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so maybe we meet in an elevator maybe

so maybe we meet in an elevator maybe we’re in line at the grocery store and

we’re in line at the grocery store and

we’re in line at the grocery store and it feels like we’ve both been there a

it feels like we’ve both been there a

it feels like we’ve both been there a really long time oh really

really long time oh really

really long time oh really only two people in the waiting room at

only two people in the waiting room at

only two people in the waiting room at the doctor’s office and the magazine

the doctor’s office and the magazine

the doctor’s office and the magazine selection sucks so here we are

selection sucks so here we are

selection sucks so here we are or maybe I’m standing in front of you

or maybe I’m standing in front of you

or maybe I’m standing in front of you wearing a paper mache mask in the shape

wearing a paper mache mask in the shape

wearing a paper mache mask in the shape of a coyote skull and you have no idea

of a coyote skull and you have no idea

of a coyote skull and you have no idea why so we may as well break the ice now

why so we may as well break the ice now

why so we may as well break the ice now you ask me what I do and what you means

you ask me what I do and what you means

you ask me what I do and what you means I mean by that is what do I do for a

I mean by that is what do I do for a

I mean by that is what do I do for a living and by living you want to know do

living and by living you want to know do

living and by living you want to know do I have a career and made that what

I have a career and made that what

I have a career and made that what you’re asking me is what is my

you’re asking me is what is my

you’re asking me is what is my measurable value as a person and society

measurable value as a person and society

measurable value as a person and society and when that man in the elevator asks

and when that man in the elevator asks

and when that man in the elevator asks for my phone number he always does I

for my phone number he always does I

for my phone number he always does I notice he’s wearing a really nice watch

notice he’s wearing a really nice watch

notice he’s wearing a really nice watch and his boots are polished and I think

and his boots are polished and I think

and his boots are polished and I think to myself he would take me to a trendy

to myself he would take me to a trendy

to myself he would take me to a trendy upscale restaurant on a first date it’d

upscale restaurant on a first date it’d

upscale restaurant on a first date it’d be one of those places that serves

be one of those places that serves

be one of those places that serves fusion food and the cocktails would be

fusion food and the cocktails would be

fusion food and the cocktails would be 30 bucks a pop and he would sit across

30 bucks a pop and he would sit across

30 bucks a pop and he would sit across from one another speaking in code about

from one another speaking in code about

from one another speaking in code about what kind of investment each of us was

what kind of investment each of us was

what kind of investment each of us was and I was almost married someone because

and I was almost married someone because

and I was almost married someone because I was so astonished at his ability to be

I was so astonished at his ability to be

I was so astonished at his ability to be a high-rolling successful professional

a high-rolling successful professional

a high-rolling successful professional and an alcoholic at the same time but I

and an alcoholic at the same time but I

and an alcoholic at the same time but I mistook that astonishment for love and

mistook that astonishment for love and

mistook that astonishment for love and as he punched holes in the wall next to

as he punched holes in the wall next to

as he punched holes in the wall next to my head I said to myself he has a good

my head I said to myself he has a good

my head I said to myself he has a good job and once my mother you love mother

job and once my mother you love mother

job and once my mother you love mother stories right we all do my mother was so

stories right we all do my mother was so

stories right we all do my mother was so embarrassed to tell the neighbors that

embarrassed to tell the neighbors that

embarrassed to tell the neighbors that kept relocating that I couldn’t just

kept relocating that I couldn’t just

kept relocating that I couldn’t just pick one place and set down roots maybe

pick one place and set down roots maybe

pick one place and set down roots maybe like buy a house find a husband

like buy a house find a husband

like buy a house find a husband something that people are supposed to do

something that people are supposed to do

something that people are supposed to do she said it made me appear unstable and

she said it made me appear unstable and

she said it made me appear unstable and I was like mom I am unstable in fact I

I was like mom I am unstable in fact I

I was like mom I am unstable in fact I prefer it that way it’s more fun for me

prefer it that way it’s more fun for me

prefer it that way it’s more fun for me but what she needed to tell the

but what she needed to tell the

but what she needed to tell the neighbors the neighbors whose names I

neighbors the neighbors whose names I

neighbors the neighbors whose names I didn’t even know she had to tell them

didn’t even know she had to tell them

didn’t even know she had to tell them that I had a job and it wasn’t that

that I had a job and it wasn’t that

that I had a job and it wasn’t that anyone was especially worried about my

anyone was especially worried about my

anyone was especially worried about my survival or my ability to pay my bills

survival or my ability to pay my bills

survival or my ability to pay my bills it was that that was how I was being

it was that that was how I was being

it was that that was how I was being measured as a person in the world that’s

measured as a person in the world that’s

measured as a person in the world that’s where my value was coming from a night I

