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Rediscovering Democracy in Our Communities | Mark Friesen | TEDxSFU


who holds a political power in your

who holds a political power in your community do you and by political power

community do you and by political power

community do you and by political power I mean who makes decisions about stuff

I mean who makes decisions about stuff

I mean who makes decisions about stuff in your community who makes decisions

in your community who makes decisions

in your community who makes decisions about how resources are used how your

about how resources are used how your

about how resources are used how your community gets built and the rules that

community gets built and the rules that

community gets built and the rules that govern your community do you if we live

govern your community do you if we live

govern your community do you if we live in a democratic society the answer is

in a democratic society the answer is

in a democratic society the answer is supposed to be yes it should be yes I

supposed to be yes it should be yes I

supposed to be yes it should be yes I have political power yes I make

have political power yes I make

have political power yes I make decisions about my community but most of

decisions about my community but most of

decisions about my community but most of us face to those questions that’s not

us face to those questions that’s not

us face to those questions that’s not how we answer we’re not sure how to

how we answer we’re not sure how to

how we answer we’re not sure how to answer those questions or at best were

answer those questions or at best were

answer those questions or at best were uncertain that’s a problem we have been

uncertain that’s a problem we have been

uncertain that’s a problem we have been fighting wars people have been dying for

fighting wars people have been dying for

fighting wars people have been dying for at least 350 years some would say for

at least 350 years some would say for

at least 350 years some would say for longer trying to put in place basic

longer trying to put in place basic

longer trying to put in place basic democratic principles things like the

democratic principles things like the

democratic principles things like the rule of law one-person one-vote

rule of law one-person one-vote

rule of law one-person one-vote universal suffrage freedom of speech an

universal suffrage freedom of speech an

universal suffrage freedom of speech an independent judiciary people have fought

independent judiciary people have fought

independent judiciary people have fought and died for this stuff in many parts of

