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Millennials and seniors: two sides of the same spectrum | Daniela Slezáková | TEDxUNYP


would you imagine when I say a senior or

would you imagine when I say a senior or an old person do you see someone like

an old person do you see someone like

an old person do you see someone like this or maybe you see someone like that

this or maybe you see someone like that

this or maybe you see someone like that this is why I see this is my grandmother

this is why I see this is my grandmother

this is why I see this is my grandmother she’s in her 70s this is also her she

she’s in her 70s this is also her she

she’s in her 70s this is also her she and her friends have musicians among

and her friends have musicians among

and her friends have musicians among themselves they regularly gets together

themselves they regularly gets together

themselves they regularly gets together to play and sing for themselves but also

to play and sing for themselves but also

to play and sing for themselves but also for other people and during Christmas

for other people and during Christmas

for other people and during Christmas time they use a house of one of them in

time they use a house of one of them in

time they use a house of one of them in the center of Prague to play and sing

the center of Prague to play and sing

the center of Prague to play and sing for anyone that comes by and to serve

for anyone that comes by and to serve

for anyone that comes by and to serve hot wine to them as well I learned a lot

hot wine to them as well I learned a lot

hot wine to them as well I learned a lot from my grandmother both together as

from my grandmother both together as

from my grandmother both together as life enjoyment and also things like

life enjoyment and also things like

life enjoyment and also things like playing cards or picking mushrooms

playing cards or picking mushrooms

playing cards or picking mushrooms without accidentally killing myself a

without accidentally killing myself a

without accidentally killing myself a few weeks ago she underwent quite a

few weeks ago she underwent quite a

few weeks ago she underwent quite a complicated spine surgery she’s okay now

complicated spine surgery she’s okay now

complicated spine surgery she’s okay now she’s in a rehabilitation center to heal

she’s in a rehabilitation center to heal

she’s in a rehabilitation center to heal completely seeing all the medical

completely seeing all the medical

completely seeing all the medical attention that she received and the

attention that she received and the

attention that she received and the incredibly nice nurses that were taking

incredibly nice nurses that were taking

incredibly nice nurses that were taking care of her it it got me thinking that

care of her it it got me thinking that

care of her it it got me thinking that I’m happy for the first time in my

I’m happy for the first time in my

I’m happy for the first time in my rather short working career that the

rather short working career that the

rather short working career that the government gets about 40 percent of my

government gets about 40 percent of my

government gets about 40 percent of my total salary towards causes like

total salary towards causes like

total salary towards causes like univille universal health care it also

univille universal health care it also

univille universal health care it also got me thinking how long will this be a

got me thinking how long will this be a

got me thinking how long will this be a norm will be be able to afford it and

norm will be be able to afford it and

norm will be be able to afford it and already it will the working population

already it will the working population

already it will the working population be large large enough to support causes

be large large enough to support causes

be large large enough to support causes and issues like universal health care it

and issues like universal health care it

and issues like universal health care it is a fact that the Czech population as

is a fact that the Czech population as

is a fact that the Czech population as well as many other so-called Western

well as many other so-called Western

well as many other so-called Western societies populations are getting older

societies populations are getting older

societies populations are getting older stagnating in number or even shrinking

stagnating in number or even shrinking

stagnating in number or even shrinking in number

in number

in number Czech people now supposedly prefer being

Czech people now supposedly prefer being

Czech people now supposedly prefer being wealthy to having children and my

wealthy to having children and my

wealthy to having children and my generation the so-called millennial

generation the so-called millennial

generation the so-called millennial generation is just going to be worse in

generation is just going to be worse in

generation is just going to be worse in this regard because the family appeal is

this regard because the family appeal is

this regard because the family appeal is just not strong enough strong enough for

