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the year is 2012 this is a picture of my

the year is 2012 this is a picture of my co-founder Andrew and I and we’re two

co-founder Andrew and I and we’re two

co-founder Andrew and I and we’re two software engineers we had just left our

software engineers we had just left our

software engineers we had just left our jobs at Google and we had a dream to

jobs at Google and we had a dream to

jobs at Google and we had a dream to start our company we’re young we’re

start our company we’re young we’re

start our company we’re young we’re hungry and all we had was a name for the

hungry and all we had was a name for the

hungry and all we had was a name for the company lean phone not much else well we

company lean phone not much else well we

company lean phone not much else well we decided to go to an incubator called

decided to go to an incubator called

decided to go to an incubator called tech stars in Seattle to learn what it’s

tech stars in Seattle to learn what it’s

tech stars in Seattle to learn what it’s like to actually build a company there’s

like to actually build a company there’s

like to actually build a company there’s a lot of great things you can learn

a lot of great things you can learn

a lot of great things you can learn their fundraising you can learn how to

their fundraising you can learn how to

their fundraising you can learn how to build a product but for me it was

build a product but for me it was

build a product but for me it was actually one of the things you wouldn’t

actually one of the things you wouldn’t

actually one of the things you wouldn’t expect that you would learn at this kind

expect that you would learn at this kind

expect that you would learn at this kind of school that really struck with me

of school that really struck with me

of school that really struck with me this is a ritual that we did every

this is a ritual that we did every

this is a ritual that we did every Wednesday at 11:11 p.m. and we would all

Wednesday at 11:11 p.m. and we would all

Wednesday at 11:11 p.m. and we would all gather together there’s ten companies

gather together there’s ten companies

gather together there’s ten companies maybe about 20 people and everybody

maybe about 20 people and everybody

maybe about 20 people and everybody shared their high and their low of the

shared their high and their low of the

shared their high and their low of the week and this was it and all of a sudden

week and this was it and all of a sudden

week and this was it and all of a sudden you can feel how people empathize with

you can feel how people empathize with

you can feel how people empathize with each other you can feel a sense of

each other you can feel a sense of

each other you can feel a sense of community people wanted to help each

community people wanted to help each

community people wanted to help each other it was really powerful and that

other it was really powerful and that

other it was really powerful and that really struck with me at the time I

really struck with me at the time I

really struck with me at the time I didn’t think much of it but later on I

didn’t think much of it but later on I

didn’t think much of it but later on I learned that this is probably one of the

learned that this is probably one of the

learned that this is probably one of the most important lessons I learned in

most important lessons I learned in

most important lessons I learned in techstars but before we continue I just

techstars but before we continue I just

techstars but before we continue I just wanted to see a show of hands how many

wanted to see a show of hands how many

wanted to see a show of hands how many of you have been told at some point in

of you have been told at some point in

of you have been told at some point in your career that you shouldn’t mix

your career that you shouldn’t mix

your career that you shouldn’t mix personal life with work or you shouldn’t

personal life with work or you shouldn’t

personal life with work or you shouldn’t bring your personal life to work yeah

bring your personal life to work yeah

bring your personal life to work yeah that’s that’s what I thought well Google

that’s that’s what I thought well Google

that’s that’s what I thought well Google says there’s 49 million results about

says there’s 49 million results about

says there’s 49 million results about that so you can read all about that and

that so you can read all about that and

that so you can read all about that and you know this story is really about how

you know this story is really about how

you know this story is really about how we went against this general rule of

we went against this general rule of

we went against this general rule of thumb and how as a result of that we

thumb and how as a result of that we

thumb and how as a result of that we build a company with a hundred sixty

build a company with a hundred sixty

build a company with a hundred sixty people that is spread across three

people that is spread across three

people that is spread across three continents and is a fast-growing company

continents and is a fast-growing company

continents and is a fast-growing company with rating for a best place to work so

with rating for a best place to work so

with rating for a best place to work so this is what I wanted to share with you

this is what I wanted to share with you

this is what I wanted to share with you today well I was also told that I

today well I was also told that I

today well I was also told that I shouldn’t bring my personal life to work

shouldn’t bring my personal life to work

shouldn’t bring my personal life to work when I was an employee and it never

when I was an employee and it never

when I was an employee and it never really felt right to me there’s actually

really felt right to me there’s actually

really felt right to me there’s actually a study from Harvard University which is

a study from Harvard University which is

a study from Harvard University which is the longest study on human happiness and

