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Take Charge and Improve Yourself | Alex Nguyen | TEDxYouth@Langley


Hey

Hey lots of people day how’s everyone today

lots of people day how’s everyone today

lots of people day how’s everyone today so we’re gonna talk a little bit about

so we’re gonna talk a little bit about

so we’re gonna talk a little bit about today and I’m going to talk start off

today and I’m going to talk start off

today and I’m going to talk start off with the truth okay

with the truth okay

with the truth okay so many of you are not the person that

so many of you are not the person that

so many of you are not the person that you can and reviewing my slides I

you can and reviewing my slides I

you can and reviewing my slides I thought maybe it wasn’t the best idea

thought maybe it wasn’t the best idea

thought maybe it wasn’t the best idea maybe to accuse my audience but that’s

maybe to accuse my audience but that’s

maybe to accuse my audience but that’s not what I’m here to do what have you to

not what I’m here to do what have you to

not what I’m here to do what have you to do is to give you some information tell

do is to give you some information tell

do is to give you some information tell you a story and maybe just maybe

you a story and maybe just maybe

you a story and maybe just maybe hopefully I can spark an idea for you

hopefully I can spark an idea for you

hopefully I can spark an idea for you maybe just a change of live with your

maybe just a change of live with your

maybe just a change of live with your mind set think differently do something

mind set think differently do something

mind set think differently do something differently now some of you might be

differently now some of you might be

differently now some of you might be doing well for yourself most of you

doing well for yourself most of you

doing well for yourself most of you probably are maybe not all of you some

probably are maybe not all of you some

probably are maybe not all of you some of you might not doing the best that’s

of you might not doing the best that’s

of you might not doing the best that’s okay because you’re here for a reason I

okay because you’re here for a reason I

okay because you’re here for a reason I think you’re here to listen to ideas and

think you’re here to listen to ideas and

think you’re here to listen to ideas and that’s all you’re here to grow here and

that’s all you’re here to grow here and

that’s all you’re here to grow here and improve that’s step one the want to

improve that’s step one the want to

improve that’s step one the want to improve so everyone will hear well it’s

improve so everyone will hear well it’s

improve so everyone will hear well it’s a great and it wants to become a better

a great and it wants to become a better

a great and it wants to become a better person

person

person so you gotta wanna improve and we’re

so you gotta wanna improve and we’re

so you gotta wanna improve and we’re gonna move on to this quote here change

gonna move on to this quote here change

gonna move on to this quote here change yourself and fortune will change with

yourself and fortune will change with

yourself and fortune will change with you now what that means is the moment

you now what that means is the moment

you now what that means is the moment you change your mindset you think a

you change your mindset you think a

you change your mindset you think a little differently maybe let’s say I

little differently maybe let’s say I

little differently maybe let’s say I want to wake up at 7:00 a.m. and so eats

want to wake up at 7:00 a.m. and so eats

want to wake up at 7:00 a.m. and so eats yeah

yeah

yeah maybe let’s say I want to take out the

maybe let’s say I want to take out the

maybe let’s say I want to take out the garbage for a mom cuz I I want to make

garbage for a mom cuz I I want to make

garbage for a mom cuz I I want to make her happy maybe let’s say I think I can

her happy maybe let’s say I think I can

her happy maybe let’s say I think I can do better than sit on the couch every

do better than sit on the couch every

do better than sit on the couch every day so the moment you change your

day so the moment you change your

day so the moment you change your mindset and you think differently you

mindset and you think differently you

mindset and you think differently you start to open up your eyes to

start to open up your eyes to

start to open up your eyes to opportunity you just start to see things

opportunity you just start to see things

opportunity you just start to see things around you

around you

around you hence fortune will change with you

hence fortune will change with you

hence fortune will change with you a lot of people are afraid of change

a lot of people are afraid of change

a lot of people are afraid of change they’re scared of it but understand one

they’re scared of it but understand one

they’re scared of it but understand one thing

thing

thing improvement in itself is change

improvement in itself is change

improvement in itself is change understand that there is no way to

understand that there is no way to

understand that there is no way to improve if you don’t change so one step

improve if you don’t change so one step

improve if you don’t change so one step at a time you don’t have to say you know

at a time you don’t have to say you know

at a time you don’t have to say you know tomorrow I’m going to be a CEO of a

tomorrow I’m going to be a CEO of a

tomorrow I’m going to be a CEO of a billion dollar company no you start with

billion dollar company no you start with

billion dollar company no you start with tomorrow I’m gonna wake up at 7:00 a.m.

