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thank you

very good night thank you all for

to be here with us today is how you

very well and introduced me I’m going to say a

little with you about the perfect mix for

was signed

I will talk about delay and I will talk

It was also city and therefore

You must understand that I feel like

bit like a scam for being here

to talk to you about two issues that

You know your mother and you know her so well.

because it ‘s a quarter of this class, you should love

This was a mass and it was not even this mother for

this and other part to yearn to have a love

sharpening and be loved that is I went by

This I assume everyone here in all of us

We are here in this room.

we know very well and perfectly about

What am I going to be talking about here?

with you, who does not know what love is

a sense of seeing is now and

emotional and so is sentimental is a

feeling we all feel

we feel the throbbing of the body of the heart

we feel our screen páá and what it is

influenced the books teach us that

it was da afam’s little moments

happiness is not eternal is not lived

in our whole life we have small

moments of suicide in which surrenders

or was to be the joy when I

I began to write that it is a passion that

I have a few years ago with skirt

I wanted to research a little about what it is

this of love and happiness, what is it?

humanized I understand why I knew what

It was for me but I had to write

for readers was not what it was then

this

I do not know how to search and all the books I

said these dimensions that I have now

to say so I started thinking like this

so easy to have fluency we have moments of

joy smile on armarmos and their

loved because we are not happy

because if you analyze people

that the game from there surrounds excuse is always

a friend

Me, when I see the facebook of flamengo x todo

we complain about life we ​​are

always tired we spend our lives

look for a suite of life we ​​spent

whole week waiting for Friday

to be happy on Saturday to

We are playing with the children of

domain to use family and are these

moments later innate joy because

we are not fluent every day

so I started doing searches

I started searching the internet

essentially in books by authors of

literature not only in the finals but also in

foreigners about what the neighbors

about a law was signed

I found a study particularly

interesting to share

with you

although very briefly a study of the

university of harvard that in 1938

civil study 700 people 700 individuals

two social classes

dispersed part of the individuals has

provenance of the sea economic and

social network and another part

of a much lower social range

with a little bit the capacity

economics studies beginning in 1938 and

still doing what is fantastic

because it’s a study about was it already

is 36 years old and is perhaps the largest study

behavior that exists at the moment

It’s very interesting when you meet

more about this study and I will not show

much with the conclusions that have

have managed to withdraw over the years.

in this study to be very curious that

they do not study only the 700 people who

initially counted on studying already studied

children and grandchildren of many of these

people is something fantastic all this for

Let’s find out what the path was.

end then continuing they succeeded

discover at the end of doing in

interviews with these people in the

final conquer with them reached the

conclusion that all of them

walk the question running almost the

same way

basically for me to be influential.

your relationships have to be good relationships

I rate the good given as the

peak to have influenced to

feel in moments of joy and this is

Fantastic

you should all be thinking that

This is very basic and I said that I would go

To be a proof, I warned that the

When I started reading this study, I

I was very pleased because Bunda

was signed by us with others to

falls

Let’s look for some more.

other titles not of one with this

this time it will be for a

if god wants but who wanted

share this because it really is something

unprecedented

when I reached the end of this analysis is

He has asked the service

so in the end because we ‘re not

fluids we live in because

make lists while the people who

make lists daily

I do not believe that very few

raised their arms ready for the

supermarket for the same are these

for the year for the holidays to the

children for work

We make lists that are pinto here.

incredible are more than I think the

petrobras because people make lists

unlike the chick boss us

we can find and the staff tables

same families from São Paulo how to do

today beaten up how to make lists for

I was a citizen when I saw this because

how to make lists for movies will open

was dropped and then what is council all

We are in this room every day.

farm we put a

and a topic with letters

Thank you, capital letters. Thank you.

It helped me a lot, two little words from Luis

What they mean is still

search and search a few years ago

sentence with which I do not agree

then I remembered it at the time

I began to see these scattered lists

everywhere

the servers the phrase before the

Let’s ask if you already know

who knows that phrase is very

on christi social networks – expectations

– decisions last station east of the

angeles

who is playing this phrase I’ve been I

I read these days at instagram

The less expectations we have

Unless I say the extremes that I’m

phrase who agrees with this phrase

if our expectations are low and

lions will also be male to what is

bad

who agrees almost much of the room

with glue

a few years ago I used this phrase

sculley completely I can not

find logic because I always get me

have taught since elementary school that I

I had contact with my dreams

I had a life expectancy to study

I had to fight for what I

really wanted and a few years ago

when to start a business with my father and

or doing my daily tasks and

When I presented a project, my father listened.

A daughter, you dream very loud.

the son does not make it a very dream

others more dreams can not be

now that the plate ten years ago and I

I could not understand my heart.

I did not understand that my dream is to have a

because my father told me that I

had to sign lower

had to stay for ever

I agreed, I confess but never

I thought a lot about it and just

I did not agree with a sentence or enter

I never entered lourenço but started giving

value when it came to question because we

we are not happy how to be happy

it is enough to be kind to cultivate good

relationships that we have patients clear

so I began to develop in myself a

internal response combined with all

answers that extends from the studies I

I started to do

Our problem is not having high

expectations

as expected with low them

angeles

Our plan is to manage diesel

using this phrase is just for us

to confuse someone wrote to be more

easy to live

we had more expectations did not know

use a case the expectations in which

Romário will be the more we follow our

dreams and leave our expectations

comes up and stops up there

Disappointment if something did not go

evil will also be higher and will enter

background the same way

we humans we do not want

undergo revisions does not mean that it is not

that’s why we do not use it to

suffer theologically I do not do much

logic flee from unhappiness and then

be happy it is almost so

presenting a mix and talking a lot

I quickly came to the conclusion that as

the women of life who enter

watched a fantastic presentation

care as they send their

men to the sea and maintains the expectation

high expectations because it is higher

to take them alive is greater

expectation that it is in which was the

greater than using non-return

they do not want to know they have to have the

high expectation to be influential

and to reflect with your family and with

their children while they are not here

another way they do not know how to live and I think

that one of the biggest mistakes of the human being

this time is not learning from these

Generations for I want to have flash what

If this is what it was that we

want and was there are numerous paths

for was taken here inside this room

we all have gone to the past to

these generations have violence and do not

It has the same expectations and dreams and

hope that the best can happen is

let suggestions flow

if we learned from it we had

only a universal path to

removed and it seems a bit because I’m

to say we had a way

universal and where we walked

we all today demanded that we

Cause we’ll be stronger.

expectations could be minimal but the

results would be maximum then pulling

love loving being loved allow to be

fluence and come to the conclusion that we do not

we allow ourselves to be fluence in

we allow you to let the moments of

joy and satisfy us in full to

my happiness may be the smile of

a child to someone else can be the

career success was different for

we all do not do lists in

so many pages our life is just

a to-do list and this will not

stay my proposal and my study

it is based on what I was taken as an afro

in the third fourth fifth sixth to

Saturday and Sunday, and that’s the message

that I wanted to leave the mix to go

withdrawn

77 days of the week live the luxury

thank you so much

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