just not strong enough strong enough for

just not strong enough strong enough for us anymore the other they blamed young

us anymore the other they blamed young

us anymore the other they blamed young that they are not making sure the

that they are not making sure the

that they are not making sure the working population remains large enough

working population remains large enough

working population remains large enough and the younger blamed the order for the

and the younger blamed the order for the

and the younger blamed the order for the way the industries work under a

way the industries work under a

way the industries work under a leadership to create a different

leadership to create a different

leadership to create a different economic and social

economic and social

economic and social spectrum in which having a family when

spectrum in which having a family when

spectrum in which having a family when you are younger is not as easy anymore

you are younger is not as easy anymore

you are younger is not as easy anymore and the economic spectrum is not just

and the economic spectrum is not just

and the economic spectrum is not just the one thing that they disagree on and

the one thing that they disagree on and

the one thing that they disagree on and it seems to put these two groups on

it seems to put these two groups on

it seems to put these two groups on different sides political aspect is

different sides political aspect is

different sides political aspect is another thing it was nicely visible now

another thing it was nicely visible now

another thing it was nicely visible now after the Czech parliamentary elections

after the Czech parliamentary elections

after the Czech parliamentary elections and also in Britain after the brexit

and also in Britain after the brexit

and also in Britain after the brexit referendum the old do not think that the

referendum the old do not think that the

referendum the old do not think that the young know how the world works while the

young know how the world works while the

young know how the world works while the young do not think that they all know

young do not think that they all know

young do not think that they all know how the how the world should be working

how the how the world should be working

how the how the world should be working and is this something that we as a

and is this something that we as a

and is this something that we as a society cannot avoid the home because to

society cannot avoid the home because to

society cannot avoid the home because to me it seems that the only thing that we

me it seems that the only thing that we

me it seems that the only thing that we are lacking here is the lack of

are lacking here is the lack of

are lacking here is the lack of understanding and it’s really not easy

understanding and it’s really not easy

understanding and it’s really not easy to reach this understanding not not

to reach this understanding not not

to reach this understanding not not often because it’s much easier to make a

often because it’s much easier to make a

often because it’s much easier to make a generalization about a group of people

generalization about a group of people

generalization about a group of people to make a quick judgment about who is

to make a quick judgment about who is

to make a quick judgment about who is behaving how and who is who is different

behaving how and who is who is different

behaving how and who is who is different from us and how and why they are worse

from us and how and why they are worse

from us and how and why they are worse take for instance millennial generation

take for instance millennial generation

take for instance millennial generation spoiled lazy impatient so this is often

spoiled lazy impatient so this is often

spoiled lazy impatient so this is often how we are portrayed and what this

how we are portrayed and what this

how we are portrayed and what this creates is that nobody understands us

creates is that nobody understands us

creates is that nobody understands us that the older generation does not

that the older generation does not

that the older generation does not understand us and they are judging us I

understand us and they are judging us I

understand us and they are judging us I really like simon Sinek stake on this if

really like simon Sinek stake on this if

really like simon Sinek stake on this if you know him you might know why why I

you know him you might know why why I

you know him you might know why why I like his particular opinion on this

like his particular opinion on this

like his particular opinion on this matter

matter

matter he explains Millennials and our behavior

he explains Millennials and our behavior

he explains Millennials and our behavior in the workplace by by understanding

in the workplace by by understanding

in the workplace by by understanding that we simply grew up in a little bit

that we simply grew up in a little bit

that we simply grew up in a little bit different environment this environment

different environment this environment

different environment this environment of instant gratification raised by

of instant gratification raised by

of instant gratification raised by different parental habits and surrounded

different parental habits and surrounded

different parental habits and surrounded by ever developing technologies which we

by ever developing technologies which we

by ever developing technologies which we naturally just knew how to use because

naturally just knew how to use because

naturally just knew how to use because we grew up with them but what he doesn’t

we grew up with them but what he doesn’t

we grew up with them but what he doesn’t do is he doesn’t judge either of the two