tomorrow I’m gonna wake up at 7:00 a.m.

tomorrow I’m gonna wake up at 7:00 a.m. to 8 a.m. next thing I want to talk

to 8 a.m. next thing I want to talk

to 8 a.m. next thing I want to talk about is you have to know your why

about is you have to know your why

about is you have to know your why understand why you’re here understand

understand why you’re here understand

understand why you’re here understand why you’re doing what you’re doing know

why you’re doing what you’re doing know

why you’re doing what you’re doing know your why maybe you want to be better

your why maybe you want to be better

your why maybe you want to be better because you want to impress your parents

because you want to impress your parents

because you want to impress your parents know your why maybe you want to be

know your why maybe you want to be

know your why maybe you want to be better because it makes you happy know

better because it makes you happy know

better because it makes you happy know your why maybe you want to be better

your why maybe you want to be better

your why maybe you want to be better because you want to make friends know

because you want to make friends know

because you want to make friends know your why because without it you’re

your why because without it you’re

your why because without it you’re walking blindly if you ever walk to that

walking blindly if you ever walk to that

walking blindly if you ever walk to that down street pitch-black it’s not very

down street pitch-black it’s not very

down street pitch-black it’s not very fun

fun

fun when you’re doing something without

when you’re doing something without

when you’re doing something without purpose you are walking down that Street

purpose you are walking down that Street

purpose you are walking down that Street pitch block without a light so the

pitch block without a light so the

pitch block without a light so the moment you understand your why that’s

moment you understand your why that’s

moment you understand your why that’s when you shine your light down the road

when you shine your light down the road

when you shine your light down the road you know what you’re going see most

you know what you’re going see most

you know what you’re going see most people maybe some of you might be a

people maybe some of you might be a

people maybe some of you might be a following this path where you’re in

following this path where you’re in

following this path where you’re in school and you’re doing something

school and you’re doing something

school and you’re doing something because you want to do it for your

because you want to do it for your

because you want to do it for your parents sure that can be a reason why

parents sure that can be a reason why

parents sure that can be a reason why but maybe you’re doing just because of

but maybe you’re doing just because of

but maybe you’re doing just because of that you don’t understand perfectly what

that you don’t understand perfectly what

that you don’t understand perfectly what you’re doing it for you just do anything

you’re doing it for you just do anything

you’re doing it for you just do anything because of the sake of I want across my

because of the sake of I want across my

because of the sake of I want across my parents that’s a small reason why but if

parents that’s a small reason why but if

parents that’s a small reason why but if you have more intrinsic motivation if

you have more intrinsic motivation if

you have more intrinsic motivation if you have a reason for doing what you

you have a reason for doing what you

you have a reason for doing what you want to do if you want to really succeed

want to do if you want to really succeed

want to do if you want to really succeed if you want a job out there the

if you want a job out there the

if you want a job out there the communities you want to serve then that

communities you want to serve then that

communities you want to serve then that light will really shine

so I’m gonna talk a little bit about

so I’m gonna talk a little bit about myself when I was younger this was me a

myself when I was younger this was me a

myself when I was younger this was me a few years ago and you know topic time I

few years ago and you know topic time I

few years ago and you know topic time I went back in the future I told myself

went back in the future I told myself

went back in the future I told myself that I would be on stage talking to this

that I would be on stage talking to this

that I would be on stage talking to this kind of audience Oh a laugh at myself or

