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Comment rester sensible dans un monde de compétition ? | Estelle Barré | TEDxNarbonne


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it gives you chills

does it take your breath away

2013 this competition the wind challenge I

managed to win

and well this breath this breath is

that of the competition is something

thing that for me is integrated since I

am very small

because I need it I need it

in the sense that this competition is

my best way to succeed for

to get to know me better to measure at

myself

this competition is a sensation

part of the belly it’s like

thousands of butterflies that twirl to

inside and it’s a sensation

tonic like that that part of the stroke and

are spreading along but arm that

slide along my back and tell me

strengthen the legs and ultimately there is

something that tells me too and go

go ahead go realistic and dream crosses

and ben when I’m on my board

that’s what’s going on I can finally

released all these butterflies outside

it’s this excitement that gives me

want to outdo me and ben it’s on

the water that I express myself

it’s really when this euphoria

it gives way to action etc action

is made room for pleasure

Well, that’s what I call having

the spirit of competition then

dale still seen on the pictures

have been damn many more than 1000

to pursue the same goal

you will tell me but you have to have a

mental steel to succeed or not even

participated in this competition

well yes it is obvious it is obvious but

there is that mind that allows the

athletes to be formatted as a

machine to win because it’s a

mental who are forging themselves and have nothing is

left to chance and also where nothing

could crown this steel

so it actually becomes sports

the waterproof stainless because any

way nothing but everything is anticipated so

there is no doubt to have

he is invulnerable because of all

way nothing reaches it and especially they

insensitive

ah yes because anyway a

least emotion is perceived as a

weakness with all that he has to win

he has to win and he has to eliminate any

competition

so here I hear you go to me

to say but yes but it’s normal all

way it’s not by snapping your fingers

we become champion bah yeah

surely maybe you’re right

but I’m not like that I’m

not like that because for me the

competition it inspires me it’s every

competitor pushes me to go beyond

it allowed me to be with the elements

in this case it is the one in and and

the wind and ben to fly all these

butterflies that are in me goes even more

far

louder still more intensely it’s

really a sensation that allows me that

to say that the competition that the

other

maurice

and in the end, it gives birth to

new butterfly inside me

and then there is something else too

I will tell you a little

story let’s take a small caterpillar

caterpillars whose garden is a beach and

at the end of this beach lease to the sea ​​and

well his curiosity to wake up

when he started having exocet

knew enough flying fish and

start well idea a little crazy

a little crazy to go swimming and flying with

these fish

why not bin the early beginnings

have been a bit arduous a game there you

she drank the cup a bit but then

nothing dropped no

after a good time as long as there was

pebbles and swimmers that is

pushed because anyway a

caterpillar will always remain a finished but

for that, well, it’s well trained in

the sense that we spent hours on

water and then by all the conditions

by all the conditions I mean by

there two because do not believe that the

beach is only sun and

coconut trees we are not on vacation

not all the time but it can be

also bath in the icy water in full

month of January

that’s it too eh ben

from there once she was

ready once it was well

to train rigorously is gone in

competition lc felt it was good

moment the right time to be able to that

it was safe except that she still

discovered the real middle the middle that

goes after a while and the drops

injury disqualifications the

breakage of material then there I pass you

the details

and then small disappointments but

especially a big frustration

well, it’s doing thousands of

kilometers

to see all the conditions together

to make a good competition but he

missing one thing he misses the wind and

yeah because the competition is

that too is either we like it or we

Dislikes but never gave up

this little caterpillar because for

she was convinced to do the

things to love her what she was doing in

done and then so she continued to

to train on your own without

club without coach no problem because

that anyway what mattered was

really going to sail on all

seas it was to cover all the winds

it’s to meet to share all that

well, that was the vision of seven

small caterpillars

except that was not alone in

competition

let’s take the exocet and well he does not

thought no less of his presence than

what does this they do but she

will not stay in the water anyway it’s

not in his genes anyway you

have seen it is too small

and will never get there, well, all these

critics

this little caterpillar and did not

let it go because she finally has it

made the decision to forge this

famous mental steel

this mind that allowed him to

become a warrior and also not to

stop putting the head underwater except

that had not planned it not planned

that she would become the shadow of herself

because she understood that in fact for

to be in competition to exist there

had to excel and that it starts at the

make nervous to make her panic and

ben had people who were shaking her

had a stomach ache but it does not matter

in that sense where anyway she had

this steel mind so that gave him

look like a flying fish

oh well to prove she had her

place is veiling the face

then you will tell me but where is

past his turn dias even beginnings ben

it’s over it’s disillusionment because

that all his means employed to

take up this challenge to live a

bread adventure she began to feel

accountable in the sense that

all those people who believed in

Boy was she sorry she was not

to live up to their expectations

because in the end it was not only

a story a story of potential

it has become an obligation to

result and his dream

she had a nightmare

so I do not do drawing hop on

back in the present moment

well it’s over it’s me here and

then you will ask me too then

how how did I do in

being so sensitive to fit into this

competition environment become so hostile

well I thought that by bringing my

title of champion of France in 2014

I could have approved anything

and that was wrong again I

let it trick because I thought

when you’re in shape and well

that would be the right path

obviously it was not enough to beat

everyone huh from there well

it became complicated because I

so much struggled struggled and struggle and

that after a while I see it’s me

I’m fed up I’m tired of having to

looks like the others because it’s not

the less I’m fed up with locking up my

emotions because if I was happy

I was pretentious because if I

I was crying

and then I even started to moan after

the wind so go ahead go ahead khaled way

who is who is not it is not

you who will change things huh but

also what really hurt me the most

it was two start to make live a

hell to my surroundings and that one day he

there is but a teacher of osteopathy who have me

said but you know the more you try to

get into a mold and more

will look like a pie

I took an hour but at ivato a

lease was not wrong but what do we do

abandoned shot abandoned competition

at home no it’s not possible

ah bah of the coup I went back in my

cocoon that’s what reassures me or ga

thirteen when I dl on fire

Well, it’s with my family

with my family that allowed me to

reconcentrate to understand that they

really nurtured my passion and

to report to my account that

did it was the wind that was always

the wind that gave me this pleasure

intense has been there since just now

actually talking about fish

flying the kennel butterfly that you

apparently you do not mind but I have

took a step back and in the end we got

realizes that the t2 dock between a

flying fish is a butterfly

which of the two cities at best according to

wind but that’s it I understood I

understood that this little united purpose

it was to become a butterfly you

know it’s one of those flying in

my belly so that’s why it’s

for that every morning I continue

to look out the window like salah

is inspected every single leaf the

least twig that can move

analyze the elite speed of clouds

and understand where does the wind come from?

I will ask you

I will ask you to participate and

to close your eyes to esi and trust

close your eyes closed eyes and

imagine

imagine you are at the seaside

you feel the air on your skin you

listen to the sound of the wind

take a good breath he blown

breathe thanks

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