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Facades; Succumb or Overcome? | Hannah Bondalo | TEDxYouth@UCVTS


what does a mirror show you when you

what does a mirror show you when you look into it does it display a genuinely

look into it does it display a genuinely

look into it does it display a genuinely nice person who follows the rules and

nice person who follows the rules and

nice person who follows the rules and regulations of society does it reflect

regulations of society does it reflect

regulations of society does it reflect upon the disappearing innocence as you

upon the disappearing innocence as you

upon the disappearing innocence as you lie to your parents and friends does it

lie to your parents and friends does it

lie to your parents and friends does it show a smile crying for help because of

show a smile crying for help because of

show a smile crying for help because of a deeper sadness in your life or maybe

a deeper sadness in your life or maybe

a deeper sadness in your life or maybe you’re just thinking about how you look

you’re just thinking about how you look

you’re just thinking about how you look like a whole snack during my early

like a whole snack during my early

like a whole snack during my early American literature class sophomore year

American literature class sophomore year

American literature class sophomore year my substitute teacher often did a type

my substitute teacher often did a type

my substitute teacher often did a type of poetry of the day activity in order

of poetry of the day activity in order

of poetry of the day activity in order to further analyze a poem structure or

to further analyze a poem structure or

to further analyze a poem structure or meaning one day our class was given a

meaning one day our class was given a

meaning one day our class was given a title we were the masks by Paul Laurence

title we were the masks by Paul Laurence

title we were the masks by Paul Laurence Dunbar now the poem displays how we you

Dunbar now the poem displays how we you

Dunbar now the poem displays how we you to use false personas whether the

to use false personas whether the

to use false personas whether the intention is to lie or perhaps for other

intention is to lie or perhaps for other

intention is to lie or perhaps for other personal issues the poem begins with we

personal issues the poem begins with we

personal issues the poem begins with we were the mask that grins and lies it

were the mask that grins and lies it

were the mask that grins and lies it hides our cheeks and shades our eyes

hides our cheeks and shades our eyes

hides our cheeks and shades our eyes raise your hand if you have ever lied

raise your hand if you have ever lied

raise your hand if you have ever lied before if you’re not raising your hand

before if you’re not raising your hand

before if you’re not raising your hand you’re probably lying to yourself right

you’re probably lying to yourself right

you’re probably lying to yourself right now does this not perfectly show how we

now does this not perfectly show how we

now does this not perfectly show how we typically present ourselves in front of

typically present ourselves in front of

typically present ourselves in front of others on a day to day basis

others on a day to day basis

others on a day to day basis constantly we lie and it becomes so

constantly we lie and it becomes so

constantly we lie and it becomes so prominent that we forget who we are now

prominent that we forget who we are now

prominent that we forget who we are now when I first read the poem I couldn’t

when I first read the poem I couldn’t

when I first read the poem I couldn’t help but think about the mask

help but think about the mask

help but think about the mask featuring Jim Carrey for those who

featuring Jim Carrey for those who

featuring Jim Carrey for those who haven’t seen it it’s about this regular

haven’t seen it it’s about this regular

haven’t seen it it’s about this regular banker who discovers his magical green

banker who discovers his magical green

banker who discovers his magical green mask and it turns into this vivid

mask and it turns into this vivid

mask and it turns into this vivid spontaneous being now trouble starts to

spontaneous being now trouble starts to

spontaneous being now trouble starts to stir once you I was a bank and even more

stir once you I was a bank and even more

stir once you I was a bank and even more trouble as cause because the creator’s

trouble as cause because the creator’s

trouble as cause because the creator’s decided to make a sequel but the

decided to make a sequel but the

decided to make a sequel but the philosophy of how and why we were our

philosophy of how and why we were our

philosophy of how and why we were our own masks fascinated me I laid in bed

own masks fascinated me I laid in bed

own masks fascinated me I laid in bed later that night thinking about how many

later that night thinking about how many

later that night thinking about how many times the people around me have lied to

times the people around me have lied to

times the people around me have lied to me people I thought were caring in kind

