Today we want to talk with you about
motherhood know about motherhood in our
society is usually spoken of as
deceased
either good or nothing this topic is frantic
lace increased labor photos
mother is often deified but very
rarely unfortunately appreciated and we are told
about the fact that motherhood is the main thing
Destination of Kazakhstan women
but let’s think like this
prioritization
Reflects on us all you know I
feminist and I find it interesting
this issue from the point of gender
equality I do not like that
many, many centuries
The woman was of secondary importance that she did not have
there were no economic non-political
social rights that it could influence
this world only indirectly through
man that even now there is no motor for
that there have been many changes, we
we remain in the background the richest
The most influential people on the planet are
men still have women
discrimination against sexism
I experience domestic violence often
I ask myself why it is
happened as we turned out to be an old floor
than we differ from men and for that
to answer this question probably
I need your help friends
please raise the hand of those who
brought up mostly women well
not all but most
but now please raise your hand
who gave birth to a woman
all seriously no one gave birth to a man
well know I think that the answers to
my questions lie somewhere in this
we are different from men in themes
that we are able to give birth and so that for the masses
happiness of our children is our own
happiness and therefore very often put them
Priorities are higher than yours and once you are all
here gave birth to a woman let’s tell
Do you story the story of your mother
the story of how she wore 9 months
you under your heart
expenses of your body’s history
about how she gave birth to you for several hours
risking health and life
how she carried you in her arms
about which she was breastfeeding you about
the way she left early at work
to pick you up from the garden that
prepare you men like her
when you are sick or
go to your matinee
the story of how she spent it on you
their best years of life seem to be corny
it did not sound like a story about how she did not
built a career did not do scientific
discoveries
did not buy a car, maybe not
went to paris
the story of how it got weaker
poorer and more vulnerable than millions of others
women and this planet, I think that it is
motherhood made women vulnerable uzb
mom at all times in the first place
physically agree it’s harder to run
fight a child in arms
it’s more difficult to procure yourself the food you need
in helping to support fellow tribesmen, you
depend on them in our time is more vulnerable
economically in our world where the time is
money when you spend your time on
your children you lose in economic
plan it is not so easy for you to build a career
or learn how to others
vulnerable psychologically in our
society, the entire responsibility for the child
For his character for his upbringing for
called psychological trauma
It is accepted to dump on mum and it very much
the big burden is very large
a responsibility
emotionally vulnerable if you are alone
you are engaged in the child but to you to carry out
have to perform a video that
used to be distributed between the whole
community you are divorced from your
social from the cultural circle
which you are used to if you are sitting
Decree and this is a wonderful ground for
emotional burnout for
postpartum depressions of which we
Today , let’s talk about the dependence on
husband creates wonderful preconditions for
domestic violence maternity makes
women vulnerable and did at all times
But we see that lately the world
a greatly changed woman was able
get rid of your total
motherhood from motherhood as
predestination
she went out into this big world she could
she was awarded the right to
she could work and
compete with men for kindergartens and
nurseries made a huge contribution to emancipation
women
but let’s think like this solution
affects us all with you and how she
affects our children a
really like how they are not a manger all
The benefits of civilization are reflected in our
children
let’s turn to biology a
human human cub is
The most helpless creature in the world and
without an adult, he is 100%
survive so the child has
beautiful mechanism which is called
Attachment is when he is tied up
to a single alpha adult and
tries with all his might to satisfy
His adult because the key
the child’s need for an adult to
loved because if they love me
give food to me will be given shelter I will survive that
we do with our children when we tear off
they are very early from mothers and key
We call the alpha adults
incredible anxiety they are afraid they
fear because they do not know
I survived
we support this and it is cultivated
speaking not of the shore on your hands, you are its collapse
Eat do not go to bed with him less
to spend time with him because he will
You manipulate the feeling that we
we prepare our children in war
which
breastfeeding is generally
a separate conversation in Kazakhstan 70
percent of children is on
artificial feeding is
A catastrophic figure and there is such a
a beautiful long-term study
when 40 years old and in the UK scientists
studied children whose early detached from
materia merge under early I say before
two and a half three years and now
long-term studies have shown that
whose children were early torn off from small 30
years 35 years 25 years already in the first in two
times more likely to be depressed 4 times
often suffer from various diseases and that
most importantly almost 3 times more often
inclined to suicides, we talked about
the fact that Kazakhstan takes us first
The second place in terms of suicide
suicide among teenagers in the world and that we
see the child needs a mother with another
parties now someone can exclaim
ok let’s plant all women’s tops
let them not be engaged in children
work and us kazakhstan especially
a very significant amount
a woman sits at home with children before only us
there is another extreme woman who
sits with the child and is only
child becomes a robot
service personnel, and then you
I hear all my life to you put you
I should
straight I have everything that I have done to you
even if she does not say it she it
feels because gratitude is needed
and then our child is in
these two extremes and the third moment
how society treats children we
we try to create for our children
ideal conditions sterile conditions
try to remove them as far as possible from you
We are hindered here by our grown-up uncles and aunts
deal with serious issues
we study some discoveries, we will make a new
daf and the children you are here to write and moms with
you go-you do not disturb us further away
you are welcome
But there is one such moment as
