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Yes, Go Limitless Go Within | Mandy Benedict | TEDxVail


so I was born and raised here in Vail

so I was born and raised here in Vail Colorado I was well aware of how

Colorado I was well aware of how

Colorado I was well aware of how important it was to train my physical

important it was to train my physical

important it was to train my physical body to be strong I wanted to keep up

body to be strong I wanted to keep up

body to be strong I wanted to keep up with my dad and older brother on skis

with my dad and older brother on skis

with my dad and older brother on skis raced my mountain bike and just enjoy an

raced my mountain bike and just enjoy an

raced my mountain bike and just enjoy an active lifestyle but I had no idea that

active lifestyle but I had no idea that

active lifestyle but I had no idea that I could train to create any emotion like

I could train to create any emotion like

I could train to create any emotion like freedom passion peace gratitude joy love

freedom passion peace gratitude joy love

freedom passion peace gratitude joy love or anything that I choose it’s not

or anything that I choose it’s not

or anything that I choose it’s not always comfortable or easy to train a

always comfortable or easy to train a

always comfortable or easy to train a new capacity for example this is me

new capacity for example this is me

new capacity for example this is me riding and wrecking my mountain bike it

riding and wrecking my mountain bike it

riding and wrecking my mountain bike it can be challenging to learn a new skill

can be challenging to learn a new skill

can be challenging to learn a new skill in anything we do

in anything we do

in anything we do that what’s important is that you stick

that what’s important is that you stick

that what’s important is that you stick with it so what is emotional

with it so what is emotional

with it so what is emotional intelligence it’s our ability to

intelligence it’s our ability to

intelligence it’s our ability to identify and manage how we’re feeling

identify and manage how we’re feeling

identify and manage how we’re feeling and it’s an imperative skill for success

and it’s an imperative skill for success

and it’s an imperative skill for success in business and in life talent smart

in business and in life talent smart

in business and in life talent smart tested emotional intelligence alongside

tested emotional intelligence alongside

tested emotional intelligence alongside 33 other important workplace skills and

33 other important workplace skills and

33 other important workplace skills and found it to be the strongest predictor

found it to be the strongest predictor

found it to be the strongest predictor of performance and success in all job

of performance and success in all job

of performance and success in all job types in fact 90% of top performers were

types in fact 90% of top performers were

types in fact 90% of top performers were also high in emotional intelligence and

also high in emotional intelligence and

also high in emotional intelligence and had greater earnings than their peers so

had greater earnings than their peers so

had greater earnings than their peers so if you’re thinking this doesn’t really

if you’re thinking this doesn’t really

if you’re thinking this doesn’t really apply to me I invite you to dig deeper

apply to me I invite you to dig deeper

apply to me I invite you to dig deeper because these findings held true for

because these findings held true for

because these findings held true for people in all industries at all levels

people in all industries at all levels

people in all industries at all levels in every region of the world what we

in every region of the world what we

in every region of the world what we generate from within determines our

generate from within determines our

generate from within determines our quality of life our ability to succeed

quality of life our ability to succeed

quality of life our ability to succeed or fail in that which we most desire

or fail in that which we most desire

or fail in that which we most desire really it’s our mind it’s our emotions

really it’s our mind it’s our emotions

really it’s our mind it’s our emotions that are creating our experience so

that are creating our experience so

that are creating our experience so after 15 years of working in our family

after 15 years of working in our family

after 15 years of working in our family business I was given the opportunity to

business I was given the opportunity to

business I was given the opportunity to become an owner but I was too afraid

become an owner but I was too afraid

become an owner but I was too afraid I was very stressed out and overwhelmed

I was very stressed out and overwhelmed

I was very stressed out and overwhelmed by life it seemed like way too much to

by life it seemed like way too much to

by life it seemed like way too much to take on at the time I was thinking more

take on at the time I was thinking more

take on at the time I was thinking more along the lines of selling all my belong

along the lines of selling all my belong

along the lines of selling all my belong and heading to South America with my

and heading to South America with my

and heading to South America with my yoga mat have you ever tried to move the

yoga mat have you ever tried to move the

yoga mat have you ever tried to move the external pieces in your life so you

external pieces in your life so you

external pieces in your life so you could feel something different inside

could feel something different inside

could feel something different inside how many of us have thought that by

how many of us have thought that by

how many of us have thought that by changing jobs where we live

changing jobs where we live

changing jobs where we live relationships if you know buying a new

relationships if you know buying a new

relationships if you know buying a new car would make us feel better inside and

car would make us feel better inside and

car would make us feel better inside and maybe there is some temporary relief but