do is he doesn’t judge either of the two

do is he doesn’t judge either of the two groups he tries to make them reach an

groups he tries to make them reach an

groups he tries to make them reach an understanding and tries to make them

understanding and tries to make them

understanding and tries to make them work most efficiently in any industry

work most efficiently in any industry

work most efficiently in any industry which in result creates a bit of a

which in result creates a bit of a

which in result creates a bit of a little bit more harmony as in a society

little bit more harmony as in a society

little bit more harmony as in a society as a whole and it’s new not really easy

as a whole and it’s new not really easy

as a whole and it’s new not really easy to reach this understanding always

to reach this understanding always

to reach this understanding always especially the original pin technologies

especially the original pin technologies

especially the original pin technologies and the walls of open borders made us

and the walls of open borders made us

and the walls of open borders made us really a little bit differently angled

really a little bit differently angled

really a little bit differently angled people the ever developing technologies

people the ever developing technologies

people the ever developing technologies made us the so called digital natives

made us the so called digital natives

made us the so called digital natives and the world of open borders made it

and the world of open borders made it

and the world of open borders made it really easy for us or even expected us

really easy for us or even expected us

really easy for us or even expected us to study abroad or live abroad for at

to study abroad or live abroad for at

to study abroad or live abroad for at least some some amount of time this in

least some some amount of time this in

least some some amount of time this in turn made us more open to the idea of

turn made us more open to the idea of

turn made us more open to the idea of international cooperation European Union

international cooperation European Union

international cooperation European Union globalization but also social topics

globalization but also social topics

globalization but also social topics like the LGBT acceptance me by Klaus

like the LGBT acceptance me by Klaus

like the LGBT acceptance me by Klaus homes and cars and we value experience

homes and cars and we value experience

homes and cars and we value experience more than ownership we are also more

more than ownership we are also more

more than ownership we are also more prone to depression and suicides because

prone to depression and suicides because

prone to depression and suicides because the expectations of what we are supposed

the expectations of what we are supposed

the expectations of what we are supposed to live through what we are supposed to

to live through what we are supposed to

to live through what we are supposed to experience where we are supposed to

experience where we are supposed to

experience where we are supposed to travel and what profession we are

travel and what profession we are

travel and what profession we are supposed to reach before we settle down

supposed to reach before we settle down

supposed to reach before we settle down is getting increasingly more demanding

is getting increasingly more demanding

is getting increasingly more demanding very often not realistic in the first

very often not realistic in the first

very often not realistic in the first place and we might sometimes feel that

place and we might sometimes feel that

place and we might sometimes feel that the older generation does not understand

the older generation does not understand

the older generation does not understand this discrepancy between us and them but

this discrepancy between us and them but

this discrepancy between us and them but it’s not that they are different people

it’s not that they are different people

it’s not that they are different people living in different worlds they are just

living in different worlds they are just

living in different worlds they are just in different stages of their lives I

in different stages of their lives I

in different stages of their lives I would like to offer an example here when

would like to offer an example here when

would like to offer an example here when I was telling my grandmother about this

I was telling my grandmother about this

I was telling my grandmother about this exciting trip to Bali that I took this

exciting trip to Bali that I took this

exciting trip to Bali that I took this year she immediately asked me how much

year she immediately asked me how much

year she immediately asked me how much money I paid to go there and then based

money I paid to go there and then based

money I paid to go there and then based on my travel habits in 2017 she

on my travel habits in 2017 she

on my travel habits in 2017 she calculated how much longer it will take

calculated how much longer it will take

calculated how much longer it will take me before I can get a mortgage she did

me before I can get a mortgage she did

me before I can get a mortgage she did math and everything our world just did

math and everything our world just did

math and everything our world just did not me there but it’s not that she would

not me there but it’s not that she would

not me there but it’s not that she would be a different type of person from me

be a different type of person from me

be a different type of person from me she’s just in a different stage of her

she’s just in a different stage of her

she’s just in a different stage of her life where the safety of having her own

life where the safety of having her own

life where the safety of having her own home is very important to her and she

home is very important to her and she

home is very important to her and she just wants this sort of feeling of

just wants this sort of feeling of

just wants this sort of feeling of illness for me as well when I’m older

illness for me as well when I’m older

illness for me as well when I’m older and she’s just afraid that I’m not on

and she’s just afraid that I’m not on

and she’s just afraid that I’m not on the right track to reach it at school I

the right track to reach it at school I

the right track to reach it at school I was learning who coined which term for

was learning who coined which term for

was learning who coined which term for which generation how they were called

which generation how they were called

which generation how they were called and what they were doing

and what they were doing

and what they were doing later at work I attended a few workshops

later at work I attended a few workshops

later at work I attended a few workshops where we were basically going through

where we were basically going through

where we were basically going through the same thing but more in a marketing

the same thing but more in a marketing

the same thing but more in a marketing way so we were learning which generation

way so we were learning which generation

way so we were learning which generation approach which media how would they like

