today I would be discussing rather talking on this issue called as critics
talking on this issue called as critics
talking on this issue called as critics can it enhance personality can it be a
can it enhance personality can it be a
can it enhance personality can it be a part of you can it define you can it
part of you can it define you can it
part of you can it define you can it make you can it break you can it give it
make you can it break you can it give it
make you can it break you can it give it to you what you want can it shows you
to you what you want can it shows you
to you what you want can it shows you the path of success is it negative or
the path of success is it negative or
the path of success is it negative or positive is it just a myth or is it a
positive is it just a myth or is it a
positive is it just a myth or is it a reality for me critics has always been
reality for me critics has always been
reality for me critics has always been apart for a woman to be in man’s world I
apart for a woman to be in man’s world I
apart for a woman to be in man’s world I faced a lot of critics married for 22
faced a lot of critics married for 22
faced a lot of critics married for 22 years and coming up with the all
years and coming up with the all
years and coming up with the all credentials criminology psychology
credentials criminology psychology
credentials criminology psychology victimology being on a really special
victimology being on a really special
victimology being on a really special police officer social activist NGO
police officer social activist NGO
police officer social activist NGO criminal lawyer was not a easy journey
criminal lawyer was not a easy journey
criminal lawyer was not a easy journey for me a mother of two Indian society
for me a mother of two Indian society
for me a mother of two Indian society critics a best friend of mine
I always wanted to be looked into as a
I always wanted to be looked into as a person who could be in the home at one
person who could be in the home at one
person who could be in the home at one corner because I’m a woman seriously I
corner because I’m a woman seriously I
corner because I’m a woman seriously I would already talking about a gender
would already talking about a gender
would already talking about a gender here
here
here no critics enhances you
no critics enhances you
no critics enhances you I accepted critics from the time when I
I accepted critics from the time when I
I accepted critics from the time when I knew that they are going to be looking
knew that they are going to be looking
knew that they are going to be looking up at me rather they will be looking
up at me rather they will be looking
up at me rather they will be looking down at me they wanted to tell me you
down at me they wanted to tell me you
down at me they wanted to tell me you can never ever stand equal in the man’s
can never ever stand equal in the man’s
can never ever stand equal in the man’s world
critics whenever it knocks your door you
critics whenever it knocks your door you know what it’s bringing up it is
know what it’s bringing up it is
know what it’s bringing up it is negative that’s what people say
negative that’s what people say
negative that’s what people say it’s very negative you go outside you’ll
it’s very negative you go outside you’ll
it’s very negative you go outside you’ll see a lot of people will bring it up to
see a lot of people will bring it up to
see a lot of people will bring it up to you and say this is the way you dress is
you and say this is the way you dress is
you and say this is the way you dress is this is the way you work is this is what
this is the way you work is this is what
this is the way you work is this is what you do that’s all critics food critics
you do that’s all critics food critics
you do that’s all critics food critics film critics about me about you
film critics about me about you
film critics about me about you whenever I always to do something good
whenever I always to do something good
whenever I always to do something good in my life my best friend used to stand
in my life my best friend used to stand
in my life my best friend used to stand up critics you can do you will never do
up critics you can do you will never do
up critics you can do you will never do so what I thought I have been the
so what I thought I have been the
so what I thought I have been the psychologist I said that’s not possible
psychologist I said that’s not possible
psychologist I said that’s not possible critics can’t break me if I have to be
critics can’t break me if I have to be
critics can’t break me if I have to be successful in life if I have to be what
successful in life if I have to be what
successful in life if I have to be what I want to be I have to accept critics
I want to be I have to accept critics
I want to be I have to accept critics it’s just the same we’ll help you just
it’s just the same we’ll help you just
it’s just the same we’ll help you just saying that help yourself by understand
saying that help yourself by understand
saying that help yourself by understand critics take it in the way it is it was
critics take it in the way it is it was
critics take it in the way it is it was very difficult
very difficult
very difficult very difficult I was diagnosed with the
very difficult I was diagnosed with the
very difficult I was diagnosed with the pituitary adenomas in 2007 it’s called
pituitary adenomas in 2007 it’s called
pituitary adenomas in 2007 it’s called as brain tumor a brain tumor of
as brain tumor a brain tumor of
as brain tumor a brain tumor of pituitary gland imagine a mother of two
pituitary gland imagine a mother of two
pituitary gland imagine a mother of two not been asked for how you do how you do
not been asked for how you do how you do
