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What is ‘Home’? | Luca Devalier | TEDxYouth@Bologna


[Music]

[Music] where are you from everybody picture it

where are you from everybody picture it

where are you from everybody picture it dredge up your past conjure the smells

dredge up your past conjure the smells

dredge up your past conjure the smells and the laughs and the stories conjure

and the laughs and the stories conjure

and the laughs and the stories conjure your best friend’s voice conjure sea

your best friend’s voice conjure sea

your best friend’s voice conjure sea salt or oil fumes or birdsong give it a

salt or oil fumes or birdsong give it a

salt or oil fumes or birdsong give it a name and allow me to ask how many words

name and allow me to ask how many words

name and allow me to ask how many words does it take you if you can count the

does it take you if you can count the

does it take you if you can count the number on your fingers raise your hand

more or less okay

more or less okay think about everyone who just raised

think about everyone who just raised

think about everyone who just raised their hand think about what you’ve just

their hand think about what you’ve just

their hand think about what you’ve just done you’ve accomplished an

done you’ve accomplished an

done you’ve accomplished an extraordinary act of synthesis

extraordinary act of synthesis

extraordinary act of synthesis you’ve managed to sum up your entire

you’ve managed to sum up your entire

you’ve managed to sum up your entire identity all of your memories every

identity all of your memories every

identity all of your memories every tradition every cultural card that you

tradition every cultural card that you

tradition every cultural card that you hold in a word or two or six everybody

hold in a word or two or six everybody

hold in a word or two or six everybody who can’t everybody who is sitting there

who can’t everybody who is sitting there

who can’t everybody who is sitting there brows furrowed murmuring softly awash in

brows furrowed murmuring softly awash in

brows furrowed murmuring softly awash in a doubt as old as their lives raise your

a doubt as old as their lives raise your

a doubt as old as their lives raise your hand

let’s see Italy

let’s see Italy Puerto Rico Japan Sweden Germany nice

Puerto Rico Japan Sweden Germany nice

Puerto Rico Japan Sweden Germany nice Chicago Ohio Portland Louisiana too many

Chicago Ohio Portland Louisiana too many

Chicago Ohio Portland Louisiana too many what you did that active synthesis is

what you did that active synthesis is

what you did that active synthesis is something that we the tribe of wanders

something that we the tribe of wanders

something that we the tribe of wanders the tribe of people who can’t perform

the tribe of people who can’t perform

the tribe of people who can’t perform that act have been trying and failing to

that act have been trying and failing to

that act have been trying and failing to do our whole lives the idea of being

do our whole lives the idea of being

do our whole lives the idea of being able to do that is something we find

able to do that is something we find

able to do that is something we find both wonderful and terrifying you want

both wonderful and terrifying you want

both wonderful and terrifying you want to know why think back to every time you

to know why think back to every time you

to know why think back to every time you meet someone a whole new human being

meet someone a whole new human being

meet someone a whole new human being that you need to at least attempt to

that you need to at least attempt to

that you need to at least attempt to interact with replay the conversation in

interact with replay the conversation in

interact with replay the conversation in your mind hello hi I’m John Smith Luca

your mind hello hi I’m John Smith Luca

your mind hello hi I’m John Smith Luca Cesare Leopoldo Duvalier Vasquez

Cesare Leopoldo Duvalier Vasquez

Cesare Leopoldo Duvalier Vasquez pleasure huh that’s an interesting name

pleasure huh that’s an interesting name

pleasure huh that’s an interesting name where are you from

there it is folks I have the luxury as

there it is folks I have the luxury as still being a teenager

still being a teenager

still being a teenager but I won’t be one forever sooner or

but I won’t be one forever sooner or

but I won’t be one forever sooner or later I am going to leave home and when

later I am going to leave home and when

later I am going to leave home and when I do I’m going to wander and I will have

I do I’m going to wander and I will have

I do I’m going to wander and I will have to face that conversation every single

to face that conversation every single

to face that conversation every single day why why is this such an important

day why why is this such an important

day why why is this such an important question well look around observe the

question well look around observe the

question well look around observe the words that characterize the TV screen

words that characterize the TV screen

words that characterize the TV screen that we see every morning observe the

that we see every morning observe the

that we see every morning observe the words that float across the mass media

words that float across the mass media

words that float across the mass media in your pockets violence terrorism

in your pockets violence terrorism

in your pockets violence terrorism racism

racism

racism bigotry immigration crisis xenophobia

bigotry immigration crisis xenophobia

bigotry immigration crisis xenophobia homophobia transphobia ego phobia phobia

homophobia transphobia ego phobia phobia

homophobia transphobia ego phobia phobia phobia phobia fear people fear what they

