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You decide what happens next | Mary Gomez Camba | TEDxNTU


I believe that every decision we make

I believe that every decision we make has the potential to be the creation

has the potential to be the creation

has the potential to be the creation moment of a great story right in between

moment of a great story right in between

moment of a great story right in between the before and after there is a tiny

the before and after there is a tiny

the before and after there is a tiny tiny little space but in that space we

tiny little space but in that space we

tiny little space but in that space we decide what happens next it’s into what

decide what happens next it’s into what

decide what happens next it’s into what happens next where we define who we are

happens next where we define who we are

happens next where we define who we are is what happens after you commit to

is what happens after you commit to

is what happens after you commit to something and you follow through or

something and you follow through or

something and you follow through or dislike not to follow through a year ago

dislike not to follow through a year ago

dislike not to follow through a year ago this month I attended my first teddy

this month I attended my first teddy

this month I attended my first teddy bent here in Singapore there I heard a

bent here in Singapore there I heard a

bent here in Singapore there I heard a story an incredible story about a woman

story an incredible story about a woman

story an incredible story about a woman who came to Singapore as a domestic

who came to Singapore as a domestic

who came to Singapore as a domestic worker and returned to her country to

worker and returned to her country to

worker and returned to her country to start her own business it’s a story of

start her own business it’s a story of

start her own business it’s a story of empowerment and education and of someone

empowerment and education and of someone

empowerment and education and of someone deciding to change the narrative of her

deciding to change the narrative of her

deciding to change the narrative of her life I was not the only one crying

life I was not the only one crying

life I was not the only one crying everyone in the audience was crying so

everyone in the audience was crying so

everyone in the audience was crying so it was okay to cry after the talks were

it was okay to cry after the talks were

it was okay to cry after the talks were over Neel ashika came to our group and

over Neel ashika came to our group and

over Neel ashika came to our group and introduced herself and said hello

introduced herself and said hello

introduced herself and said hello she told us more about her business and

she told us more about her business and

she told us more about her business and the nonprofit work that she was doing

the nonprofit work that she was doing

the nonprofit work that she was doing helping other woman like herself start

helping other woman like herself start

helping other woman like herself start their own business I was quite impressed

their own business I was quite impressed

their own business I was quite impressed that someone could do so much with so

that someone could do so much with so

that someone could do so much with so little so I offered my help and she said

little so I offered my help and she said

little so I offered my help and she said yes and I wish my pledge of help would

yes and I wish my pledge of help would

yes and I wish my pledge of help would be more poetic and have more emotion but

be more poetic and have more emotion but

be more poetic and have more emotion but it was as simple as that I said kneel

it was as simple as that I said kneel

it was as simple as that I said kneel ashika I’m going to help you realize a

ashika I’m going to help you realize a

ashika I’m going to help you realize a dream and she said okay that was that

dream and she said okay that was that

dream and she said okay that was that four months later

four months later

four months later Neel ashika and I met again I was

Neel ashika and I met again I was

Neel ashika and I met again I was finishing a case study and had time to

finishing a case study and had time to

finishing a case study and had time to take up a new one so I checked her

take up a new one so I checked her

take up a new one so I checked her Facebook feed and noticed that not much

Facebook feed and noticed that not much

Facebook feed and noticed that not much had changed so I saw an opportunity

had changed so I saw an opportunity

had changed so I saw an opportunity where I could help her I contacted her

where I could help her I contacted her

where I could help her I contacted her and I offered to coach her

and I offered to coach her

and I offered to coach her coincidentally she was coming to

coincidentally she was coming to

coincidentally she was coming to Singapore the next day so we met and we

Singapore the next day so we met and we

Singapore the next day so we met and we talked and we decided that she would be

talked and we decided that she would be

talked and we decided that she would be my next case study we were going to

my next case study we were going to

my next case study we were going to explore the possibility of helping her

explore the possibility of helping her

explore the possibility of helping her launch her own tea brand along the way

launch her own tea brand along the way

launch her own tea brand along the way we met other people that join in the

we met other people that join in the