where my value was coming from a night I

where my value was coming from a night I had a job but also that was the year I

had a job but also that was the year I

had a job but also that was the year I started writing again and I was making

started writing again and I was making

started writing again and I was making beautiful things and nobody asked me

beautiful things and nobody asked me

beautiful things and nobody asked me what I loved I think about the neighbors

what I loved I think about the neighbors

what I loved I think about the neighbors oh god the neighbors what will the

oh god the neighbors what will the

oh god the neighbors what will the neighbors think

neighbors think

neighbors think and the neighbors is everybody we ever

and the neighbors is everybody we ever

and the neighbors is everybody we ever encounter who we feel we have to explain

encounter who we feel we have to explain

encounter who we feel we have to explain ourselves to right and neighbors are in

ourselves to right and neighbors are in

ourselves to right and neighbors are in all the elevators they’re in traffic

all the elevators they’re in traffic

all the elevators they’re in traffic with us they’re in the office three

with us they’re in the office three

with us they’re in the office three doors down the neighbors are everywhere

doors down the neighbors are everywhere

doors down the neighbors are everywhere and we have this pressure of being

and we have this pressure of being

and we have this pressure of being observed and then we start to

observed and then we start to

observed and then we start to compartmentalize ourselves and when we

compartmentalize ourselves and when we

compartmentalize ourselves and when we are compartmentalizing ourselves we

are compartmentalizing ourselves we

are compartmentalizing ourselves we can’t help but compartmentalize that one

can’t help but compartmentalize that one

can’t help but compartmentalize that one another and I said this to someone once

another and I said this to someone once

another and I said this to someone once and he said Nina you’re just a free

and he said Nina you’re just a free

and he said Nina you’re just a free spirit I don’t know what that means

spirit I don’t know what that means

spirit I don’t know what that means though I’m not a free spirit I don’t

though I’m not a free spirit I don’t

though I’m not a free spirit I don’t know what that is nothing about me is

know what that is nothing about me is

know what that is nothing about me is free I’m not untethered I’m not gonna

free I’m not untethered I’m not gonna

free I’m not untethered I’m not gonna float away if you want to anchor me I’m

float away if you want to anchor me I’m

float away if you want to anchor me I’m not free I’m bound I am bound so tightly

not free I’m bound I am bound so tightly

not free I’m bound I am bound so tightly two things that I believe in and things

two things that I believe in and things

two things that I believe in and things that I am building and people that I

that I am building and people that I

that I am building and people that I love I’m also not a free spirit really

love I’m also not a free spirit really

love I’m also not a free spirit really because I have all of these walls built

because I have all of these walls built

because I have all of these walls built around me and they’re walls that are

around me and they’re walls that are

around me and they’re walls that are built out of criteria based on these

built out of criteria based on these

built out of criteria based on these expectations

expectations

expectations and the expectation cuz they get weird

and the expectation cuz they get weird

and the expectation cuz they get weird like how long do I have to wait to text

like how long do I have to wait to text

like how long do I have to wait to text after a first date expectations about

after a first date expectations about

after a first date expectations about like what work means or what is a real

like what work means or what is a real

like what work means or what is a real job like being a CEO is more valid than

job like being a CEO is more valid than

job like being a CEO is more valid than being a bartender real expectations

being a bartender real expectations

being a bartender real expectations about being a nice girl whether or not I

about being a nice girl whether or not I

about being a nice girl whether or not I have to be a nice girl expectations

have to be a nice girl expectations

have to be a nice girl expectations about what I am allowed to give

about what I am allowed to give

about what I am allowed to give expectations about what I’m allowed to

expectations about what I’m allowed to

expectations about what I’m allowed to ask before I’m gonna ask you for

ask before I’m gonna ask you for

ask before I’m gonna ask you for something though I want to ask you for a

something though I want to ask you for a

something though I want to ask you for a moment if you can stop measuring

moment if you can stop measuring

moment if you can stop measuring yourself measuring yourself by things

yourself measuring yourself by things

yourself measuring yourself by things like approval ratings your mortgage

like approval ratings your mortgage

like approval ratings your mortgage credit score is what kind of car you

credit score is what kind of car you

credit score is what kind of car you drive which neighborhood you live in

drive which neighborhood you live in

drive which neighborhood you live in I wanna ask you if you believe that this

I wanna ask you if you believe that this

I wanna ask you if you believe that this structure is are really here for us if

structure is are really here for us if

structure is are really here for us if you think that this structure was here

you think that this structure was here

you think that this structure was here to make you whole I want to ask you if

to make you whole I want to ask you if

to make you whole I want to ask you if you feel whole do you believe that you

you feel whole do you believe that you

you feel whole do you believe that you could be whole and I want to ask you if

could be whole and I want to ask you if

could be whole and I want to ask you if you’re ready for me to take this mask

you’re ready for me to take this mask

you’re ready for me to take this mask off yet that is not rhetorical I will

off yet that is not rhetorical I will

off yet that is not rhetorical I will keep asking you are you ready for me to

keep asking you are you ready for me to

keep asking you are you ready for me to take this mask off I don’t think you are

take this mask off I don’t think you are

take this mask off I don’t think you are I don’t think you’re ready yet it’s like