phobia phobia fear people fear what they

phobia phobia fear people fear what they do not know who they do not know as

do not know who they do not know as

do not know who they do not know as American writer Orson Scott Card’s so

American writer Orson Scott Card’s so

American writer Orson Scott Card’s so choice Lee puts it if the other fellow

choice Lee puts it if the other fellow

choice Lee puts it if the other fellow can’t tell you his story you can never

can’t tell you his story you can never

can’t tell you his story you can never be sure he isn’t trying to kill you it

be sure he isn’t trying to kill you it

be sure he isn’t trying to kill you it sounds dramatic I know and hey maybe

sounds dramatic I know and hey maybe

sounds dramatic I know and hey maybe it’s not oh is that extreme but

it’s not oh is that extreme but

it’s not oh is that extreme but somewhere in every one of you there is a

somewhere in every one of you there is a

somewhere in every one of you there is a voice the primal animal side

voice the primal animal side

voice the primal animal side whispering stranger fear distrust

whispering stranger fear distrust

whispering stranger fear distrust unknown danger to quiet that voice in

unknown danger to quiet that voice in

unknown danger to quiet that voice in another person you must stop being the

another person you must stop being the

another person you must stop being the stranger you must tell your story it’s

stranger you must tell your story it’s

stranger you must tell your story it’s always been like that that this way for

always been like that that this way for

always been like that that this way for humans and for hundreds of years it’s

humans and for hundreds of years it’s

humans and for hundreds of years it’s worked except the world has changed

worked except the world has changed

worked except the world has changed today we still leave home of course we

today we still leave home of course we

today we still leave home of course we still wander but we no longer go to the

still wander but we no longer go to the

still wander but we no longer go to the next town or the next Valley over no

next town or the next Valley over no

next town or the next Valley over no nowadays we have the world on our

nowadays we have the world on our

nowadays we have the world on our horizon and every person that uproots

horizon and every person that uproots

horizon and every person that uproots their lives to cross an ocean becomes

their lives to cross an ocean becomes

their lives to cross an ocean becomes suddenly part of an ever-growing tribe a

suddenly part of an ever-growing tribe a

suddenly part of an ever-growing tribe a tribe of people who can’t quite tell

tribe of people who can’t quite tell

tribe of people who can’t quite tell their stories in a handful of words if

their stories in a handful of words if

their stories in a handful of words if you turn on your television and flip to

you turn on your television and flip to

you turn on your television and flip to the news not 20 minutes go by that you

the news not 20 minutes go by that you

the news not 20 minutes go by that you start hearing about an immigration

start hearing about an immigration

start hearing about an immigration crisis immigration crisis said like that

crisis immigration crisis said like that

crisis immigration crisis said like that all big and important and faceless it’s

all big and important and faceless it’s

all big and important and faceless it’s daunting it’s terrifying so let’s break

daunting it’s terrifying so let’s break

daunting it’s terrifying so let’s break it down

it down

it down every one of those immigrants that your

every one of those immigrants that your

every one of those immigrants that your TV is talking about could tell you of

TV is talking about could tell you of

TV is talking about could tell you of two places a place from the past a place

two places a place from the past a place

two places a place from the past a place they were and a place from the present

they were and a place from the present

they were and a place from the present the place they are which makes two

the place they are which makes two

the place they are which makes two simple right except say they meet

simple right except say they meet

simple right except say they meet someone and fall in love with someone

someone and fall in love with someone

someone and fall in love with someone that also knows to their children

that also knows to their children

that also knows to their children wouldn’t know four and say one of those

wouldn’t know four and say one of those

wouldn’t know four and say one of those children also meets someone like them

children also meets someone like them

children also meets someone like them who knows four and they get married

who knows four and they get married

who knows four and they get married their children well know eight and it

their children well know eight and it