the longest study on human happiness and

the longest study on human happiness and they they tracked the light so if it

they they tracked the light so if it

they they tracked the light so if it started in the 40s I think in

started in the 40s I think in

started in the 40s I think in lasted for about eighty years it’s still

lasted for about eighty years it’s still

lasted for about eighty years it’s still going and what they determine is that

going and what they determine is that

going and what they determine is that most people think that happiness comes

most people think that happiness comes

most people think that happiness comes from money or fame even if you ask today

from money or fame even if you ask today

from money or fame even if you ask today but in reality that doesn’t actually

but in reality that doesn’t actually

but in reality that doesn’t actually correlate with happiness

correlate with happiness

correlate with happiness what does is meaningful relationships

what does is meaningful relationships

what does is meaningful relationships and so if humans are happy if we have

and so if humans are happy if we have

and so if humans are happy if we have social connections and meaningful

social connections and meaningful

social connections and meaningful connections why is it that employees are

connections why is it that employees are

connections why is it that employees are any different well as a founder I have a

any different well as a founder I have a

any different well as a founder I have a lot of perks you know I can pick the

lot of perks you know I can pick the

lot of perks you know I can pick the product I want to work on I can pick the

product I want to work on I can pick the

product I want to work on I can pick the location of our office but probably my

location of our office but probably my

location of our office but probably my favorite Park is that I can also pick

favorite Park is that I can also pick

favorite Park is that I can also pick the blueprints for the company that I

the blueprints for the company that I

the blueprints for the company that I can start and so there’s a lot of great

can start and so there’s a lot of great

can start and so there’s a lot of great companies out there there’s a lot of

companies out there there’s a lot of

companies out there there’s a lot of different ways to build a company

different ways to build a company

different ways to build a company there’s companies like you know Apple

there’s companies like you know Apple

there’s companies like you know Apple that is more autocratic company they’re

that is more autocratic company they’re

that is more autocratic company they’re very secretive about the way they do

very secretive about the way they do

very secretive about the way they do things there’s companies like IBM that

things there’s companies like IBM that

things there’s companies like IBM that are bureaucratic told process-oriented

are bureaucratic told process-oriented

are bureaucratic told process-oriented there’s companies like Google where I

there’s companies like Google where I

there’s companies like Google where I worked which is very engineering or

worked which is very engineering or

worked which is very engineering or starlett organization but the kind of

starlett organization but the kind of

starlett organization but the kind of company we wanted to do as start is is

company we wanted to do as start is is

company we wanted to do as start is is different it was a company that was

different it was a company that was

different it was a company that was based on putting the people first a

based on putting the people first a

based on putting the people first a company that truly enables individuals

company that truly enables individuals

company that truly enables individuals to connect with each other at work and

to connect with each other at work and

to connect with each other at work and for that you do need to bring your

for that you do need to bring your

for that you do need to bring your personal life to work this is just a

personal life to work this is just a

personal life to work this is just a quick picture of one of our gatherings

quick picture of one of our gatherings

quick picture of one of our gatherings that we do there’s actually a lot of

that we do there’s actually a lot of

that we do there’s actually a lot of research on this I found a study at

research on this I found a study at

research on this I found a study at Stanford University that mentions all

Stanford University that mentions all

Stanford University that mentions all four of these types of companies and

four of these types of companies and

four of these types of companies and turns out that culture driven company is

turns out that culture driven company is

turns out that culture driven company is actually way more likely to achieve an

actually way more likely to achieve an

actually way more likely to achieve an IPF well public offering compared to any

IPF well public offering compared to any

IPF well public offering compared to any of the other ones yet it’s actually

of the other ones yet it’s actually

of the other ones yet it’s actually really hard to build a culture first

really hard to build a culture first

