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seeing this picture you might say to

seeing this picture you might say to yourself like what is a guy in a

yourself like what is a guy in a

yourself like what is a guy in a wheelchair doing right there and this is

wheelchair doing right there and this is

wheelchair doing right there and this is actually me last summer in Norway and

actually me last summer in Norway and

actually me last summer in Norway and I’m gonna tell you the story of how I

I’m gonna tell you the story of how I

I’m gonna tell you the story of how I ended up right there and this story

ended up right there and this story

ended up right there and this story begins when I was seven years old and

begins when I was seven years old and

begins when I was seven years old and I’m sitting in the car with my brother

I’m sitting in the car with my brother

I’m sitting in the car with my brother and my my brother’s actually in my mom

and my my brother’s actually in my mom

and my my brother’s actually in my mom and dad and going down to my

and dad and going down to my

and dad and going down to my grandparents to celebrate Christmas and

grandparents to celebrate Christmas and

grandparents to celebrate Christmas and when we’re sitting in the car I get this

when we’re sitting in the car I get this

when we’re sitting in the car I get this strange you know pain and my bottom from

strange you know pain and my bottom from

strange you know pain and my bottom from sitting down and about two months later

sitting down and about two months later

sitting down and about two months later I’m sitting there I’m in the hospital

I’m sitting there I’m in the hospital

I’m sitting there I’m in the hospital getting chemotherapy and this pain

getting chemotherapy and this pain

getting chemotherapy and this pain turned out to be cancer turned out to be

turned out to be cancer turned out to be

turned out to be cancer turned out to be a tumor the size of a fist growing in my

a tumor the size of a fist growing in my

a tumor the size of a fist growing in my lower back and after this a very tough

lower back and after this a very tough

lower back and after this a very tough year followed with chemotherapy and the

year followed with chemotherapy and the

year followed with chemotherapy and the radiation therapy and all different kind

radiation therapy and all different kind

radiation therapy and all different kind of treatments but eventually the doctors

of treatments but eventually the doctors

of treatments but eventually the doctors realized that the treatment wasn’t

realized that the treatment wasn’t

realized that the treatment wasn’t working and they had to take out the

working and they had to take out the

working and they had to take out the cancer with surgery and that surgery

cancer with surgery and that surgery

cancer with surgery and that surgery meant cutting a lot of nerves going to

meant cutting a lot of nerves going to

meant cutting a lot of nerves going to my legs and that’s why

my legs and that’s why

my legs and that’s why how many wheelchair today and after this

how many wheelchair today and after this

how many wheelchair today and after this surgery a really tough time followed it

surgery a really tough time followed it

surgery a really tough time followed it was first of all I I had to lay started

was first of all I I had to lay started

was first of all I I had to lay started still in a bed in hospital for about six

still in a bed in hospital for about six

still in a bed in hospital for about six weeks and after that I wasn’t allowed to