maybe there is some temporary relief but

maybe there is some temporary relief but let’s face it that new car smell it goes

let’s face it that new car smell it goes

let’s face it that new car smell it goes away along with a newness of a

away along with a newness of a

away along with a newness of a relationship and now we’re back to

relationship and now we’re back to

relationship and now we’re back to feeling the same thing we did before so

feeling the same thing we did before so

feeling the same thing we did before so ten years ago I had a great career a

ten years ago I had a great career a

ten years ago I had a great career a husband who loved me I was traveling the

husband who loved me I was traveling the

husband who loved me I was traveling the world climbing Kilimanjaro mountain

world climbing Kilimanjaro mountain

world climbing Kilimanjaro mountain biking in Europe scuba diving sailing my

biking in Europe scuba diving sailing my

biking in Europe scuba diving sailing my life looked perfect at least according

life looked perfect at least according

life looked perfect at least according to Facebook not a very accurate

to Facebook not a very accurate

to Facebook not a very accurate representation of how I felt inside as I

representation of how I felt inside as I

representation of how I felt inside as I stand here today and reflect back on how

stand here today and reflect back on how

stand here today and reflect back on how defeated I felt inside the market

defeated I felt inside the market

defeated I felt inside the market crashed my marriage failed and I hit an

crashed my marriage failed and I hit an

crashed my marriage failed and I hit an all-time low the ache of sadness and

all-time low the ache of sadness and

all-time low the ache of sadness and disappointment filled me I would

disappointment filled me I would

disappointment filled me I would silently suffer through my days with a

silently suffer through my days with a

silently suffer through my days with a smile on my face having no idea what to

smile on my face having no idea what to

smile on my face having no idea what to do with this volcano of emotion that was

do with this volcano of emotion that was

do with this volcano of emotion that was erupting inside me so night after night

erupting inside me so night after night

erupting inside me so night after night I’d retreat to my bathtub with a bottle

I’d retreat to my bathtub with a bottle

I’d retreat to my bathtub with a bottle of wine just trying to numb how I felt

of wine just trying to numb how I felt

of wine just trying to numb how I felt inside that just made things worse much

inside that just made things worse much

inside that just made things worse much worse something had to change you know

worse something had to change you know

worse something had to change you know those points where you know something

those points where you know something

those points where you know something has to change

has to change

has to change faithfully before I escaped everything

faithfully before I escaped everything

faithfully before I escaped everything to move to South America my mom

to move to South America my mom

to move to South America my mom introduced me to an internal development

introduced me to an internal development

introduced me to an internal development system and I was trained inside a daily

system and I was trained inside a daily

system and I was trained inside a daily meditation practice with specific things

meditation practice with specific things

meditation practice with specific things that would help me support and train

that would help me support and train

that would help me support and train cultivate my emotions and direct my mind

cultivate my emotions and direct my mind

cultivate my emotions and direct my mind in a new way in the beginning I was so

in a new way in the beginning I was so

in a new way in the beginning I was so uncomfortable my body would ache and my

uncomfortable my body would ache and my

uncomfortable my body would ache and my mind would race out of control but I

mind would race out of control but I

mind would race out of control but I stuck with it and during my practice I

stuck with it and during my practice I

stuck with it and during my practice I would move from feeling frantic to peace

would move from feeling frantic to peace

would move from feeling frantic to peace I learned I could train my emotional

I learned I could train my emotional

I learned I could train my emotional frequency so we’re all familiar with

frequency so we’re all familiar with

frequency so we’re all familiar with tuning into a satellite frequency to

tuning into a satellite frequency to

tuning into a satellite frequency to enjoy any genre of music that we prefer

enjoy any genre of music that we prefer

enjoy any genre of music that we prefer whether it’s classical country rock or

whether it’s classical country rock or

whether it’s classical country rock or jazz emotions are the same you can train

jazz emotions are the same you can train

jazz emotions are the same you can train and then tune into the frequency of your