and died for this stuff in many parts of

and died for this stuff in many parts of the world people are still fighting and

the world people are still fighting and

the world people are still fighting and dying for this stuff and yet I ask the

dying for this stuff and yet I ask the

dying for this stuff and yet I ask the question do you have political power do

question do you have political power do

question do you have political power do you make decisions about our community

you make decisions about our community

you make decisions about our community and our responses I don’t know maybe to

and our responses I don’t know maybe to

and our responses I don’t know maybe to make matters worse when it comes to

make matters worse when it comes to

make matters worse when it comes to democracy in many ways we actually seem

democracy in many ways we actually seem

democracy in many ways we actually seem to be doing worse there’s a very ugly

to be doing worse there’s a very ugly

to be doing worse there’s a very ugly form of populism and nationalism rising

form of populism and nationalism rising

form of populism and nationalism rising up in different parts of the world

up in different parts of the world

up in different parts of the world declining voter turnout at all levels of

declining voter turnout at all levels of

declining voter turnout at all levels of government studies showing declining

government studies showing declining

government studies showing declining levels of trust not only in elected

levels of trust not only in elected

levels of trust not only in elected officials but government institutions

officials but government institutions

officials but government institutions themselves recently I spoke at the end

themselves recently I spoke at the end

themselves recently I spoke at the end of a conference there was about 70

of a conference there was about 70

of a conference there was about 70 people in the room is a mix of Canadians

people in the room is a mix of Canadians

people in the room is a mix of Canadians and Americans and I asked how many

and Americans and I asked how many

and Americans and I asked how many people here feel good about democracy

people here feel good about democracy

people here feel good about democracy how many hands do you think went up not

how many hands do you think went up not

how many hands do you think went up not one not one hand went up and I’m pretty

one not one hand went up and I’m pretty

one not one hand went up and I’m pretty sure they were awake could look like not

sure they were awake could look like not

sure they were awake could look like not asleep

asleep

asleep no no one had went up so obviously we

no no one had went up so obviously we

no no one had went up so obviously we need to do better the question is how I

need to do better the question is how I

need to do better the question is how I believe that part of our challenge is

believe that part of our challenge is

believe that part of our challenge is how we’ve

how we’ve

how we’ve to understand political decision-making

to understand political decision-making

to understand political decision-making when it comes to making decisions about

when it comes to making decisions about

when it comes to making decisions about our communities we’ve come to rely on

our communities we’ve come to rely on

our communities we’ve come to rely on two approaches voting and elected

two approaches voting and elected

two approaches voting and elected representatives those are two very

representatives those are two very

representatives those are two very specific very particular ways to do

specific very particular ways to do

specific very particular ways to do democracy to share political power to

democracy to share political power to

democracy to share political power to make decisions about our communities and

make decisions about our communities and

make decisions about our communities and by understanding decision-making only in

by understanding decision-making only in

by understanding decision-making only in those two ways going to the ballot box

those two ways going to the ballot box

those two ways going to the ballot box elected representatives

elected representatives

elected representatives we’re holding ourselves back we’re

we’re holding ourselves back we’re

we’re holding ourselves back we’re holding ourselves back from finding new

holding ourselves back from finding new

holding ourselves back from finding new and different ways to engage as

and different ways to engage as

and different ways to engage as political citizens let me ask you when

political citizens let me ask you when

political citizens let me ask you when you imagine a democratic community what

you imagine a democratic community what

you imagine a democratic community what do you picture what does that actually

do you picture what does that actually

do you picture what does that actually look like

look like

look like is it voting let’s try out the voting

is it voting let’s try out the voting

is it voting let’s try out the voting thing right now as a way to make

thing right now as a way to make

thing right now as a way to make decisions all the time let’s suppose

decisions all the time let’s suppose

decisions all the time let’s suppose that in order to go have lunch we all

that in order to go have lunch we all

that in order to go have lunch we all need to decide what to eat so show of

need to decide what to eat so show of

need to decide what to eat so show of hands if for lunch you would like to

hands if for lunch you would like to

hands if for lunch you would like to have a burger and fries show of hands

all right and show van’s if you’d prefer

all right and show van’s if you’d prefer to have quinoa salad oh my goodness some

