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Until the end of time | SAMIHA AL SHIBANI | TEDxMuscatWomen


hello everybody salamualikum’ I believe

hello everybody salamualikum’ I believe I can fly

I can fly

I can fly so hello

so hello

so hello semi ha you are accepted in every

semi ha you are accepted in every

semi ha you are accepted in every College of Applied Sciences every

College of Applied Sciences every

College of Applied Sciences every college means four hours from our home

college means four hours from our home

college means four hours from our home means you will live in a hostel yeah

means you will live in a hostel yeah

means you will live in a hostel yeah then I go to my parents so I’m accepted

then I go to my parents so I’m accepted

then I go to my parents so I’m accepted in four colleges three in muscat one in

in four colleges three in muscat one in

in four colleges three in muscat one in every and I want this I want this which

every and I want this I want this which

every and I want this I want this which is far away from home

is far away from home

is far away from home and a hostel then I go to the dictionary

and a hostel then I go to the dictionary

and a hostel then I go to the dictionary what’s the meaning of hostel a cheap

what’s the meaning of hostel a cheap

what’s the meaning of hostel a cheap place to live in

place to live in

place to live in Wow so cute so my father and mother they

Wow so cute so my father and mother they

Wow so cute so my father and mother they said the first thing they focus in your

said the first thing they focus in your

said the first thing they focus in your health no your files your doctor’s your

health no your files your doctor’s your

health no your files your doctor’s your appointment and those things I’m 18

appointment and those things I’m 18

appointment and those things I’m 18 years old mum can you give me this

years old mum can you give me this

years old mum can you give me this responsibility it’s time for me to

responsibility it’s time for me to

responsibility it’s time for me to discover myself it’s enough you take

discover myself it’s enough you take

discover myself it’s enough you take care of me yeah any since born until now

care of me yeah any since born until now

care of me yeah any since born until now because this disease is with me since

because this disease is with me since

because this disease is with me since born which is called egg theosis then I

born which is called egg theosis then I

born which is called egg theosis then I decided to call my friend

decided to call my friend

decided to call my friend oh I’m living to the hostel like I’m

oh I’m living to the hostel like I’m

oh I’m living to the hostel like I’m going to the UK okay I’m living tomorrow

going to the UK okay I’m living tomorrow

going to the UK okay I’m living tomorrow at the hostel and I’m gonna miss you and

