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O mundo e eu | Monique Furlan | TEDxYouth@PAS


good evening

the first, thank you for the invitation and

so I would like to tell you now

a little bit about my story of

life through my exchanges with and

zac is 19 years old when I had my

first anxiety crisis

I was at the bus stop waiting

bus crash is from college that work

It’s a beautiful day I had loose everything

calm and out of nothing all that we were

hurry

I was in a hurry I had a lot of

I want to go out and do something

because I felt I was not

enjoying my time my time he does not

was being busy in the best way

and that he was going to need to do something

with my life from there I was

having more or less what I understood

at that time like those of the 20 years

and I looked ahead I did not know

exactly what happens to us

You never know and I looked back and I

not proud of me and it is not felt

had done something relevant is something very

important so far is the bus

arrived the crisis was passing and I went

to work but from there I decided

I had to do something and then

that’s when I started thinking about

exchange and find food and zac

of voluntary exchange is where they

they said that from the moment that

You and I could do a job.

in an organization and an NGO.

a school and learn from lytro

develop leadership

and then when it was discovered, it was as if

a light came and told me that

I’m going to travel and get to know other cultures

they will know other places and at the same

Time I ‘m going to put my time.

available and my privileges in favor of

of other people then it is to decide to travel

decide to meet the world and I went there

in Poland

I went to a city that is called after

it is not one at that time nor knew

right where it was to Poland on the map

But I got there and my job was

working with children from 4 to 14 years

I was there and working with more than

200 classes in schools

of Poland and and many of the classes I

were with other students with

other volunteers from other countries

are in a class of 25 volunteers from

the most diverse parts of the world and there

for being with other volunteers the people

I needed to join to have a seminar

of preparation wants to know what each

I was going to tell you how we were going to

classes is about culture about me

English and everything else

It is in one of the seminars is we were

talking about semiotics was talking

about the identity of each country

And then when I was talking about the

Brazil is one of the boys is put a

photo on the big screen that was to mark a

woman while she is half the tava

carnival was a semi naked photo because the

people stay like that and hit schools

samba during the carnival and then he

It started there He said so this is how the

woman that all women get

clothes are in Brazil is because if it is so

I want to go back to talk to you that

he promised continuously and there in that

Momentum, I understood what it meant.

the problem of stereotypes

I understood what it meant when

someone would take an image and put it all

world in that same image

and then the only thing I thought

I needed to get up and talk and I got up.

and what they think he said is because he is

speaking this with relevant is what the

discussion, and especially because in a

room with more than 25 people is many

countries is exactly using

stereotype to talk about some

thing about is someone

and there is a lack of strange and

I apologize

scenario continues to happen but

best part was when it’s one of the

students who was there with me was

working with me she was a student

from Iran she came to me and she

thanked

she thanked me for getting up and

spoken because at that moment no

understood that she was also responsible

for getting up and talking when someone

talked about country stereotypes

of it and especially about stereotypes

woman’s country is the project

followed for another two months

the project where I was able to work

very much with the children and I also got

fall in love with Poland

to get to know many people and

was an experience that is marked with

sure my life but she’s only half

experience because then I traveled from

Back to Brazil, I stayed less than 24 hours.

here in Porto Alegre and a day later I

I was flying to Argentina in the second

Volunteer project is located in a city

called a town that stands

almost on the border with Chile and there I

worked as an NGO for residents of

street then it worked there with others

with other exchange students and the

our idea was to work with the

communication of this NGO because people

I wanted to do a year-end event

Who would make a Christmas dinner?

where the people who lived in the street

could have a moment to be

food time is clothes to win

during that time when I chose the

argentina when I decide and prince

country I thought my shock

it would be very small because

Argentina is very close to here.

Porto Alegre culture is very similar

food is very similar and

really when I got there the shock

cultural it was very small but I

I had a social shock I was a

middle class student is sustained

by the parents you had is a privilege

enough to sing college and travel

during a semester to learn more about

places in the world while

working with homeless people is that

had a little notion of their city

who will tell the country and need me

relate to them to the point where the two

feel both sides feel

comfortable with that then I

worked in the NGO

I decided to increase a load of

Let’s say let’s say I worked in the

ong is from 9 am to walk eight

night

during the morning took care of the project

teaches of the communication of that event

everything else but during the afternoon I

is put at the disposal

of those who live on the streets to

support assistant they needed

it is sometimes just talking to them and being able to

is present because for them it is not

make no sense to a person of the

Brazil is there to talk

with them was and was something that did not pass

by their heads for the reality that

they lived

and it was in one of these conversations that I

I was walking talking with them talking

about how they were all over

things and then I was with ruan and the

to the need that 33 of the residents

and that’s when they asked me how

was my experience that is

leaving town and I said that I more

I liked being people begging

at that moment luan who is one of them

he started to laugh is god in a laugh and

That ‘s how people thomas talk like that.

is because it has the Mendocines and has the

Mendocinos the Mendocinos they always come

in the first place and I did not even

I was speaking

only that later he lowered her head and

Then when you understand the one thing again.

What I thought I needed to talk to is

I questioned you again, I said no

I did not agree with who I was.

talking and even the boys of the same ong

the NGO volunteers interrupted the

conversation called what is leaving for

talk is or was a man of 50 and 60

years

and then I could not tell him that

I was thinking I could not question him

I had to talk to her because she

felt wrong and obvious side and I said no

I agree with what he said to me.

It’s indifferent and it does not make sense to me.

we use the gender that is to differentiate

the rights or the voice of a person

and then to my surprise she looked at me

Her gaze had relief and is mercedes

a woman who had five children she

had lost her husband and she lived in

street with three daughters weighing that five

daughters

And that’s when she looked at me.

she smiled and said thank you very much for

You said that because I always said

this for my kids and it ‘s very good

know that there are more people who

if that same

this same vision is and believe it

also

the project was also very good was

project that we managed to have a

Christmas dinner for over 400 residents

and then I went back to Porto Alegre.

and then when I came back after almost

six months of travel to that 15 of the 20

She did not exist anymore.

is still in a hurry but the play had

given to two other feelings is

when I had it when I looked back

for me it is my experience and I saw

I had to talk about stereotypes

and I had to talk about rights and voice

I had to have a lot of courage I had

to stand up and defend something that I

believed while seeing something that

It bothered me in two parts of the world.

that it is not easy that I was accustomed

who are the people who was like

is accustomed to living

when I had to talk to a girl is

as a student of Iran and when I

I had to talk to a woman who is from

Argentine homeless and had to have

empathy that I needed to understand which is

the place where they talk about what she

I was talking and mainly that she

felt as they talked about it and

Obvious is mine on my trip she went

incredible learned a lot about the

world, but mainly understands that a

currency and that he had a lot of

thing for me to teach me is I went

I went outside I looked out myself

I looked at a lot of things but that’s just me.

helped to look inside and

to understand what was mine and what was not

change regardless of step location

I could go to Poland and a pediatrician in

argentina and asked is speaking as

street dwellers or a student fall

But I had things I did not

accept that they were wrong and more than

This I needed to use my voice to

talk about it

It’s that 20’s thing she did not exist.

much more because I had understood is the

what to do and how to use my

privileges and everything else to take this

to other people and that’s when I understood

what was that leadership that is what

I spoke because I developed because today

me the leadership is much more

It is the moment when you understand your

Cause and it’s your cause to speak for

but mostly

Do something that’s so true then

strong petit that inspires

encouraging people to follow your

cause or their own cause as well

on this thank you

[Applause]

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