to have quinoa salad oh my goodness some

to have quinoa salad oh my goodness some cheers of a lot more hands all right I

cheers of a lot more hands all right I

cheers of a lot more hands all right I got news for you that’s what we’re all

got news for you that’s what we’re all

got news for you that’s what we’re all having for lunch we’re all having quinoa

having for lunch we’re all having quinoa

having for lunch we’re all having quinoa salad hopefully no one was keen on the

salad hopefully no one was keen on the

salad hopefully no one was keen on the burger and fries is that really the best

burger and fries is that really the best

burger and fries is that really the best way to make a decision this may come as

way to make a decision this may come as

way to make a decision this may come as a shock voting is not the only way to do

a shock voting is not the only way to do

a shock voting is not the only way to do Democratic decision-making I believe we

Democratic decision-making I believe we

Democratic decision-making I believe we need to go beyond voting beyond elected

need to go beyond voting beyond elected

need to go beyond voting beyond elected representatives now that exercise we did

representatives now that exercise we did

representatives now that exercise we did was ridiculous for a whole bunch of

was ridiculous for a whole bunch of

was ridiculous for a whole bunch of reasons not least of which is the absurd

reasons not least of which is the absurd

reasons not least of which is the absurd notion that the preferences of this

notion that the preferences of this

notion that the preferences of this entire room can be captured and

entire room can be captured and

entire room can be captured and represented by two options so we need to

represented by two options so we need to

represented by two options so we need to do better the question is how one place

do better the question is how one place

do better the question is how one place we can look to for inspiration is a

we can look to for inspiration is a

we can look to for inspiration is a place often credited for many of our

place often credited for many of our

place often credited for many of our democratic practices but rather than

democratic practices but rather than

democratic practices but rather than talk about Athenian or Greek democracy

talk about Athenian or Greek democracy

talk about Athenian or Greek democracy generally I want to talk about

generally I want to talk about

generally I want to talk about specifically something that happened

specifically something that happened

specifically something that happened here

here

here a place called the

a place called the

a place called the this is a gathering place in Athens it

this is a gathering place in Athens it

this is a gathering place in Athens it overlooks the Acropolis 2,500 years ago

overlooks the Acropolis 2,500 years ago

overlooks the Acropolis 2,500 years ago the Athenians tried something here that

the Athenians tried something here that

the Athenians tried something here that was radical they put in place a practice

was radical they put in place a practice

was radical they put in place a practice whereby an email citizen who wanted to

whereby an email citizen who wanted to

whereby an email citizen who wanted to participate in and discuss the issues

participate in and discuss the issues

participate in and discuss the issues being put forward for a decision could

being put forward for a decision could

being put forward for a decision could simply show up they just show up here

simply show up they just show up here

simply show up they just show up here and participate they didn’t have to be

and participate they didn’t have to be

and participate they didn’t have to be from a particular family they didn’t

from a particular family they didn’t

from a particular family they didn’t have to be elected they didn’t even have

have to be elected they didn’t even have

have to be elected they didn’t even have to register in advance the first six

to register in advance the first six

to register in advance the first six thousand to show up here got to

thousand to show up here got to

thousand to show up here got to participate how they sorted through that

participate how they sorted through that

participate how they sorted through that was that’s another story

was that’s another story

was that’s another story now we need to do better than that we

now we need to do better than that we

now we need to do better than that we need to do much better because in that

need to do much better because in that

need to do much better because in that practice they only went so far as to

practice they only went so far as to

practice they only went so far as to include male citizens and they don’t get

include male citizens and they don’t get

include male citizens and they don’t get a pass for that they knew better there

a pass for that they knew better there

a pass for that they knew better there were writers and philosophers writing at

were writers and philosophers writing at

were writers and philosophers writing at the time about the need to include women

the time about the need to include women

the time about the need to include women the notion of abolishing slavery the

the notion of abolishing slavery the

the notion of abolishing slavery the need to include other residents of the

need to include other residents of the

need to include other residents of the Athenian population in practices like

Athenian population in practices like

Athenian population in practices like this and they chose not to so we have to

this and they chose not to so we have to

this and they chose not to so we have to do way better than them but that idea

do way better than them but that idea

do way better than them but that idea they put in place that anybody can just

they put in place that anybody can just

they put in place that anybody can just show up was radical and it’s simply the

show up was radical and it’s simply the

show up was radical and it’s simply the premise there the concept that when it

premise there the concept that when it

premise there the concept that when it comes to making decisions about our

comes to making decisions about our

comes to making decisions about our communities about our political lives we

communities about our political lives we

communities about our political lives we all get to participate and the only

all get to participate and the only

all get to participate and the only thing we need to do to participate is

thing we need to do to participate is

thing we need to do to participate is show up it’s the only requirement so

show up it’s the only requirement so

show up it’s the only requirement so I’ve been working in the nonprofit

I’ve been working in the nonprofit

I’ve been working in the nonprofit community sector most of my life and

community sector most of my life and

community sector most of my life and thinking about what community

thinking about what community

thinking about what community decision-making looks like today and one

decision-making looks like today and one

decision-making looks like today and one place I draw drew inspiration from is

place I draw drew inspiration from is

place I draw drew inspiration from is the experience that happened to me here

the experience that happened to me here

the experience that happened to me here another very exciting picture of gravel

another very exciting picture of gravel

another very exciting picture of gravel and rocks this this is a gravel parking

and rocks this this is a gravel parking

and rocks this this is a gravel parking lot and this isn’t a community in

lot and this isn’t a community in

lot and this isn’t a community in British Columbia that were sorely

British Columbia that were sorely

British Columbia that were sorely lacking when it came to sport and

lacking when it came to sport and

lacking when it came to sport and recreation activities for kids and youth

recreation activities for kids and youth

recreation activities for kids and youth there was a community of people here who

there was a community of people here who

there was a community of people here who had an idea for this place and by taking

