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As Lições das Mulheres de Sucesso | Camila Haeckel | TEDxDeVryRecifeWomen


Hi everyone, My name is Camila.

recently I immersed myself in the project well

daring that it was precisely to launch the book

in fact it was my first book I

I did it because I believe the best

way of teaching by example and is

precisely what this book proposes

and I also believe that knowledge

only value when shared this

yes the main objective of our

book

in the last months i’ve been talking

with several women from pernambuco

women from the most diverse areas

medical business lawyers to know

what they think about success and

people discover in this time that the

answers were super diverse but before

explain that this project does not

started with me despite being my

first book he is the third of a

series

all this began in 2004 with my brother

Felipe when he released the first

book of this series

he was not even 28 years old and he

decided that he wanted to interview the

his idols and he was such a person

that his idols were not a

singers youtuber dj and yes leader

of that pernambuco Aryan suassuna

francisco brennand no mm and he went

adept of that maxim there that did not know

it was impossible was there and made with

courage and was able to interview the

major entrepreneurs of pernambuco and the

greatest artists

the book has known a content

very rich with fantastic stories

of these people and the book lived up to its name

was really a success

only there in this first book where you have

came 119 respondents only had 17

17 per cent were women

I confess that at the time I did not

realize this difference I let pass

this detail because because I was so

excited about a project that was a

thing that no one had done before with

the contents of the book that this disparity

went unnoticed to those who passed

even unnoticed and then spent time

many years later in 2016 felipe

decided to reprint the book only

time he wanted to do with the footprint

different only with entrepreneurial leaders

and then he chose

yes once again we came across

with the same problem

14 percent were women and then I said

in my God how can what is

happening this time bothered me

enough then I talked to them felipe

what is happening he is nothing

male chauvinist

he is super modern young is our mother

including a super strong figure then

I did not feel the number and then he

explained that this portrays the

reality that we live the book

was done through indications through

who talked to the

person who indicated the other and so was

informed but he also bothered

with that number when he saw

and that’s when I started searching

internet, why be so anyway

this was not or not our reality

and then I saw that we women are 31%

of Brazilian entrepreneurs and that we

we are financially responsible for

more than 40% of Brazilian users

so it really was not this reality

was not being well portrayed is this

bothered me as much as filipe

As for our first guard who

joined today and we decided to do

anything about it then

we decided to make an exclusive book with

women with the intention of honoring the

Pernambuco women and tell

history of them here in pernambuco we

we have fantastic women with stories

awesome medical entrepreneurs

Last but not least,

He missed and not miss the story of a

Interesting way to tell and then

in 2007 that year we resolved

launch the book only with women with

these women who inspire in this

design talking to these women

I discovered that success in this word

success can have several meanings right

as diverse as possible for many

of them means peace accomplishment

happiness balance self-knowledge

then responses varied greatly from

interviewees for interviewees

But we also noticed that in the

At first we feel a certain

Prejudice with that word to a book

about what success I do not want not there

because because a lot of people just like me

associated the word success only with

power status money fame

It’s not that success is not that right.

but success is not just this is very

more than that but it’s important

make it clear that the project idea

never was define what is success

Our goal is much broader than

This is what we want people to do.

which from the beginning is precisely to do

a bridge to connect women who

have women who have what to teach

with women who want to learn is the

definition itself was neither the

important then away from a vision

academic study or a scientific study

people wanted to put the readers close

inspiring women was to bring

this story close to the readers

the interviewees they opened their lives

Tell Your Stories Your Failures

difficulties and put this to the

people’s disposition then it is a content

very worthwhile to really be

shared

and then we had access to both the

men’s book the two books

previous filipe that people

dive deep read lego

understood well we also have access to

internet and his wife made a

research and we have concluded that

many similarities between the men of

success and successful women who are

characteristics in common the two if not

to find grace because it’s kind of obvious they’re

discipline dedication effort focus

determination and claw and that’s kind of

an ordinary place is people know that everything

world that succeeds need these

characteristics

but that’s not what I think is important.

