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La sonrisa es contagiosa, el cáncer no | Silvina Oudshoorn | TEDxMarDelPlata


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I tell you that a little while ago I read something

the 21st century we are

living an average of 960 months

calculated in about 80 years

if we translate it into days it’s about 30

a thousand days quite get the account now

you each of you how many of

those 30 thousand days were spent we did not spend

students and how many we suppose we

remain from here on account

fast

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it’s like we want to time

grab it and put it in a box meter

the key for the time we have left

get a bank account and put the

time there good since we are with the

numbers you asked you remember

oy how many times they smiled

today it was spectacular kick impossible

that have not laughed with the solace and in

Mar del Plata and the spectacular weather

has in each frayed how many times

laughed the counted many spectacular

a smile those shy ones an apple

and you’re a little smile like that one

ago is good or they laughed with one of

those laughs that come from the bottom

of the belly that you more agile to the

organs and it makes you drop the tears and

that’s supposed to be sweeping t and

ends up crying from that laugh was so

as too serious, let’s make another

thing

think of something that makes them smile at

this time from this time

has thought about something nice that relindo

make smile

look at the people next to you

of you right left

look at or the one on the side has a face

joke or are we better perfect good is

they saw a little recognized in the smile

of the other

the smiles spectacular the smiles

energy is the engine that moves us

each

I wish it were the energy that makes us

get up every day

everyone knows what follows a gym a

gym exercises the joints the

muscles and we go to the gym but

smiling is much more is like entering a

space is like entering a spa where

What is done is a prolonged exercise

of joy and has a lot of

advantages lots of good things for the

which network that I’m going to sell them

First, regulate stress when

they are super stressed make the test

I sent a flower of laughter go to see

how stress loosens a situation

traumatic totally good

there’s nothing better than that

he installs them in the here and now I laugh

now in the present

I’m alive I’m laughing I’m

enjoying is air coming in through the

nose

It is an excellent analgesic to improve

relationships with others want that

follow because there are lots of things to

tell him of laughter many do not know

take us away from isolation and it makes us

see spectacular a person who

Smile is much prettier than a person

that does not laugh or think when they go to

buy something

if the seller that this or the seller

he is smiling Buyer or not

it’s much harder to say no to

someone who is smiling at you and in case

this was little when one smiles

the wrinkles that I regret to tell you that

everything we are not going to pray because the passage of

good time is a matter of the

material wear let’s say then

wrinkles we will have beyond the

plastic surgeries but if you

laugh a lot the wrinkles go towards

above

then it ‘s like having one

permanent smile has the doll

permanent smile and its said

what makes us more attractive makes us

makes us shine makes us resonate with a

bell gives us another totally vibration

different

look at yourself this topic of the

I smile the joy and the happiness because

it comes all like pretty hooked landmark

that a group of researchers are

it happened to go asking in the networks

They got into the social facebook

analyzed 170 thousand profiles and

they discovered that they receive many more

much more light interactions the

people who put pictures where they are are

seeing this I see them all coming out

to change the photo they had put is

One option

also another thing to keep in mind with

what letter are they laughing

that’s what everyone thinks they laugh with

letter to an exercise to neighborhoods is taken or

hamas continue with more strength than

It seems

hahaha 9 a boss well we can also

smile with and with and it’s like more

Little half as the smile of the

ant is like credit

chiquitito is a good recipe and the one

recontra is famous is that comes

now the gentleman is fat that comes

now next month

jojojo comes cargadito gifts

jojojo that smile that comes from the

background

if we will see if we have heard

good and now yes as an indication

therapeutic dose but this I’m not

saying jokingly because many things

I say them like that more or less but I’m telling you

very seriously this a dose between five

and six minutes of laughter is the best

self-supporting analgesic because when

one laughs at the teacher who told him

he massaged the internal organs he

oxygenate well and generate endorphins

then but it’s not worth I laugh a minute and

ready they do not have between 5 and 6 the

therapeutic indication

you laugh between five and six minutes and

not a jiji haha ​​visits and with all the

you win that’s the best way to

relate to the other and especially to

lower the pain

good since they’re all smiling

at least be looking with a smirk

a little doll i can say i can

ask for permission if I can say a

bad word

thank you also thanks are very regenerated

if I do not keep one because then it

viralizes and dozens of looks that the

they kill last name is over that the

last name appears one puteada over

ask permission to say good then

they gave me permission for me it’s super

important to have your permission

because I’m going to say one

very strong and good I do not know if there will be

minors but you gave me permission like this

that the elders will be responsible for

That’s good, I was two weeks ago.