approach which media how would they like

approach which media how would they like to consume as a media how to talk to

to consume as a media how to talk to

to consume as a media how to talk to them etc I also attended a few workshops

them etc I also attended a few workshops

them etc I also attended a few workshops like this about the millennial

like this about the millennial

like this about the millennial generation and it was very specific

generation and it was very specific

generation and it was very specific about how what we eat how we talk who we

about how what we eat how we talk who we

about how what we eat how we talk who we talked to what we are like what we like

talked to what we are like what we like

talked to what we are like what we like to do what we do not like to do and I

to do what we do not like to do and I

to do what we do not like to do and I was just sitting there thinking of how

was just sitting there thinking of how

was just sitting there thinking of how much we like to generalize and how much

much we like to generalize and how much

much we like to generalize and how much we like to label groups of people and

we like to label groups of people and

we like to label groups of people and this labeling always creates a gap

this labeling always creates a gap

this labeling always creates a gap between people because when we are

between people because when we are

between people because when we are labeled as a group in a way and describe

labeled as a group in a way and describe

labeled as a group in a way and describe it means that we are different from

it means that we are different from

it means that we are different from another group which is also described in

another group which is also described in

another group which is also described in a different way and if we say that

a different way and if we say that

a different way and if we say that someone no matter how old is to just is

someone no matter how old is to just is

someone no matter how old is to just is too far from us to understand our

too far from us to understand our

too far from us to understand our situation we have just not tried hard

situation we have just not tried hard

situation we have just not tried hard enough not just from our side but also

enough not just from our side but also

enough not just from our side but also from their side

from their side

from their side we are not different people because we

we are not different people because we

we are not different people because we live in different worlds but we are we

live in different worlds but we are we

live in different worlds but we are we might seem different because we are at

might seem different because we are at

might seem different because we are at different stages of our lives and we

different stages of our lives and we

different stages of our lives and we have different priorities at our

have different priorities at our

have different priorities at our particular stage of our lives it would

particular stage of our lives it would

particular stage of our lives it would it not be better if the famous when I

it not be better if the famous when I

it not be better if the famous when I was your age sentence was having a

was your age sentence was having a

was your age sentence was having a descriptive or informative nature rather

descriptive or informative nature rather

descriptive or informative nature rather than judgemental one if I ever say when

than judgemental one if I ever say when

than judgemental one if I ever say when I was your age as a judgment or as in

I was your age as a judgment or as in

I was your age as a judgment or as in you should have it harder I will try to

you should have it harder I will try to

you should have it harder I will try to replace this video immediately I’ve

replace this video immediately I’ve

replace this video immediately I’ve already used this sentence a few times

already used this sentence a few times

already used this sentence a few times towards my younger sister and she’s 11

towards my younger sister and she’s 11

towards my younger sister and she’s 11 years younger and I’m in my 20s

years younger and I’m in my 20s

years younger and I’m in my 20s imagine me what I’m going to do when I’m

imagine me what I’m going to do when I’m

imagine me what I’m going to do when I’m 17 experience is what gives anyone older

17 experience is what gives anyone older

17 experience is what gives anyone older than anyone else the incentive to

than anyone else the incentive to

than anyone else the incentive to comment how easier the younger

comment how easier the younger

comment how easier the younger generation has it as if that was even a

generation has it as if that was even a

generation has it as if that was even a problem it’s not our job to make it

problem it’s not our job to make it

problem it’s not our job to make it harder for those that come after us

harder for those that come after us

harder for those that come after us we if if the generation of my sister

we if if the generation of my sister

we if if the generation of my sister that that when they grow up if they have

that that when they grow up if they have

that that when they grow up if they have it easier than

it easier than

it easier than I will be like job well done I will be

I will be like job well done I will be

I will be like job well done I will be really happy about that

really happy about that

really happy about that I really hope that happens I do not

I really hope that happens I do not

I really hope that happens I do not think it will I think they they will

think it will I think they they will

think it will I think they they will have their own issues that we might not

have their own issues that we might not

have their own issues that we might not understand but I really hope it will and

understand but I really hope it will and

understand but I really hope it will and I hope that we will see our similarities