I don’t think you’re ready yet it’s like

I don’t think you’re ready yet it’s like this okay so we live in these glass

this okay so we live in these glass

this okay so we live in these glass houses we’ve all heard about glass

houses we’ve all heard about glass

houses we’ve all heard about glass houses right it’s a thing we always talk

houses right it’s a thing we always talk

houses right it’s a thing we always talk about them and we’re in these rows so

about them and we’re in these rows so

about them and we’re in these rows so we’re neighbors we are the neighbors all

we’re neighbors we are the neighbors all

we’re neighbors we are the neighbors all of us are the neighbors we’re all

of us are the neighbors we’re all

of us are the neighbors we’re all dreaded neighbors and we can we can see

dreaded neighbors and we can we can see

dreaded neighbors and we can we can see through the walls right so because we

through the walls right so because we

through the walls right so because we can see through the walls we can see

can see through the walls we can see

can see through the walls we can see each other we have this pressure on us

each other we have this pressure on us

each other we have this pressure on us if I was appearing very well ironed and

if I was appearing very well ironed and

if I was appearing very well ironed and very well put together and because we

very well put together and because we

very well put together and because we can see each other we have this illusion

can see each other we have this illusion

can see each other we have this illusion of

of

of with each other but when we put our

with each other but when we put our

with each other but when we put our hands out i just rising our palms

hands out i just rising our palms

hands out i just rising our palms against glass if we’re not touching each

against glass if we’re not touching each

against glass if we’re not touching each other how do we know anyone else is

other how do we know anyone else is

other how do we know anyone else is really there and now here we are with

really there and now here we are with

really there and now here we are with this fabricated illusion of connection

this fabricated illusion of connection

this fabricated illusion of connection where we don’t have any kind of real

where we don’t have any kind of real

where we don’t have any kind of real connection at all and all of these

connection at all and all of these

connection at all and all of these conversations are happening in all of

conversations are happening in all of

conversations are happening in all of these circles about the way that

these circles about the way that

these circles about the way that loneliness is killing us so we’re just

loneliness is killing us so we’re just

loneliness is killing us so we’re just moving along on these like conveyer

moving along on these like conveyer

moving along on these like conveyer belts in our glass houses and why are we

belts in our glass houses and why are we

belts in our glass houses and why are we doing it we’re doing it because we have

doing it we’re doing it because we have

doing it we’re doing it because we have been told that we must we’ve been told

been told that we must we’ve been told

been told that we must we’ve been told that if we play it safe if we play our

that if we play it safe if we play our

that if we play it safe if we play our cards close to our chests we’re gonna

cards close to our chests we’re gonna

cards close to our chests we’re gonna get ahead we’re getting ahead we’re

get ahead we’re getting ahead we’re

get ahead we’re getting ahead we’re gonna be respected if we were respected

gonna be respected if we were respected

gonna be respected if we were respected we’re gonna be well-liked and then we

we’re gonna be well-liked and then we

we’re gonna be well-liked and then we won’t be alone but what are we getting

won’t be alone but what are we getting

won’t be alone but what are we getting ahead of what are we getting ahead of

ahead of what are we getting ahead of

ahead of what are we getting ahead of and does anybody ask you what you love

and does anybody ask you what you love

and does anybody ask you what you love if we’re gonna connect we have to push

if we’re gonna connect we have to push

if we’re gonna connect we have to push through that glass and we live in a

through that glass and we live in a

through that glass and we live in a world that says don’t let them see you

world that says don’t let them see you

world that says don’t let them see you bleed and this is gonna hurt what would

bleed and this is gonna hurt what would

bleed and this is gonna hurt what would your tinder profile say if you were

your tinder profile say if you were