it’s also between us total that

we are a thousand nothing more that two weeks ago

birthday and on October 16 in

a Wednesday

I do not remember I noticed a

calendar fell Wednesday and the

morning

you remember when you were born

everyone knows what national day of the date

if I imagine but the day of the week and

all that more or more or good there are some

who was born in the month of July

here present raise your hand please

chan chan chan of a few of ones

how many hands can shake

the hands of July

perfect you are for cancer directs you

the word chameau swore that I never

I was expecting this reaction

I loved I love they are cancer and

cancer is actually a word that

It is loaded with bad press

disgusting cancer is very difficult to say the

word cancer is very difficult but more

difficult to hear it is like

unnameable is that thing that we

we believe that they happen to other people and

always far from me

cancer is like a ghost that walks

fluttering around waiting to catch

some unprepared that the hall of

he gave me court not to me he did not give me

but they are only six letters six people

letters but with a bad press

disgusting cancer is actually

simply cancer

Well I ‘m not going to lie, it’s not

a flu and hepatitis and an infinite

that can be contagious is a

little bit more complicated the matter and serious

yes serious threat to life if the cancer

It threatens the lives of people

who have cancer can live

or they can die but it is also that

another thing

all of us are going to die as if

we were yoghurts with date

expiration somewhere we have I do not know

now focus on reviewing all of see

where they have the expiration date

but we all have an expiration date

It is mortal

do not look good, cancer is not

mortal

cancer is curable there is one if there is

keep in mind that there is a

predisposition to suffer which does not

means that having the predisposition

because they all leave to be analyzed

speak for any doubts they have had had

a grandpa had my dad who had cancer

then I can also have it there is no

a predisposition to suffer it but to

sometimes it happens sometimes does not also have

much to do with habits and attentive to

this to almost reflect that we eat

the exercise we do what

we make of our life when we sleep

when we do not sleep with stress

we are and we are happy for the things in

life or we always walk with that face

of dress but also called the

word of wrinkles down and not of

wrinkles up but you can well

suffer it or not and it has to do with

habits and also with contaminants

environmental issues since we are talking

from water the air and the earth

there’s a lot to say with that but what

let’s review then it’s curable

all together yes stronger leaves and I

is liking more is contagious

I do not know really was once a school

secondary and a boy of 16 years

asked if I want to take care how

I do not spread or tired chan

be that it shows us that we have so much

fear that we can not talk about it and not what

we can say and we are afraid of

catching us reach more contagious

what is important is the detection

precocious and the treaty the power the power

access the appropriate treatment in the

timely and with continuity and

so there’s continuity

what we need is support and there it is

where I wanted to get

this is the point where

if they are going to continue laughing not but

we have to talk about support and I’m going to

tell a story about napkins in

reality is a gossip in personal tito

My name is Silvina and I recognize myself

totally addicted to writing about

napkins and if you check now

in their bags they go against were

cheating is not, but there is no case

there’s a house eats up the anxiety

they checked everything good there is a napkin

in the napkin has a seal

I particularly write in

napkins in pieces of paper but

I prefer napkins because the

napkin goes along with a good tea with

a coffee you put to look at the sea have

the napkin in the event that you

feel the extreme need to write

something very important at this time

can break the seal break the

seal and you can write it and while

you are wetting your bags

I tell them that cancer in my

vocational training was perhaps a

ball inside a subject one

matter throughout the race

I saw it that way up and in general they were

things that happened to other people

generally great look how they look

so I like they are going to find the

napkin are handwritten one by

one for each of you and cancer

something that happened to other people

did it was until he frames one of my

three children had cancer

what thing did I say again sorry but I

I sell because they have given me permission to

do it twice thank you had cancer

frames had cancer

david and solange sitting around that are

my other children are sitting around

in the auditorium frames had cancer with

its almost four years that would be about

forty-seven months that we lived

taught to fight to remain healthy

as a family group

at that time he continued to smile and being

the little rattle that was all his life

because lives are that lives are not

they are neither long and short the lives are neither

more or less than lives and what’s important

is that what we do with that

because he knows more than to smile

it is not to deny what happens but it is

confront it in another way he did not want

because I sent them laughing all the time

things change I did not have cancer if I had

cancer laughed if he laughed and laughed all

the time for that now as a very

cascabelito there is presented to us and for

me as a mom

It really was an honor to receive you in my

arms when at the time he was born

receive in my arms and with smile

because a birth is a

full beautiful event full of

Smiles accompany him throughout his

lifetime

during his nearly four years also

filled with smiles and seeing how he

smile to others

seeing that in these last six months

of treatment was lowered and pushed the

standing on the ground and telling him if walter his

15-8 mate and walter let you pass

the little soldiers that way you’re going to