not been asked for how you do how you do things
things
things marry whole family but critics never
marry whole family but critics never
marry whole family but critics never left me coming into that life of being a
left me coming into that life of being a
left me coming into that life of being a victim of your own self I had to take
victim of your own self I had to take
victim of your own self I had to take myself help in every way I can and was
myself help in every way I can and was
myself help in every way I can and was understanding that what to do with my
understanding that what to do with my
understanding that what to do with my life now where I have a pituitary
life now where I have a pituitary
life now where I have a pituitary adenomas where I’m standing I have a
adenomas where I’m standing I have a
adenomas where I’m standing I have a hormonal disbalance
hormonal disbalance
hormonal disbalance I have to take 16 medicines every day to
I have to take 16 medicines every day to
I have to take 16 medicines every day to sit and stand people don’t understand
sit and stand people don’t understand
sit and stand people don’t understand that they understand critics they didn’t
that they understand critics they didn’t
that they understand critics they didn’t want it to see beyond me because they
want it to see beyond me because they
want it to see beyond me because they want to see a flaw in me they wanted to
want to see a flaw in me they wanted to
want to see a flaw in me they wanted to see how can I break a new job how can we
see how can I break a new job how can we
see how can I break a new job how can we break her personality so that she does
break her personality so that she does
break her personality so that she does not stand my disease never left me
not stand my disease never left me
not stand my disease never left me handicapped it was a beautiful moment of
handicapped it was a beautiful moment of
handicapped it was a beautiful moment of my life
my life
my life it still is it’s a bomb ticking inside
it still is it’s a bomb ticking inside
it still is it’s a bomb ticking inside me maybe one day just everybody goes but
me maybe one day just everybody goes but
me maybe one day just everybody goes but maybe for me it’s written what I did I
maybe for me it’s written what I did I
maybe for me it’s written what I did I said I’ll do what I do best
said I’ll do what I do best
said I’ll do what I do best ignore and I did and I took critics I
ignore and I did and I took critics I
ignore and I did and I took critics I accepted it I said you want to break me
accepted it I said you want to break me
accepted it I said you want to break me break critics because this is where I
break critics because this is where I
break critics because this is where I belong I want you to see myself
belong I want you to see myself
belong I want you to see myself flying high rediscovering myself but
flying high rediscovering myself but
flying high rediscovering myself but Curtis was not allowing me to do that
Curtis was not allowing me to do that
Curtis was not allowing me to do that my family my in-laws everybody wherever
my family my in-laws everybody wherever
my family my in-laws everybody wherever I was going I was understanding that
I was going I was understanding that
I was going I was understanding that some way down the lane something is not
some way down the lane something is not
some way down the lane something is not right and that’s when I said I have to
right and that’s when I said I have to
right and that’s when I said I have to at Bukit I have to become a devil’s
at Bukit I have to become a devil’s
at Bukit I have to become a devil’s advocate so to stand myself I made it my
advocate so to stand myself I made it my
advocate so to stand myself I made it my best friend I started studying I didn’t
best friend I started studying I didn’t
best friend I started studying I didn’t want it to get into depression I didn’t
want it to get into depression I didn’t
want it to get into depression I didn’t want it to lie down I didn’t want it to
want it to lie down I didn’t want it to
want it to lie down I didn’t want it to be a wick tum’ I wanted to be a survivor
be a wick tum’ I wanted to be a survivor
be a wick tum’ I wanted to be a survivor and who big made me a survivor
and who big made me a survivor
and who big made me a survivor the critics because critics gave me a
the critics because critics gave me a
the critics because critics gave me a motive to live on it gave me a motive to
motive to live on it gave me a motive to
motive to live on it gave me a motive to understand me to make me what I am today
understand me to make me what I am today
understand me to make me what I am today to fight back to give you what everybody
to fight back to give you what everybody
to fight back to give you what everybody said she can’t do it she can never do it
said she can’t do it she can never do it
said she can’t do it she can never do it I never wanted to cry on myself even
I never wanted to cry on myself even
I never wanted to cry on myself even once and I never did because I don’t
once and I never did because I don’t
once and I never did because I don’t want to prove the other people around
want to prove the other people around
want to prove the other people around who were there standing and laughing at
who were there standing and laughing at
who were there standing and laughing at me I said no there’s not going to be
me I said no there’s not going to be
me I said no there’s not going to be done I’m not only a mum I’m not only a
done I’m not only a mum I’m not only a
done I’m not only a mum I’m not only a wife I’m not only a daughter I’m just
wife I’m not only a daughter I’m just
wife I’m not only a daughter I’m just beyond that and how will I tell you that