we met other people that join in the story people who I’d like to refer to as

story people who I’d like to refer to as

story people who I’d like to refer to as the heroes of this story I met an

the heroes of this story I met an

the heroes of this story I met an incredible graphic designer who designed

incredible graphic designer who designed

incredible graphic designer who designed the logo and branding for neelu tea a

the logo and branding for neelu tea a

the logo and branding for neelu tea a non-profit guru who helps to keep nila

non-profit guru who helps to keep nila

non-profit guru who helps to keep nila chicas business separate from her

chicas business separate from her

chicas business separate from her nonprofit work a Dream Maker disguised

nonprofit work a Dream Maker disguised

nonprofit work a Dream Maker disguised as a tea producer and a patient and wise

as a tea producer and a patient and wise

as a tea producer and a patient and wise mentor who keeps me saying everybody

mentor who keeps me saying everybody

mentor who keeps me saying everybody needs a coach so even the coach got a

needs a coach so even the coach got a

needs a coach so even the coach got a cup coach in July I trap Srilanka to

cup coach in July I trap Srilanka to

cup coach in July I trap Srilanka to meet with their tea producers and take

meet with their tea producers and take

meet with their tea producers and take our own stock images up until this point

our own stock images up until this point

our own stock images up until this point I had been using stock images I’d found

I had been using stock images I’d found

I had been using stock images I’d found on the internet and my knowledge of tea

on the internet and my knowledge of tea

on the internet and my knowledge of tea production and my visuals of what our

production and my visuals of what our

production and my visuals of what our branding would be looking like was based

branding would be looking like was based

branding would be looking like was based on what I found on the Internet so our

on what I found on the Internet so our

on what I found on the Internet so our tea producer arranged for us to visit a

tea producer arranged for us to visit a

tea producer arranged for us to visit a tea factory where we learned all there

tea factory where we learned all there

tea factory where we learned all there is to learn about tea ever since taking

is to learn about tea ever since taking

is to learn about tea ever since taking that tour tea tastes so much better

that tour tea tastes so much better

that tour tea tastes so much better because I recognize and I remember all

because I recognize and I remember all

because I recognize and I remember all the hands it touches from garden to cup

the hands it touches from garden to cup

the hands it touches from garden to cup quite a remarkable experience after our

quite a remarkable experience after our

quite a remarkable experience after our tour of the factory we were invited to

tour of the factory we were invited to

tour of the factory we were invited to go out to the tea gardens where we could

go out to the tea gardens where we could

go out to the tea gardens where we could meet the tea pickers who had inspired

meet the tea pickers who had inspired

meet the tea pickers who had inspired our logo our branding and basically the

our logo our branding and basically the

our logo our branding and basically the vision and values for neelu tea as a

vision and values for neelu tea as a

vision and values for neelu tea as a photographer for me this was a highlight

photographer for me this was a highlight

photographer for me this was a highlight in my career it was absolutely enjoyable

in my career it was absolutely enjoyable

in my career it was absolutely enjoyable to be up in the mountains and create

to be up in the mountains and create

to be up in the mountains and create images that were absolutely satisfying

images that were absolutely satisfying

images that were absolutely satisfying we decided to spend a little bit of time

we decided to spend a little bit of time

we decided to spend a little bit of time with them and as we were getting to know

with them and as we were getting to know

with them and as we were getting to know each other I suggested Tennille ashika

each other I suggested Tennille ashika

each other I suggested Tennille ashika that she should show what the actual

that she should show what the actual

that she should show what the actual branding and logo looked like one thing

branding and logo looked like one thing

branding and logo looked like one thing is to describe

is to describe

is to describe what it looked like and another is to

what it looked like and another is to

what it looked like and another is to say this is what it looks like

say this is what it looks like

say this is what it looks like so I happen to have a printout of the

so I happen to have a printout of the

so I happen to have a printout of the cover page for our marketing

cover page for our marketing

cover page for our marketing presentation I took it out and I gave it

presentation I took it out and I gave it

presentation I took it out and I gave it to Neelu and I said Neelu you should

to Neelu and I said Neelu you should

to Neelu and I said Neelu you should show it so she did and she starts to do

show it so she did and she starts to do

show it so she did and she starts to do that a woman in the group shouts we know

that a woman in the group shouts we know

that a woman in the group shouts we know this woman this is Nita mother and she’s