their children well know eight and it goes on like this cultural

goes on like this cultural

goes on like this cultural multiplication doubling and tripling

multiplication doubling and tripling

multiplication doubling and tripling across the generations until this world

across the generations until this world

across the generations until this world is facing a very different kind of

is facing a very different kind of

is facing a very different kind of crisis because how can you trust us if

crisis because how can you trust us if

crisis because how can you trust us if we can’t tell you our stories and we

we can’t tell you our stories and we

we can’t tell you our stories and we really can’t because we have no single

really can’t because we have no single

really can’t because we have no single story to tell

story to tell

story to tell rather we have too many as you can

rather we have too many as you can

rather we have too many as you can probably tell this is something I’ve

probably tell this is something I’ve

probably tell this is something I’ve thought about a lot and it’s a problem

thought about a lot and it’s a problem

thought about a lot and it’s a problem that’s been persecuting us too strong a

that’s been persecuting us too strong a

that’s been persecuting us too strong a word

word

word it’s been following me around in the

it’s been following me around in the

it’s been following me around in the back of my mind my whole life and when I

back of my mind my whole life and when I

back of my mind my whole life and when I have a problem I cannot solve I turn to

have a problem I cannot solve I turn to

have a problem I cannot solve I turn to the community around me and when I first

the community around me and when I first

the community around me and when I first told my friends that I couldn’t really

told my friends that I couldn’t really

told my friends that I couldn’t really figure out what home was for me they

figure out what home was for me they

figure out what home was for me they gave me this funny look and they said

gave me this funny look and they said

gave me this funny look and they said well where do you live

well where do you live

well where do you live isn’t that home for you and of course I

isn’t that home for you and of course I

isn’t that home for you and of course I live in Italy and so they were asking

live in Italy and so they were asking

live in Italy and so they were asking Italian and they’re using the Italian

Italian and they’re using the Italian

Italian and they’re using the Italian word Casa because in Italy house and

word Casa because in Italy house and

word Casa because in Italy house and home are synonymous

home are synonymous

home are synonymous the average Italian lives not far from

the average Italian lives not far from

the average Italian lives not far from where they grew up and they feel their

where they grew up and they feel their

where they grew up and they feel their cultural identity in their roots in

cultural identity in their roots in

cultural identity in their roots in their family name in their genetics

their family name in their genetics

their family name in their genetics right down to the level of a

right down to the level of a

right down to the level of a neighborhood

I chose English for this talk

I chose English for this talk however partly because it’s my mother

however partly because it’s my mother

however partly because it’s my mother tongue yes but partly because it bears

tongue yes but partly because it bears

tongue yes but partly because it bears an important distinction a distinction I

an important distinction a distinction I

an important distinction a distinction I grew up with there’s the house a

grew up with there’s the house a

grew up with there’s the house a building a place nothing more a roof

building a place nothing more a roof

building a place nothing more a roof four walls some ugly carpets maybe but

four walls some ugly carpets maybe but

four walls some ugly carpets maybe but home home is different home is the place

home home is different home is the place

home home is different home is the place you come but you can be yourself in home

you come but you can be yourself in home

you come but you can be yourself in home as the dwelling of the soul well

as the dwelling of the soul well

as the dwelling of the soul well researching this talk I discovered an

researching this talk I discovered an

researching this talk I discovered an fact that I’d like to share with you

fact that I’d like to share with you

fact that I’d like to share with you guys there existed in a few hundred

guys there existed in a few hundred

guys there existed in a few hundred years ago possibly as part of Canada’s

years ago possibly as part of Canada’s

years ago possibly as part of Canada’s first peoples a people called the Nootka

first peoples a people called the Nootka

first peoples a people called the Nootka who lived on Vancouver Island and wanaka

