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Watch Your Language! | John Lanier | TEDxFurmanU


I love you not what you were expecting

I love you not what you were expecting right but I mean it as I say it I love

right but I mean it as I say it I love

right but I mean it as I say it I love you not you the audience I mean you and

you not you the audience I mean you and

you not you the audience I mean you and you and you each of you individually I

you and you each of you individually I

you and you each of you individually I love you you are beautiful you are

love you you are beautiful you are

love you you are beautiful you are remarkable you are of immense worth of

remarkable you are of immense worth of

remarkable you are of immense worth of course I love you by now there’s a

course I love you by now there’s a

course I love you by now there’s a chance I’m making you little

chance I’m making you little

chance I’m making you little uncomfortable those are words you’re

uncomfortable those are words you’re

uncomfortable those are words you’re used to hearing from a spouse or from

used to hearing from a spouse or from

used to hearing from a spouse or from your family perhaps from a close friend

your family perhaps from a close friend

your family perhaps from a close friend but certainly not from a stranger much

but certainly not from a stranger much

but certainly not from a stranger much less a buttoned-up 30-something former

less a buttoned-up 30-something former

less a buttoned-up 30-something former tax attorney from Georgia

tax attorney from Georgia

tax attorney from Georgia But Here I am in the flesh saying it

But Here I am in the flesh saying it

But Here I am in the flesh saying it again to you I love you in a sense it’s

again to you I love you in a sense it’s

again to you I love you in a sense it’s my job to love you I am a professional

my job to love you I am a professional

my job to love you I am a professional philanthropist and that word

philanthropist and that word

philanthropist and that word philanthropist comes from two words in

philanthropist comes from two words in

philanthropist comes from two words in ancient greek philia meaning love and

ancient greek philia meaning love and

ancient greek philia meaning love and and throw posts meaning human or

and throw posts meaning human or

and throw posts meaning human or humanity but I don’t love you because

humanity but I don’t love you because

humanity but I don’t love you because it’s my job I love you because of my

it’s my job I love you because of my

it’s my job I love you because of my values values that I have inherited from

values values that I have inherited from

values values that I have inherited from a man who I know loved me very much this

a man who I know loved me very much this

a man who I know loved me very much this man this is daddy Rae or at least that’s