weeks and after that I wasn’t allowed to

weeks and after that I wasn’t allowed to sit down for an entire year but during

sit down for an entire year but during

sit down for an entire year but during this time I could still feel happiness

this time I could still feel happiness

this time I could still feel happiness and joy because I could walk a little

and joy because I could walk a little

and joy because I could walk a little bit you know I can move my legs a little

bit you know I can move my legs a little

bit you know I can move my legs a little bit I’m a bit of a fake cripple and I

bit I’m a bit of a fake cripple and I

bit I’m a bit of a fake cripple and I can walk with this with this walker and

can walk with this with this walker and

can walk with this with this walker and that made me feel you know so happy that

that made me feel you know so happy that

that made me feel you know so happy that I can walk a little bit because I had

I can walk a little bit because I had

I can walk a little bit because I had seen a lot of kids in the hospital who

seen a lot of kids in the hospital who

seen a lot of kids in the hospital who were in wheelchairs and they usually

were in wheelchairs and they usually

were in wheelchairs and they usually looked a little bit different

looked a little bit different

looked a little bit different the depressed and handicapped so I was

the depressed and handicapped so I was

the depressed and handicapped so I was really afraid of ending up in a

really afraid of ending up in a

really afraid of ending up in a wheelchair myself indeed by the end of

wheelchair myself indeed by the end of

wheelchair myself indeed by the end of this year I was I was finally allowed to

this year I was I was finally allowed to

this year I was I was finally allowed to sit down can you imagine that feeling

sit down can you imagine that feeling

sit down can you imagine that feeling like not having used your bottom for an

like not having used your bottom for an

like not having used your bottom for an entire year and all of a sudden you’re

entire year and all of a sudden you’re

entire year and all of a sudden you’re getting to sit down it was like such a

getting to sit down it was like such a

getting to sit down it was like such a nice feeling when I got to sit down

nice feeling when I got to sit down

nice feeling when I got to sit down again my mom found this you know this

again my mom found this you know this

again my mom found this you know this training camp in Gran Canaria in Spain

training camp in Gran Canaria in Spain

training camp in Gran Canaria in Spain for like disabled kids who difficult

for like disabled kids who difficult

for like disabled kids who difficult would go there you know we get a week

would go there you know we get a week

would go there you know we get a week week of Sun and some some rehab that’d

week of Sun and some some rehab that’d

week of Sun and some some rehab that’d be awesome

be awesome

be awesome so we come down and I’m walking with my

so we come down and I’m walking with my

so we come down and I’m walking with my walker towards the Buster’s taken off

walker towards the Buster’s taken off

walker towards the Buster’s taken off the hotel so I’m walking over there and

the hotel so I’m walking over there and

the hotel so I’m walking over there and then I see something by the bus that’s

then I see something by the bus that’s

then I see something by the bus that’s just as ever in my head because by the

just as ever in my head because by the

just as ever in my head because by the bus stress this woman sitting she’s in a

bus stress this woman sitting she’s in a

bus stress this woman sitting she’s in a wheelchair sitting that you know she’s

wheelchair sitting that you know she’s

wheelchair sitting that you know she’s marking everybody off and she’s happy

marking everybody off and she’s happy

marking everybody off and she’s happy and in my mind that is just error it

and in my mind that is just error it

and in my mind that is just error it doesn’t work out so I come up to her and

doesn’t work out so I come up to her and

doesn’t work out so I come up to her and say like hello my name is Erin and she

say like hello my name is Erin and she

say like hello my name is Erin and she says like hello hello my name is Pia

says like hello hello my name is Pia

says like hello hello my name is Pia we’d like the biggest smile ever so I

we’d like the biggest smile ever so I

we’d like the biggest smile ever so I get onto the bus and at the same time

get onto the bus and at the same time

get onto the bus and at the same time I’m telling myself like I’m gonna look

I’m telling myself like I’m gonna look

I’m telling myself like I’m gonna look for it through Pia she’s just faking it

for it through Pia she’s just faking it

for it through Pia she’s just faking it to make all the other disabled kids

to make all the other disabled kids

to make all the other disabled kids happy first day of camp I’m walking with

happy first day of camp I’m walking with

happy first day of camp I’m walking with my walker towards this big grass field

my walker towards this big grass field

my walker towards this big grass field where we’re gonna do a rehab so I’m

where we’re gonna do a rehab so I’m

where we’re gonna do a rehab so I’m walking down there and then I hear a

walking down there and then I hear a

walking down there and then I hear a voice behind me this has good morning

voice behind me this has good morning

voice behind me this has good morning Erin how are you doing who do you think

Erin how are you doing who do you think

Erin how are you doing who do you think it is

it is

it is of course it’s Pia and super happy today

of course it’s Pia and super happy today

of course it’s Pia and super happy today again so we talked to her for about a

again so we talked to her for about a

again so we talked to her for about a minute and then eventually she says like

minute and then eventually she says like

minute and then eventually she says like Arum you should try out my wheelchair

Arum you should try out my wheelchair

Arum you should try out my wheelchair it’s much better than a walker and you

it’s much better than a walker and you

it’s much better than a walker and you know I get super scared and a walk away

know I get super scared and a walk away

know I get super scared and a walk away as quickly as possible well yeah I guess

as quickly as possible well yeah I guess

as quickly as possible well yeah I guess it wasn’t really that quickly I mean you