that I want to bring to you is what the

people noticed differently

the differences that we perceived between

the men and the women that was what

really enchanted this project

We noticed that women

They are not afraid to talk about their failures.

they understand that they understand that the

failure often does not point to the

success

women are too humble to count

how many difficulties have not passed to

to arrive where they arrived they open their

heart telling that they had to ask

borrowed for mother or father to bank

For the moneylender who broke, I do not know how many.

times that have passed more than five years

without corporate profits

so we did not realize at least

that in the men’s book this

sensuality this humility and so they

they are really proud to

went through failure to reach the

Success I found fantastic

and they are very grateful to the

women they thank thank

family to their husbands and partners

world that helped them have a feeling

of great gratitude

It’s hard for you to talk to her and she

say ah, my success, it’s me, I ‘m

here alone and I am the maximum

practically so I think that in the

interviews

I think 15 percent of women do not

devoted success not divided the

with someone and she also has a

sense of collectivity too large

they understand they even understand the

importance of teamwork

they say that without the staff she does not

arrive where they arrived then you

talk to them you realize that she

push them give much value to the team

the person’s valuation even has a

a phrase that I really like the doctor

lina adventure that is in the book she speaks

that selfishness and individualism

weaken any kind of mission that

It’s true right?

is also something else that I realized the

women they seek and was quoted

over and over again in many

interviews are that they are increasingly

more seeking peace of mind and a

more balanced life

she does not care only for a hundred good ones

their careers in making money in the

their financial lives they also want

with the family they want to be well with

the health

So it’s you have a sentence so far that

It’s also from Roseane Amorim that I’m a fan

her that she says the following to the greatest

The company that we have is our life.

then we have to invest in it then

these characteristics of the woman shows

that besides all that we have mentioned

previously common to men

and to women they have all those who

they are also peculiar that I think

interesting that resilience and

reinvention is woman is one of nothing against

the woman you do not know were

broker loses his job will come to

was working in a

bank loses his job will make cake in

home

break the store will do something else

so woman does not have advisors and I just

I do this I only know if it’s an accountant I only know

if that’s not woman do what you have

to do and turns and ready and the question

resilience is also very strong in

woman do we know how many times to

woman fell into the ditch

get up because you have to take care of the house

of the children’s husband

so that was also the guy who complained

female I felt in several

interviews is the failure or success of the

women go through various situations

knowing how to adapt and how to

lift and no loss of enthusiasm and

joy

all they do is in a way

Light

It’s with joy even without being a thing.

suffered and finally this

feature

no man can say that he tries

only woman is multifunctional

can do a thousand things at once

What is the woman who does not talk at all?

cell phone write 90 television watch

boy making a nail then came the man

When are we going to say two things?

they are worth, you can only give birth

one thing at a time

so this feature really

I’m so sorry the exclusive one to ours is

So we have fantastic women.

but so I have no doubt that there is

people with these characteristics too

reach of you are not these women

that I interviewed the book does not have here

women in this way everywhere has

so the inspirations are always good

Closer Than You Imagine

we understand to look so far and in the great

neglect people around us

we have idols outside of Brazil

I admire the woman, I’m not saying that

not important but so here in

pernambuco we have women

fantastic

We have women in our house.

our surroundings have

incredible women then we have to

to value these women no more than how many

talents can be on our side and the

people are not valuing this is this

message that I want to start to value the

people is what we can all do

and learn

we women should value ourselves and

mainly value each other

this question of why we are

It’s incredible, but we have to

to really be more close-knit and

no ball to each other and

recently recently yesterday in a

interview a woman talk this

A word to me that I did not know

sonority if you already know

I have now found the feminine of

fraternity

this word is not yet in the

dictionary brotherhood the word

male nor knew and the sound

female

the unity it means precisely

unity empathy fellowship no

trial and mandarin

it means exactly what we

women we have to support ourselves in the

would encourage people to tease the others are

friend and I think there is a lack of

little in women

This is not men’s fault and it’s

no one is the same as the people who have

to be more friendly to others

caring with others

So I end up saying that with this

sound word and asking that people

have more union with the other e –

rivalry

and personal brigade there

[Applause]

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