at the hostel and I’m gonna miss you and

at the hostel and I’m gonna miss you and she’s my childhood friend she said

she’s my childhood friend she said

she’s my childhood friend she said really

really

really which hostel you’re going in every

which hostel you’re going in every

which hostel you’re going in every college of applies no you’re with me in

college of applies no you’re with me in

college of applies no you’re with me in every step we are going together yes

every step we are going together yes

every step we are going together yes hello

hello

hello so you are ready pack your things let’s

so you are ready pack your things let’s

so you are ready pack your things let’s go when they drop me in the hostel I

go when they drop me in the hostel I

go when they drop me in the hostel I start crying it’s going serious and my

start crying it’s going serious and my

start crying it’s going serious and my mother starts crying from the hostel

mother starts crying from the hostel

mother starts crying from the hostel after they reach home until my father

after they reach home until my father

after they reach home until my father said for her if you cry any more I will

said for her if you cry any more I will

said for her if you cry any more I will go back to the hostel and take her so

go back to the hostel and take her so

go back to the hostel and take her so when they was calling me

when they was calling me

when they was calling me like semi huh you don’t answer because

like semi huh you don’t answer because

like semi huh you don’t answer because if I answer the call I’ll start crying I

if I answer the call I’ll start crying I

if I answer the call I’ll start crying I cannot hear even their sounds in the

cannot hear even their sounds in the

cannot hear even their sounds in the first two weeks so because I believe I

first two weeks so because I believe I

first two weeks so because I believe I can fly I believe I can touch the sky I

can fly I believe I can touch the sky I

can fly I believe I can touch the sky I wanted to try this to meet new

wanted to try this to meet new

wanted to try this to meet new personalities like clean girls awful

personalities like clean girls awful

personalities like clean girls awful girls and tall short a different

girls and tall short a different

girls and tall short a different thinking open mind blocked mind because

thinking open mind blocked mind because

thinking open mind blocked mind because inside the hostel you have one thousand

inside the hostel you have one thousand

inside the hostel you have one thousand girl so they there you know because

girl so they there you know because

girl so they there you know because they’re from inside oh man their culture

they’re from inside oh man their culture

they’re from inside oh man their culture is little bit different

is little bit different

is little bit different thank you so are you from Muscat like

thank you so are you from Muscat like

thank you so are you from Muscat like you’re an American one ok so like yeah

you’re an American one ok so like yeah

you’re an American one ok so like yeah like they think they think the girls who

like they think they think the girls who

like they think they think the girls who is living in Muscat they are much much

is living in Muscat they are much much

is living in Muscat they are much much open-minded and they do whatever they

open-minded and they do whatever they

open-minded and they do whatever they want and free life and no it’s not like

want and free life and no it’s not like

want and free life and no it’s not like that it’s all still eonni we we are in

that it’s all still eonni we we are in

that it’s all still eonni we we are in the same zone in the same country

the same zone in the same country

the same zone in the same country so after believing this and going to the

so after believing this and going to the

so after believing this and going to the college discovering a lot of things um

college discovering a lot of things um

college discovering a lot of things um and then al hamdulillah that I did this

and then al hamdulillah that I did this

and then al hamdulillah that I did this step it adds for me a lot a lot a lot so

step it adds for me a lot a lot a lot so

step it adds for me a lot a lot a lot so until the end of time you will have two

until the end of time you will have two

until the end of time you will have two arrows the two arrows one of them you

arrows the two arrows one of them you

arrows the two arrows one of them you are a woman you graduated you have to

are a woman you graduated you have to

are a woman you graduated you have to own a job and get money you have to own

own a job and get money you have to own

own a job and get money you have to own a man and get children and that’s it no

a man and get children and that’s it no

a man and get children and that’s it no dreams no ambition no no no success no

dreams no ambition no no no success no

dreams no ambition no no no success no because you are a mother because you are

because you are a mother because you are

because you are a mother because you are a wife because you have a job and you

a wife because you have a job and you

a wife because you have a job and you have to focus in why it’s not that hard

have to focus in why it’s not that hard

have to focus in why it’s not that hard to be balanced and the second arrow is I

to be balanced and the second arrow is I

to be balanced and the second arrow is I have

have

have to be entrusted in my life I have to

to be entrusted in my life I have to

to be entrusted in my life I have to bring the joy around me I have to be

bring the joy around me I have to be

bring the joy around me I have to be happy I have to know the meaning of

happy I have to know the meaning of

happy I have to know the meaning of success I have to do a lot of things so

success I have to do a lot of things so

success I have to do a lot of things so should I lose one of them no because

should I lose one of them no because

should I lose one of them no because there are some basic thing that you

there are some basic thing that you

there are some basic thing that you don’t have to lose your health your

don’t have to lose your health your

