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I do not like doing things alone
only this year I will have accomplished
a lot less things for example I
would not have done rugby I would not have
not run either semi semi
marathon I would not have either
carried out the hannibal raid for those
who know about group dynamics
really pulls me up to everyone
his dada some will prefer to make
sudokus him others play the ball
what I like is to go beyond
when I learned the theme of tedx
the first image that came to me
the spirit is this one
so some will see an ocean
tumultuous the fear of going sailing
above me in this picture I see
great sailing conditions iy
see a challenge envi to cross this ocean
and go and see what’s going on
the horizon this frozen photograph taken
a year ago when I realized the
crossing from Canada to the Caribbean to
sailing ten days non-stop from
navigation we were 10 aboard i was
the only youngest woman and I have a
friend who embarked with us louis then
that he had almost never done
sail before you realize
and he got seasick and there was a
night where we met conditions of
sailing very difficult a lot of wind the
sail from before tore up we had everything
go out on deck to try to
fix all this and despite these
difficulties we all came to
good port together I believe in the
group dynamic
and in the infinite abilities of a group
to excel together thanks to his
experiences in a group there is no
that mutual help there is not only
the competitive spirit there is not only
rivalries a group and especially a
source of inspiration
it’s by working in groups that you
are going to have problems that you’re going
have successes and you’re going
Learn to know you
at least I built my
personality thanks to the dynamics of
group
what makes me want to
exceed
what makes me come to me
exceed
these are the group dynamics
actually four months ago before
this crossing in july 2016 i
realized another regatta on this same
sailboats shorter this time it was
only 48 hours we were it’s
first again I was the only woman
on board the youngest
except that the difference is that the
other crew members were
all my directors and the CEO of
the company for which I was
stage and we leave it raining us
are misled
it’s cold it’s windy but at
the less we of course advance our
boat night falls and we decide to
spend the night at the booster so that’s at
to say that your boat is leaning like that
you sit on the hull the
legs in the void and in fact you
use counterweight for the boat
advance faster the rain the cold
I have never felt so weak
physically and that’s saying a lot
despite this I held until the
day why because I felt that
any case next to me there were my two
companions who also held him
was not better how he had the
seasickness but also stay put
and it’s really this dynamic of
group
who did that I held until the
end until dawn I saw
the sunrise and that I exceeded
and I pushed my limits
there are two things that are important
for me the first thing is the
trust
to have confidence in oneself it is not
easy but you have to trust
the group we work with
the second thing is the positive focus
there is a quote from mark twain that
I really like and who says he did not know
not that it was impossible then they
did it this quote is awesome
there is no point in imposing
limits of apprehending situations
with a negative side to tell yourself of any
way will be impossible so far we’re not going
we do not do it, it’s useless
otherwise it must apprehend
situations positively
believe in his personal potential believe
in the capabilities of the group with which
we work and with whom we will lead
things do this project is maybe that
it seems complicated at first but
maybe we’ll finally get there
together
you can not imagine how much
the way you choose to say
things have an impact on people
who surround you the way you
enjoy saying things so
negative or positive
for example rugby I want very well
choose to be negative or positive
girls I can not anymore there really
it’s the 20th squad we’re doing here
can I stop I’m more
unable to continue there I can not
ok girls is rewarding dia
but the girls we need to think about
to taste that we have after the girls go
it’s not easy but it makes us
strong girls and go on we continue
to the end so I do I’m having fun
on stage but you understand well to
how much the the way I said the
things at all have the same result
the first negative way she is
player around me will tell
people a little further no longer so bad
we stop we will not end until then
than the second way of saying it from
baumanière much more positive the
girls around me make themselves say ok
she’s right to bother us but at the
reason we are able to do that
we do good then we continue
together until the end
and this positive and very positive state of mind
important how do I get to
to exceed me
I try to trust myself it’s
not easy but I try I do
trust in the group with which I
work and especially I keep this focus
positive so I talk a lot about sport
because it is certainly I apply it in
sport and that’s my passion but I
realized that applying it from
daily way
this positive focus it does a lot of
well this attracts the good ones
people around me in society
today a lot of information
negative are widespread and finally he
there is very little positive support
compliments congratulated share around
from us all these efforts that we make
everyday and who ask us
something and that brings us
a lot finally so I invite you
to all of you today to keep this step
positive spirit what is the compliment
that you are going to do today in
coming out of the room or tomorrow and for
the most motivated of you what is
the next area in which you
want to go over then choose
to see in this photograph not
an ocean that inspires you to fear no
not do not tell you I would never
able to cross it on the contrary
keep that positive state of mind and
say you yes me too I am
maybe able to cross it and
with my group we may be
able to cross it together
thank you
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