who lived on Vancouver Island and wanaka

who lived on Vancouver Island and wanaka traditionally lived in large plank

traditionally lived in large plank

traditionally lived in large plank houses made of wood that could be

houses made of wood that could be

houses made of wood that could be assembled somewhere and then maybe the

assembled somewhere and then maybe the

assembled somewhere and then maybe the next day maybe the next months maybe the

next day maybe the next months maybe the

next day maybe the next months maybe the next season when there was a storm or

next season when there was a storm or

next season when there was a storm or when the animals moved somewhere else

when the animals moved somewhere else

when the animals moved somewhere else they could be disassembled and moved

they could be disassembled and moved

they could be disassembled and moved somewhere else for the Nootka and

somewhere else for the Nootka and

somewhere else for the Nootka and because of this in the new calanque

because of this in the new calanque

because of this in the new calanque home doesn’t exist as a noun but as a

home doesn’t exist as a noun but as a

home doesn’t exist as a noun but as a verb one homes or a house occurs home as

verb one homes or a house occurs home as

verb one homes or a house occurs home as something that’s here today gone

something that’s here today gone

something that’s here today gone tomorrow is built into the language

tomorrow is built into the language

tomorrow is built into the language itself that kind of impermanence that’s

itself that kind of impermanence that’s

itself that kind of impermanence that’s something I couldn’t relate to a little

something I couldn’t relate to a little

something I couldn’t relate to a little more but I can’t exactly deliver a

more but I can’t exactly deliver a

more but I can’t exactly deliver a lecture on the linguistic patterns of

lecture on the linguistic patterns of

lecture on the linguistic patterns of the Nootka people every time home comes

the Nootka people every time home comes

the Nootka people every time home comes up in conversation can I think of when

up in conversation can I think of when

up in conversation can I think of when you meet someone think of that

you meet someone think of that

you meet someone think of that conversation you tell you ask where

conversation you tell you ask where

conversation you tell you ask where you’re from you’re asking for a story

think about the language we use a moment

think about the language we use a moment to describe stories we tell Mary yarns

to describe stories we tell Mary yarns

to describe stories we tell Mary yarns we talk about story lines and plot holes

we talk about story lines and plot holes

we talk about story lines and plot holes we talk about how character arcs tie

we talk about how character arcs tie

we talk about how character arcs tie into each other we describe stories the

into each other we describe stories the

into each other we describe stories the way we talk about fabric cloth and here

way we talk about fabric cloth and here

way we talk about fabric cloth and here again the English language reaches its

again the English language reaches its

again the English language reaches its limits because we’re so obsessed with

limits because we’re so obsessed with

limits because we’re so obsessed with putting things in boxes we have a

putting things in boxes we have a

putting things in boxes we have a washcloth for washing tablecloths for

washcloth for washing tablecloths for

washcloth for washing tablecloths for eating on shirts and tunics for wearing

eating on shirts and tunics for wearing

eating on shirts and tunics for wearing a word for everything every word with

a word for everything every word with

a word for everything every word with its place

its place

its place what about across the world I have

what about across the world I have

what about across the world I have family in Japan and when my parents and

family in Japan and when my parents and

family in Japan and when my parents and sister and I first visited we were

sister and I first visited we were

sister and I first visited we were gifted furoshiki and what a furoshiki is

gifted furoshiki and what a furoshiki is

gifted furoshiki and what a furoshiki is is a rectangular cloth it can be of any

is a rectangular cloth it can be of any

is a rectangular cloth it can be of any color any size and any purpose and I

color any size and any purpose and I

color any size and any purpose and I asked my obaasan my grandmother at the

asked my obaasan my grandmother at the

asked my obaasan my grandmother at the time is this napkin washcloth is it a

time is this napkin washcloth is it a

time is this napkin washcloth is it a garment and she smiled and she shook her

garment and she smiled and she shook her

garment and she smiled and she shook her head and told me that it was a furoshiki

ah furoshiki has no set pattern no set

ah furoshiki has no set pattern no set color no set size and neither does the

color no set size and neither does the

color no set size and neither does the tapestry of a human life

tapestry of a human life

tapestry of a human life so if we can apply this variability of

so if we can apply this variability of

so if we can apply this variability of definition this flexibility to fabric

definition this flexibility to fabric

definition this flexibility to fabric why not apply the same flexibility to a

why not apply the same flexibility to a

why not apply the same flexibility to a human story to a human life

human story to a human life

human story to a human life those are after all so much more complex

those are after all so much more complex

those are after all so much more complex and valuable than cloth this isn’t the

and valuable than cloth this isn’t the

and valuable than cloth this isn’t the first time I’ve given this talk I’ve

first time I’ve given this talk I’ve

first time I’ve given this talk I’ve given it before in front of many many

given it before in front of many many

given it before in front of many many people wiser than myself and each of

people wiser than myself and each of

people wiser than myself and each of them has considered it carefully and

them has considered it carefully and

them has considered it carefully and then looked at me and asked but well you

then looked at me and asked but well you

then looked at me and asked but well you are from somewhere right back to the

are from somewhere right back to the

are from somewhere right back to the question it’s a great question it really

question it’s a great question it really

question it’s a great question it really is it’s full of history and human spirit

is it’s full of history and human spirit

is it’s full of history and human spirit tradition culture the problem with it is