it wasn’t really that quickly I mean you

it wasn’t really that quickly I mean you ever see the old person with a walker

ever see the old person with a walker

ever see the old person with a walker going fast

going fast

going fast not really heaven Pia she was smart

not really heaven Pia she was smart

not really heaven Pia she was smart you know she realized that I was really

you know she realized that I was really

you know she realized that I was really scared of the wheelchair so she’s on to

scared of the wheelchair so she’s on to

scared of the wheelchair so she’s on to me and and eventually she’s just like

me and and eventually she’s just like

me and and eventually she’s just like arum now you’re trying out my wheelchair

arum now you’re trying out my wheelchair

arum now you’re trying out my wheelchair so I you know I say to her like okay one

so I you know I say to her like okay one

so I you know I say to her like okay one minute then I want my Walker back so I

minute then I want my Walker back so I

minute then I want my Walker back so I get into her chair and I do with a few

get into her chair and I do with a few

get into her chair and I do with a few quick pushes like this and I feel like

quick pushes like this and I feel like

quick pushes like this and I feel like wow I can see that she’s happy you know

wow I can see that she’s happy you know

wow I can see that she’s happy you know cuz all of a sudden I I could roll like

cuz all of a sudden I I could roll like

cuz all of a sudden I I could roll like four times faster than I could ever walk

four times faster than I could ever walk

four times faster than I could ever walk and looking back at this moment I

and looking back at this moment I

and looking back at this moment I realized that in this moment I I made

realized that in this moment I I made

realized that in this moment I I made two decisions that would change my life

two decisions that would change my life

two decisions that would change my life forever decision number one I’m gonna

forever decision number one I’m gonna

forever decision number one I’m gonna get a wheelchair but the we sure can

get a wheelchair but the we sure can

get a wheelchair but the we sure can never make me disabled it can never make

never make me disabled it can never make

never make me disabled it can never make me handicapped because that’s all up in

me handicapped because that’s all up in

me handicapped because that’s all up in here and decision number two I’m gonna

here and decision number two I’m gonna

here and decision number two I’m gonna steal PS wheelchair this is me in my

steal PS wheelchair this is me in my

steal PS wheelchair this is me in my first chair and it was such you know

first chair and it was such you know

first chair and it was such you know happiness to be able to be free again to

happiness to be able to be free again to

happiness to be able to be free again to be able to move around them and play

be able to move around them and play

be able to move around them and play with my friends but the best thing with

with my friends but the best thing with

with my friends but the best thing with being in a wheelchair was that I can do

being in a wheelchair was that I can do

being in a wheelchair was that I can do sports again I could you know do a flat

sports again I could you know do a flat

sports again I could you know do a flat excitin play hockey and I could ceiling

excitin play hockey and I could ceiling

excitin play hockey and I could ceiling all the things that I really loved in my

all the things that I really loved in my

all the things that I really loved in my life fast forward to a few years back

life fast forward to a few years back

life fast forward to a few years back when I was 25 is like five years ago and

when I was 25 is like five years ago and

when I was 25 is like five years ago and I’m I’m in a pretty bad place in life I

I’m I’m in a pretty bad place in life I

I’m I’m in a pretty bad place in life I just had a hip replacement surgery and

just had a hip replacement surgery and

just had a hip replacement surgery and on top of that I’m broke and I’m single

