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panabaker

panabaker is dead and I watched it happen in fact

is dead and I watched it happen in fact

is dead and I watched it happen in fact millions of teenage teenagers watched it

millions of teenage teenagers watched it

millions of teenage teenagers watched it happen

happen

happen panabaker is a lead character in the

panabaker is a lead character in the

panabaker is a lead character in the newly trending TV show thirteen reasons

newly trending TV show thirteen reasons

newly trending TV show thirteen reasons why she’s a 16 year old girl a girl my

why she’s a 16 year old girl a girl my

why she’s a 16 year old girl a girl my age who dies by suicide before her death

age who dies by suicide before her death

age who dies by suicide before her death she records a series of 13 cassette

she records a series of 13 cassette

she records a series of 13 cassette tapes each are jesting a person she felt

tapes each are jesting a person she felt

tapes each are jesting a person she felt was instrumental to leading her to the

was instrumental to leading her to the

was instrumental to leading her to the point where she had no choice but to

point where she had no choice but to

point where she had no choice but to take her own life

take her own life

take her own life panabaker is fictional but there’s a

panabaker is fictional but there’s a

panabaker is fictional but there’s a reality behind our screens hannah

reality behind our screens hannah

reality behind our screens hannah baker’s fictional but she could have

baker’s fictional but she could have

baker’s fictional but she could have been one of our friends one of our

been one of our friends one of our

been one of our friends one of our sisters or one of our classmates

sisters or one of our classmates

sisters or one of our classmates panabaker is fictional but we can all

panabaker is fictional but we can all

panabaker is fictional but we can all relate to her barrel of emotions I know

relate to her barrel of emotions I know

relate to her barrel of emotions I know I have I know my friends have being a

I have I know my friends have being a

I have I know my friends have being a teenager isn’t always easy

teenager isn’t always easy

teenager isn’t always easy according to the Journal of the American

according to the Journal of the American

according to the Journal of the American Medical Association

Medical Association

Medical Association suicide is now the second leading cause

suicide is now the second leading cause

suicide is now the second leading cause of death and young adolescence

of death and young adolescence

of death and young adolescence these are ages 15 to 24 it now accounts

these are ages 15 to 24 it now accounts

these are ages 15 to 24 it now accounts for one and six deaths if suicide has

for one and six deaths if suicide has

for one and six deaths if suicide has become so prevalent among society today

become so prevalent among society today

become so prevalent among society today it is essential that we talk about it

it is essential that we talk about it

it is essential that we talk about it and we have started initiating

and we have started initiating

and we have started initiating conversations only two decades ago was

conversations only two decades ago was

conversations only two decades ago was this topic a complete taboo yet these

this topic a complete taboo yet these

this topic a complete taboo yet these walls have slowly and surely started to

walls have slowly and surely started to

walls have slowly and surely started to lift the media schools friends were all

lift the media schools friends were all

lift the media schools friends were all starting to initiate conversations we’re

starting to initiate conversations we’re

starting to initiate conversations we’re just doing it in the wrong way

just doing it in the wrong way

just doing it in the wrong way let me explain myself there’s this top

let me explain myself there’s this top

let me explain myself there’s this top there’s this concept called contagion

there’s this concept called contagion

there’s this concept called contagion and although it’s often applied to the

and although it’s often applied to the

and although it’s often applied to the spread of disease it can be also be used

spread of disease it can be also be used

spread of disease it can be also be used in the context of suicide according to

in the context of suicide according to

in the context of suicide according to Patrick O’Carroll who works with the CDC

Patrick O’Carroll who works with the CDC

Patrick O’Carroll who works with the CDC when contagion is used in the context of

when contagion is used in the context of

when contagion is used in the context of suicide it is defined as on a suicide or