don’t have to lose your health your clothes your food you have to feed

clothes your food you have to feed

clothes your food you have to feed yourself until the end of time you

yourself until the end of time you

yourself until the end of time you cannot stop something and do something

cannot stop something and do something

cannot stop something and do something else so draw two parallel lines and go

else so draw two parallel lines and go

else so draw two parallel lines and go through it do the both you can buy your

through it do the both you can buy your

through it do the both you can buy your with your children with your husband

with your children with your husband

with your children with your husband with your job

with your job

with your job you can bring the success together let’s

you can bring the success together let’s

you can bring the success together let’s go together and do the things that we

go together and do the things that we

go together and do the things that we like bring the joy to our life do the

like bring the joy to our life do the

like bring the joy to our life do the best so this is the idea that that we

best so this is the idea that that we

best so this is the idea that that we can balance why they said how I balance

can balance why they said how I balance

can balance why they said how I balance too much things I am stressed with work

too much things I am stressed with work

too much things I am stressed with work and I come back at home then I slip

and I come back at home then I slip

and I come back at home then I slip hollows the end no life is not like that

hollows the end no life is not like that

hollows the end no life is not like that you can’t create balance you don’t find

you can’t create balance you don’t find

you can’t create balance you don’t find balance in your way but you have to

balance in your way but you have to

balance in your way but you have to create it and by the way the balance

create it and by the way the balance

create it and by the way the balance will be different in each stage of your

will be different in each stage of your

will be different in each stage of your life the first stage you will you will

life the first stage you will you will

life the first stage you will you will feel that balance is very hard to do but

feel that balance is very hard to do but

feel that balance is very hard to do but day by day when you discover more about

day by day when you discover more about

day by day when you discover more about yourself and go through the things that

yourself and go through the things that

yourself and go through the things that you like then you will start balancing

you like then you will start balancing

you like then you will start balancing in different techniques in each stage

in different techniques in each stage

in different techniques in each stage you will use another technique to

you will use another technique to

you will use another technique to balance with your between your your

balance with your between your your

balance with your between your your ambitions and ambitions doesn’t end

ambitions and ambitions doesn’t end

ambitions and ambitions doesn’t end until the end of time so and you can

until the end of time so and you can

until the end of time so and you can also do the things with your family your

also do the things with your family your

also do the things with your family your the the right things and do your work

the the right things and do your work

the the right things and do your work there is time for everything true all of

there is time for everything true all of

there is time for everything true all of us we have 24 hours but how we divide

us we have 24 hours but how we divide

us we have 24 hours but how we divide those hours I’m not talking about time

those hours I’m not talking about time

those hours I’m not talking about time exactly I’m talking about our thinking

exactly I’m talking about our thinking

exactly I’m talking about our thinking in balancing because

in balancing because

in balancing because most people they they think it is

most people they they think it is

most people they they think it is something hard don’t wait for perfection

something hard don’t wait for perfection

something hard don’t wait for perfection don’t wait until I have a lot of money

don’t wait until I have a lot of money

don’t wait until I have a lot of money to do a huge thing in one time don’t

to do a huge thing in one time don’t

to do a huge thing in one time don’t like wait until you have a very good

like wait until you have a very good

like wait until you have a very good health then you said I’m good no try

health then you said I’m good no try

health then you said I’m good no try even if you are sick if you have

even if you are sick if you have

even if you are sick if you have something if you have troubles if you

something if you have troubles if you

something if you have troubles if you have barriers go ahead just go ahead

have barriers go ahead just go ahead

have barriers go ahead just go ahead because if you’re waiting for perfection

because if you’re waiting for perfection

because if you’re waiting for perfection time is going on you don’t look of

time is going on you don’t look of

time is going on you don’t look of people who is collecting money or doing

people who is collecting money or doing

people who is collecting money or doing this and that you look to yourself focus

this and that you look to yourself focus

this and that you look to yourself focus on yourself like people they asked me

on yourself like people they asked me

on yourself like people they asked me all this how you achieve how you do this

all this how you achieve how you do this

all this how you achieve how you do this and that because I’m focusing on myself

and that because I’m focusing on myself

and that because I’m focusing on myself I’m not focusing about what you say

I’m not focusing about what you say

I’m not focusing about what you say about me about the bad words and the and

about me about the bad words and the and

about me about the bad words and the and the negative things so if we wait about

the negative things so if we wait about