had an idea for this place and by taking

had an idea for this place and by taking democracy into their own hands they were

democracy into their own hands they were

democracy into their own hands they were able to achieve something that was

able to achieve something that was

able to achieve something that was incredible so I believe we need to go

incredible so I believe we need to go

incredible so I believe we need to go beyond voting beyond elected

beyond voting beyond elected

beyond voting beyond elected representatives start looking for in

representatives start looking for in

representatives start looking for in finding democracy in our personal lives

finding democracy in our personal lives

finding democracy in our personal lives in our communities and then we need to

in our communities and then we need to

in our communities and then we need to make it awesome

make it awesome

make it awesome and I’m going to talk about both those

and I’m going to talk about both those

and I’m going to talk about both those things in order to do that the first

things in order to do that the first

things in order to do that the first thing we needed is a different

thing we needed is a different

thing we needed is a different definition of democracy so I’ve thought

definition of democracy so I’ve thought

definition of democracy so I’ve thought long and hard about this and I have a

long and hard about this and I have a

long and hard about this and I have a new very complicated very technical

new very complicated very technical

new very complicated very technical definition already it’s like years of

definition already it’s like years of

definition already it’s like years of study to go into this

study to go into this

study to go into this the thing is when this happens when

the thing is when this happens when

the thing is when this happens when groups of people get together and make

groups of people get together and make

groups of people get together and make decisions as political equals some

decisions as political equals some

decisions as political equals some powerful things happen people learn from

powerful things happen people learn from

powerful things happen people learn from one another they challenge one another

one another they challenge one another

one another they challenge one another they come up with new and different

they come up with new and different

they come up with new and different ideas rather than be stuck with the

ideas rather than be stuck with the

ideas rather than be stuck with the decision between burger and fries quinoa

decision between burger and fries quinoa

decision between burger and fries quinoa salad they decide to hold a potluck or a

