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The Social Capital Gap | Sheila Sarem | TEDxWilmingtonED


so everyone remembers their first job

so everyone remembers their first job and mine is a large part of why I’m

and mine is a large part of why I’m

and mine is a large part of why I’m standing in front of you today I can’t

standing in front of you today I can’t

standing in front of you today I can’t really share that story without first

really share that story without first

really share that story without first rewinding to 1986 this is the year that

rewinding to 1986 this is the year that

rewinding to 1986 this is the year that my family and I arrived in the United

my family and I arrived in the United

my family and I arrived in the United States together and in those early years

States together and in those early years

States together and in those early years we were very much learning the ropes of

we were very much learning the ropes of

we were very much learning the ropes of what I ment to be to get to be American

what I ment to be to get to be American

what I ment to be to get to be American as a family this often consisted of me

as a family this often consisted of me

as a family this often consisted of me coming home from school with strange

coming home from school with strange

coming home from school with strange tales I was learning about from other

tales I was learning about from other

tales I was learning about from other American children like larger than life

American children like larger than life

American children like larger than life bunnies that delivered colored eggs to

bunnies that delivered colored eggs to

bunnies that delivered colored eggs to children’s homes once a year or fairies

children’s homes once a year or fairies

children’s homes once a year or fairies that came by to exchange cash for teeth

that came by to exchange cash for teeth

that came by to exchange cash for teeth he’s probably sound like low stakes

he’s probably sound like low stakes

he’s probably sound like low stakes knowledge gaps to you but my

knowledge gaps to you but my

knowledge gaps to you but my seven-year-old self would beg to differ

seven-year-old self would beg to differ

seven-year-old self would beg to differ I was always leaving teeth under my

I was always leaving teeth under my

I was always leaving teeth under my pillow and hopes this fairy would to

pillow and hopes this fairy would to

pillow and hopes this fairy would to find my parents and stop by our house as

find my parents and stop by our house as

find my parents and stop by our house as I got older some of my knowledge gaps

I got older some of my knowledge gaps

I got older some of my knowledge gaps carried more weight like how do you make

carried more weight like how do you make

carried more weight like how do you make decisions about where to go to college

decisions about where to go to college

decisions about where to go to college and what actually goes into a first job

and what actually goes into a first job

and what actually goes into a first job search and I actually remember on the

search and I actually remember on the

search and I actually remember on the very last day of college turning to a

very last day of college turning to a

very last day of college turning to a classmate to ask what are you doing

classmate to ask what are you doing

classmate to ask what are you doing after school and he shared that he was

after school and he shared that he was

after school and he shared that he was going into something called consulting

going into something called consulting

going into something called consulting and that he’d gotten this job nine

and that he’d gotten this job nine

and that he’d gotten this job nine months before I was going home to wait

months before I was going home to wait

months before I was going home to wait tables and figure it out not really

tables and figure it out not really

tables and figure it out not really understanding what went into this whole

understanding what went into this whole

understanding what went into this whole job search thing and honestly why would

job search thing and honestly why would

job search thing and honestly why would I my family had been in this country for

I my family had been in this country for

I my family had been in this country for less than one generation my dad had just

less than one generation my dad had just

less than one generation my dad had just secured white-collar work right around

secured white-collar work right around

secured white-collar work right around the time I was going to high school I

the time I was going to high school I

the time I was going to high school I wasn’t the kind of teenager that was

wasn’t the kind of teenager that was

wasn’t the kind of teenager that was asking my friends families what they did

asking my friends families what they did

asking my friends families what they did for a living and how they got their jobs