me people I thought were caring in kind

me people I thought were caring in kind turned out to be the same people who

turned out to be the same people who

turned out to be the same people who backs out one another and gossip behind

backs out one another and gossip behind

backs out one another and gossip behind each other’s backs it was like watching

each other’s backs it was like watching

each other’s backs it was like watching a rerun of Mean Girls as high schoolers

a rerun of Mean Girls as high schoolers

a rerun of Mean Girls as high schoolers were tearing each other apart

were tearing each other apart

were tearing each other apart it was quite the spectacle to see

it was quite the spectacle to see

it was quite the spectacle to see friendships and Trust ruined in just one

friendships and Trust ruined in just one

friendships and Trust ruined in just one school day and this even applies to

school day and this even applies to

school day and this even applies to adults as well

adults as well

adults as well celebrities and role models that we look

celebrities and role models that we look

celebrities and role models that we look up to in this modern society get caught

up to in this modern society get caught

up to in this modern society get caught up in all of the deception gossip and

up in all of the deception gossip and

up in all of the deception gossip and lies

lies

lies do you guys know people magazines or Us

do you guys know people magazines or Us

do you guys know people magazines or Us Weekly magazines

Weekly magazines

Weekly magazines fun fact that covers a viewers weekly

fun fact that covers a viewers weekly

fun fact that covers a viewers weekly are about 35% accurate and this even

are about 35% accurate and this even

are about 35% accurate and this even applies to family as well

applies to family as well

applies to family as well the amount of times I’ve heard a family

the amount of times I’ve heard a family

the amount of times I’ve heard a family member say something like Nancy hi how

member say something like Nancy hi how

member say something like Nancy hi how are you how are the kids I love what

are you how are the kids I love what

are you how are the kids I love what you’ve done with your hair and then

you’ve done with your hair and then

you’ve done with your hair and then later saying oh my god I hate her so

later saying oh my god I hate her so

later saying oh my god I hate her so much

much

much I cannot stand her reality or so proper

I cannot stand her reality or so proper

I cannot stand her reality or so proper Oh wash the world be over wise and

Oh wash the world be over wise and

Oh wash the world be over wise and counting all our tears in sighs nay let

counting all our tears in sighs nay let

counting all our tears in sighs nay let them only see us while we were the masks

them only see us while we were the masks

them only see us while we were the masks sometimes we were masks to hide our

sometimes we were masks to hide our

sometimes we were masks to hide our emotional feelings growing up we

emotional feelings growing up we

emotional feelings growing up we question everything from religion to

question everything from religion to

question everything from religion to education to relationships what do I

education to relationships what do I

education to relationships what do I want to do with my life why am I still

want to do with my life why am I still

want to do with my life why am I still friends with this person oh my god does

friends with this person oh my god does

friends with this person oh my god does that boy even like me what’s the meaning

that boy even like me what’s the meaning

that boy even like me what’s the meaning of life it reminds me of this video that

of life it reminds me of this video that

of life it reminds me of this video that I saw online it starts with this ceramic

I saw online it starts with this ceramic

I saw online it starts with this ceramic boy who wakes up all sad and depressed

boy who wakes up all sad and depressed

boy who wakes up all sad and depressed he goes to his bathroom mirror and looks

he goes to his bathroom mirror and looks

he goes to his bathroom mirror and looks at himself he takes out a mask that

at himself he takes out a mask that

at himself he takes out a mask that looks exactly like him but with a happy

looks exactly like him but with a happy

looks exactly like him but with a happy smile then he continues on with a

smile then he continues on with a

smile then he continues on with a regular school day this includes getting

regular school day this includes getting

regular school day this includes getting bullied in class not talking because

bullied in class not talking because

bullied in class not talking because he’s too shy and reserved having no

he’s too shy and reserved having no

he’s too shy and reserved having no friends to sit with at lunch and then he

friends to sit with at lunch and then he

friends to sit with at lunch and then he goes home and he’s welcomed by the abuse

goes home and he’s welcomed by the abuse

goes home and he’s welcomed by the abuse of his father and the constant screaming