on top of that I’m broke and I’m single

on top of that I’m broke and I’m single so it’s like it’s a bad place and I’m

so it’s like it’s a bad place and I’m

so it’s like it’s a bad place and I’m having coffee with my friend Joe ham and

having coffee with my friend Joe ham and

having coffee with my friend Joe ham and Joe and he’s his awesome adventure guy

Joe and he’s his awesome adventure guy

Joe and he’s his awesome adventure guy is climb Mount Everest

is climb Mount Everest

is climb Mount Everest and all kinds of different cool

and all kinds of different cool

and all kinds of different cool adventures so we’re having coffee and

adventures so we’re having coffee and

adventures so we’re having coffee and out of nowhere he tells me like Aaron

out of nowhere he tells me like Aaron

out of nowhere he tells me like Aaron you should climb a mount cavalry Kaiser

you should climb a mount cavalry Kaiser

you should climb a mount cavalry Kaiser with me the highest mountain on Sweden

with me the highest mountain on Sweden

with me the highest mountain on Sweden and you know I look at him like dude

and you know I look at him like dude

and you know I look at him like dude have you seen the wheelchair and he’s

have you seen the wheelchair and he’s

have you seen the wheelchair and he’s like come on now we’ll figure out a way

like come on now we’ll figure out a way

like come on now we’ll figure out a way and first I I say no but then he he asks

and first I I say no but then he he asks

and first I I say no but then he he asks me a question he says like Aaron what’s

me a question he says like Aaron what’s

me a question he says like Aaron what’s the worst thing that can happen if we

the worst thing that can happen if we

the worst thing that can happen if we fail and I I think about her for a while

fail and I I think about her for a while

fail and I I think about her for a while and I think like okay I’m not gonna die

and I think like okay I’m not gonna die

and I think like okay I’m not gonna die it’s not like a dangerous mountain but I

it’s not like a dangerous mountain but I

it’s not like a dangerous mountain but I could fall down and I could break an arm

could fall down and I could break an arm

could fall down and I could break an arm I’m like I’m willing to take that risk

I’m like I’m willing to take that risk

I’m like I’m willing to take that risk and climbing that mountain is one of the

and climbing that mountain is one of the

and climbing that mountain is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done you know

hardest things I’ve ever done you know

hardest things I’ve ever done you know it’s a struggle we we work really hard

it’s a struggle we we work really hard

it’s a struggle we we work really hard for 18 hours and finally getting up

for 18 hours and finally getting up

for 18 hours and finally getting up there to the top but the feeling sitting

there to the top but the feeling sitting

there to the top but the feeling sitting on the summit of Sweden looking out it’s

on the summit of Sweden looking out it’s

on the summit of Sweden looking out it’s one of one of the feelings that you know

one of one of the feelings that you know

one of one of the feelings that you know I will take with me for the rest of my

I will take with me for the rest of my

I will take with me for the rest of my life

life

life when I came home from Kebnekaise say I

when I came home from Kebnekaise say I

when I came home from Kebnekaise say I started thinking like huh if I can do

started thinking like huh if I can do

started thinking like huh if I can do this maybe I can do more adventures and

this maybe I can do more adventures and

this maybe I can do more adventures and other cool things maybe I can become a

other cool things maybe I can become a

other cool things maybe I can become a professional adventurer so I started

professional adventurer so I started

professional adventurer so I started going like crazy I climbed Kilimanjaro I

going like crazy I climbed Kilimanjaro I

going like crazy I climbed Kilimanjaro I swam from Sweden to Finland I won the 92