your tinder profile say if you were telling the truth okay so mine would say

telling the truth okay so mine would say

telling the truth okay so mine would say you ready for this it’s real good mine

you ready for this it’s real good mine

you ready for this it’s real good mine would say that um Oh sometimes they stop

would say that um Oh sometimes they stop

would say that um Oh sometimes they stop eating for days and I once starved

eating for days and I once starved

eating for days and I once starved myself until I had a 24 inch waist and

myself until I had a 24 inch waist and

myself until I had a 24 inch waist and it didn’t make me happy mine would say

it didn’t make me happy mine would say

it didn’t make me happy mine would say that I have commitment issues and

that I have commitment issues and

that I have commitment issues and irrational fears and that sometimes I

irrational fears and that sometimes I

irrational fears and that sometimes I have trouble sleeping and I have really

have trouble sleeping and I have really

have trouble sleeping and I have really big issues with overripe bananas and I

big issues with overripe bananas and I

big issues with overripe bananas and I get mascara all over the pillowcases and

get mascara all over the pillowcases and

get mascara all over the pillowcases and maybe maybe sometimes

maybe maybe sometimes

maybe maybe sometimes try to cut and run a little too soon

try to cut and run a little too soon

try to cut and run a little too soon mine would also say that I love really

mine would also say that I love really

mine would also say that I love really big that I’m devoted and that I am

big that I’m devoted and that I am

big that I’m devoted and that I am mostly gentle and then if I love you I’m

mostly gentle and then if I love you I’m

mostly gentle and then if I love you I’m always always going to believe you

always always going to believe you

always always going to believe you instead my tinder profile says that I am

instead my tinder profile says that I am

instead my tinder profile says that I am a witty writer who enjoys peeling small

a witty writer who enjoys peeling small

a witty writer who enjoys peeling small citrus fruits and when I’m feeling

citrus fruits and when I’m feeling

citrus fruits and when I’m feeling especially revealing I like to talk

especially revealing I like to talk

especially revealing I like to talk about my love of Russian literature are

about my love of Russian literature are

about my love of Russian literature are you ready for me to take this mask off

you ready for me to take this mask off

you ready for me to take this mask off yet so this one time a man threw a beer

yet so this one time a man threw a beer

yet so this one time a man threw a beer bottle at me from across the street well

bottle at me from across the street well

bottle at me from across the street well I was minding my own business in the

I was minding my own business in the

I was minding my own business in the middle of an afternoon holding a cup of

middle of an afternoon holding a cup of

middle of an afternoon holding a cup of coffee and as this bottle came flying

coffee and as this bottle came flying

coffee and as this bottle came flying toward me he yelled go read some more of

toward me he yelled go read some more of

toward me he yelled go read some more of your shitty poetry bitch the loudest

your shitty poetry bitch the loudest

your shitty poetry bitch the loudest sound was all that glass shattering at

sound was all that glass shattering at

sound was all that glass shattering at my feet and he just kept walking and I

my feet and he just kept walking and I

my feet and he just kept walking and I cried definitely stood there in the

cried definitely stood there in the

cried definitely stood there in the street crying and it’s been 14 years and

street crying and it’s been 14 years and

street crying and it’s been 14 years and I’m still afraid of him but mostly I

I’m still afraid of him but mostly I

I’m still afraid of him but mostly I wonder if he’s okay because these days

wonder if he’s okay because these days

wonder if he’s okay because these days it seems like nobody is okay and nobody

it seems like nobody is okay and nobody

it seems like nobody is okay and nobody knows what to do with a grown woman

knows what to do with a grown woman

knows what to do with a grown woman standing in the street holding a cup of

standing in the street holding a cup of

standing in the street holding a cup of coffee crying over a beer bottle in the

coffee crying over a beer bottle in the

coffee crying over a beer bottle in the middle of the afternoon on a Tuesday but

middle of the afternoon on a Tuesday but

middle of the afternoon on a Tuesday but why and why was I so ashamed to not have