for a living and how they got their jobs

for a living and how they got their jobs and honestly I didn’t check my college

and honestly I didn’t check my college

and honestly I didn’t check my college resources it was a blind spot for me I

resources it was a blind spot for me I

resources it was a blind spot for me I can’t even tell you if my college has

can’t even tell you if my college has

can’t even tell you if my college has good career support so I did go home and

good career support so I did go home and

good career support so I did go home and wait tables and I took my tip money and

wait tables and I took my tip money and

wait tables and I took my tip money and I did what I’d always done I figured it

I did what I’d always done I figured it

I did what I’d always done I figured it out I traveled abroad to start what I

out I traveled abroad to start what I

out I traveled abroad to start what I called my adult life I printed my resume

called my adult life I printed my resume

called my adult life I printed my resume on thick glossy paper and I knocked on

on thick glossy paper and I knocked on

on thick glossy paper and I knocked on doors asking about a job I was

doors asking about a job I was

doors asking about a job I was incredibly lucky that this strategy

incredibly lucky that this strategy

incredibly lucky that this strategy worked for me an expat saw something in

worked for me an expat saw something in

worked for me an expat saw something in me on my second day of literally

me on my second day of literally

me on my second day of literally knocking on doors and decided to give me

knocking on doors and decided to give me

knocking on doors and decided to give me a job and launched my career the data

a job and launched my career the data

a job and launched my career the data will tell you that my experience is a

will tell you that my experience is a

will tell you that my experience is a complete fluke LinkedIn did a study this

complete fluke LinkedIn did a study this

complete fluke LinkedIn did a study this summer that says 85% of us are still

summer that says 85% of us are still

summer that says 85% of us are still going to get our jobs through people

going to get our jobs through people

going to get our jobs through people you know that means for the people

you know that means for the people

you know that means for the people sitting in this room and for the general

sitting in this room and for the general

sitting in this room and for the general American workforce you will get your

American workforce you will get your

American workforce you will get your first your second even your tenth job

first your second even your tenth job

first your second even your tenth job through your extended communities now

through your extended communities now

through your extended communities now layer on top of that that most of us

layer on top of that that most of us

layer on top of that that most of us still share community with people who

still share community with people who

still share community with people who share our race our ethnicity our

share our race our ethnicity our

share our race our ethnicity our socioeconomic backgrounds and

socioeconomic backgrounds and

socioeconomic backgrounds and increasingly our political beliefs and

increasingly our political beliefs and

increasingly our political beliefs and it’s no wonder we are struggling to

it’s no wonder we are struggling to

it’s no wonder we are struggling to diversify the American workforce a

diversify the American workforce a

diversify the American workforce a struggle that is unfairly impacting

struggle that is unfairly impacting

struggle that is unfairly impacting black and Latino college graduates right

black and Latino college graduates right

black and Latino college graduates right now in our country a black college

now in our country a black college

now in our country a black college graduate has similar rates of

graduate has similar rates of

graduate has similar rates of unemployment to a white high school

unemployment to a white high school

unemployment to a white high school dropout and if you are a black or Latino

dropout and if you are a black or Latino

dropout and if you are a black or Latino recent college graduate your likelihood

recent college graduate your likelihood

recent college graduate your likelihood of being underemployed far outweighs

of being underemployed far outweighs

of being underemployed far outweighs your white counterparts

your white counterparts

your white counterparts now we could assume this is because

now we could assume this is because

now we could assume this is because there’s some sort of skills gap that

there’s some sort of skills gap that

there’s some sort of skills gap that somehow black and Latino college

somehow black and Latino college

somehow black and Latino college graduates magically appear out of

graduates magically appear out of

graduates magically appear out of college with less skills in their white

college with less skills in their white

college with less skills in their white counterparts

counterparts

counterparts but at basta we don’t believe that’s

but at basta we don’t believe that’s

but at basta we don’t believe that’s true we believe if you can equip young

true we believe if you can equip young

true we believe if you can equip young people to answer two simple questions

people to answer two simple questions

people to answer two simple questions what in the world actually goes into a

what in the world actually goes into a

what in the world actually goes into a job search and who is willing to vouch

job search and who is willing to vouch

job search and who is willing to vouch for me on the other end we can get

for me on the other end we can get

for me on the other end we can get dramatically different outcomes and

dramatically different outcomes and

dramatically different outcomes and we’ve launched basta as an organization

we’ve launched basta as an organization

we’ve launched basta as an organization in order to figure out how to make that

in order to figure out how to make that

in order to figure out how to make that happen across the last 16 months we’ve

happen across the last 16 months we’ve

happen across the last 16 months we’ve run three programs working with 80

run three programs working with 80

run three programs working with 80 first-generation students of color as

first-generation students of color as

first-generation students of color as they transition from college into the

they transition from college into the

they transition from college into the world of work an 88% of our young people

world of work an 88% of our young people

world of work an 88% of our young people are securing career pathway jobs upon

are securing career pathway jobs upon

are securing career pathway jobs upon completing the program

they are defying the odds that we shared

they are defying the odds that we shared with you earlier so why did we choose to