man this is daddy Rae or at least that’s

man this is daddy Rae or at least that’s what I called him

what I called him

what I called him he was my grandfather others would call

he was my grandfather others would call

he was my grandfather others would call him Rae or mr. Anderson and Rae was the

him Rae or mr. Anderson and Rae was the

him Rae or mr. Anderson and Rae was the founder of interface Inc the world’s

founder of interface Inc the world’s

founder of interface Inc the world’s largest carpet tile manufacturing

largest carpet tile manufacturing

largest carpet tile manufacturing company and in 1994 when Ray was 60

company and in 1994 when Ray was 60

company and in 1994 when Ray was 60 years old he read a book the book was

years old he read a book the book was

years old he read a book the book was called the ecology of Commerce

called the ecology of Commerce

called the ecology of Commerce in the book charged business and

in the book charged business and

in the book charged business and industry companies just like raised as

industry companies just like raised as

industry companies just like raised as the culprit for the vast majority of

the culprit for the vast majority of

the culprit for the vast majority of environmental degradation that our

environmental degradation that our

environmental degradation that our society is witnessing but the book also

society is witnessing but the book also

society is witnessing but the book also said that business and industry is the

said that business and industry is the

said that business and industry is the only sector large enough well enough

only sector large enough well enough

only sector large enough well enough organized well enough capitalized to

organized well enough capitalized to

organized well enough capitalized to lead us out of this mess for a reading

lead us out of this mess for a reading

lead us out of this mess for a reading this book was an emotional experience he

this book was an emotional experience he

this book was an emotional experience he went on to call it his spear in the

went on to call it his spear in the

went on to call it his spear in the chest moment when he was convicted as a

chest moment when he was convicted as a

chest moment when he was convicted as a plunderer of the earth and he spent the

plunderer of the earth and he spent the

plunderer of the earth and he spent the last 17 years of his life trying to make

last 17 years of his life trying to make

last 17 years of his life trying to make his company as environmentally

his company as environmentally

his company as environmentally sustainable as possible now in doing so

sustainable as possible now in doing so

sustainable as possible now in doing so he changed the culture at interface and

he changed the culture at interface and

he changed the culture at interface and he had his entire company working with

he had his entire company working with

he had his entire company working with him to show what would be a new way of

him to show what would be a new way of

him to show what would be a new way of doing business and they proved that when

doing business and they proved that when

doing business and they proved that when done right environmental sustainability

done right environmental sustainability

done right environmental sustainability can be very good for business

can be very good for business

can be very good for business they saved hundreds of millions of

they saved hundreds of millions of

they saved hundreds of millions of dollars compared to the old way that

dollars compared to the old way that

dollars compared to the old way that they did their business all while

they did their business all while

they did their business all while pursuing the goal of having a

pursuing the goal of having a

pursuing the goal of having a manufacturing company with zero waste

manufacturing company with zero waste

manufacturing company with zero waste powered entirely by renewable energy

powered entirely by renewable energy

powered entirely by renewable energy with completely benign emissions and a

with completely benign emissions and a

with completely benign emissions and a closed-loop manufacturing process such

closed-loop manufacturing process such

closed-loop manufacturing process such that old carpet can be recycled and

that old carpet can be recycled and

that old carpet can be recycled and turned into new carpet with no waste

turned into new carpet with no waste

turned into new carpet with no waste lost in the system the company continues

lost in the system the company continues

lost in the system the company continues that climb because of the work of my

that climb because of the work of my

that climb because of the work of my grandfather but for Ray it wasn’t just

grandfather but for Ray it wasn’t just

grandfather but for Ray it wasn’t just about a better way of doing business for

about a better way of doing business for

about a better way of doing business for him environmental sustainability was a

him environmental sustainability was a

him environmental sustainability was a moral imperative it was an act of love

moral imperative it was an act of love

moral imperative it was an act of love love not just for all of us everyone on

love not just for all of us everyone on

love not just for all of us everyone on the planet today but really love for the

the planet today but really love for the

the planet today but really love for the generations of people who have yet to

generations of people who have yet to

generations of people who have yet to come to Planet Earth people who will be

come to Planet Earth people who will be

come to Planet Earth people who will be just as dependent upon healthy

just as dependent upon healthy

just as dependent upon healthy functioning natural systems as we are

functioning natural systems as we are

functioning natural systems as we are today this is the legacy I have

today this is the legacy I have

today this is the legacy I have inherited and I am so very honored that

inherited and I am so very honored that

inherited and I am so very honored that I get to do the work of advancing that

I get to do the work of advancing that

I get to do the work of advancing that legacy right along with my

legacy right along with my

legacy right along with my family at the RACI anderson foundation

family at the RACI anderson foundation

family at the RACI anderson foundation it is fulfilling and we are so very

it is fulfilling and we are so very

it is fulfilling and we are so very proud of what we have accomplished but

proud of what we have accomplished but

proud of what we have accomplished but we have more work to do and recently

we have more work to do and recently

we have more work to do and recently we’ve been considering what difference

we’ve been considering what difference

we’ve been considering what difference can we make on what we consider the most

can we make on what we consider the most

can we make on what we consider the most pressing challenge facing humanity the

pressing challenge facing humanity the

pressing challenge facing humanity the issue of climate change and in learning

issue of climate change and in learning

issue of climate change and in learning all that I possibly can about climate

all that I possibly can about climate

all that I possibly can about climate change over the last couple of years

change over the last couple of years

change over the last couple of years I’ve noticed a trend and how it is

I’ve noticed a trend and how it is

I’ve noticed a trend and how it is commonly described in society we see

commonly described in society we see

commonly described in society we see lots of phrases like these take action

lots of phrases like these take action

lots of phrases like these take action now to fight climate change we can win

now to fight climate change we can win

now to fight climate change we can win the war on warming we are under attack

the war on warming we are under attack

the war on warming we are under attack from climate change how to defeat

from climate change how to defeat

from climate change how to defeat climate change solving climate change

climate change solving climate change

climate change solving climate change will be like mobilizing for war hmm

will be like mobilizing for war hmm

will be like mobilizing for war hmm sounds kind of violent it got me

sounds kind of violent it got me

sounds kind of violent it got me thinking what other social causes that

thinking what other social causes that

thinking what other social causes that we care about that we work on are

we care about that we work on are

we care about that we work on are similarly described in such militaristic

similarly described in such militaristic

similarly described in such militaristic terms the failed war on drugs join the

terms the failed war on drugs join the

terms the failed war on drugs join the battle for net neutrality and the war on

battle for net neutrality and the war on

battle for net neutrality and the war on women immunotherapy is the newest weapon