the negative things so if we wait about if we wait for perfection the time is

if we wait for perfection the time is

if we wait for perfection the time is going on when you’re gonna you don’t

going on when you’re gonna you don’t

going on when you’re gonna you don’t have to separate when I finish when I

have to separate when I finish when I

have to separate when I finish when I success in my work I do my company I do

success in my work I do my company I do

success in my work I do my company I do the things that I love then I will start

the things that I love then I will start

the things that I love then I will start having fun with my family going with my

having fun with my family going with my

having fun with my family going with my friends outside hanging out traveling

friends outside hanging out traveling

friends outside hanging out traveling doing the good things do with both

doing the good things do with both

doing the good things do with both together back to the two parallel lines

together back to the two parallel lines

together back to the two parallel lines okay I’m not a victim and vice versa you

okay I’m not a victim and vice versa you

okay I’m not a victim and vice versa you are not a victim of anyone nobody can

are not a victim of anyone nobody can

are not a victim of anyone nobody can teach you how to where nobody can teach

teach you how to where nobody can teach

teach you how to where nobody can teach you what is your style and I don’t have

you what is your style and I don’t have

you what is your style and I don’t have to tell you you don’t eat this you

to tell you you don’t eat this you

to tell you you don’t eat this you should eat this no you are not a victim

should eat this no you are not a victim

should eat this no you are not a victim of anyone because if people lead you to

of anyone because if people lead you to

of anyone because if people lead you to do something where is your personality

do something where is your personality

do something where is your personality where is your opinion there is some part

where is your opinion there is some part

where is your opinion there is some part of our life that we should be a little

of our life that we should be a little

of our life that we should be a little bit selfish not that much a little bit

bit selfish not that much a little bit

bit selfish not that much a little bit selfish to do whatever we want

selfish to do whatever we want

selfish to do whatever we want because after few days after few months

because after few days after few months

because after few days after few months and years people will discover why you

and years people will discover why you

and years people will discover why you are why you are selfish it’s not that

are why you are selfish it’s not that

are why you are selfish it’s not that negative there is a positive part in

negative there is a positive part in

negative there is a positive part in this thing as I said if if we are not a

this thing as I said if if we are not a

this thing as I said if if we are not a victim of people but we are living in

victim of people but we are living in

victim of people but we are living in the middle of them all around us there

the middle of them all around us there

the middle of them all around us there is many people so we have to adapt with

is many people so we have to adapt with

is many people so we have to adapt with this take the good things leave the bad

this take the good things leave the bad

this take the good things leave the bad things as much as you take take take

things as much as you take take take

things as much as you take take take take take or give give give give you

take take or give give give give you

take take or give give give give you need a power how you can give harder

need a power how you can give harder

need a power how you can give harder life without taking take the good things

life without taking take the good things

life without taking take the good things and leave the bad things being being on

and leave the bad things being being on

and leave the bad things being being on this stage something huge for me

this stage something huge for me

this stage something huge for me standing up with those wonderful

standing up with those wonderful

standing up with those wonderful speakers who reach a high level of

speakers who reach a high level of

speakers who reach a high level of success masha’Allah is I really feel

success masha’Allah is I really feel

success masha’Allah is I really feel that I’m lucky

like I’m simply a graphic designer

like I’m simply a graphic designer with a weather Ling

with a weather Ling

with a weather Ling it feels disease but like still I have a

it feels disease but like still I have a

it feels disease but like still I have a lot to do and come again today to TEDx

lot to do and come again today to TEDx

lot to do and come again today to TEDx thank statics for giving us the bridge

thank statics for giving us the bridge

thank statics for giving us the bridge to walk and for creating this bridge for

to walk and for creating this bridge for

to walk and for creating this bridge for us because if you don’t get the first

us because if you don’t get the first

us because if you don’t get the first chance you will not have the opportunity

chance you will not have the opportunity

chance you will not have the opportunity to say what you want or to deliver for

to say what you want or to deliver for

to say what you want or to deliver for people you’re thinking and your life

people you’re thinking and your life

people you’re thinking and your life the problem is when people around you

the problem is when people around you

the problem is when people around you they create the story and they believe

they create the story and they believe

they create the story and they believe it without asking you anything she had

it without asking you anything she had

it without asking you anything she had an accident

an accident

an accident that’s why she’s like that maybe she

that’s why she’s like that maybe she

that’s why she’s like that maybe she make a 3d makeup like that and then take

make a 3d makeup like that and then take

make a 3d makeup like that and then take no I know she burns you know no it’s not