kind of audience Oh a laugh at myself or

kind of audience Oh a laugh at myself or then I start crying I was in the point

then I start crying I was in the point

then I start crying I was in the point in my life where I had no idea who I was

in my life where I had no idea who I was

in my life where I had no idea who I was I didn’t know what I wanted I thought

I didn’t know what I wanted I thought

I didn’t know what I wanted I thought that coming home from school not

that coming home from school not

that coming home from school not studying and playing video games with

studying and playing video games with

studying and playing video games with the way to live life I thought that

the way to live life I thought that

the way to live life I thought that Danny had 50% average as a way to go

Danny had 50% average as a way to go

Danny had 50% average as a way to go about who cares I’ll do it better

about who cares I’ll do it better

about who cares I’ll do it better tomorrow and this resulted in having so

tomorrow and this resulted in having so

tomorrow and this resulted in having so much free time because I had nothing

much free time because I had nothing

much free time because I had nothing else to do I had so much free time so I

else to do I had so much free time so I

else to do I had so much free time so I started developing really bad habits

started developing really bad habits

started developing really bad habits when I was younger I used to steal

when I was younger I used to steal

when I was younger I used to steal thanks to go into candy shops and still

thanks to go into candy shops and still

thanks to go into candy shops and still can you I thought that was okay I used

can you I thought that was okay I used

can you I thought that was okay I used to think hey maybe it doesn’t matter

to think hey maybe it doesn’t matter

to think hey maybe it doesn’t matter maybe doesn’t affect the business and it

maybe doesn’t affect the business and it

maybe doesn’t affect the business and it built up start with little candies then

built up start with little candies then

built up start with little candies then I became headphones

I became headphones

I became headphones until one day like I cop got pulled into

until one day like I cop got pulled into

until one day like I cop got pulled into a loss prevention office all should talk

a loss prevention office all should talk

a loss prevention office all should talk to me let me tell you I am so glad that

to me let me tell you I am so glad that

to me let me tell you I am so glad that Officer coffee that day because if that

Officer coffee that day because if that

Officer coffee that day because if that did not happen

did not happen

did not happen can you knows where I’d be because of

can you knows where I’d be because of

can you knows where I’d be because of that that was the spark maybe think

that that was the spark maybe think

that that was the spark maybe think differently maybe I can be better than

differently maybe I can be better than

differently maybe I can be better than this I don’t have to do this anymore

this I don’t have to do this anymore

this I don’t have to do this anymore didn’t need to

didn’t need to

didn’t need to so I took up a hobby playing the guitar

so I took up a hobby playing the guitar

so I took up a hobby playing the guitar and this was the first step for me is

and this was the first step for me is

and this was the first step for me is once I start to understand that okay

once I start to understand that okay

once I start to understand that okay maybe I can get good at something

maybe I can get good at something

maybe I can get good at something I hate actually enjoy something there’s

I hate actually enjoy something there’s

I hate actually enjoy something there’s something to live for it I started to

something to live for it I started to

something to live for it I started to think of my wife I said you know what I

think of my wife I said you know what I

think of my wife I said you know what I think I can push my batteries instead of

think I can push my batteries instead of

think I can push my batteries instead of sitting there every day on the couch

sitting there every day on the couch

sitting there every day on the couch playing video games so I took a plunge

playing video games so I took a plunge

playing video games so I took a plunge I don’t program and this is one of the

I don’t program and this is one of the

I don’t program and this is one of the most pivotal things that’s ever happened

most pivotal things that’s ever happened

most pivotal things that’s ever happened to me in my life maybe some of you might