salad they decide to hold a potluck or a

salad they decide to hold a potluck or a buffet or go for pizza I’m perfectly

buffet or go for pizza I’m perfectly

buffet or go for pizza I’m perfectly timed before lunch this is good the

timed before lunch this is good the

timed before lunch this is good the challenge though becomes if this is

challenge though becomes if this is

challenge though becomes if this is gonna be democracy wherewhere are we

gonna be democracy wherewhere are we

gonna be democracy wherewhere are we gonna do that there’s over 30 million

gonna do that there’s over 30 million

gonna do that there’s over 30 million people in Canada there’s a lot of people

people in Canada there’s a lot of people

people in Canada there’s a lot of people in the world how are we gonna set this

in the world how are we gonna set this

in the world how are we gonna set this up so the groups of people can get

up so the groups of people can get

up so the groups of people can get together and make decisions about stuff

together and make decisions about stuff

together and make decisions about stuff the exciting thing is this already

the exciting thing is this already

the exciting thing is this already exists on a huge scale nonprofit

exists on a huge scale nonprofit

exists on a huge scale nonprofit community organizations are governed and

community organizations are governed and

community organizations are governed and directed by groups of people making

directed by groups of people making

directed by groups of people making decisions about stuff and for the most

decisions about stuff and for the most

decisions about stuff and for the most part they’re volunteers who simply

part they’re volunteers who simply

part they’re volunteers who simply decided to arrive they’ve just decided

decided to arrive they’ve just decided

decided to arrive they’ve just decided to show up and if you consider across

to show up and if you consider across

to show up and if you consider across Canada there are a hundred eighty

Canada there are a hundred eighty

Canada there are a hundred eighty thousand nonprofits you assume an

thousand nonprofits you assume an

thousand nonprofits you assume an average board size of ten you

average board size of ten you

average board size of ten you potentially have 1.8 million people

potentially have 1.8 million people

potentially have 1.8 million people doing community democracy right now this

doing community democracy right now this

doing community democracy right now this already exists on a huge scale and this

already exists on a huge scale and this

already exists on a huge scale and this is the scope of this sector is

is the scope of this sector is

is the scope of this sector is unbelievable it’s everything from a

unbelievable it’s everything from a

unbelievable it’s everything from a community people planning a community

community people planning a community

community people planning a community garden community center Association that

garden community center Association that

garden community center Association that holds a community carnival in order to

holds a community carnival in order to

holds a community carnival in order to gather feedback about what the new

gather feedback about what the new

gather feedback about what the new playground should look like it’s

playground should look like it’s

playground should look like it’s everything from an arts and cultural

everything from an arts and cultural

everything from an arts and cultural group with no paid staff who puts on a

group with no paid staff who puts on a

group with no paid staff who puts on a festival every year parent advisory

festival every year parent advisory

festival every year parent advisory group prevention provincial and national

group prevention provincial and national

group prevention provincial and national professional associations University

professional associations University

professional associations University clubs student clubs the people who put

clubs student clubs the people who put

clubs student clubs the people who put on this conference here in Vancouver the

on this conference here in Vancouver the

on this conference here in Vancouver the YVR Airport is a non-profit so if you

YVR Airport is a non-profit so if you

YVR Airport is a non-profit so if you think back to the first question I asked

think back to the first question I asked

think back to the first question I asked who make decisions about

who make decisions about

who make decisions about how the rules that govern your community

how the rules that govern your community

how the rules that govern your community how your community gets built and the

how your community gets built and the

how your community gets built and the resources how your the resources in your

resources how your the resources in your

resources how your the resources in your community are used this sector is also

community are used this sector is also

community are used this sector is also scaled in a way that could have an

scaled in a way that could have an

scaled in a way that could have an impact on all of those things and if you

impact on all of those things and if you

impact on all of those things and if you remember that gravel parking lot this is