no I know she burns you know no it’s not

no I know she burns you know no it’s not that

that

that no all of the things are wrong why do

no all of the things are wrong why do

no all of the things are wrong why do you do the story and you believe come

you do the story and you believe come

you do the story and you believe come and ask me I want to be an open book but

and ask me I want to be an open book but

and ask me I want to be an open book but you don’t give me a chance you did the

you don’t give me a chance you did the

you don’t give me a chance you did the story already Hallows you are not me I

story already Hallows you are not me I

story already Hallows you are not me I am me so this is the the the the benefit

am me so this is the the the the benefit

am me so this is the the the the benefit of the opportunity that you clarify for

of the opportunity that you clarify for

of the opportunity that you clarify for people what you’re thinking about

people what you’re thinking about

people what you’re thinking about yourself and what you’re thinking about

yourself and what you’re thinking about

yourself and what you’re thinking about them and your wonderful people sitting

them and your wonderful people sitting

them and your wonderful people sitting here giving us your time listening to us

here giving us your time listening to us

here giving us your time listening to us thank you for coming all of you

still I didn’t finish so finally to

still I didn’t finish so finally to remind you it’s my chance to aware you

remind you it’s my chance to aware you

remind you it’s my chance to aware you about excuses excuses is an a skin

about excuses excuses is an a skin

about excuses excuses is an a skin disease which you have a new skin every

disease which you have a new skin every

disease which you have a new skin every three days every three days you have a

three days every three days you have a

three days every three days you have a new skin totally so if you want to see

new skin totally so if you want to see

new skin totally so if you want to see the positive side you will see it if you

the positive side you will see it if you

the positive side you will see it if you want to see the negative side you will

want to see the negative side you will

want to see the negative side you will open a sad music and look at the window

open a sad music and look at the window

open a sad music and look at the window yeah so so I decided to take the bright

yeah so so I decided to take the bright

yeah so so I decided to take the bright side because nobody will think about you

side because nobody will think about you

side because nobody will think about you if you don’t think about yourself nobody

if you don’t think about yourself nobody

if you don’t think about yourself nobody will take care she’s miss Keela

what is your subpoena in English so you

what is your subpoena in English so you have it’s the time to prove for people

have it’s the time to prove for people

have it’s the time to prove for people it’s the opposite of your thinking

it’s the opposite of your thinking

it’s the opposite of your thinking totally is the time to prove for people

totally is the time to prove for people

totally is the time to prove for people it’s not like that at all I have to

it’s not like that at all I have to

it’s not like that at all I have to prove it let people focus on your work

prove it let people focus on your work

prove it let people focus on your work on your achievement on the things that

on your achievement on the things that

on your achievement on the things that you say it’s very important even if if

you say it’s very important even if if

you say it’s very important even if if it is normal make a value for yourself

it is normal make a value for yourself

it is normal make a value for yourself don’t make people focus ah her her shoes

don’t make people focus ah her her shoes

don’t make people focus ah her her shoes is not brand she didn’t do her hair and

is not brand she didn’t do her hair and

is not brand she didn’t do her hair and she didn’t wear that that’s expensive

she didn’t wear that that’s expensive

she didn’t wear that that’s expensive Abhaya No don’t let them see then the

Abhaya No don’t let them see then the

Abhaya No don’t let them see then the delay out inside and outside give them

delay out inside and outside give them

delay out inside and outside give them the chance to see ya I don’t say don’t

the chance to see ya I don’t say don’t

the chance to see ya I don’t say don’t be elegance don’t don’t do the things

be elegance don’t don’t do the things

be elegance don’t don’t do the things that you love you do but you don’t think

that you love you do but you don’t think

that you love you do but you don’t think much how if I work like this maybe

much how if I work like this maybe

much how if I work like this maybe people will say like that if I go back

people will say like that if I go back

people will say like that if I go back side maybe they said something else no

side maybe they said something else no

side maybe they said something else no don’t give them a chance to judge your

don’t give them a chance to judge your

don’t give them a chance to judge your life or to judge your style be yourself

life or to judge your style be yourself

life or to judge your style be yourself and prove for them not by talking

and prove for them not by talking

and prove for them not by talking talking talking too much

talking talking too much

talking talking too much just do-do-do-do and then let them see

just do-do-do-do and then let them see

just do-do-do-do and then let them see it in social media

like because a lot of my friends and

like because a lot of my friends and relatives she’s going to every living in

relatives she’s going to every living in

relatives she’s going to every living in a hostel so what I want it like this you

