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Finding Myself Through Living Abroad | Sophia Toledo | TEDxDaeguInternationalSchool


when I lived in America I was constantly

when I lived in America I was constantly surrounded by different cultures and

surrounded by different cultures and

surrounded by different cultures and people I lived in Miami Florida a place

people I lived in Miami Florida a place

people I lived in Miami Florida a place with a large Hispanic population I am

with a large Hispanic population I am

with a large Hispanic population I am Cuban and a majority of the people there

Cuban and a majority of the people there

Cuban and a majority of the people there are also Cuban however there are also

are also Cuban however there are also

are also Cuban however there are also many people from different countries

many people from different countries

many people from different countries like Puerto Rico to Colombia two

like Puerto Rico to Colombia two

like Puerto Rico to Colombia two countries in the Caribbean I grew up

countries in the Caribbean I grew up

countries in the Caribbean I grew up seeing this whole mix of cultures and in

seeing this whole mix of cultures and in

seeing this whole mix of cultures and in Miami it’s not hard to find one minute

Miami it’s not hard to find one minute

Miami it’s not hard to find one minute you can be walking down the streets of

you can be walking down the streets of

you can be walking down the streets of Little Havana in the next you’re in

Little Havana in the next you’re in

Little Havana in the next you’re in Little Haiti when I moved to Korea in

Little Haiti when I moved to Korea in

Little Haiti when I moved to Korea in 2013 I definitely fell out of place

2013 I definitely fell out of place

2013 I definitely fell out of place compared to my previous home there was a

compared to my previous home there was a

compared to my previous home there was a lack of cultural diversity and I barely

lack of cultural diversity and I barely

lack of cultural diversity and I barely saw any different people I remember

saw any different people I remember

saw any different people I remember walking down the streets of downtown

walking down the streets of downtown

walking down the streets of downtown rarely seeing any foreigners and while

rarely seeing any foreigners and while

rarely seeing any foreigners and while of course loved Korea when I first came

of course loved Korea when I first came

of course loved Korea when I first came here it still felt like something was

here it still felt like something was

here it still felt like something was missing when I first came I had the

missing when I first came I had the

missing when I first came I had the feeling of being stuck between two

feeling of being stuck between two

feeling of being stuck between two cultures and not really fitting into

cultures and not really fitting into

cultures and not really fitting into either of them typical of an

either of them typical of an

either of them typical of an international student when I was in

international student when I was in

international student when I was in Korea I felt that I needed to adapt to

Korea I felt that I needed to adapt to

Korea I felt that I needed to adapt to Korean culture and when I was in America

Korean culture and when I was in America

Korean culture and when I was in America I knew that it wouldn’t fit in with

I knew that it wouldn’t fit in with

I knew that it wouldn’t fit in with other kids my age who lived there I knew

other kids my age who lived there I knew

other kids my age who lived there I knew I could never fully fit in with either

I could never fully fit in with either

I could never fully fit in with either place however at first that was a big

place however at first that was a big

place however at first that was a big struggle of mine

struggle of mine

struggle of mine I knew I’d look different from my peers

I knew I’d look different from my peers

I knew I’d look different from my peers but I didn’t always want to be

but I didn’t always want to be

but I didn’t always want to be classified as the foreign girl last year

classified as the foreign girl last year

classified as the foreign girl last year I had the opportunity to participate in

I had the opportunity to participate in

I had the opportunity to participate in a soccer tournament in Seoul with the

a soccer tournament in Seoul with the

a soccer tournament in Seoul with the Busan International foreign school girls

Busan International foreign school girls

Busan International foreign school girls soccer team it was a three-day

soccer team it was a three-day

soccer team it was a three-day tournament and I was doing a homestay

tournament and I was doing a homestay

tournament and I was doing a homestay with a girl from a school in Seoul

with a girl from a school in Seoul

with a girl from a school in Seoul during it I played on a team with girls

during it I played on a team with girls

during it I played on a team with girls from Norway England Japan Korea and

from Norway England Japan Korea and

from Norway England Japan Korea and America and played against girls from

America and played against girls from

America and played against girls from schools in Japan and Pakistan sitting

schools in Japan and Pakistan sitting

schools in Japan and Pakistan sitting with the other girls on the team it was

with the other girls on the team it was

with the other girls on the team it was interesting to listen to different

interesting to listen to different

interesting to listen to different accents in different languages I hadn’t

accents in different languages I hadn’t

accents in different languages I hadn’t heard in person before everyone was so

heard in person before everyone was so

heard in person before everyone was so everyone was so nice and welcoming that

everyone was so nice and welcoming that

everyone was so nice and welcoming that I didn’t even I didn’t even remember