of his father and the constant screaming

of his father and the constant screaming and yelling of his parents later that

and yelling of his parents later that

and yelling of his parents later that night he goes back into this bathroom

night he goes back into this bathroom

night he goes back into this bathroom mirror again and he looks at himself he

mirror again and he looks at himself he

mirror again and he looks at himself he takes off the mask and what is left is

takes off the mask and what is left is

takes off the mask and what is left is cracks and missing pieces completely

cracks and missing pieces completely

cracks and missing pieces completely broken with all these roaming and

broken with all these roaming and

broken with all these roaming and unanswerable questions that we have in

unanswerable questions that we have in

unanswerable questions that we have in our lives sometimes we do need a mask

our lives sometimes we do need a mask

our lives sometimes we do need a mask because we can’t relay these feelings in

because we can’t relay these feelings in

because we can’t relay these feelings in front of other people the problem is

front of other people the problem is

front of other people the problem is when we take so much time that we lose

when we take so much time that we lose

when we take so much time that we lose ourselves and we forget the types of

ourselves and we forget the types of

ourselves and we forget the types of people that we want to become we smile

people that we want to become we smile

people that we want to become we smile but oh great Chrysler cries to the our

but oh great Chrysler cries to the our

but oh great Chrysler cries to the our tortured souls our eyes but besides

tortured souls our eyes but besides

tortured souls our eyes but besides using masks to cover our self-doubts we

using masks to cover our self-doubts we

using masks to cover our self-doubts we wear multiple masks in general if a

wear multiple masks in general if a

wear multiple masks in general if a friend gives you a terrible birthday

friend gives you a terrible birthday

friend gives you a terrible birthday present you’re not going to say that you

present you’re not going to say that you

present you’re not going to say that you hate

hate

hate get right in front of them you take it

get right in front of them you take it

get right in front of them you take it politely and say thank you and perhaps

politely and say thank you and perhaps

politely and say thank you and perhaps throw it out later on but the point is

throw it out later on but the point is

throw it out later on but the point is that you’re doing it for the sake of

that you’re doing it for the sake of

that you’re doing it for the sake of your friends feelings likewise you

your friends feelings likewise you

your friends feelings likewise you aren’t going to teach someone how to

aren’t going to teach someone how to

aren’t going to teach someone how to shoot a basketball during Cal class or

shoot a basketball during Cal class or

shoot a basketball during Cal class or crack jokes during a funeral service

crack jokes during a funeral service

crack jokes during a funeral service there are times and places to be

there are times and places to be

there are times and places to be informal and formal including how you

informal and formal including how you

informal and formal including how you talk and present yourself and depending

talk and present yourself and depending

talk and present yourself and depending on how you care about behaviors social

on how you care about behaviors social

on how you care about behaviors social norms and manners wearing different

norms and manners wearing different

norms and manners wearing different types of masks displays how many

types of masks displays how many

types of masks displays how many different kinds of personalities you can

different kinds of personalities you can

different kinds of personalities you can create and these masks aren’t completely