with you earlier so why did we choose to

with you earlier so why did we choose to focus on social capital not the skills

focus on social capital not the skills

focus on social capital not the skills gap well for one I worked as an HR

gap well for one I worked as an HR

gap well for one I worked as an HR talent professional before launching

talent professional before launching

talent professional before launching basta I over the last several years have

basta I over the last several years have

basta I over the last several years have heard countless stories of career

heard countless stories of career

heard countless stories of career journeys and over time a pattern emerged

journeys and over time a pattern emerged

journeys and over time a pattern emerged which is you’ve got two stories on the

which is you’ve got two stories on the

which is you’ve got two stories on the one hand you’ve got people that have

one hand you’ve got people that have

one hand you’ve got people that have really linear career paths with really

really linear career paths with really

really linear career paths with really transparent milestones and contacts the

transparent milestones and contacts the

transparent milestones and contacts the networks shared really easily with them

networks shared really easily with them

networks shared really easily with them on the other hand you have people whose

on the other hand you have people whose

on the other hand you have people whose career paths are much more circuitous

career paths are much more circuitous

career paths are much more circuitous and murky who have lots of detours and

and murky who have lots of detours and

and murky who have lots of detours and experience a few lucky breaks and what

experience a few lucky breaks and what

experience a few lucky breaks and what was really disappointing about that is

was really disappointing about that is

was really disappointing about that is how often those stories fell down along

how often those stories fell down along

how often those stories fell down along lines of race and class so armed with

lines of race and class so armed with

lines of race and class so armed with that I went out and just started asking

that I went out and just started asking

that I went out and just started asking first-generation college graduates who

first-generation college graduates who

first-generation college graduates who are in their early careers what do you

are in their early careers what do you

are in their early careers what do you wish you had had and what do you wish

wish you had had and what do you wish

wish you had had and what do you wish you had known as you were making this

you had known as you were making this

you had known as you were making this transition I coupled that with my own

transition I coupled that with my own

transition I coupled that with my own growing realization about the role that

growing realization about the role that

growing realization about the role that luck played in my early career and we

luck played in my early career and we

luck played in my early career and we used that to build Bastas pilot cohort

used that to build Bastas pilot cohort

used that to build Bastas pilot cohort that’s when we met Louise so Louise came

that’s when we met Louise so Louise came

that’s when we met Louise so Louise came to us as a senior first-generation

to us as a senior first-generation

to us as a senior first-generation college student and in his own words he

college student and in his own words he

college student and in his own words he was entirely lost about the job search

was entirely lost about the job search

was entirely lost about the job search process now why this is amazing is that

process now why this is amazing is that

process now why this is amazing is that he is easily one of the most magnetic

he is easily one of the most magnetic

he is easily one of the most magnetic and charismatic people I’ve ever had a

and charismatic people I’ve ever had a

and charismatic people I’ve ever had a chance to meet and he hadn’t realized

chance to meet and he hadn’t realized

chance to meet and he hadn’t realized that his masterful ability to connect

that his masterful ability to connect

that his masterful ability to connect with others was gonna serve him so well

with others was gonna serve him so well

with others was gonna serve him so well through this process so he enrolled in

through this process so he enrolled in

through this process so he enrolled in our 10-week program we’ll just sort of

our 10-week program we’ll just sort of

our 10-week program we’ll just sort of when you learn the ropes of how you

when you learn the ropes of how you

when you learn the ropes of how you really get a job which is not applying

really get a job which is not applying

really get a job which is not applying to 50 jobs a day online and we connected

to 50 jobs a day online and we connected

to 50 jobs a day online and we connected him with an executive who believes in

him with an executive who believes in

him with an executive who believes in bosses program and helped to open doors

bosses program and helped to open doors

bosses program and helped to open doors for him I’m really excited to share that

for him I’m really excited to share that

for him I’m really excited to share that Lewis is now in a major city between New