to me in my life maybe some of you might

to me in my life maybe some of you might be kids in the audience so you might

be kids in the audience so you might

be kids in the audience so you might know what it is and for those of you you

know what it is and for those of you you

know what it is and for those of you you understand that this is an amazing

understand that this is an amazing

understand that this is an amazing program for those of you don’t know what

program for those of you don’t know what

program for those of you don’t know what it is it’s a youth leadership program

it is it’s a youth leadership program

it is it’s a youth leadership program that it gets opportunity for you to step

that it gets opportunity for you to step

that it gets opportunity for you to step up and learn who they are and I was

up and learn who they are and I was

up and learn who they are and I was exactly what happened to me I walked

exactly what happened to me I walked

exactly what happened to me I walked into a building where everyone went

into a building where everyone went

into a building where everyone went seeing uniforms me and at this time I I

seeing uniforms me and at this time I I

seeing uniforms me and at this time I I saw this this person’s got a stick and

saw this this person’s got a stick and

saw this this person’s got a stick and everything and I suppose I was like wow

everything and I suppose I was like wow

everything and I suppose I was like wow it’s kind of scary and they were the

it’s kind of scary and they were the

it’s kind of scary and they were the regimental sergeant major of the unit

regimental sergeant major of the unit

regimental sergeant major of the unit they were the leader of the unit and

they were the leader of the unit and

they were the leader of the unit and this was the person that took charge of

this was the person that took charge of

this was the person that took charge of the whole unit that led the cadets to

the whole unit that led the cadets to

the whole unit that led the cadets to success and gave them concrete ideas of

success and gave them concrete ideas of

success and gave them concrete ideas of how to be a better person how to serve

how to be a better person how to serve

how to be a better person how to serve in community I said you know I’d really

in community I said you know I’d really

in community I said you know I’d really like to be that person one day I had to

like to be that person one day I had to

like to be that person one day I had to go for myself five years later

go for myself five years later

go for myself five years later I didn’t think so that it becomes arson

I didn’t think so that it becomes arson

I didn’t think so that it becomes arson and now I create a cadet unit with more

and now I create a cadet unit with more

and now I create a cadet unit with more than 90 cadets think of that I don’t

than 90 cadets think of that I don’t

than 90 cadets think of that I don’t think about it normally but if you think

think about it normally but if you think

think about it normally but if you think about it

about it

about it I am influencing more than nearly a

I am influencing more than nearly a

I am influencing more than nearly a hundred people to change their lives

hundred people to change their lives

hundred people to change their lives I’m not saying that to attract both I’m

I’m not saying that to attract both I’m

I’m not saying that to attract both I’m saying that because I’m trying to share

saying that because I’m trying to share

saying that because I’m trying to share with you the vision that I see when I

with you the vision that I see when I

with you the vision that I see when I walk into the building and I see all

walk into the building and I see all

walk into the building and I see all these teenagers wanted to change their

these teenagers wanted to change their

these teenagers wanted to change their life they’re all there with their

life they’re all there with their

life they’re all there with their uniforms with one purpose they wanted to

uniforms with one purpose they wanted to

uniforms with one purpose they wanted to come better they want to be a better

come better they want to be a better

come better they want to be a better person it’s one of the most

person it’s one of the most

person it’s one of the most inspirational things you can see to see

inspirational things you can see to see

inspirational things you can see to see a cadet come in that uniform and h out

a cadet come in that uniform and h out

a cadet come in that uniform and h out seven years later a completely different

seven years later a completely different

seven years later a completely different person for the better it’s one of the

person for the better it’s one of the

person for the better it’s one of the most satisfying things you can ever see

most satisfying things you can ever see

most satisfying things you can ever see but what people who understand is that

but what people who understand is that

but what people who understand is that it’s so satisfying to see that happen to

it’s so satisfying to see that happen to

it’s so satisfying to see that happen to yourself and people forget that all the

yourself and people forget that all the

yourself and people forget that all the time that they can become better they

time that they can become better they

time that they can become better they don’t realize that they are becoming

don’t realize that they are becoming

don’t realize that they are becoming better they think that the same person

better they think that the same person

better they think that the same person so it doesn’t help sorry doesn’t it

so it doesn’t help sorry doesn’t it

so it doesn’t help sorry doesn’t it doesn’t hurt to take a step back and

doesn’t hurt to take a step back and