I hope that we will see our similarities

I hope that we will see our similarities rather than differences hi this one for

rather than differences hi this one for

rather than differences hi this one for instance this is what happens when you

instance this is what happens when you

instance this is what happens when you google Millennials already read this is

google Millennials already read this is

google Millennials already read this is what happened when I googled Millennials

what happened when I googled Millennials

what happened when I googled Millennials everyone looks pretty much the same the

everyone looks pretty much the same the

everyone looks pretty much the same the pictures are very light everyone has

pictures are very light everyone has

pictures are very light everyone has friends everyone’s smiling everyone is

friends everyone’s smiling everyone is

friends everyone’s smiling everyone is clothed in a similar manner and everyone

clothed in a similar manner and everyone

clothed in a similar manner and everyone is happy

is happy

is happy no one’s depressed right and now we can

no one’s depressed right and now we can

no one’s depressed right and now we can take that and we can say this is another

take that and we can say this is another

take that and we can say this is another example how they do not understand us

example how they do not understand us

example how they do not understand us this is how they see us as a group of

this is how they see us as a group of

this is how they see us as a group of people not as individuals and this is

people not as individuals and this is

people not as individuals and this is how they think that we have it easy

how they think that we have it easy

how they think that we have it easy this is how they thing that we are just

this is how they thing that we are just

this is how they thing that we are just enjoying our lives but look at what

enjoying our lives but look at what

enjoying our lives but look at what happens when you google baby boomers

happens when you google baby boomers

happens when you google baby boomers it’s the same thing it’s basically the

it’s the same thing it’s basically the

it’s the same thing it’s basically the same thing everyone has friends

same thing everyone has friends

same thing everyone has friends nobody’s alone nobody is lonely to me

nobody’s alone nobody is lonely to me

nobody’s alone nobody is lonely to me the only change in the brief was just do

the only change in the brief was just do

the only change in the brief was just do not give them technology because they

not give them technology because they

not give them technology because they are older just give them yoga mats and

are older just give them yoga mats and

are older just give them yoga mats and bicycles because they enjoy nature more

bicycles because they enjoy nature more

bicycles because they enjoy nature more than younger people keep the technology

than younger people keep the technology

than younger people keep the technology for the Millennials when we are shooting

for the Millennials when we are shooting

for the Millennials when we are shooting them next week and you know the worry of

them next week and you know the worry of

them next week and you know the worry of the older generation that family is not

the older generation that family is not

the older generation that family is not important to us might not be even be

important to us might not be even be

important to us might not be even be real we might not be the best at forming

real we might not be the best at forming

real we might not be the best at forming deep meaningful connections with all of

deep meaningful connections with all of

deep meaningful connections with all of our taggings wiping left and right and

our taggings wiping left and right and

our taggings wiping left and right and poking but it doesn’t mean that we are

poking but it doesn’t mean that we are

poking but it doesn’t mean that we are not trying and that being a good parent

not trying and that being a good parent

not trying and that being a good parent and having successful marriage is not

and having successful marriage is not

and having successful marriage is not important to us just means that we might

important to us just means that we might

important to us just means that we might need a little bit of a help from the

need a little bit of a help from the

need a little bit of a help from the older generation when I’m with my

older generation when I’m with my

older generation when I’m with my grandmother I’m never on my phone she

grandmother I’m never on my phone she

grandmother I’m never on my phone she always makes me live through the moment

always makes me live through the moment

always makes me live through the moment with her and I would never I would never

with her and I would never I would never

with her and I would never I would never take a phone in my hand when I’m around

take a phone in my hand when I’m around

take a phone in my hand when I’m around her she softly teaches me teaches me the

her she softly teaches me teaches me the

her she softly teaches me teaches me the basic human connection and how to live

basic human connection and how to live

basic human connection and how to live in a moment with another person so this

in a moment with another person so this

in a moment with another person so this is what they can help us

is what they can help us

is what they can help us what we can understand from them and get

what we can understand from them and get

what we can understand from them and get and be taught from them but I where I do