beyond that and how will I tell you that
beyond that and how will I tell you that I’m beyond that by working on my
I’m beyond that by working on my
I’m beyond that by working on my weaknesses by working on critics I stood
weaknesses by working on critics I stood
weaknesses by working on critics I stood I fought I’m standing here in front of
I fought I’m standing here in front of
I fought I’m standing here in front of you today as a successful woman but that
you today as a successful woman but that
you today as a successful woman but that success every night every morning goes
success every night every morning goes
success every night every morning goes to drain because there is one way or the
to drain because there is one way or the
to drain because there is one way or the other it’s the people who will stop me
other it’s the people who will stop me
other it’s the people who will stop me and say you can’t make it and every time
and say you can’t make it and every time
and say you can’t make it and every time I look up at them and I say watch me
I look up at them and I say watch me
I look up at them and I say watch me so critics if you love your critics you
so critics if you love your critics you
so critics if you love your critics you make it a power whenever somebody was
make it a power whenever somebody was
make it a power whenever somebody was saying something to me I started writing
saying something to me I started writing
saying something to me I started writing it down because I knew that critics is a
it down because I knew that critics is a
it down because I knew that critics is a weakness they are seeing in me and how
weakness they are seeing in me and how
weakness they are seeing in me and how can I come back to you I started writing
can I come back to you I started writing
can I come back to you I started writing it down and I started making critics my
it down and I started making critics my
it down and I started making critics my power I’m making my weakness my power to
power I’m making my weakness my power to
power I’m making my weakness my power to come in front of you all to make you
come in front of you all to make you
come in front of you all to make you understand that you all are a Wiggum to
understand that you all are a Wiggum to
understand that you all are a Wiggum to critics because this is what you do the
critics because this is what you do the
critics because this is what you do the best look into yourself if somebody has
best look into yourself if somebody has
best look into yourself if somebody has said something to you don’t get
said something to you don’t get
said something to you don’t get depressed don’t fight it
depressed don’t fight it
depressed don’t fight it tell the other person don’t become
tell the other person don’t become
tell the other person don’t become defensive or offensive write it down
defensive or offensive write it down
defensive or offensive write it down that person who has given your critic is
that person who has given your critic is
that person who has given your critic is your best friend don’t let him/her go
your best friend don’t let him/her go
your best friend don’t let him/her go away because they are the one was going
away because they are the one was going
away because they are the one was going to be standing in front of you for your
to be standing in front of you for your
to be standing in front of you for your success so what I am today I thank
success so what I am today I thank
success so what I am today I thank everybody in my life to bring me the
everybody in my life to bring me the
everybody in my life to bring me the critics I might go out and I hear a lot
critics I might go out and I hear a lot
critics I might go out and I hear a lot many things just moving behind me you
many things just moving behind me you
many things just moving behind me you know how to depressive it becomes
know how to depressive it becomes
know how to depressive it becomes sometimes you are doing such good thing
sometimes you are doing such good thing
sometimes you are doing such good thing with such good heart
with such good heart
with such good heart but it is never enough for anybody why
but it is never enough for anybody why
but it is never enough for anybody why because they are not born with that they
because they are not born with that they
because they are not born with that they don’t understand that they’re made taken
don’t understand that they’re made taken
don’t understand that they’re made taken this weakness of them into a power and
this weakness of them into a power and
this weakness of them into a power and they can understand those person what
they can understand those person what
they can understand those person what they have lacked behind so it is not
they have lacked behind so it is not
they have lacked behind so it is not that they are pulling me down they’re
that they are pulling me down they’re
that they are pulling me down they’re degrading themselves so standing here
degrading themselves so standing here
degrading themselves so standing here maybe as a role model I’m trying to put
maybe as a role model I’m trying to put
maybe as a role model I’m trying to put to the audience critics is
to the audience critics is
to the audience critics is not that disease it is a power accepted
not that disease it is a power accepted
not that disease it is a power accepted make it the best friend of yours who
make it the best friend of yours who
make it the best friend of yours who could make you successful in life
could make you successful in life
could make you successful in life critics enhances personality thank you
critics enhances personality thank you
critics enhances personality thank you [Applause]
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