remember that gravel parking lot this is

remember that gravel parking lot this is a 20,000 square foot gymnastics and

a 20,000 square foot gymnastics and

a 20,000 square foot gymnastics and Sports Center the vision for this the

Sports Center the vision for this the

Sports Center the vision for this the idea for this was put forward by the

idea for this was put forward by the

idea for this was put forward by the community it’s currently operated by a

community it’s currently operated by a

community it’s currently operated by a non profit Society 2,000 kids between

non profit Society 2,000 kids between

non profit Society 2,000 kids between the ages of six months and adults go

the ages of six months and adults go

the ages of six months and adults go through programs in this space the

through programs in this space the

through programs in this space the community went made it happen

community went made it happen

community went made it happen and it had nothing to do with voting it

and it had nothing to do with voting it

and it had nothing to do with voting it had nothing to do with elected

had nothing to do with elected

had nothing to do with elected representatives so hopefully at this

representatives so hopefully at this

representatives so hopefully at this point you’re starting to think of a

point you’re starting to think of a

point you’re starting to think of a place in your life where decision making

place in your life where decision making

place in your life where decision making happens where there’s groups of people

happens where there’s groups of people

happens where there’s groups of people getting together to make decisions about

getting together to make decisions about

getting together to make decisions about something about something happening in

something about something happening in

something about something happening in your community when I said nonprofits

your community when I said nonprofits

your community when I said nonprofits you may also have been thinking of that

you may also have been thinking of that

you may also have been thinking of that last board or committee meeting you

last board or committee meeting you

last board or committee meeting you participated in the dragon until

participated in the dragon until

participated in the dragon until midnight or the ugly politics that can

midnight or the ugly politics that can

midnight or the ugly politics that can sometimes happen in nonprofits so our

sometimes happen in nonprofits so our

sometimes happen in nonprofits so our first challenge and those are absolutely

first challenge and those are absolutely

first challenge and those are absolutely challenges our first task is to find

challenges our first task is to find

challenges our first task is to find democracy in our lives in communities

democracy in our lives in communities

democracy in our lives in communities and the communities where we live and

and the communities where we live and

and the communities where we live and work already our second challenge is to

work already our second challenge is to

work already our second challenge is to make it awesome and here’s how we make

make it awesome and here’s how we make

make it awesome and here’s how we make it awesome the one find people who want

it awesome the one find people who want

it awesome the one find people who want to participate in the decisions that

to participate in the decisions that

to participate in the decisions that you’re the things that you’re making

you’re the things that you’re making

you’re the things that you’re making decisions about there are no rules about

decisions about there are no rules about

decisions about there are no rules about who and how who to include and how to

who and how who to include and how to

who and how who to include and how to include people in the decision-making of

include people in the decision-making of

include people in the decision-making of a non-profit every group of people can

a non-profit every group of people can

a non-profit every group of people can decide who they’re going to include and

decide who they’re going to include and

decide who they’re going to include and how they’re going to do it

how they’re going to do it

how they’re going to do it hold a community carnival hold a block

hold a community carnival hold a block

hold a community carnival hold a block party set up a booth at the farmers

party set up a booth at the farmers

party set up a booth at the farmers festival go out and find people and make

festival go out and find people and make

festival go out and find people and make it easy for them to participate this

it easy for them to participate this

it easy for them to participate this again is a place where we need to go

again is a place where we need to go

again is a place where we need to go beyond we need to do way better than the

beyond we need to do way better than the

beyond we need to do way better than the Athenians who simply invited male

Athenians who simply invited male

Athenians who simply invited male citizens to come we need to go and find

citizens to come we need to go and find

citizens to come we need to go and find people and make it easy for them to

people and make it easy for them to

people and make it easy for them to participate and nonprofits you’ve got no

participate and nonprofits you’ve got no

participate and nonprofits you’ve got no rules you can do that however you want

rules you can do that however you want

rules you can do that however you want and you can make it fun and exciting get

and you can make it fun and exciting get

and you can make it fun and exciting get outside of the boardroom once you are

outside of the boardroom once you are

outside of the boardroom once you are together co-create the agenda and as

together co-create the agenda and as

together co-create the agenda and as I’ve outlined here this is a really big

I’ve outlined here this is a really big

I’ve outlined here this is a really big deal to me when we think of democratic

deal to me when we think of democratic

deal to me when we think of democratic decision-making we focus on the final

decision-making we focus on the final

decision-making we focus on the final decision we tend not to think about who

decision we tend not to think about who

decision we tend not to think about who created the agenda in the first place

created the agenda in the first place

created the agenda in the first place it’s why we’re so frustrated with

it’s why we’re so frustrated with

it’s why we’re so frustrated with referendums and pleb asides because we

referendums and pleb asides because we

referendums and pleb asides because we didn’t pose the question we didn’t set

didn’t pose the question we didn’t set

didn’t pose the question we didn’t set the agenda it’s why government ministry

the agenda it’s why government ministry

the agenda it’s why government ministry in deciding to put a highway through a

in deciding to put a highway through a

in deciding to put a highway through a community can say yeah we did a

community can say yeah we did a

community can say yeah we did a completely democratic exercise we asked

completely democratic exercise we asked

completely democratic exercise we asked residents to choose the color of the

residents to choose the color of the

residents to choose the color of the retaining wall complete democracy in

retaining wall complete democracy in

retaining wall complete democracy in some sense that’s true but in another

some sense that’s true but in another

some sense that’s true but in another sense it’s not no one wanted to talk

sense it’s not no one wanted to talk

sense it’s not no one wanted to talk about the retaining wall they’d wanted

about the retaining wall they’d wanted

about the retaining wall they’d wanted to talk about the highway but they

to talk about the highway but they

to talk about the highway but they didn’t control the agenda and that

didn’t control the agenda and that

didn’t control the agenda and that exercise previously I gave you no choice

exercise previously I gave you no choice

exercise previously I gave you no choice of what the menu options were not only

of what the menu options were not only

of what the menu options were not only that I didn’t even tell you what was on

that I didn’t even tell you what was on

that I didn’t even tell you what was on the agenda before I forced you to vote

the agenda before I forced you to vote

the agenda before I forced you to vote think about the agenda who created it

think about the agenda who created it

think about the agenda who created it and who’s participating and the form

and who’s participating and the form

and who’s participating and the form this takes is in that question that

this takes is in that question that

this takes is in that question that appears on every single committee and

appears on every single committee and

appears on every single committee and board meeting agenda in the world do you

board meeting agenda in the world do you

board meeting agenda in the world do you have anything to add to the agenda does

have anything to add to the agenda does

have anything to add to the agenda does everyone approve the agenda we put that

everyone approve the agenda we put that

everyone approve the agenda we put that on every meeting agenda but we skip over

on every meeting agenda but we skip over

on every meeting agenda but we skip over it we don’t think about it stop there

it we don’t think about it stop there

it we don’t think about it stop there pause what decide what to decide what do

pause what decide what to decide what do

pause what decide what to decide what do we need to be talking about in fact your

