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Resiliência: a lição das minhas mulheres | Abel Coentrão | TEDxVilaDoCondeWomen


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now it is badly used as they have come down

of the first intervener the only man

in the meeting terex those women

I’ll try to compensate there talking

women.

which is not very difficult because in

I really do. I hate them at home. But

also throughout my life is

that the men who are part of my

life also were not normally there

very present

in fact this is a trace that was purple

bring here and I’ll explain a little

trait that characterizes the community where

will take care of the caxinas

I would say they are a word with a lot of

meaning of this word to the

absence of mother

Notice is this case can be arrested if

felt in various ways

may be the absence of men

precisely can be the very absence

an administrative identity

nothing that is here is the place is not a

parish in a city concentrates in itself

a sociological such

logically speaking the fact that

people to be a main activity

what is fishing and then you asked

so fishing so but I went there to have

beach is a place and did not see a single

boat to the boats as the men who

are absent are out of this country

are in the foreigners are out there more

there is little that these traces of absence

we have to add yet another

that absence due to death

always plenty to

the event is for those who live off the sea and

idea is overloaded

sometimes with the fact itself

not even give us back our bodies.

of those who have lost and in this multiples

traces in these multiple forms of

face the absence is who is left what

women are left over and that’s why

they are so important in my

life and in that community I started

for introducing you a mother I did not find

best partner that looking at home would be

enough to my mother and my mother here

for a very simple matter it is well

documented in that sentence was with her

that holds even the magician is mine

first experience with the sea or better

experience I remember it does not have the

see how going to the beach with diving nothing

nothing traumatic is one thing

differently, I was in a classroom

with my friends with mine

woman teacher likes and turns a

employee and ovar two colleagues of mine

although the father had died

that night in that woman in the

wreck

I remember in a bad memory that in the

session of which day or not but

night in bad weather as usual

happen marvels landmarks feel the

wind in the shutters saw entering the room

practically and from listening in the

My mother’s side pray to us children.

rose we played we played the ball was

also this dangerous moment and can

steal the best we have in the world

my mother has another characteristic to

territory from which I come by force

physical exercise capacity and is

valued

which is normal because people

born to work in an event

and she saw if she was holding her son

firstborn who has a disability

physics that would prevent it from being

fisherman like the others

in fact she had this ability

greatness of not protecting and

ensure sufficient opportunities

to have a path that actually but

what we would imagine when

because it is much thinner than

It was supposed aa departure and why

I’m here, it’s going to happen today.

presented another person is my

great-aunt, one of my great-aunts has

some are still alive

this my great aunt is the granddaughter of a hero

the hero will save lives is but for me

basically I would sum up this lady

olivia book advertisement – it’s a word one

Why is it so important?

smile that is something that we all

we know how to do in our life at the moment

any greater employee is that this

lady with many others would have many

reasons for not smiling was withdrawn

will the school worked hard upon

mind facing the house you live in the harbor

póvoa fishing from the varzim

child when married to rosary marry

with the cursor an experience here today

many people live but had the courage to

respond to this action two ways

first ending it

debussy at a time when this did not

was a normal future thing until

because popular music with its

clients in which they live at sea and

sand

I hit her when she wants

but the other passed it and beyond that

throughout their life in all always

that I found she always made a point of

try to show that she was trying to be happy

weigh all the adversities why

passed on

and a movie an image that stays in my

family album of this happiness I

this photo in the archive

is repeated several times in

every family wedding is my

theory miles always forced to do

a photograph of her dancing in both

was maybe the first person to tell me

remember is able to overcome

my disability and hotels launch a

little in my life but with her

I would find today if she had

legs no longer have to cast I have

sure we would walk a few feet

illness and then bring another woman

another that my grandmother’s grandmother did

In fact it did 82 this years ago just did

93 the bed is provided as you see

he is very well off his use and able to

tell us a whole life full too

outstanding experiences

I will not bring that aspect of life

of it that almost 1.5 dci significant

how do these people have to use

most unthinkable strategies for

living to live is my great-aunt ‘s

abel is her and her husband is not going to fail

like many women in that territory

have a husbands in cod fishing

six months is gone and she had to

work also do other things

among the various things he did was

does the mother leave at a time when

she had one of the very small children

baby practically lap to crawl her

had to go to work for failure and

onildo several times approached if the

and was in danger of dying.

drowned because she had no more than a

year

open a pit and deliver it to the

and you said I called because they are

minors

we would say today is not good is not

we evaluate the acts according to the current standard

of our lives

social status does not exist in this

time it happened to 50 60 70

years but maybe we’ll try maybe never

they are geniuses and if she did not go to work

not only made money probably

that those children like other

It’s not time would end up buried in the

probably buried because

nor were dead and in front

we left here another person more

as the most

contemporary is a cousin of the father to the

Flower village is bringing what for a

very particular issue and that at the same

common time in that community

three decades ago at about the turns

to see her husband a brother and the whole

crew of the family boat on the

wreck

When this happened she had three

children

one was young the other two were still

children and she like other people and

nothing I’m telling is exclusive

of these people

she basically exceeded all here

Eventually a family resumed business

therefore with a new vessel and in the

water had the fact that he was the

new one turns out to become more

recently angler and teacher

of her craft at times in a

television interview with sawa who does not

like the beach goes for internet we

teeth like the clear sea but when

will always always a bit bad because

have to man the sea is to look at the

truth never returned husband

and of course when you hear this little more

there is to say and now we present the

godmother of the plant

we called him, he also wanted my grandmother already

Is alive and I’m going back to the next family.

to my grandmother for a very

important

I’m here because the most regionalist

has a very intense relationship with the

my community and I learned to respect

community and work for her.

with this person

this person was very early

gut and 50 years

How do I do exactly 39 today?

years and always known black but always

Happens with a smile on my lips and I know

what a happiness society of vines

of the contact with the work mix

to do with others and went with her

I learned to be happy by provoking

some happiness in others I think

perhaps the most important lessons that

we can learn from these people

briefly creates challenges for these

people

in this final message that is a classic to

phrase of a Greek philosopher who says that

there are three dollar types – they are living dead and

those who walk in the sea is a form we

kingdoms value this experience

Strange to spend our days on a

may not fully respect but I

I wanted to say that for me there is also

three types of women live the

dead and those who do not save the sea

For those who live close, see how I am.

absolutely necessary and relevant

thank you

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