suicide it is defined as on a suicide or

suicide it is defined as on a suicide or suicide behavior of one or more persons

suicide behavior of one or more persons

suicide behavior of one or more persons influences another to commit or attempt

influences another to commit or attempt

influences another to commit or attempt as well this is most prevalent among

as well this is most prevalent among

as well this is most prevalent among teenagers and is often caused by the way

teenagers and is often caused by the way

teenagers and is often caused by the way that the media depicts a suicide so yes

that the media depicts a suicide so yes

that the media depicts a suicide so yes the media has initiated conversations

the media has initiated conversations

the media has initiated conversations it’s just doing it in the wrong way

it’s just doing it in the wrong way

it’s just doing it in the wrong way there are three key triggers of

there are three key triggers of

there are three key triggers of contagion one representing suicide as a

contagion one representing suicide as a

contagion one representing suicide as a way to meet a certain end to

way to meet a certain end to

way to meet a certain end to oversimplifying suicide and three

oversimplifying suicide and three

oversimplifying suicide and three representing suicide as a way

representing suicide as a way

representing suicide as a way representing suicide in a graphic wave

representing suicide in a graphic wave

representing suicide in a graphic wave whether it be through language or

whether it be through language or

whether it be through language or imagery and it saddens me to say that 13

imagery and it saddens me to say that 13

imagery and it saddens me to say that 13 reasons why contains all of these three

reasons why contains all of these three

reasons why contains all of these three key triggers firstly it represents

key triggers firstly it represents

key triggers firstly it represents suicide as a way to meet a certain end

suicide as a way to meet a certain end

suicide as a way to meet a certain end there’s a false notion within thirteen

there’s a false notion within thirteen

there’s a false notion within thirteen reasons why that suicide is a way to

reasons why that suicide is a way to

reasons why that suicide is a way to teach others a lesson and that the

teach others a lesson and that the

teach others a lesson and that the deceased person will finally truly be

deceased person will finally truly be

deceased person will finally truly be understood Hanna Baker starts each of

understood Hanna Baker starts each of

understood Hanna Baker starts each of her tapes off with this tape is for

her tapes off with this tape is for

her tapes off with this tape is for targeting a character she felt led her

targeting a character she felt led her

targeting a character she felt led her to her final decision whether it be

to her final decision whether it be

to her final decision whether it be breaking her heart breaking her soul or

breaking her heart breaking her soul or

breaking her heart breaking her soul or breaking her spirit she wants that

breaking her spirit she wants that

breaking her spirit she wants that character to know that they should feel

character to know that they should feel

character to know that they should feel guilty a suicide should not be portrayed

guilty a suicide should not be portrayed

guilty a suicide should not be portrayed in this way however we see guilt

in this way however we see guilt

in this way however we see guilt embedded in every single individual

embedded in every single individual

embedded in every single individual character who listens to their tape

character who listens to their tape

character who listens to their tape showing us as an audience that she has

showing us as an audience that she has

showing us as an audience that she has succeeded with her overall goal

succeeded with her overall goal

succeeded with her overall goal secondly it oversimplifies suicide

secondly it oversimplifies suicide

secondly it oversimplifies suicide there aren’t 13 reasons why someone

there aren’t 13 reasons why someone

there aren’t 13 reasons why someone chooses to take their own life there’s

chooses to take their own life there’s

chooses to take their own life there’s nothing remotely simple as 13 reasons

nothing remotely simple as 13 reasons

nothing remotely simple as 13 reasons about the situation at hand according to

about the situation at hand according to

about the situation at hand according to the Samaritans organization which is a

the Samaritans organization which is a

the Samaritans organization which is a registered charity aiming to provide aid

registered charity aiming to provide aid

registered charity aiming to provide aid to those in distress or those at risk of