swam from Sweden to Finland I won the 92

swam from Sweden to Finland I won the 92 kilometer ultra race and deserts of the

kilometer ultra race and deserts of the

kilometer ultra race and deserts of the by and I started thinking hmm what is

by and I started thinking hmm what is

by and I started thinking hmm what is the what is the biggest and coolest and

the what is the biggest and coolest and

the what is the biggest and coolest and craziest adventure I could ever do and

craziest adventure I could ever do and

craziest adventure I could ever do and you know I’m from Sweden so we like the

you know I’m from Sweden so we like the

you know I’m from Sweden so we like the cold so I figured could I could I ski to

cold so I figured could I could I ski to

cold so I figured could I could I ski to the South Pole but is that possible can

the South Pole but is that possible can

the South Pole but is that possible can you do that when you’re in a wheelchair

you do that when you’re in a wheelchair

you do that when you’re in a wheelchair so I started prepping and finding

so I started prepping and finding

so I started prepping and finding sponsors and training

sponsors and training

sponsors and training building this custom egg sled and I

building this custom egg sled and I

building this custom egg sled and I figured let’s do it so me and my friend

figured let’s do it so me and my friend

figured let’s do it so me and my friend Doug we headed out on this epic

Doug we headed out on this epic

Doug we headed out on this epic adventure to ski from the edge of

adventure to ski from the edge of

adventure to ski from the edge of Antarctica all the way into the South

Antarctica all the way into the South

Antarctica all the way into the South Pole where we’re gonna skiing

Pole where we’re gonna skiing

Pole where we’re gonna skiing temperatures between minus 25 to minus

temperatures between minus 25 to minus

temperatures between minus 25 to minus 40 degrees Celsius in really really

40 degrees Celsius in really really

40 degrees Celsius in really really windy and harsh conditions sleeping a 10

windy and harsh conditions sleeping a 10

windy and harsh conditions sleeping a 10 ton ski for 10 hours a day and it was

ton ski for 10 hours a day and it was

ton ski for 10 hours a day and it was brutal I remember on day 11 of this

brutal I remember on day 11 of this

brutal I remember on day 11 of this adventure I just came into the tent you

adventure I just came into the tent you

adventure I just came into the tent you know I’m done I’ve been skiing for 10

know I’m done I’ve been skiing for 10

know I’m done I’ve been skiing for 10 hours and I’m so tired but at the same

hours and I’m so tired but at the same

hours and I’m so tired but at the same time I can’t sleep so I I pull up my

time I can’t sleep so I I pull up my

time I can’t sleep so I I pull up my phone and I start watching Top Gun

phone and I start watching Top Gun

phone and I start watching Top Gun racing talking right Tom Cruise with

racing talking right Tom Cruise with

racing talking right Tom Cruise with fighter jets so I’m watching this movie

fighter jets so I’m watching this movie

fighter jets so I’m watching this movie for about 45 minutes and during those 45

for about 45 minutes and during those 45

for about 45 minutes and during those 45 minutes I cry like 15 times

minutes I cry like 15 times

minutes I cry like 15 times you know I cry at all they’re really

you know I cry at all they’re really

you know I cry at all they’re really happy parts and I cry for all the sad

happy parts and I cry for all the sad

happy parts and I cry for all the sad parts and I like cry for everything you

parts and I like cry for everything you

parts and I like cry for everything you know and after watching for 45 minutes I

know and after watching for 45 minutes I

know and after watching for 45 minutes I say to myself like I can’t go on like

say to myself like I can’t go on like

say to myself like I can’t go on like tests how am I gonna be able to go like

tests how am I gonna be able to go like

tests how am I gonna be able to go like this for another two weeks it’s not

this for another two weeks it’s not

this for another two weeks it’s not possible but in that moment when I’m

possible but in that moment when I’m

possible but in that moment when I’m having a really tough time I pull up my

having a really tough time I pull up my

having a really tough time I pull up my secret weapon so to say I I pull up this

secret weapon so to say I I pull up this

secret weapon so to say I I pull up this picture this is a picture of me together