create and these masks aren’t completely

create and these masks aren’t completely immoral as you said sometimes they take

immoral as you said sometimes they take

immoral as you said sometimes they take over our initial values and we forget

over our initial values and we forget

over our initial values and we forget who we are well then it’s easy to ask

who we are well then it’s easy to ask

who we are well then it’s easy to ask then why can’t we just be our genuine

then why can’t we just be our genuine

then why can’t we just be our genuine selves we are only capable of being our

selves we are only capable of being our

selves we are only capable of being our true selves if we are kept kept in a

true selves if we are kept kept in a

true selves if we are kept kept in a place of pure isolation a place where no

place of pure isolation a place where no

place of pure isolation a place where no person or thing can shape or influence

person or thing can shape or influence

person or thing can shape or influence you but constantly we are surrounded by

you but constantly we are surrounded by

you but constantly we are surrounded by all these influences whether it be with

all these influences whether it be with

all these influences whether it be with parents friends family education

parents friends family education

parents friends family education religion environment it’s quite

religion environment it’s quite

religion environment it’s quite impossible to say that we can escape the

impossible to say that we can escape the

impossible to say that we can escape the world and say that our true self is

world and say that our true self is

world and say that our true self is based upon pure personal choices your

based upon pure personal choices your

based upon pure personal choices your true self is based upon the values and

true self is based upon the values and

true self is based upon the values and morals of the people that you meet and

morals of the people that you meet and

morals of the people that you meet and deciding how you wanted to react to

deciding how you wanted to react to

deciding how you wanted to react to certain situations comes from what you

certain situations comes from what you

certain situations comes from what you learned which is kept in your

learned which is kept in your

learned which is kept in your unconscious mind Sigmund Freud famous

unconscious mind Sigmund Freud famous

unconscious mind Sigmund Freud famous philosopher he believed that the human

philosopher he believed that the human

philosopher he believed that the human mind contained in unconscious and

mind contained in unconscious and

mind contained in unconscious and conscious part the conscious mind

conscious part the conscious mind

conscious part the conscious mind contains thoughts feelings and ideas

contains thoughts feelings and ideas

contains thoughts feelings and ideas that are easily accessible because of

that are easily accessible because of

that are easily accessible because of our awareness of the world while the

our awareness of the world while the

our awareness of the world while the unconscious mind contains the

unconscious mind contains the

unconscious mind contains the inaccessible knowledge that drives the

inaccessible knowledge that drives the

inaccessible knowledge that drives the behavior of our personality such as the

behavior of our personality such as the

behavior of our personality such as the morals that a parent or guardian teaches

morals that a parent or guardian teaches

morals that a parent or guardian teaches you when you’re younger so the direct

you when you’re younger so the direct

you when you’re younger so the direct answer is that none of us have a true

answer is that none of us have a true

answer is that none of us have a true self our entities are a living facade

self our entities are a living facade

self our entities are a living facade from the day we are born each of us are

from the day we are born each of us are

from the day we are born each of us are impressionable and like said we have the

impressionable and like said we have the

impressionable and like said we have the sphere of influence that molds and

sphere of influence that molds and

sphere of influence that molds and shapes our personality and with this

shapes our personality and with this

shapes our personality and with this we can see that the Contin conscious

we can see that the Contin conscious

we can see that the Contin conscious mind is the thing that drives our

mind is the thing that drives our

mind is the thing that drives our personality and behavior we don’t recall

personality and behavior we don’t recall

personality and behavior we don’t recall the instances of when our parents first

the instances of when our parents first

the instances of when our parents first speaks to us or teaches us how to eat or

speaks to us or teaches us how to eat or

speaks to us or teaches us how to eat or speak because they’re kept in the

speak because they’re kept in the

speak because they’re kept in the unconscious mind they’re placed into a

unconscious mind they’re placed into a

unconscious mind they’re placed into a part of our brain that becomes the basis

part of our brain that becomes the basis

part of our brain that becomes the basis of how we make decisions or react this

of how we make decisions or react this

of how we make decisions or react this is why lying adapting and conforming are

is why lying adapting and conforming are

is why lying adapting and conforming are all fundamental principles that travel

all fundamental principles that travel

all fundamental principles that travel from the conscious part of our mind to

from the conscious part of our mind to

from the conscious part of our mind to the unconscious each one of this in this

the unconscious each one of this in this

the unconscious each one of this in this room is living in an inception of

room is living in an inception of

room is living in an inception of facades all these influences in our

facades all these influences in our

facades all these influences in our lives

lives

lives build up to be what is called our true

build up to be what is called our true

build up to be what is called our true self and part of our human nature every

self and part of our human nature every

self and part of our human nature every day we continue to mold and shape our

day we continue to mold and shape our

day we continue to mold and shape our personality and our own entities to our

personality and our own entities to our

personality and our own entities to our ideal likings Paul Laurence Dunbar spomb

ideal likings Paul Laurence Dunbar spomb

ideal likings Paul Laurence Dunbar spomb ends with we wear the mask and we do

ends with we wear the mask and we do

ends with we wear the mask and we do wear the mask because it shapes us

wear the mask because it shapes us

wear the mask because it shapes us it creates our entities and it will

it creates our entities and it will

it creates our entities and it will leave an influence on the world to

leave an influence on the world to

leave an influence on the world to become wearing a mask can be ugly if you

become wearing a mask can be ugly if you

become wearing a mask can be ugly if you have the mindset that it’s only evil

have the mindset that it’s only evil

have the mindset that it’s only evil that it can suppress you from living a

that it can suppress you from living a

that it can suppress you from living a lifestyle you want but good moral values

lifestyle you want but good moral values

lifestyle you want but good moral values being passionate about different types

being passionate about different types

being passionate about different types of subjects that can lead you to living

of subjects that can lead you to living

of subjects that can lead you to living a better life

a better life

a better life accept that each of us live in the

accept that each of us live in the

accept that each of us live in the facades of ourselves because we indeed

facades of ourselves because we indeed

facades of ourselves because we indeed wear the mask so what will you make of

wear the mask so what will you make of

wear the mask so what will you make of your mask what will you see in your

your mask what will you see in your

your mask what will you see in your reflection thank you

reflection thank you

reflection thank you [Applause]

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