single situation you can build up your muscle
situation you can build up your muscle
situation you can build up your muscle by taking it into small steps because
by taking it into small steps because
by taking it into small steps because the first time you do anything can be
the first time you do anything can be
the first time you do anything can be scary and when it’s scary you’re unsure
scary and when it’s scary you’re unsure
scary and when it’s scary you’re unsure the outcome your insurer of your
the outcome your insurer of your
the outcome your insurer of your abilities you don’t have the confidence
abilities you don’t have the confidence
abilities you don’t have the confidence but once you do it then you could do it
but once you do it then you could do it
but once you do it then you could do it again and again and again you could go
again and again and again you could go
again and again and again you could go one step up further I got a great
one step up further I got a great
one step up further I got a great question from one of my youtube viewers
question from one of my youtube viewers
question from one of my youtube viewers Mike who wrote in with a huge long
Mike who wrote in with a huge long
Mike who wrote in with a huge long message thank you Mike we got a we got
message thank you Mike we got a we got
message thank you Mike we got a we got to work on cutting down our messages but
to work on cutting down our messages but
to work on cutting down our messages but but it was a great email basically wrote
but it was a great email basically wrote
but it was a great email basically wrote in the say he’s part of this life
in the say he’s part of this life
in the say he’s part of this life insurance company okay he’s got a
insurance company okay he’s got a
insurance company okay he’s got a brokerage him and his father-in-law had
brokerage him and his father-in-law had
brokerage him and his father-in-law had this brokerage together he’s got the 30
this brokerage together he’s got the 30
this brokerage together he’s got the 30 350 people under him and his father in
350 people under him and his father in
350 people under him and his father in law wants him to eventually take over
law wants him to eventually take over
law wants him to eventually take over the business and mike is afraid that
the business and mike is afraid that
the business and mike is afraid that I he doesn’t have what it takes to make
I he doesn’t have what it takes to make
I he doesn’t have what it takes to make big decisions he’s 26 years old I think
big decisions he’s 26 years old I think
big decisions he’s 26 years old I think and he’s afraid of taking over this
and he’s afraid of taking over this
and he’s afraid of taking over this business and he’s afraid to go talk to
business and he’s afraid to go talk to
business and he’s afraid to go talk to his father in law to say hey like I
his father in law to say hey like I
his father in law to say hey like I don’t know if I can handle this Mike
don’t know if I can handle this Mike
don’t know if I can handle this Mike it’s great that you’re actually scared
it’s great that you’re actually scared
it’s great that you’re actually scared here because it shows that you care it
here because it shows that you care it
here because it shows that you care it shows that you really care about the 350
shows that you really care about the 350
shows that you really care about the 350 people who are under you and their
people who are under you and their
people who are under you and their livelihood right you’d want to make the
livelihood right you’d want to make the
livelihood right you’d want to make the wrong decision that could impact all of
wrong decision that could impact all of
wrong decision that could impact all of their lives right put them out of
their lives right put them out of
their lives right put them out of business and make them go look for new
business and make them go look for new
business and make them go look for new jobs so it’s great and that that caring
jobs so it’s great and that that caring
jobs so it’s great and that that caring and compassion is a great place to start
and compassion is a great place to start
and compassion is a great place to start with for you to get more confidence
with for you to get more confidence
with for you to get more confidence start making little decisions now take
start making little decisions now take
start making little decisions now take over little chunks instead of making
over little chunks instead of making
over little chunks instead of making these big wide ranging decisions and
these big wide ranging decisions and
these big wide ranging decisions and having everything fall on your plate
having everything fall on your plate
having everything fall on your plate have a transition period where you start
have a transition period where you start
have a transition period where you start making more and more decisions and you
making more and more decisions and you
making more and more decisions and you have your father-in-law as guidance
have your father-in-law as guidance
have your father-in-law as guidance along the way in any major corporation
along the way in any major corporation
along the way in any major corporation the person who become CEO doesn’t just
the person who become CEO doesn’t just
the person who become CEO doesn’t just become CEO overnight there’s a grooming
become CEO overnight there’s a grooming
become CEO overnight there’s a grooming process they’re trained they work with
process they’re trained they work with
process they’re trained they work with the CEO their mentored and they start
the CEO their mentored and they start
the CEO their mentored and they start taking on responsibilities bit by bit by
taking on responsibilities bit by bit by
taking on responsibilities bit by bit by bit so when they have the role they’re
bit so when they have the role they’re
bit so when they have the role they’re confident in it so it encourage you to
confident in it so it encourage you to
confident in it so it encourage you to do the same thing and you could tell
do the same thing and you could tell
do the same thing and you could tell your father in law and I wouldn’t be too
your father in law and I wouldn’t be too
your father in law and I wouldn’t be too afraid to bring it up let them know that
afraid to bring it up let them know that
afraid to bring it up let them know that you you are interested in this but
you you are interested in this but
you you are interested in this but you’re worried and you want his help to
you’re worried and you want his help to
you’re worried and you want his help to train you to be better and start taking
train you to be better and start taking
train you to be better and start taking on smaller projects that work up to
on smaller projects that work up to
on smaller projects that work up to become bigger projects so the next time
become bigger projects so the next time
become bigger projects so the next time that comes up you’re able to handle it
that comes up you’re able to handle it
that comes up you’re able to handle it you have the confidence to know that you
you have the confidence to know that you
you have the confidence to know that you can do it okay it’s believing in
can do it okay it’s believing in
can do it okay it’s believing in yourself and that comes from getting
yourself and that comes from getting
yourself and that comes from getting some experience I remember when I first
some experience I remember when I first
some experience I remember when I first started doing videos I was scared I was