and then tune into the frequency of your

and then tune into the frequency of your choice so I began to cultivate specific

choice so I began to cultivate specific

choice so I began to cultivate specific emotions like freedom peace passion

emotions like freedom peace passion

emotions like freedom peace passion confidence connection filming and then I

confidence connection filming and then I

confidence connection filming and then I would bring that consciousness that

would bring that consciousness that

would bring that consciousness that frequency that emotional experience to

frequency that emotional experience to

frequency that emotional experience to what I was creating in life there’s a

what I was creating in life there’s a

what I was creating in life there’s a considerable body of research backing

considerable body of research backing

considerable body of research backing this work over 3,000 scientific studies

this work over 3,000 scientific studies

this work over 3,000 scientific studies on the benefits of meditation improving

on the benefits of meditation improving

on the benefits of meditation improving creative thinking problem-solving

creative thinking problem-solving

creative thinking problem-solving increased focus stress reduction brain

increased focus stress reduction brain

increased focus stress reduction brain function mood and many more the studies

function mood and many more the studies

function mood and many more the studies are so impactful that companies like

are so impactful that companies like

are so impactful that companies like Google Target and General Mills are all

Google Target and General Mills are all

Google Target and General Mills are all investing in mindfulness practices for

investing in mindfulness practices for

investing in mindfulness practices for their employees science shows that just

their employees science shows that just

their employees science shows that just 20 minutes of daily meditation can

20 minutes of daily meditation can

20 minutes of daily meditation can change the function of our brain so as a

change the function of our brain so as a

change the function of our brain so as a result of these practices I didn’t leave

result of these practices I didn’t leave

result of these practices I didn’t leave my career and it’s dead on the screen

my career and it’s dead on the screen

my career and it’s dead on the screen behind me you can see some of our team

behind me you can see some of our team

behind me you can see some of our team and where I said yes to the opportunity

and where I said yes to the opportunity

and where I said yes to the opportunity of becoming owner along with our

of becoming owner along with our

of becoming owner along with our incredible culture we’ve doubled our

incredible culture we’ve doubled our

incredible culture we’ve doubled our business

business

business but most importantly my experience is

but most importantly my experience is

but most importantly my experience is one of boundless opportunities of

one of boundless opportunities of

one of boundless opportunities of confidence of freedom of joy and

confidence of freedom of joy and

confidence of freedom of joy and fulfillment so today I’m going to share

fulfillment so today I’m going to share

fulfillment so today I’m going to share with you a training tool a short

with you a training tool a short

with you a training tool a short meditation I invite you to close your

meditation I invite you to close your

meditation I invite you to close your eyes bring your attention your awareness

eyes bring your attention your awareness

eyes bring your attention your awareness inward a gentle smile on your face and

inward a gentle smile on your face and

inward a gentle smile on your face and take a deep breath through your nose

take a deep breath through your nose

take a deep breath through your nose pause holding the breath and gently

pause holding the breath and gently

pause holding the breath and gently exhaling through your nose pause holding

exhaling through your nose pause holding

exhaling through your nose pause holding the breath inhale pause exhale pause and

the breath inhale pause exhale pause and

the breath inhale pause exhale pause and be in thinking of your favorite activity

be in thinking of your favorite activity

be in thinking of your favorite activity adventure loved one furry friend

adventure loved one furry friend

adventure loved one furry friend whatever feels good to you and imagine

whatever feels good to you and imagine

whatever feels good to you and imagine that you’re enjoying that experience

that you’re enjoying that experience

that you’re enjoying that experience right now envision that it’s taking

right now envision that it’s taking

right now envision that it’s taking place in this moment

and then identify how you’re feeling

and then identify how you’re feeling give the emotion a name is it freedom

give the emotion a name is it freedom

give the emotion a name is it freedom passion connection joy fulfillment

passion connection joy fulfillment

passion connection joy fulfillment serenity give the emotion a name and

serenity give the emotion a name and

serenity give the emotion a name and become sensitive to how it feels in your

become sensitive to how it feels in your

become sensitive to how it feels in your nervous system taking a very deep breath

nervous system taking a very deep breath

nervous system taking a very deep breath anchoring that emotion when you’re ready

anchoring that emotion when you’re ready

anchoring that emotion when you’re ready to go ahead and open your eyes and

to go ahead and open your eyes and

to go ahead and open your eyes and congratulations because you have just

congratulations because you have just

congratulations because you have just meditated I’m so grateful to be here

meditated I’m so grateful to be here

meditated I’m so grateful to be here with you today

with you today

with you today saying yes to what’s possible in life

saying yes to what’s possible in life

saying yes to what’s possible in life and I invite each of you to go limitless

and I invite each of you to go limitless

and I invite each of you to go limitless by going within thank you

by going within thank you

by going within thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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