I didn’t even I didn’t even remember

I didn’t even I didn’t even remember that we were all different we got along

that we were all different we got along

that we were all different we got along just like any other group of people I

just like any other group of people I

just like any other group of people I wanted to share this story with you

wanted to share this story with you

wanted to share this story with you today because this is one of the many

today because this is one of the many

today because this is one of the many experiences I have been able to enjoy

experiences I have been able to enjoy

experiences I have been able to enjoy this living in Korea that has shaped Who

this living in Korea that has shaped Who

this living in Korea that has shaped Who I am today I have always been open to

I am today I have always been open to

I am today I have always been open to interacting with different people

interacting with different people

interacting with different people however I never had the chance to do so

however I never had the chance to do so

however I never had the chance to do so on the scale and living in Korea has

on the scale and living in Korea has

on the scale and living in Korea has been a much more international

been a much more international

been a much more international experience for me I see myself now as

experience for me I see myself now as

experience for me I see myself now as part of a

part of a

part of a global community rather than just as a

global community rather than just as a

global community rather than just as a member of the country I am in living

member of the country I am in living

member of the country I am in living abroad and traveling has changed how I

abroad and traveling has changed how I

abroad and traveling has changed how I view the world and my place it in I not

view the world and my place it in I not

view the world and my place it in I not only have a stronger connection to other

only have a stronger connection to other

only have a stronger connection to other cultures but an appreciation and not

cultures but an appreciation and not

cultures but an appreciation and not only have a stronger connection to my

only have a stronger connection to my

only have a stronger connection to my culture but an appreciation in

culture but an appreciation in

culture but an appreciation in connection to cultures other than my own

connection to cultures other than my own

connection to cultures other than my own for much of the time I have lived in

for much of the time I have lived in

for much of the time I have lived in Korea I would have never dreamed of

Korea I would have never dreamed of

Korea I would have never dreamed of doing half of the things I’ve been able

doing half of the things I’ve been able

doing half of the things I’ve been able to experience about two years ago I want

to experience about two years ago I want

to experience about two years ago I want an exchange trip to Guangzhou China and

an exchange trip to Guangzhou China and

an exchange trip to Guangzhou China and it was the first time I had traveled

it was the first time I had traveled

it was the first time I had traveled without my family and the first time I

without my family and the first time I

without my family and the first time I had participated in an exchange I got to

had participated in an exchange I got to

had participated in an exchange I got to live like a local in a city I had no

live like a local in a city I had no

live like a local in a city I had no previous knowledge of and that’s what

previous knowledge of and that’s what

previous knowledge of and that’s what made the experience so memorable for me

made the experience so memorable for me

made the experience so memorable for me I enjoyed having an authentic experience

I enjoyed having an authentic experience

I enjoyed having an authentic experience rather than sightseeing and I got to

rather than sightseeing and I got to

rather than sightseeing and I got to learn a lot about Guangzhou that I

learn a lot about Guangzhou that I

learn a lot about Guangzhou that I probably wouldn’t have been able to

probably wouldn’t have been able to

probably wouldn’t have been able to learn if I hadn’t done the exchange

learn if I hadn’t done the exchange

learn if I hadn’t done the exchange living under the same roof as a local

living under the same roof as a local

living under the same roof as a local from the city made it very easy for me

from the city made it very easy for me

from the city made it very easy for me to experience all aspects of the region

when I ignored my discomfort to immerse

when I ignored my discomfort to immerse myself in a new culture or even be

myself in a new culture or even be

myself in a new culture or even be exposed to it I was able to enjoy

exposed to it I was able to enjoy

exposed to it I was able to enjoy enriching experiences that I remember

enriching experiences that I remember

enriching experiences that I remember for the rest of my life I realize now

for the rest of my life I realize now

for the rest of my life I realize now that I don’t need to force myself to

that I don’t need to force myself to

that I don’t need to force myself to belong to anywhere and that I can still

belong to anywhere and that I can still

belong to anywhere and that I can still be a part of a global community while

be a part of a global community while

be a part of a global community while staying true to where I come from five

staying true to where I come from five

staying true to where I come from five years later as I look back at who I was

years later as I look back at who I was

years later as I look back at who I was when I first came to Korea I see a

when I first came to Korea I see a

when I first came to Korea I see a different person than Who I am today

different person than Who I am today

different person than Who I am today thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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