Lewis is now in a major city between New

Lewis is now in a major city between New York and DC working as a junior analyst

York and DC working as a junior analyst

York and DC working as a junior analyst at a major financial institution

when we asked Lewis what is the key

when we asked Lewis what is the key learning you’re taking into your career

learning you’re taking into your career

learning you’re taking into your career he had three simple words for us

he had three simple words for us

he had three simple words for us relationships are key what Lewis needed

relationships are key what Lewis needed

relationships are key what Lewis needed from us in that very critical moment in

from us in that very critical moment in

from us in that very critical moment in his life was not someone to come along

his life was not someone to come along

his life was not someone to come along and tell him he needed more Skills what

and tell him he needed more Skills what

and tell him he needed more Skills what he needed was networks and knowledge

he needed was networks and knowledge

he needed was networks and knowledge coupled with his skills that he gained

coupled with his skills that he gained

coupled with his skills that he gained in his life and in college to be able to

in his life and in college to be able to

in his life and in college to be able to help him secure a first job now I’m not

help him secure a first job now I’m not

help him secure a first job now I’m not saying there’s not a role for tech

saying there’s not a role for tech

saying there’s not a role for tech bootcamps and upskilling programs but I

bootcamps and upskilling programs but I

bootcamps and upskilling programs but I also feel that the immediate results

also feel that the immediate results

also feel that the immediate results we’ve seen in our programs across the

we’ve seen in our programs across the

we’ve seen in our programs across the last 16 months really build a compelling

last 16 months really build a compelling

last 16 months really build a compelling case that we need to think about this

case that we need to think about this

case that we need to think about this employment gap problem as more more

employment gap problem as more more

employment gap problem as more more broadly than it’s just skills so we have

broadly than it’s just skills so we have

broadly than it’s just skills so we have solutions that can meet the nuance needs

solutions that can meet the nuance needs

solutions that can meet the nuance needs for all the students that are trying to

for all the students that are trying to

for all the students that are trying to transition into their first job because

transition into their first job because

transition into their first job because basta grads aren’t just getting first

basta grads aren’t just getting first

basta grads aren’t just getting first jobs they are getting them faster than

jobs they are getting them faster than

jobs they are getting them faster than their peers across the country the

their peers across the country the

their peers across the country the average basta fellow is securing a job

average basta fellow is securing a job

average basta fellow is securing a job within three months the national average

within three months the national average

within three months the national average for students securing great first jobs

for students securing great first jobs

for students securing great first jobs right now hovers around five months and

right now hovers around five months and

right now hovers around five months and I’ll tell you secret we’re not doing

I’ll tell you secret we’re not doing

I’ll tell you secret we’re not doing something particularly special around

something particularly special around

something particularly special around selection we have two questions on our

selection we have two questions on our

selection we have two questions on our application

application

application are you a first-generation college

are you a first-generation college

are you a first-generation college student and do you identify as a person

student and do you identify as a person

student and do you identify as a person of color

of color

of color we don’t have internship prerequisites

we don’t have internship prerequisites

we don’t have internship prerequisites we don’t have GPA cut-offs and we don’t

we don’t have GPA cut-offs and we don’t

we don’t have GPA cut-offs and we don’t source from the prestigious colleges and

source from the prestigious colleges and

source from the prestigious colleges and universities because we believe those

universities because we believe those

universities because we believe those proxies are incomplete determinants of

proxies are incomplete determinants of

proxies are incomplete determinants of whether someone’s going to be successful

whether someone’s going to be successful

whether someone’s going to be successful in the first job and they’ve contributed

in the first job and they’ve contributed

in the first job and they’ve contributed to the current challenges we’re facing

to the current challenges we’re facing

to the current challenges we’re facing across our country right now so when we

across our country right now so when we

across our country right now so when we think about social capital what’s really

think about social capital what’s really

think about social capital what’s really astounding about it is how invisible it

astounding about it is how invisible it

astounding about it is how invisible it can feel both to those who have it and

can feel both to those who have it and

can feel both to those who have it and also those who don’t and we spend a lot

also those who don’t and we spend a lot

also those who don’t and we spend a lot of time figuring out how to build social

of time figuring out how to build social

of time figuring out how to build social capital into our program model so in our