started doing videos I was scared I was
started doing videos I was scared I was nervous that the first videos were not
nervous that the first videos were not
nervous that the first videos were not great I wanted to get into videos it was
great I wanted to get into videos it was
great I wanted to get into videos it was it was a good reason I love watching
it was a good reason I love watching
it was a good reason I love watching videos I learn visually so I wanted to
videos I learn visually so I wanted to
videos I learn visually so I wanted to create videos to help entrepreneurs it
create videos to help entrepreneurs it
create videos to help entrepreneurs it was something I was passionate about I
was something I was passionate about I
was something I was passionate about I just didn’t have the confidence and I
just didn’t have the confidence and I
just didn’t have the confidence and I wasn’t really good at it and if you look
wasn’t really good at it and if you look
wasn’t really good at it and if you look at my first videos they were they
at my first videos they were they
at my first videos they were they weren’t great
weren’t great
weren’t great they’re still up on YouTube you can go
they’re still up on YouTube you can go
they’re still up on YouTube you can go back and watch him they weren’t
back and watch him they weren’t
back and watch him they weren’t fantastic and the first videos i made i
fantastic and the first videos i made i
fantastic and the first videos i made i had to summon a lot of courage to do it
had to summon a lot of courage to do it
had to summon a lot of courage to do it because standing in front of a camera
because standing in front of a camera
because standing in front of a camera and knowing that what you record is
and knowing that what you record is
and knowing that what you record is going to go out to millions of people
going to go out to millions of people
going to go out to millions of people and being like public domain that was
and being like public domain that was
and being like public domain that was scary and so i had to have things go a
scary and so i had to have things go a
scary and so i had to have things go a certain way i had to be alone nobody
certain way i had to be alone nobody
certain way i had to be alone nobody could be around me i had to have my
could be around me i had to have my
could be around me i had to have my drink i had to have prepared and i did
drink i had to have prepared and i did
drink i had to have prepared and i did so many takes it took me the whole day
so many takes it took me the whole day
so many takes it took me the whole day to do one video but i did it you know it
to do one video but i did it you know it
to do one video but i did it you know it wasn’t great but I did it and I knew
wasn’t great but I did it and I knew
wasn’t great but I did it and I knew that I could do that again and so I did
that I could do that again and so I did
that I could do that again and so I did it again and again and I got better and
it again and again and I got better and
it again and again and I got better and better and better each time up the game
better and better each time up the game
better and better each time up the game a little bit so now it doesn’t matter if
a little bit so now it doesn’t matter if
a little bit so now it doesn’t matter if there’s people in the room it doesn’t
there’s people in the room it doesn’t
there’s people in the room it doesn’t matter if my days gone a certain way it
matter if my days gone a certain way it
matter if my days gone a certain way it doesn’t take me all afternoon to make
doesn’t take me all afternoon to make
doesn’t take me all afternoon to make one video but I couldn’t have gone from
one video but I couldn’t have gone from
one video but I couldn’t have gone from where I was to REM now without going
where I was to REM now without going
where I was to REM now without going through all those steps and each step
through all those steps and each step
through all those steps and each step gave me confidence to take the next step
gave me confidence to take the next step
gave me confidence to take the next step and the next step I know it can be scary
and the next step I know it can be scary
and the next step I know it can be scary I know for any of you who are watching
I know for any of you who are watching
I know for any of you who are watching you have you have a goal that you want
you have you have a goal that you want
you have you have a goal that you want to reach but it requires you jumping
to reach but it requires you jumping
to reach but it requires you jumping through a lot of scary hoops and doing
through a lot of scary hoops and doing
through a lot of scary hoops and doing things that are way outside your comfort
things that are way outside your comfort
things that are way outside your comfort zone don’t let that hold you back don’t
zone don’t let that hold you back don’t
zone don’t let that hold you back don’t let that hold you back from being a
let that hold you back from being a
let that hold you back from being a great entrepreneur and helping a lot of
great entrepreneur and helping a lot of
great entrepreneur and helping a lot of people you can overcome those fears and
people you can overcome those fears and
people you can overcome those fears and the best way again I know how to do it
the best way again I know how to do it
the best way again I know how to do it is step-by-step so just break that down
is step-by-step so just break that down
is step-by-step so just break that down into the smallest possible step and
into the smallest possible step and
into the smallest possible step and start building momentum and start
start building momentum and start
start building momentum and start getting better and better and as you
getting better and better and as you
getting better and better and as you look back you’ll say wow what what kind
look back you’ll say wow what what kind
look back you’ll say wow what what kind of progress i just made on that you’ll
of progress i just made on that you’ll
of progress i just made on that you’ll shock yourself and you make it a lot
shock yourself and you make it a lot
shock yourself and you make it a lot less scary it gives you the confidence
less scary it gives you the confidence
less scary it gives you the confidence and motivation to keep going believe
and motivation to keep going believe
and motivation to keep going believe those you’re watching you like the video
those you’re watching you like the video
those you’re watching you like the video thumbs up below it i love seeing to come
thumbs up below it i love seeing to come
thumbs up below it i love seeing to come in and i won here you have to think do
in and i won here you have to think do
in and i won here you have to think do you have confidence you have issues with
you have confidence you have issues with
you have confidence you have issues with your confidence can I answer a question
your confidence can I answer a question
your confidence can I answer a question for you please leave it below in the
for you please leave it below in the
for you please leave it below in the comments section it’s the best part of
comments section it’s the best part of
comments section it’s the best part of my day seeing those comments come in so
my day seeing those comments come in so
my day seeing those comments come in so thank you so much guys and I’ll see you
thank you so much guys and I’ll see you
thank you so much guys and I’ll see you soon
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