picture this is a picture of me together

picture this is a picture of me together with my friend the saga she’s 16 years

with my friend the saga she’s 16 years

with my friend the saga she’s 16 years old she’s like the coolest girl ever

old she’s like the coolest girl ever

old she’s like the coolest girl ever she’s full of energy she’s happy she’s

she’s full of energy she’s happy she’s

she’s full of energy she’s happy she’s she’s awesome but saga she’s fighting

she’s awesome but saga she’s fighting

she’s awesome but saga she’s fighting terminal cancer similar kind of cancer

terminal cancer similar kind of cancer

terminal cancer similar kind of cancer that I had when I was a kid and when I

that I had when I was a kid and when I

that I had when I was a kid and when I look at this picture I I say to myself

look at this picture I I say to myself

look at this picture I I say to myself like if saga can keep going if she can

like if saga can keep going if she can

like if saga can keep going if she can be this awesome girl

be this awesome girl

be this awesome girl considering what she’s going

considering what she’s going

considering what she’s going true then I can also ski a little bit

true then I can also ski a little bit

true then I can also ski a little bit more about two weeks later we finally

more about two weeks later we finally

more about two weeks later we finally came to the South Pole and it was an

came to the South Pole and it was an

came to the South Pole and it was an amazing feeling

you know they’re feeling getting they’re

you know they’re feeling getting they’re getting to shower for the first time in

getting to shower for the first time in

getting to shower for the first time in three weeks it was great but the best

three weeks it was great but the best

three weeks it was great but the best thing we’re getting there was that when

thing we’re getting there was that when

thing we’re getting there was that when coming to the South Pole I get this this

coming to the South Pole I get this this

coming to the South Pole I get this this phone call on the satellite phone from

phone call on the satellite phone from

phone call on the satellite phone from my from my team back home and they tell

my from my team back home and they tell

my from my team back home and they tell me like Aaron we managed to raise

me like Aaron we managed to raise

me like Aaron we managed to raise $800,000 for childhood cancer research

$800,000 for childhood cancer research

$800,000 for childhood cancer research so back to this picture what am i doing

so back to this picture what am i doing

so back to this picture what am i doing right there a while back I I did a

right there a while back I I did a

right there a while back I I did a speech back in Stockholm Sweden where I

speech back in Stockholm Sweden where I

speech back in Stockholm Sweden where I live and after this speech this woman

live and after this speech this woman

live and after this speech this woman comes up to me in an electric wheelchair

comes up to me in an electric wheelchair

comes up to me in an electric wheelchair and she says like Arum about a year ago

and she says like Arum about a year ago

and she says like Arum about a year ago I did something that changed my life

I did something that changed my life

I did something that changed my life completely

completely

completely I fired 50% of my friends I only kept

I fired 50% of my friends I only kept

I fired 50% of my friends I only kept the ones who were like Pia who were like

the ones who were like Pia who were like

the ones who were like Pia who were like Joanne and who were like saga people

Joanne and who were like saga people

Joanne and who were like saga people that would push me people never give me

that would push me people never give me

that would push me people never give me those small but so important purchase

those small but so important purchase

those small but so important purchase outside of my comfort zone people that

outside of my comfort zone people that

outside of my comfort zone people that will tell me that you can do this

will tell me that you can do this

will tell me that you can do this yourself and it was you know this

yourself and it was you know this

yourself and it was you know this amazing joy in her face that she said

amazing joy in her face that she said

amazing joy in her face that she said because of that today I’m independent

because of that today I’m independent

because of that today I’m independent today I’m free and I think that’s what

today I’m free and I think that’s what

today I’m free and I think that’s what my talk is about today you know we all

my talk is about today you know we all

my talk is about today you know we all in here we have different abilities were

in here we have different abilities were

in here we have different abilities were good and bad at different things but I

good and bad at different things but I

good and bad at different things but I don’t think it’s about what abilities we

don’t think it’s about what abilities we

don’t think it’s about what abilities we have in life I think it’s what we do

have in life I think it’s what we do

have in life I think it’s what we do with those abilities so make the most

with those abilities so make the most

with those abilities so make the most with what you have thank you

with what you have thank you

with what you have thank you you

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