this woman this is Nita mother and she’s

this woman this is Nita mother and she’s referring to the woman in the image of

referring to the woman in the image of

referring to the woman in the image of course that could not be that just

course that could not be that just

course that could not be that just doesn’t happen I’m still getting

doesn’t happen I’m still getting

doesn’t happen I’m still getting goosebumps because I remember how

goosebumps because I remember how

goosebumps because I remember how incredible that moment was eventually

incredible that moment was eventually

incredible that moment was eventually someone went looking for this woman who

someone went looking for this woman who

someone went looking for this woman who they thought was new Tamela and as we’re

they thought was new Tamela and as we’re

they thought was new Tamela and as we’re waiting we’re all full of anxiety

waiting we’re all full of anxiety

waiting we’re all full of anxiety because there’s so many things you know

because there’s so many things you know

because there’s so many things you know this woman could look like the image but

this woman could look like the image but

this woman could look like the image but not really be near mother when she

not really be near mother when she

not really be near mother when she arrives Neelu shows her the image and

arrives Neelu shows her the image and

arrives Neelu shows her the image and asks is this year when Nita my last saw

asks is this year when Nita my last saw

asks is this year when Nita my last saw her image she cried

her image she cried

her image she cried we all cried ever since I came back to

we all cried ever since I came back to

we all cried ever since I came back to Singapore after that trip I spent two

Singapore after that trip I spent two

Singapore after that trip I spent two days in bed crying because I could not

days in bed crying because I could not

days in bed crying because I could not comprehend how it could happen but it

comprehend how it could happen but it

comprehend how it could happen but it did there’s a before marry in an after

did there’s a before marry in an after

did there’s a before marry in an after marry after this moment because I’ve

marry after this moment because I’ve

marry after this moment because I’ve been a photographer since the age of 13

been a photographer since the age of 13

been a photographer since the age of 13 but this was the first time I could see

but this was the first time I could see

but this was the first time I could see with my heart and that’s really not easy

with my heart and that’s really not easy

with my heart and that’s really not easy to comprehend so what do you call this

to comprehend so what do you call this

to comprehend so what do you call this serendipity coincidence God they’re

serendipity coincidence God they’re

serendipity coincidence God they’re stars aligning to create a moment out of

stars aligning to create a moment out of

stars aligning to create a moment out of the 1 million possibilities when I

the 1 million possibilities when I

the 1 million possibilities when I search for tea picker I was given 1

search for tea picker I was given 1

search for tea picker I was given 1 million possibilities and out of those

million possibilities and out of those

million possibilities and out of those million possibilities I chose this image

million possibilities I chose this image

million possibilities I chose this image and now this image returned to the

and now this image returned to the

and now this image returned to the mountain where it was originally taken

mountain where it was originally taken

mountain where it was originally taken the sum of all my actions all my

the sum of all my actions all my

the sum of all my actions all my decisions all my good days my bad days

decisions all my good days my bad days

decisions all my good days my bad days my doubts my fears took me to a moment

my doubts my fears took me to a moment

my doubts my fears took me to a moment where I realized that I was meant to be

where I realized that I was meant to be

where I realized that I was meant to be there and I was doing exactly what I was

there and I was doing exactly what I was

there and I was doing exactly what I was meant to do if there is a way to measure

meant to do if there is a way to measure

meant to do if there is a way to measure the impact of our actions in our

the impact of our actions in our

the impact of our actions in our decisions that was it the message was

decisions that was it the message was

decisions that was it the message was clear we are all connected when I see

clear we are all connected when I see

clear we are all connected when I see this image I see Neelu realizing a dream

this image I see Neelu realizing a dream

this image I see Neelu realizing a dream I see a photographer’s work going full

I see a photographer’s work going full

I see a photographer’s work going full circle when the image took return to the

circle when the image took return to the

circle when the image took return to the mountain to the woman in that image

mountain to the woman in that image

mountain to the woman in that image I see the TED platform and the reason

I see the TED platform and the reason

I see the TED platform and the reason why it exists and how stories have the

why it exists and how stories have the

why it exists and how stories have the power to motivate us to go outside of

power to motivate us to go outside of

power to motivate us to go outside of our comfort zones but the most important

our comfort zones but the most important

our comfort zones but the most important thing that I saw or that I continued to

thing that I saw or that I continued to

thing that I saw or that I continued to see with that image is that I didn’t do

see with that image is that I didn’t do

see with that image is that I didn’t do it alone and that is the greatest

it alone and that is the greatest

it alone and that is the greatest feeling in the world good stories are

feeling in the world good stories are

feeling in the world good stories are out there and like beacons they’re

out there and like beacons they’re

out there and like beacons they’re sending invitations in the hopes that a

sending invitations in the hopes that a

sending invitations in the hopes that a game-changer takes the bait they want to

game-changer takes the bait they want to

game-changer takes the bait they want to meet you halfway but you have to take a

meet you halfway but you have to take a

meet you halfway but you have to take a journey you have to go and discover

journey you have to go and discover

journey you have to go and discover yourself you have to discover the power

yourself you have to discover the power

yourself you have to discover the power that you have to create you have to

that you have to create you have to

that you have to create you have to discover who you are and your

discover who you are and your

discover who you are and your limitations perhaps you’ll discover that

limitations perhaps you’ll discover that

limitations perhaps you’ll discover that you have none every motivational quote

you have none every motivational quote

you have none every motivational quote out there has some truth to it

out there has some truth to it

out there has some truth to it they’re fragments of a universal

they’re fragments of a universal

they’re fragments of a universal language and wisdom that comes through

language and wisdom that comes through

language and wisdom that comes through when a person like myself experiences a

when a person like myself experiences a

when a person like myself experiences a glimpse of their life purpose up on top

glimpse of their life purpose up on top

glimpse of their life purpose up on top of that mountain there was a 13 year old

of that mountain there was a 13 year old

of that mountain there was a 13 year old girl who was absolutely excited that 25

girl who was absolutely excited that 25

girl who was absolutely excited that 25 years later she had created an image

years later she had created an image

years later she had created an image that beautiful they’re also my doubts

that beautiful they’re also my doubts

that beautiful they’re also my doubts and my fears along with me

and my fears along with me

and my fears along with me there was also passion my mistakes they

there was also passion my mistakes they

there was also passion my mistakes they were all there standing right next to me

were all there standing right next to me

were all there standing right next to me and together we created something

and together we created something

and together we created something absolutely fantastic

there are 2,000 stories in this room

there are 2,000 stories in this room which one are you going to be part of

which one are you going to be part of

which one are you going to be part of because I believe that today you decide

because I believe that today you decide

because I believe that today you decide what happens next

what happens next

what happens next thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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