a hostel so what I want it like this you

a hostel so what I want it like this you you just wait for me how you can go by

you just wait for me how you can go by

you just wait for me how you can go by the bus for hours and taking your bags

the bus for hours and taking your bags

the bus for hours and taking your bags every week and coming back with your

every week and coming back with your

every week and coming back with your bags you’re so you only like a house mid

bags you’re so you only like a house mid

bags you’re so you only like a house mid or what it’s not like that no I’m going

or what it’s not like that no I’m going

or what it’s not like that no I’m going to achieve something I’m going to get my

to achieve something I’m going to get my

to achieve something I’m going to get my Bachelor hamdulillah and I got it and

Bachelor hamdulillah and I got it and

Bachelor hamdulillah and I got it and just you’d give me a chance until I

just you’d give me a chance until I

just you’d give me a chance until I finish and I was sure I will show you

finish and I was sure I will show you

finish and I was sure I will show you who I am like yeah she didn’t get a lot

who I am like yeah she didn’t get a lot

who I am like yeah she didn’t get a lot of mark in school that’s why they sent

of mark in school that’s why they sent

of mark in school that’s why they sent her to the hostel like you’re going to

her to the hostel like you’re going to

her to the hostel like you’re going to the jail okay it’s not like that I’m

the jail okay it’s not like that I’m

the jail okay it’s not like that I’m going to the jail who create me in a

going to the jail who create me in a

going to the jail who create me in a different way it’s a different kind of

different way it’s a different kind of

different way it’s a different kind of jail that you every movements remember

jail that you every movements remember

jail that you every movements remember that I’m I am there to study to do good

that I’m I am there to study to do good

that I’m I am there to study to do good things and to be the perfect girl and

things and to be the perfect girl and

things and to be the perfect girl and your family we’re gonna miss you more

your family we’re gonna miss you more

your family we’re gonna miss you more when I come back Oh silly huh and after

when I come back Oh silly huh and after

when I come back Oh silly huh and after but in the vacation like I know we go

but in the vacation like I know we go

but in the vacation like I know we go back to the normal mood and shouting why

back to the normal mood and shouting why

back to the normal mood and shouting why I don’t clean your room why you don’t do

I don’t clean your room why you don’t do

I don’t clean your room why you don’t do this one either he was missing me before

this one either he was missing me before

this one either he was missing me before two hours what’s happening yeah and this

two hours what’s happening yeah and this

two hours what’s happening yeah and this is a positively anything they you young

is a positively anything they you young

is a positively anything they you young you realize how important are you in the

you realize how important are you in the

you realize how important are you in the hall when you come back you feel like

hall when you come back you feel like

hall when you come back you feel like something important so and hamdulillah

something important so and hamdulillah

something important so and hamdulillah al hamdulillah again for being here i I

al hamdulillah again for being here i I

al hamdulillah again for being here i I am so pleasure to stand up here today

am so pleasure to stand up here today

am so pleasure to stand up here today and I hope after after this speech to

and I hope after after this speech to

and I hope after after this speech to build me not only one bridge many

build me not only one bridge many

build me not only one bridge many bridges with a lot of people with a lot

bridges with a lot of people with a lot

bridges with a lot of people with a lot of ideas with a lot of positive with a

of ideas with a lot of positive with a

of ideas with a lot of positive with a lot of smiles thank you

lot of smiles thank you

lot of smiles thank you [Applause]

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