and be taught from them but I where I do

and be taught from them but I where I do see the discrepancy between us though is

see the discrepancy between us though is

see the discrepancy between us though is the economic one and I think that this

the economic one and I think that this

the economic one and I think that this is what causes most of the problems my

is what causes most of the problems my

is what causes most of the problems my family bought an apartment here in

family bought an apartment here in

family bought an apartment here in Prague about eight years ago now its

Prague about eight years ago now its

Prague about eight years ago now its value is up by 70% half of this increase

value is up by 70% half of this increase

value is up by 70% half of this increase happened in the last two years the

happened in the last two years the

happened in the last two years the salaries did not keep up with this fact

salaries did not keep up with this fact

salaries did not keep up with this fact not at all

not at all

not at all it’s going to be increasingly more

it’s going to be increasingly more

it’s going to be increasingly more demanding to have a family in your 20s

demanding to have a family in your 20s

demanding to have a family in your 20s because even getting your own apartment

because even getting your own apartment

because even getting your own apartment or your own place is getting much harder

or your own place is getting much harder

or your own place is getting much harder because of the expectations of what you

because of the expectations of what you

because of the expectations of what you are supposed to achieve before you

are supposed to achieve before you

are supposed to achieve before you settle down it’s also going to be much

settle down it’s also going to be much

settle down it’s also going to be much harder if you have children in your 20s

harder if you have children in your 20s

harder if you have children in your 20s if you have a family in your 20s you

if you have a family in your 20s you

if you have a family in your 20s you have not lived enough if you wait till

have not lived enough if you wait till

have not lived enough if you wait till your 30s you have not cared enough it’s

your 30s you have not cared enough it’s

your 30s you have not cared enough it’s just there’s just no way there’s just no

just there’s just no way there’s just no

just there’s just no way there’s just no way to win and I think that the older

way to win and I think that the older

way to win and I think that the older generation cannot judge us merrily by to

generation cannot judge us merrily by to

generation cannot judge us merrily by to what we do not to do in our case in this

what we do not to do in our case in this

what we do not to do in our case in this case especially having having a family

case especially having having a family

case especially having having a family in our twenties but they need to

in our twenties but they need to

in our twenties but they need to understand the situation that we are

understand the situation that we are

understand the situation that we are coming from and on the other hand we

coming from and on the other hand we

coming from and on the other hand we cannot merely say we are a group of

cannot merely say we are a group of

cannot merely say we are a group of people that’s minute misunderstood we

people that’s minute misunderstood we

people that’s minute misunderstood we need to take time to make them

need to take time to make them

need to take time to make them understand to reach an understanding

understand to reach an understanding

understand to reach an understanding between between us so maybe just go

between between us so maybe just go

between between us so maybe just go visit your old folks if you are still

visit your old folks if you are still

visit your old folks if you are still lucky enough to have them try to tell

lucky enough to have them try to tell

lucky enough to have them try to tell them what you think and try to ask them

them what you think and try to ask them

them what you think and try to ask them what they think because ultimately we

what they think because ultimately we

what they think because ultimately we are living in a society where respecting

are living in a society where respecting

are living in a society where respecting the past is as important as seeing

the past is as important as seeing

the past is as important as seeing possibilities for the future and the way

possibilities for the future and the way

possibilities for the future and the way I see it we can either join the

I see it we can either join the

I see it we can either join the bandwagon of writing articles and blog

bandwagon of writing articles and blog

bandwagon of writing articles and blog posts and funny pictures about how each

posts and funny pictures about how each

posts and funny pictures about how each generation hates the other generation

generation hates the other generation

generation hates the other generation how this group of people hate this group

how this group of people hate this group

how this group of people hate this group of people or we can try to reach more

of people or we can try to reach more

of people or we can try to reach more situations like this and I personally

situations like this and I personally

situations like this and I personally would like to do the latter

would like to do the latter

would like to do the latter so maybe we can do something about that

so maybe we can do something about that

so maybe we can do something about that thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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