women immunotherapy is the newest weapon

women immunotherapy is the newest weapon in the fight against cancer

in the fight against cancer

in the fight against cancer hashtag resist mobilize against malaria

hashtag resist mobilize against malaria

hashtag resist mobilize against malaria the war on Christmas now to be very

the war on Christmas now to be very

the war on Christmas now to be very clear I am NOT casting judgment on any

clear I am NOT casting judgment on any

clear I am NOT casting judgment on any of these causes I would love to see a

of these causes I would love to see a

of these causes I would love to see a cure for cancer developed and women

cure for cancer developed and women

cure for cancer developed and women everywhere deserve to be treated with

everywhere deserve to be treated with

everywhere deserve to be treated with respect dignity and fairness always what

respect dignity and fairness always what

respect dignity and fairness always what I am trying to point out is that this

I am trying to point out is that this

I am trying to point out is that this language has become so very common if

language has become so very common if

language has become so very common if you turn on the news if you follow

you turn on the news if you follow

you turn on the news if you follow social media heck if you just have a

social media heck if you just have a

social media heck if you just have a conversation you’ve probably heard this

conversation you’ve probably heard this

conversation you’ve probably heard this and if I had to bet you didn’t even

and if I had to bet you didn’t even

and if I had to bet you didn’t even notice we have become numb

notice we have become numb

notice we have become numb to this language which I find

to this language which I find

to this language which I find unfortunate certainly conflict violence

unfortunate certainly conflict violence

unfortunate certainly conflict violence that exists in our world but certainly

that exists in our world but certainly

that exists in our world but certainly it is the worst aspect of what it is to

it is the worst aspect of what it is to

it is the worst aspect of what it is to be human our capacity to harm one

be human our capacity to harm one

be human our capacity to harm one another how sad then that this is the

another how sad then that this is the

another how sad then that this is the language that we’ve grown comfortable

language that we’ve grown comfortable

language that we’ve grown comfortable with we can compare that to the first

with we can compare that to the first

with we can compare that to the first three words that I shared with you

three words that I shared with you

three words that I shared with you remember how unexpected that was how

remember how unexpected that was how

remember how unexpected that was how uncomfortable that felt and I would

uncomfortable that felt and I would

uncomfortable that felt and I would argue that our capacity to love is the

argue that our capacity to love is the

argue that our capacity to love is the best aspect of being human the stories

best aspect of being human the stories

best aspect of being human the stories that I celebrate the most are the ones

that I celebrate the most are the ones

that I celebrate the most are the ones that talk of altruism self-sacrifice and

that talk of altruism self-sacrifice and

that talk of altruism self-sacrifice and generosity this is what we teach our

generosity this is what we teach our

generosity this is what we teach our children isn’t that what we should be

children isn’t that what we should be

children isn’t that what we should be striving for why then is this the

striving for why then is this the

striving for why then is this the language that feels uncomfortable

language that feels uncomfortable

language that feels uncomfortable there’s an alternative to fighting for

there’s an alternative to fighting for

there’s an alternative to fighting for the causes that we believe in we can

the causes that we believe in we can

the causes that we believe in we can work on them work is fulfilling it is

work on them work is fulfilling it is

work on them work is fulfilling it is uplifting it is rewarding in some

uplifting it is rewarding in some

uplifting it is rewarding in some cultures work can be holy when we fight

cultures work can be holy when we fight

cultures work can be holy when we fight for our causes we encounter enemies if

for our causes we encounter enemies if

for our causes we encounter enemies if we work towards them we can encounter

we work towards them we can encounter

we work towards them we can encounter friends working on something invites

friends working on something invites

friends working on something invites others to join in but warring over a

others to join in but warring over a

others to join in but warring over a cause draws a line in the sand between

cause draws a line in the sand between

cause draws a line in the sand between us and others ultimately language

us and others ultimately language

us and others ultimately language matters whether or not a cause is a

matters whether or not a cause is a

matters whether or not a cause is a crusade or a collaboration it depends on

crusade or a collaboration it depends on

crusade or a collaboration it depends on the language that we use and I believe

the language that we use and I believe

the language that we use and I believe that collaborations create more and

that collaborations create more and

that collaborations create more and better change in our societies so it is

better change in our societies so it is

better change in our societies so it is my hope that after hearing me today you

my hope that after hearing me today you

my hope that after hearing me today you are sensitive to the language that you

are sensitive to the language that you

are sensitive to the language that you hear out in the world that you’re

hear out in the world that you’re

hear out in the world that you’re sensitive to the language that you use I

sensitive to the language that you use I

sensitive to the language that you use I hope that phrases like the ones I’ve

hope that phrases like the ones I’ve

hope that phrases like the ones I’ve just shared with you leave you

just shared with you leave you

just shared with you leave you feeling uncomfortable and that what does

feeling uncomfortable and that what does

feeling uncomfortable and that what does leave you feeling comfortable are words

leave you feeling comfortable are words

leave you feeling comfortable are words like these dedication gentleness

like these dedication gentleness

like these dedication gentleness kindness generosity humility caring

kindness generosity humility caring

kindness generosity humility caring honesty peaceful tenderness committed

honesty peaceful tenderness committed

honesty peaceful tenderness committed devotion work decency tolerance

devotion work decency tolerance

devotion work decency tolerance considerate sympathy altruism

considerate sympathy altruism

considerate sympathy altruism collaboration self-sacrifice and I hope

collaboration self-sacrifice and I hope

collaboration self-sacrifice and I hope that we can all agree there are any

that we can all agree there are any

that we can all agree there are any words that feel good and right and

words that feel good and right and

words that feel good and right and normal there are these three words I

normal there are these three words I

normal there are these three words I love you thank you

love you thank you

love you thank you [Music]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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