we need to be talking about in fact your

we need to be talking about in fact your next meeting throw your agenda in the

next meeting throw your agenda in the

next meeting throw your agenda in the garbage grab a blank piece of paper hand

garbage grab a blank piece of paper hand

garbage grab a blank piece of paper hand it around say everybody okay write down

it around say everybody okay write down

it around say everybody okay write down what is the most important thing for us

what is the most important thing for us

what is the most important thing for us to talk about right now that becomes

to talk about right now that becomes

to talk about right now that becomes your agenda that meeting will be the

your agenda that meeting will be the

your agenda that meeting will be the most powerful engaging meeting you’ve

most powerful engaging meeting you’ve

most powerful engaging meeting you’ve ever had as a group tell stories learn

ever had as a group tell stories learn

ever had as a group tell stories learn and reflect from one another

and reflect from one another

and reflect from one another hear the perspectives and the challenges

hear the perspectives and the challenges

hear the perspectives and the challenges of the individuals participating in the

of the individuals participating in the

of the individuals participating in the group where you’re working together have

group where you’re working together have

group where you’re working together have entire meetings where you don’t decide

entire meetings where you don’t decide

entire meetings where you don’t decide anything where you’re just there to

anything where you’re just there to

anything where you’re just there to listen we heard earlier about listening

listen we heard earlier about listening

listen we heard earlier about listening with curiosity and patience make time to

with curiosity and patience make time to

with curiosity and patience make time to do that

this may come as no surprise for me try

this may come as no surprise for me try to avoid voting gauge support instead

to avoid voting gauge support instead

to avoid voting gauge support instead community democracy makes it possible to

community democracy makes it possible to

community democracy makes it possible to gauge support and move forward on a

gauge support and move forward on a

gauge support and move forward on a consensus basis instead if you’re a

consensus basis instead if you’re a

consensus basis instead if you’re a group of ten and you’ve got two people

group of ten and you’ve got two people

group of ten and you’ve got two people who are really opposed to a decision

who are really opposed to a decision

who are really opposed to a decision moving forward maybe stop and pause is

moving forward maybe stop and pause is

moving forward maybe stop and pause is there more information you need do you

there more information you need do you

there more information you need do you need to go back to the agenda creation

need to go back to the agenda creation

need to go back to the agenda creation stage and see if there’s an agenda item

stage and see if there’s an agenda item

stage and see if there’s an agenda item that was missed use a scale from one to

that was missed use a scale from one to

that was missed use a scale from one to ten ten complete support one is

ten ten complete support one is

ten ten complete support one is completely opposed if

completely opposed if

completely opposed if a couple people in the group are at a

a couple people in the group are at a

a couple people in the group are at a four or five maybe that’s sufficient

four or five maybe that’s sufficient

four or five maybe that’s sufficient consent to proceed if one person in your

consent to proceed if one person in your

consent to proceed if one person in your group is that a one maybe you need to

group is that a one maybe you need to

group is that a one maybe you need to stop and go back to listening find

stop and go back to listening find

stop and go back to listening find someone in your group your organization

someone in your group your organization

someone in your group your organization to hold accountable so partner up with

to hold accountable so partner up with

to hold accountable so partner up with someone who you’re gonna support and

someone who you’re gonna support and

someone who you’re gonna support and you’re gonna hold accountable to moving

you’re gonna hold accountable to moving

you’re gonna hold accountable to moving forward with the decisions that they

forward with the decisions that they

forward with the decisions that they made putting forward the ideas that the

made putting forward the ideas that the

made putting forward the ideas that the group came up with community democracy

group came up with community democracy

group came up with community democracy makes this possible when was the last

makes this possible when was the last

makes this possible when was the last time you felt accountable and

time you felt accountable and

time you felt accountable and responsible for a decision you made at

responsible for a decision you made at