doesn’t hurt to take a step back and look at yourself see what you’ve done

look at yourself see what you’ve done

look at yourself see what you’ve done see what you’ve accomplished you don’t

see what you’ve accomplished you don’t

see what you’ve accomplished you don’t have to be that kid that comes home and

have to be that kid that comes home and

have to be that kid that comes home and sits on the couch with play video games

sits on the couch with play video games

sits on the couch with play video games you can shake ah down come a lot

you can shake ah down come a lot

you can shake ah down come a lot better so I’m gonna tell you kind of my

better so I’m gonna tell you kind of my

better so I’m gonna tell you kind of my last points here talking about the final

last points here talking about the final

last points here talking about the final steps in terms of motivation and where

steps in terms of motivation and where

steps in terms of motivation and where y-you want proof I’m gonna tell you

y-you want proof I’m gonna tell you

y-you want proof I’m gonna tell you story about a man in a suit so this man

story about a man in a suit so this man

story about a man in a suit so this man he wants to be successful like most of

he wants to be successful like most of

he wants to be successful like most of you like myself

this friend tells him about a guru that

this friend tells him about a guru that uh knows the secret to success and some

uh knows the secret to success and some

uh knows the secret to success and some of you might have heard this story

of you might have heard this story

of you might have heard this story before

before

before now this guru lives on the mountain eCos

now this guru lives on the mountain eCos

now this guru lives on the mountain eCos all the way to the mountain drives a

all the way to the mountain drives a

all the way to the mountain drives a bunch of kilometres this is the crew and

bunch of kilometres this is the crew and

bunch of kilometres this is the crew and the Guru says you want to learn the

the Guru says you want to learn the

the Guru says you want to learn the secret of success because yeah it says

secret of success because yeah it says

secret of success because yeah it says meet me in the beach 6:00 a.m. tomorrow

meet me in the beach 6:00 a.m. tomorrow

meet me in the beach 6:00 a.m. tomorrow morning the guy says thank you so much

morning the guy says thank you so much

morning the guy says thank you so much I’ll see you there he goes to the beach

I’ll see you there he goes to the beach

I’ll see you there he goes to the beach comes in a suit should I wear shorts the

comes in a suit should I wear shorts the

comes in a suit should I wear shorts the Guru says you want to be successful take

Guru says you want to be successful take

Guru says you want to be successful take a step into the water take your first

a step into the water take your first

a step into the water take your first step the guy says this guy’s crazy what

step the guy says this guy’s crazy what

step the guy says this guy’s crazy what am i why am i walking to the water I

am i why am i walking to the water I

am i why am i walking to the water I understand that a journey of a thousand

understand that a journey of a thousand

understand that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step then he

miles begins with a single step then he

miles begins with a single step then he took his first step into the water he

took his first step into the water he

took his first step into the water he took him off to the water guru said keep

took him off to the water guru said keep

took him off to the water guru said keep going he keep going he kept doing it

going he keep going he kept doing it

going he keep going he kept doing it until the water was at her neck and he

until the water was at her neck and he

until the water was at her neck and he stopped and he thought why should I keep

stopped and he thought why should I keep

stopped and he thought why should I keep going this guy’s crazy doesn’t know what

going this guy’s crazy doesn’t know what

going this guy’s crazy doesn’t know what he’s doing he looks unknown why am i

he’s doing he looks unknown why am i

he’s doing he looks unknown why am i following this but the Guru said you’re

following this but the Guru said you’re

following this but the Guru said you’re not done yet

not done yet

not done yet keep going so he goes under the water

keep going so he goes under the water

keep going so he goes under the water just before he goes up for air guru

just before he goes up for air guru

just before he goes up for air guru holds his head down and he can’t breathe

holds his head down and he can’t breathe

holds his head down and he can’t breathe he’s underwater the group holding his

he’s underwater the group holding his

he’s underwater the group holding his head down he’s drowning and just before

head down he’s drowning and just before

head down he’s drowning and just before he gives up the Guru brings him right up

he said let me ask you a question when

he said let me ask you a question when you are underwater

you are underwater

you are underwater what did you want to do now this is the

what did you want to do now this is the

what did you want to do now this is the key to success remember this

key to success remember this

key to success remember this well fish off the scope from the girl

well fish off the scope from the girl

well fish off the scope from the girl well you want to be successful as much

well you want to be successful as much

well you want to be successful as much as you want to breathe then you’ll be

as you want to breathe then you’ll be

as you want to breathe then you’ll be successful thank you

successful thank you

successful thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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