why and why was I so ashamed to not have

why and why was I so ashamed to not have been impermeable I was more embarrassed

been impermeable I was more embarrassed

been impermeable I was more embarrassed that I was affected than that a guy

that I was affected than that a guy

that I was affected than that a guy yelled at me in the street and threw a

yelled at me in the street and threw a

yelled at me in the street and threw a bottle at me but why you asked me what

bottle at me but why you asked me what

bottle at me but why you asked me what what I do and what I want to say

as I don’t know what I’m doing and

as I don’t know what I’m doing and neither do you and we’re just we’re

neither do you and we’re just we’re

neither do you and we’re just we’re standing here with this list of things

standing here with this list of things

standing here with this list of things were supposed to recite to one another

were supposed to recite to one another

were supposed to recite to one another and my gut instinct is I want you to

and my gut instinct is I want you to

and my gut instinct is I want you to think that I’m beautiful I want you to

think that I’m beautiful I want you to

think that I’m beautiful I want you to think that I am to cool and to collect

think that I am to cool and to collect

think that I am to cool and to collect it be worried or nervous or lose my

it be worried or nervous or lose my

it be worried or nervous or lose my footing but we are in this together and

footing but we are in this together and

footing but we are in this together and I don’t want us to do it that way I once

I don’t want us to do it that way I once

I don’t want us to do it that way I once wear this mask in a carnival but we’re

wear this mask in a carnival but we’re

wear this mask in a carnival but we’re gonna talk about that in a moment

gonna talk about that in a moment

gonna talk about that in a moment I wrote this talk four times no I wrote

I wrote this talk four times no I wrote

I wrote this talk four times no I wrote this talk like seven or eight times

this talk like seven or eight times

this talk like seven or eight times possibly ten and by around seven or

possibly ten and by around seven or

possibly ten and by around seven or eight I realized that I had been trying

eight I realized that I had been trying

eight I realized that I had been trying desperately to give the whole thing this

desperately to give the whole thing this

desperately to give the whole thing this air of academic legitimacy with things

air of academic legitimacy with things

air of academic legitimacy with things like statistics about social isolation

like statistics about social isolation

like statistics about social isolation and Oh dictionary definitions for words

and Oh dictionary definitions for words

and Oh dictionary definitions for words like bravery or authenticity or radical

like bravery or authenticity or radical

like bravery or authenticity or radical our vulnerability then I realized I’d

our vulnerability then I realized I’d

our vulnerability then I realized I’d stripped my whole soul out of it I

stripped my whole soul out of it I

stripped my whole soul out of it I thought of standing here without asking

thought of standing here without asking

thought of standing here without asking you to let me fall in love with you was

you to let me fall in love with you was

you to let me fall in love with you was horrifying why can’t I just remind you

horrifying why can’t I just remind you

horrifying why can’t I just remind you that we need each other I don’t need to

that we need each other I don’t need to

that we need each other I don’t need to tell you why you already know it you

tell you why you already know it you

tell you why you already know it you already know that we need each other

already know that we need each other

already know that we need each other because you have been told to pull

because you have been told to pull

because you have been told to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and

yourself up by the bootstraps and

yourself up by the bootstraps and sometimes when you are alone very late

sometimes when you are alone very late

sometimes when you are alone very late at night that is a very heavy thought I

at night that is a very heavy thought I

at night that is a very heavy thought I don’t need to explain to you that we

don’t need to explain to you that we

don’t need to explain to you that we need each other because in case of flood

need each other because in case of flood

need each other because in case of flood or fire or hurricane ER and perhaps the

or fire or hurricane ER and perhaps the

or fire or hurricane ER and perhaps the event where you need to flee your home

event where you need to flee your home

event where you need to flee your home country and seek refuge elsewhere you

country and seek refuge elsewhere you

country and seek refuge elsewhere you don’t know that I will help you I don’t

don’t know that I will help you I don’t

don’t know that I will help you I don’t need to explain to you that we need each

need to explain to you that we need each

need to explain to you that we need each other because you already are worried

other because you already are worried

other because you already are worried that you’re not

that you’re not

that you’re not enough I don’t need to explain to you

enough I don’t need to explain to you

enough I don’t need to explain to you that we need each other because you

that we need each other because you

that we need each other because you already know the gravity of it already

already know the gravity of it already

already know the gravity of it already haunts you so this carnival it was a

haunts you so this carnival it was a

haunts you so this carnival it was a carnival of the absurd and we invited

carnival of the absurd and we invited

carnival of the absurd and we invited participants to come and meet creatures

participants to come and meet creatures

participants to come and meet creatures one after the other and we would ask

one after the other and we would ask

one after the other and we would ask them questions questions like what do

them questions questions like what do

them questions questions like what do you love questions like what lie are you

you love questions like what lie are you

you love questions like what lie are you telling questions like what do you think