tradition culture the problem with it is

tradition culture the problem with it is that we treat it as the end of a

that we treat it as the end of a

that we treat it as the end of a conversation and not the beginning of

conversation and not the beginning of

conversation and not the beginning of one where are you from where am i from

one where are you from where am i from

one where are you from where am i from it’s a question that I’ve been asking

it’s a question that I’ve been asking

it’s a question that I’ve been asking myself my whole life and today is the

myself my whole life and today is the

myself my whole life and today is the day I stop looking because we have

day I stop looking because we have

day I stop looking because we have something more interesting I have

something more interesting I have

something more interesting I have something more interesting to give we

something more interesting to give we

something more interesting to give we all do because here’s the thing when you

all do because here’s the thing when you

all do because here’s the thing when you strike up a conversation when you meet

strike up a conversation when you meet

strike up a conversation when you meet someone new you’re asking for a story

someone new you’re asking for a story

someone new you’re asking for a story for a fiddle Shiki think of the

for a fiddle Shiki think of the

for a fiddle Shiki think of the flexibility of a furoshiki we are born

flexibility of a furoshiki we are born

flexibility of a furoshiki we are born with with a set of cultural cards in our

with with a set of cultural cards in our

with with a set of cultural cards in our hand but those cards are given there

hand but those cards are given there

hand but those cards are given there they just happen there from be given by

they just happen there from be given by

they just happen there from be given by a destiny fate luck circumstance and

a destiny fate luck circumstance and

a destiny fate luck circumstance and happenstance but they are not the

happenstance but they are not the

happenstance but they are not the stories they are not our identities

stories they are not our identities

stories they are not our identities they’re just places scenic background

they’re just places scenic background

they’re just places scenic background cultural background of our lives

back to stories think about stories as

back to stories think about stories as well you read them for the ending you

well you read them for the ending you

well you read them for the ending you read them to know what happens you don’t

read them to know what happens you don’t

read them to know what happens you don’t buy a book to look at its cover you buy

buy a book to look at its cover you buy

buy a book to look at its cover you buy it to know what happens along the

it to know what happens along the

it to know what happens along the journey to know what happens at the end

since we were little they’ve always told

since we were little they’ve always told us don’t judge a book by it’s cover

us don’t judge a book by it’s cover

us don’t judge a book by it’s cover don’t judge a book by its cover and I

don’t judge a book by its cover and I

don’t judge a book by its cover and I don’t think anyone does this and I don’t

don’t think anyone does this and I don’t

don’t think anyone does this and I don’t think any of you will judge a book by

think any of you will judge a book by

think any of you will judge a book by its publisher or its author either so

its publisher or its author either so

its publisher or its author either so why would you do the same to human life

why would you do the same to human life

why would you do the same to human life why would you judge someone by their

why would you judge someone by their

why would you judge someone by their birthplace or their family name or the

birthplace or their family name or the

birthplace or their family name or the place where you happen to meet them or

place where you happen to meet them or

place where you happen to meet them or the place where they were they happens

the place where they were they happens

the place where they were they happens to be born I mean I don’t know about you

to be born I mean I don’t know about you

to be born I mean I don’t know about you but I’m much more interested in the

but I’m much more interested in the

but I’m much more interested in the story that they’re writing with every

story that they’re writing with every

story that they’re writing with every waking breath so next time you meet a

waking breath so next time you meet a

waking breath so next time you meet a fellow stranger along the road pause for

fellow stranger along the road pause for

fellow stranger along the road pause for just a moment because you’re striking up

just a moment because you’re striking up

just a moment because you’re striking up a conversation and what’s a conversation

a conversation and what’s a conversation

a conversation and what’s a conversation when you really think about it isn’t it

when you really think about it isn’t it

when you really think about it isn’t it just a series of questions and stories

just a series of questions and stories

just a series of questions and stories and answer call and response like from

and answer call and response like from

and answer call and response like from when we were children you asked me a

when we were children you asked me a

when we were children you asked me a question I tell you a story I ask you a

question I tell you a story I ask you a

question I tell you a story I ask you a question you tell me a story

now most people some people in

now most people some people in conversation ask about birthplace ask

conversation ask about birthplace ask

conversation ask about birthplace ask about geography and that’s all they’re

about geography and that’s all they’re

about geography and that’s all they’re curious about that’s all they’ve ever

curious about that’s all they’ve ever

curious about that’s all they’ve ever wanted and that’s fine but next time if

wanted and that’s fine but next time if

wanted and that’s fine but next time if you ever wanted something more something

you ever wanted something more something

you ever wanted something more something more personal something more unique

more personal something more unique

more personal something more unique here’s my suggestion don’t ask the

here’s my suggestion don’t ask the

here’s my suggestion don’t ask the person about the cards that fate happens

person about the cards that fate happens

person about the cards that fate happens to deal ask about the story they’re

to deal ask about the story they’re

to deal ask about the story they’re writing don’t ask what the world has

writing don’t ask what the world has

writing don’t ask what the world has given them ask them what they’re doing

given them ask them what they’re doing

given them ask them what they’re doing with it thank you

with it thank you

with it thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] you

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