recover then those things do not

they forget and I also had the luck the

pleasure as mom to be able to cradle him and

hug him the moment he left and in

that moment there were also smiles

Marcos taught us to keep betting the

life to continue enjoying and to continue

smiling keep smiling all the

time because life is precious and for

So you see the van came to watch a

initials

that’s why it arose for net emerged as

extension project of the university

national of mar del plata and by a thousand 996

a long long time ago

we were five crazy people one is here

the minister graciela vázquez

there were five of us who started with

project and by acronym mean

support and assistance program for children

with terminal illness

but they know that we are already wrong

Entrance will bug you more slip flower

because we are terminal illnesses

we also fell into the same

trap of thinking that cancer is

associated with suffering with pain and with

death and we put it and what

we had passed and what we saw were

Smiles

I think that’s good culture and

prejudice also played a trick

but obvious they saw how it was not going almost

a brand of soda but they saw that the

a brand is the registered trademark and you

you know that you take such a good thing

we have for net

then we keep the acronym and today 21

years later it has been constituted as

a non-profit civil association

we do not keep calling for net but it’s

support and assistance network for children and

teenagers with cancer very well how

do it back because it’s not a bad

word children and adolescents with cancer

very good very well

what we do is rescue the

years that the boys still have

because cancer is an event is

something that is happening to them in their life in

this moment but they are not cancer are

marco joancito celestes are each of

they that at this moment is

happening what we do with the

good kids we talk about cancer

obviously but we talk about the

procedures the treatments I do not know if

you ever entered a

tomograph making noises is good and

open tomographs but it’s a

complicated situation you imagine a boy

of 23 47 years that suddenly hit you

inside a machine you want to know

so what do we do then we go and

We chatted, we chatted, we drew it

we act as an account as everything

why for them to be

active protagonists in recovering their

health and that sometimes recover health

it does not mean that they will heal but

are healing other things and it’s very

funny to see a dwarf so peeled with the

conago xavier lustrous that comes with the

chinstrap and tells you today I do not come with

chinstrap because I’m half short of

whites like that the pucha wants three years

how many of us know which is the

hematocrit value how many blood cells

whites we have or do not have this one comes

with the chinstrap because she was so serious

not over because it’s short white is

question of seeing those of being with them

of listening to the needs of the other and

to share

good and what we do on planet

basically we have fun we do not reverse

the smile so it is

it’s no longer about wrinkles or

makeup that I have put is

it is simply to enjoy

enjoy it and enjoy the present

we do absolutely everything and everything

what are we going to keep imagining

in 21 years we make flavored breads

bizcochuelos cookies cha workshop

we have sheet metal workshop with a lad

I cook, I’m going to send it to the rich

but they come to cook with

we also

we paint pots, sorry, we do not paint

pots we make pots intervened

which is much more top to these pots

intervened we put a tulip and

then we stay like that waiting for

grow the tulip and it will bloom because

life goes on and the flowers that grow

the seeds germinate and we throw ourselves

we play with cars and put together

not all puzzles are sometimes I do not

he threw me psoe can not then I do not get up

moment so easy but luckily a

lots of volunteers need if you

pull down is read britos paint

they make all the things that

all the guys do absolutely

all

I forgot to come payamédicos

also that they park the ship when

they arrive is a ship they told me that came

from venus

you already know about the grapefruit you know

more or less where is less

so of course they already have more or less

Ypané relationship remains in Cordoba 2 766

so you would have to see how it comes from

ben hur this is the seasonal ship

they go down and the payamédicos come twice

per week and also the puppies come

therapists moon branch rocco and psoe come

the four always some someone else

puppy therapist more and really is

spectacular to see how a dog satire

belly up and pass him with the little cars

as if it were a highway or when

some of the children learn to brush

teeth because as dogs

they step on their teeth good

are all things that have to do with

sustain health sustain habits

sustain the routines because it stops

them as I said frames in that in

that moment mom being a crab in

the belly that is pricking that was what

that he felt in good

the cells are crazy cells that make

what they are given the real gain

then before such chaos what better

to put some routines of the

things that kids do all the

time mainly play studying and

keep learning and keep smiling

keep enjoying

we on planet what we learned is

that the smile is very contagious

contagious but cancer did not give her the

last appointment before leaving, lives are

lives simply beyond what

last there are not even short lives because

many times there was so little and

I had cancer that little one that’s big

they do not know any person of 90 years who

He lived a life when he told that he did nothing

productive in your life

I know little dwarfs of year and

medium that they have done so much in a year and a half

that you can not create it then there’s

lives of a year of two years of 5 of 50 or

of 100 and it does not matter the time

what is important here is the power and

passion that one puts to life so

well at this moment I take my

bell and I invite you to

Keep smiling

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