feels like a baby he feels me
Only I do not need not like me not
it’s scary for me if my mother
I did not leave it vague, it means me
I do not like one-on-one with the world if
Mom spent my whole life on it
value of credit
lifelong which I will not pay it
can not be performed
and what happens to the child here this whole
bor here this whole fear is this whole
trauma
he does not share in adulthood
Pancakes and children become angry
adults are all rapists and murderers
corrupt great people
fighter planes were once children and
when they were children when they were
they did not think that I
I will destroy other people I will
to hurt them , they were just
young children with young children
who did not have enough love there is still such
moment please lift the rue they are not
able to grow up in fact they wars and on
grown up could not and now raise
please do not let go of all those
who among those who do not tolerate
can their work and now those people have
who feel they did not bring
let them feel alone
although sometimes lonely abandoned
misunderstood and go to those people who do not
could arrange their personal life
who have friends who could not
arrange your personal life and look around
around we live in a world not grown up
children the whole planet is a big sandbox
in which children can not share toys
but why we could not grow up
because our moms and dads did not have
opportunities to engage in our growing up
Our mothers were forced to choose or
survival or maturation of my child
The modern woman always has
to face this choice
your own independence of your own
own happiness or happiness and
the maturity of your child
maturity and humanity of our
future society interesting thing
it turns out that the fruits
growing public awareness
care of children this responsibility
only their mothers as much as possible
of course, we care about our
children because we love them
because we feel
responsible for their future but did
it is only because it is the future of our common
our common with you and maybe if we
we will not start thinking about what happens when
and how should a woman think about that
What they need for our children we can
come up with other solutions and that
women are not put in a vulnerable position and
children do well
can be to save a woman from this one
total maternity dependence
will not help
institutes of such reservations for children
gardens and manger
and involvement in caring to dress and how can
more people and I do not know
How to solve this problem on
at the global level how to involve fathers
parenting because this is the problem
does not solve or have solved till now even
Scandinavian countries where they and
think basically a lot I do not know
How to change the corporate culture so
so that parents can more flexibly combine
caring for children and their self-realization
I do not know how to make the whole society
humane to mothers but I go my own way.
small steps as social
an entrepreneur I want to have in children
there were more adults who talked about them
care that they are not taken care of
only a mother and that a woman with a child
was not only my mother that understanding was
as many social roles as possible in this
my project is not only called
Mama
in fact it’s just an Internet portal where
you can find yourself a woman sitar hourly
Well, if you please by the hour
nannies just words babysitting is not exactly
approaches these people because they do not
just not they are students freelancers
These are people who work full-time but
moonlighting baby sitter by them in the evenings
or at the weekend they are united by one
spend time with children and hobbies and
so children are good with them and therefore
parents can trust their children with them
to work and relax
For the time being, I solved this problem only for
commercial basis but I really hope
that in the future this project will acquire
more social meanings that we can
help women in vulnerable situations
single mothers with mothers of many children
mothers of children with disabilities, and that this
project will be the impetus for change
that at last we all
We will understand that they do not care about children here
only mother’s task
that more chances grandparents aunt and
uncles will help mothers and possibly
there will be some sort of social
baby sitting helping mothers decree like
volunteering I really hope that when
anti there will be so that family friends and
neighbors will help young mothers
Because they will understand that
help moms raise children today they
form their own future and you
we know today from the light came here
not to say that you are all bad we
all good and that mom is the key
figure in our society, that’s holy
said that the feminist I can not
call myself a feminist I’m now mom
two children and as a mother I do not want to go
and begging for benefits from 13 to 90
thousand tenge per month for which
unrealistic to survive for begging for oneself
apartment but because I bring up
citizens of this society, I do not want everything
what I want is an equal opportunity
that those needs which are small
I want to work I want
I want to fulfill your potential you his
show to your children
This world show what dreams you need
dream that you need to go for dreams and me
just equal opportunities and I want
so that every woman has these
Possibilities so my project was born and
first in Kazakhstan coworking for moms
urban moms to wargin gawes in the world total 8
for moms that mom did not need to
choose me or my child to mother
he had to choose
I build my career I realize my own way
with himself as a person and then in some way
the moment I realize that I do not even know
their children or I must educate
their children and then when they fly away
I will stay alone on my business and will
call attention to them
I do not want this choice, I want to have
every woman had the opportunity not to
I chose to come here today
share your dream with a dream that in
In the near future, if everything is replaced by
cooking nge
so that every woman has a brick again
was this an opportunity because we
we beat off thresholds of state institutions of funds and
We are not heard yet because now
coworking houses the first single in
Kazakhstan commercial and we want
every woman had the opportunity
use these services and I am today
I want to share a dream where we are together in
society will not share who is better who
more important
who needs more help that we
unite and create some new
society cape light and want to show that
we can change the world without curing the symptoms
starting from changing causes
starting to help moms parents
bring up a new generation with a new
look the generation that will be loved
and therefore will be given to society and
thank you to the world
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