capital into our program model so in our

capital into our program model so in our group sessions that can look like our

group sessions that can look like our

group sessions that can look like our strengths spotting session where young

strengths spotting session where young

strengths spotting session where young people dive into all the successes that

people dive into all the successes that

people dive into all the successes that they’ve already had and think about how

they’ve already had and think about how

they’ve already had and think about how those mapped to strengthen then how

those mapped to strengthen then how

those mapped to strengthen then how those strengths map to a professional

those strengths map to a professional

those strengths map to a professional job we’ve worked through real-life

job we’ve worked through real-life

job we’ve worked through real-life scenario

scenario

scenario about what it’s gonna feel like to

about what it’s gonna feel like to

about what it’s gonna feel like to navigate dominant culture how are you

navigate dominant culture how are you

navigate dominant culture how are you going to navigate these complex

going to navigate these complex

going to navigate these complex environments you’re going into and

environments you’re going into and

environments you’re going into and remain true to yourself and what you

remain true to yourself and what you

remain true to yourself and what you need in that moment one-on-one we share

need in that moment one-on-one we share

need in that moment one-on-one we share our networks as generously as we share

our networks as generously as we share

our networks as generously as we share our advice so we’re sending unsolicited

our advice so we’re sending unsolicited

our advice so we’re sending unsolicited referrals and recommendations for people

referrals and recommendations for people

referrals and recommendations for people in our program so we’re asking our

in our program so we’re asking our

in our program so we’re asking our supporters and advocates to do the same

supporters and advocates to do the same

supporters and advocates to do the same just as you would for a gym buddies kid

just as you would for a gym buddies kid

just as you would for a gym buddies kid or neighbors kids we are you know

or neighbors kids we are you know

or neighbors kids we are you know reviewing thank-you notes at 10 p.m. or

reviewing thank-you notes at 10 p.m. or

reviewing thank-you notes at 10 p.m. or coaching someone through a salary

coaching someone through a salary

coaching someone through a salary negotiation the kinds of support some

negotiation the kinds of support some

negotiation the kinds of support some people just have built into their lives

people just have built into their lives

people just have built into their lives and we’re spending a lot of time naming

and we’re spending a lot of time naming

and we’re spending a lot of time naming and normalizing social capital the

and normalizing social capital the

and normalizing social capital the reason is we want young people to

reason is we want young people to

reason is we want young people to recognize when they need it and ask for

recognize when they need it and ask for

recognize when they need it and ask for help and we also want them to recognize

help and we also want them to recognize

help and we also want them to recognize they can just share this with their

they can just share this with their

they can just share this with their peers Eileen was a graduate of our store

peers Eileen was a graduate of our store

peers Eileen was a graduate of our store a fellow in our second cohort and when

a fellow in our second cohort and when

a fellow in our second cohort and when she got her first job she dialed into

she got her first job she dialed into

she got her first job she dialed into our office hours to share the great news

our office hours to share the great news

our office hours to share the great news with us we love a good job offer story

with us we love a good job offer story

with us we love a good job offer story in love when they when they share them

in love when they when they share them

in love when they when they share them and what a lien I leaned actually shared

and what a lien I leaned actually shared

and what a lien I leaned actually shared was yes she was thankful for the

was yes she was thankful for the

was yes she was thankful for the networks and the access that she’d

networks and the access that she’d

networks and the access that she’d gotten through basta but what she was

gotten through basta but what she was

gotten through basta but what she was really thankful for were the tools she

really thankful for were the tools she

really thankful for were the tools she felt like she now had the tools to guide

felt like she now had the tools to guide

felt like she now had the tools to guide her little sister when it was her turn

her little sister when it was her turn

her little sister when it was her turn this was a really profound moment for us

this was a really profound moment for us

this was a really profound moment for us as you can imagine this unprompted aha

as you can imagine this unprompted aha

as you can imagine this unprompted aha demonstrates the beauty about social

demonstrates the beauty about social

demonstrates the beauty about social capital once you realize that you have

capital once you realize that you have

capital once you realize that you have it and you can share it you lose nothing

it and you can share it you lose nothing

it and you can share it you lose nothing social capital is truly a currency with

social capital is truly a currency with

social capital is truly a currency with a multiplier effect and that for me is

a multiplier effect and that for me is

a multiplier effect and that for me is the most compelling or interesting thing

the most compelling or interesting thing

the most compelling or interesting thing that I can leave in this room or to the

that I can leave in this room or to the

that I can leave in this room or to the people watching on the livestream each

people watching on the livestream each

people watching on the livestream each one of us has a role to play in this

one of us has a role to play in this

one of us has a role to play in this it’s just if you decide if you want to

it’s just if you decide if you want to

it’s just if you decide if you want to use your role or not and you don’t have

use your role or not and you don’t have

use your role or not and you don’t have to wait for someone to come knock on

to wait for someone to come knock on

to wait for someone to come knock on your door it’s about getting curious

your door it’s about getting curious

your door it’s about getting curious going out and learning the stories of

going out and learning the stories of

going out and learning the stories of young people you may not have interacted

young people you may not have interacted

young people you may not have interacted with otherwise learning their incredible

with otherwise learning their incredible

with otherwise learning their incredible stories sharing your relevant advice

stories sharing your relevant advice

stories sharing your relevant advice when it’s necessary but then ultimately

when it’s necessary but then ultimately

when it’s necessary but then ultimately either being or

either being or

either being or making a connection that can be

making a connection that can be

making a connection that can be life-altering and changed someone’s

life-altering and changed someone’s

life-altering and changed someone’s career trajectory thank you

career trajectory thank you

career trajectory thank you [Applause]

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