to those in distress or those at risk of

to those in distress or those at risk of suicide 90% of people at the time of

suicide 90% of people at the time of

suicide 90% of people at the time of death have a diagnosed or undiagnosed

death have a diagnosed or undiagnosed

death have a diagnosed or undiagnosed mental illness however not once

mental illness however not once

mental illness however not once throughout the entire 13 episodes is

throughout the entire 13 episodes is

throughout the entire 13 episodes is mental illness or depression touched on

mental illness or depression touched on

mental illness or depression touched on oversimplifying the entire situation

oversimplifying the entire situation

oversimplifying the entire situation oversimplifying the perceived triggers

oversimplifying the perceived triggers

oversimplifying the perceived triggers or causes of a suicide is misleading and

or causes of a suicide is misleading and

or causes of a suicide is misleading and does not accurately represent the

does not accurately represent the

does not accurately represent the complexity of the situation thirdly the

complexity of the situation thirdly the

complexity of the situation thirdly the suicide scene is quite graphic I had to

suicide scene is quite graphic I had to

suicide scene is quite graphic I had to avert my eyes I even shut my screen and

avert my eyes I even shut my screen and

avert my eyes I even shut my screen and I know the same goes for many of you

I know the same goes for many of you

I know the same goes for many of you Brian Yorkie the showrunner of the TV

Brian Yorkie the showrunner of the TV

Brian Yorkie the showrunner of the TV show said we wanted this scene to be

show said we wanted this scene to be

show said we wanted this scene to be painful to watch because we wanted it to

painful to watch because we wanted it to

painful to watch because we wanted it to be clear that there’s nothing in any way

be clear that there’s nothing in any way

be clear that there’s nothing in any way worthwhile about suicide he believes

worthwhile about suicide he believes

worthwhile about suicide he believes that the scene would be a de tearin’ yet

that the scene would be a de tearin’ yet

that the scene would be a de tearin’ yet trust me when I say the effect is quite

trust me when I say the effect is quite

trust me when I say the effect is quite the opposite

the opposite

the opposite research indicates that graphic scenes

research indicates that graphic scenes

research indicates that graphic scenes of a suicide increases distress as well

of a suicide increases distress as well

of a suicide increases distress as well as it can increase the risk of imitation

as it can increase the risk of imitation

as it can increase the risk of imitation by vulnerable teenagers who have

by vulnerable teenagers who have

by vulnerable teenagers who have attempted before if this scene could be

attempted before if this scene could be

attempted before if this scene could be detrimental to a vulnerable teenager it

detrimental to a vulnerable teenager it

detrimental to a vulnerable teenager it is far from ethical Netflix has a

is far from ethical Netflix has a

is far from ethical Netflix has a massive platform with over 94 million

massive platform with over 94 million

massive platform with over 94 million paid subscribers thus it is essential

paid subscribers thus it is essential

paid subscribers thus it is essential that they portray positive messages yet

that they portray positive messages yet

that they portray positive messages yet here we are

here we are

here we are with a TV show containing three key

with a TV show containing three key

with a TV show containing three key triggers of contagion why are we letting

triggers of contagion why are we letting

triggers of contagion why are we letting the media talk about suicide in this way