really hard to build a culture first company and I think facilities if who’s

company and I think facilities if who’s

company and I think facilities if who’s one of my favorite entrepreneurs says

one of my favorite entrepreneurs says

one of my favorite entrepreneurs says this really well that it appears that a

this really well that it appears that a

this really well that it appears that a lot of successful high-growth companies

lot of successful high-growth companies

lot of successful high-growth companies tend to follow Moore’s law

tend to follow Moore’s law

tend to follow Moore’s law so Moore’s law essentially you double

so Moore’s law essentially you double

so Moore’s law essentially you double the size of the company every 18 months

the size of the company every 18 months

the size of the company every 18 months but you need to constantly reinvent the

but you need to constantly reinvent the

but you need to constantly reinvent the company reinvent the way you do things

company reinvent the way you do things

company reinvent the way you do things in order to keep it up and that’s what

in order to keep it up and that’s what

in order to keep it up and that’s what makes it hard it’s not easy to just keep

makes it hard it’s not easy to just keep

makes it hard it’s not easy to just keep adding more people you have to be very

adding more people you have to be very

adding more people you have to be very thoughtful about how you preserve what

thoughtful about how you preserve what

thoughtful about how you preserve what makes the company special in a culture

makes the company special in a culture

makes the company special in a culture but it

but it

but it same time that’s why these companies in

same time that’s why these companies in

same time that’s why these companies in Europe because they have the ability to

Europe because they have the ability to

Europe because they have the ability to go through the highs and lows of

go through the highs and lows of

go through the highs and lows of start-up life and that’s why they have a

start-up life and that’s why they have a

start-up life and that’s why they have a much higher success rate well we’ve

much higher success rate well we’ve

much higher success rate well we’ve learned a lot of things along the way

learned a lot of things along the way

learned a lot of things along the way and we’ve certainly had to adjust things

and we’ve certainly had to adjust things

and we’ve certainly had to adjust things to make it work and I just wanted to

to make it work and I just wanted to

to make it work and I just wanted to share some of the learnings we’ve had of

share some of the learnings we’ve had of

share some of the learnings we’ve had of course when we started the company we

course when we started the company we

course when we started the company we borrowed the highs and lows ritual that

borrowed the highs and lows ritual that

borrowed the highs and lows ritual that we did in TechStars and it worked great

we did in TechStars and it worked great

we did in TechStars and it worked great everybody loved it every Friday we got

everybody loved it every Friday we got

everybody loved it every Friday we got together and then by the time we got to

together and then by the time we got to

together and then by the time we got to 20 people it was just taking too long it

20 people it was just taking too long it

20 people it was just taking too long it would take 45 minutes to go through

would take 45 minutes to go through

would take 45 minutes to go through everybody and I was sad but we had to

everybody and I was sad but we had to

everybody and I was sad but we had to cancel the activity and eventually it

cancel the activity and eventually it

cancel the activity and eventually it took us another two years to figure out

took us another two years to figure out

took us another two years to figure out what to replace it with and I always

what to replace it with and I always

what to replace it with and I always felt like there was something missing in

felt like there was something missing in

felt like there was something missing in our culture because we couldn’t keep up

our culture because we couldn’t keep up

our culture because we couldn’t keep up that really important piece of

that really important piece of

that really important piece of connecting with the highs and the lows

connecting with the highs and the lows

connecting with the highs and the lows and well we figured out is something

and well we figured out is something

and well we figured out is something that we call big talk dinners it’s a

that we call big talk dinners it’s a

that we call big talk dinners it’s a tribute to a Tech Talk on Big Talk and

tribute to a Tech Talk on Big Talk and

tribute to a Tech Talk on Big Talk and so what we do is we get together and

so what we do is we get together and

so what we do is we get together and just a lot of different ways to do this

just a lot of different ways to do this

just a lot of different ways to do this maybe during the off-site or retreat or

maybe during the off-site or retreat or

maybe during the off-site or retreat or even in the office and all we do is just

even in the office and all we do is just

even in the office and all we do is just get around the table and we share a list