responsible for a decision you made at the ballot box in community democracy

the ballot box in community democracy

the ballot box in community democracy we’re typically expected to follow

we’re typically expected to follow

we’re typically expected to follow through with the things we say we’re

through with the things we say we’re

through with the things we say we’re going to do so find a partner and

going to do so find a partner and

going to do so find a partner and support them in doing that lastly as a

support them in doing that lastly as a

support them in doing that lastly as a group talk about your process talk about

group talk about your process talk about

group talk about your process talk about what’s working well in your

what’s working well in your

what’s working well in your decision-making talk about what’s not

decision-making talk about what’s not

decision-making talk about what’s not working and make changes be willing to

working and make changes be willing to

working and make changes be willing to make changes with how you work together

make changes with how you work together

make changes with how you work together how you make decisions together so my

how you make decisions together so my

how you make decisions together so my challenge to you think about go and find

challenge to you think about go and find

challenge to you think about go and find someplace in your community where groups

someplace in your community where groups

someplace in your community where groups of people are making decisions about

of people are making decisions about

of people are making decisions about stuff and your next meeting your next

stuff and your next meeting your next

stuff and your next meeting your next get-together try one of these things

get-together try one of these things

get-together try one of these things just imagine if our decisions at the

just imagine if our decisions at the

just imagine if our decisions at the ballot box were informed not by things

ballot box were informed not by things

ballot box were informed not by things we heard in the media but by the things

we heard in the media but by the things

we heard in the media but by the things we learned together in groups of

we learned together in groups of

we learned together in groups of communities with fellow citizens

communities with fellow citizens

communities with fellow citizens learning from one another challenging

learning from one another challenging

learning from one another challenging one another listening to one another

one another listening to one another

one another listening to one another imagine in politicians define democracy

imagine in politicians define democracy

imagine in politicians define democracy not as putting their name on a ballot

not as putting their name on a ballot

not as putting their name on a ballot but showing up in communities and

but showing up in communities and

but showing up in communities and empowering citizens with the power to

empowering citizens with the power to

empowering citizens with the power to create their agendas imagine if you got

create their agendas imagine if you got

create their agendas imagine if you got to create their agenda if we don’t do

to create their agenda if we don’t do

to create their agenda if we don’t do this if we don’t start defining

this if we don’t start defining

this if we don’t start defining democracy in these ways and going beyond

democracy in these ways and going beyond

democracy in these ways and going beyond voting and beyond elected

voting and beyond elected

voting and beyond elected representatives the things that get

representatives the things that get

representatives the things that get talked about the things that get put

talked about the things that get put

talked about the things that get put forward in the public realm will be

forward in the public realm will be

forward in the public realm will be completely dictated and controlled by

completely dictated and controlled by

completely dictated and controlled by those are the most power resources and

those are the most power resources and

those are the most power resources and wealth to spit out gross generalizations

wealth to spit out gross generalizations

wealth to spit out gross generalizations false truths sound bites and a politics

false truths sound bites and a politics

false truths sound bites and a politics of fear and division does that sound

of fear and division does that sound

of fear and division does that sound familiar

so to go back to the question I posed at

so to go back to the question I posed at the start when you imagine a democratic

the start when you imagine a democratic

the start when you imagine a democratic community what do you picture this is

community what do you picture this is

community what do you picture this is what it looks like go and find it and

what it looks like go and find it and

what it looks like go and find it and start making it awesome thank you

start making it awesome thank you

start making it awesome thank you [Applause]

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