the media talk about suicide in this way

the media talk about suicide in this way it is essential that we talk about

it is essential that we talk about

it is essential that we talk about suicide because silence isn’t going to

suicide because silence isn’t going to

suicide because silence isn’t going to help anyone but the media has a

help anyone but the media has a

help anyone but the media has a responsibility to understand that the

responsibility to understand that the

responsibility to understand that the way they portray certain content has an

way they portray certain content has an

way they portray certain content has an effect on an audience especially a young

effect on an audience especially a young

effect on an audience especially a young one the media has long ways to go in

one the media has long ways to go in

one the media has long ways to go in regards improving their conversations

regards improving their conversations

regards improving their conversations surrounding suicide from going from

surrounding suicide from going from

surrounding suicide from going from causes to prevention from changing their

causes to prevention from changing their

causes to prevention from changing their language yet while these conversations

language yet while these conversations

language yet while these conversations exist on the media we as a community as

exist on the media we as a community as

exist on the media we as a community as a school are not immune to contagion so

a school are not immune to contagion so

a school are not immune to contagion so what can we do to protect ourselves

what can we do to protect ourselves

what can we do to protect ourselves firstly we must have more profound

firstly we must have more profound

firstly we must have more profound conversations when thirteen reasons why

conversations when thirteen reasons why

conversations when thirteen reasons why it became a hot topic at school last

it became a hot topic at school last

it became a hot topic at school last year steps were taken by the

year steps were taken by the

year steps were taken by the administration an email was sent out to

administration an email was sent out to

administration an email was sent out to parents telling them to take caution of

parents telling them to take caution of

parents telling them to take caution of this new TV show yet it wasn’t our

this new TV show yet it wasn’t our

this new TV show yet it wasn’t our parents that needed that email or that

parents that needed that email or that

parents that needed that email or that conversation it was us we were the ones

conversation it was us we were the ones

conversation it was us we were the ones oblivious to the fact that that show

oblivious to the fact that that show

oblivious to the fact that that show could have had detrimental results we

could have had detrimental results we

could have had detrimental results we were the ones continuing to binge watch

were the ones continuing to binge watch

were the ones continuing to binge watch those thirteen episodes and we were the

those thirteen episodes and we were the

those thirteen episodes and we were the ones that needed a platform for

ones that needed a platform for

ones that needed a platform for conversation the steps taken were far

conversation the steps taken were far

conversation the steps taken were far from enough instead a prevention program

from enough instead a prevention program

from enough instead a prevention program should have been set up a program open

should have been set up a program open

should have been set up a program open for discussion

for discussion

for discussion their prevention programs being used

their prevention programs being used

their prevention programs being used worldwide and research indicates that

worldwide and research indicates that

worldwide and research indicates that these prevention programs should be

these prevention programs should be

these prevention programs should be across a larger frame not just talking

across a larger frame not just talking

across a larger frame not just talking about suicide but talking about mental

about suicide but talking about mental

about suicide but talking about mental illnesses as a whole they should be

illnesses as a whole they should be

illnesses as a whole they should be working to strengthen protective

working to strengthen protective

working to strengthen protective behaviors as well as strength and

behaviors as well as strength and

behaviors as well as strength and resilience they should be working to

resilience they should be working to

resilience they should be working to educate and empower students but most of

educate and empower students but most of

educate and empower students but most of all they should be available to all not

all they should be available to all not

all they should be available to all not just those at risk we already have a

just those at risk we already have a

just those at risk we already have a safe space like advisory so we need to

safe space like advisory so we need to

safe space like advisory so we need to use this platform to our advantage

use this platform to our advantage

use this platform to our advantage secondly don’t fall into the media trap

secondly don’t fall into the media trap

secondly don’t fall into the media trap don’t take

don’t take

don’t take babe the media wants us to click on

babe the media wants us to click on

babe the media wants us to click on everything they publish happiness

everything they publish happiness

everything they publish happiness sadness shock it’s all in there

sadness shock it’s all in there

sadness shock it’s all in there just to make us click on it I sure did

just to make us click on it I sure did

just to make us click on it I sure did take the bait I was oblivious to the

take the bait I was oblivious to the

take the bait I was oblivious to the fact that violence and drama was added

fact that violence and drama was added

fact that violence and drama was added just to make me keep on watching those

just to make me keep on watching those

just to make me keep on watching those episodes although it may have had a

episodes although it may have had a

episodes although it may have had a detrimental result so when it comes to

detrimental result so when it comes to

detrimental result so when it comes to the dangerous content out there we must

the dangerous content out there we must

the dangerous content out there we must exercise our right to choice

exercise our right to choice

exercise our right to choice because once we do click on the content

because once we do click on the content

because once we do click on the content every word every sentence and every

every word every sentence and every

every word every sentence and every story has an impact on us and it’s not

story has an impact on us and it’s not

story has an impact on us and it’s not always positive we need to learn to

always positive we need to learn to

always positive we need to learn to protect ourselves however let’s not step

protect ourselves however let’s not step

protect ourselves however let’s not step back from the progress we have already

back from the progress we have already

back from the progress we have already made let’s continue to initiate these

made let’s continue to initiate these

made let’s continue to initiate these conversations in the right direction but

conversations in the right direction but

conversations in the right direction but let’s turn thirteen reasons why into

let’s turn thirteen reasons why into

let’s turn thirteen reasons why into thirteen reasons why not thank you

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