get around the table and we share a list

get around the table and we share a list of Big Talk questions

of Big Talk questions

of Big Talk questions Big Talk questions are unlike small talk

Big Talk questions are unlike small talk

Big Talk questions are unlike small talk questions so small talk is asking how

questions so small talk is asking how

questions so small talk is asking how your weekend was big talk is about

your weekend was big talk is about

your weekend was big talk is about really trying to understand things like

really trying to understand things like

really trying to understand things like well what do you really want to do with

well what do you really want to do with

well what do you really want to do with your life you know a little bit deeper

your life you know a little bit deeper

your life you know a little bit deeper and it enables people to connect in a

and it enables people to connect in a

and it enables people to connect in a more meaningful way and this is work

more meaningful way and this is work

more meaningful way and this is work really great for us so this is something

really great for us so this is something

really great for us so this is something that we do across teams across

that we do across teams across

that we do across teams across departments but also within teams and

departments but also within teams and

departments but also within teams and it’s been able to scale as we’ve grown

it’s been able to scale as we’ve grown

it’s been able to scale as we’ve grown the company we also learned pretty early

the company we also learned pretty early

the company we also learned pretty early on that a lot of people when they enjoy

on that a lot of people when they enjoy

on that a lot of people when they enjoy our company they they thought that it

our company they they thought that it

our company they they thought that it felt like a family and they kept

felt like a family and they kept

felt like a family and they kept repeating this and it didn’t really

repeating this and it didn’t really

repeating this and it didn’t really strike me as the right word to use in a

strike me as the right word to use in a

strike me as the right word to use in a family you can have a an uncle that

family you can have a an uncle that

family you can have a an uncle that doesn’t like to do the dishes and you

doesn’t like to do the dishes and you

doesn’t like to do the dishes and you can’t really do anything about that

can’t really do anything about that

can’t really do anything about that right just you have to put up with it

right just you have to put up with it

right just you have to put up with it but I feel like a better way to describe

but I feel like a better way to describe

but I feel like a better way to describe what we do and who we are is a sports

what we do and who we are is a sports

what we do and who we are is a sports team because a sports team really builds

team because a sports team really builds

team because a sports team really builds really good good group dynamics but in

really good good group dynamics but in

really good good group dynamics but in this in addition to that they also have

this in addition to that they also have

this in addition to that they also have a common goal and with that common goal

a common goal and with that common goal

a common goal and with that common goal they know that if somebody is

they know that if somebody is

they know that if somebody is pulling their weight they’re gonna be on

pulling their weight they’re gonna be on

pulling their weight they’re gonna be on the bench and this is really something

the bench and this is really something

the bench and this is really something important that we have to instill and so

important that we have to instill and so

important that we have to instill and so we changed the way we talk about our

we changed the way we talk about our

we changed the way we talk about our culture from feeling a family to a

culture from feeling a family to a

culture from feeling a family to a feeling of sports team and then the

feeling of sports team and then the

feeling of sports team and then the other thing that didn’t scale for us is

other thing that didn’t scale for us is

other thing that didn’t scale for us is how we actually enforce our culture

how we actually enforce our culture

how we actually enforce our culture because when you hire you also have to

because when you hire you also have to

because when you hire you also have to make sure that you screen in the right

make sure that you screen in the right

make sure that you screen in the right people and I used to do all the culture

people and I used to do all the culture

people and I used to do all the culture interviews I probably did hundreds of

interviews I probably did hundreds of

interviews I probably did hundreds of them and at some point that just didn’t

them and at some point that just didn’t

them and at some point that just didn’t scale and so what we have to do is

scale and so what we have to do is

scale and so what we have to do is codify essentially what the culture

codify essentially what the culture

codify essentially what the culture means what are the principles that we

means what are the principles that we

means what are the principles that we can write down the values that we have

can write down the values that we have

can write down the values that we have that everybody in the company can go in

that everybody in the company can go in

that everybody in the company can go in and scream for and so we came up with is

and scream for and so we came up with is

and scream for and so we came up with is lead humbly which internally we call

lead humbly which internally we call

lead humbly which internally we call them no asshole role by the way we have

them no asshole role by the way we have

them no asshole role by the way we have the being adore the skip politics push

the being adore the skip politics push

the being adore the skip politics push innovation and showing a gratitude and

innovation and showing a gratitude and

innovation and showing a gratitude and it’s just those five that we wrote down

it’s just those five that we wrote down

it’s just those five that we wrote down and they work really well for us so in

and they work really well for us so in

and they work really well for us so in essence what we found in the last

essence what we found in the last

essence what we found in the last journey the journey of the last five

journey the journey of the last five

journey the journey of the last five years is it may seem obvious to you but

years is it may seem obvious to you but

years is it may seem obvious to you but it’s surprisingly controversial and it’s

it’s surprisingly controversial and it’s

it’s surprisingly controversial and it’s that employee happiness really is human

that employee happiness really is human

that employee happiness really is human happiness and if you want to be happy at

happiness and if you want to be happy at

happiness and if you want to be happy at work you have to be able to bring your

work you have to be able to bring your

work you have to be able to bring your personal life to work you have to be

personal life to work you have to be

personal life to work you have to be able to connect with the people around

able to connect with the people around

able to connect with the people around you I asked our managing director from

you I asked our managing director from

you I asked our managing director from techstars about you know the low and

techstars about you know the low and

techstars about you know the low and high highs and lows ritual and where it

high highs and lows ritual and where it

high highs and lows ritual and where it came from and he actually shared with me

came from and he actually shared with me

came from and he actually shared with me that that came from his personal company

that that came from his personal company

that that came from his personal company he had started a company before he

he had started a company before he

he had started a company before he passed that on to us as a way for us to

passed that on to us as a way for us to

passed that on to us as a way for us to build our company and my hope is that I

build our company and my hope is that I

build our company and my hope is that I want to pass all that to you as well and

want to pass all that to you as well and

want to pass all that to you as well and if you’re considering starting a company

if you’re considering starting a company

if you’re considering starting a company or you’re considering joining one

or you’re considering joining one

or you’re considering joining one consider not just the product that

consider not just the product that

consider not just the product that you’re gonna work on or the service that

you’re gonna work on or the service that

you’re gonna work on or the service that you can offer but also the culture that

you can offer but also the culture that

you can offer but also the culture that you can actually join because there is

you can actually join because there is

you can actually join because there is really a new generation of companies out

really a new generation of companies out

really a new generation of companies out there that really put people first and

there that really put people first and

there that really put people first and care about employee happiness thank you

care about employee happiness thank you

care about employee happiness thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] you

you

you [Applause]

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