telling questions like what do you think

telling questions like what do you think of when you look at the night sky and I

of when you look at the night sky and I

of when you look at the night sky and I realized at some point that it was not a

realized at some point that it was not a

realized at some point that it was not a theatre that I was participating in so

theatre that I was participating in so

theatre that I was participating in so much as a reaching for people reaching

much as a reaching for people reaching

much as a reaching for people reaching because when you reach for people people

because when you reach for people people

because when you reach for people people will reach back for you because we want

will reach back for you because we want

will reach back for you because we want to because we will because we need to

to because we will because we need to

to because we will because we need to push through that glass and everytime

push through that glass and everytime

push through that glass and everytime you participate in acts of vulnerability

you participate in acts of vulnerability

you participate in acts of vulnerability you are choosing to make more room for

you are choosing to make more room for

you are choosing to make more room for your own authenticity I once watched one

your own authenticity I once watched one

your own authenticity I once watched one man console another man

man console another man

man console another man by holding his friend in his arms while

by holding his friend in his arms while

by holding his friend in his arms while his friend wept and I think it was maybe

his friend wept and I think it was maybe

his friend wept and I think it was maybe one of the most beautiful things I’ve

one of the most beautiful things I’ve

one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen

ever seen

ever seen I thought of what it meant to to bridge

I thought of what it meant to to bridge

I thought of what it meant to to bridge that gap in a culture that tells our

that gap in a culture that tells our

that gap in a culture that tells our boys to man up in a culture that shames

boys to man up in a culture that shames

boys to man up in a culture that shames the sharing of affection and emotions

the sharing of affection and emotions

the sharing of affection and emotions between men and I thought about how each

between men and I thought about how each

between men and I thought about how each of them knew in that moment that he was

of them knew in that moment that he was

of them knew in that moment that he was not alone

not alone

not alone and of what knowing

and of what knowing

and of what knowing that means and of why it is worth it

that means and of why it is worth it

that means and of why it is worth it even though it hurts and is scary how

even though it hurts and is scary how

even though it hurts and is scary how could you ever build that kind of

could you ever build that kind of

could you ever build that kind of connection on the back of a status quo

so there’s masks it’s another structure

so there’s masks it’s another structure structures can be wonderful things until

structures can be wonderful things until

structures can be wonderful things until we begin to forget that we have a shape

we begin to forget that we have a shape

we begin to forget that we have a shape outside of those structures you have a

outside of those structures you have a

outside of those structures you have a shape everyone around you has a shape

shape everyone around you has a shape

shape everyone around you has a shape and every time you choose your own

and every time you choose your own

and every time you choose your own authenticity you are making a room for

authenticity you are making a room for

authenticity you are making a room for the authenticity and others when you say

the authenticity and others when you say

the authenticity and others when you say this is where it hurts you’re opening

this is where it hurts you’re opening

this is where it hurts you’re opening the door for somebody else to face you

the door for somebody else to face you

the door for somebody else to face you and say I hurt there too and you are

and say I hurt there too and you are

and say I hurt there too and you are worthy of that kind of connection we’re

worthy of that kind of connection we’re

worthy of that kind of connection we’re all worthy of that kind of connection

all worthy of that kind of connection

all worthy of that kind of connection every act of vulnerability is it direct

every act of vulnerability is it direct

every act of vulnerability is it direct rebellion to a status quo that tells you

rebellion to a status quo that tells you

rebellion to a status quo that tells you that your value lies on paper your value

that your value lies on paper your value

that your value lies on paper your value doesn’t lie on paper your value cannot

doesn’t lie on paper your value cannot

doesn’t lie on paper your value cannot be measured you cannot be measured so we

be measured you cannot be measured so we

be measured you cannot be measured so we have these choices every day we we have

have these choices every day we we have

have these choices every day we we have a choice to choose bravery and

a choice to choose bravery and

a choice to choose bravery and authenticity to choose to refuse to

authenticity to choose to refuse to

authenticity to choose to refuse to allow ourselves to be harnessed by

allow ourselves to be harnessed by

allow ourselves to be harnessed by indivisible criteria and questions about

indivisible criteria and questions about

indivisible criteria and questions about our day jobs when we are so much more

our day jobs when we are so much more

our day jobs when we are so much more profound than that and I’m gonna choose

profound than that and I’m gonna choose

profound than that and I’m gonna choose you

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